10 Things Every Grown Man Needs In His Bedroom 

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1- Twin size Mattress in floor with no bed sheets. 2- Car Jack Stands in a corner. 3- Dumbbell Rack. 4- 32inch TV on top of a upside down shopping cart. 5- Microwave oven on top of a beer keg. 6- Plastic bags for each type of clothes (Keep organized, you know...). 7- Milk plastic rack upside down to put old spice cologne and deodorant. 8- AR-15 and some ammo laying on the floor. 9- Mini fridge with Hot pockets and Pat Ribbons. 10- Teddy Bear.

I have a bike pump next to my bed in case my girlfriend loses air. She likes it when I read before we fool around. Books are attractive.

I also highly recommend a home defense weapon of choice at the ready at your bedside and taking a course on proper use, if not familiar. Life experience has taught time and time again that we never know when it might be needed. All the best Courtney and Teddy.

1. Good Mattress 2. Candles 3. Drapes 4. Book shelf 5. Paintings 6. Full length Mirror 7. Condoms 8. Bed accessories 9. Humidifier 10. Bedside Lamp

I'm saving up to get some sweet rims for my racecar bed. As a grown man, I think its important to show that I care about my investments

I consider my bedroom as my sanctuary where comfort and serenity are the master words. It's not only a place where I sleep and dream, but also a place where I can rest, listen to peaceful music and think about my life so I can become a better version of myself. Thank you for the video!

I like what Courtney said about bed sheets. She’s hardcore like my grandmother. She endorses washing bed sheets once a week. I wash my bed sheets every two weeks. I figured out my best routine when I was 18. I still work for the same company 18 years later. I’ve been there for half my life now. Every payday weekend I wash my bed sheets. Just bought new ones this month actually. As a bachelor I’ve learned that payday weekend is a good marker for routine chores such as washing bedsheets and vacuuming my car. The first weekend of the month is good for washing shower curtains and bath rugs and mopping bathroom floors. Just some tips I use.

As a bare minimalist, I don't even have a bedroom. I retire at the end of every single day in my SUV and all I have is [1] mattress & pillow, [2] fan, [3] small bin for clothes, and [4] gym bag. How long have I been doing this you ask? This November will be my 50th consecutive month. Live free, clutter-free

"if you're a grown man, your room should reflect that" I feel attacked

Great stuff, such a positive influence for guys out there. With your content I picture a bunch of guys hearing this and becoming a little more emotionally intelligent, a little more thoughtful, and a little classier. I listen just for ideas for how I could work on myself more as well. Thanks!

1. Book ✔ 2. Soft Mattress✔ 3. Accessories... Yes I don't sleep on a bare mattress of the floor✔ 4. I don't know about these "drapes" you speak of, I have manly curtains ✔ 5. Candles - no not my style - ladies bring your own❌ 6. Reading lamp✔ 7. Full length mirror❌ I only have a half length (I have failed) 8. Artwork (or course... I'm not a monster!)✔ 9. Humidifier (this should be number 1 here in Cleveland!)✔ 10. Protection (yep mattress protector fitted just right)✔

Bonus that I found and love. Get a water decanter with some matching glasses, just one or two will do. Fill it with water before bed. Its so nice to be able to wake up and just have water right there. No more morning cotton mouth, bad breath, and just general thirstiness. Also, keep lubricant with your protection, and make sure they can work together. Your bedroom activities will thank you.

11-a soft fuzzy pair of hand cuffs and a blind fold 12-a mini fridge 13-a bed with posts 14-robe 15-blue tooth speaker Bonus-make your candle the cool to touch wax for an extra heightened experience

Shes 100% right, especially on the last one. Can't stress how important it is to have protection in your room at ALL times. No exceptions. Had a woman over one time without having any on hand. The desire in the moment, however, would not be denied. And i spent the next several months paranoid, waiting for a dreaded call from her. Fortunately nothing came of it, but its not worth the worry. I learned my lesson. keep those things well stocked.

Those advices are for all people important. Its always good to design your bedroom the way you feel most comforting. Sleep is extremely important for physical and mental health. Any little detail that helps creating the environment you need to relax and have a peaceful night is worth it... Even when its just a tiny thing like putting your phone away from nightstand or adding a plant. Good video and keep the great work up, Miss Ryan ✌️

Missing 3 things... A pistol/gun, because you are a man in a dangerous world (and know how to use it...my protection drawer has 2 meanings 😅). A super soft plush rug. Ive got one under my king bed that extends out from under it about 2 ft on all sides. Its a nice touch. And its a good little knee padding 😏. And you gotta have a color LED light strip under your bed, prefarably wifi/bluetooth controlled. Pop that sucker on with some red lights and boom, perfect mood lighting.

My ex had an inflatable doll in his bedroom ; I found it under the bed!

Clean pillow, Clean Sheets, Dark drapes - no electronics, no books, no distractions. I am asleep in 3 minutes or less. Next to bed - alarm clock, shot gun and a pair of slippers No candles, no potpourie, no art, no posters, no flags, 'sexy time' happens in the other room. I do not want to sleep in a wet spot - protection is there.

I have a flat, pancake pillow. But to be fair, I’ve been a stomach sleeper my entire life. Only in the past few years have I started waking up in the middle of the night and grabbing a second pillow for my side sleeping shift. That one has some quality neck support and keeps me from feeling my age in the morning!

Bonus one which I would personally recommend, a Reed Diffuser. Trust me, your girl would love it.

Bed Drawers for clothes Mirror Wardrobe (preferably built in) Working Light Curtains/blinds Optional - Bed side table to put anything on such as mobile phone or alarm clock Storage space (drawers, cabinets, shelves on walls, etc) Desk (if you really must work in your room or for studying) Shoe rack Working fan (for the hot summer nights) Portable heater (for the cold winter nights) Anything more than this is overkill and waste of money

Courtney got me laughing at the fact that she says that we don’t listen to her 😂. We’re guys we tend to do what we want but I heard you loud and clear. Protection in the room ✅. Great content

You're helping me alot. I used to be incel but your advice helps me stay in school and work in an internship.

Top tip. Store protection in the artwork. Totally classy

I have 2 more to add to this. 11. Firearm 12. Police grade handcuffs

Courtney you got your self together and provide quite practical advice.

Please dont take this the wrong way cuz i think ur such a super sweet girl but these are just common bedroom items with an ad for a mattress.

Just had to Google what drapes was. Never heard that saying before. I’m the UK we say curtains, also I love my humidifier

I would also recommend a nice desk and maybe a nice set of drawers or even a filing cabinet. Even if you don't have a personal, landline computer, simply getting various possessions and effects off of the floor and onto a higher plane or inside a space you aren't walking on will do you tons of good. And please throw out your water bottles and other trash, and please run the vacuum every so often. Even once a quarter, that will do you so much good.

You are forgetting a BEDSIDE FIREARM! Defending against unexpected and violent intruders is more important than any of the above...

Thank you, I really appreciate your videos!

Great video Courtney! I recommend a small or stand up plant if there is room for it. The best men's apartment or bedroom to model after is in the film American Psycho... very minimal, clean, white, great artwork etc... I also do not put a tv in my bedroom... bedroom is for sleeping, comfort and unwinding!

Aromatherapy is relaxing for me n awesome. I have candles and incense, a bookshelf n a night stand lamp. Soo relaxing

I just need the perfect lamp by my bed to read with and I think I have most of those things covered! Thank you for another great video, Courtney, and keep on being you :)

6/10 I have blinds instead of drapes and no candles. No Mirror. I'm pretty good on books though. My Bedroom is pretty much the house library. "A room without books is like a man without a soul" - Cicero As for protection, I have a bunch of Dungeons and Dragons rulebooks visible on my shelves. I wasn't sure whether to count that though.

Thank you Courtney, great content.

I've had a Tempur-Pedic mattress for almost a decade and love it. But I had one guest who said that she missed the spring squeaking!

white drapes with elite looking curtains are a must! Totally changed the look and feel of my room

In the interest of everyones time: 1. Queen size bed with matching sheets and bed set 2. paintings 3. Discarded MRE packets 4. Guitar 5. Rhodesian camo short shorts 6. Patteren 83 battle jacket 7. Bedside FN FAL 8. discarded 7.62x51 ammo 9. Crye percision top 10. Robert Mugabe rifle targets

Great content Courtney, I love your unpredictable topics. I would add an essential oil diffuser for peace of mind, peppermint, francansense, eucalyptus, white Angelica etc And, no tv Maybe a CD player for old school audio books Bottle of water Alarm clock across the room Enjoy

I have a small book shelf and one of my favorites happens to be 1984 by George Orwell

Absolutely true, thanks a lot ✨

77inch Big screen TV Some 1/4 scale super hero statues , & graded vintage comics on the wall, Surround sound speakers, PS5, & my Series X & lastly bed 🛌 Universal gym in the garage 💪

A nice chair/recliner is also nice to have.

thanks for these videos

Another good thing to add to this a flashlight just in case there is a power outage or emergency in the middle of the night.

defo getting these things when I turn 18 and start living in my own place. Heck, i'll try get some now!

I’m a weird guy. I never step foot in my bedroom unless I’m going to bed or picking clothes from my closet. And that’s when my wife is at home. For years we had to live in separate countries at least 6 months of the year, and during that time when I’m alone I would sleep on the couch in the living room. If I dare sleep in the bedroom, all kinds of nightmares would plague my sleep.

You forgot the most important thing. I thought you were going to cover under protection but it’s the “other kind” of protection. A shotgun/rifle/ or pistol by the bed.

Multiple full length mirrors to make the room look a bit more spacious (so the theory goes), family pictures if you're not big on art, a ceiling or oscillating fan for the hot months and an illuminated clock or clock radio so you can readily check the time without having to find your cell phone.

great video this video helps us guys keep up the good work

This is good way to merge a sponsor with content, fair play.

Another great video👌

Chad has his mattress on the floor with no head board but still blows her back out on the first date. But...please guys still go ahead and make sure you have all this stuff so you can be alone and cozy in your room while you watch and simp over always low cut top Courtney on youtube😉 Some of you dudes are so caught up in the matrix and don't even know it. This chick is so smart and runs such an amazing hustle, It's actually impressive🤌

Courtney doing an outfit check while balancing on the edge of a bathtub....Now *there's* an image!!😁

One of the best inventions for guys like me that haven’t had the time to learn much about art yet is the new Samsung picture frame TVs. Hang it up on the wall across the foot of your bed and you have a TV when you want to watch with your significant other on a lazy day or play games in bed and then when it’s not in use as a TV, you can have it cycle through artwork so you can at least fake like you’re sophisticated until you do get around to that art history. It also has low-profile mounts so it doesn’t even look like a TV on your wall and these picture frame border accessories. I’m not sure if other TV manufacturers have come out with anything similar, but the concept by anyone just feels really fashionable on my wall

I got my ultra firm King Koil queen mattress May 2020. The 12mo financing for a 2g purchase bundle was so worth it!

AC unit, fan, phone charger, wall outlet, table, shelves, supplementss, tools, etc.

And an intimidating Big Bong! And a projector. And cream for the skin to smell good 😊

Thank you . My bedroom is so boring . I don’t like clutter or furniture. I have bed nightstand and desk in there. THATS IT.

Yes, a nice comfortable bed is very important. It's worth every penny. Candles add a bit of romance. These are huge pluses if you have these when we come to your house.

Very interesting video. Decided to evaluate my space and listen to this for ideas and I got a thing or two that I'd upgrade when I'm in my own place (still with the parents atm) but I'm good for the most part. I got a decent array of books (could use a bookshelf tho but space is lacking), good bed, mattress and plenty of varying sheets to go with. Also got the lamp and candles. I didn't even know humidifiers were a thing lol, for reasons of I'm not on my own plus religious I don't have or use protection (my safety is abstinence until married, plus even if I was intending on bringing different girls home I probably wouldn't bring them home to my room then get into it with my grandma in the bedroom directly opposite). Definitely need a mirror though, that's the one thing I'm lacking. Edit: also realised I forgot I don't have drapes. I think given my situation currently my room is good. When I do go in my own however I would change a few things. I've got a TV in my room standing on a shelf with lots of DVD'S and Blu-Rays, and I used to have a PS4 (now in storage, I need a break from it) there too. Also I got a pretty bulky desk underneath my window hence why I can't have drapes. If I'm riding solo, I may not have the TV in my room as I could watch whatever in the TV room anyway, if I keep one in my room id wall mount it. Would definitely look into getting a proper bookshelf to better display my books. I'd definitely get a different wardrobe, something a bit more modern, probably bigger and something that either has or could at least fit a mirror. I'd go for a more sleek and modern desk also, I'd try to get a drawer cabinet to store a few things. My "artwork" is something I'm actually quite proud of mostly, I've got a couple little kid photos of myself which I might not hang up on my own but I think with patents around its more appropriate, but what I would definitely keep is my religious iconography. I'm big in my faith, it's the core to who I am and the artwork reflects that plus I think it fits well into respectable and mature and not nothing like the naked chick's or the beer boxes. Definitely when on my own I'd look into drapes. Really liked this video courtney.

You can put many pillows in the washing machine. And should. Guys call them curtains. Blackout preferred.

my recent ex thought it peculiar that I have a bookcase... 'oohh you like to read???' Then she realised that what she saw was only about 1% of my actual book collection 🤣🤣

Protection is key but not sticking it in crazy is a good sign of maturity it's like all the other adolescent things that seem fun until consequences show up

LOL at the "unknown stains on the pillows" remark. Regarding "protection" (ie condoms), how do they prevent crazy people? I know they protect against pregnancy and STDs, but I didn't know they also warded off crazy people, lol (and if they DO ward off crazy people, they must have a high failure rate)

Yes you can wash your pillows & dry them too.

Perfect Lighting courtney👌

Courtney always coming in clutch

I am betting that you are a Earth sign like me. It’s the good attention to cleanliness and detail.

This is clutch advice!

A bed, No TV, A man sized chair, and a bedside table😎

Fixed title: "The bedding advertisement every grown man must watch"

I lol 😆 when you talked about college poster. Have a great day Courtney

Sheets should be wash every weeks. A man should have a mattered as well as pillow covers. They are in addition to sheets and pillow covers. A bedroom should also include a sound system.

Love the tip to have a bedside book (or two)!

I recently upgraded my wardrobe. I switched out a few of my graphics tees, and kept some of my more neutral tones and blue (matches my eyes) etc. and active wear, gym shorts and shirts etc. Additionally, I have some buttonups hanging that I'm going to bring into the rotation more regularly. Making a bunch of glow ups, while currently in the job search for something with a higher salary, so there's a lot happening right now, wish me luck!

I agree with the bookshelf. I don't think anyone needs a small library there but it shows you have more going on besides video games. I second the pictures on the wall as well.

How about a large mirror on the ceiling 😊

Interesting evaluation. Most men do not really pay much attention to "atmosphere" in their living spaces like women do, so I'm sure this is useful. It doesn't have to be perfect, just uplifting. I have am fortunate to own a home to myself, so each room has a different visual theme according to it's purpose. Play, eat, cook, work, rest. I think it's important to divide your home according to your activities. I eat dinner every night in my dining room, even if it is alone. That's my way of honoring the way it used to be with family. My living room has all my favorite pictures, books, and memorable items. My game room has all my electronics and musical instruments. My bedroom is simple and comfortably decorated --- no TV, no computer, no toys, no distractions. And surprisingly, contains 9 out of 10 things on this list.

I would recommend waterproof pillow protectors, I have some very expensive memory and latex pillows that I have had for years but because they have been sealed in waterproof pillow protectors they are not exposed to things like snot and drool, they last. A lot of people buy new pillows as a conventional pillow is like cotton wool, you wet cotton wool and it will lose its shape forever same goes for pillows. My phone is usually in my pocket or on the charger in both cases not in reach

I have a bedside bookshelf in my bed is primarily for sleeping as my favorite place to be is my gym which is where I unwind and recover as well as train. Most of my reading is done in the living room or the dining room because your brain can associate certain behaviors with certain environments so I no longer watch TV in my bedroom, I no longer read in my bedroom and I for sure as hell don't ever eat in my bedroom anymore. Ever since I turn my room into a blackout Zone I have been sleeping solid and thorough

you know what courtney, i'll take you up on that...i have purchased at least 3 books the last 8months(seeing as though the first and last time i purchased a book to read was TMNT back when i was 12 at a school book fair) and never read them...but seems like probably the only time i would ever attempt to read a book...and i do want to get into reading...i dont know about 10 pages...but i can definitely do 3-5

Reading before bed is my nemesis, I don't have the discipline to put it down.

On a serious note.... candles are essential. I also have a fragrance diffuser which you put water and scented oils in and it shoots scented vapor into the air. Obviously the candles I use match the fragrance of the oil in the diffuser and of course reed diffusers too. I have millions of books. I also keep my bed covered with faux fur throws in co-ordinated colors above the bedspread and there are pillows and cushions all over the place.. One thing I would argue is also essential in a bedroom that you missed is potted plants. I have 5 plants in my bedroom and also occasionally put in a bouquet of flowers to brighten the place further.

Yesss the bath room cat walk… I thought I was the only one

"And who doesn't like fancy!?" HAHAHA! Love it!

A place to lay out clothes for the morning is really helpful, and a vacuum for getting all the crumbs and ants out of the bed once or twice a month is a must. Lol.

Vamos señorita Courtney 🙌🏻🙏🏻❤

Courtney you absolutely have to wash your pillows! Change pillow case weekly, wash pillow every 4-6 weeks, and replace pillows every two years. That's my routine. Also have to wash drapes regularly or get a steam cleaner for it

Love your content as usual...that having been said, art is a personal thing - be it a beer box, posters...whatever: remember Tennyson said in his translation of Ulysses " I am a part of all I have met..."

I tried...you can't read by candlelight. It's just simply not bright enough. I mean unless if you have one of those candle stands that can hold 15 candles and don't mind the extra boiler room feel in your room from all that flame power. lol Also beware that if you have a candle lit for more than an hour straight make sure that you have at least 4 feet of clearance between the top of the flame and your ceiling. Yes, it'll bake and burn your ceiling after a time. So don't go using those little corner shelves. OH, and don't randomly leave for some ice cream at your local convienence store with one lit either. The hot candle wax left unattendaded will likely drip all down over its coaster, down the TV or wall or cabinet and all over the carpet potentially burning your house down. But other than that! Yeah...Go Ahead. Get yourself a candle lmao.

Thanks

Blue blocking glasses are a must

I agree that I have seen enough of my phone during the day, the only time its in bed is for music, not social media. I love the Temper pedic Never ever buy a bed in a box. DEAD SERIOUS

_"I don't know what you guys are doin'."_ 😄😳 Something about the way you said that was hilarious. First time I've ever laughed and felt insecure at the same time.

I’m in bed watching Courtney Ryan on my tablet.

Good info Courtney Ryan thumbs up hope you are doing well 👍

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="113">1:53</a> For a great night's sleep my body requires a hard surface, I prefer hard wood floor or rock with a woolen blanket above and below( to avoid draft ) for a good sleep.