Attractive Guys ALWAYS Do These 6 Things 

we need space to caress our junk too

Skill set=things you could do for them

@@Dman425 it’s not like that.. women are impressed with all kinds of things.. like if you are good at chess, or can juggle etc etc

@@12233445566abc probably not. But, it sure doesn’t hurt, does it?

Thank you

Men of integrity attract women of integrity. It's automatic. Women of integrity notice men of integrity and automatically gravitate towards them.

@@shaybs 🧢

You ever notice that the list of what women would want is what men would also want in women?

@@shaybs bullshit site your source or its just your hot air opinion

@@Haha_Haha_Ha Right, at this point it shouldn’t even be a question! We are living in a time in history where the worst, most selfish, promiscuous, disloyal, most entitled women that ever lived exist!

Absolutely! 🙌🏼 as they should

Storm, you are the man! Finally we have somebody who can tell Courtney ryan that she shouldn’t live in Disney world of her own imagination

@@CourtneyRyan really? you always talk about how men MUST behave but you have NEVER talked about the other side

@@zwollekira8202 actually she made plenty of videos about how women should or shouldn’t behave

@@zwollekira8202 I talk about this a lot, actually. Go watch Fridays video as an example lol

Courtney does sound like a mom, and as we know moms know best when it comes to getting laid, right guys? LOL!

🙌🏼

Being genuine is part of having integrity. When you have integrity you don't change who your are or your values based on the people or women around you. You present your genuine self.

Courtney won't reply, bc she is very busy and above you....

@@CourtneyRyan doesn't matter, unless its courtney.... then she is only with mega stars... not a waiter...see its all a lie... just get used to women belittling you , just tell em some Bullshit like a dumb lady wants to hear...

chess proves that ladies are not as smart as men... just get over it... women are the ones that can create life...

@KCBOBX “they’re really big”

Bow hunting skills… computer hacking skills… girls want guys with skills!

Nunchuck skills

Ouch its even better to buy second hand cars though just for utility but don't buy it actually if you just want to show off

Wow, that is really sad. It's awful that many women only look at the bank account and not all the other lovely qualities a guy may have.

Me according to gf: *calm emotionless robot that likes cuddles and makes her feel safe* Me in reality: "I can't sleep, their voices never stop screaming, and she's the only innocent thing left in my life"

@@rockytom5889 you good man?

@@Razor-gx2dq Yeah...am now. Thanks to her the voices are slowly dissapearing, and sleep is better. Also she's trying to teach me these things called 'feelings', which I think I forgot how to operate a decade ago, so it's been pretty scary, but she's been there to reassure me every time. I'm blessed to have such a creature in my life...cause I cannot make many people happy, usually I make them sad or horrified...she was genuinely curious and happy...so strange, but here we are, me(20), a kid who was fighting not to die since he was born, and it never stopped, just got more trouble added, and a little abused girl(21), who just wanted to be treated like a human being. We ain't perfect people with perfect lives, but we've paid our dues. I'll be there to beat down on whatever life throws at us, and she'll be there with me

@Laura UK Yeah, you're right...I plan on getting that sorted, it's just that sometimes you fall in so deep you don't even know how to reach out until you got someone who needs you.

@Laura UK I agree wholeheartedly, I think it is extremely important for a person to be in the right place mentally.

🙌🏼 agreed! Thank you so much!

Doing the right thing only leads to falling short, Cobra Kai season 4 emphasized this This is something I need to get better at but be nice to an extent, but don’t be afraid to be mean to her. If she gets offended and pissed off, just realize it’s subjective, and that you just aren’t her type

I love this comment! 🥰

@@CourtneyRyan thanks and that’s very encouraging, Courtney! Btw, I also follow Teddy’s watch channel and you both have the best content in your respective fields of interest on YT.😎👍🏻👍🏻

but it won't apply to women, bc of double standards...

Have all these things and still not even be considered date worthy to most modern women because you don't meet their insane shallow physical body standards of being at least 6ft, or this penis size, or not being bald, blah blah blah Easy way to go from a 8 out of 10 confident genuine guy to a worthless 5 out of 10 all because of your height bro, didn't you see courtneys other video where the women were shame rating men based on things they can't change lol

@@againstdrivingdrunk614 , you don't have to date someone you're not into. Same goes for women.

@@andrebaxter4023 haha its 75% luck... you have to get lucky with timing / location / scheduling etc... to meet the right person.

Happy Sunday John! Thanks for the comment! ❤️

@@CourtneyRyan You're welcome, Courtney! 😘

I simply have to say something here. It is not to offend you. But by calling other human beings "toxic" and having the need to "cut them out" it only shows that you are insecure and lack of latitude. That is the straight opposite of being a well mannered guy. ;)

Exactly, these traits mean nothing if the woman isn't attracted to you at all.

Looks are 80% of what makes a man attractive.

Was going to say the same. This more like tips for keeping a partner

I don't agree. If you dress for success like myself. Even though I'm not good looking. I barely hit 7 on a scale of ten. However, dressing well, being well mannered, listening and being kind makes women get attracted to you. If you follow her advice, trust me women will be attracted to you. Have good intentions. Women notice all these subtle things she mentions and trust me it gets your foot in the door. She'll ask you out to get some coffee to get to know one another. That doesn't mean she'll be your girlfriend or you manage to get her. It just means these traits get your foot in the door.

@@coolnut99 SMV not looks

Thank you ❤️

🙌🏼 exactly

Tommy, you dropped something 🎤

Yeah, it's not stressed enough the difference between what attracts a healthy woman and an unhealthy one. I've known women that dislike even tempered men, for example, seeking out wild passionate flings instead. In the wrong environment you can have all of these qualities and still struggle.

Loyalty would seem to be a #1 need then integrity

@@drip369 lol love it!

Nice guys finish last, that doesn’t apply to women though. Nice women finish first

@Laura UK that makes sense, but honestly I don't think almost getting killed and having a brief emotional reaction is something only emotionally unstable people do and if a woman or a man for that matter can't read that I can't blame their partner

Woohoo! You should be proud of yourself. Doesn’t sound like bragging to me 🙌🏼 keep it up!

@Joseph Thaletas sounds like you lack minding your own business : Ego 🤣

Woohoo! Rooting for you! ❤️

@@CourtneyRyan Thank you it means a lot that you responded to my post! :)

@@evidence-basedhealthuk5271 Hey I know that sometimes you can feel down. I have started talking to women again and have had a few people ask me out. I have told them I am not ready for dating yet. I am bald and have been since I was 25 when I met my soon-to-be ex-wife. There are many woman that aren't shallow, the ones that are you don't want to be with them. Just have to be confident in yourself, be honest, and be a great person. I believe in you, you will find a special someone.

Haha Bingo thank you. You become one of the average "nice guys", that they only start considering for dating once they hit their late 35s-40s typically as single mothers vocally and loudly professing that they are now very desperate and willing to ""lower their insane ridiculous previous body standards that they used to bully and overlook you for" and "settle" for a nice caring loser average guy like us lol But even then if you are lucky to get used by these women, they spend all day dreaming about their former previous massively endowed ex-boyfriends all day until they end up inevtiably cheating on you anyway and destroying the family unit.

Depends on what she is looking for. It is the same for men. If all they are looking for is physical attraction then yes the more attractive/hot person will be their choice. The traits she talks about are more about presenting yourself in the best way overall. Women do pick up on it.

@@Ziip47 every woman and every man needs physical attraction to start with. Don't get me wrong...I'm not ugly, most women check me out when I walk outside. I have good posture, good manners, dress well, smell good, impeccable skin etc. I have a friend that is handsome like myself, same height too but he has skin issues and has a few traits...not ambitious at all. He is jacked however and has a stunning girlfriend but cheats on her with lots of women. I just think the traits mentioned is a question of "are you an adult or still a kid".

Thank you so much for your kind comment! I appreciate it 🥺 I keep a long list of ideas, I have so many! There will be times when I mention similar points in videos that I think are important but I really try my best to frame it in a different way so my viewers get something new out of it. Thank you again!

where do you get your "believe right way" handbook? Courtney is on a popular subject but I don't even think the girls she calls hot to interview on her show are hot. Take a few layers of "help" off of Courtney and she is just average.

@@richknisley9287 it's right in there -"believe". Let me rephrase - you do it because it's who you are and you have a strong conviction (by definition subjective) that this is the right way. And that's the whole point.

@@bartekw6970 im just wondering if you made it a teachable subject what would it look like because just saying "believe" only speaks to your depth and not about the accuracy of your content of the belief itself. Either you have something people can or will follow or you have something only you follow in which no one obviously will care

@@richknisley9287 it's the latter.

@@bartekw6970 maybe english isnt your primary language never mind. I asked if you made it a teachable subject. Its the latter makes no sense

I feel the same way, but for different reasons. I’m one of those “hard-gainers” who has such a high metabolism it’s nearly impossible for me to gain muscle and look like the Greek god I’ve always wanted to be like.

genetics? excuses. you're fat cause you eat too much and don't work out enough. period.

Yes!!!!

@John Grigg never heard of it 🤔 I will write it down

Men described like this tend to be “boring”

Nahh my guy. The right women will be there running along side you. I know it sounds corny but it is true.

And who told you that Warren Buffet was an attractive man? :O

Serious question for you, I’m genuinely intrigued by your experience. Are you too nice? See I ask because I was once too nice. I’m older and have been married and divorced, top of my career, educated and in great physical shape. I married in my early twenties and divorced in my forties. Entering back into the dating scene was an eye opener. I had lots of dates that went nowhere. Being tall, athletic, decent looking and successful went far attracting women but none stuck around. I wound up sleeping with a coworker after a party and while I had always been attracted to her never pursued anything because we worked for the same company. I was a bit smitten with her and asked her out. She immediately replied, oh hell no. Dejected I asked why? She was brutally honest, I was the nice guy that all the ladies liked but a complete pushover and it showed. She told me it was a topic of conversation with some of the other company women. I was embarrassed and felt humiliated. She said I was an attractive guy but had no backbone and easily manipulated by women. Looking back their assessment was on point. I went out of my way for women and most of the time got nothing in return. A simp. I had no idea how to change. The next woman I asked out tried jerking me around on a second date and I calmly and respectfully told her I was no longer interested. It felt good to stand up for myself. That same woman chased me for two weeks looking for a second date but I refused. She disrespected me and if I accepted her treatment it wouldn’t get better with time. I had to work on having a spine around women for a few years but it’s paid off because you can be too nice. Just a suggestion.

You seem to have everything, I really don't know, maybe change where you're looking for women? Your Social circles may be a good place to find a woman.

@@scottp2462 Yes, I am told I'm too nice but that's been something I've been working on for years.

@@Razor-gx2dq I the admin for three different meetup groups and go to multiple social dance groups. I even went to a 3 day swing dance retreat last weekend. I'm doing the things I enjoy so I think I'm in the right social circles. I've already changed what I look for in women. My standards have dramatically lowered over the years. All I want is an average woman.

@@Razor-gx2dq My ex girlfriends mom once told her she was lucky to be with me because I "had it all". She met a tall guy with a sailboat on tinder and left me.

Yep !

Yep !! The women I've been meeting lately act like they are so entitled, like they are the prize, regardless of their shit poor personality.

Nahhh that isn't true. There is a portion of women who find that attractive but most of the time that isn't what making them happy in the long run. The Nice guys finish last mentality comes from guys who are not confident enough to move through life with purpose. My advice is find something other then women to invest your time and energy into like working out, a career, a passion, or cause. Women will notice and see you have drive and confidence. Being rude, disrespectful, obnoxious are not traits I find attractive in women and I know they don't find attractive about us. (Maybe for a couple years in college but that is about it.)

@@Ziip47 thats how I remember it use to be, back when I was 20-40 years old.....now....with modern woman....YIKES !!! they think, and act like their shit don't stink, trust me, it stinks just like mine does. LOL

@@Ziip47 , Wow! That's a lot of hot air. That was a very fluffy response.

@@Ziip47 These men are perfectly confident moving through life in all different aspects from business to the gym/sports etc. To say these men "move through life with no purpose" when some of them dominate their sports or are accomplished businessmen/millionares etc, makes no sense. It's just that they aren't confident with women and/or cannot back up said confidence due to not having some shallow vain body "standard" that most modern women DEMAND such as penis isze. Women can smell a confident massively endowed great in bed guy and they can smell an average insecure guy who's not confident in the bed room a mile off and they hate that. Most women will not even waste their time these days when they realize that your body count is low and you don't have much experience etc. No matter how confident or well mannered you are. Which just gets you perceived to largely be a "simp" these days anyway or a "nice guy".

How true. All that is required of men, and yet a woman need only have a vagina and we better be damn grateful for that right?

Thank you, at least someone talking truth around here. Modern women will destroy and publically humiliate, body shame you to mental illness if you aren't massively endowed etc. It's sick, but Courtneys advice is so helpful lol

Yep, where are they ???/ Haven't seen any in the last 20 years.

God forbid you use common sense and rational thinking, man!

@@Martin-jk2ng rare trait these days

@@greg33770 check on the general personality of the people you have chosen to date. THERE is your answer.

@@josesantana770 at my age, i don't really have many options...whats left in the dating world at ppl in their 60's ?????

So what did? I mean these are all traits you can bit see from the outside, so you gotta get to know someone first a little deeper

@@Luemm3l Communication is the key to everything. Genuine 2 way communication, be a GOOD listener, and don't speak unless you have something really important to say. It is better to remain silent and be thought an idiot than to talk bollocks (as they say in Great Britain) and remove all doubt.... to butcher an expression. If people have a similar interest perhaps, even if it is from different perspectives, or from different ends of the spectrum that is a key. Be honest about what you want and what you need and what you are looking for. Be honest with yourself and with others. Be open to things be open minded. There are times however when honesty has to be tempered with diplomacy and discretion so bear that in mind.

The ultimate blessing lol I want that one 😅

@@aaronkk2316 Although, I will say, at 43 the cokes are STARTING to have a slight effect lol.

You certainly exposed your bias and thoroughly misinterpreted what Courtney conveyed in that passage. Basically, she is NOT excusing bad behavior of women; Courtney is simply saying two wrongs do not make a right. So when confronting a woman who would act badly with drama perhaps, the last thing a gentleman should do is elevate the drama with more anger, screaming, or belligerence; staying on point yet calm without yielding to bad behavior is far better while rewarding the behavior if the other changes by calming down and participates reasonably in negotiating or solving a problem. As for the women who are horrible and permanent pieces of work, never to get better, stop talking and reward them with your disappearance from their lives. Regardless, Courtney was never implying to kowtow nor humor bad behavior of women let alone men.

She isn't saying that. She's saying that you should do it for yourself. The right women who are well mannered will notice. The women who aren't well mannered won't notice. That's the key. So you attract the women with good manners and the ones without won't care and you should be happy.

I get your point mr. cation.....the women I've been meeting lately act like they are so entitled, like they are the prize, regardless of their shit poor personality.

@@johnkeller5163 I understand what your saying and I get your point. But she could've explain that on the moment giving that fact the she have a long history of thoroughly taking into every view point in an accommodating way in every topic that she discuss or make a video about. And quite frankly this her way of communicating from what I observed watching her videos. However, in this video and regarding this matter she couldn't give two fucks about further explaining the point, which entails that she's avoiding to make women accountable and in contrast, she makes the men take full responsibility; which boils down to the innate problem of entitlement that are embedded in females. Listen man, I like her and her videos but I call bulshit when I see it, and at the end of the day I hope I am wrong and I hope women do take accountability for their actions.

@@shaybs Brother Mohammad, It's a matter of respect. I am not chasing girls for a quick hookup while being a gentlemen to them. The only reason I am being a gentlemen is because I respect people when I interact with them regardless of their gender. If I am being a gentlemen to a girl, this does not mean I want to get in her pants; which is always the case with women if your a man and acted nice to them, they think your hitting on them because they have this inferiority/intention seeking complex. What is really happening is that It's so happens that your a girl and I am being a gentlemen, no more and much less. In conclusion, the only reason I am being a gentlemen is that I respect people. However, I will not tolerate other people being rude in return regardless of their gender.

🥺 you’re so kind, thank you!

with respect, ask yourself, why do you think there are negative comments here? Because men are speaking directly from their own experiences in the real world, probably most are older or well older and more experienced than you. me being one of them.