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Real Men Real Style Wing collars at black tie events. Just make me look too old fashioned. Same kind of applies to 3 piece suits, but then that could change
I haven't worked up the courage to try bracelets... Wedding ring and watches is really it for me... Maybe if I wore more street style, then bracelets might be tempting...
Banned from my wardrobe are: French cuff shirts (except with tux) French collars Eldredge knot Colorful bowties Loud colored suits Reversible belts Loafers/boat shoes Pleated slacks Half sleeve shirts (except for very rare casual occasions) Watches over 45mm Extra rings / bracelets Flat bottom ties Probably some other things but that's a good start. As a sidenote, Antonio I have great admiration for you my man. You have been a great resource. Keep up the great work buddy!
It's great to see that you respect things you wouldn't wear. A lot of people will bash something they don't personally wear. Great vid, as always, Antonio!
My partner wears Ascots on a daily basis in the Office since I told him, that I find it extremely stylish and attractive on him. It’s something that you don’t see very often and really stands out from the crowd in a positive way. Also all his ascots are from his grandfather who passed away long time ago so they are like a family heirloom
the ascot is definitely extinct and will probably never become popular again. But for me as and ascot lover, that is a good thing. I got one off ebay for 5$ and wore it to prom and among all my friends I got the most compliments. just because it is out of fashion doesn't mean you can pull it off. It is a perfect neckwear to stand out among people with regular ties
I see them mostly worn in wedding parties in the UK. I had to wear one at my brother's wedding when I was best man. I see them more amongst artistic and celebrity types over in the UK and once a guy was wearing one at an event, but I don't think I ever seen them in the US and I been here for nearly 20 years.
Oh noes! Oh noes! right, some men in the fashion industry still wear them. And they are good for weddings, both the oldschool ascot and newer one (tucked in the shirt).
Antonio: does he really wear the? I never saw him in person. I have watched all of Raphael's videos and have never seen him wear one except in videos dedicated to the ascot/cravat. I sort of thought he only did those videos in order to sell his products.
THIS video is actually the reason I subscribed to your channel. While you give your perspective and say "this is what works for me, it works well and it will probably work for you," you also add "if you ARE interested in wearing...." (in this case the Ascot) you tell gentlemen where to find more information on it and you don't make judgement calls on anyone who has an interest in a style that may be slightly out of the norm. Whether it's generational, a matter of upbringing or status, or simply a thing that is traditional to a particular country or region, you show your true class by giving allowance to those differences in style. I give you sincere kudos.
Actually, I think you’d look great in an ascot. I wear them and it’s true that I pretty much never see anyone else wearing them, but then again, I do t wear them to “fit in.” I actually get compliments all the time for them. I encourage you to try them out.
Great vid Antonio. A recent interview with a large UK Multinational Investment Bank Barclays Plc which is expanding in da USA. I not only pulled of a pocket square but I was also the only gent with a suit & tie. The suit I bought after watching Sven Raphael's vid on buying suits & I was on a tight budget. I passed the interview. I'm so grateful to you all! 😎🤘
I have worn and continue to wear ascots. It adds that touch of 'Sprezzaturra' to any suit/outfit. I generally wear ties when I don't want to wear an ascot. Ties and ascots are the hallmark of a well dressed gentleman. I have bespoke suits, all of them have suspender buttons and I wear suspenders. The trousers sit better, are more comfortable over a long period. By the way, the akubra fits you right but Akubra also make fedoras, excellent for that finishing touch to an outfit. The Akubra is very sturdy, keeps the sun off your face ( lessening the effects of the sun on your skin thereby slowing the ageing process. And as for the drivers, I keep a set in my car and wear them when I drive, change into them when I fly. The are very comfortable on the feet. And I have 200 pairs of shoes!
I think the colour is mainly the problem, otherwise it is just a basic classic shoe. don't see a problem with it. would work better in brown leather or suede.
No bow ties and no boat shoes. Well if you’re on a boat, then they make sense but as a casual shoe; it’s just not for me. Also no bright colors. I prefer earth tones and calmer colors. I did once wear a shiny shirt to a work party just to be obnoxious, but it’s not in my day to day attire.
Honestly, I've always liked and have been curious about ascots but have never tried wearing them before. Think I'm going to give it a shot one of these days.
To old to wear with modern clouths but when I wear clouthes looking around that time I will but it also is hard to find a size that fits your head because everyone had smaller sizes back then.
I assume the suspenders and black oxfords return for those black tie charitable events. And a kippa at a Bar Mitzvah, either suede or satin in the specified color provided by the family. Sometimes accessories are mandated. I usually wear my own kippah, crocheted with a design, even when the Bar Mitzvah family provides them.
Hey Antonio, I like the Akubra, but I'm not sure it's perfect for your face shape. A crown that high is incredibly difficult to pull off with a flat brim. I suggest a shorter crown or a western upturn like a stockman or teardrop. The bash is nice, but the height stretches your face. You'd also look quite good in a flat crown like Akubra's Plainsman or Squatter. If you want to wear that Akubra, let it sit at a slight angle, as it will "break away" allowing your face to be framed rather than stretched. Love your videos. They've been a huge help to me as I have begun moving in more business class circles.
I like Raphs and your channel the most. Most of the other mainstream ones are constantly forcing sponsored stuff down my throat without even trying to not make it obvious.
Hi Antonio, I'm a "hat guy" and have been for a long time (years). I wear the fedora, straw in summer and fur (rabbit and beaver) in fall and winter, and you need to try many different hats that fit your face as well as outfit. I wear suits so the more formal hat works for me. The hat is a very personal piece of clothing and incorporating it takes some getting used to as you will probably be the only guy wearing one. I taught myself to like it and now it is just part of me, my style and personality. Hve fun with your journey to find the right style of hat for yourself as you join those of us who adhere to the more classic style of dressing. I enjoy your videos, best of luck to you. John, Sacramento, CA.
I like my hats (fedoras & in summer a straw Panama) & wear them a lot. I get a lot of compliments and I stand out from the baseball cap crowd. The only problem is where to put your hat when you're in a restaurant or a a concert. Gone are the hat check girls and hat racks. LOL
I wore Ascots quite a bit after having skin surgery on my neck. Looked stylish and at the same time protected the fresh scars against abrasion. Similarly, started wearing hats when I had surgery on the top of my head and needed to protect it against sunlight, dirt etc. If I have more opportunities to go out again, I'll probably wear them again.
There’s a hat out there for every man. In this hot weather, you might like a Panama hat that has a moderate brim. It’s hard to see how tall you are but I’d say you could snap it up in the back at least.
I do wear often in the winter a bandana around my neck tucked into my shirt; it keeps my neck warm like a scarf. It works very well to cover the open neck space.
I simply wrap a long wool scarf around my neck instead. I put the center to my throat, pull each end around my neck and tuck them under my lapel, making my neck look rather stocky to fit with my big wool coat and protecting it from the cold.
To me an ascot is less formal than a tie but still an exotic look you don’t see in the states so it’s still fancy. A wedding is a perfect venue for an ascot, I think. We had an outdoor casual wedding and I’m wishing I’d bought an ascot to wear. Id love to pull off loafers or dress shoes. I’m trying to transform my wardrobe lately and shoes is something I want to improve on, I only have a few pairs of shoes including work boots and a pair of Adidas sneakers. But if I had some nice brown loafers I’d probably wear them all the time.
Loafers are the shoes the I used to ease into more formal foot wear. They go with many types of outfits and are pretty comfortable. Now I'm working on trying to pull off an ascot.
I thought this would be a video hating on certain clothes, but I’m glad that you’re accepting of the clothing and just realize it’s something that doesn’t quite work with you. Great content by the way.
Soft Leather dark brown Fadora looks good on you during outdoor with straight cut khakis and chaka boots. In the city Soft Leather dark grey Fadora also not bad combo with dark sports jacket, rain jacket or winter jacket when it's raining or snowing outside. A good match of color scheme usually looks pretty good.
1. The Australian drovers hat looks great. Not maybe for your videos, but for getting out and about. 2. If I'm going to wear a jacket, I'm going to wear a tie. (Family swear I was born wearing a shirt and tie.) 3. I like black shoes and I wear them. Almost all the time. I also have oxblood and brown and I like them. 4. Cravat. I've had a few and have enjoyed wearing them. There are a few thoughts; I realize my style is a bit different from yours, but the world is big enough for both of us.
Good video. It takes a decent understanding of your own life's needs and functions and how some wardrobe items don't mesh well with the. As for the Akubra, it's a bit too big but you could still pull it off. I like the outtakes. I've been gone from these types of videos recently, are they a new addition?
Hats are hard.. flat cap or fedora have been my go to, but they are still difficult to pair with. Petite coats complement both but when indoors and the coat comes off, I've found it useful to follow military tradition and not wear a cover in doors. A fedora with a suit can be done, but I feel like you're following Sinatra at that point, and that's taking it to the next level of class.
I'm kinda considering getting a kilt. Not a party kilt, mind, but a proper kilt made from wool, because Norwegian weather doesn't appreciate much else.
Akubras look good with either jeans or khakis and chukka or hiker boots; and a polo or collared shirt. Summer when jts hot; and winter to keep the snow off ... Use scotchgard on it to protect it, it won't stain.
Antonio, I own over 125 hats of all sorts and I can tell you that Akubra looks amazing on you sends a very bold statement, especially with a sports jacket/suit of that color you're wearing in the video, or with a dark/navy blue one. however, it isn't really a summer hat to me; for summer maybe a Panama or other straw hat would be better
Agree with most items. I like ties and wear them as much as I can. They add to your look and with a suit or sportcoat give a leg up on all the guys not wearing them. I also am wearing hats. Straw for summer and flat caps, medium brim felt and beanies for winter. the first two when it fits my outfits and the latter when it darn cold/windy!
I am new to RMRS and not sure if youve ever covered this topic. Proper ordering and etiquette of classic beverages. Maybe a little history and do's and donts. A pet peeve of mine ( wrong ordering, wrong making, wrong way of drinking and holding a glass, etc) along with pants hemmed too high.
I'm starting to experiment with wearing bracelets, a necklace, and my Vincero watch. I'm also digging out some of my old watches to replace their batteries to add those to my experimental accessories.
I have a high profile job. So, I do wear a suit and tie daily except on Fridays. I rotate the color of my shoes corresponding to the suit that i am wearing.
Try buying old stock hats like the classic fedora hat or maybe maybe a heaver fedora trench coat hat so you can wear something like that when it’s raining or maybe buy a summer hat made out of straw or like material. Something I leaned is you shouldn’t wear wider brim hats with a suit maybe a short sleeve dress shirt with jeans, short dress paints, or maybe dockers. Smaller brim hats go with more dress ware and events. So give it a try and see how you like it.
Your hat looked awesome! Not too big or loud. I wear Ivy Caps, and my girlfriend has even bought me some to add to my collection. You should try them sometime.
I own a very nice pair of black dress shoes. My favorite are my tan dress shoes. I only pull out the black shoes in very rarely. It's interesting to see you found the same thing as I did. Black shoes are nice and a classic but having that bit of color just yes. Love the videos.
A mid Grey New York style trilby with a snap brim and wide bad works great with a trench coat in rain! Some men prefer it to an umbrella which can be a pain walking through a busy city! Bakers Boy caps in mid to Charcoal Grey or Dark Brown also are great!
The thing about a loud shirt is you want that to be the only statement. Everything else needs to be plain, or you need to use something like a jacket to cover it. This makes it pop. Same thing with particular jewelry or colors. Something plain or neutral brings that out as the statement
Braces are a must-have for me as I'm a little light in the hip department (or if I lose a few pounds, my trousers fall down). Though I love to wear hats (winter: fedora, bowler, homburg; summer: Panama, boater), I live in the same state as you do, so I tend to get a few odd looks when I do. However, the best looks happen when I put on the kilt! No matter, I wear what I like and it works for me.
Antonio that’s a terrific hat for you and while you’re at it you might give homburg hats a try …. With your head shape along with your facial structure I think it would be good for you
I rarely leave the house without a hat. I'm not sure how many I have. My favourite is my brown Derby which is a great casual hat. I wear Fedoras quite a lot, and Top Hats in ways you won't see in the Gentleman's Gazette. I think every man should have a Fedora as it's the easiest to wear and almost impossible to get wrong.
I'm currently in Moldova, crossing over my wardrobe across the world was less tricky than I thought. Still dress with a classic style but have to say will never get use to slim cut jeans they will remain as an item that collects dust in my closet.
Antonio: I live in San Antonio, TX and I wear a western (cowboy) hat quite frequently. It looks good with slacks and a sports jacket and is pretty practical with the Texas sunshine. I have a couple of felt hats in addition to the requisite white straw hat.
I love a good Fedora, but really don't find much occasion to wear one. I'm fortunate enough to live in an area where wide brim hats are still worn often. And when it's hot and sunny outside a hat that keeps the Sun and heat off of the back of your neck is extremely valuable.
The pork pie fedora is one I like to incorporate when I want to up my style. I already own two and will definitely be getting more. Its a more modest style of hat with a smaller brim so it isn’t quite so dramatic.
i like wearing a scarf like an ascot , also mens jeans today have very little taper so my wife works on the inseam for me and it looks much better ,,, love this channel .
Like you, Antonio I have a big emphasis on function and simplicity in my wardrobe. While I can certainly appreciate boutonnieres/neckties and do occasionally wear them, they definitely are on the back burner for me due to a lack of function and the potential of over-complicating an outfit. The one item I wear a lot on your list and that I'm surprised you aren't a big fan of is suspenders, In particular button braces. I wear these all the time with dress pants and think they are the perfect combination of function and understated style. If you wear a jacket/sportcoat a lot like I know you do, they are barely ever seen; only really when you sit down with the jacket unbuttoned. Braces have many advantages over belts; They keep your pants at the optimal rise throughout the day where it's most comfortable. They don't pinch your midsection (especially when you sit down). They make you look taller visually by elongating your figure and don't visually cut your silhouette in half like a belt would (especially with a suit). This is particularly useful if you're of a shorter/average height like I am. They press close against your body making your dress shirt look more fitted and elegant (especially on the back). I also believe that the light pressure they put upon your shoulders helps you maintain an upright and ideal posture throughout the day. I like to wear them on the inside of my pants with no belt-loops as I think this offers the cleanest lines and like with any accessory I try to match it to the rest of my outfit i.e have the button tab leather match my shoes, have the elastic strap go with my fabrics and match the metal hardware to my watch or cufflinks etc. imgur.com/a/NzvX32k While I think Brock would benefit from slightly slimmer braces to match his lean figure and a higher rise of pants, I think this is a really good example of how to do suspenders well and showcases the benefits of them. Thanks for the video and I hope you'll consider trying them out again! -max
Brooks Brothers popover shirt with an ascot under a blazer is classic summer dress. Throw a blazer over a polo and appear juvenile. Try it Antonio - you won't go back.
I agree with all points, I own all the items listed, some of the items I paid a lot of money for, like a tailored suit and dress shoes, just never wear them. Despite my profile pic, I hardly ever wear suits too, 99% of the time, I wear Jeans, Brown Casual brogue Shoes/Boots, Shirt (Without a tie) and a Blazer/Sports jacket. I believe it looks just as smart without feeling stuffy or over dressed. I have a silk Ascot, that I wore once at the Royal Ascot Racecourse, along with a Top Hat, It wasn't so bad or embarrassing as I thought as everyone else were dressed the same. The closest thing I have ever wore as an Ascot as a choice was a wool scarf fashioned in a similar way as Daniel Craig in Skyfall during the winter. As for Hats, I have quite the collection including the before mentioned Top Hat, Bowler, Dear Stalker, Indiana Jones style Fedora, but I only wear 2 types if at all. A Wool Beanie and a Lock & Co Tweed Flat Cap that I inherited from my Grandfather.
I really LOVE the articles of this channel , when I don't have time to watch an entire vid , they are a life saver . I can also keep track easily of the most important ones. Thankyou sir for the same :D
I'd never wear a Ascot or Cravat. But a small wool scarf that I have cut down to a smaller size and tucked under a Shirt or Henley during the winter done in a style of a Cravat like Daniel Craig in Skyfall is something I have worn about 3 times.
Another great video, Antonio! It doesn't matter how stylish an item is, if it doesn't fit your lifestyle then you really shouldn't wear it. I wear suits, ties and black dress shoes (Chelsea Boots) regularly, but I have a corporate job so It's appropriate. If I was making style videos on RU-vid, I'd much rather wear your style of Jeans and sports coats.
booo. if you think jeans are so wonderful why don't you flip the bird to the corporate world and get a job where you can wear what you like? I wear a jacket and tie everyday to the office and no one else ever does. I wear what I like. Others ask questions about it and i'm always polite to them but basically I refuse to justify what I wear to work. Of course my boss doesn't pay me for the way I dress he pays me because of the results I produce. perhaps you can't wear what you want because you don't produce.
Huh? No idea what all the hostility is about... I wear suits because I like them and they fit my type of job... I wouldn't wear them to make youtube videos, as it seems over the top...
I go to church 3 times a week and we wear suits for nearly every service. I’ve actually grown to enjoy wearing them to the point were I prefer wearing suits over casual clothes. At the same time since I get more uses out of them its more practical for me to spend little more money on my suits so they tend to be more comfortable than the average suit.
When I lost weight (from 90 to 80, doesn't sound much, but the visual difference is huge), some of my favorite paints waists became too big for me, and the belts became too long. I don't wanted to made them fit again, so I decided to introduce suspenders. I bought a nice pair of navy, clipped ones, I used them for a while, then I upgraded to button-in ones. I actually replaced the clips with mustaches, and I also sewn the buttons up, one pair of a day. They are awesome. You don't have problems with your belt length, your pants still fit nice, even if their waist is too big. And they are ok with metal detectors. I have very long pair of trousers, I don't hem anymore, I just wear them with suspenders (the pants are higher than with a belt). Your pants are always up, unlike belts. Hidden bonus, they force me to walk with straight back, this improves my pose a lot. I wanted to introduce west, this worked very well also. They are very good if you need an other layer, and they look great and unique. The other thing, well suede shoes. They look so good, but they so delicate. I will give them also a try in the future.
It's nice to know that men still love wearing suits and not just because they have to. Ascots are really elegant, sadly not many men like them. I believe the golden age of clothing was the 19th century, at least for men, so the ascot is something that looks great even now
Antonio: you could totally pull off a fedora, that classic gangster hat! I'm more of a newsboy hat guy myself but you've got the face shape for the fedora.
Hats. My go-to hat is the Ivy league hat. I have a nice wide brim fedora from Woolrich on which I get lots of compliments but I always feel like I have a big hat on. I am trying to wear it more. I also bought a regular brim black fedora with a red feather but I feel kind of pretentious wearing it. I wish I didn't because I really like it.
