I once had a conversation with my ex and she explained why she liked me after rejecting so many other guys. Being mysterious and not trying so hard to win her over is the key.
1. Ignore logic. She falls in love with how she feels when she’s with you. Never try to rationalise why she should like you. Believe in your own value. 2. Don’t tell her your feelings. Show your interest through actions not words. 3. Avoid long, frequent text convos phone convos. 4. Don’t be available all the time. Create a life you truly are enjoying living. 5. Ignore her social media. Let men in friend zone do that. Don’t care about her friends opinion of you. 6. Don’t save her. Don’t be her therapist, father, etc. Love is not heavy. Love is light and fun. 7. Avoid serious deep heavy conversations. Serious/deep/negative destroys love. Life brings enough. 8. Avoid gimmicks like overpriced colognes. 9. Do not give her expensive dates and gifts. However, gold diggers will like it. 10. Wishful thinking doesn’t work.
I actually disagree with number 7 because that depends on the women. There are some women who are very deep and seem to like men who are like that as well. Agree with everything else, although one would have to be stupid to think that rhino horns or wishful thinking worked.
Number 7 is way off base. If you are unable or unwilling to engage in deep conversation you will not be taken seriously as long term relationship or marriage material.
1) trying to convince her to like u 2) telling her how u feel about her 3) long text conversations 4) being available all the time 5) no comments on her S.M. 6) don't save her / W. K. 7) have fun/no serious conver 8) using smell 9) no expensive rest. / gift 10) wishful thinking
I'm a 65 year old man I keep in good shape I date young women I date women my age. But the one thing you have to understand about any relationship specially LT r's You have to have the strength to walk away When necessary I learned this rule back in my early twenties and it has never failed me since. There is always another woman on the horizon
Tony Coronado So true, Tony. I know not to chase women. I tell my 12 yo son never to be too available and never reveal his feelings. He’s never too young to learn. The confidence that comes with being in great shape and smelling nice and looking good is worth all the efforts. I’m 61, and my gf now and the one prior are both 35. A good sense of humor is a major plus
I'm so lucky most of those things i did in dating even before i stumbled on videos such as this. In fact, i nailed it and now seeing this validates what i did on dating women. This 10 system is super 101% effective. I dated girls 20 years younger than me.
There a fine line in this. Because the way women's behave we acting in a way that if we push to hard she send you to fly, and if you do nothing there is a possibility that she'll send you to fly too. There is a very delicate balance in all of this. And all because they way women's expectations from her inner world.
I asked the girl I am seeing to go on a third date, she said she already had plans so I said no worries let's talk later have a good evening smiley face. Next day she's texts good morning and then texts me all day long with specific details about how her day is going. Jim is a genius :)
I completely disagree with the point 2. Non-verbal communication is for animals. If she loses interest after I told her that I like her/I want to be in relationship with her, then she should live among the animals. We are humans, so we should communicate how we feel, especially if we see signs that she likes us too. A mature woman will appreciate it, a low-quality harlot will lose the interest.
Guys we as men are success objects. Focus on yourself gents focus on becoming more. Focus on your purpose this will increase your smv which will attract more attractive women. Irish Redpill Dating Coach
Is androgyny the synthesis of the two that we do have biologically? My question leads me to wonder if your comment is one reason for LGBTQ+. Is that movement disrupting or unifying the social fabric?
On the contrary, love is serious, and that's exactly why relationships nowadays are so often breaking and unhappy overall, cause everyone thinks love is just for fun
That's so easy to tell a woman how you feel if your really attracted to her. I hope how said something came out more like a compliment to this woman I'm interested in. I'd hate myself so much if I've already pushed her away, if I stay quite for a few days, I'm hoping I'll get a response soon. I've watched the other videos and since I'm just getting to know her I'm hoping my positive s are more than the few silly mistakes I've made. I read back on the messages I sent and its not loads but its so typical to think I'm just showing more interest where actually it could push her away. Since these videos have a lot of helpful tips and advice I want to to what is the best and right thing so ill hear from her again soon.
I agree with you completely! I have guys tell me outright that I am his girlfriend in front of the whole class and then call me all sorts of names that are reserved for lovers. I don’t know this guy other than having classes with him and I was not interested with him in the first place and then to have him say that I am his girlfriend... I made sure that we don’t cross paths
There is no such thing or step that will make a girl like or want you.. This are all natural event in life.. have you ever seen a Criminal or a drug dealer having girlfriend? yes they have and even they are a bad person, a girl still likes them. So even you turn into a very good person if a girl is not interested in you she never be. You don't have to change and be a better man to all girls just to like you. Eventually even you do nothing there's a girl out there that will still like you for who you are..
Oh lordy! I swear I like all these things that aren't supposed to attract me and I am repelled by men who don't try to qualify, win me over, take me out, contact me, act like they enjoy when I contact me and don't play head games. I'm into intelligent men and when men play games or aren't acting like they're interested this makes me feel like they are into psychological immature head games.
I normally like your info a lot--but this is a mixed bag of sabotage & useful. As a woman, I perceive a guy I like as instantly creepy when he just PRESUMES that I like him too. I don't know if their hormones or egos take over, but making assumptions & dismissing the amount of interest a girl has in a guy is a terrible way to start. The guy HAS TO articulate his feelings after we spend some time together so we can level-set, & it makes me feel safe & respected if he risks his emotions too. And, he does need to be a little more avail than you advised or else I'd feel like an option instead of a priority. Those are the 2 biggies that are majorly sabotagey. Plus, can you please clarify how EARLY (or LATER) in the relationship you mean for each piece of advice? 'Cuz many of these things are terrible early on when 2 people already have something good, but it just hadnt been explored yet. Thanks for your time & open-mindedness to this feedback!
Thank you for your point of view. Most of the things he says not to do are the very things I LIKE to do for someone I'm interested in. I like giving unexpected small gifts not because I feel I need to to win her over but because it comes to me and I want to.
Coffee dates on 3 first dates or she's a possible gold digger? If a lady asked me to meet her for coffee 3 times in a row, I'd dump her because of how boring she is. You can take someone out and have fun without spending a lot of money. Pretty good advice overall though.
Great video bro! Inspired me to make a spin-off of my own, I ain't stealing nothing though because I already know all this sh*t, being red-pilled for so long it baffles me that some of these dudes still don't know the basics, I guess that's why they require knowledgeable men like you & I.. All 110% FACTS btw brother!!
What if you’re in a relationship with a woman and she asks you how you feel about her? Then should I be real? An ex of mine also wanted me to show more emotions because she wanted to know how I felt about her
Hey about number 3. I don’t have many options when it comes to avoid texting/calling too much. I’m dating a girl over distance so i can’t take her on dates that often. Any suggestions on what to do instead? She’s always texting me first btw
You are getting her none sexual attention. Women need lots of that. But trust me brother someone is getting her sexual attention. What is the benefit for YOU in this situation? Ask yourself that. Guard yourself! Stay up! But always stay wise! #YOUFIRST
first date timing placed against a 75 year marriage is such a radical chasm it really forces a grand canyon in your advice. Then (now), while writing this I'm listening to you working hard to debunk rhino horn... okay 9: no on expensive dates; good. But seriously I thought it was going to discredit the mysticism of matching zodiac signs... oh god! what's 10 gonna be?
Researching for a handsome Buddy of mine haveing issues to attract women... the more i know women, and how complicated "it shall be" - the more find it disgusting and meaningless.. i am glad i found a "real" woman without all that games, we didnt need to play games like childish teenies - there used to be a song in the 80ies.... "Love is a Battlefield" enjoy...
Ok, on saving a girl. One morning I left my cabin to search for firewood. Along the forest road I came upon a woman waving me down. I pulled up and she told me she was lost and had spent the night in the woods, "Can you help me?" Sure I helped her and took her back to my cabin and fed her and we talked all afternoon. Are you telling me I shouldn't have saved the chick?
Not what he is talking about. If she text after an encounter and she apologized for saying something (as an example) don't rescue by dismissing it. Make a little fun of her or let her hang on it.
I had someone show extreme interest in me last night. I was karaoking and she caught me coming off the stage with a huge beautiful smile. My first mistake was telling her why she wouldn't like me(I'm stupid sometimes like that). I told her she would probably not like me smelling like smoke. Surprisingly she said she was about to go outside and smoke so we both got up and went outside to smoke(I started back 4 weeks ago). My second mistake was the KILLER. I thought the conversation went well at the time but looking back on it, I spent a lot of time qualifying myself. I only got her name while outside. I'm at the bar waiting for a beer and she starts chatting while she also stood waiting. I asked what she wanted and bought her a beer. Then told her I wanted her number later. Later she got mine and pretended to text me but I never got a text. :(
Number 9 is slightly wrong. Having money CAN help. Not with just gold diggers. It is a part of the package that shows your value as a man. High value men get better girls. Taking them to coffee is fine, but that doesn’t mean you need to pretend you’re poor or something.
The Number One problem so many men have, is to accept the fact that a woman does not like them. If only men would forget the women who don't like them, or who don't want to be in love with them. Although I've been there myself, and it's not an easy thing to do. You fall in love with a woman and you want her and you just cannot make yourself NOT love her.
Just be your best self. If she likes you and you like her, things will just naturally flow. You don’t need a set of 10 rules that sound an awful lot like gamesmanship. And if she doesn’t like you, don’t worry about it; she’s not the right one for you. You’ll eventually find someone who does like you for who you are. It would be a tragedy if she fell in love with you only to find out later that you’re a fake.
I have some serious health issues and some (my inability to be in loud places even with ear plugs) come up early and are hard to avoid.. I have serious cardiac issues, most of my family is dead...at 57 I have to work hard on my health (to stay alive), I eat an extreme hard heaIthy diet, take a lot of meds, see doctors alot, I am acutely aware of death, I can't do nightlife and many others things etc etc. I try to avoid these heavy things but some of them just come out in the wash. I am pretty intense and probably not the funnest or lightest guy to be around
so what shall i do i been out with a women for over o month withing that time fallen out with me and blocked me on whats up saying its not working she has no feeling for me then went back again with she after week went hers then in middle of night after she got what she wanted asked to leave i asked if there anything she said no i cant sleep at night i dont like keep you a wake then i gone home in the morning she blocked me again she dont wana be with there no feeling i tried text her so many time never answer what is the solution ??? as i like very much
depends on culture to culture... this information is absolutely useless in some culture. and thr r men in my culture who tries to follow few of these rules and tries to act or judge accordingly faces failure. for example in our culture good marriagable men talks and discusses deeply with women during first initial phase...and that creates an image of a marriagable good man. and some men jus tries to analyze a women by using these tactics and if a women doesnt show interest they think its time to move on, but our culture women r not gonna show interest, atleast not the majority. so these doesnt apply to indian culture and othr asian cultures and some other societies of teh world.
These are all great tips for dating but when you are married to them for 15 years and then they rip your heart out when they cheat on you.....well, that'ts a different video!
What advice would you give if you were with a stunning lady for 6 years but you knew her mum was very needy and when I say needy I mean phoning up 13 times on a Sunday morning just to see when her daughter was coming around but now her mum has leukaemia her daughter has now moved in with her mum meaning me and my lover are no longer together, I still love this lady I’ve know her in total for 28 years and the last 6 of them we were an item until her mum wanted even more attention, to those who say you’ve escaped, when you love someone it’s hard to let go, my lover can’t even text me due to her mum and I’ve seen her mum have a go at my lover for being on her phone this is after 9hrs of being with her mum just sitting in her mums living room doing nothing other than watching the television
I done all these traits to the last girl I talked to 1, 2, 3, and 4 I still slept with her 100x I guess she just liked me so much but I do realize I was digging myself a grave when it came to other women so I quit trying to impress women. I'm just letting you know anything is possible
What could it mean when a woman tells you that she just got out of an abusive relationship and doesn't want to have anymore kids, all within the first 10 minutes of the first conversation? Could this be a counter-intuitive way to create more interest (no more kids) or a tactic to end any thought of a possible relationship. Is she sending mixed signals or setting boundaries?
i'm a woman & i would want a man to do most of those....what's wrong with long deep talks?! is this guy suggesting women just want superficial bullshit?!
There was this Woman that worked at the same Job as I , I liked alot ... She was starting a New Job & was Short On $ ...I gave her $200.00 .. Two Reasons ...I know how It Is when you start a New Job And don't have $ And Have to wait at least 2 to 3 weeks before you receive you 1st check..Pluse I liked her ...I wrote her a Letter And made It Very clear I wasn't trying to buy her affections..Was giving her the $ a Mistake... ?
I say to my crush I like her and she refuses me...because when you have some feelings, you become an idiot and you can not control yourself all the time...my good so stupid you become...:))...and in this situation it is better to refuse you and mind of your own business...and try again with someone else...
