Agreed. I’m just here trying to see what is going on. Men study everything except- how to be a good companion, and then act like we are the Aliens. Lol. It would so funny if it weren’t so true. I still like men though. Bless my wee heart. ♥️
Man... The shit we have to do... I recently had a fight with my current gf, and I somehow managed to show her my needy side. If only I had discovered this channel before, it wouldn't have happened. Now imma binge everything.
This is by far better dating advice than all the other dating channels I watched that gave clickbait and "techniques" or mind games. Thank you for being honest and all this useful information!
Seen a bunch of your videos, I agree with most of them but the idea of not having a sarcastic sense of humor. Teasing in general falls under being sarcastic in most women's eyes. That's why you see dating profiles where they state they are sarcastic or like sarcasm in general.
Can go both ways...my female friend used to be a somewhat over-the-top sarcastic biotch...but then with negative relationships and some self-reflection+humble pie...she lightened up and found a quality guy working in IT who is now an electrical engineer. Also, he's not whipped...she respects and appreciates when he takes the lead. As she said, "It's a relief not being a bitch anymore!"
I'm glad she reformed herself into someone new. Plenty of woman, especially the attractive one, have not progress their mental intelligence and it seem like it stops in their teenage years since too many simps are pursuing them. She's very rare, honestly, no matter she's attractive or not.
The best advice I could give men is to stop pursuing women! Stop making women a top priority. Stop worrying about how to attract women. Focus on your passions and goals and building a happy successful life. Travel and explore new destinations. Try new hobbies. All of these things will naturally make you a more fun and interesting person. Attracting women shouid come natural and not feel forced. If you are happy with your life then it will be easy to attract women. But the goal is to focus on you and improving your life not women.
Sarcasm is a skill not everyone knows how to use. You can be very playful with sarcasm. And it works. Most guys just don’t know how to use it in a playful matter. Watch guys like Craig Ferguson. Learn from these people. Jim has great advice, but the worst part of his videos are his cringeworthy examples. Learn from life, carefully watch guys that are successful and chose the ones you already can identify with. Self reflection is key. And learn to laugh about yourself. It’s very attractive. I’ve seen it with other guys and had great success myself.
Hey Jim, I would like to see a video segment on examples for open ended conversational topics. And a segment on some examples of playful teasing. For some reason these things are very unnatural to me and I’m a very political informational person so dating is super tough. Thank you for these great segments.
If you fake your personality from the beginning, how can you make a relationship last? Isn't it just better to be yourself? It must be exhausting faking all the time... Don't you think women notice that you aren't genuine? Or are these advice just for ons?
Susanne Tillberg all these dating coaches think they are all-knowing. There’s no one set of rule. We love or seek relationship for various reasons because why gives what meaning...
@@FofXequalsYnot First you'd have to posess the capacity to comprehend them, which isn't granted as the matter is starkly abstract. Going off your grammar I reckon you don't even understand English properly so how could you ever arrive at the conclusion that the author thought himself all knowing? You couldn't.
Jan Lycka i would love to school you briefly. A woman saying yes to your advances depend largely on her state of mind as at the time of your approach. Come with any of these paradoxes she can repel you by wanting just one half of the paradox. Approaching her with clashing persona can turn her off...
@@Borrow919 it's not hard but a man must ask himself is the woman the only price what does she bring to the table isnt the man equally a price and worth the chase and pursuit? After a certain age a woman hit the wall like a crash test dummy or already had an abundance of kids so who is the one that should be pursued where for if I wanted a one night stand I easily would find one walking down the road for far less money and no baggage just for the smash
@@FofXequalsYnot indeed lol us men need to realize that women cant hold us high value or any men hostage with their cash register between their legs the world is ours :)
You said judgement and sarcasm aren't playful and that they are low-status behaviors and then proceeded to give 0 reasons why you believe this. People are playfully sarcastic all the time in a flirtatious manner and do so on utter instinct without any studying of romance/pickup/etc mind you. Care to explain?
The women i like is my friend and also ver best friend is my friend we all time hangiut as 3 even she accept as 2 that guy insist to come cause he is a nice guy and like her too
bad video esp not judging . if they cant hande your boundaries they arent attracted enough to care. so whats the point of a man dating them without stepping on landmines unless you are there for a quick lay
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Man get your brain into gear stop repeating your bloody selves get to the point u give the impression of being very backward dum stupid ie many of u speakers
If you wait 4-10 days to ask for the second date, she'll be gone fishing. A good salesman gets commitment for the next meeting. Perhaps "Hey how about I call you on Thurs and see what your weekend is like?" will strengthen your hand.
