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10 Things The INFJ Personality Type Hates

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10 Things The INFJ Personality Type Hates | Things INFJs hate are often very different from things that the other personality types can't handle, and that's because the INFJ is the world's rarest personality type, meaning they have very unique ways of viewing and navigating through life.
INFJs are empathetic givers who hate.. hate. So, it's ironic that INFJ pet peeves all have to do with people being ingenuine, rude, or taking more than they're giving. According to the Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator (MBTI), this rare personality type craves balance, harmony, and hard work and when they feel someone around them manipulating these aspects of their lives, it's no doubt they will resort to the INFJ Door Slam.
So, whether you're an INFJ who is confused as to why you find yourself so disappointed in humanity, or if you're a friend of an INFJ who seems a little cranky at times, you'll probably relate to most of these 10 things the INFJ personality type hates.
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@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Hey PSYCH-Os! *Do you hate these things as an INFJ Personality type?* Comment down below 👇 PS. Don't forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with a friend! Thank you for all your support 🙏

@martineyman1132 3 года назад

No self hate here

@Protectedbikelanes 3 года назад

Take what people say with a grain of salt. As for #10 is a big one. Cruelty is a big NO-NO!

@momo92051 3 года назад

Your hastag is incorrect. Its MBTI not MTBI

@velvetbees 2 года назад

No. I rely on these things. They are my radar.

@unseenhero7498 2 года назад

Actually. I like because I can’t stand evil people

@deyamay3936 3 года назад

1. Deceit and manipulation 2. Small talk 3. People who take more 4. Consistent or long-term chaos 5. Arguing for the sake of arguing 6. Prolonged periods of no alone time 7. Being challenged to compromise their values 8. Harsh or unnecessary criticism 9. Ulterior motives and ingenuine kindness 10. Cruelty in any form

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

🙌

@yesindeedio4549 3 года назад

Thank you!

@Dancestar1981 2 года назад

Sounds like me

@FallenSummer84 2 года назад

Thank you.

@cyreneB 2 года назад

who likes those things though?

@allisonr646 3 года назад

INFJ here & I hate pranks. Even if it’s considered “funny or harmless”, I hate it. I feel empathetic towards the person getting pranked. I don’t take part of it & can’t watch pranks shows.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Totally! Empathy towards the person being prank is a given - great point 🙌

@LoveAllCreations 2 года назад

Yip, I agree, pranks on people are just mean in my opinion.

@melmor5075 2 года назад

I completely agree! Unless, it's pranks against theives, so when they steel a purse or backpack that was left unsupervised, and quickly run to a hiding spot, open the bag and POOF!!! Powder or shaving cream explodes in their face!! Lmao!! 😂😂😂

@tdsollog 2 года назад

Totally agreed. I despise pranks! It’s mean and cruel, for the amusement of the prank-puller.

@literalammar9259 2 года назад

Same. Even there is emotional that it's funny for other. I'm easily get hurt.

@Shawn_Carley 2 года назад

It’s almost therapy reading the comments on all the INFJ videos I’ve been watching recently. Instead of feeling “alone in a group”, reading how many others are actually out there like me makes me feel like part of a group, while alone (if that makes sense)

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

It makes total sense, thanks for sharing 🙏

@m.amberpfeiffer262 3 года назад

This is 100% correct. As an INFJ, it is a constant struggle just to co-exist among a civilization of mostly selfish people. We observe behaviors that fill us with sorrow and grief. For myself, I find that people make simple situations much more difficult than they are and it is very frustrating to me. INFJ's know when a person is being authentic and when they are holding back. Deception is inexcusable to an INFJ and will result in ties being severed.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Well said, my friend! You are exactly correct 💙 🙏

@m.amberpfeiffer262 3 года назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@wk1810 3 года назад

Before I jump to judegement, I let my intuition tell me if it is deception or really something else

@cecechatmon5187 3 года назад

Oh my gosh, you are my people! I have found my people!!

@ajmiranda455 2 года назад

so true

@ForABrighterTomorrow 3 года назад

As an INFJ-A....Breaking my trust is a major thing! And I agree with everything said 1000%!!!!!!

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Totally, I am the same type myself and trust & honesty comes first before anything else when it comes to a connection, thank you for your comment!! 💙

@ericabalko916 3 года назад

Once someone shows me I can’t trust them its done.

@iamzarra8905 3 года назад

I am also an INFJ-A

@darryharris4737 3 года назад

@@iamzarra8905 I am an infj as well right now as I right I am watching alot of video on the topic of infj everything so far is accurate

@pablomena5343 3 года назад

I'm a Infj-T

@jesusdiedforyou777onlyway 3 года назад

I agree, as an INFJ, I cannot fake being around someone if I don’t care for them, I’d rather not talk about them either until I sort it out. What I don’t like is when people take your kindness for weakness, and when they do I’m finished.

@jeannetteviviers9851 Год назад

If I don't care (dislike) someone I cannot look at them; it makes me very uncomfortable

@jin13i6 2 года назад

100x100% true 😅 I used to think I was just being overly critical of other people. It turns out, as an INFJ, we could see through other's intentions. True enough, we only keep a few in our circle. Engaging with the rest seems pointless.

@cyclonemt 2 года назад

We should still be careful though with judging people's intentions entirely. For example, a person may be being manipulative which is unnerving, but behind that also may be good intentions in their own moral sense even though we may disagree and dislike it. I've found that trying to think of the good intentions also behind things or just excuses for others will help me to balance out my emotions and sensitivity and feel better, more positive, less judgemental, more loving. This I try to do for my relationship with God first and foremost and it has also been helping all other relationships. At the same time, as an INFJ I try to use those heightened senses of ours to try to hone in on what's really going on so that I can help others and myself as much as possible

@annoldham3018 2 года назад

People who say "can I just stop you there?" are difficult for me to work with. It's obvious that they don't listen 🙄. I usually say "no, you can listen and then I will listen to you, it's called a conversation ".

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Oh that's the worst 🙄

@leogage5842 2 года назад

Right? Ugh! It’s the worst or “can I interject?” So annoying!

@hannaha188 3 года назад

Small talks omg so painful Truth, honesty, accountability.

@janmots2829 2 года назад

This is very accurate, for some reason when someone is being ingenuine with me I think to myself "OK, what do you want from me? Just skip past the chitter chatter and get straight to it." I also try to avoid conflict because I can sense vibes from people when it feels tense. 😳

@TrashTrackers 2 года назад

Ya I tend to lose myself after the hello, good to see you

@Viral757_ 3 года назад

i can't thank you enough for ranking "deceit & manipulation" at #1. double standards are always the deal breakers. 🍁🍁🍁

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Well said! Thanks for watching 🙌

@petratimper 3 года назад

This is the most accurate description of everything I truly hate! Finding out my personality type has really helped me understand myself and why I have so much trouble connecting. I just can't stand the superficial conversations people seem to be content with in their lives. It is so boring!

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Thank you for your comment! Yes, I totally agree lol. When you discover you're an INFJ, a lot of things start making sense 😅💙

@petratimper 3 года назад

Yes! A total game changer for me. Thank you so much for these videos!👍

@katekelly6145 2 года назад

Totally relate to what you are saying-; haven't heard my inner world described so accurately... would seem I am a classic infj. Good to know.

@kdkaboom55 2 года назад

The small talk thing is the only one I disagree with. I don’t hate small talk. It just didn’t make sense to me for a long time. I think it was because I was taking too long to try to compose my replies in my head, because subconsciously I knew that I had a hard time making myself understood. But other people would just kind of word vomit their way through a conversation and they were fine with whatever nonsense came out. So I’ve had to practice a ton to be better at small talk, and to not overthink my replies to questions that are very low stakes and ultimately unimportant.

@inyoureyes25 2 года назад

Boring..truth!! I finally blurted to a friend, “do I really have to listen to this!”

@shiorishiro2312 3 года назад

As an INFJ Prolonged periods of no alone time is something that really irritates me 😅 I hadn't realized it until now, sometimes I just felt angry out of nowhere and overwhelmed

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Yup classic introverted intuitive trait. You need time to process information and recharge!

@snoozebutton23 3 года назад

Truth!!! I become edgy and get anxious if i cannot get my down time.

@ForABrighterTomorrow 3 года назад

😣 Recently I felt burned out! No alone time, since I'm a mom, and stress building up over time. Finally had 4 hours to myself and now I feel a bit better. ☺

@shiorishiro2312 3 года назад

@@ForABrighterTomorrow Taking care of children is always stressful, and as a mother, it's like a full-time job, so it's great that you've had time to relax [●´︶｀●]

@pablomena5343 3 года назад

@@shiorishiro2312 ;-; and I wish there was a second season of no game no life as a Infj-T I'm sad all I watch is born in a different world animes

@TheDarkness1 3 года назад

Pet peeves: hypocrites, no self awareness, people driving under the speed limit in the fast lane, and closed minded people.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Lol yup, pretty much sums it up 😂

@nicky9148 3 года назад

Ditto with this right here.

@origin4125 3 года назад

On point

@angelaartist7091 3 года назад

Well i guess i mean im an infj and while yes these things do anoy me. I do these actions to often myslef that i feel guilty saying they anoy me. macking me the real hypocrite, wich is funny cause that was at the top of your list

@jotiqueharlee9714 3 года назад

Oh my gosh I hate hypocrites

@MW-on1ft 2 года назад

An INFJ here all these are 100 percent accurate with me. #1, deceit & manipulation is the number one deal breaker for me. When someone lies or deceives me, or tries to manipulate me I'm DONE with them I slam the door closed! Any trust or respect I may have had for such person is GONE, dead and there is no coming back. I can be a great friend to have, but when I've been crossed, it's over I'm done.

@jbeezyproductions2580 3 года назад

"Where are you from? What do you do for a living? How's work been?" Go away.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

😂

2 года назад

Spot on. Also, as an INFJ, I find the loud background music extremely annoying. Couldn't wait for the video to end. Attack on my nerves. If you must put it, lower the volume. I personally, could easily listen to the video without the background music.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

We've changed that for more recent videos - I hope you can enjoy a little better 🙌

@cookiecutter344 Год назад

I find loud noise of any kind intrusive, overwhelming, and it distracts me from functioning efficiently; I call it noise pollution, and escape the city, immediately after work.

@cinnamonswirl4490 3 года назад

Liars, cheats, dishonesty, disrespect, rudeness, selfishness, egotistic, shall I continue? lol

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Hahah sounds about right! 😂

@cinnamonswirl4490 3 года назад

And loud, noisy door slammers, obnoxious car hooters with the windows open and the bass booming from 3 streets away, people that shout across at midnight to their door neighbours, dogs barking at the moon and foxes mating calls, oh the joys of being an INFJ'S or a grumpy old so and so 😃😂

@cinnamonswirl4490 3 года назад

Apart from that we are very tolerant pleasant polite caring people 😃😅❤

@ukemochi9082 3 года назад

Basically the today's society implicit rules 😅 I fell you!

@whitecornelia12 2 года назад

That’s so enough!!! 😂 summing up cruelty in all forms irks INFJ

@AMysticalJourney88 3 года назад

I'm a Heyoka INFJ. Boundaries an alone time are a must. I don't do the news in anyway. Lies, manipulation, and non genuine behavior or comments throw up all kinds of flags for me. Falling in love with someone who was a narcissist, definitely drove me to extreme levels of sickness. All of this resonates so deeply with me.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Amazing.. thank you for sharing your insights as an INFJ.

@cnmxproductions11 2 года назад

Agreed, I'm just now getting into all this personality type stuff and discovering there are other people who think like I do. Who knew...

@melmor5075 2 года назад

I just recently learned that I have the Heyoka traits, I have just started learning about my true abilities, and how to use them. I am horribly co-dependant on a guy that I've given almost 5 years of my "fresh start", after separating from a 24 year alcohol induced, abusive marriage. I'm starting to think he is a well practiced Covert Narsisist, that has never been found out. A battle is brewing, he is trying to discard me at the moment, but I am every emotion times 1,000 and not going to let him dictate my future, going homeless again, without a fight. Every person that knows him, my (entire hometown) will know what he is and what he's done! I'm a bit frightened though, he has already destroyed my reputation, self confidence, and pride. He pre conditioned every person he talked to, to dislike, even hate me. So I'm gonna need proof and prayers to successfully"out" this bully that I stupidly still love. 😥

@Akira-si9wh 3 года назад

Infj's like ambivert personality type and there's no in between. Hahaha we always tend to weigh things before we come to a conclusion.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

You're so right! 😅

@whitecornelia12 2 года назад

Yes weighing things. Our intuition is there but gathering evidences and observing unnoticeably to prove that we are so right!!!! Then we proceed to the conclusion.

@iamedwardblack 3 года назад

I LOVE MAKING PEOPLE HAPPY, I ALWAYS GET TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF ALL OF THE TIME. I REMIND MYSELF, I WILL GET MY TIME TO SHINE ON MY OWN DIME

@DaveRod76 3 года назад

I would actually like to talk to someone who consistently places in the INFJ personality type, just to see in person someone who is almost exactly like me, and if we have had similar life experiences.

@elgranmambutu8266 3 года назад

Yo en los tests de mbti doy infj pero no me fio mucho de los testes, he hecho muchos y alguna vez he dado infp. Creo que es guay para hacerte una idea para conocerte a tí mismo y entender que hay genta que no funciona de la midma manera que tu. Personalmente hay cosas de los videos que hablan de infj que dan en la diana, por ejemplo mi frustracion ante las criticas, el tipico infj door slam, mi miedo al fracaso y a los conflictos, sobre todo cuando siento Que hay un conflicto latente que va a explotar en cualquier momento. Pero bueno, tengo la sensacion que estos testes pueden conducir a que nos forcemos para encajar en la personalidad que hemos dado. Además, me da la sensacion que el mbti y todo el contexto de youtube o paginas que se le asocian encaja con una manera anglosajona de ver las cosas.

@Steve-tq5ei 3 года назад

same here!

@orciawazhere 3 года назад

Same. I'm still a teen so i'd love to meet some adult infjs and listen to their advices :)

@Steve-tq5ei 3 года назад

@@orciawazhere That would be awesome intel!

@TheDarkness1 3 года назад

@@orciawazhere 45 yr old INFJ. Been writing a lot of poetry lately of life lessons plus some past personal struggles. If interested in reading, link is on my YT under the about tab

@kathyhughes8196 2 года назад

Particularly from #5 forward, dead on. Fake kindness makes me nauseous, and having to compromise my values ... well, I can't hardly do it. Really good stuff, want to send it to my family, my boss, and co-workers .... maybe I won't do that ...

@albertr.2576 2 года назад

I absolutely hate these 10 things as an INFJ. It was quite the aha moment when I finally learned that I was an INFJ/empath and hsp (this partly explained my feelings of detachment and feeling out of place). I also struggle with the group mentality other types display (gossip) and their apparent inability to be independent thinkers.

@ezekielmoore4081 2 года назад

I recently discovered I am a INFJ-A/INFJ-T and I'm now searching for a better understanding of myself, I'm 54 years old and most of my life I just thought I was different from everyone else. Now I know why, because I am different.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Amazing - it can be an enlightening experience for sure. We hope our other INFJ videos find you well in your self-learning journey! 🙏

@TheMrpiggy6666 2 года назад

As much as I agree that deceit and manipulation are things we despise I also find I usually anticipate it before it happens so it loses any shock value...depending on the person involved I have strategies to protect myself... however if you are in a relationship this becomes much tougher to deal with as you often know you will yield to avoid any conflict or perhaps more accurately you yield for the sake of peace

@lavapopsicle203 3 года назад

"stuck in a limbo of knowing the right action" T_T

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Yup.. a clear INFJ sign 😅

@lavapopsicle203 3 года назад

@@PSYCH-O any tips for how to better my intuition\my trust in it?

@soloslave1985 3 года назад

@@lavapopsicle203 here are some quotes that help me “ That thing that you call intuition? It is your soul. You can trust it. “ I’m not sure who said it. This one is by Eckhart Tolle. “Rather than being your thoughts and emotions, be the awareness behind them.” You should always trust what your feeling. I know easier said than done. However if it’s a feeling that’s nagging you, you can’t break away from it for longest than a few minutes at most a few hours. That is your gut, your instinct, your soul, in essence the essence of yourself. Letting you know what’s up. I hope this helps even a little:) take care

@BrainPill 3 года назад

What INFJ need to be happy. Please watch and comment if you are able to relate. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-i2Zb5uqZSgU.html

@jamielake-boyd3600 3 года назад

It's because "WE" ACTUALLY LISTEN!!!!

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

YES - you're so right!! 💙🙏

@jesusisthesavior2110 2 года назад

As an INFJ, i totally agree 100% with this, and thru experiences as i am getting older, i am really good to set boundaries, especially when someone challenge me to comprimise my values, trust me, i will win the battle (this is the time when conflict can't be avoided).

@trulyhuman6227 2 года назад

I totally agree and certainly share the importance of boundaries in my experience as well. If it pertains to values ... There is never a compromise.

@Jeramiahstool 2 года назад

the small talk is so accurate it kills me. I dive in with my deep questions and interests in people and people either get scared off cuz of that or they love it. edit: and the ingenuine kindness one so much. I was being talked to by someone trying to tell me something and they so artificially went 'teehee' it boiled my blood so much. Ingenuine kindness and artificial positive expression of emotion is exactly why jobs that involve advertising and general manipulation of people for your own benefit would kill me.

@BiblicallyHandle 2 года назад

Not arguing for the sake of arguing is HUGE for me. Confrontation is our last resort so it’s hard for us to understand when it’s someone else’s first solution.

@BeGummi 2 года назад

I think my biggest pet-peeve would be the ignorant who refuse to listen and accept new information just because it contradicts with the information they already have. Since I love learning new things if not on daily basis, this type of people really boils my blood.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Spot on! 🙌

@pepercat17 2 года назад

Ugh, the fact that this overlaps with my horoscope- Scorpio- has me over here like "damn...I can't escape it, this is who I am" hahaha

@Realityreallysucks 2 года назад

Scorpio, INFJ, High Empath.. The struggle is so real. 🖤

@unseenhero7498 2 года назад

I don’t speak to 80% of my family for these reasons and I haven’t for years I can’t believe how spot on this is

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

We're sorry to hear that but happy you at least know why 😅

@jameseccles1479 2 года назад

Yes, I'm INFJ. Yes, I relate to all of these things. Especially, I hate cruelty in any form. Especially too, in my own life where my sense of external empathy will make me put in the effort with needy people, not because I want to be liked by them but because I care. Then sometimes the needy person will take advantage of this to the point where I feel used and disrespected and overwhelmed. Sometimes too, the needy person - I can always tell - will see me as a bit of a mug or a sap and won't be aware that I can read this in them. It's that contradiction of caring Fe and insightful Ni. Sometimes too, being lumbered with people who take far more than they give can get so disproportionate, that I simply cut off contact abruptly and altogether - which again, I know is a very INFJ trait. James Eccles

@amistarr4611 2 года назад

As an INFJ, I agree with everything on this video. Especially the manipulation part, I can't stand to see others being manipulated, and I hate being manipulated myself.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Yes! Classic empath trait, kindness all around 🖖

@Starowlnightwatch 2 года назад

Yes and it has special problems! Not always easy to navigate. 🙃

@mai-san23 2 года назад

INFJ-T is what I am. This is so true. I really hate small talks, I like to talk with something that will increase my knowledge and ideas. A balance give and take relationship is what I want as well. I hate conflicts it will just waste my time. And yes more alone time more fun. That is what I really want.

@lorip6790 2 года назад

Absolutely relate seriously with all of this. So difficult to tone my reactions to it all down. Very stressful.

@jessicagoldberg7051 2 года назад

My parents, especially my birth mother, lied and manipulated me most of my life. UGH I hate it and am still dealing with it as an adult.

@jessicagoldberg7051 2 года назад

I am also so sick of being told I am "too sensitive"

@pwgotravelpw2146 2 года назад

I have never been officially designated as an INFJ, but every video description I’ve seen I related to 90% or more of the traits. The annoyances described here are spot on.

@ghabwy9733 2 года назад

I despise manipulation. To an extent, can't help but feel as this is a manipulation in a level I have yet to comprehend.

@kieran1010 2 года назад

I am INFJ-A and this is so completely me!! Until I learnt about all of this, people had trouble understanding me and I had trouble understanding myself sometimes. It's good to know why these things get triggered in me and it helps my friends, family, and people around me to understand where I am coming from. I so need the alone time right now!!! 😁 Thanks for the video!!

@teresafinch7790 2 года назад

I use Smalltalk in two ways, first is like a starter course to the main meal that being the deeper conversation that the Smalltalk can lead into. The other way is to keep people I do t yet trust out. I can say a load of nothing, and use it as a wall.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Those are some great points. Saying a load of nothing for the means of keeping actually important info to yourself - spot on!

@marandaore8044 3 года назад

This guy is like totally spot on with everything.

@epicwolf3 3 года назад

These were truly on point. Especially the challenges to compromise on values and morals, ulterior motives and ingenium kindness, and cruelty in any form. In 2021, I think there is even more emphasis on these particular hates because of how the world is and how single sided people are becoming, instead of openly discussing each perspective in an honest manner. Everything has more then one perspective, but big topics of today only seem to have one side be the focus creating a lot of emotional chaos in our societies.

@BogdanTomin 3 года назад

My ex was an INFJ.. This is exactly 100% what she hated, like unbelievably correct...

@andy1971williams 3 года назад

nice to hear a human voice , especially my own accent . spot on , puts a lump in my throat when someone i've never met describes me down to "T"

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Thanks for the feedback, my friend! I know, when you're introduced to your personality type, you feel as if you're being read like an open book! 💙🙌

@andy1971williams 3 года назад

@@PSYCH-O I'm 49 and only just found about MBTI ! my life makes sense all of a sudden thankyou

@angelus_solus 2 года назад

Arguing for the sake of arguing. That's why I hate debating. I DESPISE debating. Debating is nothing more than a battle of egos to prove one person is right over the other.

@Coopdegras 2 года назад

In the last few days I've put in some research into INFJs after finding out this is me 100 percent having felt like I was from a different place entirely for a long time, this has given me a lot of peace and answered a few questions too. if only I could get my friends/family attention long enough to show them what an INFJ is and that I'm not boring/moody sometimes and on my own for no reason.

@aabhaanil9102 2 года назад

I'm mind-blown by this video. I recently took a personality test and it said I am an INFJ-T, I still had my doubts...not anymore. whatever said in the video 100% true to the core.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Haha yup.. when you know, you know! Thanks for watching 🙏

@joshuaharrison_ 2 года назад

I can't believe how I am completely every one of these, even how these comments are saying what I don't even know how to say. This video is amazing!

@crookedzebrarecords 2 года назад

"Criticism can bring them down, leaving them ruminating for days." I smirked @ days, can be more like years depending on the boundary violation.

@imlearningtoo74 2 года назад

Yh it went on for 16 years with me. Then i got super duper tired. No more stress or mirroring. Im free 13mths now enforcing no contact like a boss...

@joannadavignon1608 Год назад

We’re called rude for setting/ sticking to boundaries

@simontemplar3359 2 года назад

10 for 10! Especially the last one. That is incredibly accurate.

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

We love to hear it - thank you for watching! 🙌

@JessiCat1980 3 года назад

As a textbook INFJ, I agree with all of your list. Loving your videos. Great job!😘🖤

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

We're so glad you like them! Thank you!

@ywschen 2 года назад

Wow, these are spot on! This video has helped me see myself much clearer as I often can’t find the right words to describe myself. Thank you for making this video!

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

We love comments like this - thank you for your feedback 💙

@whitecornelia12 2 года назад

True! Same

@joeyhensley9199 3 года назад

Pretty spot on. Especially the first one.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Awesome! 🙏

@brendonsinger9859 3 года назад

Never compromise! Not even in the face of Armageddon!

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Lol absolutely 😂

@sherryfillman8897 3 года назад

This has been the most like me video that I have found. I could honestly play this video for someone who doesn't get me and I think they'd be like, 😲 oh ok. You're still weird but I understand you a little more. And yet they would still be slightly offended because they'd know they fit into one of those things I find annoying or stressful. 😉

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Hahah so true.. also they'd know that you know way more about them than you're willing to tell them about yourself, which can make people a little uncomfortable 😂 Ooops.. just INFJing 🙆

@btdu2789 3 года назад

Sounds like I found my type.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Awesome!! Welcome aboard, my fellow INFJ! 💙🖖

@murrismiller2312 3 года назад

careful...no none wants to be an INFJ ....it just is given to us by God, and we gotta make the best of it

@559925 3 года назад

@@murrismiller2312 yes, it is a nightmare sometimes

@bryonscheffel7780 3 года назад

Take the test. Don’t go by a video. Hope you are not. Hard to watch people burn and know why and they never listen. Also hard to talk to anyone because no one wants to talk about important things. Always mindless babble about their troubles and experiences. You do not want to be an INFJ.

@cecechatmon5187 3 года назад

@@559925 Agree!

@Coneman3 3 года назад

Injustice and loud, shallow, selfish people. Hypocrisy.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Amen! 🙏

@ju3t1nn 3 года назад

All of these are straight facts, I'm definitely an INFJ

@iamedwardblack 3 года назад

LOVE BOUNDARIES. I never USED to understand that they are not mean in any way. We NEED what WE need. WE give IT so IT better be RETURNED.

@ForABrighterTomorrow 3 года назад

I'm teaching my children boundaries and that Mommy needs alone time sometimes so that I don't go bonkers lol. It helps!

@NubalanceDNAcDc 3 года назад

It gives us Joy to give to Others ..we bend backwards for almost Anyone that needs us.. We know we can't fix Every Problem in the World..but we won't give up trying to help another! It's our mission..and No One Else Can help as best as we can!💯💥

@GhostCrowGamer 3 года назад

Blood boils when I see or hear or read abuse...

@carolmoore1038 Год назад

I don't get distressed, I don't get uncomfortable, I don't get overwhelmed. What I get is irritable and pissed. And then distance.

@sciorteric 2 года назад

We also hate being ignored because we also tend to try to understand why ignoring and we end up overthinking it

@marnawright6519 2 года назад

I tell my husband what I really like about him is how authentic he is. He does not really get that., but he's always his real self and it's very relaxing to be around him.

@ebunmesaiyete 2 года назад

INFJ-T here and I check all of these boxes 100%. I just always thought that these things were (or should be) hated by all humans, I didn't think they were personality related. I'll find things other personality types hate too and see if we have many of them in common with other personality types.

@bethb.6813 2 года назад

Nailed it. Door slammed a long-term relationship who broke me with 4 of these 10 signs of deep disrespect. 😢

@indyannabrown2519 3 года назад

I have barely any alone time as an injf an d I've started hating what I have become

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Yes, I can definitely relate. In a socially demanding and extroverted world, it's so important for us INFJs to set clear boundaries around our time and energy - yet it's much easier said than done. 🙄💙

@withrowjared 2 года назад

This explains how I operate quite accurately. Great video 🤙

@missxspencer1538 2 года назад

First video I've seen that matches with me nearly 100%. Only thing is I welcome criticism. I'm constantly combing myself for imperfections, so I am always nearly begging people to point out my flaws. Everything else? Spot on!

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Thats awesome - thank you for watching!!

@charlieben3672 2 года назад

When trust is broken, there's no second chance. That person is done. Everything said here in this video is true about INFJ.

@mrjmorovis 3 года назад

Run for your life when you think about or say 'soul sucking' or 'vampire about someone you are interacting with or worse in a relationship with.

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Yes! Set boundaries and don't let them down for anyone until you've fully assessed - some call it trust issues, we call it intuition! 👌💙

@jamespurcer3730 2 года назад

I have a really hard time tolerating greedy people.

@ALMAGNZLZ80 3 года назад

I HATE small talk. Like what goes thru your head to say useless senseless words. I agree with this video 1,000,000%

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Thanks for your kind feedback! 🙌

@Glitterytea 2 года назад

As an infj i dare say it’s true that we feel happy when we make others happy but when they want to use this feature of us, we get so disappointed and there is a high chance for us to disappear from their lives.

@motina2960 3 года назад

100% accurate!!! stright to the point!!! That why I'm still single 😭😭😭 Who esle still single?

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

Hahah - well, thanks for the kind feedback! 🙏

@ginahoreczko6112 2 года назад

💯 correct! I’m an INFJ and can completely resonate with all ten. Thank you for the info, it’s nice to know I’m not alone in feeling that way 😎👍🏻👏

@atlantisitecrystal 2 года назад

this is absolutely true . i’m an INFJ / HSP . i hate any form of cruelty towards animals even insects or towards another human. i hate bullies and will stand up for anyone who gets bullied. i don’t like harsh , unnecessary and mean criticism but constructive ones that helps me to become a better person i will listen, and reflect.people who lie, cheat, manipulate for their own personal greed and gains really turns me off! I used to know someone who does that sort of shallow stuffs and whenever that person’s name appear on my text messages notification or in coming calls I began to have this nauseating feeling and even threw up once. it was so bad that i had to door slam that person out of my life immediately. i never had that nauseous feeling when i encounter these kind-of toxic people only this one person i’m not sure why, i literally just threw up. I hope I’ll never cross path with such people in my life ever but if i should , hope i will able to see and acknowledge those red flags and quickly cut them off . the problem with me, i give people too many chances and I’ m always telling myself. to stop over thinking over analysing someone or situation because it’s all in my head and people often tells me i’m overly sensitive but time and time again my intuition proves me right and i’m always ended up telling people this,”see! I told you so!” people do feel intimidated by us especially those dishonest, manipulative and mean people . i will immediately project my thoughts and energy vibe of dislike and letting them know that i know what they are.. and often these people do get uneasy feelings about them being expose’ and will go tell others how judgemental and unaccepting i can be!! been misunderstood countless of times but when the truth is finally out then there i go again!! see!! i told u all so!! then the only response i get is silence!! it’s ok.. because i don’t expect anyone that misunderstood me to understand me . i’m just glad that when the toxic journey ended everyone sees the truth and that’s all that matters.

@LoveAllCreations 2 года назад

Oh my, ... this video pretty much sums me up perfectly! I am often criticised for hating small talk and people see it as 'rude', but I just can't stand it.i want to know what's really going on, who really is this person in front of me. The only difference between me and the video is that my life experiences have caused me to distrust words, because people are often untruthful. So if you pay me a verbal compliment or criticism, then I am expecting to see confirmation of what you said in your actions. Words without accompanying actions are hollow to me.

@daviddansereau1793 2 года назад

I'm a widower who lost his best friend. Now I can't imagine sharing my life with someone!

@t.sritanreddy3348 2 года назад

its hard to believe how accurate this is

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Lol, thank you!

@chrislim7976 2 года назад

Seeing through people is I think a trait I would rather not have. This hope and true happiness for people to be better and just plain genuine keeps us going but it is for the most part a life of shock, disappointment and suffering. At 53 I am probably older than many posters here. Be good to yourselves and hold your values. No regrets. ❤️

@neko.wonwoo 9 месяцев назад

As an INFJ, someone who thinks about my thoughts and actions many times before making a move, I really do have a hard time dealing with people who speak/ do whatever's on their mind regardless of how insensitive they can become. I despise arguments, and I'd rather keep my distance from those people

@rhondahynes8808 2 года назад

These are exactly my pet peeves. I had a supervisor once, who tried to get me to lie so they could fire another worke. I wouldn't do it. I was disgusted by that person's behavior.

@davidsherman7868 Год назад

My mother also loves giving unnecessary criticism. Destructive criticism. Happens far too often.

@C_The_Guy 2 года назад

you can basically just wrap number 1, 2, and 9 into one big atrocious, despicable pet peeve 🤦‍♂️ man it agitates me to no end.

@ravenonthewind6797 2 года назад

Me and my girlfriend were professionally assigned Meyer-Briggs tests and we are both INFJ's lol everything in this video relatable, especially the reciprocation and the "gut feelings" I get about people

@PSYCH-O 2 года назад

Wow, that's super interesting. It must be a deep connection with all of that empathy and deeply-seated thoughts wrapped into a partnership 😊

@ez4164 2 года назад

I always tend to sleep or get irritated whenever my head is crowded with chaotic and unnecessary thoughts and I always thought there's something wrong with me until I found out I'm an INFJ-T and that brought my feelings back up.

@horacepran4667 2 года назад

Thank you

@tiffanycruz6126 3 года назад

Literally me

@PSYCH-O 3 года назад

😂👌

@reksnote 2 года назад

As an INFJ, nothing, NOTHING, triggers me more than not getting enough alone time. I just recently completed 2 months straight of 60 hour work weeks & I don’t understand how I didn’t have a nervous breakdown. The constant interacting with people is so damn draining, I can not stand it.

@Vivec92 2 года назад

INFJ-T here, about the trust breaking part... agree 100% (story below) Last year a group of friends decided to shut me down in conversations and telling me off for joking (harmless non-offensive jokes) and in general push me away for the better part of 4 months, I obviously thought that it must have been something I said to one/several/all of them. So cut to me spending several nights on end rewinding conversations in my head to try and pinpoint my apparent mistake, which ended up costing me my position at a new job due to being exhausted basically all the time. Come to find out later, a guy and a gal in that friend group started having feelings for one another, and they thought that I was interested in her as well... so instead of asking me if I had feelings for her, which I didn't, they decided the best course of action was to do what I decribed above. Even as an INFJ who definitely hates conflicts and confrontations, I do recognize that in certain circumstances, they are important... which is why I decided to talk to them about this whole situation and let them know how disappointed and hurt I felt... the response I got was "stop being so full of yourself and get over it" Needless to say, I cut ties with that group and haven't spoken to them since. Every now and again I get a message where they pretend like nothing happened, but simply don't reply... Bit of a rant, sorry 😅 Moral of the story: don't put up with people who are willing to push you to the side and not own up to it later.

@fatfreegal77 2 года назад

Dang…ya got me! That was SPOT ON!…to the point of me wondering who crawled up into my head? 😱🤪. Holy Sheet!

@hilken Год назад

I agree with all the points. Right now at my job, my boss complains a lot that I look out too much for the customers and thet I should only look out for the business, I've tried explaning her that by looking out to make the customers happy it helps the business too because they are more likely to come back soon, but she just can't see that, and that's only one of her negative points, honestly I'm building confidence to quit because she is in a hard place so I can't get myself to do so now.

@Fiona-xv3st 2 года назад

Whilst I don’t like your images…. It’s disingenuous. Hey I’m an INFJ. Your words hit me in the spot.

@GhostCrowGamer 3 года назад

the thing not to forget is taking a step back and seeing how critical we are of others as they are critical of us. We aren't superior beings and justified in our actions to be hurt others regardless of what they have done to us, including being passive aggressive at the end of the day we are human as well.