@@mollys7319 It’s kinda reasonable if you think about it. I doubt most people who haven’t seen this know this video exists, and not many are gonna go scrolling back 2 years to find it. Reposts so people can easily see things again because there are so many videos makes sense (plus more animators/artists get a chance) but I understand why you would be bothered by that or think it’s lazy and such.
@@gektoast4968 yeah that’s true and I completely agree, but I still kiiiinda feel like reposting old videos is a bit lazy. Yes not everyone may not have seen the old video, so putting it out there again is a way to get it viewed more, however I feel like they could of expanded on it and have a bit more information about the Myers Briggs test. I just feel like they could of gone into a bit more detail and explained it more. Especially because the Myers Briggs test is not actually a proven scientific thing, it’s normally just used as a fun/silly type thing. They made no disclaimer explaining it’s not proven, or anything. I also wished they would of talked a bit about the controversy about that test, because it is vague and it types people by letters rather than using the cognitive functions. They could of just gone into a bit more detail about it all, instead of posting the same video again, it just feels like they didn’t bother
@@mollys7319 it's aight . You can believe or not , i don't really care . I'm just stating the result i got from my test but if you want you can even go ahead and allot me a different mbti personality
@@ymir2372 and what test did do you? Let me guess... the 16Personalities website? The Myers Briggs test is incredibly inaccurate anyway and tends to mistype people. It types people with the letter dichotomy rather than using cognitive functions. So many people in these comments believe they are an INFJ but they actually aren’t.
Fun fact: INFJ are perfectionist about they self, but they are procrastinators Edit: Holy Molly, i see It just now, more then 1MI likes, it's the frist one of my comments that have so many likes, thanks guys
INFJ's like fancy things not to show off or anything like that. We INFJs get those things for ourselves because we actually appreciate the finer details and craftsmanship of the fancier stuff in life. Also, INFJs in general like to work and earn their things, so it feels super satisfying when we get that fancy thing we've been genuinely admiring and enjoy it.
lol when i "look in the mirror", metaphorically, I do find it funny how I like nice things but I usually dont buy/wear them because I dont like the feeling of "envy" and I dont take compliments well. Example: I didnt buy Oakley Glasses to show off my earnings to others. I bought them because they look nice and they seem durable. if im going to make a commitment, Im going "all out" with it.
Well I USED to care about those things. A few years ago I started my minimalism journey (which does WONDERS for our infamous anxiety by the way) and giving less importance to social pressure, consumism, brands…. I still like to have quality items and I value that my (few) things have the aesthetic I like. But it doesn’t have to do with prices, brands or tags.
Me who buy fancy things because I admire them for so long find them interesting but never use or rarely use them and find happiness in little things Some random people: look at them showing off too much Me: stay calm on the outside My mind and my anxiety: wtf who is showing off I just wanted to enjoy things that I bought
INFJ: everything is perfectly organized, my plans are made and now it's time to- Mom: hey aunt Hilda is going to come for the weekend! INFJ: *panik* my plans have been shattered!
Personally I don’t like being an INFJ because it’s easy to connect with people because you can understand them, and change ur actions to better connect with them. However this is pretty draining after a while. On the other hand it’s rare, very rare that you effortlessly connect with someone who understands you in that same way. So in the end you get to know a lot of people but not many people get to know you and it gets pretty lonely ngl.
I think the hardest part of being a rare personality type, is that you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you. To me it doesn't matter what you label it. The infj is but a single label for a very complicated and beautiful person. When you have a personality like that, you already know you don't fit anywhere and people have no idea how to deal with your authentic self. As a child what felt like being an exile hurt. As an adult I understand that not many are comfortable being unable to hide, or lie about who they are. Being transparent and vulnerable is truly terrifying to a large portion of the population, who only survive because of the social masks they've learned to wear.
Yes, INFJs are very complicated. It's true when you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you. And when you try to find people who can satisfy your needs/standards, you end up with nobody, (or at least I do). I also don't have much ideas on how to deal with my authentic self, I literally feel like walking on contradictions as if I was pulled to the left and right directions constantly. I want this, but I also want the other option, lmao
I once received a “comment” during an argument with my close friend: “I think I need more time to understand you. Longer than expected.” That hurt so much and I still haven’t got over it.
1. They’re the rarest MTBI type. 2. They put the “book” in bookworm. 3. They know how to climb the social ladder. 4. They see things and understand them. 5. They love a good puzzle. 6. They’re classy AF. 7. They make routine un-boring.
My coworker is such an INFJ. She uses a different tone of voice when talking to different people- Almost like she adapts to them. And she's always writing things down in her agenda. I wonder how good she is at reading peoples' emotions..including my own.
I was VERY SUCCESSFUL (bio tech medical device sales) - an outgoing introvert, most would not ever classify me as ‘shy’. But I would always quietly leave the after hours Party to get some reboot time in my hotel room. I made a boatload of money, yet as an empath, felt guilt for the high cost to ill human beings the medical inventions I sold were. I am complicated and been divorced twice. Both exes took 100% of the fault (both screwed up royally) yet I realize now how hard I was to be intimate with. They both told me years later that they still loved me. Crazy AF, huh??
As an INFJ I would say we all have a tinge of pride in ourselves and hate ourselves for having that pride. Like we think we're cool but as soon as we glance at ourselves in the mirror we instantly regret feeling confident. Or that is just me-
One of my personal INFJ struggles is that I seek someone similar to myself in meaningful relationships. I expect people to treat me the way I treat them and when they don't I feel disappointed, but I shouldn't expect people to be like me for my own good, given that my personality type is so rare.
@@ejharriettegarcia5253 Exactly.. I treat people the way I want to be treated (Im always very caring, check up on people when they're going through a rough time, give them little gifts that remind me of them) and even though I do that because I want to, its sad when you get nothing in return.
@@ware0081 I'M NOT ALONE 😭..... But now I'm learning to balance things out.. Expectations hurt me. I don't initiate a convo anymore, i let them do it. I only give advice or tips if the person asks for it. And I minimize my outgoing energy if i know it's not worth to be doing for.. Hehe, it seriously helps me tho.
As an INFJ one of the most hurtful things a close friend had told me was "not everyone wants to accommodate to your level of sensitivity" and it just breaks me apart. Truth be told that having a high level of sensitivity is more a curse than a blessing :'(
This is so true, recently I'm at peak sensitivity and sometimes it's for the good like we can empathize with others but most of the times it's for the worst, in the end i feel drained being sensitive about things that don't really matter in long time. Personally I'm not enjoying being an INFJ.
I'm an elderly INFJ-A and still get the you are too sensitive comments. You do learn to keep it more to yourself. I've literally saved people's lives by "seeing" they were in distress and pulling them aside to have a deep personal talk. No one who has ever called me too sensitive knows that. But I do. My youngest child has had the same experience and is probably also INFJ which reminds me that it was more difficult when I was younger.
Its funny how on the outer we might seem as organized and that we have everything planned in detail, but internally we are a mess and tripping over any object in the room
As an INFJ it is actually hard when you know everyone's mood....I mean, there's people with radical change. They charge when you talk to them or any slight movement can change everything. It is terrifying...
I’m an ENFP and I get it ❤️ You guys are amazing at staying composed though, that’s what I really admire about you. But I don’t like how you hide a lot of what you’re feeling and don’t address it with anyone but yourself; that breaks my heart 💔
as a HSP, this sentence is amplified and it's much scarier and it makes me mentally exhausted easily. Yet, they still go around saying i'm special even though i'm trying to talk to someone without burnout
INFJs are literal angels. Y'all are so compassionate and kind- I love you guys 🥺💕💕 -infp Edit: woah I wasn't expecting all this love xD I have three infj best friends (yeah I'm pretty darn lucky xD) and from what I've gathered, the thing they're worst at doing is taking care of themselves. Please remind urselves that ur loved, yall are amazing people who deserve the world. If you're going through something rough right now (as some of the comments hint), it's okay, things will get better even if it takes long. Please look after urselves and do open up to the people you trust without thinking you'd be a burden to them, cuz ur not 💗 I think I just made this comment way too long XD AND OMG GENSHIN FANS??? 👁👁 HELL YEAH!!!!
As an INFJ "when you understand everyone else, but nobody understands you" I think its because we don't understand ourself. To the point we expect others to understand us... As an INFJ I have been trying to work on communicating better what I think I possibly could be feeling. Also trusting someone to just listen and not judge. idk just my thoughts.
I can relate, and as another INFJ I can confirm that sometimes we ourselves can not understand our own thoughts and emotions. So I agree that this is quite true for several people.
"to work on communicating better what I think I possibly could be feeling"... this is so true, I sometimes also feel guilty for being honest then thinking about what I just said and guilt tripping myself that im being an a-hole or expecting too much. We just dont know our own emotions and id love if someone has figured out a way for us to understand ourselves better without paying for a therapist lol
I've never been described as timid, I've always been described as intimidating or scary. When I went homeless last year they called me "super scary guy"
I'm an INFJ-T with people-pleasing tendencies from childhood trauma... As an adult, this has worked to my advantage in a social setting at work because I get along with everyone and can adapt to my coworkers' emotions. But when it comes to working, I feel stretched thin taking on others' work to ensure everything is perfect and everyone is happy.
They copied the same audio from an old video they made. They just copy and recycle old videos. Sorry but I think this channel has become a bit lazy and a lot of people need to start realising ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bNuxqVuV018.html
INFJ SECRET: they can see each person in a crowd and what they're doing..... 🧐 And then they find out people's passwords, but people trust them :) Edit: Thank you for so many likes!! I've never got this many! 🤍🤍🥰
Just a short story time: As an INFJ, when i sense someone pretending to be an INFJ makes me puck ( a college schoolmate did fake to be INFJ to look "cool")
Bro- T H I S It really irritates me tbh, this one classmate of mine really likes to lie like- *Every* *Single* *Time* She's just like your college classmate just sayin' XD - Your fellow INFJ ^^
@@ado9679 People like to be "unique". It seems like a plague, to me. People try to be an INFJ because channels like this throw out too much "fluff" and make us seem like were are some kind of "perfect Angel" or something. WE ARE NOT. I only realized im an INFJ by studying the "Dark Side". I watch these vids in attempt to improve myself. Sure, on the outside the INFJ may seem like someone to aspire to be, but on the inside is a raging storm on the edge of destroying the world. All do to the fact of how flawed humans really are. They are selfish, ignorant and easily manipulated. All we want is harmony, but it will never happen.
Listen, almost no real INFJ or INTJ is proud to be INFJ or INTJ. And the person described in this video could be any other type, because they don't use functions!
@@mollys7319 yeah i realized this video was duplicated or with the same video/audio. kinda disappointing, i wanted to see what more facts they can bring or find out about us.
As an INFJ-A, I definitely recognize myself in these facts. ❤️ Been struggling with my own identity for a long time because I'd never fitted anywhere, been too emotional and a perfectionist, understood people just by looking at them, avoided conflicts and feared to take the call, etc. Once I took the test and did a small research, I realized there was nothing wrong with me. ❤️
Sane type here but "turbulent". Also struggled with my identity all life before recently "opening my eyes" due to a breakout from depression. Just came across this field of psychology yesterday, and the thirst for the truth drove me to dig out everything within a day. Was in denial of the first test result until more research revealing the undeniable. Its just... Me...
Same thing happened with me i was thinking why I'm different what's the problem with me why I'm not fitted anywhere but today I got my answer but it suckes when you understand everyone but they can't understand you, I don't wanna be rare🤧
We cant force anyone to understand ourselves..cuz people only think according to their current mental state and the only thing we can do is to understand and express ourselves and just stay happy being an infj🤝✌
I'm an INFJ and I think the mysterious INFJ comes from our desire to understand but not being really understood. Like, I really like to talk about every day things but sometimes, I just want to talk and discuss deeper issues for hours on end which puts people off, even the people who love me. I keep looking for new and new things that can be common ground between me and others but end up being disappointed everytime.
It was then quarantine days when someone suggests me to try the personality test. At first I didn't mind the result but after knowing that it's the rarest personality, I'm shocked by the result. All I know is that the test helped to know myself better. Anyway, I love the contents in your channel. Keep it up and belated Happy New Year!
1) I'm pretty sure those statistics are old 2) Many personality Types can enjoy reading and everyone has hobbies besides this usually applies more to INFPs, ENFPs and sometimes ISFPs 3) Many personality types try to climb the social ladder I'd say ENFJs and ESFJs more so than INFJs 4) I'll give you this one although this can also work for other personality types 5) This also applies to many types 6) This also does 7) I'll give you this
I found out about a year ago that I was an infj!! Today, one of my friends found out she was as well and I’m so happy. It feels like we understand each other so well :)
AN EVEN BIGGER POSSIBILITY than all the INFJ stereotypes on this video: Many people watching this aren't INFJs but are rather INFJ wannabes looking for the slightest similarities in themselves to fit the INFJ mold. Confirmation bias. Practically EVERYONE in the comments section of INFJ videos claim they are INFJs, which makes you wonder if it really is the rarest type. All personality types are awesome in their own way.
EXACTLY! As an INFJ myself, I'm only here to know more about myself, not see bullsh*t about how special I am! I'm a struggling person trying to get through life and my personality doesn't help sometimes. Thanks for posting this comment, I appreciate it
Its because INFJs are one of the few personality types drawn to this type of research. We actively seek out insightful information such as this. It helps us understand ourself even more in order to make us better equipped to help others.
@@TysonMakoaWickesthat may as well be true. However, it can also come across as insinuating quite dismissively and presumptuously that those who don't flock to the comments sections of these videos are likely not INFJs.
I'm an INFJ. I am really organized with my shelf, the books is arranged meticulously. In my wardrobe, it is arranged per color. Even when I do the laundry. I also love having planners. I create detailed colorful-written plans for the next few years. My things are few but has quality, and neatly arranged. However, after a few weeks it'll be all in a mess, I forget where I put things and I have to reorganize them. My plans are often unrealistic (at the end I have to plan it all over again) Sometimes I replan them too many times because I fail to accomplish them. Why?? Am I really an INFJ? I can't understand myself for so many other reasons.
Psych: infj is very rare Everyone: I'm that!!!!! Edit: Woah was not expecting 100 almost 200 likes thx guys XD Also pls stop saying "of course there's gonna be infj people here" Cuz I heard it the first time and it was just a joke so chill
Actually INFJ aren't much rarer than other personality types. INFJs make up 1.5% of the popularity. ENTJs 1.8%, INTJs 2.1%, ENFJs 2.5%, ENTPs 3.2%, ESTPs 4.3% and INFPs 4.4%. (Please notice that these numbers may not be 100% correct. Source: "MBTI Manual" by CPP)
No, that’s not true! It’s not everyone. It’s just those people who actually thought they might be an Advocate but needed one person to begin with outing him/herself as an INFJ so they find the courage too. As it was already pointed out, you might feel like an outsider being an INFJ. That’s why INFJ‘s gather on the same place, since they can finally speak out what they have been thinking for a long time and are not outsiders anymore.
Because being so curious about ones nature, makes search these topics. Im tired when someone points out the comments of an infj vid being full of infjs... what do you expect?
This is pretty accurate, and another fact: in friend groups we’re generally the therapist friend, so you get a lot of dirt on people that you rarely use.
I recently found the personality test and believe I am an INFJ-A. I am 20 years old and the most helpful kid in the family, or the "doormat" by other relatives and people, as well as the most misunderstood by everyone in the family because I am always experimenting with new " crazy" ideas and am the go-to person when in need. Six months ago, my family discovered that indeed I have a friend with whom I communicate. My siblings began to celebrate for me, but internally I know they were laughing at me. When I hang out with small groups of people, I appear to be an energetic extrovert until my therapy service ends and I become drained from it. Because my target group is an introvert like me, it becomes boring and awkward. So, I start a deep relevant topic that is turned into a debate in which I agree with everything they say but they disagree with my nuances as INFJ to further help them elaborate their points and I am misunderstood and wrongfully labeled ahhhh. The other people believe they have won the argument, but I am thinking internally that I should have let them suffer in awkwardness and boredom because I have lot of fun stuff going on my mind. I think it is critical to get idea who you are so that you can suffer less and stop believing there is something wrong with you. By the way, Quilbot is what I use to paraphrase my words so that I can be understood lol. I'll end here, thank you for reading, and I hope you find some comfort, my fellow INFJs.
Pls everyone who did the mbti test read this!! If you did the 16personalities test there's a 60-70% chance that you are mistyped. That test doesn't have cognitive functions which means that the website is not really mbti(and the plus -T or -A is not a part of mbti). You should do the keys2cognition test. That is the most accurate test I think. (Coming from an ISTJ getting mistyped a lot as ISFJ or INTJ even got INFJ once) And INxxs are the most likely to be a mistype but almost everyone gets mistyped at least once with the 16personalities test. (Btw the key2cognition test it not long 42 short questions but if you are not perfect at english it might be hard to understand what is it asking. I used google to understand and it still wasn't clear what is it so yeah XD ) Btw thanks if you read this, I haven't watched the video yet so idk if they talked about the test. I just saw almost everyone saying that they are INFJs and probably did the 16personalities test because it's the most popular. So yeah bye (Sorry if my grammar is bad :") and I'm not trying to say that no ones here is INFJ, just letting you know that the 16personalities test is inaccurate.)
Thanks for your comment, I’ve taken many tests but not heard of the keys2cognition before I don’t think. I already know I’m an ENFP and have since the beginning of my MBTI journey. Luckily 16 personalities has always been accurate for me, but studying the functions afterwards was rewarding.
sooo I have tried the test and they were right about everything except the sensing part... yeaaaa pretty sure i've always had random thoughts and theories come to me and be turned out right instead of using my brains soooooo I wouldn't call it that accurate but i'll keep this on the back of my mind
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully unique sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So lts break some myths about INFJ Personalty Types. When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not sttempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass. INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss. Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understad', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves. Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strangebecome acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and per you never existed. It never works. INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane. INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows. INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries? INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. However, if they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they lie to protect that person's feelings. INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment and making mistakes. INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriendl' button on Facebook. INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in. Do not mistake a INJ's confidence as egocentrism. There is a difference. INFJ hate themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves. The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care more about other people than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. They are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer. It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group. The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological disorder rather than a Personality dysfunction). INFJ's are not prone violent behavior. The good news is they give up easily, This is where the Door Slam or simply walking away from a argument comes from. If a INFJ loves you, be prepared for lengthy romantic rituals. Box's of candy, flowers, poems, lovely e-cards, teddy bears and such. But be careful. A INFJ understands how to manipulate situations to their advantage. Including the human heart. Once they reveal their true inner nature however, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are just so dam charming. INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted) INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots. Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying. Occasionally, you will notice them acting rather mysterious, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes. Never tell a INFJ they possess a 'Old Soul'. They are terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't want the extra competition or deciding who should run the Universe (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity. That would be considered cruel and unusual punishment. Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials. So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. They are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. I like to think they represent the noblest form of humanity. A personality type which everyone aspires to immulate....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Altruistic and Protective.
i am an INFJ and i am also diagnosed with autism (as well as other mental illnesses) and my therapists, teachers, adults, etc. always told me how "wise" and how emotionally intelligent i am. my proudest achievement ever is winning 6 awards throughout school for being the kindest person according to my peers... i cry thinking about it
I get the impression this channel types by 16Personalities' letter dichotomy instead of using cognitive functions. The common cosensus on Holden Caulfield is that he is an INFP and only in the letter dichotomy the two types might look like each other, on the functions side they are actually completely different. Some of the things mentioned are in fact common in INFJ types, but others describe INFPs a lot better.
Yeah exactly!! This channel keeps everything so vague. They didn’t even explain that the 16Personalities website is so inaccurate and types by letters, instead of the cognitive functions. I wish they had explained this in the video but they didn’t. 😒 they keep everything so vague and over simplified. The Myers Briggs isn’t even a proven real thing anyway, and a lot of psychologists tend to not use it in their work. I am gonna unsub from this channel because they keep everything mainstream and don’t explain things that are true
Probably a half of people who says is an INFJ is not (maybe an INFP or another) The popular test on internet is not an accurate source, is better to learn about this method and analyze yourself. The test usually says INFJ to a lot of people incorrectly.
Yea that's why I took it into my own hands and looked into myself. But that requires a lot of self-knowledge so I recommend anyone go to a psychiatrist or something
I took the test and came out as infj. I was confused at first and thought it made a mistake because I recognized myself as a guy that uses his brain more than his feelings so I though I was an intp. But then I read a few more things on the Myers Briggs test and I realized I do use my feelings to make so much decisions. Then I accepted myself as an infj. Also I came down to the least liked comments since all the ones with a bunch of likes are probably fake infj Congrats I recognize you as an infj too
Some of these things are correct. But when I get busy I don’t have time to read or solve puzzles 😭. Having a part-time job and going to college can be very draining.
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. Take really good care of your sleep patterns, diet and leisure time: I ended up with a chronic atypical depression for doing that (college+part time job, a ton of stress)
Having ADHD and being INFJ at the same time makes life really difficult. Like all these things are spot on but at the same time I have a hard time with organizing cause ADHD makes me unable to focus and make me unorganized.
As an INFJ it's sometimes tiring to always understand people when they don't. Even if I know that something is not my fault, I try to look at others' pov and feelings and thoughts, I liked this about myself but not always, I try to treat equally when for a group project or anything, listen to every opinion,...sometimes when I'm not on good terms I feel the need of someone who can understand me but there ain't anyone around me than me:) And I rarely share my thoughts or feelings with anyone coz I somehow know that they will never be able to look at things in the way I do. IT'S JUST ME AT THE END I FEEL COMFORTABLE When I see a lot of people have this personality type from different countries, races, religions😊...I'm happy to find myself in you even though we have never met with each other or might never be.
And indeed yes some yts or most are introverts but tend to look really social extroverts. For ex me. (Im in a diff acc but i havt a yt, im not popualr so dont ask)
I'm an INFJ-T (according to the results from taking the test twice from last year and this year). One thing I struggle the most is feeling easily overwhelmed when things don't go the way I wanted it to. I also feel extremely restless when I haven't accomplished a single task for the day (may it be trivial or important). In addition, I can't keep my surroundings clean and organized if my mind is still busy and messy
I’m the type of introvert who acts like an extrovert around their friends so everyone thinks they’re an extrovert and assumes they love to be around people 24/7 T^T
I was pretty excited for this series when you introduced it since I love this channel, but this info wasn't the best in my opinion. This description is like a mix of INFJ and XXFP or XXTP. Please research more for your next episode!
Exactly the video was so vague. But also don’t forget,personality types are not a proven real thing anyway. So many personality types share similar traits, so I highly doubt you can group a personality. We as humans all share similar traits and characteristics. Also the Myers Briggs test is actually kinda controversial, it types people by letters rather than using the cognitive functions. This video should of explained it better, also another thing to mention is they completely copied the audio from an old video. From this one- ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bNuxqVuV018.html They have done this before too. They just tend to repost old videos and never explain things in great detail. In my opinion it just seems like they make videos just to get views at this point 😞
Ever since I found out that I am an INFJ-A, I couldn’t stop readingd and learning more about myself. I agree about the book part, I find myself able to kill time so easily-but I need to be unbothered as well
This video is so vague 😂😂 and that’s why now everyone in these comments think they are an infj just because they relate to everything in the video, but yet don’t even realise how vague, simplified and generalised this video is.
Im here! Lol ive watched a couple of videos now after finding out im an infj-a and i cant believe how accurate they are but this one for sure takes the cake. Watching it with my partner and were both laughing and smiling at this on how it is. ❤ It
I've been taking the MBTI test every few years since I was about 13 and I've always been an INFJ, and I'm 22 now 😊 Loved this so much, it's definitely spot on for me 👌
One of the toxic things I hate as an INFJ-T is being a perfectionist, as it is one of the major reasons I procrastinate. Whenever I am not satisfied with my work, it totally upsets me. Even the tiniest mistakes bother me! I just hope that someday I will overcome this (toxic) trait. :((
You know my teacher does say (from personal experience) that perfectionism = procrastination. Basically it goes hand in hand with each other. I wonder if they're also an INFJ?
This is definitely me. Honestly this is my main problem with drawing. I'm such a perfectionist that if I draw something however basic and I don't get it 100% right I'll erase it and have to do it all over again.
Also have this problem when drawing (traditional art). I can always somehow find something to improve on, endlessly. Also with the turbulent trait, I improve quickly from intense reflections. It's all about positivity and self awareness though, it got me through plenty of tight situations.
@Jeanne Prado & @Makenzie Check Frank James' channel. He covers all 16 personality types (including ENFP) in funny skits & does a great job at it. Let un INFJs have our time in the sun rn, finally don't feel so alone anymore😌
Hi, ENFP. I loooooovvvee ENFP people. Well, at least to my adopted son. Knowing that he is ENFP and I am INFJ makes all clear why we so longing for each other ... despite how different we are one to another. 😁
As an INFJ with ADHD Inattentive Type, I am not well-organized, however I have found some simple cornerstones of organization that keep my life afloat and avoid too many disasters. Also, as a frugal person, I don't really identify with the "enjoying the finer things of life" bit. Although I do want to look good and not too slovenly, I won't drop too much money or time on things I see as superficial, like expensive wine or clothing or shoes. EDIT: Thinking more, I think the "finer things" bit is highly individual. I will spend a lot of money on things that I care about, i.e., my niche interests and things where I recognize value. But even there I will apply my frugal values.
The only thing I cannot really approve is the classy thing. I like things minimalistic, yes, but I also love oversized sweaters etc. and often not formal clothes
don’t take it the wrong way but i feel like everyone talks about infjs and all the other types are kinda forgotten because they’re less “special”, i think it would be interesting to know about other types too :)
I knew that it will be annoying for other types. Mainly because INFJs are rare and somewhat different than all other types, I think that is what attract people so much. INFJs don't talk about their personality often, its the other personality types that like to talk about them. ❦︎
She probably won’t be doing more videos about other personality types because here is the same video audio from an old video. They just copy old videos because they ran out of ideas ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bNuxqVuV018.html
I almost never share my problems, and one of the most hurtful things that I ever heard from someone was "you're telling this just to be pitied, but no one really cares" from my friend
I almost never share my problems, and one of the most hurtful things that I ever heard from someone was "you're telling this just to be pitied, but no one really cares" from my friend - infj
I took the MBTI test and got INFJ. I'm not the type to organize things, honestly I procrastinate when I feel like it. Also I don't know if it's just me because even though I haven't exeprienced anything related to other's problems, it feels like I understand what it feels like to be in their situation and it helps me in comforting them given that I understand the situation they're in. That's why my friends always asks me for an advice when it comes to their relationships (although I haven't been on any since I was born, funny right?). Btw Happy New Year guys have a blessed year, stay positive and never give up, we survived 2020, I'm pretty sure we will survive this one as well.
@@ladyfoxwf1075 INFJ could be organized and messy at the same time. But there must be a reason why we procrastinate to organize. I'd love to organize and do my homework, but I'm a new mom, and I have to do all of that, and babysitting tho. So I'm exhausted everyday, even I often forget to having meal. My home is messy, but I can't stand about dirty room. Another reason, we have no time to do it. Or we often distracted by many things, ex: social media, even this video, about INFJ in RU-vid. We could just watch about MBTI all day, especially for our type. I took MBTI test 6 times, and 3 times I got INFJ, and 3 times I got INFP. My husband is INFP, and we're so much different, even though we have similarity in a few aspect. He's so messy, the worst of worst messy. He randomly did homework in the middle night if his mood was good. I can't stand his randomly honestly. That's why I do all of the homework. And I believe that I'm INFJ 100% through this situation (it's one of difference). (I'm sorry for my bad English).
1. They’re the rarest MTBI type. "That's an exaggeration. Even if you calculate it right, you'll still get about millions of people out there with the same type. Not even less than the most endangered species of rhinos." 2. They put the “book” in the bookworm. "Would you please leave me alone for at least, 5 minutes? I just want to finish reading my books but people always getting in my way!" 3. They know how to climb the social ladder. "That is if I ever want to do that." 4. They see things and understand them. "I don't just read books, I can read your facial expression. Your body language. Your all." 5. They love a good puzzle. "Good? I demand a MASTERPIECE!" 6. They’re classy AF. "I don't know about wine cause I don't drink alcoholic beverages, but I love classical music if it's still can be counted as one example" 7. They make routine un-boring. "I don't do routine even though I have schedules for everything & anything" I guess that's it from me. Thank you very much for making this imperfect but still informative video.
I confided in a friend not too long ago about the fact that I didn't feel very well in my class even though I was laughing a lot and getting along with everyone. I told her that for me to feel close to someone who is my friend was to have shared something much deeper,what I hadn't done with my classmates and which finally hurt me when I came home at night. My friend didn't understand me and I felt even worse...
Hello ! I wanted to thank you with all my heart !💖 Your Channel gave me the 1st Answers Discarding my True Condition. Only thanks to your videos about psyche i was able to find out . I Have C-PTSD by Narcisstic Abuse by my own Family💔 but also how to heal and what steps to make to accomplish my dream to be free❤🔥 its been around 5 Years since i started to therapy on my own. I found out about half year ago i am INFJ-T . Infact that means : INFJ is around 1 % of society , also C-PTSD is around 1.5% . Im a 1% in a 1% . there are many videos out there about beeing the chosen one . Everybody wants to be the one ! But infact beeing the one is the most difficult hard and painful life. So im not even proud of beeing so called chosen one. i gone through hell and i did hate it . Its like i am 31 now. and i was dead for 30 years. Thats no fun ! . Even better now i know all these things thanks to your channel aswell. I granted ability to become a thriver !!! im nolonger a surviver !!! THANK YOUU SOOO SOO MUCH !💕💕💕💕
The rest is true but being the rarest type (aka 'unicorn') isn't so special, yeah you have those abilitys but its even more depressing when you feel like you can understand others but nobody can understand you.. oh and a other topic, maybe you can try to study the functions of the personaity types (example for the INFJ its Ni Fe Ti Se = introvert Intuition, extrovert Feeling, introvert Thinking and extrovert Sensing , these are more acurate than the official MBTI personality test (for the first try yep or the jung personality test on 123test.com) its ok but if you want to look deeper and want to make sure you are really that type, i really recommend to look at the functions also happe new yeah ✌️
I'm glad I've found someone who knows what's up down in the comments. Unfortunately, it's more popular to say that INFJs are rare pixies precious smol bean uwu, it's more attention-catching than good ol' theory
I’m an INFJ and one thing you said in this video that I have that I know all of my family thinks I shouldn’t be is a therapist. I have an issue to where I say sorry to often because I want to take away other peoples problems, and blame it on myself. I can also feel other peoples’ emotions like a super power. And of course I like the finer things in life, as long as they are comfortable UwU. Thanks for this video. You guys inspire me so much.
