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Hi I am a 24 year old male, and want to transition to having a more of a feminine body, to eventually transition to a women is there any natural Herbs or foods that will help in that, because I do not want to take any kind of pharmaceuticals
I agree! Even if it’s cleaning one part everyday to then finally be clean later. I know some people are in a not healthy routine and it’s hard to start all at once. Doing one thing everyday will become a habit like making your bed or cleaning your vanity after getting ready etc.
Amen! There is NOTHING like coming home to a clean cozy apartment with the bed made and the smell of my candles and clean floors that I know that EYE cared for myself so much that I make it a comfy cozy welcoming home to arrive to, it’s really changed my life. You gotta care for yourself and will feel so much better truly taking care!
Tips 4 and 9 really resonated with me - thanks so much Jill❤️ 1) way you walk - move your hips 2) micro dress-up - just your lips, or just your brows 👗💄 3) ask for help gracefully 🥰 4) incorporate small moments of pleasure (eg read fiction) - not every moment in your life needs to be productive + monetised! 💰 5) second brain - write things down 📝 6) give someone a chance to open the door for you 🚪 7) stop rushing, start slowing down and start being in the moment 🧘♀️ 8) things don’t have to be 100% perfect all the time 💯 9) buy tiny little treats for yourself - you deserve happiness ☕️ 10) schedule me time 📅
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As a 16 y.o. girl who grew up without mom or any young female figure around me, I'm SO grateful for this video. I always felt like "femininity" isn't for me because I was raised by single father, but I finally want to be the girl I never got the chance to be and this video is really helpful. Thank you so much ❤❤
Also to be strong ,mind set is very much important. Read many books also. As no one near you in your mind set now , books can help you. Love and blessings from me
I just wanted to remind you that lots of dads raise strong, self-reliant, and independent women. You can be a strong woman without sacrificing your femininity, love. Strength comes from within us and our skills, not our outfits. Besides, strong women CHOOSE their path, make their moves, and we can do it with ferocity and grace. The world doesn't respect you automatically as a woman, so we often have to teach others how to respect us, and we can do so wearing a fabulous outfit and some lipstick💄 💪. Just because we are feminine doesn't mean we are weak 🥰. Big hugs! 🖤🖤🖤
*hugs* You are absolutely allowed to be as feminine as you want and to change any time into the person you want to be. ❤ Fortunately, we live in an era where we have more access to learn things we didn’t get taught by those that raised us. Anna Bey is another influencer I love to learn from while I level myself up on how to be more self aware, and socially aware in a way that is more feminine and classy. I got raised as a tomboy too so Ive had to teach myself everything from hair & makeup to more lady like social behavior 😅
1. Move your hips 2. Micro dress up 3. Ask for help 4. Small moments of pleasure 5. Create and use a second brain 6. Don't run up to the door first 7. Slow down and be present 8. Let things be a 95% 9. Buy tiny treats for yourself 10. Schedule me time into calendar
I dressed up yesterday in my room trying on possible date outfits while listening to my favorite music. I put on some lipstick and walked around in high heels. It felt a little soothing. The next day I went grocery shopping and I saw that many people we’re looking at me, acknowledging me, smiling and saying hello. I smiled back. It’s all about aura and confidence I realize
I get really surprised yet encourage when i put on an inexpensive outfit and ppl express how nice i look or how dressy i look. It must be in the confidence i project after doing the 5 min maintenace. 😊
I like the aesthetic of this video ,the red dress,her hair ,the lighting reflecting her hair,the room ,the dog sleeping on her couch,the way the books are arranged,it’s so pleasing,soothing and clam
This is the divine feminine. It's what we all naturally need according to our biology. We can be successful but we don't have to be hustling to overtake men. It's not in our biology.
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
When I’m in a depressive episode, I find that doing that micro dress up is so essential. for me, that’s earrings, mascara, and perfume. 3 simple things but make me feel so much better about myself even when I feel crappy on the inside
There's actually science to this. What you're doing is called behavioral activation. Basically "acting as if" you're ok, and going through the motions, will improve your mental health over time. Hard to do when you feel terrible but good on you for figuring it out.
I love this thread sm💛 I’m in a place like that too in my life currently and for me that’s lip gloss, moisturized face and a good fit. We’re all in this together🎀
I love this list, and would like to add #10: let yourself rest. Listen to your body, sleep in when you want to, and don’t feel shame for resting. Resting and recharging is so important for femininity to shine
Absolutely! It’s a habit that pays big dividends, especially if you nap or rest like you “mean it.” ( meaning- turn off the noise and be in relaxed clothing. ) Even if it’s just 30 minutes, it’s a big boost of energy.
"Not everything you do has to be productive." This is such great advice for young women. I wish I would have heard this when I was in my late teens and early 20s. You get to explore yourself through your interests and it's a wonderful thing, both the good and the bad.
Hi!thanx so much for inspiring me i'm 49 yo and my husband died 9 years ago.I' m alone single,i prefer taking care of my daughter...your videos help me to remind me I am a woman,you help me to express my feminine energy,it's vital.A hug from Taormina in Sicily,Italy(let me know if one day u'll come to my island,i'd love to meet you)
@@anonim34025i'm enjoying my mental freedom so much!!!don't want to share my house my money my time with...basically a man never seen and heard before.Thanx for your kind words
@@beatricebliss9379 mmhhh...my husband was Polish...i don't like Italian men,i go for fair nordic beauty!glad you know Taormina,I mentioned it with purpose cause it's worldwide well known
Great video! One habit I have incorporated is that, after my shower, when I rub oil into my body, I do it consciously and thank my body parts for all they help me to do, i. e. , my heart for being openly loving, my arms for being strong and allowing me the pleasure of hugging people, etc. It’s a very powerful thing to do and fosters a great appreciation for myself. 💜😇
When I broke my femur I did talk to my leg every morning while I massage my leg “ I love you, you are so strong! We are going for a walk soon! You will take me to many places! I love you so much! Etc… you wouldn’t believe it was broken before! Hiking all around internationally! Power of suggestion! Amazing Our mind, body! A little off the subject…
I’ve always been very into my masculine energy, for five years I’ve been with a man that’s let me embrace my lighter side, and something as simple as letting him open the door for me was a learning curve, but has improved our dynamic immensely because I’m letting him take over the masculine role that I’ve grown accustomed to taking in every relationship
This reminds me of that tiktok sound that goes "the universe doesn't want you to try harder, it wants you to breathe, let go and be open to things being easier..." I watch it every day as a reminder because I love being in my feminine energy but I constantly rush through my days because I feel like I'm running out of time. Which is not true, I just need to let go of that feeling. 🧘♀I love your advices and reminders!💗💗💗
Hello ladies! I do all these things and boy does it make a difference! I’m not ‘perfect’ with these at all!!! I’m a work in progress. I feel an INSTANT shift in my energy when I consciously choose to S L O W down and when I swing my hips a bit when I walk. Because of my work and lifestyle, I wear exercise clothes nearly every day, but I make sure I take the time to do my hair, wear some basic makeup and jewelry, and try to stay in my feminine energy. It really makes all the difference! ❤
Reading fiction books is still great for keeping your mind sharp and preventing dementia! Particularly because it forces you to imagine characters and settings which takes a lot of brain activity :)
I am turning 67 in a week and am excited to implement these sweet micro habits. They are quite brilliant yet simply lovely ideas to give myself permission to take care of me! I believe that I CAN learn to do new positive things, no matter how old I am! Thank you for presenting this valuable content in such a delightful way!
Reading, even nonfiction, IS productive. It increases empathy and improves your vocabulary. I love to read as well and had to find reasons it was ok to splurge on nonfiction. 🎉
OMg the walking thing is REAL! Recently I tried to walk more flowey, like a cat almost, more elegant and such. People kept LOOKING AT ME omg like in a good way! I could sense what energy I radiated and the attention came right back to me, it was insane. Can recommend.
On top of everything you mentioned in this list, I prioritize smelling good! I shower every day as a ritual and sometimes at night too to relax and reset. I will put scented lotion and perfume on throughout the day too (scents that compliment each other of course)!
I don’t mean to be dramatic but the habit of letting them get to the door first is life changing. When I put it into practice (after your video), it was really nice to remember that I don’t have to do everything myself, I can let myself receive. Your videos are so helpful. Thanks Jillz!!
@@mariafedorova6660thank you so much! The toughest part for me personally is going to work. Feels so upsetting to disrupt my bonding time. I may have been tired with her but I was the happiest and so was she. This is heart breaking
congratulations! give yourself and your body lots of grace. you just created and birthed a whole human! that is amazing! and so are you :) After having both my kids I told my body to take time to heal. I gave myself at least 18 months of loving and appreciating my body for the miracle it created. Both times I didn't even need to think about loosing weight or anything. by the time my babies were 18 moths old i was back to a weight i could love without doing anything. Enjoy your little bundle
I needed this today! I've been feeling stuck in my masculine energy. My job is go go go and it's hard to drop into my feminine on my off hours. The 95% micro habit spoke to me as well as your example! I'm a watercolor artist in the midst of turning my art into digital works for print on demand sites. I'm feeling pressure that I've placed on myself to get it right and find myself getting taken out of the feminine energy I love being in when I paint. I just need to give myself that 5% and not overthink it : )
I love this!!! I needed it. I told myself 2024 will be my year of focusing in on my feminine energy & relishing in what life is. I want to learn to celebrate myself and take time to enjoy. Thank you for this Jillz ❤
🙋🏻♀️I do the fresh flowers for my bedside and desk at work. A little thing that makes a BIG difference. Dressing up, for me, helps with my depression. "Fake it til you make it." Thank you for sharing these!
Thank you for saying that everything in your life doesn’t need to be be productive because I struggle with that. I feel this pressure that I always need to be doing something productive and when I stay still I start to feel guilty about it.
I started walking more with my hips especially when I’m dressed up before watching this video and it’s very true! I naturally feel more feminine with one simple change! ❤️
Before watching this video, I’ve started getting ready earlier, spending 15 mins on my makeup and it’s helping me ☺️ still working on getting my routine together
I totally agree on the asking for help. At the feed store anytime a man would ask if he could load my feed bags for me I would always say no because I’m strong but now I let them help me. Just because I allow others to help me it doesn’t mean that I’m weak. It mean I have nothing to prove and I’m allowing them to do their job.
Awesome! Good for you!! I definitely ask for help or say yes! I feel like it is an opportunity for someone else to feel good and get the blessing for their kind act!
Saw this just at the right time! I've been stressing so much lately and haven't felt like myself at all. Watching this really made me feel like I have permission to slow down a bit, treat myself to something small, do something just for joy, let some things be a 95, not feel embarrassed about asking for help ... Thank you for this. ❤
I appreciate your talk on this topic. This year I started studying yin-yang energy and balancing chi. I started organizing spaces in my life according to feng shui principles (my home office first, my side of the bed, closet, and bathroom, then my office at work and now I’m working on the front porch and living room). I can’t tell you how this has transformed my life. I feel it is very “feminine” or yin to attune to the more subtle energies all around us as well as quiet rhythms of the seasons and the moon. This is now a wonderful lifestyle that has brought me to a center of being alive never experienced before, and I feel 100% content. I wish you well!
It's helped me to think about how much less boring it is for those staff to show a customer an item and walk through the store and feel helpful rather than stand there being bored -- that helped me feel less of a "burden" and more like i'm giving them a change of pace and they get to feel helpful whihc we know makes us feel good when we feel we've helped.
Ah yes this is so encouraging. I have really noticed that when I slow down, men are so eager to open doors for me. I feel so grateful for that. Also doing things at 95 is such a helpful reminder! 💖 I love all of this so much!
I clicked on the video expecting to hear a lot of repeated things that every youtuber claims that "changed their lives". But the first one already blew my mind. I resonate so much with that, I feel so much more feminine when I have my ponytail swinging side to side, or when I wear a simple accessory that completes my outfit. I guess we thrive on those little things, I feel so blessed and filled with joy for finding your channel and having those thoughts validated
My planner is my second brain and i love it!! it's eased so much anxiety in my day to day. Recipes i love, goals for the year, financial planning, budgets/bills breakdown, braindump, projects like reads to be read, etc. Its such a great tip!
Getting up and getting ready and I mean just showering, doing something with my hair, some Vaseline, makes soooo much difference to my whole mood and day!
This video made me feel so grateful because I realized that I have actually been doing all these things recently and I can tell that I feel so much better now than like a year ago when I didn’t do these kind of things ❤
Oh I love #6! I started my dating life in Virginia where chivalry is definitely alive and well. Now I live in California and have inspired the same habits in the men I date simply by creating the space for them to step in and… open the door, carry the bags, or walk on the car side of the street. Consider it a gift your giving them to feel like a man, they’ll do it as soon as they know it’s what you want :)
Yes....I soooo agree with this. My current partner is all about opening my door and I have learned to slow down and wait. Now it's kind of a habit. I love it now. ❤ I am in the habit of allowing...
Great tips! I keep hoping there's somebody out there who's sharing these tips with men as well. It can be draining to be constantly stuck in a go go go mentality regardless of your gender.
The micro-dress up hit home. I have the time, but sometimes I don’t have the energy to get fully glam. I used to. I wouldn’t leave the house unless I was done-up. Now, I am prioritizing getting dressed and *at least* putting mascara and eyebrows on. It really does wonders just changing clothes and a little makeup (if it’s your thing) and I’m glad you addressed it ❤
The "stop racing to the door" idea is interesting! I always race to the door to be polite, but i just feel in my body when I think about it, how much more grounded and peaceful i feel not doing it. Tiny but huge.
It’s absolutely crazy how simple and obvious all this is but how enlightening it is!!!! I’ve been in my masculine energy unknowingly for so long I’ve forgotten how to be feminine so thank you for speaking the ”obvious”.
You are such a natural beauty and I really connect with that desire. Many other feminine, Contant, creator women, have long, fake nails, and pounds of make up, and I just don’t connect with them at all… you’re so natural and real and if I was a guy, I would prefer you in a heartbeat.
I feel like I was meant to find this specific video. It's been a habit of mine for a long time to refuse help, this need to prove I can do everything on my own. The way you phrased it- let things be easy. Slow down. Not everything needs to be productive. Take time for small moments of fun. I just needed to hear this so badly. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but you genuinely helped me so much in 20 minutes. Thank you. ❤
Haha I was at the supermarket and couldn’t reach the highest shelf, so I asked a man “Excuse me could you please help me?” And he was like “I don’t work here” 😂😂😂😂 But as he noticed I need help reaching something, he understood 😅 was a funny and also little embarrassing moment
i usually stopped watching lengthy self improvement videos because it takes up a lot of time and usually, there are a lot of extra unecessary side comments from the maker. However, this video really made me want to step into my feminine energy. look how happy you glow! As someone who procastinates and ends up having no time to focus on my self, this made me realize how important it is to take your time and not end up scrolling mindlessly on social media. that used to be my me time, its so sad 😂😂 now im changing that ❤
WoW, she just reversed my masculine energy to feminine via one video. It's worth watching and first time I saw the whole video without skipping(except the ad part).
Growing up, so many girls around me (myself included) felt this constant pressure to be always learning something new, making progress, educating themselves and just generally striving for greatness 24/7. While I think ambition is laudable, I also feel that there's a time and place for everything. It took me one and a half burnouts to realise that I can't always be efficient and productive. In fact, learning to ask for help and taking things easier has helped me in my career as well. I'm not afraid to turn to my colleagues for help anymore and our team is actually stronger for it. I've also learned to indulge in the small pleasures of life. I don't need a serious hobby and I certainly don't need to work my butt of at the gym. Life can be soft and pleasurable. It doesn't mean you're lazy or veering off course.
Thank you so much for this video! I'm a bit stuck in a masculine energy and going through a burn out at the moment... I really want to take care of myself more and reconcile with my feminine energy. I can really feel that I miss it! So thank you for these tips and for all your videos :)
I never connected before the fact of having no female friends was because I have wounded feminine energy..I was ridiculed and put down constantly constantly by my dad for being a girl so I ran from all things feminine...Going to make me a priority And healing my feminine energy!!!!! Thank You so much for your videos!!! You are such a Beautiful soft woman and an inspiration!!!!
Yesss. Things don’t always have to be 100%. I always tell myself, and even my children, “not everything is a 10”! Not everything on your list is the most important thing. Not everything on your list has to be done to an exact science. Save yourself, the stress for the important things if you must.
Thanks for starting with tip 1, I adore it and will be following the advice! I’m finding it so odd that I for some reason have had this weird thought process of ‘the women who walk with swayed hips are naturally like that, it would be weird for me to try to change how I walk after 20 years’ and then I think after seeing this tip, well why not me? Why can’t it be me too?! I’m realizing these women probably also leaned into their feminine and started walking in a more feminine manner so I can too. I don’t know why I’ve been so critical of myself and thinking I can’t change the way I walk.
Another thought--I would LOVE to walk more like this, but I don't want to attract unwanted male attention. I work as a nurse and def walk with that stiff bullet quickness all over the place, and the other day when I saw a fellow nurse dance for a patient, moving her hips, a male aide shouted, 'Yeah mama!' and his ogling just made me feel unsafe. I don't think I could saunter like this in my neighborhood either....but maybe in the woods alone. I know my feminine energy is stuck but a lot of it is from fear of unsafe guys. I wonder if there is a way to let my feminine energy flow in public, while also feeling protected.
Perhaps express it only in places you've considered safe. I work in a male-dominant industry, so striding like one feels safer. If a full sashay feels too risky, maybe a smoother walk (the one taught in deportment videos)?
@CraftsmensTerrain Thanks for the advice! I also wear a long winter coat so sashayed *inside* my coat today down that street and that felt great ☺️ I'm glad I'm not alone in this!
I also feel that being confident when you step out and overcoming the fear of being seen(the spotlight effect) can also help you to enhance your feminine energy.
I realized I stopped allowing my hips to move since I got teased for it as a teen, I just WALKED that way, it came naturally. I don't know if it's from trying to be less "sexy" (never tried to be with my walk...), but I developed pretty tense muscles in my lower back... I will definitely work on letting myself go and flow again!
I try to be modest. When I was a child, I read an article about how women subconsciously swing their hips to attract a mate. I thought, “That’s stupid! I’m not going to do that!” and for a while consciously kept my hips still while walking. This became natural and for probably a decade now, I’ve had a notably “stiff” walk for a lady. Me trying to be modest and not get attention based on my body led to me being a little masculinized! Ugh, I may try to fix it bit-by-bit now. All that goes to say, I feel you 😆
My 3 minute Out-the-Door Routine: breath spray, brow fill, quick nose contour or a swipe of bronzer, lip gloss, spritz of perfume, check that I’m wearing earrings, a ring & a bracelet or watch, finger-fluff my hair, big sunnies and I’m Out-the-Door. I do this even if I’m in joggers and only running a quick errand. If I look & feel presentable then my mood is cheery & I’m fine with running into ppl. 3 mins is all this takes. Try it everyday for a week & you’ll agree, I promise. 👛 Much luv from NYC xx
Thanks for your thoughts, I think about this sometimes, I always wanna do productive things and that the things I do should be elevating my time and life.. I have kind of a hard time to not do anything thats just "for fun" it feels like a waste of time, but maybe it could be fun if I let myself relax a little and try to be happy about it ❤
when i watch you speak, i see Hecate looking back at me. Which is exactly the portrayal I need. Thankyou for this video, I don't know if you are aware of how much this may help women. It definitely helped me.
Tiny habit #9 you can make things or use what you already have too but make it special. I made a whipped body butter the other day, it’s oh so decadent. We can treat ourselves and consume consciously and I think that’s beautiful
I recently survived cancer and that required intense masculine energy. I am ready and here for leaning into healing and feminine energy. Love reading everyone’s comments. ❤
Omg I just realised another thing from my childhood this is insane! I used to be very tombish because my mom did never give me any example of how to be feminine too! She never felt feminine herself, was very rough, didn’t shave, rarely put on makeup or dressed up, never let anyone help herself, wasn’t soft…all of that influenced me! I slowly discovered my feminine energy in my late teen years and now I feel so much better and secure in my feminine side ❤ I know how to carry myself, like cute girly outfits and know how to flirt well. Thank you
it was hard for me to accept help from others, also struggled with compliments) but smth has shifted and now I'm much happier when I learned how to be grateful for help. it's like some kind of enery exchange with others
asking for help is great but ive had too many experiences with employees not wanting to help or looking at me crazy for it. or worse, theyll just be like "sorry we dont have it", totally dismiss me, and then i find the item im looking for 2 minutes later..... i wish people were nicer
I've struggled for SO long looking for videos explaining how to feel or act more feminine. Every single video I saw talked about just believing in yourself and that femininity is how you look at it and yadda yadda but I feel like this video actually understands what trying to embrace your femininity actually implies.
Hey Jillz! Love your videos! Learning so much from you.❤ Can you give some tips for us ladies who work 9+ hours daily? I mean, I would LOVE to live the soft life but can't afford it. I don't want my feminine energy to fade but I feel like my life has always been a rat race.. How to maintain/preserve my feminine energy if all my life is about is work, housework, responsibilities? And I don't even have a child! 😭 Wouldn't have mental/emotional capacity for that.. how to rest and be more passive if there's so much to do? Thanks 😊
I loved this thank you. I am in a hard place going through a break up and you reminded me of two things I will now do for my own pleasure - read a book and take myself for a date !! ❤ Thanks so much and sending love to everyone
Hi Jill! I’m very grateful that I run into this video (and your channel). A learned a lot of micro things I’m sure will improve my life and help me reach an improved version of myself. Some sound so natural that they feel like reminders I really needed to hear. Thank you so much ❤ Wishes of a fantastic 2024!
I love how you are in fact married but yet so independent. I aspire to be like that when I’m married. I gotta remember a spouse is a life partner not a 24 hour patient, and a healthy relationship is between two independent individuals. Excited to start being feminine and independent also.💗
As a nonbinary female born human im so glad i stumbled across your channel. Sometimes i repress my Feminine energy bc it makes me uncomfortable, but theres positives to everything & theres definitely positives in the devine Feminine ❤ your point about masculinine energy driving you to do so much and never take time for the little things is so true + the theory of walking with your hips I've implemented with our even realizing it and noticed im totally more confident from it❤ thank you so much for helping me feel more comfortable in my body❤
The more I watch videos like this the more I realize I’ve always been in my feminine energy but surrounded by women in their masculine. Makes sense why they shamed me so much for being what they werent
girl I subscribed when I heard you talk about swaying your hip when you walk. ik it works because I am the eldest daughter and I was always very masculine in my approach to life like I was very strict and stiff and now I'm letting loose, stepping into my powerful feminine energy and I love myselfffff so muchhhhh
The first point is so true.Just walked before clicking this video, and I was actually moving my hips, and to honest I felt so much confident and beautiful. Thank You❤
I just found your channel, and I really appreciate what you shared. Your soft energy comes through the video and encourages me. I've been rushing through life because I have a lot on my plate (5 kids under 7, the last 2 are 4 month old twins) and sometimes slowing down feels like it will mean I fail to keep up with the needs. But I absolutely get pulled out of softness and into harsh energy and I hate it. I need to find a way to breathe and work through it. Thank you for this content. I hope to learn and grow much in this area this year.
