mens obsession with humbling women [“i had to humble her”] 

Yes

That is why I always say that I won’t marry until I find a Gomez Addams 😂 Goated comment ❤ Thank you, from me, another Addams family stan

Yeees

@@vanessaprincesssa He truly set the bar and then kept raising it.🖤 Because, it's not just how he is with Morticia, it's how he is towards his family, his friends, neighbors, and strangers. A secure man is a kind man.

For me it's my anime husbando Nanami Kento.

True 💯

Compliments from older ladies are the best!

And women have better aesthetic sense and expect more in terms of appearence as they are not blind due to lust. Female compliment, when given outside friends group (which is also fake), is the most valuable complement. Would also include kids in general.

@@Elisabetta886women like you are so appreciated! Some of my favorite people in my life are older women

This! I literally just said this 💯💯

This!

Absolutely. Truer words have never been said.

Their insecurity makes them unhappy with themselves which in return makes them jealous and that makes them mean and petty

Fr is better not engage

⁠@@mitza420 most of them project their issues on you!, they’re not happy with themselves and they don’t want you to be happy with yourself so they just spin around trying to make everything “wrong” with them is your fault like you’ve caused it.

not decently it should be treat you properly respectfully kindly

That's always my advice. Literally do not say one word to them. Just look away and continue doing what you're doing. It'll piss them off so much. Like don't respond to them after that no matter what they say.

I’m pretty sure if women know. They would.

@@Egh0127 exactly

Not decently but amazing

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Loooll this part 👆🏽they forgot where they came from

I love it!

​@@LemanRussxyeah, the guy nuts and the woman develops the baby and does the rest of the work for 9 months, then puts in the work of taking the formed baby out of her poonany

​@danwatson171 Minimizing women's labor and creation is a red flag. Comparing busting to being an author is just silly. Please get out. This is a women only space.

I literally never even realized that when we’re doing this to me when I was younger what’s the point of like humbling anyone

Pretty privilege isn't a privilege if you're a woman

The true reason those guys hate drunk girls is because drunk girls compliment each other. Drunk girls will be sincerely uplifting in such a blunt way. Just yelling at each other "No you are gorgeous and your ass is perfect as it is!".

@@MissMoontree I’ll try to Compliment man more I have been I just don’t wanna look thirsty on my birthday. I was complementing men and women, and I think it looks like I was throwing myself at this man, but I was just trying to heal his inner child. I will I was holding his face and calling you handsome, but I was doing that all the girls to holding their faces and Coalling them beautiful

​@@Alicia-vq8jgyou can't 'heal' anyone other than you and it's not your job either

❤😂❤fantastic!!!

@@elenafetter9690it was so fantastic haha. I don’t know if they overheard what he was saying and wanted to cheer me up, but I thought it was almost divine timing haha. And the look on his face was hilarious

God sent those women as angels 😇

This comment finally made me get it - thank you! I remember getting ready for a date one time and thinking “I want to make myself look as beautiful as I possibly can” so I put sooooo much effort into making my hair/makeup/outfit look flawless, and when I looked in the mirror before I left, I thought I looked absolutely perfect. But then he shows up outside, I get in his car and the first thing he says (no hello or nothing smh) is “you have a nose hair sticking out” 😂 girl when I tell you I wanted to hop right out that car at that moment lmao

​@@pivotb5691Girl I am so sorry you put up with such a loser... You deserve the best and no less ❤

Honestly, I don't think it even applies to them either, they just convinced themselves that it does so they don't have to admit that they are not as stoic as they believe. This is considering how bad they are at keeping or even making healthy deep relationships with their friends (no wonder they are lonely, ahem)

@@annierminxExactly. No human likes to be insulted because our brains literally cannot differentiate between a “joke” and truth. This is why jealous/insecure individuals insult people through jokes. They have plausible deniability while still getting the point across.

​@@holographicwingTHAT part! Guy's CAN'T receive that same energy! They'll ALWAYS try to one up you .... Until it gets just sad... Lost all semblance of cleverness, maturity or a vocabulary.... it devolves into juvenile petty embarrassment and resentment in the blink of an eye!

@@TK-cg4ks where do you get our brains literally cannot differentiate a joke from the truth when that's not true at all. plenty of people can tell when someone is jokingly jabbing ta them vs being serious

Yep, I give their energy back and they get sad then angry like ?

It’s so embarrassing when they pull that bs. I have curly hair and there was this dude who I was kinda friends with (before he started being a weirdo freak and showing his true colors) he like had a crush on me and kept of nagging me about it even tho I kept rejecting him. And one time he was like “Well your hair looks like shit anyway” and then I was like “well you didn’t feel that way when you kept trying to get with me” and he just didn’t say anything cuz he knows that’s true. It’s so stupid and embarrassing for them and I just can’t take it seriously

He was an 8th grade boy. He was probably just a moody teen.

@@monkeking_2144 not the 'boys will be boys' argument

Did he say that with the full intention to sound mean? Not trying to disprove your words, but if he just pointed it out maybe he was just very honest. I'm a girl, and when I was younger I was painfully honest, even when I never intended to harm others. A lot of times I would just point out people's characteristics as an observation with no real emotion, you know, thinking out loud, not even seeing that trait as negative. Later, in my early teens, was when I learned to tone down the honesty. Again, not wanting to disprove anything as this is your experiencie, but kids often lack tact without meaning to. Specially if they're autistic.

so what do you want boys to be? Not boys? That really doesn't make any sense because I'm 99.999999994% sure you wouldn't like it if someone told your entire gender that they have to change just because you don't like it.@@ArmelSight

I was about to say.

Like he's shopping for a couch...

right? like he's trying to pick out which car he wants off the lot. so gross

Because that’s how he sees women

They do that with porn and now it has real life consequences

Ick the racism 🤢🤢

This

this is why i never want to be someones "first black girl" bc were the backhanded remarks necessary on the first date??

"I don't care. Just take your pants off," would quickly shut him up. You have to shock them into silence, while calling their bluff. All the while, staring them down, daring them to reply. Have your mace in your hand in your pocket. Bullies only respond to a taste of their own medicine.

I can’t count how many times I’ve heard this or any insult following “you’re pretty, but…” especially from narcissists

And guess what if this woman complimented this guy despite having a boyfriend they would tell she's for the streets

She quite literally said it was because she had a boyfriend. Please go make a podcast crying about it.

@@jackier8142 and?? She also said that he wasn't her type. Y'all want to shame women so badly ewww lol

@@scary5455 he wasnt attractive to me but my opinion isnt the be-all end-all so i said conventionally like clearly youre attracted to him

Why would you want anyone to rate you? What value does it bring to your life? It just feeds you ego in a very nasty way

30 is very young, and age doesn't equal beauty. As long as you take care of yourself you will look good at any age

@@Hottybanger a lot of guys need to get this memo

I was a chubby cheek my entire 20s. I became pretty (to myself), confident with my perfect weight, diet, skin, hobbies, lifestyle in my 30s. Hitting 30 is a blessing to me because finally I’m comfortable in my own skin. Those men can eat 💩 for all I care.

@@Emptytopfloor it's so many tricks that men use to try to make women feel desperate, a lot of men are lonely so they tell women "you better find someone while you're young" to make women feel like they have to hurry up a find a man. So that there will be less lonely men.. bullying only works if you believe it. Meanwhile my own mom is 50 and is dating again and having no problems finding a man.

@@Emptytopfloorno seriously! In your twenties you’re stress broke tired and trying to figure out life.. so for a lot of us health take the back burner unless “genetics* or growing up with an example of healthy eating.. I see more people in their twenties overweight.. for obvious reasonings with the amount of stress in this economy.. never understood how twenties is supposed to be anyone’s prime when you literally just became an adult 😅

THIS! You are so correct and that is genius stuff to act like their insult was a compliment and take it that way! It takes their little brains for a spin 😂 On the same topic - One time my ex invited me to get coffee with him on his lunch break. I already had things to do in the area so I said - sure. I went there looking like REVENGE 😁😌😈😈 - SHORT skirt and all. Ahh, the look on his face! Gave him away!! I’ll never forget it, likee, his mouth actually FLEW OPEN and his eyes widened 😁😁 Then… I sit on the chair opposite him and the FIRST thing this mf-er says is: “You look like you’ve been eating more lately” … LIKE BRUH you are seriously tryna tell me that I gained weight after I SAW you open your mouth in surprise at my outfit 😂😂😂 I laugh about it to this day, he was insecure as hell

Ex-bf used to talk shit about me wanting tattoos. I wanted to get sleeves but he said they were ugly. Why was he looking at Suicide Girl models? Why was the girl he cheated on me with covered in tattoos, including sleeves?

"You have a deep voice lol". Me : "Atleast one of us sounds like a man" That's what I used to say as a woman with deep voice.

@@furballrage595 Damn! Don't mind me stealing that hehe ^^

They always proceed with "it wasn't a compliment" Then i say "oh so you are trying to insult me" That's when they finally shut up

Of course they showed solidarity. His insults and mind games don't mean anything because after the interview, they'll leave together and he'll be alone, again.

@@dangerzone5828 so what? It's his duty not to be insecure. Do you think every woman fits traditional beauty standards? But they don't do dumb shit like this

That guy on camera has no game. He wasn’t doing it on purpose.

I've seen and heard of some short guys genuinely be nice or at least chill bc it's them being themselves rather than trying to compensate for height. Those same short guys also weren't bad-looking. On behalf of not just short guys but short people overall, we do not claim that mf.

@@xletragedyx Really? Is this the only RU-vid channel you watch?

Seriously though! Men like this need therapy.

I knew an insecure guy who was obsessed with me. He would talk good and bad about me with his friends and I never knew why he was like that. I remember I ghosted him when he rudely asked me out of nowhere if I was jealous of my female friend’s new job, I simply answered him that I was happy for her because I was lol it wasn’t a competition between us. But then he went around spitting his poison and then that female friend never spoke to me again. He had a girlfriend (which he treated like trash btw) but was incredibly obsessed with me, it has been the weirdest experience ever. Thankfully I cut his lame ass off 🚮

Your comment made me realize something... there are 2 guys in my year that do this to most of the female students in our field of study. Myself and my 3 closest (female) friends have always hated them. These guys are only nice to a girl each is close to in our year (tbh the girls they're close to are angels and very smart). They're not just mean to us [female students] but they're also disrespectful to our female Professors and Engineers. They are disrespectful/mean in a way that is not obvious to someone who is looking from the outside. Sorry for the long comment (and possibly bad English). I had to get this out of my system. I'm glad I'm learning this early in life!

Yeah I know what's that's like it like out scoring the boss at work it's interesting to watch there reactions if a woman out performs them in the work field that's a huge blow to there ego if your better at the job then they are so they usually become passive aggressive and jealous of you it's like there congratulating you while looking for mistakes in your work at the same time. it's mostly attention they want and boss men always mean the exact opposite of what they tell you. Like the other night he said, "don't let me catch you re facing the shelf!!" So I waited till the orders were totally done and he clocked out and I went over there to re face the seasonal section for an hour because it's the holidays and people can't find stuff an organized shelf will save your store from going out of business too.

@@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear facts.

Exactly!

Speak for yourself, personally I prefer compliments from my male friends

If my male friends tell me, I believe them. If a stranger does, like I know I look good, I don't need you to tell me. I accept/tolerate compliments from strangers if they feel genuine, though. I like to tell people they look nice, but with guys my age or slightly older I think thrice before I do that.

@@DEVITASSHOP Yeah your a pick me

@@DEVITASSHOP I mean there your friends. But lets be honest here, most people are straight. Thus if a compliment is coming from a stranger, and of the opposite sex, its going to be seen as flirting.

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Why do they say shit like this? This is just MEAN. They HATE us.

@@moonlightsky4840they want us to hate OURSELVES so we never feel like we deserve better than their asses 🙄

A good reason why I prefer women. So far, none of my girlfriends have treated me this way. The more I read comments like this, the harder it gets to not absolutely resent the other half of the population for the god awful way they treat women.

​@@jessicaK_wolfspirit00I'm bi but men terrify me at this point

"i see what you're trying to do," a royal wave, and an exit stage left would have been hilarious.

Agreed. You insult or ignore my friend(s) and the interaction is over.

I know right? I felt so bad for her. He literally called her ugly in her face.

​@@temposhop8739💯

Ugh, what a goon. They should have said, gotta go, bye!

It’s always the not so good looking people hating conventionally attractive people for validation from personal experience

If you haven’t seen it yet, a few videos ago Elle made a video about the two girls on TikTok where they were besties but one of them got a boyfriend and then the other one tried to steal the boyfriend. I think the video is called - How to react when someone is stealing your man - or something like that. And there Elle talks about this topic a little bit - how the two girls started hating each other because of a man and how it was unfortunate and what to do about it. I hope this helps! ❤

@@vanessaprincesssa yes it does tysm!!!

she has made videos on it already

@@uef0h You are welcome bestie 🩷🫶🏼

Unfortunately he may not be because women are willing to tolerate a lot. Too many women have zero self worth but luckily we have people like Elle trying to change that 🥰

good!

He's got the time to do on-the-street interviews, so he's probably trying to promote a channel or podcast. Typical maidenless behavior.

Trust me. He has someone

Unfortunately not. These men prey on the desperate insecure women and they fall right into his trap. Truly heartbreaking 💔

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Yes..the "arrogance" tag... no babe, that's confidence.

We're proud of you ❤

Great observation

Yeesh, you dodged a bullet there. He sounds like a nightmare 😬

You go girl

they see us as “getting something” or “as an achievement” while also putting us down , using us etc it’s very contradicting & horrible lol

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Exactly people especially pick mes love to say "girls are too much drama boys are better to hang out with" but boys are so mf mean to each other I remember one time in class this boy started roasting his friend about his hair. The whole class turned around to look at him you could tell he was pretty embarrassed and just replied back with "oh shut up"

Yup same. And they keep whining about not getting compliments or no one caring about them on their status. Or the way they just easily fall for women who just smiled at them or treated them nicely

​@@Genesisorgin lol pick mes LOVE being insulted. This pick me girl in my class has a bf and he treats her so badly but she would rather hate on other women he likes than leaving him. He literally insults her even when she sometimes cooks for him lunch ( they both are 18 like wth) he can't even appreciate her and also the "boys" she gets along with, usually make fun of her or are nice to her to get "s_x"

Only pick me women say 'I prefer male friends. Women are drama,'. Meanwhile, males have started all the major wars and life-ending drama for the past several thousand years.

​ Its the same men who say "women compliment each other so they're fake" then cry "men don't get complimented" bro i wonder why. Then they'd somehow put the blame on women and feminism lol

Oh my god I had someone do the voice is deep thing to me but it was slightly different and more pathetic. Him: what's your accent, where are you from? Me: I'm from here and my accent is a cold.

Having a deep voice isn't even a bad thing imo. I have one and it's one of my favorite things about myself, and if a guy told me what he said to that woman in the video, I'd just respond "Yes I do, and I love it".

@@starrilyskyIt is to them because they define their own value over their archaic and contrived understanding of masculinity and how well they represent it. So they think women (classic projection) define themselves over their similarly archaic and contrived interpretation of what femininity is. I have a deep voice and honestly love it. On one hand for practical reasons such as people taking me more seriously. It may be a sad reality and speak volumes on our society but (especially in professional contexts) a deep voice is a beneficial characteristic to have. And on the other hand because it's such a contrast to my very feminine and sweet presentation. Balance, baby.

Add to the list ''you're quite short for a guy''

​@@starrilyskyI don't even get, how "You have a deep voice" is an insult. It is a simple observation.

Literally scared. They’re scary.

Wtf? Damn the world is in shambles 😂

@@MitoPiano Crime stats read them

I am scared too of every male

Though I talk camly

You are absolutely correct! They are jealous of us because they can’t be us! 🥰 I experienced a similar thing at my first job. I was an English teacher for a small group of kids who were 2nd grade. It was my first job ever and first job as a teacher so I only had 1 class. When I tell you - I poured MY ALL into this class, I have perfectionistic tendencies (I am trying to get rid of them) and so I prepared very diligently for my lessons. The kids LOVED me and I loved them, I have that maternal instinct. THE PROBLEM came out of nowhere when one parent (a man OF COURSE 😪) saw me, we had a 20-second interaction (I just said hello, I am the new teacher) and from that point on this man HATED me. I was so young back then (19 yrs) and felt so much distress over this and cried. This man was obsessed (!!) with me - he would write emails to my bosses saying shit and insults about me, he would message me in the Viber group we had created for the class, talk shit behind my back that I sucked at my job (I didn’t, my group of kids reached a test score 98 out 100 at the end of the year) and that I didn’t deserve my job. I cried and explained all of this to my male co-worker. In a good turn of events, I am thankful for this male co-worker, he actually CALLED him on the phone and told him off!!! And he said to me afterwards - that guy was so AFRAID to talk to me on the phone and I confronted him about everything he said. And he told me that he could barely hear this dude’s voice, he was so QUIET hahahh😂😂 He said to me: Don’t worry, that’s not a real man! A MAN said this about this pathetic insecure dude! HA! That must’ve hurt him. I don’t even know how he is a parent. Then I shared this with other people and everyone’s explanation was the same - “he saw how beautiful and how smart you were at that young age and he was 1) horny, 2) he couldn’t handle it 3) he couldn’t access you in any way so he just HAD TO humble you (in his delulu mind). That’s what others told me and it finally CLICKED for me. Thank you for your comment! ❤ I am sorry that you had to experience that from your below bare minimum cousin. 😢 You really GOT him when you told him that in front of other men he is quiet as a monk!

Yeah as I've grown I've realised that a lot of men's hatred of women comes from the fact that they're jealous of us. They're jealous of our resilience, our friendships, and they're BIG TIME jealous that we're not as obsessed with them as they are with us.

@@ky9933 very true. In her last episode she talked about women being able to function without a man but not the same for men. You’d think they would treat us better since we’re the gatekeepers for babies smh 🤦‍♀️ I guess we’ll see how this plays out when we’re all about 40 when our daughters and sons are dating. Hopefully they won’t have to worry about this kind of bs

@@vanessaprincesssa exactly certain just have trash behavior smh.

I’m a medicine student and my older male cousin always tells me to humble myself

That part

makes a lot of sense

oh my god YES.

Exactly

Yes. And I think often the men or whoever is producing these have scripted it and/or are paying them the girls/women.

I had one like that too. Very active and obsessive. I sent my two weeks on April fools and never looked back ✌🏽

pls tell me you didn't leave it there and took revenge

@@Adriana-so5jn It wasn’t just me he replied to many bad google reviews. Only mine he was so personal about it and just trying make me feel bad about myself lol. My friend who worked there for like 3 months he called OSHA and other places so. My friend even got a longer paragraph then I did from our old boss. I don’t know if anything happened since then. 🤷‍♀️ Karma will get em. 🤞

I also know 53 years old men who gas light 20 years old girl then say women will alone after they hit the wall. Older men like to date younger women is red flag, they're abusive and insecure

Sounds like intermittent reinforcement, which is a pattern of psychological and emotional abuse.

​@@letym2271definitely Abusive and will turn Physical. walk away while to ou have the chance and don't engage. Also walk inbthe direction to a the nearest precinct you see how quickly the leave.

She’s said so herself no men allowed many times. I think she deletes their comments lmao 😂

That's because she deletes any/all men's comments❤

Good❤

that's how it should be

@@strawberrytiramisuthat is what I love about her! She deletes them and lets them rage on their own. Their comments being removed allows us to focus on the main topic and have productive conversations

Demons, I mean men feel how they view you is more important than how you view yourself. 😒

It's a psychological game. Everything is

Remember that Reddit where a man complimented a woman and she just accepted it and agreed with them? boy they wanted to burn her alive. She didn't do any kind of humble oh no or thank you kind sir she just agreed with their statement. Boy it was very eye opening. It was only when men told a woman she was pretty was a valuable when she agreed with that statement she was stuck up and disgusting like we're all supposed to not have mirrors and not try to make ourselves look good and when we try we're supposed to lie about it and say oh no sir I fell out of bed full makeup and perfectly curled hair today

There is a subreddit where people post pictures of themselves for people to rate them. A lot of the women that post on it are really pretty but get low ratings. The moderator tells people that if anyone rates above 5 or 6 they get kicked off the group for inaccurate rating

They always do this play on women's biggest insecurities age,weight and personality well at least what is stereotypically considered to be womens biggest insecurities they want to break you down to build you up to their ideal partner it's so pathetic they are behaving like petty high school mean girls

They always do this play on women's biggest insecurities age,weight and personality well at least what is stereotypically considered to be womens biggest insecurities they want to break you down to build you up to their ideal partner it's so pathetic they are behaving like petty high school mean girls

Ohh the nervee I wouldve told him: "Honey you've been single for a long time and your resentment/ insecurity is *showing* " 😂

Ew. He was probs afraid you would turn him into HR. Which. Yes. If you feel comfortable with that… bc he should be fired.

@@schuylergeery-zink1923 yes !! I was working for a temp agency and when I told them what happened, they contacted HR on my behalf 🤍 thankfully my temp work there is completed so I don’t know what happened to him, but I’m just glad I don’t have to be around that energy anymore 😭🤍🙏

Glad you understand that and you have a man who loves you! Let’s not let these losers get in our heads!

That's why he your husband 😀😂😂

Found the dusty@@sen431

Same thing literally happened to me recently. A friend of mine invited a guy over who repeadetely said that he "wants to f my mouth" IN FRONT OF THE GIRL WHO INVITED HIM. and he just KEPT going and going. It was so disgusting

True

Men like that are the worst. It's essentially micro dosing you on verbal abuse. "You take things seriously" is them trying to negotiate down your standards/boundaries... to convince you to be their verbal (and probably physical) punching bag

⁠@@HauteHorizonWell said. My ex-husband started off verbally abusive and then it turned physical. He would be so jealous of the attention I received in public (not even trying to garner it) and I once asked him why he never complimented me. He actually told me “because I don’t want you to get a big head.”

Yes, it's subtle and insidious and when you try to address it, they always have an answer. It's hard to get at and it's dark energy at the core.

@@transitionsncDark energy is exactly what it is.

I told one man that he wasn't sensitive enough. He didn't know how to respond. I also told him I took digs at him he would be in the corner balled up on the floor crying

It's sad and not healthy. Men need friends. They can't rely on women for all of their emotional needs. Sadly it seems like they're stuck in a very unhealthy and insecure mindset of fearing anything "gay"

@@angelikaskoroszyn8495 that's true, guys do need other male friends but it's a matter of them finding other guys to have healthy friendships with. If they've outgrown their old "bro" friends, it's more difficult for them to find other guys who are now on their same wavelength. That's probably why some guys don't like change. They want a wife or girlfriend but prefer she comes down to his level. He gets to keep his crappy "bro" friends and everything works out for him. Meanwhile, no one is actually evolving and in some cases, the wife is de-evolving to be with him. From what I've seen, good relationships should be based on desire to grow together and as individuals. Sometimes that means you outgrow your surroundings or old friends that want you to stay in the past.

This is also the cause of male loneliness. Cause I was confused by their tactic, like you guys bond so well with ur me and boys moment but why does it take the lack of romantic romance to make you depressed when u guys genuinely hate women?? Aside from not having the capability of loving a woman , they just can't seem to find a good group of male friends. Come to think of it, in incel community, it's common for them to take their life, no one was trying to stop each other, no one was comforting each other, instead they made a mockery of their fellow's death or oftentimes encouraging it. Like what happened to men supporting men those incel red pills always preach about?

I experienced this in my teen years and am much older now. I don't get why many men do this when they know it's hurtful. So strange that it must be primal/ instinctual for many men or some sort of rite of passage. I would understand if a man had poor behavior and "tough love" was how his peers motivated him to change and improve but they will insult even when the guy is doing well or has something good. I went through the same things as you. I would complement and uplift and he would go tell his friends, they would mock him, and he would come back to me for validation. I realize that men like this really need to find other friends, but their insecurity keeps seeking validation from the same set of toxic peers. And the "she's out of your league" tactic, is clearly said out of jealousy and is an attempt to keep that man chained to that particular peer group so that he doesn't surpass the people in it. because if they truly cared they would help him improve, but they can't because they are lacking themselves. The psychology behind this is interesting.

@@naturallyhoneybrown I agree, there's a lot of psychology behind these types of interactions between men. There's also a lot of psychology behind women/women and women/men relationships but the thing that's strange and unique about male relationships is the "hazing" type of behaviour. The need to show some kind of dominance by physically or emotionally hurting eachother. Then after they inflict these behaviours, they try to maintain these abusive relationships with eachother. They laugh it off by saying "that's how guys bond" and say that women will never understand male friendships while they simultaneously crave kindness and caring from women. Then complain when they have no women in their lives and they're depressed 😆 They could be kind and caring to eachother but choose not to be. Then expect women to provide that for them while carrying forward their abusive ways learned from their male "friendships" into their romantic relationships.

Compliments from men mean they want something. Compliments from women are genuine. The older I get, the more often I compliment other women as often as I can. We need so much more of this!

Hmm…interesting. If I may ask, what is a “mundane compliment”?

I feel the same. When men compliment me it makes me very difficult to believe that he's not doing it out of lust and interest, even when I know that he's a kind hearted man and it's likable he's genuine BUT he's still a man, a visual creature. That's why I don't say "thank you" and when I really do, I do it out of sheer education, I don't really mean it. When it comes to women complementing me genuinely speaking, my sparkling personality comes with the word "Thank you" in my tone. There are huge differences in being complimented by men and women. We are both different!

@@scary5455 hi i think you replied to the wrong comment.

The audacity! Good for u that you dropped him girlie

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GIRL SAME! I spent 2 years with my ex and he NEVER complimented me! And I am a girly who loves fashion and I put on outfits, ESPECIALLY for special occasion. On our anniversary that motherf-er actually TOLD me that I was… … Overdressed? 😅😂😂 That’s it. For 2 years, that’s the only remark on my appearance. Yeah, that was my first ever longer-term relationship, it was a learning experience for sure. I left him in the dust.

Same about compliments! I got only negative responses about my behavior. No good thing could be heard from him. He also went further and didn't even call me by my name. Like, literally, he was addressing me 'you' all the time. I called him out, and he told me that his father, too, never calls his mother by her name. Thank God we broke up.

Nooooo! My husband completes me OFTEN. I don’t even know you and that makes me feel MAD.

@@vanessaprincesssa NAH NAH GIRL HE DID NOT DESERVE YOU. YOU'RE GORGEOUS AND FREAKING AWESOME! UR DRESSES ARE AMAZING

@@22mshangui THANKS BABE 💗 YOU ARE AMAZING TOO

I felt this in my SOUL; thank God for making me average!

It's not just that, maybe their insecure about their looks and feel you possess looks and/or traits they don't

Its because you try to be non threatening.

NOPE! THERES NO NEED to be "non threatening and never compete" People think you're an easy target. Be as intimidating and competitive as you can. SHOW THEM! There's NO NEED at ALL to be thoughtful to shitty people. You're a people pleaser, I can see that. You only get life once, be fcking selfish.

It could be beacuse you are pretty.

You being such a wonderful coworker is threatening to an insecure coworker. I'm sorry they take their own issues out on you don't let them dim your light ❤

I love when women have rich, dark voices ❤❤❤

sis, i'm sure ur voice is magnificent (*･ω･ﾉﾉﾞ☆ﾟﾟ

Yes.

I read that sometimes a girl's worst enemy is her own mother. I can't understand why and it's so messed up

My mom isn’t terrible but she occasionally has called me a Princess and insinuated that’s a bad thing. She never takes care of herself so of course she equates self-care and self-love with acting like a Princess. But hey… I am 👑 ✨

I'm so sorry 😭 You deserve so much more

Yes! That's why I hate insecure people.

Periodt 😌

Thanks, I didn't know that

This can be a pathetic tactic, yes. Although, I will say as a man who has never been a weird incel.. beautiful women do appreciate this to an extent. Especially if you mean it and are not playing mind games. Very beautiful women get tired of the bullshit repetitive compliments. When I was dating and would be out with some 10 who was 5’9 and I noticed she had massive hands for a chick… I would just say or point it out…In a way only I can. It would lead to us obviously touching hands… her seeing how mine were still bigger… and he knowing I wasn’t obsessed with “this image of her”… a lot of you women in the comments do NOT qualify to be honest. Beautiful women NEVER get “negged” outside of incel street interviews. And they do appreciate someone who can just keep it real. This is from experience, asking them, them TELLING ME… if you are getting “negged” it’s not right but you are probably not that conventionally beautiful. Big difference between being able to just talk openly with women and being an ass hat. This “I’m a princess sensitive vibe” is extended to my daughters during theta… lol not grown women.

@@Strongdadlifting stay delulu bestie ❤

@@Strongdadliftingwhat are you on about?

Not true. I guarantee if you married a man and 4 years into the relationship he started randomly hurting your feelings when he was depressed you'd start questioning shit.

Keep going girl ❤

Girl men written by women are the best 🥰 they never let you down, it’s gotten to the point where I just prefer reading fictional men for escapism over dating irl!

@@addaiboakye4324 I was just thinking this lol that mangas and webtoons are so good man, now the Chinese ones if you wanna see some terrible relationship advice and fear all men their a good option.

Go to hospital

Oh my god, yes. Fictional men are just so much better than real life males. I get so sad knowing fictional men don’t exist 😢

You're talking about men the same way incels talk about women. By all means, stay single and avoid men if you're truly scared, but there's plenty of women in loving relationships, both romantic and platonic, with kind men.

I feel the same

She's out here lifting women up and waking us up! I am grateful I found her channel.

Why do I cry everytime I watch the movie? I already know what's going to happen, but still that last scene where she looks back at earth gets me.

Lovebombing is a red flag.

@@rejectionisprotection4448 definitely, lots of people aren’t aware of the signs of lovebombing though. people usually have the misconception that abuse is overt so they usually don’t see things like lovebombing as a bad thing

Went to homecoming with a guy who was wayyy too forward after I asked him out. Stuff like when I said I wanted to ride shotgun and he said NO?? Because he wanted to sit next to me. Waited for me outside of the bathroom which might sound fine but it creeped me out. Finally I ditched his ass at the dance and had an awesome night without him. He CRIED and told people I BROKE HIS HEART. We were talking for 3 days… that shit was crazy I still see his greasy ass around school he’s so out of my league like damn😭💀

@@harsh3948 no shit? But im not beneath anyone he clearly thinks he’s beneath me

@@spookyspaghett1 ew im glad u dropped him, what a clingy weirdo

lovee northern women

Who the hell you hang around 😂😂😂

When Harry met sally

Like he was talking about an object 🤢

I thought it was just me who felt uncomfortable.

He is doing that for the cameras. No men go up to two women and blatantly disrespect one while shooting for the other. Shit doesn’t happen

@@Strongdadliftingi am glad you didn't experience it! i personally do see many men do this passive aggressive stuff from my experience. That's why it's so nice to see these women have eachothers backs instead of tear eachother down:)

That's why I try to be as intimidating and confident as I can.

@@22mshangui same ❤️ ✊

Agree 💯

Same. More evolved overall

absolutely

No, we aren’t

@@DEVITASSHOPno, YOU aren’t

Cool story

@@Strongdadlifting thank you 💕✨

@@broelle4716 you’re welcome babe.

❤ ❤ ❤

Uh ok

Really it’s a street interview conducted by a guy who has a red pill incel base. Who knows what he is really like.

Do you think anyone would pay a man six figures to be a candy taste tester?

What I’m trying to say is that they’re doing this on purpose because it does work psychologically, but on insecure women only. If they’re insecure, they will try to defend themselves and qualify themselves, and that’s how they know to go after those specific women. The women will now want this guys approval so bad, because of the slight rejection, and subconsciously she’s now more attracted. However, once I knew this was happening, it stopped working. Indifference is the antidote.

And there’s forums and forums about this stuff.

Wow, thank you so much for sharing this!

@@alexyssaubrie1606got to be an NPC for this to work on you. If so, who cares at that point.

@@Strongdadlifting Why are you even here? Shouldn't you be too busy skipping leg day?

Oh yes, all a familiar story. One time I sent nudes to a guy I really liked (regret so many of the nudes smh) and he just said that I look like a red pig roasting over a spit (i'm not even overweight, not that it would be justified). Like wtf

@@fluffythebluepersian4888 I know. Never internalize any of the BS. After going on dates with like 15 idiots (and half of them casually insulting me) I found an amazing boyfriend. He’s everything I’ve ever wanted and treats me like a princess. Don’t settle for these idiots and keep your standards high ❤️