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12 Reasons NOT to Move to Japan 

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Moving to Japan to live and work is a life changing event. But is it worth it? From tiny apartments and outdated thinking, to complicated dating and being an outsider, these are stories and experiences of the difficulties you might face along the way.
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00:00 Why NOT to Move to Japan
01:45 Tiny Apartments
05:22 Discrimination
07:24 Work Life Balance
10:20 Cultural Barriers
11:26 Standing Out
13:37 Gender Inequality
18:25 Medical Issues
21:12 Lack of Jobs in Japan
23:00 Making Friends in Japan
24:48 Endless Rules
27:00 Being an Outsider
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Комментарии : 22 тыс.   
@AbroadinJapan
@AbroadinJapan 2 года назад
NOTIFICATION SQUAD: Get ready for "Brett Maverick" - the name you wish you had. 🍿🍿🍿Keep an eye out for Journey Across Japan: The Lost Islands which starts later this week! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SEN6v1ZFlJ0.html AS FOR THIS VIDEO, I've made over 200 videos in Japan over the years that've been rather positive about the country and I'd like to think my love for this country, the people and the culture are beyond question. But of course, the country isn't perfect (nowhere is). I've always held off of this video as I know it'll open a pandoras box of people telling me to "go home", but I think all of the criticism I've levelled at Japan in this video is pretty fair. Time will tell! But keep an eye out for angry racist comments. Hopefully we can bundle them into a future hate mail video...
@yeeeeeeeee3775
@yeeeeeeeee3775 2 года назад
Hi
@thomass6386
@thomass6386 2 года назад
Hi
@mike9859
@mike9859 2 года назад
Hello!
@andrewmay8865
@andrewmay8865 2 года назад
4th Hi
@WhyIsNewJeansoGood
@WhyIsNewJeansoGood 2 года назад
Hi
@bunrock
@bunrock 2 года назад
Started learning japanese to study in japan. Chris Broad: “Fuck off, don't move here” Well that's just great
@OLGMC
@OLGMC 2 года назад
"Understandable, Have a nice day!"
@milkshaketuga1902
@milkshaketuga1902 2 года назад
Why would you want to study in Japan the work/study culture is so strict and awful. I can see the point in moving there as long as you don't have a traditional job, but now I'm curious why would you go study there?
@arjix8738
@arjix8738 2 года назад
@@milkshaketuga1902 could be a student exchange program
@Bakut990
@Bakut990 2 года назад
Indian's going to study in Japan, that astounding.
@anorakb536
@anorakb536 2 года назад
What a great start
@im_sorry_i_forgot_my_username
@im_sorry_i_forgot_my_username 2 года назад
It's hilarious to see someone use the words "overly positive" when referring to Chris.
@alexanderholzer1534
@alexanderholzer1534 2 года назад
exactly my thought
@atiredfloridian777
@atiredfloridian777 2 года назад
I had to stop and blink when those words were used.
@m1-
@m1- 2 года назад
tru dat
@10seconds0
@10seconds0 2 года назад
Nut
@lordrork5884
@lordrork5884 2 года назад
How rude. I think he tests positive for sarcasm on a regular basis.
@tokyosteve1223
@tokyosteve1223 Год назад
I lived in Japan for 25 years before recently returning to Canada.. while some of his comments may seem humorous or quirky, he's pretty much spot on. This is quality commentary if you're looking for it. Japan is an incredible place, but it certainly comes with some baggage for foreigners. How you deal with that, is the trick.
@TheBillaro
@TheBillaro Год назад
well said. or not. i left. too much pressure. and stupid stupid stupid rules. grilled over with a fine toothed comb at work...... et al.
@conor7154
@conor7154 7 месяцев назад
Incredible place to visit maybe. Living here is hell.
@arc5015
@arc5015 29 дней назад
@@TheBillaro Can you share some of the ott rules stuff?
@keninaba9777
@keninaba9777 19 дней назад
I agree with you and the comment about how it's better to visit Japan than live there. I'm Japanese Canadian and understand a lot of both sides. It comes down to if you prefer Freedom or Order, Understanding or Tolerance. Japan is also changing. The aging population and the high influx of tourists and Asian foreign workers is changing the labour market. The last trip I came back from recently highlighted the higher amount of foreigners in the country from what I remembered 4 years ago. Things may change as years roll by. An updated video on this topic will most likely be necessary in 10 years.
@lor4415
@lor4415 5 дней назад
​@@conor7154exactly, for me the best place to visit cause It has everything a turist search, a paradise.
@thehikingrealtor6812
@thehikingrealtor6812 Год назад
I lived in Japan in 1986 for a year as an exchange student (high school) and for 3 months in 1992 as a college student. It was one of the best experiences of my life without question. There were times of immense loneliness - like Christmas day as I sat in class and knew my family was back home in New York celebrating together. There was incredible kindness toward me and hatred as well. I had a huge guy try to assault me as I walked with a Japanese girl (not my girlfriend). Luckily I knew enough karate to escape the situation. However, most of the time I was treated with respect and curiosity. In my "town", Fukui ken, Ono shi there were only a handful of non Japanese. Wherever I went I felt like the Japanese flag - a red dot in a field of white. The language was tough to learn but the culture was harder. Riding my bike to school in 10" of snow with no delay, no snow days, was brutal. Going to school 6 days a week was unpleasant too. None of the kids I went to school with had ever dated, drank or done really anything. I was way, way more mature and they were way better at math. You didn't mention weather in your video which is interesting as the rainy season was depressing. Otherwise your video nailed it. I love Japan and have returned 5 times briefly and can't wait to go back. Living there long term though......not so much.
@hedera1332
@hedera1332 Год назад
That's interesting that you find the rain the depressing. I grew up in a very drought-stricken area of Australia and have grown up with a real love for rain because of this. Even when I then lived in a place in Australia that experiences a lot of rain I still love it.
@thehikingrealtor6812
@thehikingrealtor6812 Год назад
@@hedera1332 I like your perspective....it's not a normal once in awhile rain I find depressing...it was the week after week of daily rain and having to trek miles to school on a bike I found depressing. I arrived soaked and no one cares. You are supposed to arrive and clean the floors, bathrooms, chalk boards, etc before class - no matter how much snow, rain or anything else you dealt with on the the way to school. They just have a very different mentality which was both god and bad. The 24/7 rain for 5 weeks was a bit much.
@FirstnameLastname-bx4zk
@FirstnameLastname-bx4zk Год назад
How did u become an exchange student?
@thehikingrealtor6812
@thehikingrealtor6812 Год назад
@@FirstnameLastname-bx4zk I was accepted as a Rotary Club International exchange student. I all these years later have become a Rotarian myself. Amazing program. Life changing.
@hedera1332
@hedera1332 Год назад
@@FirstnameLastname-bx4zk You usually do it through your university/college.
@NireFuster
@NireFuster 2 года назад
"The world's smallest beer" "No no no no no, I'm so big" I love this man already and it's the first time I've seen him
@PhillyEastSide
@PhillyEastSide 2 года назад
go watch the marmite video from a few years ago! He features in that too!
@ShabaaUkelele
@ShabaaUkelele 2 года назад
I envy you a bit. You have so many videos to watch from him...
@turinmormegil7715
@turinmormegil7715 2 года назад
I miss the old videos where he appeared
@stacybrown6546
@stacybrown6546 2 года назад
He is very lovable, isn't he?
@MezzMcGillicuddy1
@MezzMcGillicuddy1 2 года назад
Legend!
@ALSmith-zz4yy
@ALSmith-zz4yy 2 года назад
Japanese boss: "It's come to our attention you have a life outside the office."
@dillon9
@dillon9 2 года назад
Sir, I'm sorry, it won't happen again.
@mdjohnson1
@mdjohnson1 2 года назад
So true ... I've worked for a Huge Japanese company for 5 years ... and damn ... it is different!
@tsdobbi
@tsdobbi 2 года назад
@@mdjohnson1 I'm a consultant and my company wanted to staff me at this Japanese company, which would have required me spending a year in Japan. I would love to visit don't get me wrong, but I wasn't even that apprehensive about joining the fucking Army. I'd seen a lot of "a day in the life" in a Japanese corporate office and it seems fucking horrible. I stewed over it for about 2 weeks and said no. On the one hand it could be an unforgettable life experience on the otherhand I could want to kill myself a month in.
@AnotherAvaibleName
@AnotherAvaibleName 2 года назад
@@tsdobbi congrats on dodging a bullet
@sinless4088
@sinless4088 2 года назад
@@mdjohnson1 what's it like?
@himajin11
@himajin11 7 месяцев назад
After 15 years in Japan, I’m also getting ready to leave, partially for the same reasons as listed in this video. I ticked all the boxes: I learned the language, found a good job, got married, had kids, built a house. But in the end, I just can’t take it anymore. There are some truly heartbreaking stories in the comments and my heart goes out to each one of you. I could add my own but it’s too painful to spell out here.
@toplespecah666
@toplespecah666 6 месяцев назад
Heyy do you have email or something for communication? I’d like to send u chat to knowing more about japan, thanks
@himajin11
@himajin11 6 месяцев назад
@@toplespecah666 Hey, happy to chat here. How can I help?
@himajin11
@himajin11 3 месяца назад
@@Kappa_MappaHey, of course there are gardening jobs here. But unless you start your own company, it’s likely going to be paid just around the poverty line. Expect really slim pickings and super hard work. Also, it might be hard getting a visa for jobs that are mostly manual labor. As for being a therapist, if you’re okay to limit yourself to other foreigners an American degree will do - if you want to see Japanese patients you’re likely going to need a degree from a Japanese school and a near perfect command of Japanese.
@razi_haron
@razi_haron 2 месяца назад
@himajin11, the things you said are too painful to say, does it relate to the harsh working conditions? I got offers constantly from headhunters to come work in Japan (because I graduated from Japanese University long ago). Sometimes I feel like returning to Japan but when I think about the working culture, always makes me rethink. Is it still that bad now in the Japanese companies?
@SMGJohn
@SMGJohn Месяц назад
What makes you think life is different elsewhere? I see people saying all this stuff but honestly even in Norway people experience the same stuff, Norwegian people that is, native people lived and born here all their life. Isolation is down to Capitalism and is a growing problematic issue everywhere in the world, you are isolated at work, you are isolated in the public, why? Because jobs are moving into more and more independent tasks, less cooperating with others, the rise of social media did no one any favour either, people have this weird expectation that social media is the only place they can find people to talk to which is frankly hilarious. Because of this, people in the public are much rarer to say hello to you, its harder to form relationship in the public because events and gatherings just are not a thing anymore and its even harder to make relations at work because of the individualistic setup they have at jobs, you are required to do job of what maybe 2 - 4 people did in the past. Frankly, people who lived a long time in Japan and then complain about stuff, seem unfathomably ignorant about life elsewhere, even in their home country they would most likely experience similar issues, after Covid its gotten a lot worse even. I know a lot of people in Britain and they all share the same stories, after Covid even the pubs are emptier now, people just do not want to gather anymore, they discovered social media and are building their little echo chambers online.
@needbettername8583
@needbettername8583 2 года назад
I met an awesome Japanese dude called Sho when I was living in Australia. He was a Pro surfer, we went to watch him at some competitions and he was awesome, getting sponsorships and everything. He was looking at moving to Australia permenatly and I asked him if he ever wanted to go home. He laughed and said "man, no-one in Japan thinks surfing is a job".
@arrianah5080
@arrianah5080 2 года назад
quite irrelevant but i've watched an anime about surfing and one of the characters there was named sho
@iamwhatyouseeinyournightma708
@iamwhatyouseeinyournightma708 2 года назад
@@arrianah5080 what anmie
@arrianah5080
@arrianah5080 2 года назад
@@iamwhatyouseeinyournightma708 wave surfing yappe or smth
@alexanderhgardiner6731
@alexanderhgardiner6731 2 года назад
Bro was this on the Gold Coast? I met a guy called Sho who was pretty wild working at Donto Sapporo in Surfers, what a small world.
@needbettername8583
@needbettername8583 2 года назад
@@alexanderhgardiner6731 I met him in the sunshine Coast, not sure where he went afterwards. Hope he's doing good.
@lagnok
@lagnok 2 года назад
"hey Natsuki how are you?" "Fucking hell" thank you so much for reminding me of this absolute GEM.
@Eidolon5150
@Eidolon5150 2 года назад
Natsuki is just Japanese Johnny rotten
@Ballin4Vengeance
@Ballin4Vengeance 2 года назад
“Natsuki what are you doing?” “Fucking hell.” “*in depressed cynical voice:*sounds painfull…”
@mode3763
@mode3763 2 года назад
Natsuki deserves his own anime.
@kon2175
@kon2175 2 года назад
For anyone wondering, it’s at 23:16
@doubtingthomas9612
@doubtingthomas9612 2 года назад
Truth is Japanese are 'humble', 'polite', 'disciplined' and 'hard working'. Some foreigners are quite the opposite. Although I'm not Japanese, I can relate to Japanese point of views about foreigners 🤔
@MultiSciGeek
@MultiSciGeek 8 месяцев назад
I like it. I'm usually very cautious when something is sold to me as overly positive, and especially about Japan it's like people just CANNOT criticize it for some reason, despite it having numerous problems - from sexual harassment, to severe depression and xenophobia. So I'm glad this isn't one of those clickbait titles where they say "12 reasons not to" and then just proceed to list positives in a sarcastic manner.
@relicgamer2137
@relicgamer2137 Год назад
When you mentioned the neighbor leaving and coming back shutting the door I felt bad because I have family that suffers from OCD and this is a typical compulsion/ritual to push away a thought that's extremely terrifying. And can get worse. Makes me wonder if this is common in Japan but people don't get proper treatment. Either way I love your insight on this because my family has been thinking about moving there or buying a home there to spend part of the year there. And I tend to want the negative aspects of life to be presented 1st. I don't seem bothered by your list thanks again
@CHEFPKR
@CHEFPKR 2 года назад
All issues you have mentioned are meaningless in the face of convenience store friend chicken.
@kencowzyay
@kencowzyay 2 года назад
The fastest commenter in the trash taste expanded universe
@JC-of2nm
@JC-of2nm 2 года назад
Come to the PNW, Thriftway fried chicken slaps
@fabiocetrulo4462
@fabiocetrulo4462 2 года назад
Friend chicken
@underhillat
@underhillat 2 года назад
Indeed befriending a chicken is an amazing experience
@kflemonice
@kflemonice 2 года назад
I would love a convenience store friend chicken right about now.
@arc2444
@arc2444 2 года назад
I can imagine Chris' child who grew up in Japan starting a channel "Abroad in Britain"
@InvisibleJiuJitsu
@InvisibleJiuJitsu 2 года назад
he's got to have sex first! (sorry chris)
@demef758
@demef758 2 года назад
"20 fucking reasons why not to move to fucking Britain"
@DrunknAzn
@DrunknAzn 2 года назад
@@InvisibleJiuJitsu Goddamn
@physiwiz
@physiwiz 2 года назад
He'd go to bare ends innit West End Mastif ma g ya wagwan on ma blood bruv chicken penger creps fam. :)
@cosmobane6995
@cosmobane6995 2 года назад
*Another Broad in Britain
@bokchoiman
@bokchoiman 11 месяцев назад
Makes perfect sense why the Isekai genre is so strong in Japan. They all dream of a fantasy world they would rather be in than having to do all of the things in this video.
@SMGJohn
@SMGJohn Месяц назад
Aint that true for the entire world? People seem to inflate the country being bad, when in reality its just Capitalism being bad, hyper individualism, isolation at work, in social life, rise of social media and even Covid has had impact on society. Japan is the most advanced Capitalist country, by that I mean not by technology, but by the economical system, its experienced all the issues we face today in the western world, like 20 years earlier, Hikikomori began in Japan during the late 70s, thats a huge issue today in the west, funny how it all works out.
@bokchoiman
@bokchoiman Месяц назад
@@SMGJohn I wonder what western "Isekai" will look like.
@SMGJohn
@SMGJohn Месяц назад
@@bokchoiman Super Hero genre is literally escapism
@NunyaBusiness...
@NunyaBusiness... 5 месяцев назад
The honesty is much appreciated!
@jorgeaugustoamorimdesousa1120
It’s all part of your journey, including producing this informative , eye opening video, with a good sense of humour. Thank you.
@joost0133
@joost0133 2 года назад
Getting called overly positive as a British person must be considered a grave insult
@Kiki-7
@Kiki-7 2 года назад
I recoiled in British
@tSp289
@tSp289 2 года назад
I do feel like I'm letting the side down if I make more than two unambiguously nice comments in a row.
@carolusrex5213
@carolusrex5213 7 часов назад
They could not handle people from the midwest bro lmao
@ChristopherCricketWallace
@ChristopherCricketWallace 2 года назад
One minute you're accused of being too negative. And now you're being accused of being too positive. You can't win sometimes, man.
@GTti72
@GTti72 2 года назад
Next video: 12 reasons NOT to become a RU-vidr...
@marocat4749
@marocat4749 2 года назад
@@GTti72 😂
@vilena5308
@vilena5308 2 года назад
You can never win....
@drphibesrises
@drphibesrises Год назад
Thanks for sharing your experiences and your objective as a foreigner. Very helpful information.
@Kintaku
@Kintaku Год назад
I remember staying in Japan for a month twice, once when I was in high school as a foreign exchange student and again as I was going into my undergrad. I LOVED my time in Japan and am going back. But I've always said I love traveling to Japan but don't think I'd ever want to live there. I didn't mind standing out or being treated different so much because I expected it, but the rules are the biggest issue for me. There was one time my friends and I were having a conversation in the hall since girls and guys couldn't be in the same room, and we were told the hotel manager that even though we weren't actually in the way, Japanese people wouldn't go through because they'd feel they were interrupting, so we couldn't talk out there. At that point I realized, no matter how polite I thought I was, the societal rules of Japan would probably be too much for me to not rebel against.
@davidlee8406
@davidlee8406 3 месяца назад
I don't think you should feel that way. Japanese ppl get yelled at in hallways too. Do you see other Japanese blocking the hallway, talking? There you go.
@Kintaku
@Kintaku 3 месяца назад
@@davidlee8406 I don’t see how what you’re saying conflicts with my original point. Japanese people don’t do it because they know better. From our foreign perspective we weren’t blocking the hall because we left plenty of space. We couldn’t know that our very presence was blocking the way. My feeling (at the time of writing) was that these unspoken rules that natives know by growing up there would be too much for me to always fall in line with. Over the past year though, I spent another few months in different parts of Japan as an adult, and my perspective has changed. For one, this time I was more aware of the culture and better at communicating, so I didn’t run into these situations. And two, I learned that different regions of Japan are much more varied in how rigidly they adhere to social norms. I found Hiroshima in particular to be a very comfortable place to be myself.
@miutokunaga2824
@miutokunaga2824 2 года назад
As a Japanese, living in Japan is also difficult. A lot of the same things apply to many Japanese. This mind culture like hard work, being patient, and peer pressure makes us suicidal or depression. I always wanted to be free, playful, so I couldn't stand so much restriction for my most of life 18 years, that's why I decided to study abroad and live in the UK now. It's very interesting, that a foreign country more fits you than living in your original country. Despite totally different cultures, facing a lot of issues that you've never experienced, but you could live a greater life.
@matiasfpm
@matiasfpm 2 года назад
Interesting view. Greetings from Argentina 😎
@HalendleofLoc
@HalendleofLoc 2 года назад
Hope life here in the UK treats you well buddy!
@maegalroammis6020
@maegalroammis6020 2 года назад
life of living robots. i am proud to being elsewhere
@xelkim9666
@xelkim9666 2 года назад
@@HalendleofLoc UK has its up and down. In a small town like Rugby, Northampton and Leicester, I love the sundays where everyone just chill and be unproductive while chucking beer and watching football. However, weather is terrible which is why I travel to Spain or Portugal in the winter. Also traveling within the country is overpriced due to outdated infrastructure and I am being polite here using outdated. Not to mention the safety is compromised when you walk alone after sunset(of course I should not have compared that to Japan)One thing I do look forward to is carboot on the weekends, so many antiques its gorgeous and I could style my home and feel like a king in the castle lol
@HalendleofLoc
@HalendleofLoc 2 года назад
@@xelkim9666 Yep, sounds about right. British weather is so bad it defeated the Romans. Japanese storms kill Mongols, English storms kill Romans. We are not so different. Glad you've found things to enjoy too though. I didn't actually know they still do car boot sales though, I thought they died off years ago, that's awesome to hear.
@yakushimaexperience9308
@yakushimaexperience9308 2 года назад
Oh, and if you have a full sleeve tattoo as I do, get ready for some bizarre responses in public. I nearly gave an old lady a heart attack in the vegetable department of a rural mountain supermarket while buying onions... I felt terrible as I did not get a tattoo to wreak havoc on the elderly...
@horseboi984
@horseboi984 2 года назад
With all that yakuza over there most tats will freak people out lol
@satrickptar6265
@satrickptar6265 2 года назад
That lady story killed me 😂
@sukunaryoumen2834
@sukunaryoumen2834 2 года назад
Luckily I'm afraid of Needles i want tattoos but it involves needles heck nah
@burtbacarach5034
@burtbacarach5034 2 года назад
Then why DID you get a tattoo?jk
@Atrigraphy
@Atrigraphy 2 года назад
But didn't you... ? 😂😂😂
@tavo.needa_sip
@tavo.needa_sip Год назад
I’m a native american or “american indian” and i plan on moving to japan. Low key, some of these culture expectations in japan are similar in my culture, which is kinda surprising. But even so I’m not going to expect to just blend in, im 18 in college planning to become a teacher overseas. I’m still young so let’s see if any of my plans change, but i can’t wait to move to japan and have the whole experience.
@andymurray5045
@andymurray5045 Год назад
Good luck man, rooting for you!
@chaiam
@chaiam 6 месяцев назад
Well, it’s generally the orthodox theory that the original Americans, north and south came from Siberia so likely share a common ancestors with the Eat Asians…
@Bradgilliswhammyman
@Bradgilliswhammyman 4 месяца назад
No matter where you are from...if you were not born in Japan and not a native Japanese you will be considered a foreigner. Just be at peace with it.
@meggrotte4760
@meggrotte4760 Месяц назад
Yes they will never see with japanese but it doesn't mean you can live well there. I lived in korea japan taiwan I had lots of great friends.I just wasn't from those countries.
@bjb0808
@bjb0808 Год назад
I didn't watch the video yet, but when I heard your first reason and then looked at the list, I would say you have hit all of them on the head! Nice. I'm impressed.
@samtron5000
@samtron5000 2 года назад
You hit every nail on the head. Lived in Japan for 10 years, was married to a Japanese person, and had two kids. It took at least 3 or 4 years for me to get over most of that stuff, but some of it I never got over completely. Like, For example, I thought I was pretty comfortable and had gotten over things until I tried to enroll my daughter in youchien. She was turned away because I am a foreigner. I struggled with severe depression and anxiety the entire time I lived there and after that situation I became suicidal, because I felt my kids were better off without a crappy gaijin mom who would always make things harder for them and embarrass them.. because I knew no matter how much I had learned in the past I was always going to encounter something new, make mistakes, and look like an idiot. Whether it’s a new school, a new PTA duty, some unspoken rule I never knew until 7 years into doing something, a naraigoto, a ceremony, a neighborhood association meeting, …anything. I hated myself and I truly felt sorry for my kids that they couldn’t have a normal mom like everyone else. My ex husband beat me down the entire time I was there and refused to help me with anything at all, he just kicked me to the wolves. In addition to all that though, bad things do happen to foreigners for standing out sometimes. My very first week in japan, I was accused of stealing from Uniqlo at Granduo mall in Kamata station in Tokyo. I looked at a few tshirts, put them back where they were, realized I had to leave because I was staying with my ex husbands grandparents and they wanted me home by a certain time, and left (in a bit of a hurry I guess). Two security guards grabbed me physically on the street outside of the mall and shouted at me, ripped my jacket off, dumped the contents of my bag all over the ground, and flat out accused me of stealing. When they saw I had nothing, they left without apology. Obviously everyone was staring at the ruckus. Not one person stopped to help me pick up all my things. I was bawling my eyes out. One of the only times my ex husband ever actually did help me, he contacted the mall manager, Uniqlo manager, and security manager, and he and I had to go meet with them. He threatened them with legal action and voice recorded everything. They admitted that it was in fact because I’m a foreigner. I got my first ever dogeza apology which was almost as humiliating to be involved with as the initial situation as well as 2man in JCB gift money. In addition to that I then had to meet with the two security guards who stopped me and the manager of security again at Tully’s coffee where they also apologized to me and gave me 2man JCB gift money. I just wanted the whole thing to end. The only thing I could say was that I just hope this doesn’t happen to another foreigner by you guys again in the future… Don’t even get me started on hospitals and doctors… I’ve got plenty of stories such as when I was locked in my labor room alone in pitch black over night while in labor with my eldest, terrified, isolated, and in excruciating pain (and that’s only the start of that horror story) or the time I got a root canal without Novocain by a dentist who refused to wear gloves and got mad at me because I couldn’t gaman through it. There are some things I truly loved about my life in Japan and I am proud of that era of my life but truly and honestly I can tell you some dark stories.
@sudoo6987
@sudoo6987 2 года назад
Damn
@roseforeuropa
@roseforeuropa 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing. It may be different that your children had an american mom and a Japanese dad. Myself, as a mixed-race halfu, my mother is Japanese, father is white american (navy). Therefore, my mother did all the arrangements with houkuen and perhaps I was treated differently as a result. Maybe my mom had the cultural capital to make sure to guarantee my own well-being as a halfu. I am not sure why the Japanese culture, the same culture that produced kamikaze pilots and the rape of nanking, are like this tbh. I am not sure where it comes from. Perhaps their violent and bloody samurai culture remnants still dwells in their culture.
@marnixmaximus3053
@marnixmaximus3053 2 года назад
I like how anime fans pretend Japan is this progressive social country when in realty it's probably one of the most racist and conservative modern nations on earth.
@PureBreedInnovator
@PureBreedInnovator 2 года назад
@@marnixmaximus3053 Don't lump us all together. From what I've seen, most seem to accept that Japan would be a terrible place to live in. Those who glorify Japan's living situation without being there are few and far between.
@davidmurek2921
@davidmurek2921 2 года назад
I have a lot of similar stories after living 18 years as a foreigner in England ....
@kyleyoung7878
@kyleyoung7878 2 года назад
Serious Question: if you didn't have this RU-vid channel with the ability to connect with people (and make some income) do you still think you would have lived in Japan as long?
@LeoMkII
@LeoMkII 2 года назад
THIS this comment has to get to him!! it's a very good question
@alizaidi2152
@alizaidi2152 2 года назад
Get this up there
@CanaldoIllan
@CanaldoIllan 2 года назад
replying just to get this up
@blueswallow3096
@blueswallow3096 2 года назад
Up up up
@norealmagicever3292
@norealmagicever3292 2 года назад
boost
@romesrepublic
@romesrepublic Год назад
Japan seems like a cool place to have a vacation home that you visit once a year for about a month or so. Then rent out for the rest of the year. However, i could never imagine actually living there. It seems to be simply too different and strict.
@RumMonkeyable
@RumMonkeyable 21 день назад
Thank you for your honest, unbiased review!👍👏
@sf5477
@sf5477 2 года назад
Doc: "You should be more happy" Chris: "I'm Britsh" Doc" Ahh, alright then. Carry on"
@chukyuniqul
@chukyuniqul 2 года назад
Doc:"awrite yew go' a loicence fo be-een sad?"
@khinzaw77
@khinzaw77 2 года назад
Doc: "You should stop being British"
@jlyrojer
@jlyrojer 2 года назад
Doc: "You should be more happy." Chirs: "I'm British." Doc: "Oh. Right. Here take these." *hands Chris pills* Chris: "Wait. These are strychnine!" Doc: "Yes. You will no longer be British or sad."
@XxLeoKantizxX
@XxLeoKantizxX 2 года назад
Me: "Sorry doc I was born with severe depression."
@rasalghul8195
@rasalghul8195 2 года назад
Doc, Have you seen UK politics!!
@SuitcaseMonkey
@SuitcaseMonkey 2 года назад
Absolutely loved watching this. Really interesting. As much as I love Japan as a destination I definitely couldn’t live there.
@HiHatsAndBeatClaps
@HiHatsAndBeatClaps 2 года назад
Same here. It's such a fascinating country to me, but I would NEVER want to spend my life there.
@rhianna4281
@rhianna4281 2 года назад
I Really want to go to Japan for a holiday one day, but living there for me won't make it as amazing.
@StatchanaReborn
@StatchanaReborn 2 года назад
Saaame! The work culture is just too much for me, everything else is fine and can deal.. :D
@HiHatsAndBeatClaps
@HiHatsAndBeatClaps 2 года назад
@@Fabio-ql5yf For pretty much all the reasons discussed in the video, among others.
@Living_Target
@Living_Target 2 года назад
I would love to live there but man, I couldn't stand the work culture
@CrispyComics
@CrispyComics Год назад
Chris, I love your video how many of them just stand and get views forever, in march I started your first uploaded video and have been nickel and diming my way through, always surprises me when I go to the comments and see comments from 2-3 weeks ago from a year+ old video! great topics and content! just wanted to say keep up the good work!
@Noneya_07
@Noneya_07 Год назад
Someone once told me, especially when I went to Japan for a semester study abroad program in collage, it’s all about your perspective and you decide to go about your situation. No matter where you are you can either take things in stride and try to have a good time if that’s what you want to do. Idk it really helped open me up a bit and make me realize even when I’m traditionally boring or difficult situations I can either mope about it or try and make the best of it that I can. So I guess that’s what I try to do is make the best of my situation. I recently had a work opportunity that took me to New Jersey and I’ve honestly heard nothing but terrible things about the state (I’m from Texas); just there’s nothing to do there. But I made the best of it that I could and actually had a nice time.
@Rave.-
@Rave.- 6 месяцев назад
As a PA resident, NJ is jokingly the punching bag of the northeast. There's nothing actually wrong with it. Texas, on the other hand...
@tomclements9311
@tomclements9311 2 года назад
I genuinely expected one of the reasons to be, "Ryotaro lives here!"
@nazzyreacts
@nazzyreacts 2 года назад
is it not
@shasheeshsmile
@shasheeshsmile 2 года назад
13 reasons not to live in Japan
@marocat4749
@marocat4749 2 года назад
He seems nice, unless you are named chris😈
@eric1800es
@eric1800es 2 года назад
“This is a pen” is still wreaking havoc. Wow.
@HolyMith
@HolyMith 2 года назад
kore wa pen desu
@babynyxe4784
@babynyxe4784 2 года назад
kore wa pen desu
@Blu-ray
@Blu-ray 2 года назад
kore wa pen desu
@_MRK87
@_MRK87 2 года назад
The shockwave of that "P" went around the whole world
@64_jhex
@64_jhex 2 года назад
Damn, it's almost a half decade since that... Lol
@deannagarrison6562
@deannagarrison6562 Год назад
This is a great video. Thank you for your honesty!
@sunset9360
@sunset9360 Месяц назад
An excellent informative video whilst at the same time being extremely entertaining.
@EmpressMermaid
@EmpressMermaid 2 года назад
A cousin worked over there for 2 years as a medical translator and he's a 6'4" redhead. You can just imagine how much he stood out and got stared at. Children would often ask if he was a viking 🤣🤣 Apearantly there was some cartoon about Vikings that was popular at the time.
@chiaraj1003
@chiaraj1003 2 года назад
Could it be "Vickie the viking"? That was an anime that was very popular here in Germany, too
@EmpressMermaid
@EmpressMermaid 2 года назад
@@chiaraj1003 Could be. It was about 6 years ago.
@pearltefl8589
@pearltefl8589 2 года назад
😂 😂 😂 😂
@iiiivvvv9986
@iiiivvvv9986 2 года назад
@@chiaraj1003 inspired one piece too of I remember correctly
@chiaraj1003
@chiaraj1003 2 года назад
@@iiiivvvv9986 Oh, really? That's cool!
@huntermorgan6177
@huntermorgan6177 2 года назад
You know you have a great friend group when you introduce them like a bank heist team.
@kencarroll1821
@kencarroll1821 7 месяцев назад
Thanks! Great vlog! Keep it up👍
@gedhill544
@gedhill544 3 месяца назад
Cracking video. Looking like I'll be moving out there in two months, and this is the kind of stuff I need to hear. Great job, Chris 👏👏👏
@yakushimaexperience9308
@yakushimaexperience9308 2 года назад
My dear man, wonderful summary of the life of an alien in Japan. I live on a small island, been here 15 years total, and everything mentioned applies... Boom! Job well done. Keep up the good work...
@chrishansen5784
@chrishansen5784 2 года назад
There's no way you actually live there...
@dadtaro9202
@dadtaro9202 2 года назад
@@chrishansen5784 literally check his channel out
@satoyama.rupert
@satoyama.rupert 2 года назад
@@chrishansen5784 8 years here. I live in a sprawling kominka property in Fukuoka that cost just 8k (880,000 yen), including over an acre of farmland we do natural farming on. Not quite the cramped apartment he describes!!. My lifestyle has been featured on national TV. This channel is preposterous with it's mis-representation of Japan.
@carlosa7598
@carlosa7598 2 года назад
Ive lived in Sasebo for 9 yrs, now live in Ureshino, Saga Prefecture since 2005. Love every minute of it 😄😊🍵
@hazleygod
@hazleygod 2 года назад
@@satoyama.rupert Lmfaoo
@CoffeehouseCrime
@CoffeehouseCrime 2 года назад
Hi Chris! Long-time subscriber here. One thing to expand on is it's very widely viewed in the western world that Japan is extraordinarily safe to visit, BUT there is a tendency to push crimes in Japan under the rug and make them un-noticed. In a lot of the Japanese crime cases I cover I'm corrected on Japan's *actual* crime rates versus reported crime rates. This actually perpetuates the problem for foreigners. Anyway wanted to comment under your invite, I love your channel and can't wait for your new Journey Across Japan!
@turinmormegil7715
@turinmormegil7715 2 года назад
A japanese professor of mine, that was raised here in my country, gave me the following advice as to crimes and being foreigner there: Don't do drugs Don't do prostitution Don't do grand theft autos and resseling of parts to the overseas Don't do Pachinko and Cassinos Don't do Guns and Organs traffic Don't do frauds Don't get indebted You don't do any of those, you won't get into their (Yakuza) radar. It's generally very safe, unless you became a troublesome foreigner seen as something that needs to be purged..... I mentioned Yakuza specifically cuz that's what I'm told as most worrysome for foreigners, I know there are other crimes, but I think the most serious risk to your integrity as foreigner is getting notice by them as someone that deserves their attention
@rolerroleris533
@rolerroleris533 2 года назад
Im definitely no expert on japan, but all ive heard on the internets is that yes, it is very safe, but if something happens it's gets really difficult in a way. Japanese have the "saving face" mentality for real, and also making mistakes is judged way more harshly than in most other countries, that's why japan has 99% or something ridiculous like that conviction rate. That may seem great, but it only comes from the fact that cases only go to court if they are pretty much 100% sure they can win, and if they lack evidence or just confidence to make it work, the case never reaches court. This kind of ignorance combined with rampant xenophobia can make it really hard for foreigners who get in any way involved wit a crime. All of this info is from random youtube channels dealing with japan and some articles ive read, so take it with a pinch of salt, but i bet it's not far from the truth, it's just way more complicated.
@Masterlink01
@Masterlink01 2 года назад
So nothing new for people living in third world shitholes like me then lol.
@ZehVancho
@ZehVancho 2 года назад
I didn't expect you to be here
@aaclovern9804
@aaclovern9804 2 года назад
Japan is like that: if crime happens it's straight out of horror book
@bigjimmy4382
@bigjimmy4382 Год назад
Very enlightening video, not just on moving to Japan but really moving to any country where the culture and language is different.
@KaLjMeMe
@KaLjMeMe Год назад
Just found your channel. I think you’re brilliant! Keep up the good work. Thank you for all the insight .
@dididiihas
@dididiihas 2 года назад
The guy who would close his door 25 times definitely had OCD.
@Ag.mar.
@Ag.mar. 2 года назад
Was searching for this comment
@arka5557
@arka5557 2 года назад
I thought the same too.
@Loseirdo
@Loseirdo 2 года назад
I was going to say the same thing. I would bet anything that, given how polite and conscientious Japanese people tend to be, he probably hated himself for how much commotion he felt compelled to cause every morning. I feel bad for him.
@f.m7494
@f.m7494 2 года назад
I don't understand what's the thought process behind this? Like just curious
@putrijoyceirawati2638
@putrijoyceirawati2638 2 года назад
Or...or...hear me out. Ryotarou paid the guy a ridiculous sum to torture Chris mentally in a bid to break Chris' sanity. Hell I'd go so far as to say that that guy was Ryotarou himself, moving in unbeknownst to Chris! We all know Ryotarou's mission in life is to ruin and/or assassinate ruin Chris and take over his channel! Mwahahahaha...!
@TheIronArmenianakaGIHaigs
@TheIronArmenianakaGIHaigs 2 года назад
Incoming "Chris hates Japan" comments 😀
@AbuChanOfficial
@AbuChanOfficial 2 года назад
Lot of reaction vids coming
@Micro-Lander
@Micro-Lander 2 года назад
Bro what is a war thunder youtuber doing here ......
@nicjansen230
@nicjansen230 2 года назад
And as a result another reply to haters video is coming as well :P
@Ole_Rasmussen
@Ole_Rasmussen 2 года назад
Wait, Chris doesn't hate Japan? I thought he and I were two peas in a pod!
@danae5578
@danae5578 2 года назад
The flood gates have opened
@ahmedelzayady1724
@ahmedelzayady1724 7 месяцев назад
Nice video, you have very good story telling skills
@misteryonmusic
@misteryonmusic Год назад
Thank you so much for your channel and this video.
@Waterskull579
@Waterskull579 2 года назад
The Japanese RU-vid reactors are going have a field day with this one Chris have fun with those videos
@paulszki
@paulszki 2 года назад
I don't like "react" videos in general but there is a special place of hate in my heart for people reacting to Chris' videos.
@Azusai
@Azusai 2 года назад
@@paulszki I don't particularly mind it, as long as the person reacting will give his own insight or perspective about Chris's opinions. If the person reacting is just gonna make "oohs" and "ah" sound, then it's just a pointless video. It's just someone using the video to get views on their video.
@Ineedgames
@Ineedgames 2 года назад
tbh, it is interesting to see it from a native's pov
@Ole_Rasmussen
@Ole_Rasmussen 2 года назад
The Japanese nuclear reactors already had Chris on a field day.
@gntyh
@gntyh 2 года назад
@Audan Baan nah theres some good reactors out there for sure
@BarokaiRein
@BarokaiRein 2 года назад
''People won't sit next to you even if it's crowded.'' Me,a finn: '' I see this as an absolute win!''
@R3dH4z3
@R3dH4z3 2 года назад
Me as a NYer: I see this as an absolute win.
@joeledison2966
@joeledison2966 2 года назад
i have to agree to that as well. more space for me lol
@Kitti_B
@Kitti_B 2 года назад
I was sad when people sat next to me on the metro in Tokyo. 😅I thought I would be just a foreigner people try to avoid. I love Nordic countries. They know what personal space really means 😄
@MelancholyMoondancer
@MelancholyMoondancer 2 года назад
Me as a New Englander: Sounds perfect!
@noafisch5560
@noafisch5560 2 года назад
Me, a swede: "Isn't this normal?"
@marydoob
@marydoob Год назад
I’m an expat living in Spain, ( US), there are many subtle similarities, I’ve been here since 1994, but never going back. Anyway, great channel, been watching you for years with my son, you always put me in a good mood. Big hugs from Spain.
@airgaborpara3824
@airgaborpara3824 Год назад
Your sense of humor is as great like the Queen's in Black Adder comedy series. You reserve totaly the massive amount subscribers. Entertainment 100%
@fintanleech7028
@fintanleech7028 2 года назад
The “my neighbour ryotoro” poster had me on the floor laughing 😂😂
@kaimcdragonfist4803
@kaimcdragonfist4803 2 года назад
That film would single-handedly bring about world peace.
@ozonejgs2887
@ozonejgs2887 2 года назад
Glad that I'm not the only one!
@kaldo8907
@kaldo8907 2 года назад
Were you already down there or did you climb onto the floor to laugh?
@dreenarmookington2240
@dreenarmookington2240 2 года назад
I want that movie made NOW
@fintanleech7028
@fintanleech7028 2 года назад
@@kaldo8907 I fell 🤦‍♂️
@Daracus
@Daracus 2 года назад
"My Neighbour Ryotaro" is my favorite film.
@RPADRUNK-N-MASTER
@RPADRUNK-N-MASTER 11 месяцев назад
Your so amazing, made my day thank you keep being you
@Kitana1599
@Kitana1599 Год назад
Thank you for the informative video, so interesting and in some parts shocking.
@ScipioCornelius
@ScipioCornelius 2 года назад
Ryotaro: He's gonna die. The pinnacle of true friendship there.
@BrSgtJordan
@BrSgtJordan 2 года назад
a friend will help you out in a time of need. A true friend will stand there and laugh, and *then* help you out
@LoliMaster69227
@LoliMaster69227 2 года назад
Nothing says friendship better than pointing your buddy in the face and laughingly yelling into a camera hes going to die XD
@ScipioCornelius
@ScipioCornelius 2 года назад
@@BrSgtJordan Indeed
@ScipioCornelius
@ScipioCornelius 2 года назад
@@LoliMaster69227 XD
@marocat4749
@marocat4749 2 года назад
@@BrSgtJordan True
@textmachine09
@textmachine09 2 года назад
Not gonna lie, A FRAUD in Japan is a channel that I would subscribe to.
@TheObsidianX
@TheObsidianX 2 года назад
Tips on how to scam your way through the country.
@maniacone4499
@maniacone4499 2 года назад
what about afraid in japan? ...like a horror version of this channel lol Maybe a Maid in japan => Chris in a maid costume yeeah maybe the last ones a bit much haha
@GrenNoshi
@GrenNoshi Год назад
I just moved to Japan and I LOVE IT. Every second of it. The only real complaint is that I can't just go to a Home Depot and look for housing supplies. I have to actually look around stores I never even heard of and they do not have their own websites so you cannot view before going in. My favorite store so far has been Nitori or Don Quijote
@ryunocent6318
@ryunocent6318 Год назад
Go to コーナン
@Scarpez_
@Scarpez_ Год назад
do you think that even in the long run it will still remain amazing? i’d like to know your opinion
@GrenNoshi
@GrenNoshi Год назад
@@Scarpez_ I been here for a year now since that comment. I've gotten pretty used to the culture already and it feels normal. I am still thankful everyday I am here in Japan. Sure it maybe depressing with the language barrier and I feel alone, but at the same time this is the most happiness I have felt rather then being over in the states. I'd say though I have been feeling a crave for American BBQ. One of the few things I miss from US is the food.
@GrenNoshi
@GrenNoshi Год назад
@@ryunocent6318 Totally meant to reply to this. Another favorite store added to my list.
@Scarpez_
@Scarpez_ Год назад
@@GrenNoshi oh really? food? i thought it was one of the very good stuff about japan all it’s unique food it has, btw thank you for your feedback i really appreciate it
@david-reason
@david-reason Год назад
Hi Chris, I've been looking through your videos and enjoying your sarcastic flare. I'm a Brit who had a mid-life crisis and left the UK when Gordon Brown was PM. I knew life in Kazakhstan would be better! I then lived in China for 6 years in Shanghai but mostly in Chengdu (where the pandas come from). In Chengdu, I was stared at every day, staring in China is not rude. Yes, it was difficult making friends and having a relationship with a girl plus my Chinese wasn't good. But like you, I taught English and Business English in several businesses but NEVER in a state school. It was very fulfilling and after 6 years I felt a change was in order. I moved to Bangkok, Thailand which is "pretty much perfect" and have been here ever since. I'm not going home! I am keen to visit Japan to see the cherry blossom in Osaka perhaps in 2024? I have a long list of countries to explore with both TIME and MONEY as the obstacles which need to be overcome! Also you must travel, before you get too old or ill or demotivated. Covid tried this but failed. Keep up the good work. Best wishes from Bangkok.
@Axonharcos
@Axonharcos Год назад
Your story is very inspiring! Thank you for writing it down!
@Mawyman2316
@Mawyman2316 Год назад
I see you found a way around that lack of ladies problem lol
@Xanatos_Clutch
@Xanatos_Clutch Год назад
If you love Bangkok, Osaka is basically a "1st world" developed version of Bangkok. Tokyo on the other hand would more likely remind you of your time in China.
@massimobrocchini
@massimobrocchini 2 года назад
The guy in the bathtub is the ultimate calling card.
@KaiserSocase
@KaiserSocase 2 года назад
Abroad in a man
@Journey22405
@Journey22405 2 года назад
@@KaiserSocase abroad in a pan
@KaiserSocase
@KaiserSocase 2 года назад
@@Journey22405 i really felt sorry for the girls
@keanhsu-official
@keanhsu-official 2 года назад
Mental health is a massive issue in Japan. It's not that they don't understand it, it's that they DON'T WANT to understand it. Even the doctors are mostly unwilling to try. There is a lot of depression in Japan which is VERY treatable, but because it's so taboo and no one is willing to acknowledge it, people don't have anyone to turn to for help, and many times it will lead to suicide. It's very sad to see such an advanced society to have such a treatable and preventable problem.
@ivanedemdogbegah8891
@ivanedemdogbegah8891 2 года назад
The 25 door slams in the morning that Chris mentioned in the beginning is HARD proof of this. HARD. That sounds right like OCD. And, truly, doesn't necessarily sound treated either.
@DoritosBurger
@DoritosBurger 2 года назад
You can argue that it's even worse in America, school shootings happen on a regular basis because people with mental health issues are not getting the help they need. The Joker movie was trying to make that point.
@xSh4dowXSnip3rx
@xSh4dowXSnip3rx 2 года назад
@@DoritosBurger USA much larger country(26x); much more population(2.6x). People in the US avoid the help they need due to a lack of finances to cover that medical care rather than a lack of acknowledgment of there being a problem at all. Social/Cultural issues be a tough cookie. Also, here's a list: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_school_shootings_in_the_United_States As far as I can tell the majority - if not practically all(joking) - of these "shootings" appear to involve very different circumstances - at least in the last 10yrs or so - from a few key ones you're likely to have in mind such as the Columbine High School massacre. But; regardless of that, of all the ones I read through the locations of these incidences would appear to be happenstance and more than likely would've occurred whether they were at or nearby a school in the first place.
@TheScratchingKiwi
@TheScratchingKiwi 2 года назад
Given that many of the common medicines used to treat mental illnesses such as depression are still not available in Japan, I'm not at all surprised. Some people have to change their medication (with all the problems that brings} before emigrating because of lack of availability. Their treatment options are very limited.
@LoneWolfZakuro14
@LoneWolfZakuro14 2 года назад
I get my depression meds here, and they give them to me in 15 seconds without any questions about my medical history or anything LOL They don’t care about talking about mental health AT ALL.
@mariacrodriguez617
@mariacrodriguez617 Год назад
Thank you for this video.
@DCLayclerk
@DCLayclerk Год назад
I think you’re hilarious and I love your videos. My wife told me about you and showed me some, and now I’m hooked. 😊 Keep up the good work.
@sampanchung1234
@sampanchung1234 2 года назад
When are we getting a "My Neighbour Ryotaro" that movie cover was just beautiful
@safi6749
@safi6749 2 года назад
Lmao
@MarcoLongoMusic
@MarcoLongoMusic 2 года назад
TONARI NO RYO-TA-RO RYO-TA-RO
@kaimiz
@kaimiz 2 года назад
Your name 😫💦
@WeI1994
@WeI1994 2 года назад
Working as a recruiter, meeting endless of people who wish to work in japan while not considering the reality of actually living here, this video makes my job 1000time easier.. thank you lol
@natsukijones1759
@natsukijones1759 2 года назад
I lived in japan previously and have been looking for work To move there again, but all the recruiters I've come across are for inter Japan job moves, not international. This might just be due to coronavirus at the moment but if you could have recommend any agencies I'd really really appreciate it please 🙏🙏
@criminon_
@criminon_ 2 года назад
I'd definitely love the opportunity. What exactly do you recruit for?
@royhooey3640
@royhooey3640 3 месяца назад
Good job, i enjoyed watching this.
@BigHeadClan
@BigHeadClan 9 месяцев назад
Recently just came back from Japan after a 3 week trip and it was a pretty easy adjustment, being Canadian I feel like a lot of our cultural behaviours are pretty similar . Don’t be overly loud in public places like trains, we enjoy drinking after work and are very polite and accommodating as a whole. That said it was just a tourist experience and living there is likely a very different experience.
@p08kuni130
@p08kuni130 2 года назад
I’m Japanese. Do not work in Japan. I woke up 4 in the morning, then came back 9pm usually. This video has a lot of sense for me at least. Sometimes traditional is pain in my ass.
@FSaidArslan
@FSaidArslan 2 года назад
How come one of the most advanced country in world could allow this kinda thing? What is government doing about this or is it just a culture thing?
@SilverQuartz13
@SilverQuartz13 2 года назад
@@FSaidArslan As far as I know its a cultural thing. Being devoted to the whole team so to speak.
@ElsaKyle
@ElsaKyle 2 года назад
@@FSaidArslan this is definitely cultural. Japan is very strict to staying in their traditional ways. (or so i've seen and heard) that "Stuck in the past" reason is a perfect example of how Japan is strict in their culture.
@mrelitists7751
@mrelitists7751 2 года назад
@@FSaidArslan beacause japan is just like america the media shows u the good side leaves the bad
@habialtx3
@habialtx3 2 года назад
@@mrelitists7751 lol, every country do that.
@jamesashby4334
@jamesashby4334 2 года назад
I lived in Japan twice, three years as a high school student and later 6 years as an executive at a subsidiary of a company headquartered in silicon valley. The points made in the video are quite accurate and anyone considering a move to Japan would benefit from taking them to heart.
@pollen04
@pollen04 2 года назад
Did you still find the pros to outweigh the cons?
@jamesashby4334
@jamesashby4334 2 года назад
@@pollen04 Very much so. But I was there as an expatriate executive so I had much more support than someone who goes to Japan with no job and no connections and has to figure it all out on their own.
@mitchell6679
@mitchell6679 2 года назад
@@Jake-sb9bs hire a Japanese lawyer if you want to know
@jamesashby4334
@jamesashby4334 2 года назад
@@Jake-sb9bs Sorry, I am not knowledgeable regarding requirements for permanent residency. During my stay I had a work permit and temporary residency statis which required that I leave the country periodically which was not a problem since my job required that I travel regularly.
@jamesashby4334
@jamesashby4334 2 года назад
Also, my job required that I travel regularly outside of Japan. While I enjoyed my life in Japan, if I went more that three months "in country" I felt a physical sense of expansive relief when I got off the plane in the U.S.. But in a few days I was happy to return.
@caesarmarinez8821
@caesarmarinez8821 Месяц назад
Great video. Thanks for the info.
@chefrowlet
@chefrowlet 4 месяца назад
rewatching these why NOT to x videos... My application to JET was declined back in 2019 and I was really torn up about it. I still dream about what could've been, but I find these videos weirdly comforting. Like your other one where you chatted with Pete about teaching, and how it finally broke down my unrealistic daydreams. I'll still visit Japan someday, but as a tourist, where my whole life and mindset won't have to turn on a dime just to not-quite-fit-in.
@guigoroable
@guigoroable 2 года назад
Having lived here for over 16 years now, married to a Japanese wife, having kids, working in Tokyo, even built a house here, I can only say I agree with all points you bring up. Especially the last one your friend mentioned about never expecting to become Japanese. I know quite some people who struggled with that and never felt they fit in. Love the channel by the way, even though I live here and watch it from my house in Tokyo, it always gives me some new ideas, a new set of eyes sometimes, and even some cool travel ideas. I also love driving, haven't been to Sendai by car yet, but certainly plan to in the near future. Keep up the great work & cheers!
@tSp289
@tSp289 2 года назад
What's it like for your kids, out of curiosity? I have a friend in your situation but oddly enough even though she's British she almost looks mixed-race Japanese herself (she has the 'white' version of an Asian eyelid, like Bjork etc.), so her kids do still look fully Japanese. I've often wondered if it'd be harder for her if one of her kids looked more European than they do.
@SH4D02
@SH4D02 2 года назад
Cant help but notice your username, have you perhaps changed your name? Or do you go by an alias with your legal name staying the same as before?
@guigoroable
@guigoroable 2 года назад
@@SH4D02 yes, sort of. I was born in Amsterdam so this is obviously not my real name. It comes from my wife's family name, Nakamura, plus the Japanese pronunciation of my Dutch first name when written in Kanji. I kept my Dutch passport though, and made no legal changes so it's an alias
@guigoroable
@guigoroable 2 года назад
@@tSp289 my daughter is definitely recognizable as mixed race, and I like to think she got the good parts of my Dutch and my wife's Japanese features. She goes to regular Japanese schools, so initially it was tough for her to fit in, especially in kinder garden and early years of elementary. I don't live in the center of the city, more on the outskirts where foreigners are a bit rare, so the kids around here had to get used to her as well. She is now junior high, going on to high school, and that problem has completely disappeared.
@tSp289
@tSp289 2 года назад
@@guigoroable Glad to hear it! A family friend visited Japan in the 1970s, and he had a load of kids chasing after him shouting 'Gaijin!' Glad to hear they're a little more accepting now.
@marin6690
@marin6690 2 года назад
I’m 100% Japanese and grew up there, but because of those reasons I left Japan. What he says here are all right 😂 Especially the endless rules! My friend recommended this channel and I enjoy your vids!
@bunni9843
@bunni9843 2 года назад
@Razor Lover I’m pretty sure she just means she was born and raised there.......
@bunni9843
@bunni9843 2 года назад
@Razor Lover so if u knew why give a long winded unnecessary comment :/
@bunni9843
@bunni9843 2 года назад
@Razor Lover I understood what you were trying to say but it had no relevance to what the original person was commenting thats why I thought you misunderstood sorry if that upset you.
@petereast1447
@petereast1447 2 года назад
@@bunni9843 I agree with you. Razor Lover's comment makes zero sense. Trying to get all technical saying that there is no 100% genetically pure Japanese.
@petereast1447
@petereast1447 2 года назад
@Razor Lover Yeah we get it Einstein, so spare us your technicalities. Your comment was pure stupid. There is no 100% of anything. There. Are you happy now?
@crystalhealing847
@crystalhealing847 Год назад
Loved your video and your british sense of humour...love from Italy 🙏💖❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎
@smileynorie
@smileynorie Год назад
I am a Japanese living in countryside in UK. I learn a lot about Japan from your video. Your video summarise up about Japan really well and hilarious 🤣
@pinkiemiku7700
@pinkiemiku7700 2 года назад
"You should be more happy" *The number of depressed people drops to zero*
@starlace6570
@starlace6570 2 года назад
Honestly this was one the toughest subjects in the video. Mental health is an important part of living a fulfilling life. It was disappointing (but not surprising) to hear that it's not taken very seriously.
@TokyoLens
@TokyoLens 2 года назад
Who else is waiting on the Japan VS Narnia video now? 🤔
@Mainstr3am
@Mainstr3am 2 года назад
how about when would chris do the skate board challenge across japan i bet he would get really fit if that happens
@tordlindgren2123
@tordlindgren2123 2 года назад
Let's goooooo!
@kookurikapooh
@kookurikapooh 2 года назад
I'm all about that My Neighbor Ryotaro to be honest.
@alphamike87
@alphamike87 2 года назад
I’d watch it lol
@peternouwen
@peternouwen 2 года назад
Oh yes! 🤩🤩🤩 🏰🐉🧝‍♂️🧚🏻‍♀️🦁... First question: Are Japanese apartments big enough for a wardrobe big enough to fit a lion and a witch in it?... 🤔
@Andrea-xr6cc
@Andrea-xr6cc 27 дней назад
glad I watched this video and discovered you!
@gcm4312
@gcm4312 3 месяца назад
I just returned from my first visit to Japan and I could to relate to many of these points as a tourist there. Very candid video😊
@PaperPatriot
@PaperPatriot 2 года назад
I can't believe Chris nearly, genuinely put Risottero on that list without a bad word....almost
@Depressingdumb
@Depressingdumb 2 года назад
Almost
@XxxXxx-yh5gz
@XxxXxx-yh5gz 2 года назад
Thats why for me, Japan is a wonderful place to travel to as a visitor, but not so much as a place to live.
@sunny_sunshine0411
@sunny_sunshine0411 2 года назад
Same. I love Japan so much that I have traveled back and forth at least 3 times/year for the past few years until Covid. But, like you said, Japan is only to visit and explore, not to live!!!
@marcello3888
@marcello3888 2 года назад
Just like the usa
@sword3349
@sword3349 2 года назад
You've just described literally anywhere on Earth.
@lifeinjapan1592
@lifeinjapan1592 2 года назад
@@sword3349 Every other country is not as introvert as Japanese people, the problem with Japan is the society they have evolved into. Yeah, there’s much respect and stuff, but you will literally die of anxiety and depression here. There’s not a single foreigner who enjoys living in Japan but are here because of work/money. Some places tend to be friendlier towards foreigners such as Kansai, but Tokyo and above, not so much. Japan is clean, perfect streets, everything is on time, almost no noise pollution as compared to other countries. Yeah other countries have major problems, but atleast you will not die there because of boredom and anxiety/depression. Even Japanese people know are moving to foreign countries because of the very same reason.
@Pepe-dq2ib
@Pepe-dq2ib 2 года назад
@@lifeinjapan1592 come live in Chicago or DC.
@fuzzbawls6698
@fuzzbawls6698 Год назад
@AbroadinJapan I've been hosting Japanese exchange students here in the US for about 12 years, and they're ALWAYS opening/closing doors 20-30 times in the span of like 10 minutes in the morning (while others in the house are still sleeping...or trying to), and they can never seem to do so quietly! I've always wondered if this is just a normal thing in Japan...apparently it is
@med6399
@med6399 Год назад
I do enjoy your work!😎😎😎
@hidoisensei
@hidoisensei 2 года назад
I enjoyed my 12 years in Japan. Something I found is that foreigners aren't held to the same standards as Japanese so there wasn't the pressure to work late, observe all the rules, etc. One thing that got to me a bit was point #12. I could live in Japan for 30 years and I would still be referred to as "the foreigner". Also the inevitable "_________ jouzu desune!" comments. That killed me a little inside every time.
@penttikoivuniemi2146
@penttikoivuniemi2146 2 года назад
Yeah, strangely it's getting "jouzu'd" that does the most mental damage over time. I never had trouble with feeling like people are staring, I figured it's normal to look at someone who looks so different from most people, so I never got paranoid about it. I also realized pretty soon that (most) Japanese people aren't avoiding you because they hate foreigners, they are just terrified of the possibility of having to attempt to speak English, up to the point that they don't even realize it if you are speaking Japanese instead. But constantly getting praised for the most mundane things makes you feel like some sort of lab rat that has managed to pick up a trick that makes the humans happy. It's strange, it shouldn't feel bad and they definitely aren't doing it to make you feel bad, but it gets grating really quickly.
@RS-fy9hb
@RS-fy9hb 2 года назад
@@penttikoivuniemi2146 It seems you're describing feeling patronized 😊.
@opiniotworczyblog5090
@opiniotworczyblog5090 2 года назад
@@RS-fy9hb Man, you’ve just described my last 6 years in the UK. I won’t tell which part (not England) since people are absolutely lovely there but you do get overly caring personalities who buy you food from the local Polish shop because you MUST be missing home. And as I say, it’s absolutely lovely of them to buy me food, it is, really really kind gesture. And I almost felt bad for getting annoyed and now I think you hit the nail on the head - it does feel patronising and #12 on the list, boy Oh boy, do I need to even say anything about it for a Pole living in the UK? And as I say, lovely people where I am, but always being asked: ‘do to go HOME for Christmas?’, ‘do you go home for holidays?’. Bro, my home is in downtown, pretty happy there. and in fact, I home no other home. So, the buying food part, probably not patronising at lot but a little bit silly; the ‘when do you’ questions - yeah, these can feel - as you’ve helped me realise @R S , thanks - pretty patronising. But hey, that’s life, I enjoy being a foreigner, I enjoy being where I am but at the same time, you can’t beat having a good life in a place where you’re from and that’s why I’m back now, back in Poland. I’d never trade my time in the UK, absolutely loved it, every minute of it (again, I was not in England), and yeah, that’s it.
@RadenWA
@RadenWA 2 года назад
@@penttikoivuniemi2146 yeah, just like how I feel when people still compliment my English, despite the fact that I’ve lived in Australia for years, just because I’m Asian and has an accent 😊
@MrYumemata
@MrYumemata 2 года назад
日本語で失礼します jouzu desune! これは確かに初めて会った人には言っちゃうかも 日本人でさえ日本語は難しいものと思ってるからそれを海外から来た人が喋ってると素直に凄いって思っちゃうんだよな~ 確かに長いこと日本に住んでて日本語に自信もあるのに上手ですねを言われたら嫌な気持ちになる人もいますよね😥見極めが難しい…sorry… 日本も外国の人が日本に定住してそういう人達の子供が多くなっていくと、ある種のステレオタイプは薄まってくるとは思う 何年かかるかは分からないけど😂
@Leon_der_Luftige
@Leon_der_Luftige 2 года назад
"You should be more happy" Is this the same guy suggesting to homeless people they should "just buy a house"?
@Ja.floppa
@Ja.floppa 2 года назад
yes
@Svoorhout85
@Svoorhout85 2 года назад
Just stop being depressed, bro.
@ThreadBomb
@ThreadBomb 2 года назад
If you are unemployed you should just get a job. Because there are infinite job vacancies, right?
@giornogiovanna8572
@giornogiovanna8572 2 года назад
If you are starving just eat food... Duh
@Phunk_me
@Phunk_me 2 года назад
Happiness is a choice
@chubbychops1000
@chubbychops1000 Год назад
Wonderful video....THANK YOU SO MUCH I have subscribed.
@erictay36
@erictay36 Год назад
i am from singapore which is hot and humid year round. I found my paradise in japan because except for summer, the rest of the year are very comfortable plus the four seasons scenery and landscape are fantastic. thus i don't mind the negative part of living in japan. ten years living in japan now and I can live forever here.
@emmam4223
@emmam4223 2 года назад
"Sad trumpet" will forever be the most iconic Abroad in Japan sound effect
@jonahwillis2781
@jonahwillis2781 2 года назад
What about "Evil Piano" tho?
@emmam4223
@emmam4223 2 года назад
@@jonahwillis2781 also a good candidate for most iconic Abroad in Japan sound effect
@matt8pie
@matt8pie 2 года назад
I was browsing a website for music for my other RU-vid channel and came across the theme song he uses for journey across Japan, and that should be retired for only Chris' use imo 😃
@PettankoXO
@PettankoXO 2 года назад
I... I can’t believe they PRINTED off picture results and it wasn’t on a computer 💀
@Broockle
@Broockle 2 года назад
like one of those instant print cameras from the 70s ;D
@TimothySSwan
@TimothySSwan 2 года назад
Seriously, they don't have a print queue???
@khoirulanam9141
@khoirulanam9141 2 года назад
Many Japanese offices still use 90s/2000s procedures, I don't know why, maybe it has something to do with Japanese companies being less competitive than Korean or Chinese companies
@Naokarma
@Naokarma 2 года назад
@@TimothySSwan That's what got me. It's one thing to insist on printing. It's another to use tech so outdated that it can't remember what it was going to do if it runs out of paper, and to NOT refill it beforehand.
@yohannessulistyo4025
@yohannessulistyo4025 2 года назад
A lot of Japanese companies like JR (The rail company) and Tokyo Disney (a local company using Disney franchise) requires paper tickets, strictly printed paper tickets, not even the pdf copy that you store in your phone, which QR code is perfectly scannable. It makes you wonder about whether this is the country that really invented the QR Code (invented by Nippondenso, an auto parts company). Some of the companies still has TELEX machine. But some companies like those I have worked with, already do everything via e-mail. A simple "approve" message already counts as signature. Universal Studios of Osaka is American-run business, we can just scan the QR code from our phones to get through the gates. The problem is very often with the government services. Their "Cyber Security Minister" can't even use computers, he was confused when asked to copy the files from a USB stick.
@BoneBag07
@BoneBag07 Год назад
Thank You Chris! You created this Vlog platform.. I mean.. You made it Enjoyable to watch English/Japan videos! You made it less intimidating! Thank You again..now that I said that... You better put a ring on it..
@Tracker709
@Tracker709 2 месяца назад
Very enlightening thank You
@rambonona6840
@rambonona6840 2 года назад
I lived in Japan many years ago. I agree with all of these points. As a single female, I encountered an additional irritant that was probably the biggest factor in my decision to move back to the US. I turned 30. Horror of horrors, I just kept getting older. And, as I mentioned, I was single. I had a good job with a great salary, my Japanese language skills were progressing nicely and I had a nice place to live. More than once, I overheard the term “Christmas Cake” (クリスマスケーキ). The Christmas Cake looks fine but no one wants it after Christmas. I had surpassed my expiration date. I was even told that I should quit my job so that I could spend more time to find a husband or that I should focus on finding a widower or a divorced man who already had children. WHAT?
@scandalfop2093
@scandalfop2093 2 года назад
I don't know whether to laugh or feel bad for you lmao. Honestly though, that's pretty horrible. I don't understand how a country that takes respect so seriously can be so overly disrespectful toward people that are even the slightest bit different than the norm. I love their culture, and I know I would love going there for a holiday but I have never wanted to live there despite knowing that it's still a better place than my country. For me to go to a place where I'd be the outsider and weirdo for the rest of my life, that place would have to be like 10 times better than where I live. I'm not about to give up my whole life here just for a few small advantages that I can live without. I think people need to think a lot more before they move to Japan, or any other country really. As long as there's a significant cultural difference, the positives need to way outweigh the negatives for it to be worth it, imho.
@IchGluckspilz445
@IchGluckspilz445 2 года назад
You cant make this shit up
@anahata2009
@anahata2009 2 года назад
I wish I could say this was surprising, anywhere. That mentality persists in many places, unfortunately, though it's definitely worse in some places. I sympathize with your situation. I spend half the year time traveling in southern Italy, where it's still 1950, and as a solo female traveler I'm regarded with a mix of curiosity and suspicion, especially as one without a husband or children and apparently lacking the goal of obtaining those. But even in my native country (USA) I'm regarded by some with pity for my lack of children or marriage certificate-it never seems to cross anyone's mind that that isn't a goal for me or my partner. (They also don't get it that we are ok with spending a lot of time on different sides of the ocean). But then, I tend to view those who dream of bridal gowns and children with the same bewilderment with which they regard me. I hope you're now enjoying a beautiful life, of your own design, whether or not it includes marriage or children. And anyone who doesn't want the cake the day after Christmas is an idiot. Cake is cake. We always accept the cake.
@monkeydust100
@monkeydust100 2 года назад
Does anyone really like christmas cake .
@La-PetitMort
@La-PetitMort 2 года назад
@@yeetman1422 You don't know her personally. Maybe she's happy on her own.
@jdraven0890
@jdraven0890 2 года назад
I read a book from the 1980s intended for business people going to Japan, and all of these points are familiar. It noted especially how as a temporary guest to their country you would be treated with great reference and patience, but dare to try to live there and it is a very different story. The author was a long time (30 year +) resident of Japan and fluent in the language and customs, and said he finally understood that he would never be Japanese and therefore never fully accepted no matter how hard he tried.
@Under-Kaoz
@Under-Kaoz 2 года назад
The great reverence is reserved for the people with highly sought after skills.
@jaif7327
@jaif7327 2 года назад
what’s the book?
@jdraven0890
@jdraven0890 2 года назад
@@jaif7327 Good question. It's been years since I saw it, and it was a friend's.
@atashgallagher5139
@atashgallagher5139 2 года назад
@@Under-Kaoz Me and my engineering degrees will be very happy there.
@Under-Kaoz
@Under-Kaoz 2 года назад
@@atashgallagher5139 good for you
@bulletkin5542
@bulletkin5542 Год назад
#12 reminds me of how we got warned that US military personnel had been judged as at fault in a traffic accident in court on the basis that "if the foreigner wasn't here, the accident wouldn't have happened". Kinda important to me at the time since I had a license to drive humvee's and did so regularly. Side note, Japanese streets are tiny and humvee's are pretty big even by US street standards.
@aranjuezdavao
@aranjuezdavao 4 месяца назад
Good video.Very informative. My French friend went to Kyoto, Japan during the Spring Festival in 2019 and was very offended by the sign in restaurants about not welcoming foreigners to dine.
@ayazamikanz5299
@ayazamikanz5299 2 года назад
"The train is quieter than the library." Me an introvert: _That sounds like paradise._
@Aristaios
@Aristaios 2 года назад
yeah i wouldnt see that as an issue either
@Momonga32
@Momonga32 2 года назад
Same
@Ash-kn4uu
@Ash-kn4uu 2 года назад
Weebs 🤡🤡🤡
@mavisdavidson9883
@mavisdavidson9883 2 года назад
May be more quiet.... but definitely more crowded I'd think XD
@faultier1158
@faultier1158 2 года назад
Trains are pretty quiet in Germany, too. One time, a woman had a long and loud phonecall, and eventually a guy from the other end of the wagon got up and walked up to her and loudly proclaimed that he had heard enough of her life story now. The whole wagon applauded and cheered.
@MarioKarasuma
@MarioKarasuma 2 года назад
Chris' Comment Reading Voice is basically his best voice.
@polloduh
@polloduh 2 года назад
Sounds like the merchant from resident evil 4
@softbutchpinkchick687
@softbutchpinkchick687 2 года назад
@@polloduh Merchant: "Waddaya boiyen?" Chris : "Hats"
@polloduh
@polloduh 2 года назад
@@softbutchpinkchick687 I killed the merchant. He didn't come back :(
@margotlescargot
@margotlescargot Год назад
Your 3 friends look amazing!!!
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