The good thing about being ugly is when someone still wants to spend time with you despite your looks then you know that they care about your inner beauty. There is just one problem: They dont exist
@@ihavecoronavirus9802 bro , my story is true. I am literally that one kid in the room, who is the most ugliest . I have a bad childhood trauma, coz i don't even have a single friend. All life, i have been treated like a garbage, who is not worth to exist in this matrix. 💔
@@priyasenthilkumar8508 my heart goes out to you but remember that a person can step on a 20 dollar note or spit on it but it's value never changes. Whatever they say, you are still you and worth more than them 💗
Or they some shit like “im sure you can get through this”, “its not that important anyways” i made a joke and u didnt laugh and said this cause it hits the spot so just shut up
same like older people always tell me that it's not true and that I should just lie to myself yk fake it till you make it but I decided that I just have to accept it! I'm always going to ugly!! Makeup can't hide everything!! 🤣 Being ugly isn't the worst thing that can happen!
Anyone who tries can surely attain anything in life, just believe in yourself. Telling yourself “you’re ugly” is like giving up not embracing the truth or that ugly is ugly because even if you think you’re being honest to yourself and that is good, it’s still part of the negativity that’s present as long as you allow it to stay. And for sure I guess everyone is beautiful and uniquely made in God’s eyes, he doesn’t prioritise the better looking but in front of ordinary people yes, better looking people have easier lives at some point likewise taller people is another example but see those who choose to favour or prioritise only the people with better look is a flaw itself in their mind and it’s gonna be their loss because they’re gonna be blind unable to catch who people really truly are! Big risk in the future when you plan to settle down with a life partner. Not to forget some people have personal preferences. If you try to beat all the negativity in you, try and try and practice day after day you’ll survive just don’t allow negativity like that to manipulate you. Staying hopeful is better than knowing you’re gonna starve to death without even trying. Point is stay hopeful no matter what don’t give up ! There is always somebody for you, don’t be desperate and trust that you are good enough, you’ll be better, you’ll work harder, to BE better.
That is awesome and it's the only way that you can grow. Society isny going to allow this out of some misplaced and false sense of compassion. Alot of them don't even mean it.
Yeah, I just started admitting that I’m ugly. I can’t do much about it. I tried losing weight (lost 90 pounds), and people don’t approach me or match with me on anything. I’m done
My wife is older than me by 16 years. When we started dating she was 44 (looked about 30) and I was 28 (and looked about 35). She is the best thing that has ever happened to me and vastly superior to any woman I have ever dated. I wouldn't trade her for all the Cindy Crawford's in the world. .
I’ve believed I was ugly my whole life. People never approached me in middle school and never complimented me, which I don’t mind, but when they did compliment me it was really only out of pity. I hated it!
There’s hope for all of us. The women at work made fun of my less than average middle age male looks. I brought along a 9 to the annual office dinner dance who was half my age, a med student. Didn’t cost me a cent (I tutored her younger sibling). The women there spent the whole evening staring at my date in disbelief. Didn’t win often but did this time and big. After that they didn’t laugh at me again.
Chill, there are other people who think of themselves like you. And some people who grew up like that and later bloomed up they will never forget how they felt so they’ll have soft spots for other people who were like that. A not so good looking guy may like you or a great looking guy may like you it all depends on the person’s personal preferences like some people choose physical beauty(most end up broken or keep changing partners) while others try to find the right person that’s more beautiful on the inside than outside and that guarantees a beautiful successful married life. There is always someone for everyone.
People have told me I am attractive, and people have told me I'm ugly. When I look in the mirror I feel that I look very attractive, but then when I use two mirrors so I'm not seeing a mirror image of my self anymore and I'm seeing myself the right way around, I look very ugly. I can also look good looking in some photos but very ugly in others. So, I've got no idea whether I am attractive, ugly or average.
it's called "medium ugly" i got called it the other day. aparently im not ugly enough to be ugly, but im not good enough looking to be hot, so i'm a attractive ugly guy... great... lol
Here’s something I’ve noticed that happens without exception: 1. When a woman finds you attractive they look excited to see you 2. They quickly let you into their humour and will ‘tease’ you 3. They will very quickly break the touch barrier if they want you to know. This isn’t my own experience, I’m the ugly one - it’s watching this art form day in and day out in the type of job I do.
All the things you said have happened to me lmao. I'm not even funny but this girl was laughing so hard when I said the stupidest shit. And she seemed very excited for some reason and kept talking a lot.
This hit me hard because when my friends have been approached by girls at clubs they’ve been called attractive. The first time a girl approached me she said “you’re funny”, and I never even spoke to her before...
Who told you they are good looking? The man at least looks like a badly made wax version of Ken mixed with Donkey from Shrek with absolutely no flavour in his face... The woman is not far behind... Eyes, nose, mouth all together in the space of a fist and two hears resembling a tea pot... But hey! They are experts on ugliness...
Yes and it prevents you from growing as a person. These things must be accepted. It's so fucked up how everyone else can call you ugly and think you're ugly....except you.
-> only nice and funny -> boys like you -> kids say ur ugly -> people social distancing from you -> the comments are how great r u -> people talk about your friend up to u -> people older commenting -> no one laughs at ur jokes -> when someone of the opposite sex hugs everyone not u I’m kinda glad I don’t relate to these
to those of you that are still single, being in a relationship isn't that great. It isn't like the movies that end with happily ever after. Reality is that there's a lot of fights, someone's always in your personal space, your money is hers most of the time. Being single is a blessing from god.
I know I'm ugly because when I confess my feelings to women, the usual response I get are "relationships aren't everything". "Be happy being single". Would have hurt less if they just said I was ugly. Even girls I've dated told me I was ugly but they loved me anyway and that wasn't true either. So now I just make jokes about my ugliness so it doesn't hurt as much.
Life sucks unless you’re way above average in looks. Minimum 8/10 to stand a chance in the dating scene. Nowadays a guy who’s a 5 or 6 is considered “medium ugly “. Life sucks.
Most of those were based on social interactions. Little did they know, I'm not too social, and I pretty much never meet people. And I also live in an incredibly religious community where it's not very normal to compliment people's looks. But I'm most likely still slightly unattractive.
In a way, I can relate to you because I'm not a social person either and despite the fact that I had my moments where I was deemed ugly, I always stay happy and grateful towards God for creating me and for making me look the way I look no matter what ❤🙏
I have some positive and critical feedback for this video. The positive is this was brutally honest. It is not helpful to tell an ugly person they are handsome or pretty. It's just easy. Another good thing is all of these things are true. The not so great part is we have two quite objectively attractive people not only counselling us on how to know if we are ugly they are laughing about it while doing so. If they were ugly they would not be laughing while sharing this info with other ugly people.
Yeah, I try to be as objective as I can. and I would have never consider these two attractive in fact not even average. Maybe a bit lower than “plain”.
I am attractive but I'm fair and that was the saddest video i came across what's most sad is the two people tslking about unattractive people it's weird how the girl of all people could say all of that shit and not feel any type of way bc racing wear she was the ugliest of the twowith a straight she literally symbolized splinter from TMNT! She was fugly
I was a 35 year old bald unemployed guy living with my mother when I met a girl. We’ve been married for 25 years now! I worked really hard and retired when I was 59 years old. My wife saw in me what I never saw in myself.
Don’t care about how you look, the only thing you should care about is how to improve yourself, and I don’t mean in looks, I mean physically or mentally, those who judge based on how you look are only a distraction to slow you down, strive for improvement, and don’t let the way you were born let you down, you were brought into the world for a reason, and that reason is decided by you, so what’s it gonna be?
I was a bartender at a concert once. This lady came over to the bar. She had a list of things to do, a sort of game. One of those was to take a selfie with a bar man. She took one with me then looked at the list for the next thing, "take a photo with a hot guy" she said and looked to my colleague beside me. "You're a hot guy, can we get a photo!" That was the moment I realized I wasn't that big of a deal 🤣
This video is brutally honest. And ppl got to stop getting mad over these things. Ugliness exists. Ugly people exist. Stop disliking this video just bc u believe in body positivity
I've been trying so hard to except that I'm ugly..but I'm always resilient that somebody will notice my inner beauty that outshines my outer beauty.. It's hard living in this World, They don't know anything!
I notice you and others will too sooner or later because what’s on the outside is temporary and outer beauty fades with time as we grow older or get sick but if you keep doing good and being kind to others than people are gonna notice you and love you not for something dumb that you have no control over like your genetics, they are gonna love you for your character and for the kind of person you are. If you try to be kind, caring, and compassionate to others than they will notice you and they will realize that you are a truly beautiful person 😊
I honestly can relate. Its hard seeing pretty girls on social media and in real life. I just wish i could look like them. That i can be beautiful too, just like them. But, im learning beauty goes deeper than the surface, and i am beautiful because of my inside beauty💚 and so are you! Don't let this world define beauty for you. You be the definer, by shining bright like a diamond 🥰
It doesn't bother me to be ugly I like being left alone I have a lot of clear space in my life to do exactly what I want to do it feels real good to be unattractive
I would've never said some shit like that as a kid because I was taught to see the beauty not look for the ugly. Kids are like parrots. It's so relaxing and fruitful to find the beauty. They're both there all day long. You pick!
as a ugly guy i would love to have a bar where other ugly people can meet, often in life people avoid me or see me as a monster but it would be fun to socialize with others who are like me, too ugly to have friends. one day
It’s a myth that women don’t care about looks, they care about looks just as much as men do. It should be obvious but it’s just one of those things you have to experience because of society perpetuating this lie. Keep your head up.
That feel when 2009 was the only best time in your life and you wish to go back to a kid when look took little priority over vidya games and playing with the bros all night take me back to 2009 life please!! 😶
Dammmnnnn that’s a good one. Agreed. I didn’t actually get the point of the video. It seemed just... mean. Wasn’t very funny. No punchline just insults
Me and my buddies used the same dating app. While they were chatting with multiple women, not a single woman wrote me back. It became very obvious to me that woman react very different to my friends than to me.
tbh I been called ugly all my life so getting called ugly or being laughed at my looks doesn’t really faze me no more. It’s so bad to the point where if i get a compliment on my looks or something related to that I’ll cringe while if I get called ugly I’d laugh or prolly wouldn’t care.
I once worked at a posh national chain daycare and at a meeting the director told us all that the other centers would comment on how attractive her staff was. Our center director said she tried to only hire people who were both physically attractive and qualified. Now it made sense for me because I had noticed that my male colleagues were handsome and the ladies were pretty as well. I didn’t know what to think of her hiring me though. It puzzled me. Then one of my female colleagues called me gorgeous when I told her my insecurities. And it seemed one of the men who was an introvert acted nice but weird around me. None of what they said in the video ever happens to me but yet I still look in the mirror and pictures and see a horrendous looking face. And yet I have been called pretty beautiful by strangers acquaintances family and friends both men and women. Yet I still don’t see it. I love to be a realist so I really crave the truth. Mirrors don’t lie but perhaps people are just being nice. I wonder if childhood trauma (I have CPTSD) has something to do with it. My very beautiful mother was abusive and so was my stepfather. And my even more beautiful grandmother would defend me and try to protect me. My sister who I always saw as very pretty was never abused. I began to wonder if my mom was ashamed of my poor looks. One of my pretty cousins (I don’t have a single unattractive cousin) told me when I was around 20 or so that she always thought I was so pretty more so than her. I gave her a shocked look as if something was wrong with her. I remember in high school good looking boys gave me attention and were always super nice. I would hear of secret crushes guys had on me but they never told me themselves while other girls were constantly being asked out. I believed the gorgeous guys just saw me as cute and smart since I was short, in advanced classes sometimes and was quiet but bold and often kind and a bit quirky. It seemed they saw me a non annoying little sister. At the end of the day, although there seems to be some scientific way of measuring beauty it seems, people still have differing perceptions of beauty. I go about my daily life and sometimes it is rather uneventful and sometimes I get attention from really good looking men. It seems inconsistent but that is ok because I don’t need external acceptance. It accepting myself that is extremely hard. I find myself secretly admiring, not so much attractive people, but confident people . I have seen people that have unattractive looks but seem so happy, confident, and just enjoying life and I think that is just awesome. Yes sometimes I stare in awe of them. I just want to get away from the divas and jerks who parade themselves around like peacocks. There are some rare occasions though when I come across beautiful people that seem so warm and kind and humble. I guess I will never know the truth about how I look . I have had so much trauma that perhaps my brain is too injured to separate reality from distortion. But what I can do is accept that life really is more than what we look like in the mirror . My little gorgeous girl told me yesterday mommy you have such a beautiful face and whether that’s objectively true or just the love in a five year olds heart, what matters is the love between us.
I think they seem like they're average but worked to be a little more attractive and can laugh about it. I've been young beautiful thin king blonde hair. Now I'm middle aged pretty overweight not don't care as much... Just some average to kinda sad middle aged lady but I could care less. Being hot just got me screwed over by psychopaths and other women hated me . no kids cuz good guys didn't see me as the marrying type. It's funny to me how things adhd perspectives change.
I never knew that i was ugly my whole life people never approached me or talked to me they all think im weird and i tried to get buff and lose weight but all of a sudden it’s just not working anymore idk what kind of world we living in but it’s everyone is always not a nice person
You are beautiful, don’t listen to these guys we have to lift ourselves up and love ourselves and tell ourselves that we are beautiful and we are worthy no matter what anyone else thinks! It only matters how we think because we have to fight for ourselves and treat ourselves like if we was our best friend. If the person you see in the mirror where your best friend that you have known for years what would you tell them? You would probably think they are beautiful! You are your best friend so you have to see the beauty in yourself and not wait till no one tells you your beautiful you got to tell yourself your beautiful and believe it because you are. Once we start to believe it then it won’t matter what others think because we will know that we are enough ❤️😊
@@belen3972 I was this close to destroy my mirror because I hate what I'm seeing but I got chickened out to do it because I was scared that my family is going to find out that I have a problem, which led me feeling even worse just because I was too much of a coward for not brave enough to destroy a mirror.
I honestly will never have confidance to talk to anyone again .. i can't even face anyone now .. i wanna hide so that no one can see me..this might be a joke or a fun video for you guys .. but i lost my whole confidance in me.. thank you for making me realize how unattractive i am .. thanks a lot from the bottom of my heart ..
Oh baby I don't know who you are but understand this, you are more lovely than you know but of course if no-one has ever told you this then how could you know? So don't let two strangers having a laugh eat away at the one-of-a-kind person that you are. If you don't have a partner right now or a companion or best friend then be your own. Grab a pen and paper and genuinely list the things that make you feel good, and don't hold back neither. As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, give yourself the 🟢 to make YOURSELF happy. Life isn't short, it's long so live it feeling beautiful your way. A lot of people held up as paragons of physical beauty are wrecked and rotten and decaying on the inside. You sound like a gentle soul who perhaps has been through a lot: much of it unfair and uncalled for I'm sure. So reverse that and love yourself as the most beautiful version of you that ever existed, because that much is true.
Honestly, who cares what other people think! It’s your life! Live it to the fullest, love yourself and be thankful for what you have. Who will benefit if you will hide in the closet? Besides people are much more concerned about themselves, how they look, what they say etc. Every single one of us has insecurities. Social media is fake. There are things that you can improve about you, but the most important thing is to not be harsh on yourself. Take the best care and love for the one you are closest in the world - it’s YOU! And don’t forget that God made you in His perfect holy image with biggest love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You know, during the early days of the pandemic I had really bad self esteem. I hated everything about me and I got mad when I saw attractive people who thought they knew my problems. I would be so incredibly hateful when in reality the only thing I hated was myself. It really makes me sad to see other people going through this and all I can say is I wish you the best of luck my friend. Things will get better and the hate you spread now will turn into regret and guilt over time. With love, a fellow ugly.
Damn looking at my friends and everyone at this age just makes me sad because I know I’m not attractive I want to accept it but whenever we’re in a group of friends and the more attractive people always get the attention and I always get ignored it hurts
Same dude I’m 16 right now and I see so many taller attractive guys hanging out with hot girls and here I am sitting alone at lunch like a loser and I have little to no social life. I should really just go to the gym
Me too I've got mates that are much better looking than me and girls always check them out give them attention and I get ignored, makes me so jealous and depressed with my self because I'm not attractive, so unfair just don't see the point in living
Thanks! You lowered my self esteem! Gee I wonder what I should do know, maybe I should look up beauty standards in different countries so I know where to move! Edit: damn this was 8 months ago??? Yikes got my glowup 😊✌️
Welcome to life. You can’t run away from it, every society and culture regardless of beauty standards will always have the most attractive people thrive at the top with the ugly people at the bottom unless they are truly gifted in other facets of life.
beauty standards are similar throughout the world. there is some difference among places but if you notice, and studies show this, good looking faces tend to stay consistent worldwide.
People say I'm attractive, but other people say I'm not attractive. It's okay to find someone unattractive. People have their own preferences, but they should not feel like they have no worth 😔
Which is what this video does just make people feel like shit. Physical attraction is something that's needed in relationships but now days people throw away what could be a good thing to get a hunk/model. Then they fill you with sob storeys on how there life sucks. And by the way weather its you in profile pic or not, you are beautiful don't forget that.
Things that make people unnatractive is when they know they aren't amazing looking but compensate by having a loud and cocky personality and talking about how bad others look. There was a girl in my class like that. She wasnt ugly, but she was overweight and I could tell she was insecure about it. She compensated by being bitchy to others. People wouldn't come and talk to her, nobody would even sit near her as she was always critisising others.
All joke aside I felt that first one. Anytime I ever commented on one of those "Leave me a comment and I'll tell you something I like about you" posts on Facebook it's always been a comment about my sense of humor 😂😂 Thankfully I've been in a committed relationship for almost 3 years now so I don't have to care anymore.
Yeah I just had to deal it. All my life I worked out, tried to enhance my IQ, and always got compliments on my wardrobe but nothing I can do. On my first blind date she almost really went blind and on another my date wanted to switch people. Lol it hurt when I was younger but now it's just life, but yes lots of old women think I'm "handsome" smh
I’ve googled this as I have pretty low self esteem at the moment. Reading this though these comments made me a little sad 😞 as I’m sure no one who is commenting is ugly. What is ugly anyway Ffs 🤦♀️, yes I know, symmetry of face and features, larger eyes, smaller nose etc. My first boyfriend wasn’t the best looking according to my mum and friends but I thought he looked like Tom Cruise, I would say people exude attraction in many different ways and not just looks. An interesting or intelligent demeanour is very attractive so is power and charisma. If you have had a bad experience with someone who has put you down, whoever it is of course it will leave scars. I think we should all find something attractive about ourselves, trust me, it’s there ❤️
I’m here because a guy I was talking to yesterday said “I bet a lot of guys say the like you just for your personality” and then he continues to say ”that’s not a good sign physical attraction is also important in a relationship” I know I shouldn’t let it get to me but the main compliment I get is that I’m super nice and I always just thought it’s because I’m nice but now idk 😓
@@Purplefrog03 Ikr weird thing is I hung out with him recently cuz we’re friends and then he said I’m a beautiful person to be around shit doesn’t add up 😂
When you know you're it but still tries to be accepted and loved but it only creates awkwardness in the air for others😭 that's why i committed myself to learning things and make myself busy enough not to venture into that world because that world is not for me
Thank you for making the video as a unattractive I guy 22 years old never had a girlfriend but you guys did on a lightly manner jokely manner that makes us accept how were born. Still I always find the best way to overcome this I'm really physical active and take care of my hygiene and always smile to people. For anyone on the same boat don't complain life is not fair it will only destroy you even more just make the best of it and enjoy your life.
