Very accurate video. The only thing I'd disagree with is artistry. Our creativity makes us more than capable of mastering drawing, music, poetry, directing, editing etc. We enjoy a number of different things, not just science and numbers. Nonetheless, great work on this video!
True. INTJs tend to appreciate art in general. Personally, I love to draw/paint, write and compose music, and many of my favorite artists are INTJ too !
I’m an INTJ and I agree with most of the points in the video but I LOVE fashion. That being said, I don’t believe in breaking the bank just to look good and expensive. I keep it cute, simple yet elegant and glam to make a statement for myself! I typically to do this on a day-day basis. I also love video games, art, music, cooking/food and anything to do with creativity and research! 😉
I like to look expensive with clothes that have rational prices 😆 I feel that wasting so much money in clothes is a nonsense, except for shoes cuz that way ofc they last longer.
I’m a female INTJ and most of the videos are accurate. But: I enjoy drawing I don’t study I have a weird ability of just looking at a question and feeling the answer. Even though i don’t study, i always get the best grades and usually get around 90% 100% the lowest grade i got was 84%. People call me Einstein, Big Brain, 200 IQ, Answer Key. I love learning things, especially things that not many people know. I research in my free time. I even do some experiments that nobody else did on some objects to learn what happens. I have a talent of drawing. I got an art scholarship to an art course. But i don’t draw to express myself. I draw to impress. I draw to plan. I open up to very few people. If i opened up to someone, that means that they are special and important for me. My personality, style and way of thinking is unique. I don’t believe or trust people easily. When someone tells me to do something with no reason, i don’t do it. And when someone tells me that something is true, i ask for evidence instead of believing it immediately What i want in life is to get recognized by people around me, but not get that famous. I don’t like attention but i like it when people don’t underestimate me. Because i set myself a hard goal, everyone says that i can’t do it, and i do it. I love reading. I like learning new things and reading stories of other people. I don’t spend my time on TV, Tiktok, Instangram. They waste my worthy time. I instead use that time to prepare gifts for my favorite teacher, research, read, and write. I have a teacher who is exactly like me. I like talking and listening to someone who understands me. That teacher knows the way i learn, the speed i learn. She makes me join writing competitions. (i’m Turkish and that teacher is Russian, she emigrated to Turkey and became an English teacher.) I hate arguing with stupid people.
As an intj female and has been an intj for many years 2 things upset me when it comes to the intj female stereotype 1- that she always dresses plain and simple; I like fashion and I enjoy dressing up a little extra or chic many times I do it for myself and it makes me feel good, and 2- that intj females don't express themselves in art; that can't be further from the truth I studied AI and want to study medicine yes these has nothing to do with art as my career choices but I have always loved art and paint, sometimes painting in silence when you have had a lot on your mind and talked with yourself for hours is the most relaxing and expressing thing. It out annoys me that almost all the videos of intj females are like this, not all intj females are the same we share the same cognitive functions but we still have little differences, I only know 1 more intj female but she still enjoys making music for herself as a hobby when no one is around. This was long but I hope I made a point
I can see where you're coming from. I'm an intj, and I do dress up... I like clothes and (perhaps because I'm an intj) have a high standard for grooming. The whole "be ready don't get ready" mentality is one I stick to. However, I do it in neutral colors; and classic feminine styles. My ENTIRE wardrobe is made up of solid color fabrics. I stay away from bold patterns and busy looking outfits. My style is classic, simple and I stay away from trends... perhaps it's the way we interpret the "plain and simple" part. 🤷🏻♀️
As an INTJ I dress like a pin up and am covered in tattoos but I hate being noticed, even though I stick out like a sore thumb in the small southern town we live in. Lol
Glad that most people adressed this in the comments, and I just wanted to second the opinion that we, INTJ females are actually creative and like to express that in our sense of style, hence dismissing the claim that we like to dress in a plain manner. I personally like to showcase my incongruity and nonconformity to the societal expectations oppressed onto me through the way I present myself. I take pride in my appearance and like to make it be seen. On a personal note, I wanted to get others' opinions on the matter that in my early teenage years I considered myself a mediator, an INFP. However, throughout the years I grew out of my feeling and prospecting personality traits. Of course, this did not come as natural and it is not possible for the MBTI to change over time without extraordinary influence. And I grew to be an INTJ-T by trauma related coping mechanisms, chemical influence of prescribed drugs and overall major life changes that demanded I get more self-reliant and rational in thinking or feeling. I also believe that I wasn't stark enough persist on to exert my compassion which came as naivity and did not serve me in pursuing my goals.
@@PsychologyRefresh lol pretty mixed, it’s incredibly challenging and requires a lot of developed skills but the satisfaction of seeing a completed work is worth it. Not many people realize how stressful/analytical/high stakes the fashion industry is but I’d totally put it up there with engineering or a lawyer.
#8: WE LOATHE DRAMA OF ANY KIND!!! #9: We will look for quality & durability above all else. #10: WE DO NOT FIT INTO ANYTHING considered "normal female;" I can run hand tools & work on my own hotrod: I need no one to "rescue" me. #11: YOUR OPINION IS IRRELEVANT SO KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. #12: If you look up "sarcasm," you'll find my pic next to it. I ADORE good sarcasm!!!🖤 "Retro Vintage" is my choice in wardrobe: since "dressing" is an "art form" that expresses individuality, I dare to be a bit eccentric, mixing vintage w/tailored modern, ALL SOLID DARK COLORS, but "mix" it in unique ways. In this manner, I remake the canvas of myself daily. We ARE individuals, each unique in our own subtle ways...😜🖤
@@PsychologyRefresh Thanks... I "prowl" these sites, hunting "slivers" of thought that ignite my own intuition(as if THAT needs any prodding!!!), and notice some of the more interesting comments along the way. It seems too many "wannabes" bend over backwards trying to convince the reader who they are, yet their choice of verbiage reveals flaws: are they trying to convince me???... or garner validation thereof??? Either way, it indicates an emotional attachment to the outcome, a dead giveaway towards the "not so much" column. We real "Vulcans" view emotions as unnecessary clutter, wholly illogical, a "human distraction"...🖤
INTJ male or female have problems with sharimg their ideas with others, because they are not popular, especially if you are for an religion o ideology different from the normative modern times. So, its hard for me seeing INTJ being popular, more the few females that are of this type, especially They like art, but also they are solitary people.
I'm INTJ and after being top in my career I was hurt in a workman's comp accident and forced to retire. I'm now a janitor at Walmart and it's severely depressing.
Ok, yes I took some architecture courses before I sold computers and software in the 1980s, then worked in a legal department at a movie studio while writing screenplays (like blueprints for building movies). And obtained a couple patents, for fun. My hobby is economics.
My experience for romantic partner. Intelligent ISTP/ISTJ is great. They Don't talk in emotions (but they have this needs, they rarely ask for emotions support but need to show your care) and they will respect and support you to let you freely achieve your goal. Amazing!
My husband is an intelligent istj and it works pretty good. We just argue about something stupid: he has sometimes "feelings" for Strange things and wants support and i dont understand why he is upset, because i dont see any rational reason behind. 😂😂😂😂 so he gets upset and i dont know how to react till he gets angry and says: "I just wanted support" 😅😅😅😅 and then i give him support 😅
As an INTJ, I agree with almost everything here, but I am a nail technician I work for myself, because working with other people is almost insufferable. But I’m a rather well-known artist in my community.
As an thriced degreed engineer I'm so glad you get every...last.. point! Also..Team sports it's a no for me. Hand me a bowling ball, golf club, or I'm swimming alone no relays. Yes capsule wardrobe 80/20 rule. Where is my project plan!!!! No Im not throwing away my books!! 😂😂😂. 😂.
I always say: "Nobody can understand my type of woman I want to marry". Surprisingly, all of what you said fit what in my mind. Still I want more character specifications, but fitting all of it is incredible. And, since she is rare, I know why I am still single, but I thought that it is like 0.01% of females. So, to tell me that she is only 0.1% that raises the hope.
Being taken for granted is the highest compliment.. Why would I praise someone for something unless I was trying to get them to do MORE? Yes, still looking for an INTJ male who is my match and not a long dead physicist or fictional. Two “I’s” can split the “E” duties, communicate telepathically, and understand that finding flaws with the other’s plans is meant to be helpful, and is respectful.
personally i dont like dressing "plain and simple." to me, if something doesnt look colourful or interesting enough, then its not worth the money. i have lots of clothes but do have a set of go-to outfits and combinations however, which i think is more like the intj stereotype of "wearing the same thing every day" rather than "dressing plain and simple"
The test said I was intj but looking into it, it sounded so cold. Ppl have Def said I'm cold but I don't feel like I am. I've always been smart and exceeded in most everything I do. I thought I might actually be an infj but after watching this I think the test got it right. I am Def an intj. Thank you!
all tests lead me to intj, but i disagree with intj females dress plain, i dress extra but comfort and im into art and fashion, in fact im in fashion industry
I just found out I am a INTJ from taking the personality test and I will admit it is pretty accurate for the most part though I am working to be more independent I am also not afraid to ask for help if I really need it.
Besides all the INTJ here, i just noticed that in INTJ videos is quite common that some people who may be INTJ or no, write the most edgy and "I'm dark and cool" thing i have ever read on youtube. It's hilarious
Any INTJ women who are also on the spectrum? I haven't had a professional diagnosis with ASD but for a long chunk of my life I have felt like I was on the spectrum and I feel like alot of my INTJ characteristics overlap with common masking characteristics for women with ASD.
The only things I disagree with these type videos are that we are highly stereotyped as plain and not artsy. I'm definitely drawn to minimalist styling but I love playing around with my sense of style. As someone who wants to excel at all things, I won't leave out fashion and art in those category.
@@thursdayschild9219 it depends. The drawings of a 5 years old are art? For something to be considered art it needs profesionalism an methodic habilites too. xD
I agree with this video. I do consider myself smart in the subjects that I love, in college I occasionally team up with other students when it came to history and languages since you can study those alone but discussing it with others is easier to understand a perspective from others. I mostly took notes in class and my classmates would photocopy it since they like how organized I am. In sports I have an interest in tennis and currently doing jujutsu. I do like the solitary sports since I prefer to be active on my own but even in martial arts you need a partner. I prefer to do one on one sports or a sport that requires teamwork with another partner. As for dating, I always wanted a man who is intelligent mostly who is mature and wise. My dad knows I am picky and he approves that I am selective since he is an ISTJ.
i think the part about art is untrue. f. ex. i like drawing and writing but i put a lot of focus on mastering the technique and perfecting my style but i can't do abstract art. i can appreciate it from someone else but you won't see me drawing disproportionate characters or jumbled, messy shapes. there has to be an order and a well-planned composition, craftsmanship and a level of artistry that gives the piece a meaning - even if that meaning is simply practice since there is beauty in experimenting and progress. i love looking through other artist's sketch pads and see their art getting better and better.
I hate running, hiking, and I despise video games. I do not dress plain and boring. However, fashion does take more effort for me than is probably normal. Knowledge is not power, it is misery.
I pretty much have always nailed an interview but I hate them. It's an annoyance. I don't think I'm arrogant but I confident on being able to figure things out and do a great job.
5:13 My ex-bff bullied me because I was not complimenting her enough 😂 I ended out relation 1 week 1/2 after she started bullying me but yeah… SHE ASKED ME WHAT I THOUGHT… OBVIOUSLY I WAS BEING HONEST WHAT ELSE TO SAY? « What do you think of my makeup? » « I mean… That’s only me but I think you look better without… » (WHICH IS A COMPLIMENT RIGHT?) Also, she naturally had straight hair and one day she curled them: « What do you think of my hair? » « Well… It looks not bad but I kind of prefer when you have straight hair… Nature made you very well, you don’t need to change that. » SHE WAS SECRETLY MAD 😂 I ONLY KNEW ABOUT IT WHEN SHE BULLIED ME! Guys, WHAT do I do when someone asks me what I think HUH? I say « It looks nice » WHATEVER IT IS? WHAT IF THEY’RE SHOWING TRASH? 😭😭😭 « Yes, this trash is beautiful »
I believe I am an INFJ but this video describes me as well except for my love of art which has been addressed in the comments below. What makes the INTJ different from the INFJ?
This INTJ woman is 42 seconds into the video and having trouble with the unctuous delivery of the voiceover. But even worse is wondering why a female siren was chosen to beckon to us. No INTJ male or female would do that for a living, I’m pretty sure. Actors and models are usually opposite of INTJ, and are more likely to be writers.
I'm an INTJ and I gotta say a good portion of these facts were true, but man I hated this video. It's certainly my own preference, so nothing against the creators or fellow viewers here, but the slow speech of the narrator and their robotic voice as well as the fact that some of the used video was just some frankly uncomfortable slowed down recording of a woman staring directly at the camera like some wannabe supermodel was just way too irritating for me. That being said, I still listened to the video so I can't say any of that is a deal-breaker. The main thing I'd say is untrue, being a female INTJ with a fellow female INTJ friend, is the note about not being very artistic. Both of us have always enjoyed practicing different forms of art whenever we get the chance, whether it be drawing, painting, sculpting, music, or whatever else we just wanted to try out. Personally I've gone into the artistic field as my career and it's everything I could ever want, so we don't necessarily HAVE to be engineers or work in big companies. The fashion thing is a toss-up too. I enjoy my own sense of style and take pride in the clothes I wear, but my friend couldn't care less - as long as you don't give her makeup or anything too dressy
