These are the type of questions that you ask when you are already in a good conversation. You can't just go up to them and be like "what is your family like"? That would be weird and you might be a little awkward making it even more weird. When approaching them always talk about the present. Things that are happening around ya'll as ya'll speak. A good tip is when in conversation ask a question that you already have an answer to, so that when they finish talking, you state your opinion as well and your not just like "oh cool" or "that's nice".
Omg thank u so much for this advice. As someone who got my first crush in high school, I tend to be a bit awkward in conversations and my introversion doesn’t help. In my elective class, we were in groups and that’s when I met him. At first I thought he was good looking but it quickly turned into a crush the next day. I’ll sometimes briefly stare at what he’s doing but go back to doing my work. I felt I was invading his privacy so I don’t do it as often. I want to get to know him by talking to him so thanks for the extra advice 💖
@@kokichisscarf92 don't be such a baby. mine's having a crush on me too, they confessed but im interested on someone new... on a frickin ✨N✨U✨R✨S✨✨E✨ that's why i visit this hospital often hehe.
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wpyiIxL5Nzc.html Its good to see how this guy tells people to look at themselves instead of blaming others
1.) There is this girl in my college class that I have a crush on. The 1st day of classes, I checked her out from where I was sitting and paid attention to where she sat. On the 2nd day of class, I introduced myself to her in the hallway next to the class and we talked really well and asked each other good questions. She was reasonably comfortable during the conversation. After, I followed her and sat where she sits. It was absolutely a great 1st time conversation both during class and in the hallway. At the end of class, I asked her: "Do you take the bus to go home" and she replied "I drive" and then she left. Next day's class, I arrived first and was sitting where she usually sat and she came sit next to me. I asked her few friendly questions and she responded well but asked me only one question this time. Next week's class, I arrived first and she sat next to me again and I said hello and ask her how was her weekend. She said it was good, but she didn't ask me any back. That day, the class ended early due to technical problems. I said to her sarcastically: "Well this class was too short". She smiled and said: "Yeah" NOTE: This is the 3rd class already and she hasn’t had a conversation with anybody else in the class except with me. WHAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN? WHAT IS IT ABOUT HER OR MAYBE IT IS ME? WHY DID SHE SAT NEXT TO ME BUT SAID LESS 2ND AND 3RD DAY WHEN I TRY TO INITIATE A CONVERSATION? CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN? 2.) This is what happened since then. We have shared 4 to 5 same classes together and anytime I sat at that spot we usually sit, she came sit next to me again. She did it today as well. In the first 2 days after my last comment, her behaviour was still a bit reserved when We had conversations. But in the past 2 days, her behaviour changed. This means we talked and asked each other questions back and fourth and had great conversations. When I compliment her about her shirt, she liked it. She was comfortable and quite smiley during them. She even show me a picture of an actor she met when I ask her if she knew that actor. Last week, I asked her if we could go to the library together to work and just hangout. Then, she said "For sure" and showed me her schedule and said wednesday this week, we can go if she doesn't have work. Today, in class, I checked to confirm if we will still go to the library on wednesday and she said she has midterm exams, work and visiting a University this week (She is very busy). I asked her about next week and her scehdule etc. and she said she doesn't know yet. When class ended, I compliment her saying "You look amazing." Then she left. (Personally, last week, I felt great about it when she said we could go on wednesday and was engaged during the conversations and she sat next to me everytime.😍🤗 Today when she said being very busy with school stuffs, I felt sad inside). TODAY, I AM CONFUSED.😏
I wish you lots of luck with your crush! My crush knows for a long time that I like him, but before some days, one of his guy friends told me that my crush likes me back, but another of his girl friends told me that he doesnt like me, so I texted him about it and asked if he likes me back at least a bit, and he said that time will tell me the correct answer. So I'm confused about that one.
@@skylarre7653 You have her, she is so much into you. Its just a task. Try to talk to other girls and when she asks you to go out (at this point do not insist more) say you are busy now.
Here's the summary of 13 things you could start a conversation with : 1.what is the one thing that you want 4 years from now? 2. where is your favorite place? 3. where is the one place you want to travel to? 4. do you have any funny memories from your childhood? 5. what are your friends like? 6. do you like to go out on weekends? 7. what's your family like? 8. is there anything that scares you? 9. what do you do when you feel bored? 10. what is one thing you don't like? 11. what is your favorite character? 12. what do you like more- reading books or watching movies? 13. name your top 5 TV shows.
@@varalakshmi4243 I've had this friend since 3rd grade and she told me "wow, it's the first time I heard ur voice in 3yrs, u were freaking out honestly" I honestly find it easier to talk online and not face to face 😂
The questions: 1. What is the one thing you want 4 years from now? 2. Where’s your favourite place? 3. Where’s the one place you want to travel to? 4. Do you have any funny childhood memories? 5. What are your friends like? 6. Do you like to go out on weekends? 7. What’s your family like? 8. Is there anything that scares you? 9. What do you do when you feel bored? 10. What is one thing you don’t like? 11. What’s your favourite character? 12. What do you like more - reading books or watching movies? 13. What’re your top 5 TV shows?
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wpyiIxL5Nzc.html Its good to see how this guy tells people to look at themselves instead of blaming others
Which ultimately boils down to the fear of the unknown. I've always used similar logic: "it's not the darkness, it's what's hiding in the dark" but really, if you knew there was 100% nothing there, it's not scary anymore.
I would, but I seriously can’t talk to her she is always around her friends and I am extremely socially awkward and am way to scared to even talk to her bcus I’m worried she won’t like me 😞 Edit; thanks for all the suggestions 🥺💞 Edit #2: i asked her, and she said yes! Super happy ty for all the help 🥰
We all feel that way when we’re attracted to a person but instead of being afraid go and talk to her dUdE you don’t know if she likes you back or not so don’t be afraid
Lol same. Been there done that though, not a good experience, in fact it was my worst experience ever. I'm more cautious because of that bad experience now.
@@lcvnmi ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wpyiIxL5Nzc.html Its good to see how this guy tells people to look at themselves instead of blaming others
13 Questions to ask your crush 1. What is the one thing that you want 4 years from now? 2. Where is your favorite place? 3. Where is the one place you want to travel to? 4. Do you have funny memories from your childhood? 5. What are your friends like? 6. Do you like to go on the weekends? 7. What is your family like? 8. Is there anything that scares you? 9. What do you do when you feel bored? 10. What is the one thing you don't like? 11. What is your favorite character? 12. What do you like more? Reading books or watching movies 13. Name your top 5 tv shows
The amount of conversational compatibility we have, and the fact that we don’t even need to think about what to talk about coz conversations (good ones) automatically happen, is CREEPY.
Here are some better questions: Do you like pickles? What’s the worst thought you’ve ever stolen? What’s something inedible that you wish was edible? True or false...?... What’s your youngest body part? Do you math? Do you meth? If you owned a forklift what would you pick up with it? Pancakes or waffles? Is this why I’m single?
0:28 what is the one thing that you want 4 years from now? 0:42 where is your favorite place? 1:00 where is the one place you want to travel to? 1:22 Do you have any funny memories from your childhood? 1:41 What are your friends like? 1:57 do you like to go out on the weekends? 2:14 What is your family like? 2:35 is there anything that scares you? 2:59 what do you do when you feel bored? 3:13 what is one thing you don't like? 3:28 what is your favorite character? 3:46 What do you like more- reading books or watching movies? 4:01 Name your top 5 tv shows! Hope this helps in any way! Edit: tysm for the likes and I’m glad I helped some of you
Whoever reads this... I am proud of you and im so happy you are here right now! I'm proud of you if you ate or drank something today and if not I still love you so much! Have a nice day/night. I LOVE YOU.
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wpyiIxL5Nzc.html Its good to see how this guy tells people to look at themselves instead of blaming others
My crush is my best friend, much harder to confess😌 Update : I confessed to him, we can't meet face to face so I just texted him. But he doesn't want to reply all my messages, but he seen it tho. It's okay if he wants us to stay friends, or even if he wants to hate me and avoiding me. Update : he hates me now Update : he said that he was sorry and he should've ignoring me like that..and now we're good, i dont have feelings for him anymore (altough i still love him bc he is my bff). Now i feel free, bc i dont have anyone to have a crush on. Except for my celebrity crush😅
I honestly need to get this off my chest. I have a crush on my best friend and I have no clue if she likes me back. During school, we would always hold hands and be super affectionate. I would always rest my head on her shoulder but it wasn’t one sided. This one time, I was helping her with something on her computer, she came up from behind and rested her head on my shoulder. I wanted to scream in pure joy. Now that it’s summer we don’t see each other a whole lot. But, we managed to go to our towns fun fest. We hung out the whole day. We even got matching face paintings from a romance song! “I love you to the moon and Saturn” I got Saturn, and she got the moon. Now it’s an inside joke. Anyways, we decided to sit down about an hour before the fireworks. We sat down, she started to read heartstopper on her phone (she showed me some of the comics) and I was reading fan fiction on Ao3 (I was showing her some) I decided to rest my head on her shoulder, and I swear she put her head on mine for a few seconds, until we heard someone yell “RELATIONSHIPS START OUT AS FRIENDSHIPS” we both jolted out head up and laughed, and then resumed our current position. Except she didn’t put her head back. Then, the fire works started. We moved closer for a better view, and I once again put my head on her shoulder. I noticed she was shivering and I offered my sweater at least 10 times, but she said no, I’m not sure if she really didn’t want to, or if she was embarrassed. Anyways, I put my head on her shoulder while watching fireworks, and It felt straight out of a rom com. Except we’re not in Highschool, and from afar we just seem like two girls hanging out. I was worried that we wouldn’t hang out more, but she sent me a video of a couple painting eachother with styrofoam heads, she said we should do that and now we have plans Friday. Oh we never had a sleepover since her parents are somewhat strict, but she has been to my house for my birthday. Does anybody have advice that isn’t “tell her how you feel!” (Oh also every night I would say “goodnight love you” and at first she wouldn’t respond, which was fine. But after a few days she started responding, sometimes even saying it first.)
I just love the fact that the characters are not of a defined gender. Every time I watch these type of videos I can imagine the partner being of the sex that I like, thank you ❤
@@killedbyryujin7101 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wpyiIxL5Nzc.html Its good to see how this guy tells people to look at themselves instead of blaming others
I have a really strange scenario. My crush used to be really friendly with me, and I asked her out in the summer. She said yes but said she couldn't do it atm, so she will let me know when she gets her schedule. And then... Nothing. I asked her for updates a few days later and she said she didn't get the schedule yet. So I felt like if she really wanted to meet me, she would try harder, so I understood the hint, and tried to stay away from her to not embarrass her or make her feel weird. But she would always come next to me or greet me, for example, if I walk with my friends in one direction and she would come across us in the opposite direction, she would say "Hi [my name]" even though we are all her friends. And all of that, even though I tried to stay away from her and was a little cold towards her. She would also flatter me and give me attention but I've noticed that she's less enthusiastic recently (and I'm guessing it's because of my attitude) So I really don't know what's going on. Does she like me or not?
To those of us who are awkward: don’t just ask these questions and then move on to the next one try to delve into those questions and and the answers that are given and try to find common ground Update: I did it boyz I’m no longer a v irgin
And it's OK if you don't have common ground. By discussing why your answers may be different, you two can get to know each other much better, which is a good thing!
Actually, i asked some of these questions. Each question provides both of us with subquestions and answers... Basically a long conversation. This is better than gossiping. I never asked 'where does she want to go when she is down'. Answer might be her mother or me😀
me: so how's your family? her: *tells me how she's oppressed by her family into depression and suicidal thoughts* me: *surprised pikachu face* Edit after 3 months: we’re a really close friends right now.. and she’s doing better 😁
I feel comfortable around my crush; they are kind, understanding and caring. We both have feelings for each other but we aren’t in a relationship yet. We have talked about most of these things and have gotten similar answers.
1. What's the one thing you want 4 years from now? 2. Where's your favorite place? 3. Where is the one place you wanna travel to? 4. Do you have any funny memories from your childhood? 5. What are your friends like? 6. Do you like to go out on the weekends? 7. What's your family like? 8. Is there anything that scares you? 9. What do you when you feel bored? 10. What is one thing you don't like? 11. What's your favorite character? 12. What do you like more, reading books or watching movies? 13. Name your top 5 TV shows.
I’ve had enough of my mind saying what I can and can’t do, I’ve finally found my worst enemy, and that is myself. Im not listening to it anymore, I’m not gonna sit around and be lazy…Im gonna talk to her and I don’t give a damn what my mind says. I can do anything, no one is stopping me… **i’m starting today, by getting all the advice I can find.**
Another good one is: what's their favorite color? This actually shows how confident, shy, passionate, neutral, ect.. they might be. My is in between of: light gray- shy, neutral. Pink- compassionate, loving. Blue- not always self confident, is upset a lot. Yellow- happy, caring. Purple- gets scared easily, cautious. Other colors I didn't talk about: Red- loving, confident Green- drama queen, sassy Orange- bright, colorful Teal- Social able, talkitive Black- Deep into emotions (is willing to listen), has a lot of sympathy with others
Here's a tip for people out there who are Afraid to talk to your crush: First of all, don't be scared. Be confident and start a conversation with them. Try spending some time with them when they're free. As the video is it's true you have to talk certain topics in order for you to get to know ur crush very well. Keep spending some more time with them. If possible ask her out on a date and ask them if they can be your gf or bf. If they said yes congrats. So lemme rephrase that. There's alot of times and chances for you never be afraid to try. It's okay if you fail or if they don't like you. There are other good people in the world you're yet to meet maybe someday you might find the Right person to be with. To those reading this, I hope this may help and I wish y'all a good day noon or night.
YES I'M HERE AND I'M LOADING AMMUNITION FOR THE QUESTION GUN Edit: Thanks for the likes ehe Your crush will like you back thus 2020. If not, that's beyond my control
@@eyolu ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wpyiIxL5Nzc.html Its good to see how this guy tells people to look at themselves instead of blaming others
Hm. My crush puts hearts on my texts sometimes. I sang one of his favorite songs and he says I fulfilled his day..yet he doesn't know that he fulfills mine everytime. He asked if I have someone I like then after that said "Alright gotta run." After asking the question. My heart skipped a beat. He still clueless and I never know if he's giving hints he likes me too. But patience is a virtue! And in growth it's a very useful factor. 💕
hey, your crush sees you as a normal person, just like everyone else. don't think they'll see you as a monster if you stutter once or twice. to them, you're just another friend to-be.
I’d give you advice on how to get close, but I think I just got extremely lucky... . . . Also I haven’t seen them in almost a year so, *Sad noises increase*
I asked mine if there was one thing in life that you could do, what would it be even if you never do it. His was fun and exciting. Mine was fun in my POV but it started a good, fun conversation. Learned a lot❤
So far, I did #4 and it started a fun, long conversation. It also led to a different interesting subject. We spoke for about 2 hrs via text and it was all worth it. Gonna use the other tips as well
i asked these😭😭 1, She wants to become a doctor. 2. Cat Cafes. idfk what that is but okay 3. Philippines. She likes to go to tropical islands, and Philippines islands and beaches are the most beautiful island and beaches for her. 4. She always talked to her uncle and aunts with an accent, and she thinks it was embarrasing. 5. I'm also friends with her friends, and theyre huge fangirls 6. She goes shopping. Everyday. 7. I've met her family, theyre nice, her siblings always fight, her parents doesnt get mad. 8. Read a book. Everytime. 9. She does not like forests. 10. We watch a anime series, One Piece, and she is obsessed with a character named trafalgar law. 11. She watches movies, but mkst of the time, books. 12. One Piece, High school Musical, Christmas Chronicles, Purple Hearts, Jumanji.
SAME I WOULD LITERALLY BE LIKE 1. miraculous 2. steven universe 3. my little pony 4. stranger things 5. gravity falls THEYRE ALMOST ALL CHILDREN SHOWS IM 15-
@@nachobae3300 Me👁️💧👄💧👁️ 1. The Deep 2. Miraculous Ladybug 3. How To Train Your Dragon 4. Lego Ninjago And finally, a not children's show 5. The Walking Dead
@@helenakove2 the cartoons are always the ones i obsess over for months at a time and it’s embarrassing i wish they weren’t so looked down upon because ever since some popular girl laughed at me in 7th grade for my miraculous fan account i’ve been as discreet as possible when talking about literally any interest because everyone just makes fun of me
@@Wet_Paper_Eater ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-wpyiIxL5Nzc.html Its good to see how this guy tells people to look at themselves instead of blaming others
Step 1: Get some courage because if you don't say nothing you ain't winnin Step 2: Wait for her to be without her friends by her side Step 3: Ask her to go to a private place Step 4: Tell her you like her or ask her out
Relationships are hard, but there is someone out there for you if you’re willing to look for them. It is difficult and will take time and effort but it will all be worth it ❤️
its the stuttering for me. litterally this i what i sound like in EVERY covorsation with him me: h-h-hey wh--a a-t s y-y FRiCK im sorry i- i i OMG I HAFT TO GO-
lol i kinda stutter even if i talk to my friends idk why feel like got a problem with that so if i talked to my crush i wouldn't say a single word lmao
i talked and i wasnt the only one who texts first which is noice but sometimes it gets so akward for meh for when i say somethin that is too long or something they didnt rly like and i get a reply like lol for it and it gets so akward, i rly regret taking tht den and the entire day ill be stressed
I’ve been trying to talk to one girl lately but I literally have no clue how to talk to her at all because of how mysterious and quiet she is to everyone. I have no clue what she likes and doesn’t like so wish me luck.
The down sides of asking him these questions: •We are in a whole different friend group •We have a very different personality •I am extremely shy towards some people •I’m not the first one to talk •He is always in with his friend group and same with me during break time •I don’t have enough confidence to ask him because we aren’t even close The good side? •He looks back but idk if he was looking at me or his friends •a friend of mine said he was looking at me during one of our break time •He doesn’t ‘pick or meanly tease me' like what he does to people Please help me xd
I like how when people like someone they notice everything. Where they stare, if they have new clothes, who they speak to, what they speak about. Every interaction they remember. Anyways how's it going?
My crush nation is Imagi*nation* so I can't see him but can talk to him whenever I'd like to. Sure I'm gonna ask these questions to him and I bet will be the same as mine. 😂
Lol you are like me XDD my crush was in imagi nation. And now I have a crush who lives very far from my country QwQ but if he doesn't like me back at least we had good memories together
@@chocolategirl8221 XDD no, he is real. But my imaginary crush is anime character (oh no! I am exposing myself) like, Sasuke, Lawliet, Dazai. And yeah 😳
Me who has a crush on best friend: *asks questions* Crush: "why do you ask so much- don't you know all these things already?" 🤣🤣🤣 Edit: hes my boyfriend now. 👀💞
Me : sends a riddle pic to my crush My heart : he'll reply! My brain : he ain't My crush : doesn't reply My brain : told ya another point for me My heart : *sad twirking*
I remember asking similar questions to my crush, I was head over heels for them but was convinced they didn’t like me in that way. I’m a major introvert but it was online so that made it easier. Great video!
1. What is the one thing you want 4 years from now? 0:29 2. Where is your favourite place? 0:42 3. Where is the one place you want to travel to? 1:00 4. Do you have any funny memories from your childhood? 1:22 5. What are your friends like? 1:41 6. Do you like to go out on the weekends? 1:57 7. What’s your family like? 2:14 8. Is there anything that scares you? 2:35 9. What do you do when you feel bored? 3:00 10. What is one thing you don’t like? 3:13 11. What’s your favourite character? 3:28 12. What do you like more: reading books or watching movies? 3:46 13. Name your top 5 TV shows? 4:02
@@ritikanavghare2297 haha well when I watch these videos I always find these comments helpful, so I wanted to write one too :) That way if someone wants to watch a specific part of the video they can!
@@ritikanavghare2297 hey I’m sure if you two are meant to be together fate and God if you believe in that, will bring you together. You’re welcome for comforting you :)
I just want to develop better conversation skills because I have lived as an introvert as well as an extrovert. I can get into others' conversation but could not develop mine. Thanks for this :)
0:28 what is the one thing that you want 4 years from now? Present future thinking 0:42 where is your favorite place? When stressed out or disconnected 1:00 where is the one place you want to travel to? Convo starter, maybe same and talk about it 1:22 Do you have any funny memories from your childhood? Learning what kind of kind to laugh and bond 1:41 What are your friends like? Inside of crush 1:57 do you like to go out on the weekends? Alone, relax, family again can tell about who they are 2:14 What is your family like? Connection 2:35 is there anything that scares you? Realise their fear ( of embarrassing etc.) 2:59 what do you do when you feel bored? 3:13 what is one thing you don't like? 3:28 what is your favorite character? May mirror your deepest desire or qualities 3:46 What do you like more- reading books or watching movies? Learn about each other 4:01 Name your top 5 tv shows! Shared interest, high likel both seen one
A good conversation starter is "What would you do if money and time aren't a problem?". Because we are almost all focused on making money to do what we want, we don't really think of what to do when money and time aren't a problem. This could bring up some really interesting topics for you and your crush to talk about. Like mine for example, I would really like to go to space one day, even for just a few hours.
the one thing people struggle with is - finding topics to talk about with crush. i literally ran out of topics eveyday. this vid was REALLY hepful hehehe