16 Personalities Asking Someone Out 

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- Are you a koala? - Yes, I am. Come and save me! Romantic compatibility: 100%

I love how the INFJ is portrayed as the innocent stalker who realizes what they are doing is weird but does it anyways.

0:01 - ESFP 0:06 - ISFP 0:25 - ENTJ 0:42 - ENFJ 0:54 - INFP 1:15 - ESTP 1:23 - ISTJ 1:53 - ISFJ 2:08 - ISTP 2:16 - ENFP 2:37 - INTJ 2:48 - ESFJ 2:55 - ESTJ 3:01 - INFJ 3:35 - INTP 4:31 - ENTP

INTP's absolutely need to be logically consistent and you've understood that perfectly, that was hilarious ! XD

The good thing about maturing as an INTJ is that, since no one lives up to your expectations (including yourself), and because you're a pragmatic, you start to ignore those expectations and just accept things as they are. Yeah, resignation can be a super power! ;) Anyway, kristin, pretty funny this one (and, as usual, brilliantly written and acted)! I laughed quite a bit and, not gonna lie, the beaver line made me cringe. And laugh. But mostly cringe. :D

ENTJ pretty much executed what the INTJ was thinking.

INTP here. My first attempt to ask a girl out was remarkably similar to the koala survey. After that experience I resolved to wait until I was asked out, but since I'm oblivious that lead to going on a lot of dates I did not know were dates, and eventually wondering why only extroverts seem to be attracted to me.

Brilliant! 😄 These are all spot on. I particularly liked the panicking INTP, although after receiving some very random telesales calls recently I'm now wondering if I have a secret INTP crush out there! 😄

ENTP: dials number but doesn't press call yet. Takes several deep breaths. Paces back and forth. Calculates all the possible outcomes. Distracts themselves with 5 different hobbies and projects. Still calculating. Stares at phone. Works out. Still calculating. Pours a drink. Screams loudly and presses "call". Nails the conversation by effortlessly winging it and using none of the prepared material .

The way the ENFP so confidently said that pencils are pointless made me regret I'm not already married to one. That was pure gold

ENTPs have got to be the most fun to make sketches! They’re my favorite of all the types you portray!

Then the INTP goes straight to the Wikipedia page for koalas as soon as she has put the phone down. Ya know, cuz knowledge.

Haha. My ISTJ husband texted me when he asked me out... im INFP. HIM - "I think, I like, but dont know how you feel. How do you feel?" Me - "I feel confused. What do you like?" Him - "you" I then daydreamed our whole life together. Forgot to reply. He then texted the next day: "Dont worry, I was drunk." I continued to have a major heartbreak mourning, feeling like our whole fictional marriage was destroyed and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He ended up crawling back... though there was no back to begin with... haha I find that the moment he showed interest, that was a marriage proposal, and no backing out of it... that was it... we were to be together forever. Sounds crazy, but I actually just have determination to make things work.

As an INTJ, I can confirm expectations always exceed reality. For that reason, instead of relying on expectations, I have developed a list 31 traits, ranked in a tier list by importance. Each trait is then measured on a 4 point scoring system (1 being woefully insufficient, 4 being exceeded standards) and given a weight based on the importance of the trait. As I learn more about the individual in question, I can begin to measure an average based on scores in the various traits. If this score exceeds a minimum value, I determine it is worthwhile to consider a relationship with the person in question. It’s quite simple really. An excel spreadsheet makes it even simpler.

ENTP approved. My proposal to my longtime girlfriend, asked in a pizza shop over lunch: "So you wanna marry me or what?"

The INTJ part...not exactly how I'd ask someone out, but those words are always lingering deep down in my mind. Crushing on someone is like an inconvenience that happens, one that takes away your focus and disorganizes your day's activities. And even though you've convinced yourself that they're not the one, something inside you will want you to give them a slight chance anyways, cos who knows if your perfect companion actually exists close by.

I love how your depictions of INTPs are either incredibly accurate or incredibly funny 🤣 I don't think any other RU-vidr could get our types this right 🤣

Why is the ENTP attitude so attractive? I would never call someone, if it wasn't absolutely necessary, but the "I will never talk to humans again." after an awkward interaction was very relatable. ~INTP

INFP - ouch 🤕. So true for so long that it still hurts. Why is the world inside my head so often so much better than the real one? 😂

The INTJ one is so spot on😭 this literally happened early this year. Been meeting with a guy, enjoying his company, cuddling and so on and i knew that i was catching feelings. It sorta stopped the moment i distanced myself to analyze the situation, realizing that there were quite a few red flags for me. While i enjoyed the time with him, he was just too fast and WAY too insecure, extinguishing the spark himself and not even realizing it. But maybe its just me being emotionally constipated and having too much expectations (it definitely is) so who knows🤷🏻‍♀

Oh my god this was so perfect in every way. "I don't care about their weekend" "Hey how was your weekend?" I see the INFPs are starting to realize they've just been daydreaming about all these scenarios the whole time. Very true. Thanks again for an absolutely wonderful video. -INFP

As an ENFP who loves riddles- if someone told me to solve the riddle to date them- and they want me to solve it. I would just give them my heart at that point. And make a ton of jokes as I do it, work out the riddle in my own chaotic Ne way, hopefully be super lovable in the process, break down their defences and solve the riddle and the riddle of their heart. Also I feel the INTP in a way, except I say that and then straight the way move on to texting my friend the random thought I thought in my head. And it would be Face to face not over the phone which yes would be even weirder.

the video title gave me hope thinking "wow, I can really ask someone out?" until I saw my type... us poor INFPs I knew it was too good to be true

All massively hilarious 😂 I find myself relating most to the ISTJ. Emojis are a great cheat for Fe, but often confusing. 💙🎄🤯🙏

Of course ISFJs would conveniently have tickets just lying around. Plus, I can definitely relate to the auxiliary FE function of just letting them take both tickets! 😂🎟️

As an INFP, I'm offended. Offended because this is spot on! Great job! Love the commitment per usual!

Being an INTJ and asking somebody out is incredibly rare. I’m currently experiencing backlash at work from Not asking a certain woman out because I thought the ways she interacted were strange and office romances are generally a bad idea... so I dumped her before we ever gave it a shot because I foresaw a lot of daily troubles in the future... but now I have troubles anyways so I guess it’s a no-win scenario

Ah yes! the INFJ struggle of accidentally outing myself as a stalker :)

As an ENFJ I'd say the example in this video is more my approach with some of my introverted friends, particularly an INTJ who is a homebody where I have to "invite myself" over. With women, I more or less only ask them out if I've already studied the eff out of them and their intentions/interest level. :') Great video!

All the INTPs jump at the chance to solve ENTJs riddle before realizing doing so means getting asked out. 😂 personally I love the challenge and directness!

Oh boy I feel so called out. As an ISTP this has happened over and over. "So if your in my area, we can get together and do something." " What do you mean, that's ambiguous?"

The first joke of ENFP was actually in Blackadder Season 2 XD I have been trying from the moment the ISFJ clip played to convince myself I wouldn't be THAT much of a pushover, but then I remembered my crushes and I was like aghhh... ok I may have been... I mean... I can't relate to the tickets thing and giving both to them and their friend... (even if I did buy 2 lottery tickets by my crush to support her and her ex bf's job) but the main idea, yes... we sacrifice too much for others' comfort. Great work as always! Have happy holidays!

As an INTP I am intrigued and want to solve the ENTJ riddle and would then panic after solving it because I would realize I can now go on a date....😂😂 A riddle like, what walks on four legs in the morning, two legs in the afternoon, and three legs at night. Though that is probably too easy. 😜 I am more likely use the INTJ technique to asking someone out though I felt the INTPs anguish....😂

As an ESTP I have to say, you showed people at their most epically irritating. You're asking someone out, not asking them to marry you. Go out, have a good time, figure out afterwards if you want to see more of them. The worst that can happen is rejection but worse still, is that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. How shitty must it feel if you are just constantly missing out on stuff because you didn't try?

It's soooo true for INFJ. The INTP one was hilarious 😂

The koala survey 🤣 I'm dead

I think as an INTP I would naturally start asking questions instead of getting to the point, spot on.

1:50 I love how you put the ISTJ that doesn't care about their crush's weekend just before the ISFJ that is asking them how was their weekend hahaha

Gotta love that ENTP foreplay

As an INTP I can confidently say that this is your most accurate INTP sketch yet! I laughed so hard! This has made my day to be honest.

INFP here. In high school I had a crush on a boy for over a year before talking to him, then I realized I was graduating in 4 months and would miss my chance if we didn't start dating soon so I asked him out. Now we've been married 5 years, have 2 cats and are planning to move overseas within a couple years. Yes INFPs are socially awkward dreamers, but the terrifying thought of dreams not coming true can sometimes override any other anxiety or awkwardness we feel

0:07 ISFP here. Yeah, that's pretty much spot-on. I'm reluctant to impose myself on anyone, preferring instead to go with the flow and let romance develop organically if it's going to.

As an INFJ female I would never ask a guy out. Definitely quietly stalk them though! 🤣🤫

"Yes, I happen to have a koala brother and koala sister. How did you know?"

“The way you jingles your keys twice before you unlock your door every night” 😂 Yep! I recently dated an INFJ and I swear she knew things she would only know if she’s been stalking me. I’m an INTJ though so I get it. 😉

Funny enough my now husband asked me out to watch a musical, as he had a spare ticket because some relative couldn't make it. I later found out his sister was pretty pissed he took the ticket. And thank god I sealed the deal early in life so I didn't have too much time to built terrifying expectations. (Yes, ISFJ and INTJ)

I don’t think I would ever call someone to ask them out, it would be way too akward. I would rather send a text, or talk to them in real life. But that would probably also be akward. But again, imagine me asking someone out, as if that would ever happen. -INTP

Nobody: . INTP: Are you or any of your family members a koala?

INFP here that has recently learnt this strange power to just ask someone out.

As an enfp, I confirm this is how I flirt 😂 And with an enfj partner, that's definitely how he got me 😂😂😂

I (INTP) even still dream about asking out long lost crushes from high school regularly, never having the courage the speak to any one of them. This was so spot on. XD

"Casually marry." I too enjoy saying "casually *insert anything that should never be considered casual in the slightest*". The way some people casually make decisions perplexes me. I wonder if that's a perceiver thing, or maybe just about Ni specifically. 🤔

ENTJ here... I was like, whatever. Kristin is wrong. I never gave my to-be wife a lis..... er uh. Well actually... wait a sec. I DID i DID i DID yes, I can't believe I did give her a list! I had her over on the second "date" and printed off beforehand a list from a Christian dating website I posted a year prior to ever knowing or meeting her, of what I was looking for in a wife - and I can't believe I'm saying this, but I actually asked her if she matched any of the items on it (and to be sure, I already previewed the list with her in mind, prior to her arrival)... and before she could object, I proceeded to read them. In the end, she was just silent. Nodded, thought probably I was weird, probably was a bit glad she met 98% of the list, but in her nice ISFJ way said "that's a nice list. are you sure? I mean, I'm not REALLY into becoming a missionary's wife, and I really don't want to go to Africa. But that's a ... that's a ... nice list." And to think, now that I know MBTI, I may have only won her heart when I first said the word "list" (as she is an ISFJ though and lists are their thing) without ever having to read it heh. Married now 19 years and going.

Okay, first of all, what is a “pregnant pause?” 😩 The INFJ one is very relatable. Of course, I’d never slip up like that. The “J” stands for “Just so you know, this ain’t amateur hour. *airhorn* 😎”

Just one little letter, a T to an F, and I'd be free .. no .. still can't polite smile INTJ

Damnit, Kristin! I was all set for saying how relatable the ENTJ sounded (I don't HAND them a puzzle, the test is whether they realize the conversation is a puzzle) and then you nailed me to the floor with the actual strategy I consciously use to get over crushes (INTJ feeling SEEN)

For a while as an INTJ I made dating decisions based on the idea of "running the numbers", figuring that I just needed a large enough sample size to get a good match. At another time I tried dating women with as different personalities as possible to find a good fit based on maximum variance. Eventually I just happened to realize a good friend of mine was a great life partner for me and we got married. Emotional intelligence is the biggest uphill battle of my life, but I think I'm starting to get it!

INTJ here, this year I went a visit a couple of people who I thought I had feelings for. I was really pleased with myself as I discovered the first one to be idealization but to my bad luck, even if I tested the second one to find something disappointing or any red flags, my analysis is that actually she is as a human I would like to be with. So yeah, now my obvious strategy is to run away and try to kill my feelings with fire :3

As an INTP, I relate to the ISTJ the most. Except I wouldn't try to make it sound emotional because I wouldn't notice the emotionless tone.

The INTP one is had me dying of laughter 😂😂

Video Idea: Each type's theme song! Maybe sing a line or two in character! 😄

ENTJ asking someone out by creating the game of "Who wants to be a Millionaire?" but on Hard Difficulty.

Raise a family... of cats together... XD

😂National KOALA DEPT! OMG! Is there any hope for INTP ~ I do wonder. Brilliant, Kristin. 😉 Love your vids

Holly crap: the INTJ line is actually what I have once said to the guy I had chased for 3 months... Kristin - your insight is as fascinating as it is frightening.

So what is the riddle the INTJ gave to the potential date. INFP-

In my defense, as a INFP, imagining all those relationships and conversation is really helpful, it works like a simulation which I run usually far enough to see that it will not work out and there is no need to pursue it in the reality. There has litterally only been 3 people in my life and mind who survived this simulation enough so that I would want to make efforts to make it a reality x) and only one has any romantic compartiment attached to it.

Not all infjs are stalkers kirstin😂

Can't get over you facial expressions for each type lol Do you practice in a mirror??

As an ISFJ I would never help out just anyone especially to the ones who rejected me

I *never* mention to people "things I've noticed about them", because.... yeah, that'll happen.. Not that I stalk my crushes or anything! **hides facebook search history**

INFP couldn't be more accurate. When I read the title I was like, “How bold of you to assume I have the guts for that.”

Damn I thought the one I related to would be ESFJ for the they love to help with the little details stereotype, but it was actually my type ! Remember: If you want an excuse to hang out with someone, say you want to help them with school work! Works sometimes! ( It also guarantees that you both won’t be bored, and that pained expression when they wanted to bring someone else too is too real 😭 )

as an INTP I feel offended and doomed at the same time

ISTP Let's date No? OK bye

That INTJ tho 😂😂 that's what I said to myself when now hubby asked me out

ENTPs are awesome - INTP here

I enjoyed how the ISTJ remarks about why he’d care about the persons weekend followed immediately by the ISFJ starting her conversation that way. Nice touch. The ISTJ has a good emotional translator in the ISFJ :)

This was me (entp) casually getting my current bf by the sentence "so wanna be my bf or what?" He was too cuteee and told me "uhm wait! This is too sudden are you sure? We just know each other for a week!" And me replying to him " so what? I need a concrete answer! You don't want a fine woman to be your gf?"

Ah it’s so easy in the dreams for an INFP! But to make it a reality takes a lot of courage, confidence and sleepless nights! And causes lot of stress because of the fear of failure/ rejection!!!

#INFJ is terrifyingly accurate! 😅😬

Yeah, ENTP always keeping things chill and acting cool. Be mean with them, that’s the key😂

INTP is wrong we'd never call wtf?

I'm an INFP (I think) and I definitely want to do something like the ENTJ's test but with more emotional stuff...😊 Also, for the INFP...😢😭iknewit😭😢

Banter, ENTP love language

Okay as an ISFJ I was just cringing the entire time because I've not only done this with crushes, but friends who didn't really care about me too. I was pinching the bridge of my nose the entire time 😢ISFJs, we gotta promise we will leave this energy behind in 2022, we deserve better Edit: Need me an ESTJ lol

I am an ENTP ( half) but herein I relate to ENTJ more Not riddle, I want the one to play repartees ( ENTP) and "rhyme".....

Yaaas! As an INTJ, that is so accurate! I really hope I do meet someone that meets my expectations, because they are incredbiley high, and I'm just hoping someone who meets those standards even exists.

Your INFP was so accurate I'll have to lay down and cry for a few hours....

Fuck dude 😩😩 Why ya gotta put me on blast like this -- 2:37

Idk if you will see this comment Kristin but these videos are like 10x more funny than Frank James

As an INFJ, I can confirm that this is true, as I have actually done this before.

If an ENTP doesn't hate you then you didn't really work hard enough to catch their attention

INFJ IS SO ACCURATE 😳

Even though I'm an INTJ I found myself liking the ENTJ response the most. Am I betraying myself?

INFP- took me a year to ask out my crush and it turns out he has a girlfriend

An INTP calling someone on the phone...willingly? Not a chance

INTP was so funny!

Poor INFJ and not understanding socially acceptable boundaries 🤣 you were just being, well, yourself