16 Personalities Getting Ready for a Date 

loved these lol my INFJ husband asked me out after several months of texting. in the next breath said he hoped we could get married, instantly regretted it, turned bright red, and started backpedaling. fortunately, my INTJ self had already assessed him as a suitable partner so i was more amused than frightened off.

Oh heck, INTJ is so accurate. These were basically my thoughts before getting into a relationship with my current partner. Analysing his traits, figuring out his taste, realising we're an ideal match.

ENTP: Are we playing the "looking for a genuine connection" approach, or the "mess with them and see if they can keep up" approach? Or are they one and the same? Me: This is why I'm single Also me: Worth it

0:00 ISFP 0:13 ENFP 0:40 ISTJ 0:48 ISTP 0:58 ENTP 1:09 ESFJ 1:30 INFP 2:05 ESTJ 2:30 ESFP 2:35 ISFJ 3:01 ENFJ 3:20 INTJ 3:56 ESTP 4:20 INTP 4:41 INFJ 5:40 ENTJ

The INFJ conversation with herself is perfect. Simply Perfect. ✨🙌🏻✨😄

As an ISTP I'd like to state that I'm not only chosing the least smelling wardrobe item, but I also take a shower and (if I think it might be serious) I also shave the 3-4 days old stubble off my face. This is the sufficient amount of preparation for any date. (Of course if we are going somewhere specific I also make the necessary reservations.) Othervise, the video captures the mood and invested energy perfectly!

"OMG, that INFJ looks so mysterious and complex! I bet he doesn't even care about dating." The existential potato that is "INFJ": A.) Please love me as much as I love you. B.) LET ME LOVE YOU!!!1! C.) I love humanity, but people are stupid. D.) Why don't people approach me? I'm approachable! E.) I hope I wasn't glaring again... F.) Oh, look! A baby! yay! G.) Oh, no. Please don't approach me, I haven't had time to think of a hypothetical conversation between the two of us yet...

As an ENFJ I spotted myself and my INFJ girlfriend instantly. An intense relationship of psychoanalyzing and idealists…. Well done Kristin ❤️

I like how the ENFP is like "getting ready". She probably will forget to wear her outfit till the last minute because she's either worrying about some other detail she fantasized about before she had that first date or thinking about all the ways the date could go wrong OR right until it's time for the actual thing.

This is exactly how an INFP would act, INFPs are either too relaxed or too stressed about a date. If they DO like this person, they stress about it and run all over the place. If they DON'T like this person or if they are just meeting randomly most likely the INFP will be like ' Eh '.

So true! Haha, as an INTJ, I wish I had the stability to think that's a win, win situation, but I'd probably be traumatized for life if it didn't work out properly because as you said, I'd have been analyzing them for a year and already know if the first date would work out or not. But I'd definitely have a back-up plan in case the date didn't work out and I did have to never talk to him again.

And now the debut of ISTP Stats! I've kept track of everything Kristin's ISTP has ever said. (It is much easier for the ISTP than the other personalities, you see.) This is video 13/57 the ISTP is silent out loud, and 10/57 the ISTP is silent completely. The ISTP has said 958 words so far - 775 out loud. Looking forward to word 1000!

“I don’t want to start a potential relationship off on a false representation of who I am. “ I feel so understood right now. You so clearly and concisely put words to an emotion that can be so difficult to translate. Bravo! 👏🏽 - ISFP 💗

Even though I'm an INTJ in all things, apparently I'm an INTP when it comes to dating because all of her rationales made perfect sense to me. "People...people...people...why do this to myself?"

People are saying how great it is to be an INFJ, because “we’re rare”. But in reality, we’re such a mess. We have ridiculously high expectations for our future partner. We make up these unreal, romantic scenarios in our heads, imagining a future with an ideal partner that doesn't exist. We idealize people we barely know or create someone entirely new. Or imagine ourselves in a romantic relationship with fictional characters (I admit to all of these, especially the last one). And then we are met with the harsh reality. Depressing things aside, I loved your video! Keep up the good work!

The INFJ is spot on for me. Always have dialogues like that, time to times

Kristin you would make such a great method actress. You can play the EISNFTJP main character. And villain. ...And... all of the extras.

Things the ENFP will probably say on the date (and in most conversations): “Ooh you know what that reminds me off you know [insert something that only seems to link to us]” “Omg I know exactly what you mean. I [insert experience that vaguely relates]” “So what are your hopes and dreams” “Yeah that makes sense. Ooh did you know [random facts] Acts out entire monologue while sat in front of date (by that point if they don’t get weirded out you’ve found a keeper) Will probably debate about something I’m passionate about or even just for fun and not pick up on the other person (yep ENFP’s like debating too I actually thought I was an ENTP for a bit) Will almost defiantly knock a drink over or something at one point and/or spill food. Love the ENFP doing the monologue in the mirror- knowing full well we will never actually stick to it. The dilemma for wanting to be your authentic self- but wanting to make a genuine connection with everyone and having to deal with not being able to (the Fi- Critical Fe struggle so real). Also the Te “how should I act on this date” But in the end Ne wins and you end up either completely over sharing or contemplating the meaning of life, making a ton of pop culture references only you seem to find the link, and acting weird and not realising it. And obviously being oblivious to social and emotional boundaries (oopsie)

The INTJ one is very accurate. Had the exact conversation with myself except I didn't have that smug expression with slightly squinted eyes... oh wait I just looked into a mirror...nevermind

Okay, I haven't seen anyone saying this yet, so I'll say it. I really appreciate your bringing out our Fi side and not just harping on the Ni-Te in this sketch. I thought that INTJ, on top of being very accurate, was unusually well-rounded and healthy in that respect, and a good example for all of us INTJs out there. Well done, Kristin!

INFJ 🤣 fun fact - after being friends for ages, I spent months discussing whether we were compatible for marriage (with my now husband) and then we planned the perfect calendar date we would “officially” get together (become official) and it was weeks away 😂

ISTJ was spot on. How can you plan anything for a "surprise"? Do you want a casual flirty girly girl or an elegant glamour queen? Are we going to a 5 star restaurant or mud wrestling? Do I need to be chill and conversational or let out my adventurous party side? C'mon man, at least give me the attire to not disappoint you at first glance.

You really aced the ENTJ's presence! The clear look in your eyes when saying "see you in 20minutes" is just spot on!

Oh my goodness the INFJ pep talk in the mirror was the scariest thing ever. I catch myself doing this alll the time 😂👌🏾 That and little therapy sessions to check in with myself/feelings 😂 PS: love the remixed Zelda outro music :)

Wow INFP is so accurate- I literally just gave casual dating a chance for over a month. And just yesterday completely cut Eve off with everyone and told them I’m not looking for a relationship. Also yes to me not being ready on time. This is so sad cause I really just want to find my husband but dating is overwhelming and time consuming… also ESFJ was relatable when I’m all giddy about a guy I talk him up haha

i would really love a longer video just focused on the ISTP lmao. The clips are so short for the ISTP but they're honestly so true, you really capture our personality and how we just casually act. Out of all the MBTI youtubers, you have the best representation for the ISTP.

The INTJ is so painfully real that I can tell you: if I said yes to the date, it's because I made sure in advance that they can keep up with me messing with them. And yes ENTP, that and the "looking for a genuine conection" are one and the same. To me, at least.

Great vid! ENTP and INTJ were spot on. Poor INFJ. Your acting gets better and better. Looking forward to the movie edition of all 16 types on a deserted island playing Hunger Games.

ENTP, they are indeed one and the same

Let's just face it. The INFJ needs love at first sight or nothing.🤣🤣🤣

Wait, I'm supposed to make small talk with the waiters? -INTP

As an esfp, the musical in my mind is crucial to the date vibe

OMG, can't even begin to tell you how many first dates sparked a scenario in my head of a future family/life while telling myself I'm being ridiculous. (INFJ)

as an ISTJ, I would cancel that date

I always loved watching you playing 16 different characters and seeing how they interact with each other. Who's your favorite personality type to play?

As an INFJ myself... that is a real struggle. Just be chill and go with the flow with a potential partner is not an easy task. My mind gets regularly unrequestedly assaulted with possible scenarios every time the person reveals or does something new. Or then, when we start to spot those things that are the natural "imperfections", we tend to worry how exactly that thing will impact our life and happiness in the long run. Are we wasting our or the other person's time? Will it be bearable in the long run? Or are we just setting ourselves to certain disappointment and pain? Is it worth the risk of potentially causing that much pain in the other person? Is it worth to lose that person? Of course there's a chance that we will figure it out together and everything will turn out fine :) ......... but what if we don't? ( yup we are annoying af even to ourselves ahaha ^^' that's what you get with 6th slot Fi)

As an INTP, I'm a mixture of the INTP and INTJ here. I view dating as a great burden, so before I ask someone out, I already know that dating them is worth it. This tends to backfire, however, because in the period where I was deciding whether to ask her out, she has already gone and gotten a boyfriend. It's a rough cycle.

I(STP) feel attacked! 😅 But to be honest for a date I would definitely wear fresh clothes. (Which wouldn't mean much because I would be so nervous they wouldn't stay fresh for long …)

Geez, the INTP one was so relatable and I've never even been on a date. But it's like that with any prearranged meeting with people. Too many variables!

Your acting is so good, I genuinely forgot that it was the same person doing all of this. - your local ENTP with low sensory awareness

Damn, u got me with the INFJ - I wish it was over the top, but it’s really not. Six years single … 1 date 🙄. Thanks! 💚💜

The captions for the INTJ and INTP were hilarious.

As an INTJ the analyzing someone I like and have known is so accurate, but for going on a date from an app I'm way more like the INTP. Finding a place to park is one of those thoughts that has literally been a part of me canceling a date.

The ISTJ is extremely accurate - I would be livid

that ENTJ was obviously talking to another ENTJ 🙄

Guess what INFP has a date tonight! And yes I already found a youtube video I’d much rather watch lol

How are all ENTJ skits exactly like my ENTJ friend?? She is EXACTLY like this, she perceives and handles EVERYthing like a project. Everything is planned, and her communication skills are so on point, she'd make anyone agree with her in any of her ideas. Even a trip to a café becomes a lesson about the economic value and properties of a slice of pie (I remember you had a skit about a similar situation in one of your videos Kristin, where the ENTJ was at an outdoors café with a friend - that's exactly how she is!). I actually miss her :'( -INFJ

Hahaha as an INFP, I never casually dated. My friend set me up with her brother because she thought we would hit it off. We talked for 6 weeks before we even went on a first date to make sure our personalities, values, and goals in life were compatible. Once we determined that they were, and that we both really liked each other, we started dating, but there was nothing casual about it. We were dating with the intention to see if we wanted to get married. We were married 8 months after we met lol. It's been 11.5 years, and we are so happy together. He's an INTJ. We both wanted to be married and were serious about it which his sister knew, and it's why she set us up. Neither of us wanted to waste the other one's time or get too emotionally and romantically involved if we weren't compatible. I honestly think everyone should do this. By getting to know each other first, I feel like our relationship is based primarily on a really good friendship. Like we are best friends who are also completely smitten and in love with each other. It's so great

As an INTP, I haven’t actually participated in this kind of activity, but I imagine that I’d probably be like the ISTP the most. I think that the INTP could be relatable, but maybe not at the same time.

So funny I've been into various kinds of ENTPs and I totally agree to INTJ internal dialouge. And I relate to INFJs mirror self talking. BUT I'm an ENTJ.

When you know EXACTLY which one‘s your type… *INFJsigh*

it´s funny you can tell the distobution of the 16 personaletys by looking at the amount of replays of a given sektion of video. Thus we can deduce that the most common type´s are: ENTP, ISTP, ENFP, INFJ and INTJ. now this has only been conducted over this video so this may be uncerten. (INTJ in case you where wondering)

ISTP- I do have hamper but was in use bringing up clothes from the dryer

_So I was sitting by the table at the restaurant waiting for my date to arrive, when I saw this girl come in dressed as Hinata Kaho from Blend S. "I didn't know there was anime convention happening nearby," I thought. Thinking nothing of it, I continued to ponder on the new project I would be starting that coming weekend when my ruminations were cut short by the cosplaying girl, "how dare she!" Just as I was about to give her a piece of mind she spoke in a devilishly sweet voice, "Hey, you're ENTP right? I'm ISFP, I hope you'll take 'good' care of me~". With one sentence she caught me off guard tore through all my expectations and created a vacuum in my mind. _*_WHO IS THIS GIRL?!_* Hope you guys enjoy xp

Kristin, you're having better and better impressions of ENTJ. I don't go on dates in hope of looking for a compatible mate, knowing the probability of success will be very low. Now I just go out with people so I can explore interesting places and study different types of people.

INFJ telling herself not to read too much into what he's saying KILLED me. I tend to be attracted to certain T types specifically because of their bluntness-- they're a nice reprieve from the need to be constantly intuition-ing 🤣🤣

1:10 and 4:20. Again, are we really so predictable? I did try to cancel and she was singing my praises before I met her. To sing someone’s praise before they meet implies that she had met me without me knowing. You know what that means. Three people assisted me (actually her) to prevent cancellation of the blind (to me) date by me. These ESFJs have an unnatural social skill. She even convinced the person who set us up that she had not been stalking me but somehow just acquired the information.

I genuinely thought the ENFP would say "flakey" :D Felt called out prematurely LOL.. Great video! Also the ENTP questioning her own intentions, nice turn! Edit: omg the ENFP UK subtitles, my heart!! 100% true

Oh no...INFJ is so totally true... :(((( hhahahahh we're DOOMED! :D:D

You nailed the ESTJ! Phoning a restaurant to pre-order a meal whilst getting ready is definitely something this Te dom would do😆 Also glad to see you kept her let’s-get-down-to-business pony tail😉

Oh so ENFP went on a date with the ESTP who was eating cake at the party! It really took them a while to set up this date ... probably flaked on each other a couple of times 😂

My last SO was an ISFJ and he 100% did this on our first few dates, and I 100% psychoanalyzed him. On our second date I remember he said something along the lines of "why am I pouring my feelings out to you I hope you don't mind." Spoiler: I don't mind. It's a hobby. - enfj

3:54 Plot twist: The 1% chance scenario occurred and the INTJ has been stood up by her date.

Love all the ESTPs in all of the skits - you make them look and sound like a lot of fun. Although in real life they’d probably start irritating me very quickly. And the ISTJ - exactly like the one I know

I am an ENFP but somehow I relate to the INFJ here. Can anyone explain what this means for me 🥺

Your INTJ is spot on! What I think happened: The date went on and was successful (almost all predictions and expectations came to pass). But still wants to move the office desk anyways.

"don't prod too hard" LMAO that literally had me rolling as an ENFP

ENFP having that Te+Si organised rundown of things to keep in mind is spot on 😃 this is how I’ve been able to consciously change my habits - being 100% present in what I’m doing and saying and thinking and adjusting as you go, though I had to take breaks because using these 2 functions forcefully and at the same time is exhausting.

Can we please have an appreciation for the amazing t-shirt that the INTP is wearing

You totally nailed it, and it hits hard.😀 Amazing representation, thank you for making me laugh!

ESTP: 'Define safe' - I lost it. Genius as always, Kristin :)

Omg that’s scary accurate (ISTP and not too proud)

Having dated an ISTP I can say he's one of the most meticulously groomed people I've ever met.

I need that periodic table of Marvel tee! WHY I DIDNT KNOW ABOUT ITS EXISTENCE!!

Infj was painfully accurate. I feel personally attacked lel

No way 😐 just yesterday I said to my best friend that I need about a year to decide if I really like a guy and if he's suitable enough. Although it would take longer to actually go on a date 😂 (INTJ)

The INFJ was so spot on !😂❤️ Sent this to my best friend and her reply was "I've literally heard you say those exact words"😂.

Ah Kristin....are you sure you're not an Infj in disguise? 🤣 I reckon I use Jesus's words on myself all the time.."you who have never sinned may cast the first stone" lol....brings me down a peg or two! Love your Jeremiah tshirt too xxxx Bless you xxx

ENTJ is perfect. As an ENTJ, I have found it very difficult to date people due to my high standards. No more dating for me! I am going to spend Valentine's Day eating a delicious meal, reading a great book, and watching a murder mystery, because Valentine's Day is actually the anniversary of an execution.

00:00 ISFP 00:13 ENFP 00:40 ISTJ 00:48 ISTP 00:58 ENTP 01:10 ESFJ 01:30 INFP 02:05 ESTJ 02:30 ESFP 02:35 ISFJ 03:01 ENFJ 03:20 INTJ 03:55 ESTP 04:20 INTP 04:42 INFJ 05:41 ENTJ

"Define safe" - The Estp

As an INTJ I haven't been on a date for 8 years so I have no idea whether or not I relate to this.

This was a little too relatable 😶😂 Also yessss song of storms!!! 🙏

As an INTJ, I can appreciate the pursuit of a win-win scenario, although I somehow find it easier to accomplish in a game of connect 4, or chess, then in a social situation. That being said, I think it makes sense when planning a date, to figure out a way to make the experience enjoyable for yourself, regardless of what the other person does. For example, if they don’t show up, you were meaning to check out this new restaurant anyways, and now instead of having to talk to someone, you can read while you wait for the food to arrive. Or, you wanted to go see that new movie anyways, so it’s still going to be an enjoyable time. Frankly, I suppose it’s simply a matter of “looking on the bright side” but I prefer to think of it as “hope for the best, plan for the worst”. Disclaimer: I’ve never been on a date, so take my advice with a grain of salt, although I think it makes sense regardless.

"I've been alone this far I don't need to put myself through this." Every INTP to date

Thanks for reminding! I literally just ran to the bathroom refilling the toilet paper cause I forgot doing it and I have 2 flatmates. 😂😂 -ENFP

As an INTJ, I have never felt more understood.

Yeah, ENTP accurate

The subtle christian stuff is good

During my subtitle rewatch it occurred to me, what if all those people were preparing for a date with each other? And if so what would be the pairings? @Kristin how about a mini series with a continuous storyline? Doesn't have to be about dating necessarily. I know you have included hints and references to earlier videos before but a continued story with the same characters in each episode could maybe depict even more depth and complexity of the individual types. And yes I know that something like that would mean way more work for you than the usual videos. But maybe the patreon community can help if they are up for it?

im istp but when it comes to datets im betwen INTP and INFJ. Great video.

I'm intp. My esfj husband asked me in our first date how many kids I wanted. I wish I could remember what I responded. I had never thought about marriage and kids. It's all he thought about since early adulthood, he said.

Genius! Kristin dialled this bad boy up to 11 as an ESTP might say. Every one a comic 💎

If there were an oscar's version for youtubers, You'd win content creator of the year! 🤩🤩

Date? What is that, some new sci-fi RTS game? Sounds interesting.

They ARE the same thing. But only for you ENTP... only for you... 😢😭

I love your video’s, they’re so intresting! I would love to see a video about the 16 personalities in quarantine or what holidays the 16 personalities would go on. Just some ideas😊

Too sick with Covid to think of a funny comment. Thanks for the video.

Okay so you are really good at playfully poking fun at the ENTP. And I love it too much. It’s embarrassing. 😂

sjsdifjsi I know this might sound weird but the way ESTJ prepared that date just made me ✨💗🌸🥳 As an INFP who grew up with an ISTJ mum, this is *the* ideal 😆 Mostly because I like the idea of not waiting an hour and a half for the food to arrive and the backs-and-forths of 'No, I'll pay' (though they are fun sometimes) but yeah, this is very appealing