16 Personalities Healthy vs Unhealthy Types 

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Timestamps! Each personality type with unhealthy going first and healthy going second Intro 1:40 ESTP 2:26 & 3:02 ENTP 3:37 & 4:18 INTP 4:55 & 5:33 ISFJ 6:08 & 6:46 ISFP 7:22 & 8:02 ESFP 8:28 & 9:01 ENFP:]] 9:36 & 10:21 INFP 10:57 & 11:43 ISTJ 12:20 & 13:27 ESTJ 14:05 & 14:50 ISTP 15:26 & 16:13 INFJ 16:46 & 17:24 ENFJ 17:52 & 18:40 ESFJ 19:14 & 19:53 ENTJ 20:24 & 21:17 INTJ 21:48 & 22:48 Have a good day

I fully agree as an ENFP that I have this thought of "restarting" everything, especially how clear it is that the world gets increasingly chaotic, but that's just impossible to do.

Dude the thing about healthy ENTPs being hard to spot is legit. I spent the longest time thinking I was just a more tolerant and realistic ENFP. Stereotypes can really mess people up

Unhealthy Intj: pessimist. Only one problem with how things are going, one problem, and it plagues my mind for a long time. I disrupt every long term effort and give up to short term ones. I sleep till noon, eat very little or a lot, chainsmoke and waste my time. Healthy intj: Regular Se user. I found out that not multitasking and just focusing your energy at one task at a time is the way to go. Sometimes, you must postpone thinking about something, until that thing or event is upon you.

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I'm an INFJ and I think that when I'm unhealthy, I also shut down and shut everyone out because I'm too overwhelmed by the state of people and the world. Usually after I've exhausted myself doing the things you said in the video. The whole Ni/Ti loop thing. I can spend months in it and just get less and less interested in social interaction.

Unhealthy INTJ here. Always struggling between how people should be, wise or just thinking before doing, and how they are in reality. "Ok stay home, don't meet anybody, this way you won't be disappointed" Your video is on point.

I was an unhealthy ISTP once and it was not a pretty sight. I was in a really, really bad place in my last year of high school. After I shook out of that stupor, my friends told me the exact same thing you did in this video. I'm surprised they even stayed as my friends during that time.

Not me, an unhealthy INFP, coming to this video to see what an unhealthy INFP looks like just to confirm that I know what an unhealthy INFP looks. - An unhealthy INFP 😊

"Seeing adventures in flesh world". I AM PASSING AWAY.

Love how theres nearly never any istp commenting on these. As an istp, this makes sense, but its still funny, as it means your probably right about whatever was said about us.

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I noticed how the "unhealthy" versions are the stereotypical characteristics we know in other personalities, while the "healthy" versions are what great known persons of their respective type do (or give advice) in their lives.

I have to say thank you so much for this video, and it was perfect timing. Apparently, I am an unhealthy INTJ, and I knew something was wrong but I couldn’t place my finger on it. I haven’t been able to “accomplish” as much due to constantly seeing where I can improve and do things better. I’ve always had a need to accomplish something everyday. For a few years, it hasn’t been consistent. I can’t even sketch, build my website, research, without constantly finding a way it could be better. However, now I’ve seen and heard there is a problem. I can’t have that 😂. Now I have the motivation I needed.

22:48 Happy to know that I'm a healthy INTJ, nice work!

So, as ENFP, is my belief that just “permanently cancelling school” is a perfect solution to deal with pandemics, school shootings, and kid’s and teenagers depression an example of too much reinventing the wheel and having unrealistic ideas for society? Or is it just a totally brilliant plan?😉

As an ENFJ, I can attest that this is a very accurate description of the healthy/unhealthy aspects of my personality. People-pleaser to a fault but I'm learning to become more forward with my thoughts/opinions.

Thank you for the helpful video for all types. As an ISTJ, in the past when i was not healthy yet, I was struck by people' smooth ways of doing things. Now I accept the fact that I lack the knowledge, so that's why i'm back to ... learning stage for 1 year before actually jump into work.

Very interesting video, one of the Unhealthy Habits of INTJs are their UNFAIR JUDGEMENTS especially towards people who are emotionally outspoken and exuberant.

_Healthy ENTP are hard to spot_ The same goes for INTJ! (And yes, you've described my flaws pretty spot on)

Enfj here. I would say I'm rather healthy, but I definitely have some unhealthy tendencies. The workaholic this is the main one I still stuggle with. Sometimes I do stuff all day long, feel really good and then I realize it's 9 pm and I still haven't eaten. I've gotten better at not people pleasing so much and just trying to be myself though :)

Insightful and interesting video. One of my favorites. Thank you.

This is amazing. This gives me an idea that you should really make a video on the types being in their grips and really coming across as their opposite types a lot of the times!

Beautifully explained, well done.

This video is... EXCELLENT!!! I would love a video about types and attachment styles! Avoidant, preoccupied, secure!

Very accurate but seriously it got me how unhealthy ISFP=Eren Jeager XD

Thorough and incisive. Thanks!!

This is now in my top 10 videos I've ever watched on RU-vid, never had so much insight into other people's mind. Like I could always sense the theory was there, but you just put it together. I also feel like real people are not binary, and the MB test should be approached like a heat map of a person's character. Some would be more balanced and others more extreme in their inclinations.

I like psychology. I have enjoyed every moment in learning things. And I will continue to do so just for the sake of learning. But seeing how divisive people have become online over this new 'system' and use it as a way to show arrogance/power/underestimate/hurt/drag people is just too unhealthy for me to handle. Thank you for being a different type of creator who tries to understand people. I will try to limit myself from engaging too much but I will continue to seek ways to help (if I can) and support your work. I really, really appreciate everything you do. Thank you 🙏🏻

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I just love Nathans click photos! This one made me smile!

And now for something completely off-topic: What's the font you're using for the types? It's beautiful.

it seems like in many ways unhealthy/ healthy can be interchanged with immature/ mature. the staunch idealism of youth mellows with age it seems. for the infp anyway imho

My husband is a very healthy entp, his work is all about bringing people together and getting things done

As an insufferable infj, who's always exasperated with everyone at all times, this video was so validating

Playing on repeat, Nathan!

Wow, Nathan. This is all the way pro. Very impressive.

Interesting. I definitely feel aging has helped this (in addition to seeking out opposing qualities in others). Or perhaps the older you are, the more alternative strategies you've been exposed to.

Istp here. Spot on indeed, right down to that secret protective streak whose random appearances make me re-consider my type, aha. The thing about seeing negative intentions is truly painful. It’s this odd mix of being certain about the conclusion, yet also questioning its legitimacy based on what I understand about the person in question, but being unable to break out of the former in the end. Perhaps one day I’ll find a way out. Any suggestions, istps?

Omg I'm such an ENFP moving into being healthy! Structure! Organisation! Finally!

Your take on INFPs is spot on, as that's exactly what I'm experiencing. Moments like these shock me as to how accurate MBTI can be.

I think pretty good!👏👏 ... Should I be open to alternative viewpoints on these health tips though?😄 Maybe it's a good topic for future conversations ☺️☺️☺️

Great topicnvideo as always

As an Infj, I do relate to the unhealthy infp trait of getting into ruts. This is due to depression and burnout. I'll distract myself with binge-watching TV shows, eating things that aren't so great for my body, and online shopping a bit too much. An infj unhealthy trait of mine is I feel like I'm never doing enough for people, that I'm moving too slowly and often distracted. Thank you for the video!

INTJ input (sorry can't help it): Unhealthy version: indulging in sensory looping as a way of procrastination / avoiding the issue. Excessive overthinking. Extremely self-critical. Healthy version: not afraid to speak their mind and stick to their high standards. ** Methodical decision making. ** I honestly don't think any INTJ should ever settle just for the sake of 'getting along'. To me that would be a massive letdown. To thine own self be true is the only way we can exist.

"Too willing to follow their emotional whims down whatever bizarre avenues and alleyways it takes them, becoming somewhat ungrounded, as a result" Thank you! As a particularly whimsical ENFP, this happens to me a lot. If I follow my fancy without restraint I'll lose my attachment to reality and my obligations. Unfortunately, I mean that quite literally; the world becomes a big blur of feelings and concepts and the real, practical world becomes so unbearable, so horrid and sharp and defined, that I'll go deeper into my imagination to get away from it. I don't mean this in a 'look at me, I'm so imaginative and quirky' sort of way- it really isn't an attractive quality. It means I'll ghost my friends, ignore daily self-care routines, let important deadlines go ignored, avoid negative emotions, etc. At worst, I can get so deep into my own imaginationland that seeing my reflection surprises me- not because of what I look like, but because I have a body at all. I've sometimes wondered if I suffer with occasional derealisation. Regardless - It's the monotonous daily tasks that bring me back down to earth, and as much as I despise them, they keep me sane. On that note - I've been getting better at keeping to schedules! I've always wanted to write a book, but thought I'd never have the patience to actually do it - but here I am, 45,000 words in and still going strong! Must be a miracle!

The thing about INFJ is so true. I find myself offering to take risks and not waiting for the best moment while absolutely quivering inside. I take it as a way to combat my perfectionistic tendencies.

I'd finally settled on me being an INFP but me at my most unhealthy resembles INFJ more. I've always put other peoples wants over my own needs to the point that I stay in toxic situations because I can see their side of the situation and I don't want to hurt their feelings by not at least trying to meet them halfway... even when they never make the same effort in return. I want to be liked and seen as helpful so I tell myself I will play along for now and wait till the time is right. Even my abusive relationship with my sister didn't end immediately once I made up my mind about going no contact because I saw how hard things were for her and was scared how cutting ties with her would make things worse for her. But just because I relate to this doesn't make me INFJ right? I really don't want to start all over in typing myself. I just managed to convince myself I'm not ENFP nor INTP.

intj: *reboots* nope, the world still sucks (returns to her ivory tower)

Hello Nathan. I am just wondering whether you edited the video and changed the pitch a little bit lower starting from INFP? This possibly unhealthy INTP prefers your original voice pitch. Know however that this video is an excellent take in differentiating the 16 personalities healthy vs unhealthy ones and I appreciate it.

J’adore cette chaîne. J’y vois un moyen d’améliorer mon anglais tout en m’informant sur le MBTI.

I feel like very mature and well developed ENTPS can resemble ESFJ’s in social situations in the same way that a mature and well developed INTP can get mixed up with an ISFJ. One of my teachers I mistook for an ESFJ but when he expressed his life story, values, beliefs, and perspective on life he further resembled an ENTP to me.

Struggling to stop being people pleasing...im boiling to just saying it while i dont care about the oppinions that do nothing for me ......even have a vad habbit of apologising where i dont need to say sorry for

very spot on

found out that my mom's a very unhealthy infp and I'm surprisingly a somewhat healthy infj,, thanks for the revelation lmao

I HATE the UNHEALTHY label!! Sooo much! Because in MBTI community people easily dismiss the "unhealthy" type as not the real/healthy type, and therfore the "unhealthy" doesn't count. Soooo annoying. 🙄 Weather you're in a "healthy/unhealthy" state, all of these behaviors represent your type and are therefore VALID!! OK, my rant for today is done, carry on. -intj

I’m an… I/E…NTJ. Always seeking perfection at myself and making personal growth my primary objective. I don’t understand the concept of being ok with mediocrity. For me it’s like accepting defeat and acknowledging self-Failure. Someone help me understand the other side of this.

I am on my journey of being the healthier version on me 🧘🏻‍♀️ - infj

yay long video 💖

Can I ask, what are your take on "Not all type (MBTI & Enneagram) is possible"?

Hey love who i want to add a thing to the infj when we are bad we become easily irritable with little unthankfullness and we need to talk our rage but at the same time we try to hide it.

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As an ENFJ I learned that when I‘m really unhealthy I am not able to be a people pleaser. Instead I feel completely burned out by everyone and everything and become very cold. I want everyone to leave me alone and do nothing all day long.

The role playing games make use of Meyers-Briggs as well: Trinity has eight psionic Orders. Each leader of each Order represents one of the eight Mentors, Advocates, etc, other games too. World of Darkness, Exalted (Big 5),

I notice myself fitting into both INFJ and ENFJ. Interesting 👍👍

Dang, these are pretty accurate for some people I know (INTP, ENFP, and INTJ). When I was an unhealthy INTJ, I definitely felt like I had to break myself out of ice to connect with people. I felt that superiority/disappointment mixture. Like, “why couldn’t there be some people like me?” It takes time to learn to get used to people forgetting things, repeating themselves, and getting used to conversing in general lol To get over my unhealthy mindset, I really had to empathize with my friends, and learn that I can, really, gain something from any conversation. Interacting gives knowledge, fun, and learning moments

It's a Coincidence for me to watch this in the middle of my recovery from being a perfectionist and a pessimist. which is spot on as a former Unhealthy INTJ.

As an Enfp I am weirded out by how accurate you were. Also I'd say we turn into a devil in disguise in order for gains.

So helpful.

Big confirmation on my previous judgement after watching this video, I have been dealing with so many unhealthy people😏 - infj

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Please mature vs immature types

I didn't know that there was such a thing as healthy infps, even if they were categorized as healthy by the video, every infp including myself that I've met either has trauma abandonment or commitment issues,depression, anxiety, or is people pleasing to the point where they feel that people won't like them unless they do everything in their power to make everyone else happy.

I'm not an ISTP, but that one resonated with me more than the others. I was actually once typed as an ISTP, but I know now that I'm on the Ne-Si spectrum because I ask questions like what if people had birds for ears? Or what if their knee caps were filled with jelly, that seems like Ne to me. Also my Se is extremely low, usually on tests (I know it's not a reliable source, but there are consistent patterns that can help) but I usually score Se as the lowest, except on the last quiz I took where I got Te as the lowest. Usually I get Ne or Si as the highest which really doesn't make sense since their on the other side of the coin, but I guess if they were in the middle, like if you were an ESFJ or INTP then they could be a bit balanced, but them both being the highest seems more likely that I'm probably giving more weight to one than it actually has, but which one? I'm honestly not sure, currently I've settled on being an ISFJ. Great video btw, I learned a lot.

I used to be a healthy INTP, but then the world failed me too many times. So now I have no interest in its welfare.

Combative isfps are not unhealthy. There is duality and isfps can be any of those things simultaneously. There are times when it is perfectly suitable to be combatitive and its a healthy to learn that skill. Socionics Se is all about healthy assertion and force. All the qualities mentioned are of healthy isfps. Broody and moody is an Fi skill XD. It's perfectly healthy because sometimes it's amazing to react in such a way and get your needs met. It's life changing to be both sides of the coin and there is no such thing as truly unhealthy when you are balanced. If you are a stickler to one sidedness that is unhealthy regardless of the side you are on

Oh my god, my mum is definitely an unhealthy ESFJ, too intrusive and always blaming us that we aren’t caring the same as she does. I have a dear friend who is INFP, a little bit unhealthy too, and a very unhealthy ESFP and ENFJ

I am definitely healthy as an INTP.

the British pronunciation of "hedonism" isn't very hedonistic. the American pronunciation has a gleefully long "e" followed by a rather libidinous schwa sound. Ergo, the Americam pronunciation is more hedonistic.

hmm according to this I'm more on the healthy side? (enfp) I always thought I was more on the unhealthy side but I guess not

STILL not sure whether I’m an INTP or INTJ!

23:24 smooth over my a** def going with option one

ENFJ, described perfectly!!!

me, an INFJ about to click on this video: surely i'm healthy, right? me, getting to the INFJ part: oh.

I'm looking forward to this video. I can't figure out if I'm an INFP-t or INSP-t 😅 I still don't know lol. Another great video Nathan🙂

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I feel awful for not understanding anything in this video cuz this guy put so many big words I don't understand. English is not my first language but I think I'm pretty good. I just can't follow what he's saying

That INFP description hits way too close to home.

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Good video

Clearly, it’s much more fun being unhealthy!

an example of unhealthy infj can be seen in the movie detachment.

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I strongly disagree with the perfect moment point that you bring up regarding infj. Because, if you take a step back and look and see when the actual perfect moment is, then that is the perfect moment. That saying, that there's never a perfect moment, that applies to a different issue than INFJ's issues. "There's never a perfect moment" is for the person who refuses to take the Next Step. Infj doesn't refuse to take the next step. They're timing it correctly. That saying has always confused me, it's never been used directly toward me, but whenever people say it it always throws me off because I always do things at the appropriate time. And the appropriate time is the perfect moment. So it's just kind of funny that you bring that up regarding infj, because we do have a link to that, but it's kind of inverted. For us, the advice would be to trust our instinct and do wait for that perfect moment. Because we read all the instructions and we see how it works and we know when the perfect moment is going to hit and that's when you strike. Another saying that always gets me is that you have to step outside your comfort zone. That's not how I operate. I have already made it my comfort zone to be open to new experiences. So if you're comfortable with being open-minded, then why the hell would I step out of that zone. I'm already in the zone. That advice is more for people who are close minded. Not that anyone applied it to INFJ here. But yeah it always confuses me when people say that. But I guess it is a good saying because it encourages people to be open-minded. But I don't think you should be uncomfortable with that. I think you should be comfortable with healthy growth. Rather than stepping outside your comfort zone, I think you should get in the zone. Honestly my biggest issue as an infj is dealing with the other types. Most of the types are extremely disrespectful and close-minded. So I think, for me to grow from where I am, I need to learn to stop trying to lift people up who refuse to be uplifted. Because it's just causing me anger

I’m an unhealthy INFJ 😭