The 16 personality types and my interpretation of how they would behave in conversation based on the combinations of functions which each type has. Which one are you?
INFP people really wanted to talk about anything but they end up saying nothing.... Like in this comments section, INFP's are definitely just reading your comments without replying or response. Edit: woah i never thought a lot of infp's would bother to like this comment. If i were them, id just stare at it and wonder how this person knew me so well. But anyway, i thank your finger for clicking that thumbs up button 👍
@dalgakëran I’d say INTP would be more active in the conversation, wanting to talk about intellectual topics in hopes of furthering their own knowledge through discussion or simply to flex their brain INTJs would be more passive and ask more questions than discussing (ie. "Why do you wanna talk?", "Define ‘something’", "What’s the point?", "Why do you ask?", "About what?"). They’re more interested in the reason for the conversation than the topic of conversation That’s just my two cents on the matter though, being an INTJ with an INTP friend
INTPs be more like: -Do u wanna talk about something? +it'd be easier if we don't 'cause there's a lot in my head that I don't know how to put them in words. Also if I do, I'd be talking to you for like forever because I wanna explain every aspect of it but in the end What do I know?
INTP: where do you think the do you wanna talk about something is originating from? -...... -INTP: the vast majority of your life experiences since your birth and the genes that date back to grand grand grand........ after 15 minutes gets close to conclusion but it actually won’t because it keeps on gravitating towards life and every other aspects of it’s substructure and their causes
i hate the lets talk about something type conversations because half way through it i feel like they aren't paying attention and i'm just trying to help them out of their ignorance but that's the thanks i get.
INTP: Not right now as I need my space to ponder your question and think and come up with a better phrasing of " do you want to talk about something" that makes it more efficient
INTJ as well, for me if someone were to ask me "what type do you think you are?" I'm likely to complain about being asked to guess and try to get them to let me just take the test then we can know the answer, it'd be quicker than me analysing the different indicators
That real i have classmate entj and that was how the talk was he ask me how i make girl love me without talking to her she probably infp and i am intp that can be good match
The infj one, the mannerisms are true but with someone you don’t know, an infj would probably ask “what do you want to talk about?” Not launch into whatever they wanna say.
Marcus Gonzalez same and I guess that’s why I like small talk even though apparently most hate it. It’s an easy topic and one we both can contribute to
INTJ is perfect. When my mom watched this, she (an ENFP) was like: "Oh, I always just thought you were trying to be difficult." It is not that we're trying to be difficult; rather, we simply want to know your expected scope of the conversation so we don't expend incredible amounts of energy thinking through a logical argument only to have you leave one minute into it. To say you haven't thought about it or don't care is to say you have little regard for our time.
This sums up way too many of my conversations xD Other person: mentions a subject they’re interested in Me: Enthusiastically starts analysis on the research I’ve done about it, happy to have found common ground. Other person: Oh yeah, that's interesting, I hadn’t really looked into it that much… Me: Oh… ok... Proceeds to subtly judge them with my next question
@@wendyhere7204 that's whenever I ask my INTJ friend something. She pulls out the research notes and begins the lecture, which I like because then I can listen to her talk about whatever it is and learn things in the process while keeping the conversation going by throwing in my comments about things.
The worst is when someone asks you a really deep question so you start talking and then they just change the subject if you're not done in a minute. If you don't want to know... don't ask! Insincerity is a waste of everyone's time.
@@briannahoff8589 yep! I agree. So before that happens, I kind of gauge the person's level of intellect and openness to unconventional ideas to see if it's even worth it to explain my views. If they don't pass my assessment, then, meh. I'd grossly oversimplify things. 😅
@@mariz9330 Exactly! So true! Sarcasm is one of the biggest gauges for me. If you're smart enough or actually care enough about the question to catch on, you're fit for discussion. If not, you have your grossly oversimplified answer. Most people think we're reclusive or something, but I actually usually have several things on my mind that I would love to talk about. I throw out comments that touch on the subject to see if anyone shows any genuine interest. Usually, no one does, and I retreat back into my mind laboratory, but oh, the joy that comes when you find that interested person! Haha, my mom describes my methods as "socially selfish." She is an ENFP.
INFJ talking about how bad society is... that was hard to watch. I realize that I actually do say “nowadays, we...” quite a lot. I had no idea I could be such a pill. 😭
No that's not an infj thing that's more of a "I'm getting older now and I'm starting to hate the young generation even though they had nothing to do with the present and it's all our fault" ya know what I'm saying
@salinastraightedge am just a curious ENFP that likes to understand everyone and their perspective in life, what do you think of when other ppl are talking and why do you have nothing to say ? or is it that you have alot to say but not the way to say it ?
@@rayanelina4248 It depends. I do this with strangers and friends alike, though it's probably more common with people I don't know well. I think it's usually because I don't have anything to contribute to the conversation, and it's a waste of energy to say something that's not meaningful. Sometimes I am just immersed in the moment and I kind of forget about myself. That usually happens with really engaging people, like my E/INFP best friend, my ESFP mother, or when a group of people I know (family, friends, coworkers, etc.) are having a lively/amusing conversation. Sometimes just I zone out. 😝 I might be thinking about my own things, or I'm bored but don't want to interrupt.
INFJ: I'm just really looking for someone to give me the safe place to share my deepest hurts and concerns with that I give to others ENFP: I will be your hero baby!
@@eL.N.M. I'm an ENFP and the girl I'm interested in is an INFJ. How did you manage to do it and how did you know he was ever interested at all in you?
@@whiteatlas6205 first, I observe everything about what he likes, what we're match up and not, etc. Then I make the first move because he's so shy and introverted. I started to talk to him about things we like and pay attention if he's comfortable with the conversation. After a couple of weeks I'm starting to get flirty, again I paid attention to his reaction. After things goes smooth and settle, I confessed my feelings 😊 I mean, he knew it already, because I'm being flirty.
@@whiteatlas6205 So I guess the key is are you comfortable with each other. Even so, that doesn't mean she wants to be with you. So after both of you feel comfortable as a friend, you need to give her signs that you want to be more than that, but don't get too pushy because it would be annoying and ruins everything. It sure takes times, patience, and it might doesn't work in the end, but that's how things work, right? Yet we still strive for it.
@@eL.N.M. This was honestly a really fantastic answer, thank you. I've known my crush for about four months now and a lot has happened since then that I would like to share and get your opinion on if that's okay? Regardless, I hope to confess my feelings to her in the middle of January. It's reached a point where I'm less concerned about being accepted or rejected and more determined to tell her all the parts about her that make her so damn special. If, at the very least, it could make her happy for one last time I get to see her in person.
my istp bf: amazing = pretty good great = pretty good good = pretty good moderate = pretty good decent = pretty good alright = pretty good bad = ok terrible = bad
Pfft- Me, an INFP: *Works really hard on something and is happy about how it turned out* What do you think? :D My ISTP sibling: *Looks at it and shrugs* It's cool Me: ...Just cool? ;-; *Starts to second guess my confidence in it-*
I'm not even 20 seconds in but I'll take my guess that the INFP will talk about something philosophical Edit: Proud to know that I know my kind very well
INTP, except instead of being a jerk about it, I try to stick to the simpler aspects and explain them, and/or just avoid having the conversation be about my interests.
Actually, I'd do something like what happens in the video because I'm not in about to talk with someone and then they won't pay attention to me, so I'd rather talk about something complicated and then they just step from me.
The worst part is when you hit by, what I like to call, the "philosophical wave", when you're supposed to do something important like studying for an exam.
The last thing I would do is open up on my inner thoughts out of nowhere. I would likely start with "whats been going on in your world?". Once I get a sense of their mood and the events that created it- I would steer the conversation accordingly. However if given a direct question like "how do you think globalization is affecting societal views in your country?" ...I would answer. Because I contemplate this shit daily.
Yes that “Love is just... Lovely” part.. I would deliver that with a huge grin on my face because it’s technically a pun and I would laugh so much even if it’s not that funny 😂
Istj. I had to wait through the whole thing to finally get to my type. The wait was worth it! Just to let you all know, he spent two hours formulating his thoughts but in the end he realized that anything he said would have resulted in a conflict, so he didn't say anything to avoid it all.
I'm an INTP and that is not what I'd say, because I try not to come as condescending, but it is exactly what I would think and it would be exactly what i would say when drunk.
You know, the ISTJ, very likely has the most profound answer(s) that would blow all of the other examples away, but you probably won't hear them because such a person keeps their insights all internalized, never to speak out in public out of their fear of being judged negatively of their selves and person hood for their thoughts.
As an INFP, I used to dread smalltalk. Then I realized that with a few strategic questions, you can get the other person talking instead and let them bear the bulk of the conversation. :)
AS AN ISTJ, I just listen and always comment afterward. Sometimes though when I want to talk I am afraid to interrupt and just wait until the end, usually forgetting what I wanted to say in the process
Lmao. My husband is an ISTJ, thank you for the clarification. I see exactly what's in the video. And I'm like... thanks for having me waste my time. (Im an INTJ)
Personally, I can’t manage to keep my comments till they finish talking because I’ll simply forget, so usually it goes something along the lines of me making comments and getting the story of track😅
@@Ali-cv4wm That actually is a sign of caring more about what you have to say over the person speaking. If you forget your comments while actively engaged in listening, that's actually a good thing. Because you've allowed the other person the due respect to say what they need to. However, that how I, as an INTJ, sees it. When people throw in their side comments, I instantly stop wanting to talk because I feel they have lost interest in what I'm saying since they'd rather speak over me.
@@kara871 Having two IP's in one family is nice. There's usually a "you do you" sense of support even if you aren't on the same page on every single thing.
The Enfj one was hilarious to me for some reason "Do you need help or some advice?" "Nope" *Sharp inhale + skeptical look* "Really?" I don't think I've ever met an Enfj before but I need one in my life lol 😂😂
Debrionna Gilbert lol I am an ENFJ, when someone says that he is not going through struggles the first thing I would be thinking about “this person so tired and s/he is lying about it”.
ISTP. That was how my usual discussion with a stranger starts, but it lacks one important detail - the question "What would you like to discuss?". And answer on that is a loud "Well, shit" in my head. So many topics I can discuss and I _never_ know what to talk about.
Riiight? I am an INFJ and I have been in a relationship with an ISTP for 4 1/2 years.. definitely feel that's accurate. It's a special day when he is in a chatty mood 😆
@@shaggyd00kale58 I think it has to do more with the Ne parent in us. (INTP as well) ISTP are also more brash than what is shown in this video. Like "bro what are you even talking about man? This is so stupid". ISTP is the same type as Eminem. INTP love teaching new things to people. Even if they don't fully understand we dumb it down to a point where we think they could (sometimes we dumb it down too far lol)
Kikyo-sama I admire your personality. Logical human that prospers in the 3rd dimension. Often bland, but bland is intelligent and unique in this era. -INTP
Wow.. At least you found a bf... For intj girls... It's like boys don't think we think like girls... But that's not true. Just trials and tribulations of being a intj. 😑
That is almost exactly my response, lol. I have about a million hobbies and interests, so the "what do you like to do?" question would get a laundry list of a response. -ISTP
As an ENTJ, I'd like to talk with the ESTJ about managing money. Looks like an interesting conversation, I believe both sides can benefit from one another after the conversation. But don't expect me to do as I'm told😂
INFJ was so real. I can just dose off in my own thoughts without realizing it and say few words. I have a habit doing exactly what he was doing! (I'm an INFJ) Edit: Thanks for the likes, I have never gotten so many💜 I actually didn't even expect any 😅
@@dharmadharma3960 Haha so true but it's a little different for me. I'll be thinking about kind of dark things and the complex mysteries of life and my mom will just be like watcha thinkin' 'bout and I have to say "nothing" bc she would never understand and you just can't get into it... but really sometimes I don't even really remember what I was thinking about bc she dragged me back into the real world so suddenly lmao
I'm an ENFP only child with an INTP mother. Most of my childhood was her playing a couple rounds of ludo or snakes and ladders with me and then quitting. She would say the games were giving her a headache cause she couldn't stop her mind from concentrating so hard. Or she would try to turn it into a math exercise so we could finish faster. She's definitely into more intellectual and theoretical interests. As I'm getting older i can now look back and understand why she didn't have many friends. Also why many of the social responsibilities with our neighbours and family were often put on me. Sometimes i have to save her in conversations or when we have guests over to not bombard and bore them with politics etc.
Never start a conversation with me. In one moment we will be talking about life, in the other about unicorns, other magical creatures and conspiracy theories. ~An INFP
@@ashleelmb Exactly. And it's hard to follow me when I'm talking about things I like, but is almost impossible to follow me when i'm drunk. My mind gets like twice as fast when i'm drunk. I guess my mind stops trying to analize anything arround me that makes me nervious or shy and focus just on what i'm talking about.
@Seann Erino i was just sharing my experience, so maybe someone has experienced the same thing as me. I don't know. What is the point of your comment though?
@Seann Erino i'm not saying what i explained applied to ENTP, to start whith because I'm not one. I'm INTP. I just said that the ENTP way of doing reminded me of my own behaviour when drunk, which make sense since since when drunk you are less selfaware and don't think that much how are you acting like introverted people can do. And apart from that I added what it felt to me when i acted that way. What's wrong with that? Are you going to tell me whithout knowing me how i act in specific circumstances and how does that way of acting feel to me? Lol.
someone: do you wanna talk about something? intp : ..........·ᴗ· someone : ........huh? intp : do you wanna talk about something? ⚈͒◡⚈͒ someone: wtf..that's my question
(ISFP) “hey you wanna talk about something” me: sure whatever you want “well you can talk about something firs-“ me: *okay so the song “I Never Told You What I Do For A Living” is really sad and deep imagine killing 1000 evil souls to just see your love one last time that’s sad isn’t it? like gerard clearl*
i have roamed the not so far corners of the planet, and searched the minds of the experts, the shelves of the book stores, and collections of books on kindle, but never have i come across such a lucid sketch of the 16 personality types. Thanks a ton!
This was so well done! You perfectly captured those in my life. Entj's are very good at taking on leadership positions and voicing their thoughts but they infuriate me when they pretend to want to give you the option to make the decision and then make the decision instead. You captured esfj's so well lol and enfj's too. The enfj's i know love giving advice and being seen as a guru. Love the esfp imitation. So accurate. 🤣 love esfps. I am an enfp and your imitation was hilarious. I like to talk about deep things but sometimes would actually say much depending on who I am around. There are many times I prefer not to talk at all though if the conversation won't be of any substance or if I am busy and need to focus on something.
I’m an ENFP and that is so me- And then the second I say that I go into a thirty minute ramble about love 😂 Also when you have a mom that’s an ISFJ it’s hard to make deep conversation...
The girl I was in love with for forever is an ISFJ and it was as if there wasn’t one thing in the world interesting enough to converse about.....and I’m an ENFJ. You can only imagine.
I am INFJ and i was excepted something more "yes, we can talk about the last serial killer, u know, the guy from the neighbors' house ? Yes, this house 8D You're in." It's closer of the INFJ's vision BUT TALKING ABOUT TERRIBLE THINGS IS GREAT TOO HAHA
Either that or their new favorite thing on the internet(whenever I end up loving something new I feel the need to let everyone I know I'm obsessed with this thing)
@@dan138zig people think INJF are just people who talk about terrible things or that they are misunderstood. But we don't haha. We tend to think about that
Mine would have been "Sure. What would YOU like to talk about?". So I guess it's not that far off. I would have been busy, but I wouldn't have been that rude and gone away like in the video.
(Interviewer) "Do you wanna talk about something?" (INFP) "Yeah... I do..." (Int.) "What do you wanna talk about?" (INFP) "Pffff... sso many things... jus... just life.. you know...? And... and what it means..." (Interviewer) "Do you wanna talk about something?" (INFJ) "Yeah, I do. I do. I wanna talk about a lot of things that people nowadays just don't talk about... important things... and it's terrible... just.. terrible..." That's f*ckin' EPIC, man! Many congrats, that's just f*ckin' awesome! ^^
You freaking genius! :o I can see exactly what you did there! :) Definitely recognised ISTP, INFP, ENFP, INFJ, ENTJ, INTP and INTJ, so beautifully accurate :)
Hahahaha good stuff. That ENTJ, in particular, was gold. The INTJ was very good and funny - although I suspect he would be a tad more terse in real life. And, as an intp, an unmistakable smirk of familiarity crossed my lips at the rendition of the INTP.
I’m a ENTP and I thought that the ENTP part was pretty accurate and a died when I heard the last the he said!!!!! “Sooooo......... what you’re saying...”
I think I've got an inner ENTP in my head xD Although I'd never say that it loud, I always wonder if I should choose the topic or the person I'm talking to - because YOU asked me but if it bores you that's not gonna help. But if you choose and I would've had a better topic... what do we do? How do we find something we both wanna talk about? And who's gonna decide in the end?
INTJ here. My best friend is an ENTP. I love his energy and goofiness. He can entertain my mind for hours. He thinks abstractly. It is said that these personalities get along well. I understand why now.
@@MochaMix I have an ENTP friend and me and him get along well. I see him as a partner in-crime. Out of everyone I talked to in high school I talked to him the most.
INTP is totally not accurate. And who ever made this relativity thing up? I don't think an INTP would literally say "You wouldn't understand the things I am interested in". Even though that might be the case. They would probably engage in some kind of small talk.
Actually I do, I always make that excuse first to prevent people calling me weird, it's like: "well I warned u" and basically we are tired of people not understanding us so we basically cut them off before they start but if the insist it ends being an awkward convo xdd
As an INTJ I tend to reply with a "something like what?" to that question instead of directly asking if they want a deep conversation or a casual one (but the goal is to know exactly that). Needless to say, if it's the latter I'll probably be lost hahahaha
HAHAHAH AMAZING INTP here but I want to say you got ENTP so well. I know so many ENTP’s and you captured them perfectly. Even the facial expressions the way you scrunch your nose with ENFJ. In general these are really good videos
Im an infp with glasses, my eyesight became worse because I read a good amount of comics, played a lot of videogames, listened to a ton of music , watched too much tv and did research on stuff im interested in through my pc . . . Fi helped in weakening my eyesight because im passionate about stuff I like. Ne "helped" in that because I have a wide variety of stuff I was interested in, all of this stuff can be mostly found on my PC, which I strained my eyes on.
When it comes to culture my mom(ISTJ) would probably be talking a lot because she loves learning and teaching others about our culture and cooking and parenting and relationships. Those are her favorite topics that will get her to talk. While my dad(intj) wouldn't miss the chance to talk about his favorite books, poems, songs/singers, politics and so on but he doesn't usually initiates the conversation if no one asks him
Yeah ok. So he's took stereotypical traits about different personality types and responded to a question in the style of these traits. Nothing clever or scary about this.
Omg I’m intp and the whole “no one understands my interests” idea is sooo accurate😂 we aren’t all smarty and sophisticated lol I’m a total dork. It’s like when he said “let’s talk about Einstein’s theory on relativity” I was thinking “that’s me talking about MatPat’s theories on Fnaf” lol so it really just depends on their interests
I'm INTP and your representation of me was spot on. lol. also it's 5am right now and I've been trying to go to sleep for the past 3 hours but I just can't stop watching your videos.
I. LOVE. THIS. I would’ve liked something more for ISFJ; although I def see where it’s coming from, I like to think I don’t really do that to people. But overall GREAT vid lmao
Isfj-literally always busy.......I completely agree...I am always cooking, cleaning, babysitting, volenteer work, school, tutoring people, studying, job, ...falls asleep every night in the middle of a project from exhaustion
