5 Signs You're Not An ENTP 

Certainly seems to be the trend!

Hahahahahaha that's exactly what I'm doing rn

BOI WHAT THE HELL BOI IM DOING THIS RN LMFAO

@@rosen2510 OMG SAME

Functions are drier than a man in a desert with no water for a week

Haha, there is much truth in these words!

Lol!! My ADHD is outta control. Or maybe it's just my entp? I dunno but I'm a mess. Lol.

See I tested as ENFP until I got a handle on my ADHD 😂

Flames: Then you're likely a mistyped ESTP.

SAME

That would be some serious attention span!

I did, on an adhd pill. 😂

it took me awhile to finish this video, 19 minutes a lot man

Yes!

Also Double Tapping 10 seconds to rewind/fast forward...

Very true!

Yes!

Absolutely

anonymity allows me to do the weird things i want to do without judgments

My favorite!! Lol.

Hehe

yea but i also have adhd

You know you’re an ENTP when you stay just to learn

relatable

I hate it already but I want answers lol.

Anything but Greg from accounting!

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory I think extroversion more means just having less aversion to unknown people. A few times in my 20s literally me alone and no one I actually knew would end up at parties with just random people and that was the best shit in the world because you're kind of anonymous and you have these new disposable friends that are new and interesting and there's this foreign guy and this chicks cool get in the car we're getting more beer woo-hoo! (Course 9 times out of 10 I was drinking alone-alone but hey ENTP right?) We don't hate people. We hate boring people and most people are boring.

@@DrDeathpwnsu Nice :)

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory ENTPRPG: An unknown group of EXXPs appears "Hail ENTP, pray thee, we are on a noble quest seeking various articles of inebriation. Should your presence, or an ante towards the spoils, prove useful you may make it known to us at this time." "Indeed travelers, it is fortunate you have happened upon me! I am well versed in both methods and means you speak as well as invaluable guide in navigating the current surroundings and settings in which you find yourself. I offer my expertise at no cost to you and ask only to share in said spoils." ENTP has joined the party.

@@DrDeathpwnsu Good questline imo

Heh :)

The superior type obvi. 😌💅

@@user-zh8zb6xs6i i mean no, being an entp sucks most of the time

@@sunnohh No I mean we’re higher than most of the other types. 😌💅

Ngl but people with hate, that can't belong to our elite group. Hm

Haha :D Ti-Fi all the way.

I reacted the same lol

MOHAMEDO AVDURU

Value is just an excuse to blend in with society. Just pick one. No one really cares lol

@@Layniacsofficial It's not that I'm struggling, I just hadn't thought about it. It's like somebody pointing out something you do habitually but never noticed

More or less, there is a social anxiety, but when you understand the framework of how the place and people around you work that disappears. If I want a thing from a person in a big group I will just go and ask for it without problem. When I need to do the same thing, but in regards to getting to know someone in a group my first question is what are the interests that that person has and how would they react if I would ask questions about those interests. Basically you are a clockmaker put in front of different clocks, if you know the clock already it's super easy, if you know the model it's easy, if you look at a photo of a clock and you need to repair it in the next hour, you ask for the "manual".

We are ambiverts to be precise.

@@josiesmith1295 Bot quite, for specific situations you act either extroverted or introverted in theory an ambient should be happy with the situations he is in if the interaction is positive, but for us that's not the case, you may want people when you are alone, or you want to be alone when you are around people. It's really weird.

Me too Sometimes i hate my personality (Realising i have rare type of Divergent thinking study type which is so slow but highly creativity according to my convergent feeling -people dont values entps creativity also envies this ne fe convergent as an manipulative persona until knowing that Entp is not a (estp or isfj) Thanks infj brain ❤❤❤ Also trying to developing my other 4 cogniton

Same here!!!

Hah, I get you!

same bro

@Hannah, this is where cross checking can help (Socionics core model A + quadra values + intertype relationships + for instance to tell apart INTP and ENTP, understanding if your Ti is a goal or and end, if it is cautious and all encompassing or if it works rather in a 80-20 fashion to fuel Ne main worldview... that's the rational vs. irrational dichotomy, one of the very few extra Socionics dichotomies that kinda works) give many angles...

Same, whenever I come across an information that might suggest I'm mistyped I fall into hours long rabbit hole trying to figure out if I really am an ENTP

:0

I get annoyed with this type of videos. But I grew out of obsessing over these things. 🤭

Well that settles it. I usually watch like half the video and move on to something else.

not quite correct, when i started watching his videos, i just stopped and first learned the functionstacks for a couple of months. now i was able to follow everything and he is on point. i am most definitely an entp :)

me when I will only obsess over understanding an INFJ video not my own video LOL

Sounds like one of the harder sides of Ne-Fe to contend with!

Ughh so trueee

I feel introverted now because I had to leave my friend group. I wasn't getting the same good vibes as before. Lockdown really did a number on the friendship. Every one kept to themselves. I would ask questions, relay a cool fact etc but the responses were bland or non existent. But ... When someone bought a new item of clothing everyone would chim in then. I felt like I was the only one that wanted depth🤔 And yeah I relate, my main vice is the fear that someone doesn't find me interesting.

You represents me perfectly to the detail of it ngl, because this is what I meant when I said 'I'm no interested of having friends bcs you guys are just my acquaintances' and they hella confused

Same

I would die without Google.

SAME

guys this is not the sims, those personality types should not be taken for a 100% accuracy, its a scientific model and not a meta physical law or something :D

I relate this very deeply. - INTP

@@bernossi5185 i agree with u

Thank you, I appreciate it!

I am too jealous of the ISTP!

Thisss the hobbies part. Ive been “doing” and still do many different hobbies my whole life. And ppl always ask me why are you not mastering the one thing ur good at? How are these hobbies connected? You need to choose one or two of them! You cant go in so many directions these hobbies and interests are all so different ! Why? U cant ! And stuff like that. I never even tjought that way that they all should be with one specific direction or they should somehow work together. Or like goal. Ofc uts fun to play with different interests and combine them. But idk that was not my intention. Just wanted to try something new and i liked it and want to be developed in many dif ares and topics Also im sorry for my english. Its my third language so im trying my best HAA

@@karolinavapper7047 you've even learned 3 languages 😂

I really hope istp know I envy them..

Yes, awesome - thanks for summarising!

shit im overthinking again ,so let me see imma summarize things up pretty quickly and give an overview 1.i do toss around ideas in my head i do like acting them up but a lot of the times i lack the motivation or care to do it 2.i think about other peoples reactions a lot and i get a ton of predictions before it happens so i know how im gonna deal with it further 3.i dont like being a bystander and love being included it makes me feel rlly good BUT i often am discluded 4.i do need some social reassurence and i get a bit anxious when meeting new people but my friends are doin their job well 5. i have massive issues on who i am and try to set things straight fml man i wrote this entire thing before even watching the full video ,too lazy and unfocused. i think im most likely an entp what do you think?

But i saw these signs also show themselves in some Unhappy/depressed ENTPs.

Says who.

I got 4/5. I'm young, and still trying to learn about people's emotions and emotional reactions. I can tend to be insensitive and feel terrible when I make a mistake. Especially socially. I always end up trying to do my best to make amends and love being there for others. But social prediction is something that is still foreign to me. Probably because of being homeschooling for most of my life. Thoughts??

I didn't even watch it...

@@existentialchaos8 same lol, i just skipped everything

Boom!

Cognitive Personality Theory Is it possible that you can do more sensing dom/authority function focused videos, I feel like the idea of being a sensor is misunderstood , especially after Keirsey started the whole “unremarkable sensor” trend

Every mbti type is pretty misunderstood except for INFPs and INFJs. Often given way too much credit than what it deserves. But even then, every single one of them is pretty misunderstood. Every type is a thinker and feeler, and intuitive and sensor in their own right.

Everyday i feel blessed by split-screen technology on hand-held gadgets. Opening a video a book and movie at the same time

Cheers! :)

Definitely sounds Ne :)

That means your infj sister is wrong and infj brother is right, 😊 Right Harry? 😁

Wise words!

YES! Exactly, and you have put it into the perfect words. I fell like as if I might be subconsciously bending my answers to fit what is defined as ENTP, and then I catch myself and I have to reflect over whether I am choosing something that isn't me just to not select what seems inherently ENTP.

@@tanishasingh4457 oooh yes, both of y'all exactly described it. I will forever know I'm an ENTP at heart/mind, regardless of what each test result gives me since these answers are only binary to the questions actually asked.

Tanisha Singh Woah!!! I’m shook upon the self realization.😂

Dude I was typed as ENTP, INTP, ESTP, ESFP, and even ENFJ. Have no clue which one

Or the classical : Prove me i'm wrong so i can learn something

Mm hmm .. my eldest sister tells me I am bossy and judging her, arguing all the time, etc. because I say things like, "Your plan sounds pretty good, but I think you should know that when we tried. .. then .... . happened and we didn't figure out a way around that issue, yet. So if we were going to do your plan, we'd have to sort that out."

Yeah, having to over explain things that to me are just common sense is extremely tiring. Few people have the mental and emotional fortitude to defend and/or challenge their own views

So true! I’m still not sure if I’m estp or entp but one thing is certain. When I argue I tend to ask questions that would prove the fact that someone’s theory is wrong and very poorly made. Someone that I know is a feeler for sure says that I’m attacking her by doing it. Like what? I respect that you want to believe in something that you have no proof of but I can’t just turn a blind eye on that nonsense. Like imagine hearing something like that: - I know that around 80% of the bible might be fake but I believe in god. - Alright, so do you believe in the god from the bible? -Yes - But you know that most of it might be untrue? You just said that. - Yes, but I believe in the true things written in the bible. - Then how do you know that the „true” things that you speak of are true unlike the untrue ones? What if all of it is untrue? -I believe it. You should too or else you are going to hell! - But I don’t believe in it. I can’t just start to believe in something out of fear. - Yes, you can. - How? - Just start to believe. 🫣

Thank you my friend!

Yes!

That'll do :)

omg i also get those 4 on every test xD I'm still trying to figure it out haha

Me: (the thing you said) Me 2 days later: OR AM I?

I get INFJ, INFP, ENTP, INTP and ENFP. From observing my reactions in situations, reading some shit online and watching videos like these I can conclude that I am most definitely ENTP. Now I just hope I can quit the self doubt, but I don’t think I will lol

I honestly thought I was an ENTP with high Fi, as I grew older I thought I mistyped for so long and thought I was an ENFP, until i watched his video on ENTP empaths. at that point I really understood that I am an ENTP. maybe watch that video and understand if you truly are, as that video hit me to the very soul and answered many questions I had about myself too.

Exactly - I think so too :)

I'm ENFP and we are notorious for extroverting with just about everything. xNxPs are kind of addicted to knowledge and understanding. add the extroversion and we need to be constantly extroverting to feed that. using whatever is available to extrovert with is kind of necessity. I don't think words like "dull" have ever been used to describe ENFPs or ENTPs.

and thats funny because being a NT i wouldnt be weird to be conected to external things as well and not only to people... for me, to absorve the world around me i need some alone time to figure the things, to look, to touch, and everything and people usually gets me distracted.

Haha :D

Yeah, that blinking kept distracting me the whole time xdd.

His spirit animal is an owl, an owl that is a teacher.

Nice!

Oml I found your comment by doing just that 😂

@@jimmylam1948 same😂😂😂

Thank you for your comment. :)

I didn't read half of it but the first part sure was good advice... except it's near impossible

Now that I've read the whole thing... thanks, a lot!

I had to force myself to read this, but thank you so much for this. I will actually save this. Thank you one more time!

Love this! I love ENTPs and do want the type to be better understood in general :)

I get that a lot too. I really enjoy discussions and discovering new things, especially when it comes to figuring people out. This is an investigative approach as well as a fun competitive approach at times. For some reason people think I'm mad or attacking them, when I'm just excited and stimulated. Most of the time when people are describing me they give others a disclaimer of me like I'm a dog without shots, and it makes me feel like a monster. In arguments what will usually happen is I will present a logical point that is probably against the grain, and whoever I'm talking to will dismiss that by explaining why that makes me a bad person, and if only I was as empathetic and compassionate as them I could maybe understand why I'm so wrong. Like Pinocchio. If I hope and wish hard enough, maybe I'll be a real girl, with feelings and everything. Which I find insulting. I just want to figure out what makes people tick, and I want other people to want to figure me out too. I've never gotten a response like "so why do you think that?" It's always "you shouldn't think that" I know it's unlikely there will be many people who get me, but I'd at least like for people to care enough to try, instead of assuming I have malicious intent.

@@emma_doucette I can relate to this a lot. I would guess it's even harsher for you since you are female. I recently met an ENTP female, whom for the first time I was sure was an ENTP, I sometimes doubted other females who presented themselves as such, I guess the male/female energy is different between types and I've got preconceived ideas about them, but well ... She had this very ENTP confidence I can't mistake, but then her words were surprising to me. She was very involved in social movements, feminism and what not and I could not relate less to her experience of life. A well assured "independant soon to be woman" type ... I was like, I'm a 27 years old manchild who can't take anything seriously without doubting my decisions as I know every involvement leads to a certain type of life whether I want it or not, and I don't feel enough sense of care for any struggle that I would have to make it my way of life... And you're a 21 year old girl who thinks she's figured it out ? That doesn't sound right to me, knowing you're ENTP. SO maybe that was a bit judgemental, but I became wary about people who know what they fight for. When it comes to being the monster, I feel like many people think there's only one way to get where you want to go, and they don't understand this desire to just explore, enjoy myself along the way. No one I meet and no money I'll earn will ever replace this feeling of satisfaction I get knowing that I did things my way. I recently quit my studies to work as a receptionist in a hotel, I needed money and emancipation. COuldn't be happier. Now everyone around me except my closest INTP and ENTJ friend thinks I'm some kind of stupid lazy ass dude who couldn't finish their studies for nothing, who pretended to be smart but reached their limit. It's just not the case, I had to have something at this point in my life, and I had to do what I'm doing now to feel better about myself, and surely go back to school in less than 2 years. Absolutely no one seemed to understand I was a 26 years old guy living with his parents with no car and no possessions of my own beside a guitar and a computer, and this image I had of myself was devouring me and preventing from everything, from studies to relationships, to just feeling fine in general without feeling outbursts of suicidal thoughts knowing I was no one, not even doing what I knew had to be done to feel better. I reached the conclusion I'd better not listen to anyone, I know how things make me feel, no one else understands, let them live their delusion of me being like them and pretending like "I'm soooo different". I act different because I am, not to make everyone else feel weird. Meaning yes I'm addicted to cola, smoking does help me relax, I don't care about my lungs everyone gets cancer ANYWAYS, I stilll outrun y'all fat bastards, I like to spend time trying to figure out a solutions, I like to overuse my own things just to have an excuse to take them apart and fix them later, I don't care about your kids, they make you uninteresting to me if you live through them, do better, and I have a crazy libido. Why should that be a problem ? I just am open about everything you hide. How does that make you feel ? Anger got me in the end. But by all means express yourselves.

@@JoeLaFigue I think no matter the personality type, feminist activists are going to be annoying and seem like self righteous judgemental people 😂 As for being a female, I would say sometimes people are harsher on me because of that like "act like a lady" kind of thing, but not always. I think it goes both ways. Like aggressive women are going to be judged because they're not feminine enough, and aggressive men are going to be judged because they have "toxic masculinity". Goals in life are good, so is taking advice from other people. But feeling suffocated from other's expectations of you is not healthy, and pursuing what you want and how you want is of course preferable. Your life your way. I do have people I can talk to and lean on, it's just hard because I'm so direct which frightens them a bit 😂 I do need people though. Like I could definitely shut everyone out and live by myself forever like my instincts tell me every once in a while, but I know that would make me miserable too. My best solution for myself is to not apologize for who I am, and keep searching for "my people".

Emma Doucette your self awareness of how your compulsion to debate in order to discover possibilities can be off putting and your desire to improve that to improve your social surroundings is part of being an ENTP. I’m an ENTP too, and I am really attracted to female ENTPs, but the inevitable train wreck always results, lol. I like your observations.

100%

Same! When I first started with mbti I got typed as an intp and later the tests typed me as infj and I just sticked with it but always felt a bit out of place since I can be really extroverted and chaotic sometimes (plus I struggle with social anxiety so that confused me even more). But now that I have digged in a bit more into cognitive functions I am at least 75% sure that I'm an entp :P

@@Theresaaaaaa003 you are literally me

INFJ brain calibration.

Its just to make the video better becz when u pause when u talk u give ppl an option to think and ppl love that and in the end love the video

Subliminal messaging. Hes telling us to like him! You fell for it!

I was just scrolling the comments to see someone notice that too ahah He blinks rarely more than four times, sometimes it's one but usally it's when there is a cut

I wanted to make a comment about it, figured someone else already commented it and started searching. Meanwhile I missed a huge chunk of the video I have to watch again, but I found the comment hahaha

lol I am at 2:48 and have been scrolling through the comments at like 1:50 and now I am finding your comment lmao

i’m a 0.42

No but...can somebody summarize it please?? Edit: 1:45 lol

I just HAD to say that I’m exactly on 4.46 as well

00:20

another sign youre not an ENTP: writing 6 points instead of the said “five” points

@@priestshibe As my comment said, a bonus point was included at the end of the video

@@goose647 that just showed that i didnt pay attention to the video and based my interpretation on your commeng

Tried doing the last one is impossible, so i just listed out the main ones and finished

Heh, seems like a 'either love it or hate it' thing based on feedback!

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory another entp here and usually I can’t stand pauses for more than a second but the way you have with words and how intelligent you are makes it acceptable. I’m always excited for what you’re gonna say after a pause cause I feel it’s gonna open another rabbit hole to explore

Yes, I noticed this. For example, I was much more organized while I had classes than when I was on a school break. Now that I'm an adult, my life was much more organized when I worked full-time vs now that I'm unemployed, or even when I work part-time. If I have a lot of time, I get out of control and it's a constant struggle to do what I need to do.

Haha :D That is an excellent question.

INFJ friend? Don’t bother. As an ENTP such a friendship won’t last long. You’ll offend them 1 to many times because of your personality and they’ll leave your life

😂😂😂

My pleasure! Hope it helped :)

This is such a common mistype I wish more people were aware of!

Humans are so complex! Personality test are guaranteed to be wrong, we aren’t just one simple character that’s why it’s so hard, you know yourself better than anyone.

Same with me lol

OMG I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME. I took the 16personalities but it always came out as INFJ. I decided to also take the sakinorva test since ppl said it was more accurate. I was around 75-80% ENTP while my INFJ being only around 57%

Ahaha apologies :D

This is a pertinent point!

Never been in America, what is so hostie about it for ENTPs?

I can well imagine. I have to say as an ENFJ, not sure about in the US but in the UK I don't find my divergent subtype fairs too well either...no one wants the bogey man who comes along asking difficult questions/drops the proverbial truth bomb...no wonder I'm turning into an embittered old woman 😂😮

Happy to have helped!

Same here 🤚🏻

Thanks Tay! Very happy to present this type beyond the (often rather ridiculous) stereotypes :)

This is a great comment, thank you! I have the same perspective on tests :)

Hanging this reply so if someone does I'll get a notification too

Mission failed no one watching this Is willing to sit thru it

TheMousegod yeah I made it three minutes before going to comments.

Hope someone will sacrifice themselves for us poor souls with no patience

As an esfp I agree hevaily

Thank you so much!!

Hah, dangerously symbolic!

Thanks Molly! I do find other descriptions tend to attribute all of Fe & Fi to one and not the other.

Cheers :)

Thank you so much :) Hah, if only I had the time to put out such complete courses!

All Intuitive dominants have a desire for 'everything at once' and focusing on a single thing without connecting it to everything else is something that must often be learned :)

yeah im currently in the process of being diagnosed as well (therapist thinks I have it) it seems to be a common thread at the very least

Thank you, I appreciate it :D

That's it!

Interesting!

I appreciate this comment so much! Thank you :)

Wonderful! Thank you for the kind words :)

ENFJ here I can attest to the fact that ENTPs are generally a lot more systematic in their thinking than ENTJs which is made clear by their predictive capabilities much like us ENFJs albeit for different reasons. I think the fun loving nature of the ENTP & agreeableness of the ENFJ often beguiles a different reality behind the 'facade'/what people generally attribute to us.

Glad to have assisted in your journey :)

Hah!

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory Seriously though... how could we make ourselves easier to understand? ;-p

Heh, some people want less pauses and others want more - I'm still getting the balance right! Cheers :)

Awesome!

That's really fascinating! Not really my thing but the compliment is very much appreciated - first time I've received it actually :D

The INFJ craze it completely bizarre! You make an excellent point. I focus more on the F-side of this type because it so often goes under the radar, yet is often a primary utlity. Hehe, not at all, I do think I could focus more on opposing functions in general :)

Daniel, I totally relate to what you said re not commenting on anything in social media. I just don’t see the point when everyone is concrete on their belief systems and the desire for discourse is only coming from my end. It is difficult, if not extremely difficult, to have a productive back and forth in the internet nowadays.

Thank you so much for sharing all this! Fluidity is the driving concept behind CPT so I really appreciate your words :)

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory Haha I'm glad we could have this reverberation of mutual appreciation then because as claimed in a "somewhat" shorter form, you've been putting in good work so, keep it up! :)

@@CDOro I was just about to say that I agree but I realise it's kind of a mute point when I was the one making the opening statement haha. However, I guess I just wanted to add that it is pretty sad that people generally don't take their time to understand where others are coming from. Then again, I'm thinking that probably has to do with how most people live their lives too these days. When quick fixes and fast stimuli from things is the go to for most, stopping in their tracks towards the next like isn't very easy to do, habitually speaking. Seeing how that is also connected to the built in validation system of most social media platforms, presented in an external form, probably doesn't help people in discerning that them going for the next "win" in a discussion isn't necessarily the right thing to do in order for neither themselves nor others to grow. Adding layers of miscommunication on top of this and it's all sorts of messy even from its genesis. I guess that's why some of us end up here, to try and remedy some of this if possible *shrugs*. I'm glad you replied anyhow, it's nice to know that others can relate. :)

This is so great!

I can relate to you very much...I used to get either ENTP or INFP in my early 20s when my major depression hit me. Since then I have been typed as INFP which doesn't seem to fully encapsulate who I am (Many of my friends are INFP artists and I mostly dated INTP philosophy (sub)majors and I always felt torn between them). I surely need to find out about ENTP subtypes. Thanks and hope you are doing well!

And an elusive panther it shall remain.

Thank you so much, I appreciate the comment!

Exactly this! Cheers :)

Dibs on Gandalf :D

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory LOL

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory okay, you get Gandalf, and I'll take whoever the Fi-heavy INFJ is... makes me a bit turbulent, sometimes >.

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory Fi-centered social archetype (in the INFJ)? Accessed through Ti?Thoughts?

@@tofusamurai22 Dormant state!

A fine attitude!

Will make a video on this at some point. A project must generally be a part of an active exploratory process - every step must feed your curiosity with the promise of social relevance :)

@@CognitivePersonalityTheory Good evening sir, (BTW this is my 1st public comment you have excited, motivated or compelled me.) I am often verbose but due to my line of work I'll be laconic-def not as typical-yet the attempt at inquiring or eliciting is quite necessary at this precipis for catharsis ... Can you do that pls & also make one (1) about the so-called INFJ/ENTP unique relationship???? (immoveable object/unstoppable force dynamic.) All the research (books, Quora, introspection, reflection, journals, social communication, Dr. Grande other online video forums) man I just do not understand how tis was the best 7 months of my life (while away on training) followed by the worst 7 months of my life (moving together into the real world paradigm). Aside from this supposed purported "marketed" as the best duo out there twin flames & all that ish ... is the lifestyle-personality-blending failure perhaps also a cocktail of other matters such as: upbringing/nature, environment/nurture differences or underdeveloped existential/experiential? Is it the - "demon in a mask wanting peace trying claiming for harmony" (Mr. Agreeably elusive, sheltered needy/dependent clingy, secretive/lying, private/manipulating, sycophant/poseur, chameleon/narc, idealist/amorist, machavelian/superiority, passive-aggressivenes/boohooing martyr, shy/quiet, put-together appearance/controlled agenda) Libra aspect VERSUS "the angel seeking dominance causing chaos" (Ms. Offensively sweetheart, independent/free-spirit, debater/rebel, visionary/intellectual, logical/rationalist, relentless/fearless perceived aggression, enigmatic/charismatic, threatening/pro women, argumentative/combative, blunt/monster, walking contradiction/altruistic empath, unfocused/ambitiously all-over) Aries approach? Insight: We were magic. Synergistic aliens. Then we often argued over accountability, apathy, identity, considerate/conscientiousness, turbulence, finances, openness (he never had a conversation, or shown any creds or documents in my presence he claimed he prided close preservation for future dreams), adaptability, whose the hypocritical ppl pleaser actor (ambivert) or detached isolator or actual complex & difficult person (he a more susceptible/vulnerable mimicker or projector). He was beyond conflict averse an observer I'm an inquisitive doer. I as the devils advocate I am more in your face or risky/exploratory & value or pride venting/interaction/knowing while doing is authenticity of individuation a nondisingenous sense of self. Also transparency of the benefit for the most overall good not self interest, advocacy & bullying in our job or for our families (I later discovered his only friend was his fiance-not ex-that he went right back to actually surely was living with us both at the same time & while referred her in our job). Plus he was married, not actually divorced, but separated so the same gold digger/also former coworker broke his other household too. Both women lived with his mother in another state at different times. He pursued me while we were friends on pretenses (or his illusions?) those months we swore, mainly he, found the soulmate. But I really now see I didnt know anything about who he really was. I am not sure he knows he is a desperate user perhaps. He used the same poems to woe & court her I later found. So is it like a Jung & Freud divergence thing (the indisputable bond leads to undeniable train wreck lol). Or the truly only [singular] dominant function sharing in both misunderstood types (even by each other it seems) can not prove the tests of time? Or was this just a bad batch him or I? I appreciate the beautiful unbiased/unjudgy intricacies of your style so I ask to share & learn sir. TY in advance. I apologize to any for any inconvenience nada here is personal. I just want to know if this is a type I really should avoid door slam both ways.

@@blahwhatever123 That's very interesting! I consider the match excellent so long as there is time apart. An INFJ/ENTP combo video would certainly be an interesting project!

Been working on it. -INFJ