16 Personalities Through the Eyes of the ENFJ 

TJ personality: *breathes * ENFJ: Hmm yes, childhood trauma.

As an INFJ, I'm EXTREMELY guilty of compulsively psychoanalysing EVERYONE. But unlike my cousin the ENFJ, I'm more subtle about it. 😉

No one has done timestamps yet, so... 0:02 ESFP 0:16 INFP 0:23 ISFJ 0:30 ENFP 0:41 ENTJ 0:58 ISTJ 1:08 ISFP 1:16 ESTP 1:21 INTJ 1:29 ENTP 1:53 ESFJ 2:13 INTP 2:33 INFJ 2:39 ESTJ 2:42 ENFJ 3:10 ISTP Hope this helps!

ENFJ (mature) x ENFJ (premature) Premature: You’re hiding something. Did that situation from before bother you? You should- Mature: Do not cite the deep magic to me, witch! I was there when it was written!

I'm rather disappointed in the ENFJ for not being self-aware enough to realise they were overdiagnosing people. Might I suggest gradual exposure therapy? Or behavioural analysis? It'll help you 😊 - an ENFJ

During the ENTP's turn when it starts out with the warm smile and increased brightness; then the record skips and Kristin immediately turns the "ENTP face" on with their actual inner monologue made me shed a single manly tear. Each video on this channel gets put together a little better with the acting, production, writing, or all three. It's nice to showcase the tertiary Fe entertaining the possibility of getting unpacked. In my head, the ENFJ and ENTP go on to have a lovely relationship where the the Ne gets stimulated and the Fe gets to be a caretaker. I get a lot of warm fuzzies when the deeper possibilities of the types gets explored rather than the low-hanging fruit stereotypes.

The subtitles very well sum up my INFJ-ENFJ relationship with my best friend. While we spend 50% of our time talking and psychoanalysing other people, we spend 40% therapizing each other and 10% trying to keep each other from being a doormat for our other friends. She is my goofy, extroverted mirror and it's a thing of beauty.

"My emotional reactions don't have to be Kumbaya to be real" Ah yes, someone who finally gets that INTJs actually feel things deeply, we just don't express our feelings as overwhelmingly or as often as you might. Well done Kristin. I shall exclude you from my victims list when I and my mountain lions take over.

I'm an ISTP. With a giddy heart and stoic expression, I SO look forward to seeing my type portrayed. It's the best! Went to therapy twice in my life. Both times, Through the back and forth of conversation, ended up giving them therapy. Stayed in touch with both of them since.

Don't worry, as an INFP, I am also often infuriated with my reluctance to act.

Ah, yes. The INTP subtext that they may or may not be putting out there. You'll never know because they will never admit to it before their safe word summons one of the extroverts who has adopted them to rescue them from this situation.

ENFJ here, personally I friggin LOVE the INFPs. We just vibe. I’m married to one! They have struggles unique to the INFP, but once you’ve met enough of them you become less annoyed with and more understanding of them. Maybe having ADHD helps me to empathize more as well XD but MAN that ADHD do not vibe well with my perfectionism… I also just ADORE INTJs! You can have the most fascinating conversations with them cuz you see things from different angles. All you need are mutual interests! Honestly I find myself more fascinated with other personality types than annoyed by them. The only trait that I really can’t comprehend is when someone has zero care for being kind to people.

Next time I’m down, I’ll just hum the ESTP’s “suppressing wounds” song. Not only will the fun, cheerful tune put me in a better mood but the song will actively achieve what it intends.

I can't wait for the INTP one. The ENFJ will say something like "I make you extremely uncomfortable and my ulterior motives and digging into your personal life makes you want to avoid me at all cost."

It is interesting that we INFPs aren't case studies for ENFJs....... They get us. And kind of respect us if we aren't mindless, unmotivated, and lazy ☺️

PINEAPPLE

This video taught me something about my family - the one of my grandmothers who was narcissistically evil might have been an ENFJ. (Not to say ENFJs are all evil, to be clear.) My likely ISTP dad said one of his biggest beefs with her is that she thought everybody had problems, and if they said they didn't then that was the worst thing because they were denying it. The favorites of her own children were the ones who did the most messed-up things, and her favorite above that (so my dad tells it) was the foster kid named Tommy whose life goal was to kill the non-foster kids. Said grandmother also had no comprehension or love for my likely ISTJ mom. All of this (in theory) led my parents, in finding each other, to go anti-ENFJ so hard that admitting problems was a dumb idea, in a "why would you do that?" sense. So my INTP problems were mostly just considered weakness and things to cover up and bottle up. Fun fact: that turns out to be toxic! Wheeee! I do genuinely love that this channel is sometimes poignant in the comedy. I just didn't expect it to be through this series. :-)

Personally, this is how I see every personality: INTP: This is my boyfriend. Why is he always alone in the corner of the room? I’ll go talk and introduce myself! Later on I realize how intelligent and analytical he is to the point of intimidating me. He’s also highly oblivious to other peoples boundaries and social interactions. However, he’s a loyal and cute. Befriend him! ENTP: Wow that’s a lot of mental energy in just one person. Her quick mind is intimidating but sometimes she contradicts herself. Conversations are endlessly fascinating, and she challenges me to research and backup my thinking. ENTJ: This child is amazing at money management and he’s only 12 years old! Did he paid his own phone with his dad’s weekly allowance? I don’t even know how to manage my savings account and I’m 22! INTJ: This is my brother, he has this childish good heart inside of him. Moral standards are super high. Sometimes moody and irritating when things are not the way he wants. The funniest person, makes me laugh till my stomach hurts. INFP: Her presence is like a rock, quiet and hard not to notice. She has a pure heart and even though she seems oblivious to her environment, I know she is listening to everything. She hates criticism but accepts it to a certain level. ENFP: Her feelings are so energetic and contagious that it's hard not to love her for it! She is inconsistent with our friendship, but when we have the chance to be together, it's like we were never apart! INFJ: Why does she cares so much about her appearance? She is beautiful! And why is she with that boy? He is toxic but somehow she thinks that she is able to change him. ENFJ: He has such a low self stem but he is the warmest human being! I can’t stop laughing every time we have a conversation. He is very thoughtful too. ISTP: This is my mom. She is diligent, caring in her own way, and endlessly creative! She is so strong, I wish I could have such logical mindset for everything. However, she is so oblivious to herself to the point of irritating me, go to the doctor please! ISFP: Wow! Her creativity with make up amazes me! She seems such a delicate human being. She cries a lot, few people are strong enough to express their emotions and I admire her for it. ESFP: This is my sister. OMG she is so selfish and unappreciative! But she is funny, lovable and my life with her has never been boring. SHE NEEDS A LOT OF ATTENTION. ESTP: Why people misjudge her? Yes, she has no concept of her morality but she is very caring. She is intelligent, and an amazing friend but people can’t just handle her truths. ESTJ: She seems shallow but she has a lot of depth inside of her! You just need to have a one-to-one conversations and she will talk about the meaning of life. Controlling and overbearing but a loyal friend. ESFJ: This is my dad. The kindest person, pure heart and loyal to our family. He is intelligent, and he remembers something from 20 years ago, that’s impressing! However, sometimes he is annoying and repetitive. ISFJ: There is something in her that makes me respect her to a high degree. She has such a strong sense of duty, but I wish she can do something nice for herself. ISTJ: He is rigid and overly organized. I don’t like it but at the same time I admire such strong sense of routine. I can have a lot of fun with him when he let’s himself go with the flow. Sometimes he seems sensitive, moody, and good-hearted.

This is brilliant. I'm beginning to think this "goggles" theme is going to be your real magnum opus (so far). I know you're sweating about our episode and will probably leave it for last, though ;-) Maybe it will force you to finally really understand the INTP and that will be the moment all the 16 crystals light up and you finally achieve perfect third-eye personality vision.

As an INTJ, while I can certainly understand and appreciate the humour about there being no good in us, despite our ability to be evil (I think we would be quite good and efficient at it), it is also the case that INTJ’s tend to have a very strong sense of morality that guides them. I think one example that would make an INTJ appear “evil” when in fact they are attempting to pursue the course of least harm, is in regards to addressing problems early. Someone too empathetic may let an issue fester, until it gets worse, and ultimately more people must suffer, while an INTJ is more likely to recognize the potential future problem/ threat, and address it. It can be difficult to know for certain when early action is necessary or not, and taking too much early action can also be a problem. I suppose the moral of the story is to look beyond the immediate future, and be proactive in addressing things before they get worse, even if doing so may make you come across as cold or harsh to others. There are no doubt many whom in hindsight, would agree with this line of thinking.

Ahahahahahahahahahaha. I'm an ISTP and I love this. It's nice to have our wild card selves acknowledged. That's also the exact face I make when I'm extremely annoyed so well done on the portrayal

Not gonna lie, I thought the ESTP might have been ENTP for a second there 😂 Though I did love the ENTP starting out all promising and delightful then breaking the fourth wall with the truth of the matter 😂😂 Speaking of, does anyone actually happen to know the sleeping patterns of gerbils? Do smaller creatures need the same consistent long intervals of sleep, or do their small bodies recharge faster and they can take sort of power naps whenever they feel like? That would be a fun way to exist.

As an ENFJ I think this is a far too analytical approach to how we operate. Yes we have introverted thinking but it's not operating at the forefront of out minds. We don't analyse people we gage them based on how they are feeling, we externalise so we can gage their response. We're not systematic we are adaptive. Yes, we like to help people, but we are more about connection rather than fixing people. I don't see people as patients or cases, I see them as potential friends which I can build a long lasting relationship. Just my quick thoughts on the subject.

The subtitles for the ESFJ are on point. Especially "You're determined to keep fishing, but you haven't even brought a rod." Good stuff!

I like that you've started to use stuff like fogging speech some types speak because the ENFJ wasn't interested in hearing them, or multiple effects/soundtracks and so on, it makes these videos much interesting 😆 And I also like that the ENFJ looks at people... well, as a psychologist, but in a harmlessly good way 😆 - INTP

dear kristin, I think you and Frank James should do some of these together. You're both brilliant and then he wouldn't have to wear wigs to do the girl side. LOL

I do like to point out, as an ISTJ with an INFP sister: 1. I am much quieter when out and about (especially around loud people) than I am at home/with friends/people who know me better. 2. My INFP sister has never been lazy or unmotivated that I'm aware of. This stereotype of INFP really bugs me.

I don't know how you do the INTP "dead eyes" so well, but it's freaking me out.

ENFJ are totally the therapist friend. As soon as they're introduced to someone new, their first question is "Is it because of a deep rooted issue from your childhood?"

As an INTJ i can say actually we're the prove of "don't judge by the look". I think we have one of the most unrelated stereotypes in 16 personalities! Ok enough about us! I can say ENFJs are rare and hard to find (at least for me) but when you meet one you easily get them by their unique traits. One of the smartest types not only in feelers but in all of the 16 types. Usually it's cool and nice to talk to them. Can get a little nosy and it's uncomfortable for an introvert like me but you can be sure even at their lowest, they mean well. As an intuitive one, an ENFJ probably is the best person to seek through my mind and analyze my feelings better than I can ever do. P.S: these are just my experiences by knowing a few of them and my opinions by my own informations, surely there is nothing as "always true" or "fact" in my opinions! P.S 2: Really like these kinds of videos. Give me a new vision about each type. Thanks for another wonderful video❤

Can you imagine not watching these with United Kingdom captions

People always want to figure out ISFPs, but can't, because we already figured out ourselves.

My high school counselor is an ENFJ and one day I remember coming to school with messed hair cut (the barber accidentally shaved too much on some parts of my head) and the counselor noticed me and she grabbed me into her office and starts grilling me with personal questions about my life which is irrelevant at that time because she thought that I was somehow abused by other people and wanted me to unpack that trauma with her 🙂🤣

Yeah, as an infj i must agree. I have an enfj friend and mom. They always talk, i mostly listen and get hyped if we have an interesting topic like personalities or theories. Also, i love their loving atmosphere around them! I just instantly feel better and healed. Thanks for being!

I have a list of tips I personally made for myself (Enfj). Hopefully some of these can feel helpful or relatable. Read at ur own discretion. ❤️ -When someone is talking about their problems don't give them your unsolicited advice. Most ppl just want someone to listen. -Dont laugh at things you don't actually find funny (Work on being more genuine) -Stop looking for external validation all the time. Try to work on things independently without needing to tell anyone abt it. -Don't force ppl to hang out with other ppl, "alone" doesn't mean "lonely". -Dont be friends with someone purely out of pity. "Aww they look lonely. I can be their friend". You're doing a disservice to them. -You would be so much more attractive if u knew how to say "No" more and not fighting for harmony all the time, I promise. There's a reason Ti users are hot. -Mind ur own business, sometimes we do too much fr. -Don't feel bad if someone doesn't want to be ur friend, they have the right to do that. -Stop trying to lecture everyone 24/7 to make yourself feel smart and superior. (Inferior Ti) -Take criticism better, it's ok to not know everything and to be wrong sometimes. -Be more open minded, even when you think the situation is unfair. -Dont take information at face value, do your own research. Don't trust what ppl say blindly. And ask yourself "Does this make sense to me" -Something embarrassing happened.. okay and?? Move on. Stop overthinking everything. -Dont give your opinion on something without knowing the full story. Get context. Understand both sides. -Spend more time with Istp's. They teach you a lot of things. You grow a thicker skin with a stronger mindset bc of them. -There are 3 others types with the exact same cognitive function stack as us (enfjs) but in different orders. Istp: Ti > Se > Ni > Fe Estp: Se > Ti > Fe > Ni Infj: Ni > Fe >Ti > Se Enfj: Fe > Ni > Se > Ti If you want to understand your other functions, try hanging out with these types more.

ENFP was too on the nose. I love the stats at the side- and look ok I wouldn’t say I’m in denial, It’s more optimistic thinking because you can be happy with the possibility the best case scenario will happen (I do also think of the worst case scenario- but I know I will spiral if I do that so optimism is way better). There probably is a lot to unpack and my INFJ Gf has defo tried several times but I am also finally starting counselling/therapy and I’m scared because for an fi user I suck about talking about emotions and facing psychological wounds- but at the same time I know it’ll probably just be me talking and unravelling my own brain with Fi as I externally process 🤷🏻‍♀️

You might hang out with me (an ENFP) only because I'm an "interesting case study", but you, my dear ENFJ, are free therapy, so...

This video is like 3 in one! First, listening to what they’re saying, 2nd reading the mental notes on the side, and 3rd with the joke captions. Well done, as always!

I know that we don't do much with our lives, and you may find great potential in us to achieve big things, but some of us just wish for a quiet, peaceful life - INFP

LOL I love the text overlays like the ENFJ is using their ''observation computer chip'' in their brains. Being the ENFJ introverted brother (INFJ) I've often felt my brain was like a PC with backgroud processes always running behind a main process. 😂Great work as always Kristin!

Well, I'll just say that the world is lucky I'm suppressing stuff! Brilliant as always, kristin. Cheers!

Watching your videos (especially the goggles ones) a second time with the UK captions is such a treat! You really outdo yourself Kristin! 💛

Umm, excuse me but how did you get inside my head?? I’ve been watching so much of this content I could easily recognise almost all of them! The ENFJ one too… and I had good laugh at myself, so thank you 😂😂😂 p.s. I think there’s not enough content on ENFJs on YT ☹️

The animations were really creative and fabulous- would love to see more of them. Love seeing you trying out new styles in your videos💖

I love how in the captions for the ENTJ you showed that Te-doms can and do love people; they just show it differently. My parents are both Te-doms and it’s very true of them. ❤️❤️ Also the EXTJs do have feelings to hurt, which the ENFJ doesn’t seem to realize. The sheer pain my ENFJ aunt managed to inflict on my ESTJ mom was really sad and it took my mom (IMO) too much time to set healthy boundaries. I think it took my ENTJ dad getting fed up with the BS to get HER to finally let rip with the much deserved explosion. Yeah…I don’t have a good association with this type unfortunately. 😞 (Somehow, though, my INFJ cousin turned out super chill despite her parents, so we have a good relationship.) -INFP

Thank you for including the reference for PINEAPPLE in the subtitles. On my first watch through without subtitles I fondly remembered it, but thought "man, I'm gonna have to dig through half her videos to find it again". So when on my second watch with the subtitles you gave the reference it was awesome :)

I love the fact that these goggles are now updated, more advanced, and come with the analysis of each type, besidestheir own speech

My enfj love and I (infj) are always psychoanalyzing each other and our relationship. Like, we share our analysis with each other, ... it's honestly such a joy and so fun... never loved talking with someone as much as I love to talk and spend time with him.

The heads up display text just goes to show we ENFJs are emotionally congnizant robots sent to this earth as reverse Terminators... Affirminators

ENFJ 2w3 here, aka the classic. First of all the way you put the Ti "facts" about people over to the left is hilarious. That's exactly how my mind works. I'm going to go through and give my personal thoughts on each type cause why not. Sorry for the essay ESFP: I'm jealous of your dom Se and how you captivate people with no effort INFP: not sure I know any. You seem kindhearted and low Te doesn't bother me much, it means I won't be hassled ISFJ: you're really sweet and when you're willing to open up it's very special and introspective. Remember to stand up for yourselves (as I don't take my own advice) ENFP: your creativity is unmatched and that's super cool. The ENFP in my life has *strong* Te and it's threatening lol ENTJ: a good friend of mine is among you. She definitely thinks I'm weird. Right back at her, your priorities confuse me ISTJ: idk if I agree with this interpretation, you're very comfortable with yourselves. Step dad is one of you and we get along ok. Your inflexibility does annoy me I'll be honest ISFP: I admire your passion, FiSe is a really interesting combo. Your creative projects can be fascinating ESTP: you're insane, it's kinda hot INTJ: you're intimidating but I'm impressed ENTP: 💜 let's have talks about random things ESFJ: sorry, this is accurate. I don't dislike you I just want to know what you're thinking and you refuse to tell me INTP: please put up with me long enough to have some deep talks. Inferior Fe is adorable. INFJ: I love you with all my heart 10/10 would recommend ESTJ: if you hassle me I'll procrastinate even more in protest. You have the potential to be so fun, let loose a little ENFJ: a good friend of mine is an ENFJ 9w8. We'd do anything for each other and I appreciate that. We can be obnoxious and we know it. We do in fact have piss poor memory. ISTP: side descriptions are accurate. The ISTP in my life is one of my favorite people. Love your goofy side and how passionate you are about your interests, I'm down to experience them with you. We're both ride or dies, I dig that.

You do a great job of showing every personalities’ strengths and flaws equally. There’s a lot of low key roasting of the ENFJs here (especially in the captions) and I love it haha. Often the ENFJ is portrayed as our (ENTJ’s) much more likeable cousin, but they definitely have a dark side too.

I love how much thought & effort you put into these. You never go for the low hanging fruit. It's a bonus that you are also contradicting the ESFP stereotype.

Immediately considered Googling the sleeping habits of gerbils. Restarted the video with UK captions and forgot about it until a caption reminded me. Trying to remember to do so as I type this... but I've found some really warm receptions as the fully engaged ENTP. "My boyfriend doesn't like to hear about my job," a friend once told me after spilling for a half-hour about how her company was helping market and distribute COVD vaccines. "Well, it's very interesting, and you're doing something important and helpful to the world," I said while thinking actually *doing* that job would bore me to death.

As an INFP, it probably depends upon what mood I'm in as to whether I feel I have achieved anything of substance. If I'm feeling externally focused, such as for an upcoming high school reunion, then, yes, definitely not. But at other times, when I'm really engaged with what I am doing, then it feels like progress and substance. My art work is a lot better than it was 20 years ago; even though I do it for fun, the practice of doing it has improved it. And then there are the moods I get when I'm in the clouds. At such times, I tend to think "well, what would a lion care for the opinions of the sheep?" I am old enough to realise that all of us see this differently at different times, and at the end of the day, I'm on my journey, achievements or not, and others are on theirs. Acting with kindness, compassion and patience is the way to go.

Well done again. Absolutely love the UK subtitles in combination with the stats on "ENFJ vision".

Hey Kristin! I loved you singing a couple videos ago! So, "16 Personalities In A Musical" is happening when?

Yet more proof that the istj is awesome and underrated

INFJ: there's a person I suspect is ENFJ, and we often deep dived into psychoanalysis of someone we know, who recently did something bad. Always trying to find reasons why someone did that bad thing, and what's his/her background story for that.

I am really loving these "Through the Eyes of" videos!

Dear Kristin, You are an absolute genius! Love from Assertive INFJ 😁

I love these. I can’t wait for the ENFP one.

As an intj, I do do this. I also analyse people and situations so I can see if they are worthwhile.

Girl you're getting so so good

Love this video and the ENFJ on "analysis before unpack or not" mode. Thanks for your work and the subtitles again, they are great. O/

These "through the eyes" vids are fantastic, esp. as someone who's not sure what type they belong to (probs xnfj of some kind)! Any chance of doing the INFJ soon? I'd love to get a sense of how they see others too, and if it might be less INTENSE and "boundaries? what boundaries?" than the ENFJ!

ENFJs tend to be Enneagram 2s and this really fits well with the Enneagram 2 vibes, especially the ENTJ where the ENFJ feels prideful for "doing good in the world" by putting up with people like the ENTJ. For 2s, doing good is a way for them to reassure themselves of their benevolence and superiority hence their vice is pride and you can see similar concepts throughout this video

It is nice coming to RU-vid and finding out that Kristin has uploaded a video

this is one of the funniest of yours!! loved it

I knew you'd hit the nail on the head with the ENFJ.

I feel like our best quality can also be our worst quality. Caring deeply for people is so crucial, but when you're just invading peoples personal space, it can be incredibly heavy and no one wants to be around you in casual settings. Keep it to a minimum, and catch yourself when you feel like you're overstepping and tell yourself YOU do NOT need to be the hero of everyone's story. Our job isn't to fix people, especially to people who don't want to be fixed, you're only going to drive them away. Relax and focus on yourself! Create those healthy boundries! -Also ENFJ

Thank you so much for making ENFJ content!!!

These videos are so good. Great channel!

One of the SFPs must be up next! Right? :D Because so far we have had iSTP, INFP, ESTJ, ENFJ and INTJ I believe. (have absolutely no REAL facts to back this up, only a "sixth sense") - ISFP Taking inspo from you istp video, I wonder is the sfp version of that will be "This is also a person, WHO I DON'T VIBE WITH".

Hey, INTJ do have good in them ! Just because I'm planning world domination using microshiped montain lions doesn't mean my intents are evil !

These are so good I love this series

LMAO!!!, This is how I see the world, perfect! I even love the Terminator database touch and your analysis reminds of my own analysis of the people in my life with those personality types frightening well, great job!

ExFJs being critical of IxFPs is so true. when you know us long enough you have no choice to resort to tough love and then our relationship will never be the same

Aw, I need 10 hours version of "I'm suppressing wounds"

This Video is very good for INTJ to learn (hopefully for all otheres to, but i can only speak for myself), how the other people react, what they think inside about and how you can talk to them. thank you for this Kristin..it is the most inspirational video to get better with social interactions in my popinion. Since i was a child i alllways would love to live in better society, so i allways liked to become social worker or Psychologist..but i stopped myself because i had no people that gives me other perspectives. Most didnt know how to real handle me, cause most of them was xstx and i thought i am diasabled since i was 21.

I'm to have to watch all your videos twice! Once without subtitles, once with. Twice the jokes!!

As an ENFJ, even ENFJ's annoy me. Especially because of the "I definitely want something from you" voice. Life was simple when I thought I was an ENFP, before I realized I have no Fi and have all the tendencies that annoy me. Fellow ENFJ's, let your guard down a bit, it makes us seem like actual humans and form the connections we desperately crave

Just been looking up sleeping patterns of rodents, apparently chlorpyrifos and a high fat diet could affect their sleep and could lead to sleep apnea…I once spoke to a guy about steam engines for ten minutes in the end he invited me to a steam engine festival and even said He’d arrange it with his sister so that I could stay the night at hers.

Love this series!!!

I am an ENFj who occasionally morphs into INFj, and I approve of this video. 😉 The descriptions for ESFp, INFj, and ENFj are especially accurate. 😂 I love the typed-out analyzes! There are sooo many times that I visualize words in my mind that way, as I analyze people.

Ok, this was hysterical! The beeping data in the head as we ENFJs size up the people were around. 😂 The ESFP had me LOL, cuz that’s exactly how I feel about a close family member! Hahaha! The rest are spot on too. Great insights! And the PROJECT ALERT 🚨 had me rolling on the floor laughing!

"I'm starting to make you doubt there's good in everyone..." Yessssss... as an INTJ I can confirm...

love love love! you are such a great actress!

Kristin, you are the best!

I'm a mix between the istp and the enfj. I do a quick analysis of everyone to know where the trauma lies in order to avoid it. I generally neither want trouble nor connection, I just want to be left in peace.

It's funny because we really do always look for what must be really deep inside people huh? To be fair, I still do believe everyone is a complex human being but us ENFJs just gotta face the fact that we cant unpack everyone! Btw kristin, I love how you put our psychoanalysis in the video as sort of a side thing happening as we interact with ppl, it's quite accurate lol. I'm also the type to not openly 'give therapy' like the ENFJ speaking in the video because it's obv making other ppl uncomfortable (the Fe still sticking it out haha)

A HUNDRED PERCENT ACCURATE!!!!! WELL DONE, KRISTIN!!

I always enjoy your videos! This is so clever, funny and insightful! 😄

Yup! I am an intj. Did exactly that to my enfj wife. I tested people around her to show her that most people are only thinking about themselves and told my wife that you should only make yourself happy and not others because they honestly don't give a damn about you.

[INTJ] My ENFJ (we have extroverts who adopt us) uses me as a resource of weird outsider perspectives and technical help. I think he likes me in small doses. Always comes back to check in though.

Why are these sketches so good?!!

Stunning video Kristin! I apologize for the timeliness of my comment being out of order! I simply didn't know you had made a video about us until now, haha! Now I don't know if you have the time to read my longwinded drivel as always, what with you having become as large as you have! I spot just shy of 1000 comments on just this video! It must be exhausting! I just hope you know I continue to beam with pride seeing you grow and grow! I don't know if my pride in you is wanted? If it isn't, I'll stop! Anyways I'm rambling! On to the actual comment! As always, my comments are longwinded, apologies in advance TL;DR at the bottom! Now, I don't know how others do it, but personally I don't have Terminator-esque pop-ups with relevant info. Mostly I just like remembering stuff about people. Though to be fair it does pop up into my mind when I'm talking to them, so maybe it's the most accurate depiction of knowledge resurfacing organically. Now I like remembering stuff about people, and I love talking to people, I even remember feeling like I've made a judgement about their emotional state, or felt the need to 'fix' people, I've certainly felt like I could help people, and if they express that they're suffering from something they would like help with, whether that be too much laundry or their mother-issues, I certainly offer my assistance, because that's also something I like, that my friends trust me enough to lay their issues bare, and trust me enough to know I'll help, if they need it. But that's the key part that maybe some people forget, IF THEY NEED IT, and IF THEY'RE WILLING. I've since childhood been under the impression that people, IF they're willing, will share what they want to talk about, and it's up to me to listen, not fix. I help, IF people want help, I judge, IF people want a judge, I just listen, IF people want me to listen. But sometimes I've misunderstood what they want me to do, because it wasn't specified, or because I inferred wrongly from assuming a continued conversation needed the same type of input from me. Sometimes I have been too hasty in my judgement, because they hadn't told me all that they could, to aid my judgement, and sometimes I am too eager and forget my number one lesson, shut up and listen, then speak. Ask questions, yes, but reign in comments and judgements until the story is told to completion. All I want to say is that, people are beautiful, they all have various problems, both physical and mental, both big and small, they have confidence in themselves, they're various levels of adjusted, patient, curious, neurotic, panderous, generally virtuous according to various interpretations of differing virtues. All in all, people are people, they are different, and it's wonderful, because I get to listen to so many fun stories, feel so many heartfelt emotions, experience so many joyful encounters, and truly see humanity for all its variety. (limited to those that are willing to talk to me of course :) ) I, and anyone really, don't have to fix anyone, we have to experience people as they are, and appreciate the differences as they are. Because if we were all the same, there would be no such joy of discovery for any of us, no mystery, no romance, no unexpectedness. Oh sure it would still be fun, but it would be nowhere near the amount of fun and joy that I experience talking to friends, as new as a minute, or as old as years, over any old cup of coffee. A joke shared, a story told, a song sung. I love people. Thus concludes this ENFJ-Model2000s views on what we ENFJ-model Terminators stand to gain from letting go of our need to manipulate and fix others. (sometimes Imagery of a 'benevolent dictator' come to mind. Knowing what's best for others regardless of their protests and actual arguments being presented) As for my views on the other personalities and how they were presented compared to how I personally view them? Well personally I've learned to reserve judgement until after I've gotten to speak to a person, and they rarely if ever correlate exactly to any stereotype, people aren't just people, they're individuals with their unique personal existence, and they more or less rely on their cognitive toolsets and limiting people to just operating on the known tools of cognition leaves us open to being blindsided when they don't use known tools. I know some people that fit more into their 'given type' and others still that are non-fits. All I can say, is that the views presented are caricatures for sure, but caricatures do tend to point to some real traits. So in short, funny and somewhat accurate, but wildly exaggerated for the sake of comedy. TL;DR: We terminators feel the need to judge and 'fix' others, regardless of their own wants and needs. We as humans ought to respect others wants and needs, which differ from our own. I love that you point out this well in your alternate subtitles! We love people, but it is this love which blinds us to our own shortcomings, help IF they want help, judge IF they want a judgement, just listen IF they want you to listen. Actually ask what someone wants, and respect their answer regardless of your perceived notions (exception being suicidal thoughts, then don't listen, reach out to those and don't take no for an answer, they NEED our love and affection). The video portrayed some fairly accurate caricatures, based on the perspective of an immature ENFJ-2000 Unit. Kristin, I hope some of us ENFJ-Model2000s haven't given you a harsh time in our judgements? (there's a reason Terminator II: Judgement day is considered to be the best one, but it's not due to an abundance of judgements being made) Let us know if you need help and we will pass judgement on any transgressor :) Terminating U.I. ... ... ... ... ENFJ - 2000 Unit#06972722 Powering down.

People assume the ENFJ and INFP would be a perfect pair but nope! It’s funny how the ENFJ finds the INFP infuriating but I’m sitting here finding the imposition of their psychoanalyzing annoying as hell. Not to say we INFPs don’t psychoanalyze…we do, but we tend to not like the idea of *imposing* solutions on other people. The ENFJ on the other hand…oh God I have the most inappropriate comparison coming up…it’s like what they really want to say is, “STOP RESISTING! STOP RESISTING!” 🚔🚓🚨 (Just like a Te dom and their plans but with feelings instead.) -INFP

ENTP here...I often "connect" with people who think all our interests are common and we should be best friends. I try to be really up front that we will have amazing conversations but are extremely unlikely to end up as long term friends, but they rarely take me at my word. I can't tell you how many people have ended upset with me when I don't want to make plans with them or even exchange numbers. I just love a good concept discussion.

love that table, books, flowers along with everything else.

oh my god I love your work