Narcissists will inherit the earth at, “End Times” as described in the song “War Pigs” by Black Sabbath: “Day of judgement, God is calling On their knees, the war pigs crawling Begging mercy for their sins Satan laughing, spreads his wings Oh lord, yeah!”
My husband and I were friends with this couple. At the beginning it was fun and exciting! Then they started to act in ways that would violate our boundaries, act passive aggressive and even the old double standard came into play. One or both of them at any given time have acted in every one of the ways you describe in this video. When we cut off the relationship you’d think we were never friends. No phone calls to see what’s going on. No check in texts. It was bazaar! I’ve learned a lot and glad to be done with them. Thank you for this great content!
@@mrmusiclover87 We all have narcissistic traits, where is the cut off line where we become a narcissist? I don't think this video is describing a straight up narcissist
A fake nice person will give me a gift knowing they don’t like me and then force to like the gift knowing they probably don’t need me to receive it just for validation
@@TheRealChrisBeard If its the room-mate , move out. If its your parents, cut contact. I kicked my roommate out and I cut my parents out of my life. Just because someone is family does not give them the right to be in your life - it is a privilege, not a right
The worst obvious case of narcissism I ever witnessed was a guy who was laughing and joking with someone then immediately after they left the narcissist said to me I hate that guy,s guts
I hate that I understand the motivations behind all of these behaviors. One major mistake though, the whole "cleverness" about backhanded compliments is more to do with poor impulse control, lack of awareness, and an attempt to appease inner demons. On the surface, it feels like a perfectly reasonable gesture (as imagined through the eyes of the other person) and is intended from that perspective to come off as a sort of "equalizer virtue signal" intended to bind both parties in a sort of understanding. Essentially though, it's Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
see if they are willing to create a win win situation or a give and take relationship or fair exchange between two people. Fake introverts hide their true motive to gain and use people. So shake up their true motive by offering a deal that requires their input too. They are very cheap and selfish.
Someone that calls you only when they need a favor and does not call you back to see how you're doing that is not fake niceness that's obviously their rude and self censure so I think you should take that 1 out of the equation of your video
You can't be a fake nice if you only call people to use them and ask them for favors and then they don't even call you to see how you're doing I think this video has a lot of work to be done In my opinion that's not being fake nice it's so obvious an idiot can see that those kinds of people are users
