#19 Don’t Flop On The First Night!!|| Relationship Goals

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00:00 Coming Up
00:31 Welcome Back & Sunnah Match
03:10 The First Night
06:40 You Might Be On Intimacy But She Might Anxious
14:42 Be Tender And Be Kind To Her
15:35 If You Do This It Will Change Everything
17:05 To Play The Freshly Grounded Game!!
19:00 What You Ask Allah For When Marrying Her
20:02 Starting Your Marriage With Tawheed
22:00 What The Companions Use To Do On The First Night
24:20 Look How Beautiful This Is
28:00 The Dua Of Intimacy
32:30 The Virtues Of Intimacy
35:55 It’s All About The Intention
39:55 This Shouldn’t Be A Taboo Topic
45:45 Promo
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@Sobiaaaaaa 3 года назад

I'm watching this like I'm about to get married💀

@zuheybabdulle4615 3 года назад

Same😂😂🤣

@yasserfcb9178 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@fatehazinnot2527 3 года назад

Same 💀💀

@unknowngirl3186 3 года назад

Same

@tasneemmohiuddin8380 3 года назад

How old are you though?

@mr.t.1237 3 года назад

I'm learning how relationships are formed according to Islam and not western culture, keep doing this series as many benefit

@abdellahmoukrim5677 2 года назад

Mashalalh brother, wallahi Islam is a blessing

@Klick17 2 года назад

@@abdellahmoukrim5677 Allah*

@tasneemmohiuddin8380 3 года назад

As a woman, I feel worried that I will watch this and have high expectations and not get someone as good as I expect...may Allah grant us a good partner!

@aasiyahwadee8479 3 года назад

Sister Tasneem, Don't worry. Just keep making du'aas to Almighty Allah(SWT) because He will make everything easy for you and He Never Disappoints us. He Loves us All very much and will answer for whatever we ask from Him Subhanallah. Pls remember me in your du'aas too.

@tasneemmohiuddin8380 3 года назад

@@aasiyahwadee8479 Jazakillahu khayr ukht, fi-amanillah🤍

@aasiyahwadee8479 3 года назад

@@tasneemmohiuddin8380 Waiyakum.

@tasneemmohiuddin8380 3 года назад

@Maksud Mehraz how do u know that?

@tasneemmohiuddin8380 3 года назад

@Maksud Mehraz tasneem and Mohiuddin both are arabic though...and actually the correct way to write it would be Tasneem Muh'iuddin...but I write it the way I was taught to write it...but good guess...

@iShareGaming7 3 года назад

Salam Brother, I have benefited a lot from these videos, I got married recently and I’m learning so much from you guys. All praise to Allah (swt), my marriage is so strong and full of Barakah as my marriage started off all halal. Me and my wife love each other so much and understand each other. Allah (swt) has blessed my marriage and Insha’Allah we will soon have kids :) I always make dua that Allah (swt) protects my marriage from the evil eye. Peace ✌🏻

@umarkarim4894 3 года назад

اللهم بارك May Allag bless your family amd all of us us muslims Ameen

@abuhasanal-athari5152 3 года назад

Allahumma barik

@talhahmahmood837 Год назад

الهم بارك، أخي الكريم

@Ummasiyah24 3 года назад

Honestly, with Allah’s permission, you guys have brought an insight of marriage from the Quran and Sunnah like I’ve never seen before. Allahumma barik.I have learnt so much. I cannot begin to thank you guys enough. It is really needed in times like these, especially for the youth. I sincerely ask you guys to carry on with this project as well as Sunnah match. May Allah reward you all for your efforts and place this on your scale of good deeds on yawm al qiyyamah, Allahumma ameen.

@hilalatesoglu8481 3 года назад

To answer the question of the brothers: Yes, we are learning. One big takeaway I derived from previous episodes is that if a woman is not fulfilling the rights of her husband, then she will not feel the sweetness of iman.

@jenjenpoo9336 3 года назад

Are you a female

@mr.knockknock3705 2 года назад

@@jenjenpoo9336 yes she his, see the name

@mr.t.1237 3 года назад

Wallahi this is extremely beneficial in a fun, humorous and intellectual way 😂

@deeninspired5761 3 года назад

May Allah reward you brothers greatly for this episode. This is some very powerful advice I think so many of us brothers needed.

@muzhakkirali2108 3 года назад

The "go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated" has stuck with me since it was first mentioned, so yes, I have taken away something from this. It's also great to hear the love languages being tied together with the way the Prophet (SAW) was as a husband.

@seynabouaminatadiallo2454 3 года назад

I honestly learned so much, I’m not ready for marriage yet but I’m making more changes in terms of character, seeking knowledge etc. because of Relationship goals

@beinghuman4725 3 года назад

Same akhi

@ummmaryam3057 3 года назад

Alhamdulilah for todays youths! They have such easy contents to follow where as these stuff were very rare before... May allah bless u lot ameen

@hadiabintmuhammad9135 3 года назад

Dawahman first of all I am not married but am so happy because am learning so I know how to start my relationship in the way of the Quran and the sunnah may Allah reward you and your team

@mr.t.1237 3 года назад

Where are you from?

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

Ameen

@mr.knockknock3705 2 года назад

@@mr.t.1237 why you want to know my brother?

@deeninspired5761 3 года назад

Allahumma beerik brothers, this has been very beneficial in looking for the right one.

@yassminebr258 Год назад

I married a religious man and who was making this duaa I thought I was so blessed but then he started being aggressive and saying insults towards me and my family over the slightest things .. I lived with him for a year and I’m getting a divorce.. I always say alhamdullelah cause I feel like this hardship has made me closer to Allah in some way but sisters try to pick a man who’s religious and also tender and who will never harm you cause it’s hard 💔

@ameerah363 11 месяцев назад

الخلق و الدين

@roeen. 2 месяца назад

May Allah SWT bless you and us all with the best spouse. Ameen

@bashirmohamed5898 3 года назад

This series benefited me a lot in my day to day allahuma barik

@karimasemmane4285 3 года назад

Yes we are learning, may Allah reward you and have mercy on you and all of us akhi, ameen.

@rtqssqh611 3 года назад

Yep, checking the potential's socials, who they follow, who follows them, posts they 'like' etc. Big tell tells. Jazakallahu khairan for that advice.

@rahmatoullahbah5230 3 года назад

definitely, i have learned a lot, especially about rights the spouses have

@unknown-5472 3 года назад

This was so interesting and I pray that we benefit from this as this series is very helpful and informative, may Allah bless the brothers

@user-xq1gu4yz2d 3 года назад

These series are much needed, Jazakullah kheiran

@deeninspired5761 3 года назад

It's sad we don't have more content like this to educate us youth in the right way

@stariehearts2366 3 года назад

Very true, especially if she continuously refuses intimacy

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

Exactly

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

We need more content like this

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

@@stariehearts2366 intimacy is built on prior connection 16:07

@stariehearts2366 3 года назад

@@bilqiskashem3207 I know

@mohammedn5192 3 года назад

Alhamdulillah I personally have benefited and learnt a lot from these lessons, may Allah make us amongst those who act upon knowledge ameen

@BigDuck786 3 года назад

Bro Imran, I'm learning so much man subhanallah don't stop. Life changing stuff dude every video 💯

@moahadsaqib7401 3 года назад

I am learning, and using it, and life is getting easier may Allah protect you all

@donaferrari9646 3 года назад

I have learned more from your videoes than i have learned all my life💕

@stariehearts2366 3 года назад

My mother didn't even tell me about menstruation, when it happened I thought I was dying, so talking about intimacy is out of the question with my desi parents haha. My brother is 20 and he doesn't even know what intimacy means between a man and woman. He saw tampons and pads in my room not too long ago and he asked why I have "mini nappies." Very awkward, I tried to explain I menstruate and he thought that meant I'm pregnant. I wish my parents would give him the talk, I know it's not in our culture to do so, but some people like my bro really need it

@umar9174 3 года назад

In islam that type of talk should be around puberty. Tell him when ur both alone

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

🤣 omds

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

do they not teach it at school in your country

@fisch6108 3 года назад

@@bilqiskashem3207 that's what i wonder about

@user-rp7sr9xt5b 2 года назад

HE IS TWENTY so that is not normal. As in, I am extremely surprised that he made it to 20 years in this era without knowing basic sex education.

@slaveofthemostmerciful7855 3 года назад

Im nervous now and i havent even found a potential loool

@beinghuman4725 3 года назад

Am always nervous every episode 😅😅😅...I swear I took a break from the podcast now am back

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

BarakAllahu feekh these episodes are so beneficial and much needed in our community in the muslim community specifically and in the wider community as a whole, you're make a huge and positive change in peoples lives. May Allah reward you all immensely for your efforts ameen.

@abdulahad-sc5ti 3 года назад

Yes this is actually really educational. 👍

@samarah.2945 3 года назад

Yes I'm learning something: a male perspective on marriage and their issues

@beinghuman4725 3 года назад

In this podcast of relationship goals I really learnt alot and I view marriage in a different lens subhanalah ...and tbh am not ready for marriage but this was great learning

@RealMadrid-qe7mz 3 года назад

I have learned a lot about the rights of the spouse. I never knew the quran and sunnah was so involved in every detail of the marriage ting.

@fatimahbolarinwa402 2 года назад

I learn from all your videos. May Allah bless you all and Grant us all Jannah. Aameen

@princessof21ok 3 года назад

Yes I’m learning lots being a Muslim for 10 years Alhamdulila Jzk Allah khayran for your wonderful work

@kibalomvano539 3 года назад

we are learning everyday thanks to your hard work alhamdullilah

@kirannwazir2085 3 года назад

yes im learning! i will be coming back to these videos inshaallah

@Brostars7g Год назад

I’m praying that my feature husband is one of the 43k people that watched this 💀 inshallah 🤲….

@abdirashidomar8677 3 года назад

Yess we’re learninggggg

@zahramohamed3471 3 года назад

Ahahaha Somalis don’t tear up easily we’re built different😂😂💗

@salamkala14 3 года назад

Not me I’m cry baby 😭

@ANa-qt7tt 3 года назад

no we see it as more of a happy day, somali weddings are so happy and hella energy. but other cultures like desi culture its a emotional day

@mr.knockknock3705 2 года назад

That's a good thing to know. I'm somali myself and I prefer a somali woman. Psychology if the woman is happy that's a good thing. But afcourse you should not rush make her feel comfortable and do the Sunnah. May Allah make it easy for us.

@hafsa2am 5 месяцев назад

@@mr.knockknock3705Allaahuma Ameen

@asham4848 5 месяцев назад

@@mr.knockknock3705💯👏🏾

@BlessedTilawat 3 года назад

Alhamdulillah Very useful series Allahumma barik

@mxmxckxkxk9915 3 года назад

Yes im learning a lot thanks so much for your help.

@QasimAli-bc2vc 3 года назад

Yes we are learning. It will help for my future marriage inshallah.

@hannahmushtaq6362 3 года назад

Please do continue with all this Alhamdulilah I’ve learnt a lot. Everything you guys have said I totally agree with, it’s sucha taboo topic in the Pakistani community

@lo.fr.8092 2 года назад

It seems to me like they didn't consider the case where women also can't wait to be intimate with their husbands. Yes, even virgins. I can say the same thing "I saves myself and waited such a long time, I'm so excited to finally be intimate with my man". It's natural, women, virgins or not are sexual beings and have a lot of desires. Please don't forget that you should approach your woman in the correct way. Foreplay islamically speaking is a prerequisite. And it's also a lot of fun. I wonder if men really enjoy foreplay as much as women

@tatooinenative860 8 месяцев назад

Yes, guys do.

@karidyandrews2881 3 года назад

I have learnt alot from your serires, insh Sha Allah real life perspective of marriage so yes! very good

@Sam-vt6ks 3 года назад

I can definetely say that I have learned a lot suring this series. One thing that I found very interesting is hearing from the 5 love languages. Very interesting topic which lead me to doing more reasurch. :)

@mariaaziz7442 3 года назад

Could you please send me that episode ur referring to? :)

@user-nd1jm6hk7z 3 года назад

@@mariaaziz7442 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-0KBAjd2l27c.html

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

I am benefitting from these Relationship goals episodes, huge eye opener to the realities and problems people are suffering and have been suffering for a long time and how to remedy that. Come back to Allah. Study the deen. And implement the Sunnah.

@jenjenpoo9336 3 года назад

As salami alaykum are you a sister or brother?

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

Wa 'alaikum salam, you should be able to tell by the name sister

@hassanazam2428 3 года назад

Insightful Alhumdulilah

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

I've been streaming tears throughout this episode, why, I'm only at 20:13, it's such a beautiful episode, it moved me, touched me deeply ❤❤❤ May Allah bless you abundantly dear brothers for your hard work and efforts Allahumma ameen

@bucktooth9652 3 года назад

Yes it really helped Alhamdullilah 😀 In my marriage meetings and things were really clear to me specially the video regarding age difference really help clear some questions and waswasaz so JAZAKALLAH

@Ayattl 3 года назад

Khairan * and Alhamdullilah it’s benefitted you!!

@mariaqibttiya1405 3 года назад

Yes am learning jezakallah khyre ( from Ethiopia)

@Sara.S.Alshamsi 8 месяцев назад

Y Allah I am binging this playlist I am enjoying it so much, so useful, so informative and yes very much entertaining May Allah bless you in this dunya and the life after thank you so much

@zaralearningkorean 3 года назад

Nah the fireworks will make me even cry more 😂

@hasibhabibollah7395 3 года назад

Yeah I’m learning Alhamdulillah. But I’m 15 years old, so still got a few years before I can implement this lol

@user-dx8eh2vc5r 3 года назад

Lol May Allaah bless you and I both akhi and keep us firm

@hasibhabibollah7395 3 года назад

@@user-dx8eh2vc5r ameen

@umar9174 3 года назад

Im 16

@jenjenpoo9336 3 года назад

Same lol

@hasibhabibollah7395 3 года назад

@بنت ‏أحمد Allahummabarik sister, May Allah bless you and keep you firm. SubhanAllah it’s been about a year and a half since I came on deen and started seeking Knowledge. With the permission of Allah, this channel has guided me a lot. SubhanAllah I used to be a Shia and now Alhamdulillah I’m a Salafi

@Someone-vz2bo 3 года назад

This was pretty funny lol

@s1mbaexp639 2 года назад

Yes... I'm actually learning

@hellosouuu Год назад

I love watching this series JazaakumAllah 💜I'm not about to get married anytime soon lol- Allahualam, but I guess I'm just looking at this for information and the benefit for the future, 5 years from now or so inshallah, it's really beneficial and engaging I don't usually like to watch podcasts or long videos but this one's informative and entertaining as well! :) please keep it up 💜🌱

@shazpat6366 3 года назад

yah im learning a lot, and the love languages mine is gift giving

@hannahmushtaq6362 3 года назад

Alhamdulilah I am learning and are implementing this and tell my husband

@mvillae 3 года назад

Your acting is so accurate akhi 11:00 allahumbarik

@yea41908 3 года назад

I have learned lots of stuff alhamdulilah

@adeelnisar7907 3 года назад

Learning in a entertaining way

@nawalmohamed1893 3 года назад

Can you do an episode for the woman’s point of view ? Like what the woman should prepare

@abubakr7304 3 года назад

I think only a women could really do a justice on that topic

@sumayyahaisha2068 4 месяца назад

This was much needed, please see if this topic can be covered by Urdu-speaking brothers in Dawah too; there's loads of men who need to hear this. JazakAllahu Khayeeran Kaseera for bringing up such an important topic and educating the brothers on this. I hope and pray all desi men get to hear this before they get married. It seems like most of them have only listened to scholars telling the Hadith of angels spending the night cursing a woman if she refuses for sexual intimacy with her husband. It's about time they learn about the 'manners' of approaching their arranged-marriage-wife as a 'partner' they have to love and spend their life with and not just a body that they get on the wedding night with the intention of getting their legal islamic sexual 'rights' in an inhumane and insensitive way.

@chaeun-woon8405 Год назад

“It is pure joy” that made me kind of sad because that might not be the case for everyone.

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

Thank you for asking us whether we are benefitting from these episodes. I have to say I love your love and concern for the ummah. BarakAllahu feekum dear respected brother and team.

@1eV 3 года назад

8:11 thanks for the clarification. I was thinking the same thing that how could you be with the bride.

@bashir675 3 года назад

Very beneficial

@Ho.sai1 3 года назад

'crying is historical' LMAO

@anonymouslyanonymous. 3 года назад

Really considering buying the Freshly Grounded Game now

@strangetraveller7399 3 года назад

heres the link for the game shop.freshlygrounded.com/products/the-game

@IipriincessiI 2 года назад

I googled the questions. Its cringe

@Gg-rn3pb Год назад

@@IipriincessiI where

@Gg-rn3pb Год назад

@@IipriincessiI where did you find them pls help they’re sold out

@a-735 Год назад

@@IipriincessiI how are they cringe? unless you’re someone who isn’t comfortable in opening up emotionally i don’t see how they’re cringe

@KimTaehyung-mk6ks 2 года назад

"YoU guYs ArE nOt cRyiNG!!" 💀💀😂😂😂

@chaeun-woon8405 Год назад

I might’ve wrote a rude comment on your new video about fat, lazy wives. I talked about how I didn’t agree Whit what you said but it was only because I was annoyed when you said get second wife when she doesn’t fulfill your rights. I understand you said that under the circumstances of the wife not doing anything and being lazy while the husband is Doing everything. I agree and I really love these videos. They are teaching me so many things. MashAllah.

@usvmah.4117 3 года назад

Defo learning from this

@fatimapatel496 2 года назад

Am I the only one who is all the more anxious after watching this. May Allah bless all of us. Ameen.

@iesakhan3413 3 года назад

The yute started crying 😭 😭😂😂

@ijm6176 3 года назад

The title had ne laughing I ain't gonna lie😂😂😂😂

@majidskinnerkhan6960 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

I didn't find it at all funny in all honesty tbh

@majidskinnerkhan6960 3 года назад

@@bilqiskashem3207 you no sense of humour

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

@@majidskinnerkhan6960 kids will probably find this funny

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

@@majidskinnerkhan6960 you sound like a kid

@nadiabegum4385 3 года назад

Wallaahi ihkwaani, I have learned sooooooo much and I've been married for almost 2 decades, Alhamdulillah! I feel one needs to self analyse everyday in every aspect of life. These vids are helpful, they make a person begin to respect their husband more and I can never forget the phrase, the best thing a husband can enjoy is his wife. So for a husband to 'enjoy' his wife then she wilI have to start by ditching the habit of nagging😉

@mohamed-ridariani1935 3 года назад

Wa ‘alaykomu assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu brother abbas

@Lion_Tawheed 2 года назад

Wa alaykumu as-salam Warahmatullah Wabarakaatu brothers Imran and Abbas

@aali8874 Год назад

Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatu'LLAHI wa barakatuh

@amatullah3491 3 года назад

Awesome 🤩

@fmbye2015 3 года назад

Jimmy where is the dua?

@baniadam1409 3 года назад

I Learned something about Finance Brothers.

@khadijahk9615 3 года назад

Ok so like when are we gon have that freshly grounded /naseeha sessions collab? ☺️

@sayomarrah9226 2 года назад

Alhamdullila it's was great am from sierra Leone

@nurudeen38 Год назад

عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ أَنَّ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: "إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ أَحَدُكُمْ امْرَأَةً، أَوْ اشْتَرَى خَادِمًا، فَلْيَقُلْ: اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ خَيْرَهَا وَخَيْرَ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ، وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جَبَلْتَهَا عَلَيْهِ. From 'Amru bin shuayb from his father from his grandfather the Prophet Sallalahu alaihi wa sallam said when one of you marries a woman or a servant, he should say: "Allahumma innee as aluka khairaha wa khaira ma jabaltaha 'alay ,wa 'audhubika min sharriha wa sharra ma jabaltaha 'alay"

@xDeFc0nx 3 года назад

oh ye wallahi im learning a lot

@MedgarEndeavors 3 года назад

Are any other cultures discussed besides our beloved Somali and desi cultures on this channel? Muslims are very diverse

@Ayesha______ 10 месяцев назад

its okay, maybe they are j familiar with it, and not with other ones. Maybe u can share the cultures u know, help educate us!

@mohamed-ridariani1935 3 года назад

Wa ‘alaykomu assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu brother imraan

@kitty40811 3 года назад

Yes Im learning . Im single tho lol

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

17:45 now Faisal you need to plug naseeha sessions, what you doin bro, what you waiting for lol

@bilqiskashem3207 3 года назад

Tru dat, I would love to play the Freshly Grounded game on my first night that would mean so much to me. I was thinking I would love to play the Freshly Grounded game with my spouse. ❤❤❤