20 Stoic Tips for Dealing with DISRESPECT. 

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People are accountable for their own actions.When someone disrespects me for no reason, it says more about them than about me.I respond by denying them any futher access to my personal space.Empathy and kindness might work in certain situations with certain people but, many will take it as weakness and a free pass to disrespect you even more.

Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings

Where people display their rough edges by being disrespectful - I walk away. I have come a long way in my 70 yrs. And will not associate with such people at all.

THE QUALITY OF YOUR THOUGHTS...SHAPED THE QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE 💯

"We cannot control everything, but we can control how we react." - Epictetus

My sweet sweeeeeet STEPMOM passed away from Cancer, bacterial meningitis, lungs infection, kidney failure, fits,strokes internal bleeding and finally heart failure. She was only 48 year old ,but I know she’s in Heaven!!! She wasn’t just my mom, but my best friend. Please pray for her.

If the world hates you, understand that it hated Me first. John 15:18

"It’s silly to try to escape other people’s faults. They are inescapable. Just try to escape your own." - Marcus Aurelius

I love how stoicism provides a framework for dealing with uncertainty. It’s been crucial for me during these unpredictable times.

I went through this in a one-sided relationship. After six months I decided my self-respect and inner peace were worth more than this empty relationship, I ended it and feel better for it

I have been walking the path of stoicism for a while now. I have held up in many ways the principles I've learned. Today I felt disrespected and I lost my composure and exploded. I apologized for my behavior and reaction and from that realization and personal recognition I returned to this lesson to help myself handle it better in the future. I'm thankful for the opportunity to check my growth and continue moving forward in a positive way. Thank you for the video and I'll keep moving forward in a more controlled way. Refreshing stoic

Disrespectful peoples shall be punished, love ❤️ one another's as my Heaven Father's love ❤️ you......

I always utilize this philosophy 1st; but w/life experience, I've found it's ineffective on a total narcissist.

I used to take it personally when someone was disrespectful to me out of nowhere. I didn't understand why I was being attacked totally unprovoked. I was often stunned silent. Not addressing disrespectful behavior isn't ok. Now I understand there are people who simply enjoy pushing people around. It's important to discern their intent in that moment of contemplation before responding. If someone is being a bully it's important to immediately, strongly let them know you wont tolerate disrespect. Calmly, assertively putting them in their place. Developing the ability to respond effectively in difficult situations is a very important skill.

1. Stay in calm 2. Self reflection and correction if needed. Value constructive criticisms 3. Pause and collect your thoughts. Don't be panic 4. Empathize and be kind 5. Focus on virtue 6. Acceptance 7. Use humour 8. Set boundaries 9. Forgiveness (It gives u more inner peace) 10. Change perspective 11. Maintain self control 12. Focus on what matters 13. Practice active listening 14. Avoid escalation 15. Educate others 16. Seek mediation 17. Maintain confidence 18. Keep your focus 19. Practice gratitude 20. Learn from disrespect

Instead of work relationships, some of these situations are family. Often times, I’ve calmly brought up the disrespect of their actions. The response is an “OMG”, or maybe a “oh mom”. I have been building on my inner peace for years. I’m proud of how far I’ve come. Being of a quiet nature has its challenges……I have a keen sense of intuition and discernment….

Simply, listening this to this, when feeling defeated, or tested in life, is very healing, even if you've heard all these sorts of things before. Thank you SLL 🥳🥳🥳❤❤❤❤❤❤

Being that stoicism started around 300 B.C.E It’s amazing that even through technological advancements, We as humans always suffer from the same problems of our own emotions as did those from the Roman Empire. Even today that such old knowledge is still able to be used to help us understand ourselves.

this Video has been a game-changer! These tips aren't just strategies, they're wisdom for maintaining dignity and composure. Who else feels better equipped to handle disrespect with grace and strength?

What bothers me is when adults decide not to take responsibility for themselves and they don't act like adults and I give them their freedom but they just take advantage and then it just shows me they're not adults. They don't need to be around me. I don't need to be around them

I'm on a personal journey of self improvement. I find certain of these very thought provoking and enlightening.

Finally! I found an audiobook/video about respect. And how to handle disrespectful people. Thank you! Very helpful video.

The nuclear power of gratitude ❤.

My view has always been…”As if your opinion of me matters…I like me just fine” I started doing this when I was a kid with my bullies…I would laugh at them when they flew insults at me for what ever reason that their simple minds were choosing to be disgusting human beings on any given day. I had so much disapproval of their actions and enough confidence in myself to realize that they had the problem, not me, because “I liked me just fine.” I always knew that they were in the wrong. I would even seek them out and ask them if they had any other dumb things to say today and mock them for their ignorant stupidity. Yes..I got the crap kicked out me from time to time, but, most of the time when they saw that they couldn’t bother me and that I thought less of them than they thought of me…it wasn’t fun for them anymore, so these weak minded people would usually give up…and..I would still like me just fine. Be well.

I appreciate the focus on setting boundaries assertively yet respectfully. By clearly communicating our expectations for respectful treatment, we uphold our own dignity while fostering a positive environment for constructive interactions. This practice reinforces the Stoic notion of recognizing what is within our control and acting accordingly.

Love the message I learned something daily

Keep calm? That’s one thing to say but when your heart beats hard, and your mouth goes dry and your head fills with overwhelming reactionary thoughts, being “calm” isn’t easy.

I believe it is better to put some disrespecting dudes where they belong to especially when it is consistent with them whilst protecting your peace of mind, forgive but set the healthy boundaries. Nice guys do not get what they deserve in life ... be wise friends and stand for your values and you will command respect.

This is sooo much wisdom, I needed to hear this, it always starts with the man in the mirror, working on ones own self is an everyday job, never leave it to the other person, make yourself better by how you react to life challenges 💪🏾

. If you are a giver It is important that you know your limits Because the takers have none

Put on your spiritual armor, 1st thing every morning, to deal w/evil forces, like narcissists. Detach from them, bcs the stoic attitude dsnt work on them, they see it as weakness.

Thanks for the hard work and Emotional Support

Had to hear this video 3 times so it can sink in, I'm tired of putting up with disrespectful people, I'm very kind and nice but I'm done, time for a better change to have a peace of mind.

This is again, a beautiful teaching, love our creator and nature and yourself set boundaries that maintains your love, life and light

Am glad to have this opportunity to learn this important matter. Is hatred alongside disrespect? I have seen disrespect that seems to carry grudge and hatred. This video has all the tools and dignity to handle any challenge that comes with disrespect and the kind. Thank you.

My morning company during my commute ..it’s the tone for my day 😊

Excellent message. Thanks for sharing. You are appreciated.

"The best revenge is not to be like your enemy." - Marcus Aurelius How can applying Stoic wisdom transform our response to disrespect into a pathway for personal growth and inner peace?

I find myself at a crossroads of my life. Honestly evaluating myself and my associations. I’m finding immense satisfaction in learning how to approach various situations from a different perspective. It’s enlightening and empowering to learn new approaches to difficult people and situations.

" Know that nothing is bad if we don't think it's bad ". - Marcus Aurelius

I definitely needed to see this as a reminder today. I thank my friend for sharing this with me. It's like they know me.

"Choose not to be harmed-and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed-and you haven’t been." - Marcus Aurelius

Thank you for equipping me to be armed with self worth and value in boldness speak to change the atmosphere for anyone to know I will not tolerate any form of there need to be self righteous

I work in a blue-collar environment with plenty of "shop talk." Guys joke, but sometimes there's a negative, mean-spirited undertone. This video was very helpful.

Honestly that been one of the best self improvement videos I've ever listened to. Thanks for that

This is the best advice hands down about respect. I learned so much!

I deal with an older Insecure man at work on a daily. He is rude disrespectful and grumpy. This is a great video to help me understand how to deal with him.

This is who I am, I’m an introvert and also a solitude person, I luv being alone. I’m content, self control, patience, discipline, empathy, compassion, honest, truthful, quiet,respect and kindness

Acceptance is a part of the personal development process and makes one stronger.💪💪💪

I accepted alot of criticism. Best thing Ive done was to ignore it. Not worth it

This is a heartening, enlightening series. I feel grateful to have found it. Thank you.

Thank you so much about all these lessons of wisdoms

Gratitude💚

This has been very helpful for me in understanding better how to navigate disrespect. Thank you for creating this content! Im extremely grateful for it! ❤️

I'm on a personal journey of self improvement. thanks a lot

The many choices offered are a wealth of options I will immediately adopt.❤ Thank you😊

Excellent lessons. Deeply appreciated

Very informative!! Ty !

I love your work .....so empowering and such a big influence for a better self education! Thanks and God Bless You!

Thank you, awesome music to go with the great content. All teachers should have your accent, makes the world feel more wisdom refined 🙏

Thank you, I am very interested in expanding my knowledge about stoicism. Looking forward to learn more.

Over the years, I have had to learn manythings, as I been wathing some of these different videos, it seems that I have been learning the stoic principals witout knowing it , as well as growth in mauy forms from within my soul and the subconsciuos. Real reflections of ones self, taking full responsiblities really do makes a difference in ones life.

After the burn-out, stoicim is for a mentor. Wisom

Very valuable information for learning.

Valuable talk 👍👍👍

Valuable insights😊

Alot of these principals I already have put into practice and have been for awhile.Most of these are convictions that are used by me already Thank you for helping me define myself.

Stumbled on this, and i am so happy! I tend to be emotional and am working my way up the corporate ladder and the disrespect I have encountered has left me floored and frankly unsure how to handle it. Except responding in a negative manner. I usually get them back. You have a new follower, as I appreciate your content in this video. The explanations made sense. I will start putting it into practice today. Ty

Wonderful content and thank you for your wise words. ❤

There are a few people in my life that I have not spoken to for 30 years after they are always disappointed me.

Very Well Stated: Be Blessed / Stay Focus > AMEN >

I appreciate these videos so much. Thank you thank you for making this content. It’s saving my soul.

Apparently, stoicism imparts super muscularity.

Brilliant ! Helpful and enlightening !!! These are the very things we all should learn .. very brilliant

What a beautiful guide to handle difficulties and critic’s blissfully.🙏

Utterly game changing

Don't always keep your calm Be very Firm and direct with some Spirits . God gives his children authority 💪🏽Read about David in the Bible

LIFE CHANGING! VERY ENLIGHTENING, GREAT PERSPECTIVE

But be carefull with narcissist, they are next level. Double up your composure❤

This is my personal weakness. I appreciate this video. My years of military service is a disadvantage in this weakness. I must work on overcoming this. SHALAM

I never say anything, unless it has value..will not use my energy unless I am sure it can lead in a positive way.

Wonderful!❤ Thank you! 😍

Disrespect shown by a child towards a mother, takes a lot of my energy before I give up till my my cup runneth over, then finally I say, I’m done n let go away from her n move on like an affair that wasn’t meant to be.

Very enlightening ! Thank you so much!!!!

Thank you my creator blessing up.

… Seeking & Understanding the High Road! 👏🏽

Amen 🙏

When I am disrespected, I can’t really keep my cool. Before all of that, I’m very giving and loving, but sometimes people just don’t get the fact that you have boundaries.

Some toxic ass hole i stopped being friends with in 2021 posted a letter through my letter box yesterday trying to get back in my life, and put a downer on my self improvements having made none of his own! Now a lot of people tend to go crazy i stayed calm i ignored him and proceeded to paint my custom figure eat food and talk to people who aren't toxic if I need to I'll deal with him until then I'll just ignore him he's a loser going nowhere in life I own my own house im a working man I go snowboarding every year im not afraid to be different and I love creativity and practice it every day 😊💛

Thank you : )

You can recover and it can happen quickly. As of right now I don’t have a friend in the world, just narcissists and their co-conspirators, this includes local, small town, law enforcement. My own mother, whom I’ve always been close to has cut me off as well. Right now I have a vindictive wife fighting tooth and nail in the court system, social media and otherwise to destroy me. I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease this summer and have been suffering for 20 years with severe Crohn’s disease. I also am being treated for skin cancer, melanoma. I have had an Ostomy bag for 20 years. I’m living in a group home where I’m neglected and abused. I’m no longer on psychiatric medications. I’m dropping my blood pressure medication next week and my Parkinson’s medication next. Other than that I take a bunch of vitamins. On my 50th birthday last Friday, I ran my first 1/2 marathon, another 3 days later. After a bit more than 3 weeks of training I am logging 50 miles a week. I’m registered for my first marathon in early April and I will run a 3.5 hour time, which puts me in the intermediate category. Running a marathon is something no one can EVER take away from me. I don’t date, but I’m extremely good looking for my age, no gray hair, funny and handsome. I’m a semi-professional professional comedy writer and musician. I have a bachelors degree in chemistry and graduated Magna Cum Laude. I’m reading Marcus Aurelius and Senica. Science Fiction and Shakespeare. I’m joyful and thankful. I have no shame, anxiety and sleep like a baby. The devils unchained forced this lifestyle upon me and I’m grateful to them for it. The haters will never help, the narcissists would have you murdered, if they thought they could get away with it, but the innocent, but timid, co-conspirator bystanders will help from time to time, only in secret. Always remember, God and karma are on yours side, Fortune favors the bold and God hates a coward. “Always remember you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think, and loved more than you know.” Winnie the Poo

I’m definitely not famous for keeping my cool. So I’m gonna have to work on. But it does work lot of times to just vent and say your feelings.

Life changing

It's hard sometimes, I can't shake that I feel worthless a lot. Perhaps I'm just too hard on myself? I've created a lot of problems for myself, it's affecting myself and those I exist with. It's going to be a long road. Don't mind me just journaling. 👀

My sister, told me today that God told her all my crops will dry out. She said I need to learn to talk to God before I make decisions. She told me this is what God told her to tell me. & I just quit my job to start a business, & it was discouraging to hear her say that to me. Mind you I just lend my sister money the other day, I take her son to school and her to work every morning because she doesn’t drive. She even told me to lower my standards. She doesn’t drive, she’s living paycheck to paycheck, and her boyfriend is living with her rent-free. She spent her Mother’s Day at work, and I came over this morning to drive my nephew to school and to drop off a Mother’s Day gift, and fell into a discouraging conversation with her. Ima pray about this but it’s difficult knowing she said that.

Love the statues!

Great videos, I'd love to hear a video on narcissism and the counteraction. 😮

I love it! Great channel. Respect❤

If you get disrespected just chill for afew months and teach that person how disrespect is done. Thats how i did deal with disrespect