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20 Things to Avoid to Become a Real Lady 

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Some people consider the rules of etiquette to be outdated and old-fashioned. However, good manners never go out of style. If you want to be taken seriously, you should know there are things that can ruin your image of a true lady.
We at Bright Side have come up with a list of typical etiquette mistakes a lady would never make. Keep them in mind, and you'll always make a great first impression.
TIMESTAMPS
Wearing poor-quality fake designer items 0:34
Making fashion mistakes 1:20
Slouching 1:59
Not taking good care of yourself 2:30
Wearing too much makeup 3:00
Being too fussy 3:25
Finishing your soup 3:59
Being rude and spreading rumors 4:32
Talking and laughing loudly 4:49
Arguing 5:17
Eating on the go 5:43
Being too honest 6:07
Wearing white high heels 6:25
Being late 6:50
Leaving an umbrella open to dry 7:12
Responding to another person's sneeze by saying "Bless you" 7:39
Not wearing pantyhose 7:58
Refusing food or drinks offered by a host 8:18
Dancing with your hair down 8:41
Blowing on your food to cool it down 9:00
SUMMARY
- You don't have to spend all your money on some ridiculously expensive designer bag. But if you can't afford it, buying a much cheaper copy is not an option. A replica, even of good quality, can be easily spotted.
- A true lady would never wear an oversized sweater or a pair of overly tight shorts. She knows how to choose the right types of clothes that say a lot about her style.
- Improving your posture is not as difficult as it may seem at first. Including regular exercises in your schedule will strengthen the muscles in your upper back and shoulders and improve your posture.
- A true lady takes good care of herself. She loves sports, maintains a healthy diet, pays attention to skincare, and consults specialists if necessary.
- If a woman pays special attention to skincare, her skin looks amazing. She knows exactly what makes her face stand out and uses makeup accordingly.
- A true lady knows how to take control of her nervous habits - if she has any.
- To get the last spoonful of soup, you need to slightly tilt your bowl or soup plate. Although table manners say you should tilt the plate away from you to avoid splashing, it's better not to finish the soup at all.
- Being rude, gossiping, and whining are taboos for a true lady. It's beneath her. Neither would she listen to someone else's whining and gossiping.
- It's very important to watch the tone of your voice. Laughing loudly, yelling, and offensive language is unacceptable.
- A true lady always has her own opinion, and she's 100% sure of it. However, she'd never force her ideas on anybody, nor would she argue her choice.
- Etiquette rules say you need to use cutlery when you're at the table. So even if pizza is your favorite food, don't order it in a restaurant.
- A true lady is never too much when it comes to communicating with new people.
- A pair of white pumps can be worn either with a white wedding gown or with a white summer dress. If such a pair is decorated with a colorful detail, such as a bow or something of the kind, it is easier to integrate the shoes into your outfit.
- A lady knows that it's unacceptable to be more than 15 minutes late, both for business and personal meetings. And if the event is a wedding, graduation, or funeral, it is absolutely unacceptable to be late.
- Close your umbrella before entering a building. Shake the water off, and hang it to dry. You can also use a special drying machine if it's available.
- Many people respond to someone else's sneeze by saying "Bless you," but this is only acceptable if the sneezer is a close friend or family member.
- According to modern business etiquette rules, a woman must wear pantyhose to work and formal receptions. Even on the hottest summer day. If it's too hot, you can wear thigh-highs or pants instead of a dress or a skirt.
- A true lady would never refuse food and drinks offered to her. If a host asks what drink she prefers.
- A true lady cares about other people's health and safety.
- It's unacceptable to blow on your food, which is why a true lady waits for it to cool down naturally. The best way to do it is to take a spoonful of your dish and hold it while you support the conversation.
What do other etiquette rules you follow? Write to us in the comments; we will be happy to know your opinion!
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@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL 5 лет назад
What do you think it means to be a true lady? Also, be sure to check these etiquette rules if you wanna be a real lady ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-F19UQrXCY7w.html
@catherinecarr1844
@catherinecarr1844 5 лет назад
Carr
@SociomotivationByPakjira
@SociomotivationByPakjira 5 лет назад
N
@MazalSiani71
@MazalSiani71 5 лет назад
very shallow, insulting and sexist. don't want to be your lady anyhow!
@DarkKittycat
@DarkKittycat 5 лет назад
a true lady is someone who isnt shallow and fake
@nnconnected3177
@nnconnected3177 5 лет назад
To be a true lady u dont let others define what a true lady is
@marieelena
@marieelena 6 лет назад
I was taught that a lady was kind to everyone and treated friend or stranger with respect and consideration. A lady can be dressed in rags and still retain her poise and dignity. I always think of the character Melanie, from Gone With The Wind, as being the epitome of a true lady.
@unicornprincess5697
@unicornprincess5697 5 лет назад
Amen
@kharismas6825
@kharismas6825 5 лет назад
Just like snow white too
@cmnelson2923
@cmnelson2923 5 лет назад
Absolutely!
@RyanneJohn
@RyanneJohn 5 лет назад
watch makeup tips here
@stacyagonzalez6654
@stacyagonzalez6654 5 лет назад
marie elena Yes!
@marisolbloomfield6615
@marisolbloomfield6615 5 лет назад
2:23 What is a ladylike sport?!? I’m a runner and I have been told that it is not a “girl sport”. LADIES, DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!
@anaghavarma3331
@anaghavarma3331 4 года назад
Exactly I thought this video was made as a joke when I saw the thumbnail lol
@diana5105
@diana5105 4 года назад
Exactly! If we do only yoga then what about women athletes!?
@kill_kakey4585
@kill_kakey4585 3 года назад
I like soccer :)
@isurrendertoyou7498
@isurrendertoyou7498 3 года назад
Who said that sport is sport ..there is no man & woman in it!! If u act like cool dude than u will be called dude & even after a long run if u are eating ice cream or something & having fun with your girls..u are a lady..cs u aren't pretending to be something you are not!!
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains.
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains. 3 года назад
@@isurrendertoyou7498 uh
@donnawilcock5774
@donnawilcock5774 6 лет назад
I am at #11 and, so far, see nothing about being a lady! Being a lady is about character and inner beauty!
@pokipineapple5377
@pokipineapple5377 2 года назад
Agreed. These are setting expectations for us to be perfect at every moment of the day. What, are we not allowed to be comfortable? Even at home?? Nope. Cleary have to maintain our appearance at all times and not focus instead on how we act and treat others.
@tash6240
@tash6240 5 лет назад
I wanna fight this narrator.
@sarahmckinneyrobinson
@sarahmckinneyrobinson 5 лет назад
Pied Peculiar - 💯
@renebunny1
@renebunny1 5 лет назад
The narrator is a robot only a dude would write this
@isabelforde3716
@isabelforde3716 4 года назад
Same
@bulbulsood3538
@bulbulsood3538 4 года назад
Me too
@midnight2444
@midnight2444 4 года назад
This is so stereotyped
@Edraxo
@Edraxo 6 лет назад
If wearing oversized sweaters is wrong, I don't want to be right
@chloegreen7542
@chloegreen7542 6 лет назад
Heaven forbid we be comfortable
@jielingwong3008
@jielingwong3008 6 лет назад
Chloe Green 😂😂
@chiara9721
@chiara9721 6 лет назад
AMEN
@utibenojacob5365
@utibenojacob5365 6 лет назад
eddie spaghetti preach
@KyleeNicole
@KyleeNicole 6 лет назад
This is so true😂
@meld1529
@meld1529 6 лет назад
If you are wearing oversized sweater or any oversized item doesen't mean that you are not a true lady. A true lady would always say that no matter what,you should wear clothes that you feel good in.
@liljamorris6008
@liljamorris6008 6 лет назад
And that don't have huge chocolate stains on them... Or is that just me?
@hearfan
@hearfan 6 лет назад
No, no. Being a "lady" obviously means being fake, not being true to yourself and trying to live up to some ridiculous, made up ideal. Get it?
@charanyarajan1383
@charanyarajan1383 6 лет назад
Dang i must be a man
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 лет назад
A true lady does not criticize others clothes or appearance, I say!
@Stinoco
@Stinoco 6 лет назад
There's a difference between a female and a lady as well as there's a difference between a man and a gentleman. If you don't want to follow these rules, don't be offended by just a term.
@ariannalykins6943
@ariannalykins6943 6 лет назад
Who else is a “ordinary girl” 🙋🏼‍♀️
@clincpb8903
@clincpb8903 5 лет назад
And I like it !
@Stereo6400
@Stereo6400 5 лет назад
Arianna Lykins I’m like less than an “ordinary girl” 😂
@irenemay3117.
@irenemay3117. 5 лет назад
🙋😂😂😂😂😂
@pastel-children5551
@pastel-children5551 5 лет назад
🙌🏽
@medhapandey4616
@medhapandey4616 5 лет назад
Me
@vanessathomas6486
@vanessathomas6486 6 лет назад
A TRUE lady does NOT pick her nose in public...at HOME is fine...LOL
@alonianewcomb8357
@alonianewcomb8357 5 лет назад
I can finish my soup if I want to
@kpoornima2131
@kpoornima2131 4 года назад
😂😂😂😂
@elalae3836
@elalae3836 3 года назад
Yeah....😅😅😅
@smruthiammu2174
@smruthiammu2174 3 года назад
Lol
@merjane22
@merjane22 3 года назад
accurate 😆
@Erintii
@Erintii 6 лет назад
This is not being about lady, but about some common fashion mistakes. True lady is not fitness obsessed. There is a great difference between a lady and someone following latest suggestions by media.
@armiesgachastudios1534
@armiesgachastudios1534 3 года назад
Its true 👍
@montannatilton9114
@montannatilton9114 6 лет назад
Being a lady is in how you carry yourself and how you treat others: with confidence, dignity, care, and respect. The rest of the advice in this video is simply "how to conform to outdated expectations." Wear whatever makeup and shoes bring you joy!
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 лет назад
but still... if I see a fake gucci bag I'd think that person was a wannabe model... this video actually has some good stuff. You should buy real ones or none at all
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 лет назад
it doesn't, that's why there are other tips you should follow
@user-hw9yb1er4z
@user-hw9yb1er4z 6 лет назад
guess im gonna be a man
@reynasoraten5553
@reynasoraten5553 6 лет назад
Well said!
@nnekaeze6615
@nnekaeze6615 6 лет назад
catoon the
@honeylavenderbakery
@honeylavenderbakery 6 лет назад
"better not to dance at all than to dance badly" as someone who has been taking dance lessons for over 7 years, i think i'm allowed to say that that is completely false. you have to start somewhere...
@hollyday7882
@hollyday7882 6 лет назад
I disagree. I don't feel that I am a good free style dancer , and at age 50 it is embarrassing when a group of women insist that I must get out on the dance floor and shake my behind. I am a former competitive Ballroom dancer, so I prefer partner dancing and look good doing that.
@fancifulfilly
@fancifulfilly 6 лет назад
So, Christine, you actually agree with the comment above. Partner dancing is still dancing. In fact it's the only kind of dancing that counts, since people who dance w/o partners often think they're dancing to entertain others. That's a pretty antisocial kind of dancing, because the funny part is, rarely does anyone watch them for entertainment. I don't like dancing as a spectator sport. I see it as a social activity, too, otherwise, I don't care to do it.
@daughterofzion5303
@daughterofzion5303 5 лет назад
What happen to fun?
@libbypatton09
@libbypatton09 5 лет назад
I am trying to brag but I was 6 when I started gymnastics and then I quit and now I am in dance lol
@selamhashu1071
@selamhashu1071 5 лет назад
uhhhh untruthfull
@carolineballard5183
@carolineballard5183 5 лет назад
I am going to wish a “bless you” to everyone because we need it. thanks
@sandyclaws5908
@sandyclaws5908 6 лет назад
I was raised to not accept food or drinks if you are a guest at someones house, because it's more polite. I was raised to always say, "bless you" no matter who sneezed. Whoever put this together must not really know what theyre talking about. Unless southern hospitality is just different.
@lunacraftgamer6474
@lunacraftgamer6474 6 лет назад
Sandy Claws yeah
@moonsugar8938
@moonsugar8938 6 лет назад
Philippine hospitality is diffrent
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 лет назад
I do that stuff a lot of the time too!
@trolliepolieolie4315
@trolliepolieolie4315 6 лет назад
Where I come from , it's more rude to not accept food or drink if someone offers you.
@Lana-hx5oo
@Lana-hx5oo 6 лет назад
..but...but what if I want to enjoy life?
@ppppp992
@ppppp992 6 лет назад
Funtimes :D you’re right
@unicornprincess5697
@unicornprincess5697 5 лет назад
@Donald J. Trump - 45tg POTUS, don’t you have a wall to build instead of telling people how horrible life is?
@oisinlane8022
@oisinlane8022 5 лет назад
@@lordgrompuluskevinribbiton4319 yeah because it's just as easy being a "gentleman" and a "lady". These tips are all superficial. Nothing to do with self character
@sandrudemetra8807
@sandrudemetra8807 5 лет назад
Exactly!
@rebeccabrewer2221
@rebeccabrewer2221 5 лет назад
Lohol!! 😆 hi five more to point what if I don't wanna be fake
@shilly8538
@shilly8538 6 лет назад
I prefer being myself.. Being that lady as mentioned in the video is actually being self obsessed and self centered.... Btw No one's born to impress others! 😾
@alonianewcomb8357
@alonianewcomb8357 5 лет назад
I thought being a lady was JUST having proper manners and being polite.
@asiamonna5289
@asiamonna5289 4 года назад
Mukul Nivedita ❤️thank u
@layalsaif9425
@layalsaif9425 4 года назад
@@alonianewcomb8357 Omg same
@onlyfood7069
@onlyfood7069 3 года назад
Exactly !! Now, ironically, as a true lady, by watching this, I have wasted my oh-so precious time because a true "lady" would never waste her time...lol😂
@fabiolablessi1806
@fabiolablessi1806 3 года назад
We do that to impress ourselves,mister. But this video is totally controlling and sexist.
@blameitonablackstar
@blameitonablackstar 6 лет назад
A true lady knows that most of this video is hilarious😂😂😂 The soup one really cracked me up. I'm a rebel, I like to finish my soup haha.
@nikonikoni6882
@nikonikoni6882 6 лет назад
Ikr 🤣
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet 6 лет назад
blameitonablackstar I feel like its more polite to finish all of your food rather than leaving it for the sake of not wanting to look gross or get messed
@laurabaiardi2123
@laurabaiardi2123 6 лет назад
Maybe but this yt channel has 5 mln of follower and it shouldn’t make a video to create others label
@sharonsutedja9812
@sharonsutedja9812 6 лет назад
In my country , it's a sin if u're not finish your food 😂
@blameitonablackstar
@blameitonablackstar 6 лет назад
Sharon Sutedja yasss where is that? Lol I like that rule haha
@icykoool
@icykoool 6 лет назад
I’m a lady and I don’t follow most of the outdated things mentioned here. As a woman we know when we are being classy or not.
@cheri1687
@cheri1687 6 лет назад
Joselynn Xo agreed
@joycegreer9391
@joycegreer9391 6 лет назад
Right. A lot of this is BS, expensive, and stuffy. Just be your unique self, and caring and considerate of others.
@bittervalor
@bittervalor 6 лет назад
Joselynn Xo ur a women not a lady
@litanja8307
@litanja8307 6 лет назад
I guess,"lady" is a title which person gets from a noble family or from a noble husband. A always had such idea. Can not imagine how i can be"lady" if i,m from country,where we don't have any nobles? Am i right or wrong? Or they mean,we have to try to be dressed like real ladies?
@kali7906
@kali7906 6 лет назад
Well said.
@NothingButAComment
@NothingButAComment 6 лет назад
i lost so many IQ points from watching this
@aquilabeyabino300
@aquilabeyabino300 5 лет назад
Brain damage to the max😵👎
@naimayusufmohammed9064
@naimayusufmohammed9064 5 лет назад
It's not like you had many before.
@mohinidasi9357
@mohinidasi9357 5 лет назад
Haha me too
@savahbejin7511
@savahbejin7511 5 лет назад
Angry Khaleesi: As your name implies...
@arktana
@arktana 4 года назад
That's cuz you are such a "lady"....for sure.
@kamnananda3257
@kamnananda3257 5 лет назад
Summary of video: 1. Be too conscious about how others perceive you. 2. Turn your life around it.
@jasminefoster6958
@jasminefoster6958 6 лет назад
I'm sorry but this is upsetting and hilarious. Sense when did oversized sweaters and eating all your soup become unacceptable. Yikes if this is what "a lady" is I'm long gone. God bless you though ;)
@preztjuswoman
@preztjuswoman 6 лет назад
Jasmine Foster *keeling over with laughter* I mean hhhhello! Apparently I stopped being a lady once I bust out with the genuine heart felt laughter I just shared. Or was it when I bought those really sexy white suede stilettos from Aldo... Comically interesting indeed!
@bluelotus2021
@bluelotus2021 6 лет назад
U are right
@ratherbfishing455
@ratherbfishing455 4 года назад
One has to be from an upperclass family and belong to a country club.
@karinkorenkova2059
@karinkorenkova2059 4 года назад
Explain how baggy lazy clothes is 'ladylike'
@thisgurl4205
@thisgurl4205 6 лет назад
So being a lady now means that I need to please everyone by trying so hard at being perfect? A girl doesn't need to be perfect in order to be a lady, it's enough that she's respectful and respectable. I can't believe i wasted my 10 minutes eatching this.
@coachingconfidant2785
@coachingconfidant2785 6 лет назад
nobody cares just work on your personality every single day
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 лет назад
Spirited Beauty I say, be polite, but be yourself. True beauty is within.
@iremozarslan
@iremozarslan 6 лет назад
1 Thing to Avoid to Become a Good Channel Don't tell "ladies" what to do.
@samanthacurry2552
@samanthacurry2552 6 лет назад
Watches video --> looses a bit of hope in humanity; Reads comments --> humanity restored
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 лет назад
you must have a very gullible mind then
@softkj7612
@softkj7612 6 лет назад
Is actually the opposite for me.
@juliaprohaska9295
@juliaprohaska9295 6 лет назад
+
@padhmajaravichandar9077
@padhmajaravichandar9077 6 лет назад
True that! 😊
@andalperumal9935
@andalperumal9935 6 лет назад
7Sophia Xu
@zainabkhan969
@zainabkhan969 6 лет назад
No need to follow all these rules......... just be youself!
@pnkdahla5037
@pnkdahla5037 6 лет назад
I am P!nky..lol
@ariannarose1425
@ariannarose1425 6 лет назад
zainab ok
@uwu_mara2003
@uwu_mara2003 6 лет назад
zainab there is nothing wrong with changing yourself
@mellifluous5411
@mellifluous5411 6 лет назад
This must be the most ridiculous video on RU-vid.....😂
@ratherbfishing455
@ratherbfishing455 4 года назад
You must not belong to a country club.
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains.
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains. 3 года назад
@@ratherbfishing455 what does that mean
@ratherbfishing455
@ratherbfishing455 3 года назад
@@AGuyWhoLikesTrains. One should be prim and proper. Ladylike and not coarse.
@samin9648
@samin9648 5 лет назад
I'm an ordinary girl & proud of that!!! Not about being rude but to be happy and free :)
@egmall5869
@egmall5869 5 лет назад
Sam Sedaghat 👍👍👍
@gramzulu
@gramzulu 6 лет назад
Who determines how a lady should look like? Let women do what they feel is right for them.
@faariyadurrani5798
@faariyadurrani5798 6 лет назад
Graham Zulu (y)
@DirectionerLoveDream
@DirectionerLoveDream 6 лет назад
👏👏
@adamkawache828
@adamkawache828 6 лет назад
Graham Zulu thank u
@DrinkYourNailPolish
@DrinkYourNailPolish 6 лет назад
Being a lady or gentleman is about being the best possible version of yourself you can be, it is challenging, but very worthwhile. never put yourself or others down. learn how to accept a compliment. never discuss money with anyone besides your partner or accountant. Don't ask "what do you do for a living " ask, "what are your interests", be a good listener, don't act selfish, treat everyone with kindness and dignity from the CEO to the janitor
@sofiahasan4927
@sofiahasan4927 6 лет назад
This is deep! I agree, you are the best lady you can be! This video is so stereotypical and a lot of people can’t afford like nice accessories and like what they have, even if it is cheap.
@sorasora1771
@sorasora1771 6 лет назад
Drink Your Nail Polish i completely agree !!!
@valeriaswanne
@valeriaswanne 6 лет назад
That's not what they are saying. They are saying to get items of "good-quality". This means good, sturdy fabrics that aren't going to fade, pill, or shrink. 100% cotton and thick denim, instead of flimsy nylon elastin polyblend that's made from petroleum byproducts. Second-hand stores are a treasure trove. You don't have to spend lots of $$ to get a good look if you are smart about it.
@charvishrungarpure2448
@charvishrungarpure2448 5 лет назад
They first need a video on how to be a broadminded, non-judgmental human 😂😂 I'll finish my soup and yours too!
@annieyummmm
@annieyummmm 4 года назад
Charvi S. some people are interested. If you are not, just move on.
@neerajsharma3541
@neerajsharma3541 3 года назад
A true lady is someone who doesn't judge other people based on their look. Let's see who can finish their soup first😂😂
@neerajsharma3541
@neerajsharma3541 3 года назад
@@annieyummmm Dude its 2021 who cares bout bean' a lady at all but tomboys are confident, positive and passionate TOMBOYS ROCK.
@fannypack8215
@fannypack8215 4 года назад
Here’s an idea for the title: “All of the stereotypical things you need to do to make no difference in your life at all except for the amount of comfort you feel daily”
@haha-km2du
@haha-km2du 6 лет назад
"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable." Excuse you, I certainly WILL wear baggy clothes because they ARE comfortable.
@ccallender4012
@ccallender4012 6 лет назад
Love me some baggy clothes too...That Lady will probably have a lot of yeast infections too...lol tackle that bright side.
@ellieosh1985
@ellieosh1985 6 лет назад
So, your logic is, not wearing baggy clothes = yeast infections? I don't wear baggy clothes. Never have, and I never had an yeast infection. Have you ever heard of simply properly-fitting clothes? The implication of the video wasn't "don't wear baggy clothes, wear too-tightly-fitted clothes", it was what it said: a true lady doesn't wear baggy clothes, she wears properly fitting clothes, because baggy clothes - though comfortable for some (not for me, personally) - make you look clumsy, heavy, and larger than you are.
@ellieosh1985
@ellieosh1985 6 лет назад
"She", as in "a true lady", as in "a true lady would never wear baggy clothes", which you are not because you choose to wear baggy clothes even though they're not lady like. Nothing wrong with that. Your choice. But that means you're not a lady. Ladies abide by certain etiquette rules. You can't be a lady, if you don't abide by them. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.
@cassy8035
@cassy8035 6 лет назад
Oversized is in style now.
@WorriorXD
@WorriorXD 6 лет назад
Same
@ForsakenPixel
@ForsakenPixel 6 лет назад
some of these are a bit excessive, to be a lady imo all you have to do is be polite and courteous. That's it! very simple
@coachingconfidant2785
@coachingconfidant2785 6 лет назад
watch anime with me
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 лет назад
You are AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!
@NightingaleFlorine
@NightingaleFlorine 6 лет назад
Spirited Beauty don't force yourself. as a girl myself i see nothing wrong with buying fake products.
@sujatapoudel8926
@sujatapoudel8926 6 лет назад
10 min of my life is wasted 😂
@jennifer5923
@jennifer5923 6 лет назад
Agreed
@yzabelleplata-ponce5763
@yzabelleplata-ponce5763 4 года назад
Sujata Poudel I agree!
@romilycyri2043
@romilycyri2043 4 года назад
Sujata Poudel same here
@yasmineee702
@yasmineee702 6 лет назад
"Godly women don't have to advertise. They just be. Their trust is in the Lord. The anointing makes them beautiful. It attracts and demands attention and respect all on it's own. It will catch the eye of any man who can recognize the true spirit of God. It is rare for a man to come at her disrespectfully because the God in her radiates like the bright sun. It says I am a woman of God. A princess. A daughter of the King of kings. Her very presence and spirit demands the best and nothing less. She is not desperate for anything, and her emotions are checked by the Holy Spirit. Her heart is in the hands of God, and God will not give it to a man who is unworthy of his daughters love"
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 6 лет назад
Wrong, they/we will still very much get disrespectful guys.
@mimIsra1
@mimIsra1 5 лет назад
I can't stand women like that
@amberthompson6948
@amberthompson6948 5 лет назад
Well said.👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻♥️💋😉🤙🏻🌺💒🙏
@kwclove7623
@kwclove7623 5 лет назад
Glad you are so perfect 🙄
@luvluv308
@luvluv308 6 лет назад
"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable" .... seriously? ... That's exactly why you should wear them.
@jmcgovern1988
@jmcgovern1988 5 лет назад
Luv Luv yes in the house LOL.
@alexandratoth2981
@alexandratoth2981 5 лет назад
Not only baggy clothes are comfortable.
@annieyummmm
@annieyummmm 4 года назад
Wear what you want. But not everything you wear will look lady like. Truth hurts
@blueturkeyneptune4996
@blueturkeyneptune4996 4 года назад
Luv Luv that’s why it’s a trend I wear it cause I’m body shamed a lot
@luvluv308
@luvluv308 4 года назад
@@blueturkeyneptune4996 I'm sorry you are body shamed. You are beautiful the way you are. It's sad that some people think they have the right to judge others. Their words say more about them than they do of you. Love yourself and accept yourself for who you are and I pray one day your opinion of yourself will mean more to you than theirs. Take care.
@simhere567
@simhere567 6 лет назад
Breaking stereotypes is the best quality a lady can have. You shouldn't be afraid to argue. It's okay to be a powerful lady. This video sounds like being weak and and not speaking up about what you feel.
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 лет назад
it's ok to be a lady and slouch all the time and not take care of yourself and look dreadful at important meetings... yeah
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 лет назад
Sophia Xu No one said that it was ok to look dreadful at an important meeting, but, to say that in every other situation a woman has to be uptight and not be herself? What a crock!
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 лет назад
1: you people are saying that a lady should dress how she wants to dress. Who wants to dress in a suit EVER? Therefore, a lady should dress in pjs or hoodies to work every day. 2: we never said that a lady should be uptight. we said that she should dress appropriately and not embarrass herself. That is not the same thing. Also, a lady is supposed to be polite and respectful. If doing this is to not be yourself, then so be it. Better to be polite and respectful and not be yourself than to be rude and unlikable and to be yourself. This does not apply to other situations, however.
@simhere567
@simhere567 6 лет назад
MrsSavannah75 exactly!!
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 лет назад
Simran Upadhye just wondering, are you(or a relative) a high school teacher? *this has nothing to do with this argument
@tere1198
@tere1198 5 лет назад
Some of the tips are silly such as wearing your hair down while dancing
@silmihanifah8877
@silmihanifah8877 6 лет назад
after watching this video, I choose to be an ordinary girl. Yeah, that's more comfortable
@vivi-er6dh
@vivi-er6dh 6 лет назад
No. Just no. Being a lady is Emma Watson when she acts for what she stands for, inspiring girls and boys everywhere. Being a lady is when Zendaya actively speaks about the issues people of color face. Being a lady is being a beautiful warrior, no matter what, always brave and always strong. Be yourself, girls. Be fearless and powerful and unstoppable, because that's what makes a real lady, not handbags and facial beauty.
@sexymonster7667
@sexymonster7667 6 лет назад
The Queen Of Chaos *** so true
@spontaneousm5367
@spontaneousm5367 6 лет назад
The Queen Of Chaos *** you are amazing 😁 A+. Correct 🙌
@reneewang285
@reneewang285 6 лет назад
Best comment for this video.
@raylees2501
@raylees2501 6 лет назад
👏👏👏👍
@vivi-er6dh
@vivi-er6dh 6 лет назад
MrsSavannah75 Thank you so much, it really warms my heart to see such support to feminism and womanhood. What with all the fake feminists and haters out there, it is really great to end the day knowing that people like you- ALL of you are going to bring about an era of peace, power, joy and most importantly, equality.
@pityparty5994
@pityparty5994 6 лет назад
Yah, I'm not giving up my oversized clothes to put on some tight clothes and be a lady, I'd rather feel comfortable and be myself instead of faking someone I will never be😁😎😋
@PowerToolsnPearls
@PowerToolsnPearls 6 лет назад
Pity Party notice how they went on and on about how bad and improper baggy clothes are, yet the picture was a super tight shirt bursting at the buttons? It’s as if the folks providing photos and those providing voice over never shared any information.
@softkj7612
@softkj7612 6 лет назад
Dude. Tight clothes are frowned upon too. :v You’re supposed to wear well fitted clothes. But maybe you’re like: “Clothes that actually flatter my body type and are comfortable? EWwwww. I will stick to making my clothes out of trash bags.🤤🤤🤤💕✨”
@imd1111
@imd1111 6 лет назад
Exactly! When you don't pretend to be someone else you are actually being a true lady!
@jeshan0659
@jeshan0659 6 лет назад
When did wearing a baggy shirts defined to be a true lady?! A true lady for me is the one who is very true to herself and not minding what other people would say to her. As long as she's happy, the lady in her would shine.
@toastdude1453
@toastdude1453 6 лет назад
preach
@iindetya4642
@iindetya4642 6 лет назад
Being a true lady is you have to be a smart lady. That's all. Bcs etiquette can be different too depending on the situation.
@freyagriffiths4153
@freyagriffiths4153 4 года назад
I like my baggy sweater!!! They make me comfy and chill.
@HayleighDixon16
@HayleighDixon16 6 лет назад
Women, we being strong and independent is enough. We don’t need stereotypical ‘rules’ to dictate how we should act and look.
@sabhinavini8108
@sabhinavini8108 6 лет назад
Hayleigh Dixon bless this comment! 👐🖒
@elliemay1748
@elliemay1748 6 лет назад
Or how about maybe people have learned from experience that exercising, eating right, not slouching, and putting your best foot forward is just a healthy way to live. Guys have lists like this too you know. A strong person wouldn’t be so easily offended by something like this.
@silverrain8682
@silverrain8682 6 лет назад
Ellie May: by your comment it seems as though you don't know the first thing about being a strong person. The REAL strong people were the women who fought for equal rights. This video promotes the idea that a woman's value is based on her outward appearance rather than her thoughts and mind. It supports the ideology that all women should be the steriotypical "housewife" that follows the above guidelines set in place for her by her domineering husband. And I don't think anyone can learn anything good from that.
@elliemay1748
@elliemay1748 6 лет назад
Faith Parlapiano Apparently you see what you want to see. This is just a video with some classic etiquette examples. It’s not telling you to do anything. It didn’t bring up rights, or suggest that outward appearance determines your worth. I’m not threatened by it’s suggestions. I’m sorry that you can’t see that.
@katerinapatiniotis5598
@katerinapatiniotis5598 6 лет назад
Ellie May As a real lady that practices all these things from a young age, I agree with you. They are just narcissistic and egomaniacs that get easily offended and triggered. That's not ladylike behaviour. It's an entitled, spoiled, 12 year old brat behaviour, dependent on Facebook 'likes' to feel better.
@vi9763
@vi9763 6 лет назад
If Brightside wants to be taken seriously don't put out videos on how to be a true lady in 2017
@gissellebonilla4132
@gissellebonilla4132 6 лет назад
Hahaha 😂😂😂 Why?
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 лет назад
Well as it's already stated, good manners never go out of style.
@yourdailyavocado2899
@yourdailyavocado2899 5 лет назад
If you want to become a real lady, just dress the way you want and chose clothes in which you feel comfortable and confident in.
@228vik
@228vik 6 лет назад
I was taught all this in the 50's at a small age. My mom, taught us to be ladies. She taught us all and how to walk and talk. So, I find you can spot a real lady. And I don't see too many. But, my aunt always said I would rather BE A WOMEN.
@228vik
@228vik 6 лет назад
PS Went to a dance studio and did something I never did at a professional function. I slouched...at the table...I was always taught from Mom to teacher to stop slouching ....but...it didn't help
@SemplicementeSE
@SemplicementeSE 6 лет назад
I've never heard sooo many stereotypes all together. If your intention was to educate some girl to be more civil, yea well...you did it in a wrong way. My opinion, of course...
@moonsugar8938
@moonsugar8938 6 лет назад
I love swearing
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 лет назад
YEAH!!!!!!!!
@66_percent_rainbow79
@66_percent_rainbow79 6 лет назад
Semplicemente SE actually, I believe you share that opinion with the majority of the comment section.
@kia_a_amotion
@kia_a_amotion 6 лет назад
Girls don't listen to all this, just be polite and be yourself
@ithan8069
@ithan8069 6 лет назад
kiana Kalantari it’s just etiquette to be more fashionable
@sulagnadey5772
@sulagnadey5772 5 лет назад
A lady also knows how to avoid these lame videos. Be yourselves girls. You are the best the way you are and people will accept you for being the true you. Better be an ordinary cute and bubbly girl and be yourself rather than being a lady and change yourself completely. 😊
@ratherbfishing455
@ratherbfishing455 4 года назад
I do not asscociate with people from bad backgrounds. It does not cost anything to be highly evolved and civilized.
@antoninastepak1244
@antoninastepak1244 5 лет назад
Girls, remember- your clothes or what you order in a restourant is not what makes you a lady. Just remain classy, and the rest will follow.
@Nunesi
@Nunesi 6 лет назад
A true lady knows herself and the rights of others. It is not about clothes but about who you really are . We can easily spot out a lady or not, through her behaviour 💖
@blazevacae1757
@blazevacae1757 6 лет назад
Indubitably !
@LaPapessaRossa
@LaPapessaRossa 6 лет назад
Right!
@Alex-vf3fm
@Alex-vf3fm 5 лет назад
really this is universal and applies to everyone. Everyone has the right to be respected. Judging a person on material items such as clothes, however, is shallow and disgusting. I agree with you
@AprilHarmony9
@AprilHarmony9 5 лет назад
Truth
@kristinawhitlow4761
@kristinawhitlow4761 5 лет назад
I agree.
@shashifoxie2670
@shashifoxie2670 6 лет назад
"How to be the unrealistic, idealistic epiphany of every woman everywhere in every culture."
@clairgoodwin4697
@clairgoodwin4697 6 лет назад
We’re all humans. It’s just like racism and sexism. We can really be who we want. I have family members who tell me not to laugh loudly because I’m grown up but when I have friends that are guys or like someone, they say I’m too young and I’m like -_-
@yosr613
@yosr613 6 лет назад
"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable." yea okey LADY but i literally wear BAGGY CLOTHES because they're COMFORTABLE and so my style hahahahahah
@ForTheMinute55
@ForTheMinute55 6 лет назад
So I'm not a real lady if I am not feminine, don't conform to stereotypes, and lack fashion and makeup sense? I call BS. I love my oversized clothes and gender non-conforming habits. (No, I'm not nonbinary. I just have habits that anyone can have.)
@ForTheMinute55
@ForTheMinute55 6 лет назад
Blue Lion I read on another comment chain that you were trying to imitate people whining. It kind of reminds me of when someone can't think of a good comeback, and they repeat what the other person said in a high-pitched voice.
@nikonikoni6882
@nikonikoni6882 6 лет назад
You go girl we don't need these rules
@ellicooper947
@ellicooper947 6 лет назад
I completely agree. I’m a 13 yr old girl and I think all of these are horrible stereotypes to push onto women and girls. If this is being a ‘lady’ then I never want be one.
@bittervalor
@bittervalor 6 лет назад
Honey-Senpai your a women not a lady
@jennyisle6646
@jennyisle6646 6 лет назад
Kronoxian, you're a child, not a man.
@allymarie0783
@allymarie0783 6 лет назад
Who else clicked on this video thinking it was a joke😶
@legeciaangus7425
@legeciaangus7425 6 лет назад
allymarie07 guilty
@HighPriestess999
@HighPriestess999 6 лет назад
Yeah I assumed it would be a satirical or ironic video but no.. the judgmental tones are unbelievable I can't believe they published this lol. Can't we just aim to be our greatest versions?
@andreannady9065
@andreannady9065 6 лет назад
allymarie07 yup
@sarakhudeir6455
@sarakhudeir6455 6 лет назад
Yeah, I thought it was just a joke...
@aim7910
@aim7910 6 лет назад
allymarie07 me.
@torrie5882
@torrie5882 3 года назад
Most of these sound more like someone’s “pet peeves” rather than actual etiquette.
@informliza
@informliza 6 лет назад
FYI. Every girl will eventually grow to be a woman... But every woman must make a choice to be a lady.
@marglam6123
@marglam6123 6 лет назад
Alice Scissorhands believe it not there are certain norms in our society. But if a woman wants to sit with her legs open so people can see her crotch, she is a pig,
@marglam6123
@marglam6123 6 лет назад
If she doesn't start learning how to behave decently when she is young, she isn't going to all of a sudden become a lady when she is older.
@goldenchild_chosenone
@goldenchild_chosenone 5 лет назад
it's amazing how many ppl watched this video til the end and then criticized it. that's why i love your comment.
@amberthompson6948
@amberthompson6948 5 лет назад
Exactly, well said! 😉👏🏻👏🏻💋♥️🤙🏻🌺🙌🏻
@breanna3630
@breanna3630 6 лет назад
Ain't nobody got time for that
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 лет назад
I do.
@MARIE-yl8ym
@MARIE-yl8ym 6 лет назад
Like seriously, unless you don't have any other obligations in life other than to look good 24/7... so a very well taken care of sugar baby.
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 лет назад
That's not true. For example my brother's fiancee works for my father in a very highly paid job. She works very hard too. And she's just had to go to the company's christmas party in a very posh london hotel. It's a ball where she has to wear a ballgown and everything. These skills would come in handy then.
@sharonfleming810
@sharonfleming810 6 лет назад
Bre Zeey u using aint says it all.
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 лет назад
Some people live to please others. They care only about what others think of them. A very sad existence but these people do exist
@jla279
@jla279 6 лет назад
That is horrific!!! It is ridiculous!!!! That is just being a robot or being program to be something so unnatural. Politeness and simplicity is much more true to being a human being that to follow some rediculous human create to restrict nature human behaviors to control another.
@ellorasg4525
@ellorasg4525 6 лет назад
J La This is fit for a lady host Not an everyday lady I remember following similar rules when playing host to some guest
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 лет назад
YOU'RE SO FREAKING RIGHT J La!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@creativeinthoughtsukayd4658
@creativeinthoughtsukayd4658 6 лет назад
J La l
@ssst9006
@ssst9006 6 лет назад
I am definately a real lady because I do not do all the things that are in this list.
@clincpb8903
@clincpb8903 5 лет назад
You won a poney ;-)
@exoexo3370
@exoexo3370 5 лет назад
Facts 👌🏻
@lunathebooklover8734
@lunathebooklover8734 5 лет назад
I tried to do this for a day, I failed.Hey normal squad,it feels good to be home and not pretend I’m high class cuz I’m not 🤗
@isabellaswindell3675
@isabellaswindell3675 6 лет назад
"You just need to look neat, presentable, and well groomed at any moment of your life." Well then...
@DrinkYourNailPolish
@DrinkYourNailPolish 6 лет назад
Cupcake Sprinkles that one really got me 😄 I'm ill at the moment so I guess in breaking that rule! lol
@valeriaswanne
@valeriaswanne 6 лет назад
My grandmother used to say that all the time. You never know who you will meet, or if the doorbell will ring.
@kimwagner9623
@kimwagner9623 6 лет назад
So basically we don’t say anything, We’re not allowed to finish eating (or to eat at all), and we’re always sitting there like decorations. Oh and not to forget we look like a Barbie...... oh heck no! So many girls are struggling with stereotypes. This video is absolutely ridiculous. Just be yourself. That’s definitely enough to be a lady. [These people need some milk]
@jennaluhur
@jennaluhur 6 лет назад
Funny how some of these are about generic mannerism while the other’s is about superficial things like clothes and “beauty” the remaining are just plain disrespectful to women (aka sexist!!). Honestly every single person has their own problems, no one’s going to stop and stare at you for hours pointing out every single “unladylike” trait that you have.
@silviacristinaflorea1569
@silviacristinaflorea1569 6 лет назад
pilgrimsister She is right! Sorry for you. You have no idea what's happening in this world!
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 лет назад
Amen! Worrying about what someone else wears? I can understand being polite, but, even though there are some things being worn nowadays that make me cringe, every one has the right to be who they are, and not conform to someones stiff ideals.
@Uapa500
@Uapa500 6 лет назад
Agree. So misleading. And we shouldn't argue, just leave it and be happy in silence, in our own mind.
@Butternubs80085
@Butternubs80085 5 лет назад
Being a lady is different from just being a female. This is how to be a lady, someone who's classy or refined. No one is forcing anyone to follow these rules at all. If you do not like these rules, don't follow them. Simple as that. Remember, bitter isn't a good look on anyone ;)
@g.e.1432
@g.e.1432 6 лет назад
I do NOT agree with the pantyhose rule, and I DEFINITELY do NOT agree with "don't dance with your hair down", say what??!!
@binwiemmanuella5362
@binwiemmanuella5362 6 лет назад
g.e. g.e. i
@RMBlake007
@RMBlake007 5 лет назад
Yes, the rule of "Don't dance with your hair down" is ridiculous for 2019. So if my normal hair style is wearing my hair down. but I want to go dancing...I have to put my hair up? That sounds like an issue from the 40's and 50's because wearing your hair free was considered too sexy or "loose". My hair is so heavy and thick that if I did put my hair up, I would have to have a professional do it or else it would start falling down/out as I danced...and that would not look "lady like".
@saraarychuk737
@saraarychuk737 6 лет назад
Me: eats entire soup bowl with hands after i have cooled with my breath on the go in my white high heels and oversized sweater while yelling an argument "You were saying?"
@silverrain8682
@silverrain8682 6 лет назад
Omg! You had me laughing! lol!
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 лет назад
Me too! lol!
@padhmajaravichandar9077
@padhmajaravichandar9077 6 лет назад
😂😂😂😂
@lillynighter3421
@lillynighter3421 6 лет назад
don't laugh too loud though, that's not ladylike
@brookek279
@brookek279 6 лет назад
dont forget to slouch
@AbbieLo925
@AbbieLo925 6 лет назад
I just watched for like 2 min and feels like it's telling girls to buy expensive stuff and focus on just you reputation... Thats not what a person should do
@littlekellyminecraftpe1847
@littlekellyminecraftpe1847 6 лет назад
Abbie Lo ikr
@1MikuFan
@1MikuFan 3 года назад
Laughing too loud?! I consider myself ladylike, but I love to laugh until I bust a gut! Ladies, enjoy your life! Don’t stick to these rules, unless you really want to.
@Anjabeth
@Anjabeth 6 лет назад
Actually, in order to be a Real Lady, you have to do one (or both) of two things: be born the daughter of an Earl, or a peer of higher rank, or marry a man who is a knight, or of higher rank. That's it. Acting like a gentlewoman is a different thing altogether.
@strongjohnssippyqueen2965
@strongjohnssippyqueen2965 6 лет назад
Sooooo the number one rule of being a lady is having no fun and being uncomfortable and hide your personality
@weezer7757
@weezer7757 6 лет назад
Rosy Raincloud Yeah I guess
@user-lg7gx9vt5m
@user-lg7gx9vt5m 6 лет назад
Basically.
@hannafrimannsdottir7153
@hannafrimannsdottir7153 6 лет назад
This is really disturbing. How about making a video on how to be nice to others and have a good personality? This video made me so angry wow I’m shocked. We are not living in the 50’s. I can wear sweatpants and eat Macdonalds and play football and be a “lady” I can also wear a Gucci bag and eat salat for lunch and be a “lady” there are NO rules to being a “lady” and there a NO rules to being a “woman” please will you delete this video this is embarrassing
@lissette5026
@lissette5026 6 лет назад
Hanna frimannsdóttir I agree with you
@hannafrimannsdottir7153
@hannafrimannsdottir7153 6 лет назад
Donald J. Trump - 45th POTUS i dont dress for guys i dress for myself. Simple as that
@kingslair686
@kingslair686 5 лет назад
excuse me to all the commenters who are trying to be edgy and 'not like other girls', but acting like a lady gives you class, elegance, and makes you look hygienic, and confident. if you don't want to look like that, then stick to your ballooning and common oversized sweatshirts, baggy pants. maybe then you'll decide to wear oversized underwear too.
@slowpainful
@slowpainful 6 лет назад
It's been interesting to read these comments. I think there are one or two pieces of good advice here, but they have nothing to do with this concept of "being a lady" which just seems to mean "don't make waves" and "don't be threatening with your intelligence and suppress your power". Any intelligent person knows that you act a bit differently in a business environment than at home, or that you dress appropriately for the occasion or that being on time is sometimes really important. But those facts apply to everyone. Some of these are just inane, like sitting still (!), or what sweaters to wear, or shoe colors, like women don't have the ability to decide for themselves what is right, and, even worse, that people are going to judge you on YOUR SWEATER. That's kind of pathetic, really. The fact is, the real meaning of etiquette, for women AND men, is just to treat others with respect, to not think about yourself all the time but show a sincere interest in others, and to make others feel at ease, even make them feel special (because they are). That's assuming a normal social situation. But if some racist starts mouthing off, anyone has the duty to speak up and be heard, for example. And be as loud and right as you possibly can! The whole concept that there's this separate set of rules for women is suspect right from the start. I hear some guy saying "uppity feminist" somewhere, and it is so offensive and patronizing, I could plotz. Whatever that means.
@wonderfulhumanbeingwithagr6381
And spend my whole life trying to be flawless "lady" to please everyone but myself? No no!
@rakanishu06
@rakanishu06 6 лет назад
Pretty Liar GOOD POINT
@siajohnson8335
@siajohnson8335 6 лет назад
I am going to do as I please. If that includes eating food on the go, then so be it.
@goushiabari7803
@goushiabari7803 5 лет назад
I am not a lady, I am not an ordinary girl, I am a tomboy, There we go, The truth!
@yaapeasah4443
@yaapeasah4443 3 года назад
# 18 slouching Me: straightens up immediately
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet 6 лет назад
Being a true lady is just being polite and considerate not all of this
@MsAnnabanana26
@MsAnnabanana26 6 лет назад
"Better not to dance at all than to dance badly" so a true lady can never have fun? I think true lady doesn't care about what others may think of her and has a good time
@entername3260
@entername3260 6 лет назад
Agree
@TinaDessert
@TinaDessert 6 лет назад
I am stunned by this! And actually quite concerned about younger girls who may think...”Another thing I’m supposed to be”. I had to stop video after I heard...”a lady never argues her choice...” WHAT?! I really felt compelled to post a comment for fear of otherwise feeling that by not speaking up/standing up; I’d be condoning it. Ladies: Wear what you want! Speak your mind!And ALWAYS stand up for yourself. 💓
@informliza
@informliza 6 лет назад
One thing that I noticed low class women tend to do when they meet people is immediately asked them what they do for work for what company they work for. Because a lady has mastered listening compared to just talking, if the person wants you to know they will tell you or if you listen the context clues....they normally lead you and to the right place.
@AprilHarmony9
@AprilHarmony9 5 лет назад
INDEED!!!! I've noticed this from low-class women too. Keep in mind "low-class" and "high-class" has nothing to do with looks either, it's all about their aura, personality and attitude. Yes, I know exactly what you mean🙄🙄🙄
@michelecarmen3177
@michelecarmen3177 5 лет назад
Actually I don’t know if it’s just me or not, but I’ve noticed the exact opposite when it comes to being asked what someone does for a living.
@lennoxious_
@lennoxious_ 6 лет назад
And?.. No girl has to be a lady... Just be somebody you are..
@bittervalor
@bittervalor 6 лет назад
Lei abunch of girls at my school do this probably gonna say that with a bad reaction but they have normal friends not like the wierd kids who hang out with wierd kids
@sharonfleming810
@sharonfleming810 6 лет назад
Lei guess u were raised in a barn
@six______
@six______ 6 лет назад
Sharon Fleming guess u were raised in a stereotypical house
@princessshaman
@princessshaman 6 лет назад
Wow so according to this video I'm not a lady because I'm not superficial. Sorry but I'm wearing baggy pants sometimes because they ARE comfortable.
@rita7070
@rita7070 6 лет назад
P.Shaman I just moved so I spent the last days moving boxes and forniture. of course I was wearing orribile clothes and then I even go eating out dressed like that and a bit dirty cause I couldn't find the wild to Change and the clothes as well. I never wear high heels in my life and I not planning to do it
@akhilasharma2874
@akhilasharma2874 5 лет назад
There are people dying because they don't get even a drop of water to drink but ladies don't forget to leave the last of your soup because it will make you look like a not proper lady??!!
@lindabyrne5692
@lindabyrne5692 5 лет назад
When you have a guest and you notice that they start with the wrong fork/spoon then you pick up the same fork/spoon so you don't embarrass them. On the flip side, when you are a guest then watch to see what other people do first.
@sunshinesmiles5386
@sunshinesmiles5386 6 лет назад
This is bs. While good taste and poise is crucial, it's character that defines a lady. She reflects an overall attitude of calm confidence and graciousness. The details presented in this video just enforce the stigma that one cannot be a true lady without following 18th century boarding school rules and having the perfect outfit.
@user-hw9yb1er4z
@user-hw9yb1er4z 6 лет назад
speak in 2018 please
@virginiaescalera2419
@virginiaescalera2419 6 лет назад
These replies are so funny...and great
@nickityler8685
@nickityler8685 6 лет назад
I can't laugh loudly? Well I guess I'm not a 'real' lady. A lot of this is really frustrating, I'm sorry I can't afford designer handbags. All the stuff about not listening to people whining or gossiping; sometimes it's nice to be listened to even if you know you're whining.
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 лет назад
pilgrimsister I don't like designer's labels emblazoned all over something like a purse. To me, that is not ladylike. I do like quality stuff and am on a small budget, which is why I go to thrift stores. I also don't like seeing the current fashion of leggings. To me it looks like they are running around in their underwear!
@yasminescofield2259
@yasminescofield2259 6 лет назад
Nicki Tyler Min Yoongi🙂
@urestauro6367
@urestauro6367 6 лет назад
I like to say "bless you" after a person sneezes even if I don't know the person, because they might die or something.
@tanyasinha4114
@tanyasinha4114 6 лет назад
So basically being a true lady means not being a person at all?
@DvictoryIam
@DvictoryIam 6 лет назад
Tanya Sinha true
@everything5066
@everything5066 6 лет назад
Preach it
@Rhodah_Musonda
@Rhodah_Musonda 6 лет назад
And it means being pretentious...Because now someone will have to pretend to be who they are not...It's ok to be yourself
@serenagrager7453
@serenagrager7453 6 лет назад
U are right
@wayvsupremacist5803
@wayvsupremacist5803 6 лет назад
So playing with your hair or moving your leg too much can ruin your reputation
@haizekhaze8868
@haizekhaze8868 6 лет назад
Daddys BTS Actually yes. I Know it seems weird but..yes..check out "sheraseven" all of this girl power rah rah is ruining our TRUE p0wer...
@yasminescofield2259
@yasminescofield2259 6 лет назад
Armyyyyy
@cory5478
@cory5478 5 лет назад
Some of this advice is silly. Thanks for the smile today.
@danae.kristine2724
@danae.kristine2724 6 лет назад
It's crazy to think a video like this is being made in our time. A lady is a good person, regardless of her clothing style or mannerisms! It doesn't matter if she's femme or not! Rules don't define her!
@labibprince7693
@labibprince7693 6 лет назад
After watching this video I don't want to be a lady 😡😡😡 Thanks for all likes
@nikonikoni6882
@nikonikoni6882 6 лет назад
Labib Prince Same
@laurabaiardi2123
@laurabaiardi2123 6 лет назад
But also lady stereotypes a men. A video like this should be done also for male unfortunately
@ppppp992
@ppppp992 6 лет назад
Labib Prince me too
@talicia2668
@talicia2668 6 лет назад
Labib Prince it songs boring 😴😴
@iregretmyname7398
@iregretmyname7398 6 лет назад
Then don't
@MEE_474
@MEE_474 6 лет назад
This the most sexist thing I have seen this year and to me being a "lady" means you are comfortable being yourself this video is just saying change your habits and do what is excepted by Society because apparently that is all that matters to some people
@MEE_474
@MEE_474 6 лет назад
Obito Uchiha do you not understand what what they are saying they're telling people girls and women to change their outer appearance just to look good and societies eyes
@ragingman7320
@ragingman7320 6 лет назад
Nowadays its about money and reputation
@porsorodis7985
@porsorodis7985 6 лет назад
I agree with you so much
@Roseilles
@Roseilles 6 лет назад
It was always about money, power and reputation.
@maiyacorrea527
@maiyacorrea527 6 лет назад
I am 100% with you on that. Just look at my comment lol
@rashiverma1151
@rashiverma1151 5 лет назад
Isn't your points contrasting.. I mean U say a lady should be the same with everyone And later not to open up with strangers... I mean just go through them before u post...
@_eliatan2493
@_eliatan2493 2 года назад
A true lady doesn’t judge how other ladies choose to do :)
@karmaakabane4519
@karmaakabane4519 6 лет назад
this is creating stereotypes for women. All women are not like this. They are good tips but I think women should do what they want and not follow the social norm.
@lizzycoy1745
@lizzycoy1745 6 лет назад
Karma Akabane woman should do what they yes, but if they want to become a lady they need to learn some etiquette rules.
@LexisBaaby23
@LexisBaaby23 6 лет назад
Most of these are just ridiculous and absurd! Stereotyping at its finest!
@zezepuppet
@zezepuppet 6 лет назад
I believe this was written by Mrs. Mike Pence.
@zezepuppet
@zezepuppet 6 лет назад
Not you Lexi, this video. This is not 1955.
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