The fantasizing one was so me ,i was the typa person to imagine the best life and being delulu in my mind but that wasn't true you have to create your life instead of extra living in the imagination like i did , just look around and be grateful for the things u have this is the fondemtal step then go for the change
You have to indentfy it if it's healthy or not , this is based on you , and i said in the comment EXTRA imagination( like imagining yourself has a car which is SO okay and good but you are not working in real life to get that car which is here no okay ) @Alatus_25709
Yeah but he's right me too i was the typa person to imagine the best life and being delulu in my mind but that wasn't true you have to create your life instead of extra living in the imagination like i did , just look around and be grateful for the things u have this is the fondemtal step
This is why I followed you because of all the good advices and insights you give that is relatable and life changing when realized to one's self because "understanding the self is not simple, it takes time and effort"-Socrates Thank you Tulio or may i say Tulip!
Fiz 21 em julho, nas férias, e fazer aniversário nas férias é bizarro e incrível porque meus amigos tão sempre longe e meus pais trabalhando normal e eu em casa sozinha... Welp. Não sei o que to fazendo nessa vida e também não estou me esforçando 100% pra dar o melhor de mim, e eu meio que escolhi isso e tá tudo bem...
Tomorrow I'm going to turn 21 and I'm nervous, there"s so much going on my mind like what changes will occur by both mentally and physically, am i a good human being to my close ones ,to myself? Ofcourse what I'm doing right now will affect my future, am i doing right things ? What i am becoming? Do i know myself? I'm clueless. I want to know all the answers. I want to make a better future for me and for my family, you know the right thing to do now is just to study ,crack the exam ,go to my desired University, study what i like , make my parents proud , i want to see a proud smile on their faces , i want them to feel the love that i have for them until it's too late. Sorry I'm writing this all here ,I'm just emotional right now.. don't know whom to tell this all ,maybe it's also a thing that is changing with me.. I'm gonna miss my past years i promise to my younger self.. I'll be a good human ❤️
The last one is so true because when I start trusting someone and want to share something, it all falls apart. They reveal who they truly are and why they've been hanging around these past days-because they've now found someone more fun than me, maybe
Happy Birthday! Your advice really hit towards raw reality and growth. I thought the last one was going to be something like "Friends are like snowflakes...they're all different in a way that makes them inherently unique. Each have their own stories and struggles. Cherish the good moments you've had even as they may be there one moment and gone the next..." or something like that. The pee on them and they go away is relevant too though! 😂
he means by creating stories fantasizing. If it becomes a habit, you get that feeling of living in your head which makes it hard to face reality. And I'm living through it right now; trust me, It's unhealthy.
damn tulio this just became my favorite video of all times and the one i needed the most as someone who also recently turned 21, obrigada! ❤ (the last one 🤌
Belated happy birthday Tulio!! You've become our free therapist these days, and it is a big help to me or to us. You may not know it but you've really helped us big time. Hoping you are also taking care of yourself. You are there to help us and we are also here to help you. Love lots, Tulip Gardens 🫡🫡🫡
