I'd also like to add if she doesn't show genuine enthusiasm in getting to know you, then she's not that interested. For example, you send a picture of your cat, and she only responds with 'that's cute' or a smiley. Someone who really likes you will ask follow up questions (i.e : "what's his/her name?, how old?, How long have you had the cat? Etc).
Ok so this is a long story but I had this gf in 6th grade and it was a pretty good relationship but then I got to overprotective for her but the only reason I did it was bc I liked her a lot and then she made me cry and that’s hard to do bc I never cry from girls but then a couple of months after our breakup, she told my friends that she likes me still and has for a while, I couldn’t tell if I liked her or not bc I was still hurt but I js asked her out and she said yes, and few weeks later we realized it wouldn’t work out and we js went to crushes, I got lied to and we got into a fight about stuff and she betrayed me and dated my best friend so I’ve been trying to hide this for a little bit but I’m still kinda mad, even tho I don’t like her but if you have an ex and she was your first girl that cared abt you, and she dated someone that she told me to not worry abt, how would you feel.
I know she doesn't like me at all but.. I just love her. I still don't know about her because sometimes she trys to keep me away when I am almost getting into a fight and teases me sometimes.. I just love her with all my heart and I think she is just a nice girl.. and I am just a friend for her.. i think she feels more happy with others Than me.. now.. she stay with people who can leave her anytime without hesitation but doesn't treat me that well.. she just treats me like I am some supporting role.. I was born to stay alone maybe.. I thought she was the one because she asked about my mom's health when she was sick and was gonna have a operation. When no one of the friends asked
I am a girl explaining We are hard to get cause we think if we are to easy we will get the wrong person we want someone who is not going to break our hearts We reach last because we are scared u won't think the same We take long to reply because we don't want to come off wrong or say something wrong.
last you will end up with a bad giy and realise the things u broken all the good guys heart and how cruel u were.. a staright ignorance is better than playing and giving hope bitch… yes BITCH
Dude nooo As a girl I hate messaging people first bc I worry that I’m bothering them Playing hard to get is different from rejection And I’m j really bad at checking my messages Dw bro :)
@jackperkins3929 that really makes no sense.. if you don't ever reach out first and the dude is always doing it then it shows more that you aren't bothered about losing them or what they will think of you coz you don't really care what happens. Guys reach out first coz we want to stay in contact and make sure we know that the other person is still interested or doing well, this should be reciprocated by the girl otherwise we will simply start to doubt you and then lose interest (how quickly we lose interest will ofc depend on how much we like you and how long we are willing to wait, convincing ourselves otherwise before realising that you aren't invested as much as we are). Basically just reciprocate and reach out like us guys do and trust me, no one in their right mind will think you're bothering em 😆
@@willvrtist no ur absolutely right but I just get scared they’re gonna hate me or think I’m annoying yk (idk how to phrase it without sounding like a pick me 🥲)
Yo whenever I’m walking in the halls in highschool she’ll like call me like sigma or smt like the brainrot shit and she always does it cause I think she does it to annoy me and laughs at me and when I’m taking sometimes she’ll look at me. Any signs?
This gave me confidence and I asked her out. I think I was too early and I probably should have gotten to know her before I asked maybe she would have said yes. Now my chances are down the drain and I'm not gonna try again because I don't want to embarrass my self infront of every one I know. Edit: my friends have started ignoring me and one ended up hanging out with my old crush. At this point I'm losing all of my friends because they think I'm weird that I can't get a girl. Recently I've tried to talk to them and now all they can point out is all the bad things about me. Don't make the same mistake I did. I'm thinking about ending it all.
@@oplavenderno seriously, the one who loves you truly or even wanted to be friends with you will not keep you hanging on a rope. Instead she would cut the rope or pull the rope. The one who loves never keep hanging and if they do, then be ready to be one cold mf
fuck that if she doing this i'll zoom out i'll try to reach her but playing hard to get every time i'll go find me someone else we're not playing the game tag ✌🏾
Incorrect, cause she's on her way here like she always does, cause she's just scared cause she's never been loved and I love her to pieces, she knows where her safe spot it.
Yeah this is true i just broke up with my gf because she wasn't responding that fast i always had to be the first one to text and she didn't even say I love you back so yeah life hits hard
Yeah bro if a girl is truly into you she’ll initiate contact first when it comes to texting or calling I’ve been left on read so many times bro and I honestly can’t do anything about it you CANT control what she does you just can’t if she’s genuinely interested in you she’ll hit you up first
Yep, in that case she's just putting up with you while being minimally polite. Try disappearing then ironically she might just reach out asking "Where'd ya go?"
Tbh some people love someone specially girls but then they act out like this for no reason and I’m like “ She is not worth it man” “She is not the one your looking for”
I just become a friend not just the i like you part when you like someone just be a friend for a while it might take weeks, months ,years but hang tight being friends so she can realized you are a true keeper
As a girl, it's not correct cuz we ignored guys and reply them after hour etc, cuz we want them to miss us and love us more, sometimes we want to test they really love us or he will just give up.We acted like we don't like them.We don't like to talk to them first, cuz we don't want them to know our feelings.
I'm feeling happy becuse none of these 3 things are in my girl actually he proposed me he always reaches me first and she texts me first ❤ but the sad thing is she's gone another city for studies and I'm employed in other city 😢
honestly, girls usually play hard to get because the guys might show a lot less effort than the girl. (not saying this is the case in all relationships, it could even be the opposite) playing hard to get shows u if the guy truly wants you based off his reaction to you playing hard to get.
Yesterday I tell I like her to my crush. I want one help. You gave me suggestions because u are also one girl. That girl tell me (Sorry but I'm not interested in relationships). After this word I think he is not interested in me or relationship 😔.
What if she ignores me cause i break her heart but now im more painful than her so now she doesnt even care about me exists is this applicable for me im thankful if you give answer❤
I feel upset about what I did last year, bc theres this boy named e and I didn't like him bc it's mostly bc I don't know his personality and he asked me out I didn't know what to say bc if I say no that would be rude and if I said yes then I would just end up hurting him I didn't like him and, two girls grabbed my arms so I couldn't run I was horrified they basically said yes for me and I never liked him... So now this year he told the school again that he likes me even though I broke up with him.. I don't like him And I said yes bc I didn't know what to say bc if I say no then the whole school would most likely make fun of me or something And I broke up with him Friday and I only told some people in my class and he hasn't heard it yet I don't like his personality. And now I'm fuckin scared for school tomorrow.
Well im not surprised ive already been through tough shit i dont even know what love barely is anymore even my goddamn family hates me i dont even know what trust is anymore either
Okay tbh the last one I’m not sure if it’s just me but when I don’t reply either I’m not on my phone and doing work or I see it and am bout to reply but think he doesn’t care about what I will say
My girlfriend does the last two but she sometimes reaches out on her own, don’t think of the last two as she’s not interested, most people just are busy, me being a guy who is not to busy I just be patient, I go too the gym focus on myself and I reach out to her because I know my girl, some girls prefer the guy too reach out my girlfriend says we’re 50/50 so don’t think too much into it just be yourself and you are chilling.
Number 2 is probably the most important one if a girl is too lazy or just doesn’t care to initiate plans with you or you always have to be the one to reach out to her FIRST that is a dead giveaway she’s just not into YOU it sucks but that just the way it is unfortunately you CANT make a girl like YOU
Nah tho this girl was flirtin wit me right but she doesn't like me its not that she played me she made me feel special for 3 seconds She rejected me right i was ok wit dat like a man should i mean it hurt but got to move on Sad part was She told the hole damn school
This is not true 1. It's because we have strict parents and you have to wait for us, and plus were seeing if you really want us 2.it depends 3.BRO WHAT? WERE JST BLUSHING SOMETIMES
guys have to jump through all kinds of hoops to get a relationship while girls don't have to do anything but just simply exist. Nowadays even a 2 or a 3 female is getting more attention than a guy who's a 8 or 9
Not true. Some women play hard to get because your really good looking and they must think you get alot of attention from women. So therefore they try to be different from the rest and make you wonder why they are not throwing themselves at you.
What I don’t get is that the girl I talked to took 1 whole entire week exactly to reply to my texts but each time she would keep asking me questions. I feel like I’m getting mixed signals there no ?
@@fu_zoid6821 she asks me about work a lot of the time and what I like todo for fun and stuff generally about myself. She does keep the conversations going