This is one of the most useful videos I watched in a long time, this kind of behaviour match better with my personality. I got rid of the most of my social anxiety but things didn't seem to improve with girls, I'm failing at something and this gives me some clues to overcome this hard situation I'm going through.
Exactly :( I’m a people pleasing, but sometimes I think: “oh, they’re gonna think I’m weird or flawed because I do so much for them? This is bad? This is strange? I make people uncomfortable?” I’m trying to understand how to manage these things
I remember someone asking me during a match "are you some psycho serial killer" and I'm like what? And they go "why are you so nice and all, what are you hiding" lol.
Your videos are very good. Your information is very grounded and focused. Not like creators "Things you are doing wrong etc.". I am glad I found your channel. All the best for your growth and many more informative videos to come :)
1. Always take Francesca along with you ( but only like a super power : only in certain situations ) 2. Everyone will be drawn to Francesca ( duh!) 3. They might ask who you are, ignore you or Francesca might even introduce you ( does Francesca have such etiquette?..🤔).
I have a dead eye eyes as you call them and I found myself trying to act really serious because last time i joke no one took me seriously for me is people either find me cute or mysterious and cool and its all because of my looks 💀
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 0:19 OH MY GOSH my friend said this about me!!! I’ve approached beautiful men before and came to find out one of them flat out told me later he was nervous because he felt that I was “too attractive.” In my head I’m like I don’t see that my ugly duckling season was humbling but people don’t see that. This is so trueee even for some of my gorgeous friends are rarely approached 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Love these tips. Please do an elaborate video on the first point - How ot be more open especially if you have had trauma regarding the opposite gender. Please Please!!
Imo, No 3 is the most important, although more easily said than done. However, when you achieve it, not only you become more attractive, but you get true control of your life. Still trying to reach that level.
I get anxious easily. I feel a sudden burden in my heart. Whenever i get to know which i don't want to know. What should i do? Please help. Please make a video on it 🙏🙏
When I was 21 and skinny and going to places, no one would approach me in public or talk to me. Now I'm 34 and fat and generally have that vibe of "let's all just try to get through this day shall we" and they practically cross the street just to say hi. 😂
Idk... I'm alsays kinda scared that people are gonna judge me at the end of the day. And they actually do. That's why I've always been hiding my true self in public and can't be comfortable enough when I talk. People hate me and i hate myself too. I'm so repellant
Stop talking about me, lol. Yes all this is true, be relatable, be interesting, be real and comfortable in your own skin. All the attention can be fun but does get annoying at times, leave me alone already, I’m just here for the photo ops and the music. 😂 Makes no sense, I attract more women just minding my own business than any other way. go figure I grew up on stage classically trained in the arts and being a cartoon character at heart manage to attract people even when I’m wanting my own space and trying to be invisible. As the saying goes, smile and let the world wonder what you’re up to. And then vanish as magically as the Cheshire Cat that you are. All that definitely has it’s downsides, in particular seems to bring out much anxiety and insecurity in some women, while others find it rather endearing.
