3 Things Men NEED From Women 

Sorry for your loss

Requiescat in Pace

This actually made cry of just imagining that tim left this world with, at least, some peace and happiness

Your a good woman and he no doubt knew this in you and how you felt. Without respect love cannot sustain and grow and I pity the youth that are being taught that it is empowered womanhood to disrespect men and themselves and it will lead so many to misery. Sorry for your loss and again: You are a good woman.

Rip, I am sure he is.

Thank you 🙏

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Mad Jack (my uncle) used to say to me : 'The soul of man is divided into three parts: intelligence, reason and passion. Intelligence and passion are possessed by other animals, but reason by man alone.' - Pythagoras (c.570 - c.495 BC) women = Lacking in reason & logic

@@RebeccaBarrett As I think you can see 👀 there are few women here online thanking you for that extremely sound advice? Very 😟 unfortunate, but it's unlikely that any significant % percentage of "mod-women" in our culture today will even think about taking heed to that wonderful relationship advice you gave?.. So 😥 sad, but true..

@@RebeccaBarrett Please keep putting it out there.. Some ladies will eventually start listening to reason? Maybe?.. In The Meantime, Guys will Be Like 🚀 Jetting ✈ Out On Them..! Fellas.. *NEVER MARRY A FEMINIST!* 👩 If she happens to be the only type of girl to date available at the ⌚ time_ cool Ok, kick it with her a bit. But, Do Not Marry Her! (We've gotta be careful, don't knock-up a Chick you know that you ain't gonna be with?) Stay on point, keep on your mission! Guys.. We've gotta "collectively" drop these "femfatales" like 🔥 hot 🍳 skillets! When they 👀 see their more feminine 💃 counterparts move on to more fulfilling, harmonious relationships, and_ that they're not being chosen in mass perhaps, they'll finally get the message? Or, they can just stay right where they are, kicked to the curb & left in the dust, with their feminist attitudes and all... ✌😎

@@jacqueandrew1033 - Do yo mean physical affection ?

Men needs to respect women, degrading, MONEY, sex

Also the very very same, needs to be shown to women as well

Also the very very same, needs to be shown to women as well

return to patrichial system abolish communism

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I envy you.😢

100% correct!

@@RebeccaBarrett also some peace and space

Soo true. It is a matter of disagreement often with my girlfriend. Sometimes she cannot understand that I need may be 2 hrs per day to do my own thing, all alone, in my corner without interacting with her...

@@fabricembida4526 exactly..we need peace.Send your emotional needs to the garbage bin for awhile.

Agree! I have never had to nag my husband. I ask and he does not because he feels he has to but because he loves me and knows I will do the same for him. I pray every morning and evening thanking God that I am blessed with a wonderful husband.

Facts

Facts. Its our currency. Respect is love for us

@@TheAdamSmasherMultiverse I don't care about a woman's respect , I want my brothers respect and woman's desire that's it.

Truth

It's not mutally exclusive. If she's not attracted to me im completely turned off and ill be gone before she can blink. If she doesn't respect me, that's the same thing as love. Now if you're talking love as in sex, sex is necessary obviously because why would a guy date you if he isnt getting any? But with that said sex does comfortably take a back seat if other needs are met. If other needs like valuing him arent met then thats when sex becomes the forfront because it's like "youre not giving me what I want emotionally" so Imma get what I can from you physically and dip.

Just make sure don't coincide the feminism and gender equality both are different in nature.

Good Luck 🍀 I’m 63 ugh 😑

and because women mature emotionaly 11 years sooner than males but age physically 11 years sooner there need be 11 years younger than male to minimize conflicts and age gracefully together rathar than disputes and divorces

Absolutely correct and if every woman follows it the relationship will be joyous and peaceful forwarded forever 💙

@@chris532008 That's a modern-day problem I think. People in my village would mature really young. Like 10 years the old child had the mindset of 30 year old. Obviously, things were tight back then.

Duh that's not housewives do that's the professional women I've noticed never in history was a housewife frumpy ! Go look for yourself

My mother taught me exactly this

The same goes for men and not just women.

@@n.d.m.515Of course. Not really relevant though. This is a conversation about women.

She will lie and cheat too to better her situation dude. It's called hypergamy.

the list is food, s, and silence. see chris rock.

@@last7509 the 3 Fs

I think most women gets it. They just disregard the real world

The Force is strong in this one...but she's not a Jedi yet.

And feminists wonder why men want to marry a woman like her. Attractive , feminine and respects and supports her husband.

@Jessica Tanaka says the banana gobbler.

@Jessica Tanaka Jezebel ? Did they just defrost you ?

@Jessica Tanaka I think you would have some tears of your own - reading the comment section on a clip like this..

@Sarah Belkerson Oh, is it your genetic memory that keeps reminding you of the "thousands of years" of serving you DIDN'T do? You stated your problem perfectly. You're selfish. No one is asking you to "serve" us. We're asking for a mutually giving relationship. You want respect, but offer none, and you will probably never learn because what all feminists lack is accountability. You'll just keep blaming the patriarchy or some other bullshit, then wonder why no guy wants anything to do with you. Enjoy your lonely life!

Same bro!!! And every married friend of mine is the same too

Valid point

That's facts bro

Yep. Never, *ever* take advice from someone that's not capable of doing in practice what they're attempting to teach you. You don't go to a white belt to learn self defense, you don't learn to shoot from someone that's never held a pistol, you shouldn't take relationship advice from someone that's never had a relationship last longer than 3 months.

@@kuuryotwo5153like kevin samuels? Lol

@@yveje9720 He's mostly just telling them how a guy sees it and uses logic to explain results of choices. Many of the women approach him thinking men pick based on what motivates her. "I want someone to comfort me in my old age." Okay. But men want to play with grandchildren in their old age, or go fishing( or his personal equivalent thereof). A honeydo works against that goal.

Like women out in radioland give a damn about what she said

Stop with the foolishness. The earth is flat lol.

Chameleon?!

I agree! Now we only have 3.5 billion females to educate.

Lol, don't worry guys it's only 1 woman who thinks like this, the rest are just as terrible as we already know

Aww... so heartwarming. You have a wonderful,loving, marriage!

Sorry but I'll pick put my own clothes thank you very much. I'm not incapable. I know a shyt ton of men are in that regard.

if she was picking out YOUR clothes , then she is being your Mommy.

I dig the name. Most people won't get it.

​@@damonhart1268 Well, she is the mother of our children and does play a motherly role but I think the analogy falls short after that. I prefer to view it rather as seeing to each other's well being.

I liked her words better.

At least slap me on the back of the head call me an asshole as you float by.

@@brianjacobsen5762 Yeah, that silent treatment really sucks.

@@rickt1154 Not exactly That would be a perfect world.

I was thinking about this recently and it seems to me that what has happened is that, as men, we're brought up to be tough and are slowly starved of physical affection as we get older because only the weak need affection. The only time it's acceptable for us to have physical affection is when it is a part of sex. Then we don't know there is a difference between the two. Then we get ourselves in all sorts of trouble with promiscuity and infidelity because we don't know how to read our needs. For example, I know if I'm craving chocolate milk, I'm thirsty and I just need to chug some water and the craving will go away.

Amen

What u said was absolutely correct but l will add that men's foremost love is through his stomach

I like your advice. I have some requests to you. Question is, 1. Do women like wathing porn & which type prefer maximum women? 2. Who enjoys more sex, men or women? 3. Who is feeling better on top position, men or women? 4. Do women like younger guys than themselves & why? 5. Thick or slim, which type girls maximum men prefer? 6. Rough or slow passionate sex, which type maximum women prefer? 7. Do women like body hair & which part? Please do some people’s survey and explain these. Thanks

God bless this lady she is the best

hell yeah!

@@abdulmazed9163 what da?.... thats a lot your asking for answers... but hey... ill do my research and will come tell... wait for it.

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@@WhyteHorse2023 He has also RU-vid channel (same name). His videos have usually up to 3 hours long, but are full of mind-blowing info. Diving through it will change your life (no exaggeration). Take the red pill.

I am so sorry. You deserve to be treated with respect. Just a suggested - next time she starts barking orders at you, tell her to “go back to the office, Mr. Vice President.” 🤨

you just got an involuntary change of roles in your relationship. Pray for your wife and for your marriage, pray together if you can, read how the Bible talks about "women honor your husbands, husbands cherish and love your wide like Jesus loves the church that died for us"

Kk

Well Mr. Gray... serious upside to your situation is, she'll be paying alimony to you while you enjoy your new girlfriend 😎

You should really watch the queer kiwi's video. She i think gets it better.

@@RiyaSharma-fx5sl I'll definitely check it out, thank you for the suggestion

Haha thank you. That’s the goal of my channel, to help more women in relationships. It’s a win win for everyone 🙌

Don't be fooled by a trojan horse.

@@mrbas5150 Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.

@@mrbas5150 I am confused! Who or what is the trojan horse here? Seriously. I don't get it. When you explain it to me be straight and clear.

@@carlsutherland3730 Rebecca. The idea being that she is faking it to get something off men (revenue from youtube's monetization).

Exactly 💯

It didn't need to be said. This lady makes a living pandering to you idiots and y'all keep falling for it

@@bitchmood7658 wwll she's not saying anything wrong and just as long as her intentions are right it's OK.

@@Valconize this lady isn't wrong, but she's acting as if most women don't know this already. It's common sense.

@@bitchmood7658 and your name is?

Same. I'm 42, but honestly happier without the harpie in my life. Find things you enjoy, and work on yourself. When these modern women get to my age, they're looking for any simp they can get to provide for them. Just don't commit to any other woman...ever. they want your money, not your love.

Welcome to the club. Newly divorced after 23 years. Never again.

Yep, going through a divorce after 22 years. She changed, went hard left on me. Had to have everything her way and could care less what it cost me physically, emotionally, financially. When I finally pushed back and asked where we could compromise, she got a divorce attorney. Fortunately I guessed she would do that and already had one. I could have had full custody of my 7 kids, I had enough dirt on her that it was a possibility. I settled for joint custody which is a win for men in this world. Now I'm rekindling the friendships with my guy friends that died during my "marriage". Would I like a woman in my life? Sure, but it's not worth the hassle right now. Working on myself to become who I always wanted to be first. Then we'll see about relationships when I no longer "need" someone.

@@cd-dw2ml I am about to go through a divorce and our 25th anniversary would have been in October

@@ponderrous2659 I understand you 100%. I am currently doing the same thing: DJing, playing basketball, visiting family and friends. It is disappointing that it couldn't work, we couldn't have grown, honest, accountable conversations, and live a more balanced life. However the upside is we know better now how to create boundaries and balance.

Exactly

Whoa! Well said

Feminism can ruins marriages.

Congrats!

Feminist

I've said this across multiple red pill and psych channels. Women confuse the word servitude and submissive and the definition of it with something opprrssive and controlling. Love. Real love. Agape love not romantical whimsical love is submitting yourself with trust and vulnerability before someone worthy of it. Even Jesus Christ knew better. He washed the feet of his own aoostles despite being their master.

Submission is not the same as subservience. Submission is given willingly out of love or at least respect. Subservience is given out of fear or danger. A lot of women mix these 2 words up. Men submit to their women and women submit to their men. Women submit a lot of their autonomy to his leadership outside of the home, and men submit a lot of their autonomy inside the home. Both sides need to be honored because both are equally important if they're doing their job correctly.

I completely agree, especially since women have less problems with finding a man they can have intimacy with, but at the same time be either cruel or coldly practical with men while denying men real substance. They care little how much this hurts men unless it effects them directly.

🤣🤣🤣

That's a tall order in 2021. You'd be lucky to find on that had two of those.

@@kuuryotwo5153 Sad truth, moder women can be so pointless. 😒

@@alltheworldsastage4785 how to you feel about modern men? Do u think they have it all figured out?

Amen amen say it again

I was going to say this, but at the very beginning she said "for relationships". Obviously if we're not seeking a relationship, doesn't apply.

Maybe stop treating women as if they're needy in the first place? Women want ADULT men, not children looking to be spoiled.

accountability is their kryptonite

I had to teach my ex wife how and when to say sorry. She had no idea.

Respect should be enough for now, accountability is kryptonite. You'd be lucky to get a whiff of it.

This I can work with plus the affection. The submission part is ridiculous.

This young lady is spot on. Everyone deserves respect but men need it like they need air. Men desperately want respect and women desperately want to be cherished.

You're right

Only if the man is being submissive, if anything men are shamed for NOT being that, even when it's absolutely beyond their will to be that. Happened to me in a narcissistic abusive family as the youngest, my twin sister being enabled to be very abusive and manipulative to me and me being forced to be 'submissive' in general, even though that wasn't my personality at all. I'm a lot like a sigma male, I have no problem assuming a fairly submissive role with leaders, depending on WHO it is, that's what they didn't get. I could be a leader, but ONLY if I truly believed I was the best leader, I'd say if I think another person would be better for the role. But I can't stand people that want to lead because of their ego, or because they're just a narcissistic abusive person. I'm naturally a strong, intelligent, 'independent' type with a strong will, patience, and discipline(more so than most adults when I was only 12 TBH), basically everything narcissists can't stand partly because they wish THEY were true intellectuals and things like that instead of having to fool others into thinking they're 'smart'. I ended being the scapegoat/invisible child/truth teller because of it. I seldom spoke truth because of how abusive everyone could be, often punishing me for months on end for calmly speaking truth in the most respectful way possible. I would only do it when it was really necessary and important to me, partly because I knew it most likely would have no positive outcome and just cause problems, but if there was even a small chance I could successfully hold my dad for example accountable. The total lack of self-awareness and accountability was unreal. Like he asks me if I want to go fishing with an uncle, and I jokingly make a play on word choices or whatever and make it VERY clear with a smile, tone, ect I'm joking, and he acts like it's serious. Then 4 months later he asks me and is clearly still so mad about before not understanding even after saying SEVEN times I was joking, but he's so stubborn once he sees something a certain way, treating his assumptions like 'fact' because God forbid he ever realizes and admits he was wrong to see something a certain way. He's almost shaking, asks if I want to go fishing, doesn't even give me a chance to answer, and says if I don't want to go I can just go anyway. Then 7 months later after I totally stop joking with him, he asks me why I never joke with him and takes is so personally, omfg. I tell him EXACTLY why and he still doesn't get it. Meanwhile he tries to play his 'jokes' seriously, and I have a great sense for when someone is joking, but he knows I know he's joking, and keeps acting 'serious'. Then the instant I start to actually wonder is he actually serious, THEN he plays it off like I'm being ridiculous to think he wasn't joking. That or jokes at my expense and I don't necessarily take it personally, I just don't think it's funny, then my brother in particular LOVES making 'jokes' at other's expense, then gets upset when people don't think it's funny, even though he's the worst at taking jokes at his own expense and everyone knows it, and that's partly why it bugs people. He's so narcissistic he expects people to ignore that and let him make jokes at other's expense, AND act like he's soooo funny to top it off, and not ever give him shit back. I don't react at all and he tries to act like I'm 'being ridiculous', I can be the most nonreactive person and people will act as if that means I'm 'upset' or whatever when they're trying to bait me or get under my skin. That or it's ONLY because I know how extremely patient I can be with the bullshit, but they absolutely can't take the slightest negative criticism, I literally don't even have to actually say or do anything, just LOOK like I'm bothered by anything they say or do in life or like I'm losing my patience and it'll offend them. Or here's a good one, my dad will say about someone else "He thinks his shit don't stink!". He can be so pathetic when it comes to being a people pleaser and almost act like he's a 'victim' because of it, like when I knock on the bathroom door when he's mid-shit but I don't know it at the time. He instantly flushes, doesn't even wipe or wash his hands, just pulls his pants up but hasn't zipped yet, when I could just use the upstairs bathroom as his way of trying to be 'considerate', even though I'd rather he not do that partly because I'm left with a shit-smelling bathroom, and it makes it hard for me to respect him. I REALLY wanted a dad I could respect but he didn't realize how hard he made that, even with me saying exactly what he could do that would help, like not be so passive-aggressive and childish and act like I'm the problem when I refuse to respect that, and convinced everyone else I'm the problem and not him. I try to downplay my reaction to the smell of his shit, but not necessarily try to repress it totally and don't think too much about that. He sees me react just slightly, and gets OFFENDED by that. So I'm either supposed to totally repress the reaction altogether or pretend his shit smells good I guess, I can't even believe the irony when he says FIGURATIVELY that someone doesn't think their shit stinks, and then LITERALLY thinks his doesn't. Sorry I wasn't going to go on a rant quite that long, but sometimes I get carried away once I get started lol. Recently watching videos on narcissism by Dr. Ramani made me realize how rare of a person I actually am, a lot of adults even can't spot red flags and bullshit, it takes a gifted kid to see that, even when I was only 8 but 12 is when I was really starting to realize it could be a lifelong problem if I don't try my best to call people out and hopefully get people to see the problems I did, and things that needed to change, but I didn't realize how hopeless it was to hold on to false hope and optimism as long as I have.

Lol. I think so, maybe.

@@brians1793 It's funny that so many feminists push for that but then when they find a submissive man they're completely unattracted to him because deep down that's not the type of man that women actually want.

@@elmateo77 Yeah, I'm realizing one of the hidden intentions of feminism is to disrupt human biology. That and body positivity is basically brain-washing women into committing self-harm, like 's*xual liberation' ruining pair-bonding for good, and self-improvement is basically 'self-hate' when it comes to being overweight. It's like telling a hard drug addict they should love themselves for being an addict and not do anything about it, or a smoker, it's ridiculous. Then even top 10% attractive men are shamed for refusing to date morbidly fat women, even when the women themselves openly admit they're not attracted to men their size and won't date them. When you're an older guy that still has a strong love of women, like a fatherly tough love of younger women in particular, it honestly hurts to see how much it's actually hurting women. I've been realizing smart phones and social media is like a Trojan horse families take in that is ruining them within. Especially since the pandemic, it's like the whole country has become a massive digital 'tribe', but humans have a hard time comprehending past 120-150 people as being humans. I'm realizing I was really born a high-value male when it comes to things like intelligence, traits, ect. I can't help but feel like I'm an older member of a tribe and our women are under attack and being turned against us. IDK if I mentioned this in my past comment, but feminism incentivizing women to phase out fathers besides also ruining men and making men less attractive in the first place, is like a less blatant way of enslaving men than killing their wife and kids. It's almost more evil, because when enslaving the masses it's more ideal to keep them alive and convince them it's to their benefit. Much like people were convinced their smart phones are benefiting them, when it's actually part of what's enslaving us.

Women turn to feminism because they think they've been slighted, that they need power. Women have always had the power.

yeah dumbass keeps saying "desperately" and i see most women screaming back "thats needy!!". Ofc spoiled women think everything is needy.

@Jessica Tanaka All I mentioned was frequency. If you can't handle that, join a nunnery.

@Jessica Tanaka You are the one who broached the topic. Do you expect people not to share person experiences at all? I think the key is that I'm an, and I quote, "old guy". If a young bride said more or less the same thing do you really think your reaction would be the same? One of disgust and revulsion? My post, as of this writing, has 24 upvotes, and you are the only one that responded negatively, or at all. You are the first one to respond negatively when I've shared this story, as a matter of fact. Which tells me the problem is not with what I've said, rather, misandry and ageism is the problem.

​@Jessica Tanaka Yes. By all means, let's keep repressing the conversation in public. Let's keep the 1950s in full swing. Let's perpetuate puritan stigmas. Healthy relationships require open communication - not only between partners, but between humans as well. Rather than continuing to leave "the norm" up to the imagination, it's *far* better to put it out into the open so "the norm" is understood. That doesn't mean "the norm" must be obliged by everyone - what works for one person may or won't work for another. What it *does* do is removes societal shame based on incorrect assumptions from a person's imagination. If you think that's "too much information", you and reality are going to butt heads - often.

Grow up

Jessica

Yea they definitely don’t want another mother. Oh dang, that sucks

I hear you.. I know a guy who wants to be a stay-at-home dad while his wife will be the breadwinner (doctor as well). He has a marketing degree though so he'll probably work and then eventually at home.. Not super common but definitely an interesting dynamic!

Not "can't," WON'T! Most women have learned that if you act like you can't do something, then no one will expect you to do it, and someone with come to the rescue. Me learn to suck it up, and get it done because no one is coming to save you.

@@knownothing3999 Women who act like children or victims are not attractive to most men. It is a big turn off. Men want women tghat are feminine and supportive. I am glad my wife is just that and more.

@@stevec3526 agreed. I, too, have what most would consider a good woman, but she's tried the "I don't how" routine around the house once.

That’s so great to hear. I tell women, men are not that complicated they just need respect, support and a little suga lol. My husband agrees lol

You’re welcome, I’m glad you liked the video

Thank you 🙏

Thank you, I really appreciate it. Trying to help these women out here see the truth.

Yeah, she might as well ride the wave for the next 4-5 years and it will be some completely new issue men and women in western culture will be facing. Then her and the rest of them can hopefully ride that if there is anything left to save.

Sorry to ask this...what on earth is a modern 304? Sounds more like a Droid model number or some form of robot.

@@llcooldrockindahouse4631 Type it on a calculator and turn it upside down. Rude word that is flagged by RU-vid.

@@llcooldrockindahouse4631 But a droid number is an apt description. Robotic sex, completely impersonal.

Thank you!

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m glad you found value in my video. I’m hoping more women will be encouraged by videos so they can make their men happy and feel loved.

@@RebeccaBarrett absolutely, and I showed this to a friend and she agreed that she's made these mistakes in the past and got rather melancholy about it. Looks like you made a difference with two people.😉

You're not the only one, sir. I married an incredibly beautiful woman I met at Church - I often refer to her as an Asian version of Jessica Rabbit. She was sweet. She was submissive. She was supportive. She liked classic rock AND the three stooges (she was 11 years my junior)! She was a lot of fun. And then she got pregnant. And she became someone I didn't know. I gave her grace while she was pregnant. While she was nursing. While she was starting her business. While we moved. While we bought and moved into a house. Then one day as we were preparing to move out of the house (we lost) she was going on one of her rampages and it occurred to me: "OMG, this is who she really is! She's never going to be that person I met, fell in love with and made a child with"! She had pulled a total 180 on me! All the while I was working a full AND part time job to try and keep us afloat financially. I also did most of the cooking, cleaning, shopping, household budgeting, driving and when she wanted a dog we got one and I had to take care of her too ( that dog's sleeping at my feet right now - lol!). Marriage counseling - I did it. Church attendence, Bible study groups? "Praise the Lord!" I'm in! I Gave her validation constantly (which, watching these pro-man RU-vid channels they tell me is the worst thing in the world you can do for a woman!). Finally, when our Son went off to college, she went with him to keep an eye on him. While we were in the process of figuring out how we would move forward in the relationship she came down with a really bad case of CoVid and passed away two weeks later (January 2021). My whole life for 20 years was centered around trying to make her happy, so now I have this big hole in me. I miss her greatly, but honestly my life is so much simpler and easier now. Working on fixing me. I put on 140lbs during the 22 year marriage, during the last three months I've lost 40lbs of it! It's an exciting journey of recovery - and the dog she made us get keeps me feeling needed, respected and loved! Still a lot to work through, though. Best of luck to both of us. Thanks for listening.

@@oldtymer9106 I appreciate that you honored your vows and kept your covenant with God. I've unfortunately seen many men, even strong Christian men, break and run in such situations.

@@riverdrop777 I've seen that too Stephanie, and I came very close to breaking and running in 2010, but God sent me a very clear message that he wanted me to stay in the relationship. Around 2014 there was a straw that broke my meek and humble nature and I threatened to walk. After that she calmed down and dialed back the rampages from a level 10 to a 5 which I could tolerate. It was an uneasy, unspoken mutual level of acceptance that we kept in place until she and the kid rode off to College in late 2019. There were weekly or biweekly conversations about our son or her mother's verbal abuse of her (she moved in with her Mom, and it was her Mom who brought CoVid into the home they shared. Her Mom passed away 9 days before my wife, also from CoVid ). It's been quite a journey/adventure. For those who trust in God and keep their end of the bargain he blesses them, one way or another. He certainly did with me. Take care.

Thank you, yea it’s been a trip to watch

In my case, my spouse, it's inexistent, she knows or does nothing.

AAAAMEN DAWG!!!!

Bingo ! 😉

Encouraging

But....a really good woman is more like a Majordomo who Counsels the King. Much respected by the King.

A woman aware of what, when, and how to communicate is able to encourage, inspire, and offer her perspective in an influential manner.

@@davidharrison1502 You mean a Lady? Well put. Certainly qualities worth aspiring to if a modern woman would be so inclined.

I hear that. I was that nagging wife until I changed my ways. Have you spoken to your partner about this? I can hear the frustration in your message.

@@TheSanityMachine33 lots of premarital counseling and we also attend marriage group with other couples who have been married for 20+ years. I learned from our other successful couples.

I told my wife that once, she got angry at me because she knew I was right, as high earner who puts in long hours, some jobs I don't have the skills or I'm just too tired, I pay someone else to do it, hence just get the job done, well she didn't like that

@@gregorybeckom2875 A wise man once told me that there are very few things that a woman can do for a man, that man cannot do for himself. Of the things he needs a woman for, she better be amazing at it. Otherwise, what's the point in having her around? I wish more men understood this.

She is homemaker right? That is her JOB then.

Thank you 🙏

Oh God I just released why most of the time I was so unhappy I just thought it was me

Much respect to you an he is a very lucky man GODblessyou guys

Your friends should recognise how a stunning supportive you are just to say he seems to be really lucky too

more importantly, when a woman is submissive, the man and all he is and all he has, in turn, becomes totally hers. In other words, it's about investment and return.

What so many women don't understand is that "submitting" to a husband does not preclude them being a strong woman. In it's most basic form, the term just means that he's got a majority vote. Unless the man doesn't respect his woman, then she has the ability to influence things without turning into a bitch, and still be able to buck up and accept when he decides that "this is the way it needs to be". But if he doesn't respect her opinion at all, then it's just going to be a nightmare for her.

Yes but I wouldn't call them women. Just little girls in grown women's bodies.

@Sarah Belkerson If you can't accept your role, it's not gonna work out for you. Power sounds comtrolling to me and is not what Random Guy meant.

@Sarah Belkerson Grown adults such as the WW2 gen and before, call it "investment and return". Submission is the investment. Love, children, eternal life, protection, and good quality of life are the return. Societies that understand this live on...those that don't understand, have inadequate reproduction rates and die off. Darwinism is alive and well.