Modern Woman Gets Humbled At Relationship Conference | Rebecca Reacts 

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Men know what men know. Ur husband nvr even met the guy n he knew what the guy was talking about.

Yes! Women always think that men only care about the way a woman looks, but the truth is we care a lot more about the way she acts. Sure, the looks will get our attention first, but if you're not a lady that's as far as it goes.

@@jackgunn1480 preach!!!!!

BUT looks ATTRACT. It gets the foot in the door. Then we fake all we want. We will act however you 2ant us to. If a woman wants you to be interested in her all she needs is looks. She can fake the rest.

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If she is Sikh you're getting shanked.

She’ll break your back like bane

I don't have to imagine because I would never be in a relationship with her. MGTOW all the way.

@@tipsy09 she could try. Girl ain't big enough. Quit spreading that bs that women are badasses. Doesn't matter what her backround is.

U can thank the silver screens and policy makers/ law makers.. they make profit from divorce and gain power as they tare down those of us whom designed and built everything ppl take for granted ..

Blunt, cocky and loud women, who would ever want to be with her?? Good God!!

Then don't start wars.

- the minute she tells me she is a strong independent woman, - and how she wants to be treated like a queen, I RUN, RUN, RUN! away from her. - why invite some miserable disagreeable HEADACHE into my life. - life is tough enough as it is. - a man leaves his house in the morning to go to work-WAR - he wants to come home to peace, not another WAR. - and you wonder why men die earlier than women.

so no queens for you? sculler maids perhaps? @@sgtlucifer6883

Most men mistake a combative nature with being strong and independent, just watch men sports.

@@DieselpunkMachine pretty sure you have to have a combative nature to succeed in sports, but okay lol

Yep. One is admirable and the other is intolerable.

@@DieselpunkMachine ...or the WNBA.

Honestly I think it's at least as much internet culture as it is the misconception of being strong and independent, like many other feminist ideals or other ideals from all types of people and groups I believe the idea of being "strong and independent" has been hijacked and distorted by people who have very extreme world views. The internet has made a massive amount of people verbally aggressive and socially combative. I also believe the ability the internet gives to be completely anonymous while also socializing is cognitively contradictory and is completely foreign to any highly social species including humans and has had a profound effect on peoples' social skills.

Haha I know 🤦🏻‍♀️

Modern womyn are so disillusioned that they actually think they can best a man in a physical altercation. If she tried that with any man who was willing to see her as the "equal" she thinks she is (and demands), she'd receive a quick dose of reality.

She is attractive enough for a lot of men... but i guess when she opens her mouth... it's a no go.

She's also single because she's an alpha widow

For real!!

Sounds like she may have been projecting with calling you insecure. It may have been an emotional pay off every time she instigated a confrontation with you and you didn't leave, or that she went toe-to-toe (so to speak) with a strong man and relished the drama? Some people's insecurities lead them to constantly test the strengths of the relationships of those around them.

You tried to communicate with her a problem of hers, and she came back with an insult? Good thing this relationship has come & gone.

Old saying go : it's not what you say but how you say it. A friendly attitude will usually get you better results than a angry attitude.

Had a girl just like that, I slapped her. Then I said, do you think that was insecurity, or me being fed up? I walked out and she came after me.....

But she's not the only one there's a whole lot of women out there like that you have to be very careful what you say to her or she gets offended very combative I won't bother walking on glass for any woman....

men are VERY attractive to strong women...... just not disrespectful, emotionally weak, and ignorant women.

@@mattlol163 and other lies you tell yourself to sleep at night

A man can only be intimidated by that which he fears I've yet in my 50+ years as an adult male met a single woman who could intimidate any of my male friends let alone me What these women are doing is lying to save face by dishonestly referring to they being repugnant to men as intimidating men. I've found a great many attractive woman who had even uglier personalities to be very repugnant but under no circumstances whatsoever ever intimidating

So true

@@ZipMapp Men are toxic! Avoid them at all costs! Stay away from them! You GO girl! No, really, just GO! Do yourself and men a favor and GO! Adopt a cat, instead.

That heavily depends on how you define "being respected"

I think it depends every one would like to be respected idk about right but mostly

If I ask for equal respect I am going to be alone? “Happy wife happy life” Maybe I’m better alone enjoy your elective misery

She missed it by a long shot 🤦🏻‍♀️

She busted his chops the way a guy would. My first thought after she was done was to say to her, “dude, let me buy you a drink…scotch ok?” Act like a girl and people might see you as one.

That’s called The Ego

Yet wonders why the men she craves pass her up. You gotta be really smokin hot to get away with that lmao

@@Genii_Cucullatus they will stay to sleep with her, then discard her. Is that the outcome you want?

Yea I can probably say that being 6’1 has help me date a fair number of women, oh and being good looking helped too 😂

Whats crazy is that 14.5% of US men are 6ft or over. Thats it, she is wanting something as a requirement that only a very small percentage of men have. I'm 5'11 so i would not make the cut either lol.

How very sad. My fiance is shorter then me actually XD and he is what you call "avarage" looking but he is so sweet, dependable, funny, and faithful, . I feel like it's going to take her a long time to grow out of that mindset---looks cant sustain a relationship. Looks cant make a relationship happy. It takes alot more then that. I'm sure you will find a lovely girl who has all her qualities and more. :)

I think 5'8" and 5'9" are tall, but I come from a family where the women are usually 5' to 5'2" on average. The only reason I've attracted guys over 6ft tall is because I'm easy to approach and submissive - and they're usually nerdy or dorky, which I prefer. The height issue is weird to me.

I am only 5'6"... and I've been married for over 37 years now. My lowth was never a "thing" for my wife. That was another sign of the great person she is.

Imagine the hilarious fucked up shit her Indian father would say to reprimand her. It would be like walking into a chappelle special

They are children.

He was way too gentle with her. When she snapped at him he should have pointed out right then and there that that was bro energy.

​@@jamesharlanjohnson6882 That wasn't bro energy. That was c_nt energy.

@@jamesharlanjohnson6882 He might have done that if they were having a private one-on-one coaching session, but in this case the audience was enjoying the interaction. He gave the crowd what they wanted, and he still made his point. That was professional.

Not being nice, lying. If he was truly honest she’d have cried and he’d have been charged with hate speech

Yea she definitely wasnt 1 millimeter off, she was in the complete other side of the spectrum of how to react

He's selling a conference of course he's going to convince people they are SO close they just need ONE more lesson

Yeah it’s worlds apart

learn to love men. "Love" not necessarily on a huge scale, but understand and appreciate what they do. Don't be an a-hole of a woman. There is no love towards men at all. But that means women have 0 value. What value does she really have for a man? She has no empathy, sympathy, I think they can't experience sympathy anymore. So what value? She doesn't answer, she does what she wants, she completely disregards, ignores my position, my needs, my emotion. In fact I think she enjoys watching the pain she causes on men. Why do I need this in my life? Am I approaching a woman to be beaten up and miserable? Then I am not going to approach at all. What am I a biorobot-slave to her? What value does she offer? Nothing. She is not a good person, she does not have common sense, manners. She is an uncontrolled psycho a-hole, who think the rest of the world owes her her happiness. An overgrown spoiled child. That's a feminist or a typical woman. Where is her maturity and understanding that she needs to give something too, that she needs a family or anything else a normal woman should want or need? That it's her family too. Nothing. And then they wonder why we don't want them. Because they have 0 value at all. There is no love. If you can't experience love towards men, then you only manipulate, you only will have fake relationships with fake empty words, but no real feelings, nor conscious understanding of what's going on and what has to be done. Love has to be learned little by little.

Champ! 🏆✨

Right on! Follow your gut.

Godspeed. Good luck sister.

Good luck.

yeah that was uncalled for. imagine what she'd be like in an actual relationship 😬

"women are not violent" *I WILL BREAK YOUR HEAD*

He he had said the exact same thing to her, the police would have been called.

I would have had her arrested. Ladies, I’m the kind of man who will do the right thing. You threatened me, I have you arrested. You actually hit me, I’ll knock your there out. 😂😂😂😂😂

We believe in equal rights. And lefts. And maybe the occasional uppercut.

It's her biology, in response to the world being much smaller now because of the internet. She can't help it. She will always seek the best man. But before the internet she would've only had the men in her area to choose from. However, now she has access to the world and thinks she can get the best the world has to offer

I totally agree with this. When my husband asked me out, he had some characteristics I didn't care for. After going out with him for a month, I decided I really liked all of those characteristics.

@@jeezymay We are not designed for that many choices.

Facts!

@@sana-cm7oc FACTS😂

Just like women then must be afraid of men who wear dresses and show off their new Gucci handbag......do you want a man like that? HELL NO so why do you think men want masculine women?

Agreed Men aren’t afraid of women lmao But when they’re acting masculine like that it’s a massive turn off so we leave. Women somehow interpret that as us being insecure and keep up the unattractive behavior with the next guy. Then the cycle repeats

Annoyed, frustrated, and disgusted yes. Fear, not so much.

That happened to me yesterday, chick I was hanging out with was being so rude and downright bitchy , I had enough of it. She says I can't handle a strong woman..... Lol. No, I can't handle a bipolar biych..... It's simple.

masculine women love to call men "insecure" whenever men call them out on their bullshit

I thought something along these lines too. It was rather polite of him mentioning millimeters.

BwaaaaaHaaaa Haaaa Haaaa! Love it!

What is this obsession with top level guy? Ego boost? There are lots of normal level guys and they should all be ignored? Then the hell with these women

@@DanOneOne thats how it is

She's an alpha widow. She gets top level guys, as a hole to fill

Right on brother, mine was 20 years of crazy chaos everyday

@@The1redman2 you did not marry the right person.

@@stephencaparelli7733 thanks Captain Obvious

I Love after obious captains

I agree, peace is priceless. 😅. Choosing the wrong person can make life hell.

The Victorian era ended in the early 20th century. How old are you lol???!

@@TheDaneyeledee Lmao.... I think he's a vampire

@@TheDaneyeledee Just because the Era ended, that does not mean everyone died. Those that were young then lived for many decades beyond the era. I.E., someone born in 1890 was 70 in 1960.

You dropped this, King 👑

@@TheDaneyeledee I knew someone would say something like this and it's funny but also sad that people don't use their brains.

Tis true

His confidence matches his looks. When you're good looking, people see a Halo around ya, no matter what you do or say. I know a famous DJ who makes sex jokes, if I made them, I'd be deemed creepy.

That's great. At this point, as a man, i just don't have the patience or care. I'm done. The second i see this masculine feminist behavior i not only walk away. i add a shine to it. I never thought i'd get to the 'I don't care anymore phase"

@@dontgiveinfo I hear ya! But real men don't give up. That's what my dad told me once and it changed alot of things in my life. Not saying you're not being a man of course. Just I hear the migtow or whatever its called guys talking. Deep down it feels whiney for some reason, and that doesn't sit right with me. Just go about your day and don't give up on you or your heart. Pray always and God will send you someone who's sweet and loving. Promise

Its litterally his job... so

She was joking… but yes.

@@estebanslavidastic4382 but that joke projects masculine 'bro' energy. and she wonders why men don't find her feminine but rather consider her like a 'bro' friend.

@@the80386 Imagine a man saying that a woman though. It's not 'bro energy', it's just toxic af.

Middle school boy energy

​@@jesuslovesmebut8180 Obviously has divorced. The comment is retrospective.

​@jesuslovesmebut8180 absolutely!

​@@jesuslovesmebut8180o

Been there and done that. Life really, REALLY SUCKED!!! I didn't know better when I got married. Learned the hard way over years! Now... I'm served breakfast in bed 'at least' twice a week. Lolol YES, it's the same woman!

I know what you are talking about. These fights don't last for long even if very heavy and go till discussion about divorce, believe me ! Some women need a punshing ball and you are man and can stand this, aren't you ?

The eye contact was epic.

He is a skilled grifter

Agreed. What a strange career.

Women will pay and pay for advice, just like they pay and pay for diet and exercise programs, and 95% of the time it doesn't work.

@@djjukeboxhero6491 This guy could have taught Jim Jones a few things.

And I can't even tell you the number of times I have held the door in public for a woman, only to watch them walk thru without a word, as if it was my responsibility and not a courtesy. And not just younger ones, women in their 50s-60s too. I continue to do it, though, because that 1 lady that acknowledges it makes it worthwhile. I just SMH at the other ones.

​@@furyfantoo I go out of my way to smile and say thank you just to BE that one woman. I figure men need encouragement.

@@MsSimpleMovies Thumbs-up to you! Yes, ones like you make it worthwhile.

@furyfantoo when I help women, I do it because I look at them like weaker beings, not because it's a courtesy. Men are obligated to help women and children, because they are weaker. It's not rude, it's just the way life is with us. You protect them as a man, that's your job. In a community, you protect the women within it, holding the door is an extension of that.

It dumbfounds me that politeness is now seen as weakness. I can't even imagine treating my husband the way these women talk about and to their men.

yeah, all mww r insecure, femos tok away ver id, now ver lost, n our society is lost as a result. she jsut behavn like shes been programed 2 behave by v femos conditioing ovr v last 50 yrs.

She is batshit crazy

She is Indian typically if she wants a marriage with a good successful guy she needs to pay dowry

Its not even masculine energy. Men, Men know not to do this.

It's toxic male energy. It's not masculinity. I wouldn't mind if a woman exhibited masculine energy towards me, as long as she did it properly. Maturely. Securely.

​@@jackdeniston59 Ya. It's just being catty and rude. There is a difference between jokingly ribbing someone and being an asshole. Usually it's just a difference in tone and or body language/facial expression. Sometimes wording. But I would say usually tone and facial expression.

Also LGBT lady explained how she changed her life….her struggle was multiple addiction and having a better purpose. Her addictions were. Talking about people, drinking, food addiction, Her colleagues had the same addictions. But some said to her your greatest addiction is codependency. Her ego was angry as she explained, was arguing that she is not codependent, she had her own car and job. She suffered with great back pain… almost getting heart attack. When she attended seminars, most didng help her except some. She realised the problem was her ego… ego always argues with others, ego feel fragile. But she explained it all comes from childhood. People learn wrong habits in childhood and feel no self esteem and self love. So she got the ego under controlled married. another woman who also healed her problems. Now they help other people. Instead of the addiction of talking about people they started to help people.

Why would you let a women get you out of character and "snap back at her" ???? Its called being in control of your emotions and thoughts...... its not hard. Specifically as a MAN.

@@mattlol163 Easy brother, men have plenty to learn as well. But this is why it's so important for us, as men, to understand our emotions and be able to manage them - rather than letting them, as you said, move us out of our character. Our brother in the comments above us recognizes that it would have been out of character for him, let's give him credit where it's due. Thank you for pointing this out.

My reaction would have been to keep flirting and flirting until she blushed.

That’s masculine containment in guidance

Yeah, real "amazing." Back in the day we called that having a "conversation" ... maybe you've heard of it before.

That says something. It says that for men, there was less shame in going to get their sexual needs fulfilled than in seeking to have someone just listen to them.

Sort of the concept of geisha.

Wasn't she just joking having a laugh.

She’s 🇮🇳 the crusty bland stench flat badk jeans dry hair rude

We've been taught awful habits for the last 50 years.

​@@paulabound7050 That's the kind of joke and tone you have with your "bro".

​@@paulabound7050If I said the same thing to a woman, do you think it would be interpreted as just having a laugh and being funny, or would it be the case that she feels uncomfortable, even if she concludes that it was joking, that it's inappropriate? If you can't understand this, you might be socially inept.

100% correct.

It seemed to me that she was seeking "validation", I could be wrong though.

💯

Mathew was being polite

​@@SeattlePioneeras if all men are masculine lol.

@@Zellonous Oh, I think there are FAR more masculine women these days than feminine men. And the masculine element of women is commonly much more extreme than the feminine element of feminine men. Masculine women would be a lot happier if there were more feminine men around. Of course they would reject them, too.

@@Zellonous Women hate feminine men as well. This chick even said she is rejecting guys constantly, because she's hypergamous and is only going for the top looks masculine men. A lot of insane women even throw on other conditions on top of that, he doesn't just have to look great but also be wealthy and have his life in order. They never stop to wonder what they are bringing to his life. He has to be the equivalent of a jackpot lottery winner, but she can roll out of bed in her PJs and expect the world to hand itself to her on a silver platter. No effort, no work, just give-me give-me everything-I-want.

It should be the other way around. Women are followers not leaders, but men are.📢💯

Sorry, but NO woman like that has "power over me". Once you develop that kind of "teflon" none of that type of theatre affects you in the slightest...

​@@stuartkidney3257 it doesn't affect you but it's not what you want to deal with on a daily basis. I don't want to constantly keep her in check, that's mad annoying and after a while you just get annoyed by her presence. At least that's me

@@Dhia3933 that's just for you Dhia! You do contradict yourself, however, after uttering the first phrase of your first sentence. I learned a lot from Mad Men/Draper et al; Draper & Roger were almost completely NEVER thrown off their by others. That steely resolve, rock solid attitude and discipline is what I'm talking about. Of course, Mad Men is NOT real but the discipline and wordsmithing by Draper & the top men/women in the series is g8 training!

@@stuartkidney3257 i might have not expressed myself clearly. However, what i meant was let's assume that one is don Don drapper himself, i would think that one would prefer coming home to a feminine woman instead of a masculine one regardless if you let anything affect you or not. Being unaffected doesn't mean that you want find certain interactions more pleasing than others

Women's*

In the most polite way to say it:"Currycel (ethnic incel) thinks she is attractive enough to get an upper echolon man".

You feminism has destroyed so many women’s lives

True, woman are delusional now more than ever and they can vote

An example of the delusion of feminism is thinking she could break his head.

Go there* to

@@coltonsmith3724 went there* to Came there is also correct Go there is wrong, because he is talking about this past tense video.

Most came there to have their say on how bad men are and what men need to change to get them. The PROBLEM is always the mens fault ( in a womans mind), until they look in the mirror and study the real cause of their difficulties they will rinse and repeat them..

well of course, vey got decades of feminist programming crammed into ver brain, gona take a lot of wrk n time 2 clense it out n become women again

Nervous laughter. Stop creating drama

I think you hit on something important there. A LOT of people seem to read this discourse as an imperative, when really it's just a guide. Nobody is perfect, nobody expects others to be perfect. Sometimes even the best person can do something the wrong way or that is received poorly. Simple self awareness is often the difference between toxicity and healthy.

I agree. The beginning of my relationship with my now husband was great. But it wasn't until we really settled into the more traditional male and female roles that everything balanced itself out. I'm the boss in certain aspects, and he's the boss in others.

Above statement is true for me as well. It’s being able to recognize and accept this fact in a relationship that leads to 32 years of marriage ( for me). It’s not perfect but it works for us.

I’m trying really hard to shed my masculinity aspects bc it’s harming my marriage. I’m so much like my dad tho it’s so hard

@@ranchdressingisablessing8082 You can do it. Embrace softness. Find joy in the little tasks you do daily to make your house a home. It’s hard - I still fall back into old habits.

it the parents fault ,somewhere they let this happen

Yep. I can't speak for all men, but that combative lady....I wouldn't give her the time of the day. Her personality is very unattractive.

It's cuz they bought the FEMINIST PROPAGANDA

Women shouldn't "Have to be nice to men." If a man is polite, I will be polite. If a man is cat-calling or being rude, why should I be nice? I owe him nothing. If some stranger tells me to smile, I do not owe him a smile. It is all about respect. If someone treats me with kindness and respect, I will do the same.

@@michelehenne2477 *smiles at woman when walking out from the shop* *Woman looks with disgust on their face* lol

The problem is, by the time your dad realized who he had married, it was too late. Once you're locked in, there's no easy way out. So you try to make the best of it.

@@jackgunn1480 He really loves her, though. But he wants to maintain peace with her at all costs. When my brothers and I were younger and did something bad, he wasn't actually mad at us; he was angry that we were making our mom mad, if that makes sense. 😅

You're dad was lucky. My (soon-to-be-ex-now-separated) wife would nag me to fix a door. After I fixed it she would say, "Oh, I never cared about that door anyway."

Ohh, that rings a bell. My ex's favourite used to be (and still is, from time to time) "If you can't get this sorted I'll just take the kids" ... though she mostly went there after she realised that I was actually starting to _enjoy_ the silent treatment...

My mother was like this. But what makes it worse is a man who needs managing every step of the way. That gets frustrating. Too many men act like they need a mama but get mad when they get one. I never nag my hubs. I don't want to be like my mother. And I refuse to be his mother. I just accept him the way he is.

Congrats. Happy to hear you got yourself out of that bear trap

It's their inferiority complex

Your story is familiar. We dated for a few months and I ended what became an adversarial, and increasingly difficult relationship. We were distant for a while, and reconnected years later, as Friends. Still the uncomfortable interactions remained. We talk on occasion and enjoy those moments. Our Friendship is fine, and admittedly I am more comfortable than ever.

Also LGBT lady explained how she changed her life….her struggle was multiple addiction and having a better purpose. Her addictions were. Talking about people, drinking, food addiction, Her colleagues had the same addictions. But some said to her your greatest addiction is codependency. Her ego was angry as she explained, was arguing that she is not codependent, she had her own car and job. She suffered with great back pain… almost getting heart attack. When she attended seminars, most didng help her except some. She realised the problem was her ego… ego always argues with others, ego feel fragile. But she explained it all comes from childhood. People learn wrong habits in childhood and feel no self esteem and self love. So she got the ego under controlled married. another woman who also healed her problems. Now they help other people. Instead of the addiction of talking about people they started to help people.

Wait till menopause then you’ll know all about aggressive hormones.Waking up not knowing if your lioness is going to eat you or if she is really going to eat you if you know what I’m saying

Agreed I get talked shit to from this average girl and she still asks me on dates. I'm not taking shit from no body. Rude women are the worst, it's hard to even have a conversation with them...

what a moronic thing to say.

I’m so sorry for your loss. How wonderful to have had a great love love story spanning over 42 years. God bless you 💜

Where are the men and women like this! They don’t make em like that anymore. Thanks social media.

You mean he's cashed in.

​@@pf4877Who cares?

He sees a field that is ready for harvest and takes it to the bank.

@@pf4877 I love it, needs to make a comeback because it's so appropriate these days...

​​​@@pf4877 Rappers regularly use the word broad. It's not that uncommon to hear it blasting out of a car or even in conversation unless you are chronically online in a personal echo chamber.

Do you think you know what it's like to be a woman?

I think mainly because the guy is attractive

it's the hardest things to explain to a wife.

I have a rental commercial unit with paper thin walls. Whenever my neighbour's wife shows up I can feel the tension in my body. She's always raging and battling something or someone. She can't even go to the store without getting into a battle over something. I can hear her harping and raging through the walls clear as day.

Happens all the time. Happened yesterday, again. Tired of it actually.

It wasn’t that way in the house l grew up in. Whatever mood my father was in, that is what decided the atmosphere. My mom bent over backwards to try to keep him happy but it just wasn’t ever good enough. I determined not to live my life that way. My husband and l fought, got over it, made up and went on from there but we didn’t try to dominate each other or expect the other to keep us happy. For women or men, that’s miserable.

Wow, what a lovely non toxic home you have 😂😂😂

She could have just said they aren't attracted to her. Which really wouldn't be a lie.

I would disagree with that and with her. She has a very pretty face. It's just that not all guys are into ethnic-looking women. If you think she has problems being a lovely East Indian woman, try talking to East Indian guys who have an incredibly difficult time getting any women to take them seriously! And these guys are smart, successful and educated, but they're perceived as goofy programmers or nerds, and they're really too nice to people.

mid tier at best🤣🤣🤣 you made it sound a liiiiittle better than OG KEVIN SAMUELS..🤣😍

@@mokrulgobline9403 Im Indian and she is average at best.

@@mokrulgobline9403 I'm indian and have not found it hard to get dates with guys at all. I dont think she's attractive, that's it. And her personality brings her score down even lower. I'm not trying to insult here but I'm trying to point out its specifically a beauty issue, not a race issue.

I have to say I am really struck by how you say your hubby gave you the privilege to raise your kids. That's exactly it, Ma'am. Husband and wife allow one another to pass on their genes. For THAT reason alone they should be most appreciative of one another.

So what you're saying is, he's above average? Just not in looks? You should be happy. You can know there aren't women trying to take him away or have an affair because they see him as a "thing" to "possess" like a handbag,

You are both average as individuals, but together you built an above average home & family.

I love this

@@finished6267 yes, when I was speaking I was speaking for both of us in looks and for him money also because let’s be real, most women want a tall rich man and if he’s cute that’s a plus. Those types of women wouldn’t look twice at my husband, but that’s because they’re too dumb to see what I’ve really got. Although there are still a fair deal of women who do see what he’s about and still try to get with him. Thankfully he’s a very faithful man, we’re both the type where divorce isn’t an option, if we’re having an issue we just talk about it and fix it. We had hard times in the beginning but after so many years we know each other so well we haven’t had a disagreement in YEARS. It’s really nice to have someone you never fight with lol.

You dodged a bullet!

After sex she covered my eyes and asked me what color her eyes were, I was wrong 😂

@@Kianquenseda hahaha yes.

Really great ex 😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Most men are married to a 365 different women each year. These females are ruled by their emotions

Mine, too. I’m pretty sure my mom has Borderline Personality Disorder; her mood swings, tantrums, and abuse are still an issue today. I remember the atmosphere in my house when Mom was in a mood; we all walked on eggshells constantly. To this day I have odd instinctive responses to some pretty normal things, because when my mom did those things there was always a mean reason behind it or she was trying to make you feel bad.

Yep would always ruin some good moments

Oh god. My partner not wife of 23 years can make everything a nightmare with her moods. Every day something makes her explode. I never proposed because I love her but I’m just waiting for the blow out.

Where do we find your kind - They are a dying breed.

With 8 children knowing how my family was with four of us you are a saint.

Sounds like you did great. Bet you're an amazing person.

Bored?

Wonderful I hope many women read this

Debt and loneliness?

@@stevescuba1978 yes, and bitterness. Because heaven forbid they accept they might be part of the problem.

Ain’t no way it cost that much. A thousand at most.

@@mikealaniz7236 lol, yes. Look it up bro. Matthew Hussey retreats. The virtual ones are less but in-person ones cost this much. I know, I couldn't believe it either.

@@jimmyjuju damn that means thats like atleast a hundred thousand he made from that room that’s crazy.

FACTS. There women are 35+ and STILL dont know shit about dating, men, and being a LADY

So many should be grandma's in his audience. He was in diapers when they were in their prime.

@@mattlol163 never had to learn

Matthew husstle

@@hanooi7450 yup, a bit old for trying to figure out what a high quality man wants. If they would have attended the conference before hitting the wall, maybe it would be helpful. I've told my overweight, obnoxious, combative middle-aged sister with 2 baby daddies, when she said she never meets any good men, "it's because the high value men want young, thin, demure virgins. You're using the wrong bait."

Traditional submissive women were strong. Nobody ever said they didn't speak.

And one who doesn't waste money!

As a man, I 100% agree with this. And I swear, a woman like that is not "weak" in my eyes; she becomes irresistible in my eyes, and she disarms me, no matter how strong I am, she literally disarms me completely with such a feminine attitude. And if I'm her man, I would die for her. I could be a muscular hulk, and the testosterone or stress or whatever gets me angry in some instance, and if my woman reacts with softness, vulnerability, and sweetness, instead of mirroring me and becoming confrontational, I'll become like a silent, sad child in front of her. And I'd feel a thousand times guiltier if that's her attitude after I wronged her at a moment like that, than if she mirrored my masculine energy. A real woman can have and take anything she wants from a man by simply being a woman ... a real woman, not a so-called "modern" one with today's modern standards, which are merely the standards that the ruling corporate elite have set with their propaganda and brainwashing.

lol - me too!

How do you meet women overseas?

@@Struggler12349 maybe on a boat or cruise ship. Then you are both over seas.

That's a cogent reason not to date career women. Blah

You want a partner? Or do you want a women?

@@mattlol163 I don't want a bitchy combative woman either. Does that clear things up? Whether we're talking about a one-nighter or the mother of my kids, bitchy women deserve being ghosted.

Yeah the last two girls I talked too I ghosted for the same reason. I’m a very laid back independent guy, and definitely struggling in the dating world.

@@Justhunter33 I'm approaching 50 right now. I haven't been interested in dating for the last 14 years (I was a single dad raising a kid, and I put her first), so this all happened before there was a term for it. I was still in my '20's, looking for a woman who would be a compatible match for me, then, because I didn't want to be raising children as i was approaching retirement age.

Bingo

@@jackreacher4297 ding ding ding, we have a winner. If I wanted to be with a guy, it REALLY wouldn't be that hard.

Should a married woman act like a man to other men so they leave her alone or be sweet to them?

@@HurleyIsAStoner420 I would say "cordial" would probably be the way to go. Sweet implies flirtation. A woman acting like a man is considered uncouth. While we accept that sort of thing, it's not going to make us think highly of the man that you're attached to. By acting like a man in the relationship you're basically telling us that your man is a beta. So cordial instead of sweet. Use your pleases and thank yous, but don't get extremely invested in another man.

@@aaronburdon221 so when a man won’t leave a woman alone? Is it not acceptable to aggressive with them to stop bothering you?

Exactly

The difference was clearly she wasn't even attempting to flirt.

For women, flirty banter is the good looking Chad who's over 6 feet and attracts them, saying anything he wants to her. Verbal combat is the short bald dude accidentally glancing in her direction.

@@Savvynomad225 Disagree. Have you watched any romantic comedy? It's always combative flirting. You can tell who the potential couple is by their argumentative chemistry. In fact, there have been some remakes of old classic romances (Jane Austen type novels) where the writers take a genteel woman & re-write her as combative. I recently watched Bridgerton, which is a modern-written romance set in a fictional late 1700s, England. The 2nd season has a shrew for the female romantic love interest. I went online to discuss how undesirable this woman is. No way the any male would fall for a woman with no soft edges. All the women in the comments were thrilled with the chemistry with the male lead & the shrew. I was flabbergasted. In other words, young women THINK men want "a challenge" in a woman.

@@kathyp1563 written script vs real life are two different things. Explain why 50 shades was one of the most popular books among women.

As men get more mature we realise what makes us happy in life - peace. We are simple things really. I know it is funny to watch but the "Hot Crazy Matrix" video nails how most mature men feel about women. I can meet a woman, and in 10 minutes I can place her on that graph :)

This post melted my heart. What a great post.

i knew you were going to shift the blame. take responsibility for your actions. being able to mistreat people is a byproduct of your own arrogance and selfishness taking control.

@@davidneal2392 yeah that is actually something women CANNOT stand is peace. im not saying this in derogatory term but for some reason from my experience they always wanted a bit of "excitement" in the relationships. To me that really is just toxic bait for their mental illness to chew on.

The poor poor simp who married you.......

If they could bottle it, it's potency would outdo rocket fuel

Well, there's always a chance of being a passport bro 😎

Translation: she refused to be spoken to rudely, she stood up for themselves and refused to take no for an answer. . sorry you were out through the ringer for your divorce.

@@elgato1336 absolute nonsense translation ahahahaha. You might as well said the translation was, She likes potato cream cheese bubble tea with coconut pearls. He literally said, Modern Women are rude, But you're assuming she's being rude to. He literally said Modern women are aggressive and manipulative, but you're stating the reason why they are aggressive and manipulative is because, they are standing up and refusing to accept no. That's garbage. No one is to be aggressive and manipulative to their partners, period. No reason is good enough to accept those behaviors. And this is exactly why I have the assumption that feminists are so blind that they don't see the existence of bad women doing evil things and good men being made used of. And I never met anyone who is feminist and happy with life. Because to be happy, they need Men. Hahahahaha Look at how happy gays are! Then look at women trying to look like men and call themselves lesbians but so miserable becoming men because they will never be Men. Have you seen how fun and happy drag queens are? Traditional Women are the best in every way. Modern women have very little to offer because they refuse to do the very thing that they are way better than men. Instead they want to compete with men then lose and cry about it 🙄 I don't see a difference between feminists and sore losers.

@@elgato1336 absolute nonsense.

Exactly, I really wish someone in these scenarios would tell these combative women that they deserve to be insulted openly by their bf every time they’re combative. And if they feel offence or hurt in any way before feeling guilt, then they’re not capable of love and don’t deserve it. And on top of that they should be told that while they were feeling hurt, the man was not, he was just feeling disgusted.

@@ThisTall Yes but when you tell a woman she's combative or aggressive, you can expect she might have the default responses, "You're just intimidated by me!" or "Don't be insecure!" etc.

to clarify, when she feels comfortable being way way way more rude. she was already very rude

Liz blanco, which cat vreed do you prefer with your Cab Sauv?

@liz blanco Tell me you're confused & without telling me you're confused.

No it isn’t. You just believe that.

A lot of women weren't raised by role models nor given any. What's odd about relearning and gaining knowledge about oneself?

Yeah man, how did it go?

Bro this is exactly how it’s supposed to be. Modern women, especially attractive ones, have such insane egos that if you’re a normal guy they’re just going to ignore you. I swear if we got rid of makeup over night a lot of these girls would get humbled real quick 😂

she's still 39 - has undeergone an 'epiphany' and is trying hard to to be lonely the rest of her life, else she would have been taken already.

@@silica456 I have not seen this post again so did not respond. The date was really enjoyable, and we have met again about twice a week. I had to go to another city for a movie in the middle of that for 9 days, and when I returned from my role in the film, she invited me for a home cooked meal. One thing that really changed however is her dressing, she has been dressing in much more feminine styles that really is flattering on her. No jeans since the second date, dresses or coordinated outfits. We have proposed activities the other has not done before, so on the third date just before leaving she took my to her class on Tango dance. I am a decent dancer, and enjoy it a lot but Tango is another world, it is so romantic. There were more girls in the class than men by 2 to one so the men alternated women with the male instructor so every women got at least every other dance a male partner. A great place for men to find feminine women, and be in great demand. The date after my return from the filming, after the home cooked meal following night we attended a favorite opera in one of the most elegant opera houses in the world built in the 1700s and we both dressed formally and it was really an elegant evening. It was a last minute suggestion because one of the featured singers, a woman I have done a few projects with, called to say she had tickets for me. So it was the cheapest date date but worth a million bucks. The city we live in is probably the most cultured in the world, with more world class museums than all the US combined, and 54 classical music theaters, and stunning architecture so just walking around the city is late into the night is an romantic experience. Me in my tux and her in a floor length gown walking, until sunrise, no one batted an eye. I really appreciate how much effort she puts into looking elegant and feminine, changed her hair style, changed her makeup, she has great healthy skin. Tomorrow we are taking a train to hike in the forest and pick berries, and if it is warm, swim in a lake. I have made changed also, a new Iranian master barber was told to do what ever he could and he is skilled. She has not seen the new me, shorter length, razor cut, reshaped short beard, waxing ears, nose, eyebrow sculpting. What a change. I renewed my gym membership with a more intense routine so we both are making an effort. I know a lot of women, and dated many real beauties, mostly actors and models, and really enjoy them but it is so easy to be with Victoria, her voice is so soft and kind sounding, I have never heard her say anything that was not kind about the subject or other people or too other people. We stopped in a Irish pub on a walk from an art exhibition, and had a beer, and the waitress spilled a little foam on Victoria's top and her response was that she was concerned about the waitress might be embarrassed. I asked her is she ever gets angry and she thought a bit and responded, "yes, if someone threatens my family". I promised not to do that.

"A man does not insist on physical beauty in a woman who builds up his morale. After a while he realizes that she is beautiful--he just hadn’t noticed it at first." _Robert Heinlein

Oh a lot of them do, it's just they do nothing about it and leave everything to the man. It's like waiting for money to fall from the sky 🤡

Or in my case, thanks to my own Mother, toss it all and Eff It, not worth the trouble. And before you ask, no, I'm not on speaking terms with her any more.

So it’s only up to the woman?

@@loisrabies8713 - *Lois, you’re missing the point, and making the video’s point at the same time. Generally speaking, men are aggressive because our need to provide necessitates it. This is a stressful and exhausting lifestyle. So to come home to a partner who is unable to give support to her man- who instead confronts him and makes him feel like he’s not adequate, is a recipe for an unhappy, dysfunctional home.* *To work under stressful conditions, then come home to equally stressful conditions, is either enraging or emasculating to your man.* *Either way, the results cannot be positive.*

@@handynothandsome261 still based on assumptions

Most Wmn don't like showing appreciation for what Mn do for them because it requires them to admit that what they (Wmn) want and when they want it may not be what the Mn wants. Which will make them realize that it means that when a Mn does what he's asked to do, he's doing it for her/them, not because it's something he "knows" he's "supposed to do" and "get done" due to some unwritten rule/law/obligation. Because that would mean they have to show appreciation for the things a Mn has chosen to do for them because he/they wanted to do it for her/them and not because of some overarching obligation like most Wmn expect and want a Mn to do. Which aggravates most of them since it would mean no longer having to go on easy mode and having to just wait for things to be done for them and actively be conscious of Mn's hard work and do/give something in for said Mn in return; and that very idea, of being the ones to provide or give something in return, even as a form of reciprocation for a Mn's actions, to a Mn goes against their entitlement and narcissism.

I always tell my daughters that if you make a man feel like a *man*, he will be yours.

I fix up things for my girlfriend from time to time. I built her shoe rack and bathroom rack, helped her and her family moved, fixed up lamps and so on and just getting her to tell me "thank you" is one of the best feelings in this world. It tells me that my work for her is appreciated

Love this!

Good on you, you maintained your masculine frame....

Easier said then done. Modern women would just use divorce rather then be steered and called out my a man. You would get fcked and shes get money. She'd be fcked too but wouldn't know it until much later. Women in the past were smarter

My husband said the same to me after 10 years. I finally woke up and realized I was taking my insecurities out on him rather than being his peace when he came home from working double shifts a lot of the time. I am now the peace that he has always been for me. I am truly blessed, as I imagine your wife feels with you.

My husband and I had the same chat. I do believe tho, if he put it online he would have added the part where I did tell him what I needed from him after he came home. Because I too, as a SAHM of three kids under 4yo had worked hard all day! Dad got his 30 minutes to unwind after greeting the children and then he took over the child care duties and I got 30 minutes to myself to relax as well. Been happily married long enough that we are now watching grandkids.

By saying "i am not red-pill..." do you mean to say that you prefer fiction?

It’s because too many women bought into the “if momma’s not happy then no one can be happy” simp BS that has been fed to western audiences for the past few decades. More men aren’t tolerating it and the ladies get the surprised pikachu face when they get left by them. As in their delusion they think it’s acceptable to be a grown adult who acts like an entitled brat as men are just supposed to deal w it.

@@judohunter1 totally the kind of women who has never apologized for anything. I’m so happy it’s over. First 6 years was great, she got weird after having kids though. Totally broke her head. Became 100% emotional decision maker and was constantly angry, constantly spending money we didn’t have, constantly overwhelmed and never satisfied with anything. Selfishness is something you don’t always see right away, but the moment it became hard and it wasn’t always about her, she showed her colors. Now my kids are paying a higher price than me. And yes even getting 38% of my take home pay, she’s broke and I’m thriving.

Sounds like my current partner. Been together 5 years and he has anger issues that he refuses to get help for it. He has never hit me but he has threatened to kill me more than once. I don't want my son to be raised by a single mother (since statics say sons to single mothers don't have the best life) I'm just gonna stick around and hope he doesn't actually kill me lol

@@AmericanDuck "she got weird after having kids" sounds like post partum depression which can become exacerbated if left un treated. One of the things men don't have to worry about, childbirth completely changing the anatomical and physiological structures in the body. Hopefully you were holding up your end of the bargain, a good majority of men think they are but in reality aren't.

@@melissalowe3856 no, I doubt PPD was it. I could write a book why she is what she is now that I’m out of the relationship. She’s very outgoing and likable when you first meet her. But over time all her relationships fade. She makes a great impression, but over time she loses interest with about everything. She loved doing things with her kids, and was always finding ways to go out and have fun with them. At home, I was doing well above her to be honest. It was her not keeping up her end. We are talking about a stay at home mom with a husband that made good, but not great money in a full time job. Her job was to raise kids and run a home. I did everything a man could do to make her happy. I supported all her decisions. I was in her corner on everything. She was first above all others. I did everything she asked me to do and more, but it was always more. Nothing was enough. I was cooking dinner every night, doing all the dishes while she sat and watched tv with the kids. Cooking every meal on the weekends. Cleaning the kitchen every day, cleaning the bathrooms, all the outdoor work, fixing the cars, picking up kids from school, all my personal laundry and occasionally the kids as well. The older she got, the more things bothered her and the more help she would ask for and I would do it thinking she needed the help. Any kind of cleaning she did resulted in angry lectures about how dirty everyone was. She would clean about once every couple of months and laundry once a week. That’s it. I got to the point where I was doing all the housework. She sat around or was with her friends out in town when the kids were in school. She wanted the fun, but not the work. She wanted to spend but not earn. Her friends had husbands that made $350k/yr and I only made $110k/yr. They had housekeepers and ate out every night. She spent like them and hid the debt she created. She joined them on girls weekends out of town and left me at home with the kids. She got heavily with Feminist thought. Any pro-woman movement stuff. Hated the President, started spouting misandrist things, and got overly political. No idea where this all came from. I got upset at the balance in our lives and how she was angry and changing and she claimed how her life wasn’t going like she thought. She took the kids and filed for divorce. Then the shock of debt hit. Hidden spending built up over the years. House sold to pay the debt, alimony, child support, her going through job after job, her getting fired from two jobs. Oh BTW she has a Master’s degree, and I am a HS graduate. Really she’s just never satisfied, burns bridges, burns out friends, doesn’t accept responsibility, etc. I am an extremely loyal person, but honestly it was me that should have stepped away, but it didn’t really sink in until after our second child just how much she was unable to endure her own life choices and not want to escape to something new. Now she’s dead broke. Always going to parties and closing the bars every single weekend. I will likely take the kids at some point and she will end up in AA and miserable and then who knows. Opinions I’m sure are coming, but I could care less.

I fell for the same act. In the beginning it was all "oh baby I'll make all your food and have your clothes ready for work everyday". . . now I have to do the dishes and laundry and cooking and cleaning and taking care of the kids because her life as an unemployed stay at home mom is too hard that she just can't even.

"Bait and switch"

Women in other countries aren’t faking, passport bros

@@neverstop2493 Yes they are. Women do that everywhere. They all wear makeup, they all fake their personalities. That's why you don't marry until you have lived with the woman for at least a year and seen her how she is around her friends, around her family, and around you on her bad days as well as the good days.

Na bro, u just touched the wound of an insecure person, good luck with that 😂😂😂

@@fe247 lol

He probably chats with 100s of women daily being a dating coach, she should've understood that he probably genuinely forgot her name

​​@@MikeJohnMentzer it's not a big deal though.. why are people so pissed off about somebody forgetting their name?

@@oliveryt7168 Well if you are dating someone and they forget your name mid date, that's honestly a turn off But that's not the case here

But it attracts a man to a man for sure.

It depends what the man is being aggressive towards. Don’t be aggressive towards people who don’t deserve it. But be aggressive towards difficult situations, problems, challenges. Be able to control your aggression, and direct it at the right things.

She is not 10..I just saw your profile pic...Stop being so nice

My brother in Christ, you need to get a grip. It's good that you're happy with your wife, but objectively speaking, you are not dating out of your league. It's because of men like you that you falsely convey the idea that women do not care about appearance, which is a massive lie. A lot of you talk like you're some ugly hobo and she's Mrs Universe, when photos show the real story. You're both in the same league, if you wanna delude yourself that's fine, but if you wanna mislead others, better not show the photo.

​@@SigmaasphereYou don't understand what a man wants.

@@Sigmaasphere Stop being a prick. They are in their late 60s now. Only a mean asshole would say what you just said.

Hey, if you ran across it and liked it, you're the target audience :D

The greatest inspiration for me of male humility are Antonin Dvorak… his music is excellent anc quotes full of love humility, no ego, no nonsense… and his friend Tchaikovsky was like that. Or currently the scientists Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Bruce Lipton and Gregg Braden. They are not extremelly masculine but you may be inspired by guys without being sexually attracted to them which is actually even better inspiration….because they do great name for all male community.

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Doesn't mean you have to suppress your emotions like a Vulcan. When you are angry or frustrated, go punch and kick a bag at a gym (psychological sublimation). If you are sad/happy, explain why instead of making it a game of twenty questions, etc.

@@uphilliceskater They cannot explain logically while being in emotional mode, that's illogical. They need to calm down and then, they can talk. Meanwhile, you listen to her ramblings until she says: you know me so much! You understand me so much!! While all you did was being "present" and "listening". Just like fights: if you are enraged, try to use logic; you tell me if it's possible: Nope. We are in logical mode before the fight, but if somethings triggers us.. we need to calm down before proceeding.. that's why people regrets the "after arguments", cause they change from emotional back to logical.. and realize how stupid it was/they were. Since we, as men, are supposed to be the more logical ones, let them vent/rage/express themselves; after, you'll have a sweet kitty purring at your side. *Sadly, lot of men are fed up with accumulation of these emotional bursts, and then just simply give up. *raise my hand I, for one, got tired of it. I want things to flow, being simple and easy (not to say lazy, mind you). So if you find a girl that behaves like this, she's a keeper, even if average-looking.. but men wants a bit more than average in looks.. we are wired that way.

You get frustrated with your husband because your mood swings affect him? Did you really just say that?

Goes both ways.

well said 💯💯💯

If he makes all the money it should abe about HIM H IM HIM HIM and some more HIM at minimum 2 to 3 days per week.....lol congrats on 42 years!

Looks like your generations forgot to teach your daughters that, because most girls act like they're the prize, the princess, and it's all about her and her needs.

"Feminism over the years has told us that we don't need a man. We can do just fine without them." well actually no, society needs strong men to survive. men still do all the hard physical labour lets not dismiss what men do for us thank you. In fact feminism is what is causing men to kill themselves at massive rates so lets not support that hate group

Lucky husband but also lucky wife! Congrats on us.

Finally some sensible comment. Imagine coming to a mental health worker accepting you have a problem, seeking for help and then just getting devalued. I'm not saying she was right, but i hope she finds a real professional who'd actually help her with her traumas instead of traumatizing her

Good for you. You're one of the lucky ones who didn't pass the point of no return!!

Women like you are the exception to the rule. Good for you that you found out you had to change a little. Men genuinely appreciate that and will reciprocate if they need to work on things themselves.

It's a fine line b/n a woman getting a man to go along and him telling her off.

Trade her in for a less damaged model.

Tell her that if she doesn't change her behaviour then you will leave her, and then actually do it