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@JesuisLord 2 месяца назад

1 accept and receive 2 greet him coming home 3 show admiration

@akwhit3107 2 месяца назад

Thank you!

@garyfrancis6193 2 месяца назад

Like your dog does?

@TheTopHat_panda 2 месяца назад

@@garyfrancis6193😂

@Natureoverhuman Месяц назад

@garyfrancis6193 you do love your dog,dont you?

@megnelli Месяц назад

@@garyfrancis6193man’s best friend for a reason

@Tonibolognaaintnophony 2 месяца назад

"Consideration over honesty!" I knew in my heart not to complain that he didn't follow the recipe like I asked. Just his desire & enthusiasm to cook for me is the blessing I would lose by opening my big mouth, no pun intended. Thank you for confirming the best way to respect & honor my husband ❤

@mariamabojang8189 Месяц назад

I agree with respecting your partner but respect should be reciprocated by both parties

@ALynnGant Месяц назад

We can only control our own actions. Sometimes when you act polite and friendly, then the other person will slowly come out of their shell.

@Himmiefan Месяц назад

@@shells1889 Well, in Christian scriptures, there's love one another. I don't about the Old Testament.

@Anonymous-nt4sz Месяц назад

Absolutely correct. Some husbands don’t even reciprocate for all that’s done for them.

@Schquirl Месяц назад

EXACTLY 💯 What I was going to say. 😢@danielakolundzija50

@aaabbb8812 Месяц назад

@danielakolundzija50 they don't even have to be narcissists, just selfish and lazy.

@AnthonyGarlic-tr9br 2 месяца назад

I'm glad Manis Friedman acknowledges the effort ladies put in.

@esthermichallevi3186 Месяц назад

This is amazing advice for a HEALTHY relationship where two people love and respect each other and both give. Clearly this advice is not for unhealthy relationships (eg with a narcissist, or emotional or physical abuse) which require professional help and or divorce. No one should stay in an abusive relationship. Ever. That’s why Judaism allows divorce.

@ALynnGant Месяц назад

I agree with your assessment. As a healthy woman, I did this for my ex-husband, even before seeing this video. I'm happy to learn that this was the right thing! I will keep doing this with my next relationship when that is time. I am so happy that this rabbi reminds us that every marriage was planned in heaven. I do not feel so bad for having received the bad news of a divorce from my husband. This allows me to love myself, past, present and future.

@LadyElina1 Месяц назад

@@esthermichallevi3186 I’ve worked SO hard and did this for years. Then I realized my relationship was abusive when he started getting physically aggressive. Then I started seeing that there was a LOT of emotional abuse. He is a diagnosed narcissist, but I am trying hard to be patient. He realizes it and is working on himself. I have no idea if what he is doing is enough. I know I can only last a little longer. My mental health is strained. But we have been together for 25 years so I’m not letting go without doing as much as I can take! Patience and supporting him.

@CarolHughes-d7e 20 дней назад

Boy are you deludef

@zefirazuskis6541 15 дней назад

The only thing is being carefull not to get in a tie with this: I will show you respect when you do, I will say sorry when you do, etc.. the suggestion is you START, dont wait in your life for other to give you the opportunity to behave as you know you should. Hopefully others will follow suit, but you do what you gotta do!

@mnikaluza4 2 месяца назад

I think that it used to be true that men were trying to serve and contribute .. but today men are not always trying to serve … they are very happy sitting and playing video games … neither helping nor serving bc on video games they help their buddies So no need to help their family they already have fix from video games Women are being abandoned in their own homes like crazy for all the manly pumps online She can’t compete with that !

@soulinameatsack29 2 месяца назад

I'd rather my husband be at home playing video games than out at a bar or anywhere out with friends honestly. I don't mind he plays video games. In fact, mine loves to tell me all about his gaming and he wants me as involved as possible. He also works hard and gives me everything I could want.

@Avenray19 Месяц назад

I'd rather my husband play video games than be addicted to P0rn.

@briannacollins1442 Месяц назад

Great point you can’t continue to thrive in that relationship and do all the leg work

@sarahavena8537 2 месяца назад

A great gift of wisdom for my 65th birthday & 34 years of marriage

@Annastesiacrane Месяц назад

🎉

@Janelegant Месяц назад

I've been with my Husband for 25 years and I glad these elements are already practiced. I feel love, respected, & cherished by my Husband and he feels the same from me

@LadyElina1 Месяц назад

@@Janelegant I want this so much for myself and my children. I’m my mind that is my life. But my reality isn’t that way at all. 😭

@Janelegant Месяц назад

@@LadyElina1 I'm so sorry that is your experience

@em7937 Месяц назад

It is hard to respect a man that doesn't respect back. I remember clearly the disgust I got for my husband when he started flirting with other women. He disrespected me and I couldn't care less of his day, greet him or respect him. Respect is earned and kept. No man is entitled to that if tehy don't behave in a matter worthy of respect!

@amjz77 Месяц назад

Then get a divorce and move on!

@em7937 Месяц назад

@@amjz77 I did for sure! He got involved with a girl in work righ away, and that was the end of it all. And that was 10 years ago....but he brought the disrespect to our home! All this "respect your man" generalization don't help anyone.

@amjz77 Месяц назад

@@em7937 I pray you are able to get true healing from the hurt that you still carry. You deserve to be free

@em7937 Месяц назад

@@amjz77 I don't think I still carry hurt about that, it was a long journey for sure!! But that is why I point out these useless generalizations like " give him respect" without mentioning the real and mandatory part "if he is worthy of respect!" I hope young girls get that part. But thank you for your well wishes and real concern!

@amjz77 Месяц назад

@@em7937 I am making an assumption here, but I’m pretty sure the Rabbi is giving this advice within the boundaries of a fairly healthy relationship. No one could give any relationship advice if they had to consider all unhealthy situations. This is great advice to those who are looking to improve their marriage. I don’t think it’s intended to be used to fix a broken marriage.

@Ariverwhosestreamsmakeglad 2 месяца назад

Thank you, Rabbi, I'll take your advice and wisdom to heart. It's greatly appreciated.

@Kar0024 2 месяца назад

I love his sound advice. A good reminder for me

@margotmargot4426 Месяц назад

1 accept and receive; 2. respect the relationship; 3. show admiration.

@raa3036 2 месяца назад

Very true and wise counsel,. Might I suggest the husband should also be following ans adhering to these 2 tips? It is a two-way process of showing gratitude, respect, and admiration. For a woman, appreciation is very important. By including admiration of a wife, I'm saying, compliment her in front of others, and husband should NEVER talk positively or glowingly about former girlfriends or a former spouse either privately with your wife, or to others whether privately or when your wife is present. Wives would be wise to not do that either.

@ArtingFromScratch 2 месяца назад

He just recently posted a video for men too

@BrooklynBaby100 2 месяца назад

@@ArtingFromScratchMen don’t watch any self improvement 😅stuff

@klesuo Месяц назад

@@BrooklynBaby100im sorry that your life experiences have caused you to think this

@AnthonyGarlic-tr9br 2 месяца назад

That's a big one 😻 you always have to address him 💕❤️💜 when he comes home 🏡🏡

@deanaengland4540 Месяц назад

Elkview, West Virginia here. Sending peace and light!

@minakumari1515 2 месяца назад

Thankyou Rabbi..Im a Hindu and I truely believe in what you said .I appreciate your advice.🙏

@LadyElina1 2 месяца назад

I did this for my husband for many years. But my husband never learned the things that I really need to thrive. He ONLY Wanted to do the things that were easy and natural to him. Do you suggest praising everything they do and then telling them the things that are exceptionally meaningful to me? Or just accept what he does and try to be okay with feeling empty or lonely or whatever it is that is the result of not getting your needs met that are high value to you as the woman?

@dawnhalver 2 месяца назад

Absolutely let him know the things that really matter to you. Otherwise you’ll eventually want to leave the relationship. And he will wonder why with all his trying he couldn’t actually please you.

@baodongbaotao5060 Месяц назад

you do it with sincerity and you will see the miracles

@LadyElina1 Месяц назад

@@baodongbaotao5060 I absolutely did it with nothing but sincerity. So he was recently diagnosed with severe narcissistic personality disorder. He is working towards becoming healthier. I don’t know if it will help or not. He also is looking into some bi-polar issues now and has pretty chronic ADHD. I love him and am trying to be patient but I’m not sure how much longer I can hold out with such emptiness.

@leekflower1 Месяц назад

@@baodongbaotao5060 are you implying she didn't? Many of us try to no avail. 😔

@cnpublications 2 месяца назад

Incredible advice for everyone!

@beanallene 2 месяца назад

This doesn't work for a narcissist. They expect you to beyond grateful over the smallest things. And when you're not, it's off with your head.

@raa3036 2 месяца назад

@beanallene true, but over time, even a narcissist will start to treat you better. I know because I'm married to one, and the rollercoaster ride can be exhausting. We're all G-d's children, and some of us need more patience, kindness, and long-suffering from those of us who G-d has endowed with greater than normal capacities in those areas.

@weeklydaily4775 2 месяца назад

@@raa3036good luck and take care of yourself.

@ThePinkPantha21 2 месяца назад

Instead of focusing on someone being a narcissist (did you diagnose them) try this out and see. If it doesn't work you don't lose anything. If it does you gain a better relationship.

@gideon880 2 месяца назад

I am so sorry you are married to a narcissist. Narcissism is a serious and damaging mental illness. Specially in communities (Jewish communities) this should be observed and studied as all mental illness. To be married with a mental ill person is a complete different situation and generally the “typical” behaviors tactics don’t work. The worst part is that the other spouse generally keep silent and suffering… Ignorance in that case isn’t a bliss.

@OliveWeitzel 2 месяца назад

@@raa3036 narcissists NEVER GIVE!

@marosu5834 2 месяца назад

Thank You Rabbi, I love ❤️ your advices. You’re one of the sages of this time, HaShem bless you .

@garyfrancis6193 2 месяца назад

“ Advice” has no plural. Don’t you know about countable and uncountable nouns?

@zuleigaagulhas9740 6 дней назад

This is some really great advice. Thanks Rabbi for all the valuable tips and information. God bless!

@LearndingLife 2 месяца назад

I wonder how the world would be if we treated everyone like this. Glad that we/they are there, blessed to know them and get to be known by them, even when stumbles happen, and find peace over a good meal ^.^ Thanks for sharing, speaking, and acting

@akai.christo 2 месяца назад

Thank you Rabbi Friedman and Team!! A Great day for you and everyone here!!💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶

@613YY 2 месяца назад

Thank you Rabbi Manis Friedman.

@suenidasa6497 Месяц назад

Thanks, Rav!

@gabrielanieves5338 7 дней назад

Thank you, Rabbi! Golden nuggets of truth!

@YW19832 Месяц назад

Wow insightful teaching

@chadwickpainter8212 Месяц назад

I always feel like I could spend many hours and days talking with you. Perhaps someday, we will run into each other. Thanks for the video, and may God's blessings be upon you.

@BryanKimakowich Месяц назад

Yes, yes, yes, you nailed it. Showing gratitude makes all of the difference. Whatever you show gratitude FOR, attracts more of it. And so it applies to a marriage. Whatever we want more OF, we must show gratitude for. When I am at work, I don’t need to love my job to enjoy doing my job. The more enthusiasm with which I do my job, improves the quality of my work, and improves the success of the business, and, if not improving my income, it improves my ability to provide for the one(s) that I love. I don’t know if this makes sense or not, but it’s not an oxymoron OR reverse psychology.

@stacyjomcdermott693 Месяц назад

This extends to how we interact with others outside the family, too.

@zeinababdi4757 Месяц назад

Some of us are married to malignant narcissists, and nothing ever makes them happy.😮

@Rojayzee Месяц назад

😢 I’m sorry

@Rawr9zzx Месяц назад

Everything is a reality! Beautiful teaching ❤.

@kayyamir3112 Месяц назад

Thank you so much 😢

@milongroup9902 2 месяца назад

Thank you ❤

@nikkanissalopez8301 Месяц назад

Sooooo good. Sooooo true. Sir, I admire the warmth and wisdom.

@irinacar 2 месяца назад

This rabbi gives great advise.

@heidisuekunzle4874 9 дней назад

Thank you!

@613YY 2 месяца назад

Thank you Rabbi Friedman.

@InessaRoma Месяц назад

Thanks a lot❣️🕊 ✨️

@marilynsander467 2 месяца назад

Thank you for this.. Well noted.. After been married 4 times.. I can learn from this. Amen Hallelujah

@geraldinekelly8447 26 дней назад

😂😂lol

@judycolin 2 месяца назад

Thank you! Amazing advice ! 🙏🏼💕 Shalom Rabbi !

@brazildeoliveira2167 2 месяца назад

pray and praying for your health rabbi

@kalissahood7050 Месяц назад

Fantastic. My favorite is mealtime being sacred. I'm going to work on these 🙂

@emmaharling6337 Месяц назад

The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands is a sassy, yet paradigm shifting book. Highly recommend it.

@yvonnesegers3214 2 месяца назад

Thank you so much, Rabbi and family. 🕊

@mariamabojang8189 Месяц назад

Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us 🙏

@MrStudentmom Месяц назад

Some of us come together broken hearted and we attach our broken hearts and they fit and you become whole under God's hand. As you yield to His Will in obedience to Torah you become who God actually created you to be. The Master purifies you as by fire! In the kiln. Or you may still be on the wheel spinning. The selfish evil inclination of our flesh who will you yield to today? Deuteronomy 28! Every day, every minute, choose L'Chaim not death, choose the blessed life not the cursed life. Choose love, choose Yeshua's example.

@jacksaranta7574 2 месяца назад

Thank you, Rabbi Freidman, for another incredible message ❤ Baruch Hashem!❤

@cheryljonas282 2 месяца назад

Greatful for this info .. keep up the great Job.. Experience is the greatest teacher .. continue your teaching .. listening from Trinidaf 🇹🇹

@lauralunaazul 2 месяца назад

As a woman. I feel the same. This is very enlightening, thank you

@pakatewellnesstips6183 Месяц назад

Sometimes consideration is better than honesty 💯

@joyceknox127 Месяц назад

Great advice

@Himmiefan Месяц назад

Good tips! Thanks!

@SainahSinaice 2 месяца назад

Thanks for the tip,there must be something definitely 🎉

@Grateful4life4time Месяц назад

Simply thank you

@nmrowdy4605 2 месяца назад

I wish I had heard this 20 years ago.

@lomajoji-pd9sl 2 месяца назад

🌻Thank you!

@amadjiallo6889 2 месяца назад

Thank you you are blessing to World

@rosaliaoliver-qv3gr 17 дней назад

♥️Rabbi thank you♥️for this WONDERFUL♥️advice♥️my ♥️prayers♥️ Blessings ♥️for the Jewish♥️

@leekflower1 Месяц назад

There is a lot if truth in your advice. Especially starting out. However i would say its not this simple some of the time. Theres mental illness to consider. Sometimes you cant fake a good mood. Theres also years of problems that add up and make an emotionally unsafe environment when everyone is on edge. Its hard to go back to basics when the foundation is broken. Both have to be invested for that to work. Also if i did these things religiously at some point i will and have fallen into bitterness when needs are not reciprocated.

@milikafellows4758 Месяц назад

Thank you very much Rabbi.❤

@ukik0318 7 дней назад

Such good advice

@MamaJanenk 2 месяца назад

Thank you

@Momlita_120 Месяц назад

Yes, we should, and I do thank my husband for everything. I think that whoever gets home should greet first. Well that is what my grandma taugh me❤

@elizabethbooth5446 23 дня назад

Thank you rabbi

@dmytropalichuk996 2 месяца назад

It appears that im not the only man that couldn't resist to click 😂 Big thank you for the knowledge!!!

@user-gn8to4wj9q 2 месяца назад

Make sure you watch the video for mens😅😅

@flygirl505575 Месяц назад

😂

@flygirl505575 Месяц назад

😂

@Tita-gh3fl 2 месяца назад

Holy blossom temple beautiful temple in Ontario Canada a Cambridge scholar have me special shoes for entry to the temple. Fond memories and a pleasant experience human being remember experiences and sometimes the wings just have to fly us to other landscapers. In another world for a better Life thank you

@jackfish38 2 месяца назад

Watching from India 🇮🇳

@613YY 2 месяца назад

Thank you IGTK team.

@anastasiataverner9737 Месяц назад

Some time the men should be here how to be loving and caring for his wife before others. Thank you for your replay.

@johannanunez1579 Месяц назад

❤Thank you for this beautiful message ❤

@peacelovejoyandhappiness 2 месяца назад

Excellent excellent video. Thank you for your advice.

@sweetnbitr33 2 месяца назад

❤❤❤thank you😊

@dymondzncurlz Месяц назад

I think so many of us want to do this but some of us are unable to take care of ourselves because we don't have support and we have a lot of children. We are waiting on our husband to come home so that we can take a shower. The way that I compromised is that I greet him nicely, but then he takes shorter showers then me... so I'll get in the shower with him, and he takes over with the children for my remaining shower. It's been helpful. Thanks for reminding me and encouraging me.

@elinatembo3322 Месяц назад

❤❤ powerful words of wisdom. Thanks

@613YY 2 месяца назад

Of course you know most of us listened to both.

@Adeleef 2 месяца назад

We appreciate you 🇳🇱

@laracroft5351 2 месяца назад

But he needs admiration!

@user-ib7it2li8f 2 месяца назад

Hoi 👋🏽

@a.j5738 Месяц назад

I LOVE THIS I APPRECIATE MYSELF FOR TRYING WHEN IT WASN'T RETURNED..AS WOMEN I KNOW MY WORTH AND WHEN IT'S NOT GIVE BACK IN RETURN...ITS SAD..SO PLEASE AS MAN AND WOMEN WE MUST BE WILLING TO TRY OUT OF RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER AND IF THE RESPECT NOT THERE U WILL DEFINITELY KNOW NOT TO WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE WITH SOMEONE NOT WILLING ENOUGH. THANK U SIR FOR ENLIGHTENMENT. A.J

@PoeticAmmunition. 2 месяца назад

As a muslim, i appreciate this advice ❤

@katushabeolivah1732 2 месяца назад

Am a catholic this a great advice

@twinsoul5156 Месяц назад

What if a husband shows ego if he is valued and values you only if he is not shown love? That puzzles me… please elaborate. Thank you

@ChristineRauh 2 месяца назад

very true!

@dennisc.simpson4032 2 месяца назад

So true

@saturdaym8181 2 месяца назад

I heard it ,I accepted it ,I receive

@Sybilgause 2 месяца назад

His kindness and patience.

@Diane-i4z 10 дней назад

This holds true for men too they should respect the woman.

@jackyyoung1247 Месяц назад

Thank you for this it's given me some ideas to improve communication with my husband. It is hard because I'm his carer, sometimes showing appreciation is hard in challenging situations, I do try tho. Sometimes he has it in his head that I need more food, he often gives me heaps of mash, I thank him but say I'll save some for later. I appreciate his efforts but maybe Sometimes I come across as stand offish. I'm going to try to be more appreciative and praise him more, I know he does things to help me.

@natalieclairezaloumis2174 Месяц назад

Abba help me & mine to be open to all GOOD from my husband ALWAYS.❤

@mansinirmaljain Месяц назад

there is no stone i have not left unturned. bent over backwards from day 1. i get nothing back. nothing. i am broken and jaded now. nothing has worked.

@AnthonyGarlic-tr9br 2 месяца назад

My husband 💘🫙💘🫙 love's to bring me seasonal flowers 🌺🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺

@ThePinkPantha21 2 месяца назад

Thank uou Rabbi.

@lorettamavros867 Месяц назад

Ugh after 11 years of marriage 2 kids a full time job transition from house wife to working mother im in a rough spot in my marriage my husband feels like i no longer find him attractive or care for him which is not true but its so hard to juggle multiple important things job house kids husband relationship ect but i know without my husband and marriage none of it matters so i need to move my focus on him

@georgiakritikos4955 6 дней назад

My notes 🎬

@user-ib7it2li8f 2 месяца назад

I say Hi David ❤ in my high voice

@YooperInNM 2 месяца назад

Rabbi, What about when the tables are turned? I (the wife) am the one who works, and he stays home. All of the things you mention, I do not receive--e.g., the dogs greet me, but he generally does not. If there is any dinner, it is eaten in front of the t.v. or separately. Admiration? Rarely received on my part.

@em7937 Месяц назад

You know damn well they out these rules for women to keep men served and happy. A woman is supposed to just accept being miserable and not have standards!

@sonaa4706 Месяц назад

1.Move apart or atleast start saving some money separately. Will help you later. 2. Find another relation wether serious or casual....women need fun too.

@YvonnesTighe Месяц назад

Me too.

@YvonnesTighe Месяц назад

You are in a no win situation with a man who doesn't work. They have no self respect and no structure in their lives.

@lorellecoutinho3826 Месяц назад

My husband didn't appreciate anything I did for him, that is why he is now my ex 😂

@Elizabeth-n7w3l Месяц назад

He Always gives CRITISM UPON CRITISISM ....N MORE

@KemThruLens Месяц назад

Dit, im Keen to hear what tips you Give to men as well .,

@MoN-lb1pw Месяц назад

Thank you Rabbi. How about husbands who are never appreciative, no gratitude and just discharge ones energy?! I used to dress up, make up amsnump towards him, he killed it. I set a beautiful table, the first bite, start with all negative comments. Solution!?

@sandyk378 Месяц назад

Honor and respect your husband as obedience to the Lord❤ Pray for the Lord to soften your heart and remove bitterness and unforgiveness. Our Lord will Bless your marriage for your obedience and faithfulness ❤❤