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Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and 3 ways you can keep the spark alive in long distance relationships
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@matboggs
@matboggs Год назад
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@mohamedaznkd2061
@mohamedaznkd2061 5 лет назад
who is in LDR at the moment ??!!
@brittanyainsworth9307
@brittanyainsworth9307 4 года назад
This was great, I been tryin to find out about "saving a relationship long distance" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Foonacob Longarm Flirtify - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my colleague got great results with it.
@anacod9114
@anacod9114 4 года назад
Just wonderful, I've been looking for "successful long distance relationship" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Foonacob Longarm Flirtify - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my colleague got cool results with it.
@Sky22_00
@Sky22_00 4 года назад
Me
@julianaadeka3125
@julianaadeka3125 3 года назад
Me
@fqami2548
@fqami2548 3 года назад
I am
@eihmmm5300
@eihmmm5300 6 лет назад
My boyfriend is from Macedonia and I'm here in the Philippines. It's really hard for both of us especially because of the timezone. Been struggling lately, but I hope we get pass through this LDR thing until we meet
@Максим-щ6щ9з
@Максим-щ6щ9з 3 года назад
I'm from Macedonia too and I have a girlfriend from America
@Максим-щ6щ9з
@Максим-щ6щ9з 3 года назад
Are you still together?
@emmaf3518
@emmaf3518 6 лет назад
Thanks Matt this is so helpful!!!!
@kekikarachan7008
@kekikarachan7008 3 года назад
We have a whole different time zone
@dianebaider8574
@dianebaider8574 3 года назад
Different time 😊
@joyjoy-jw3og
@joyjoy-jw3og 3 года назад
hej mat please how or what can i do to make video with him coz he is in california and i in czech republic.he is a difficult in that matter we only call or message but no video.i ve try with no result.mary.thks
@1jennifer89
@1jennifer89 6 лет назад
How can I send in a question?????
@yambikes
@yambikes Год назад
Ben ka lulu approval mangega
@aleksandrakettner905
@aleksandrakettner905 3 года назад
💌
@noahmccoist6059
@noahmccoist6059 6 лет назад
How to do no. 1 if my bf only call me once when he is drunk af 😭
@barbmaki5143
@barbmaki5143 6 лет назад
We don't !!! Ugh!! He doesn't do that
@bmddronesoficial
@bmddronesoficial 5 лет назад
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😉😉😉😉👍👍👍🤠🤠✌️
@halseybabe358
@halseybabe358 6 лет назад
For all people who says LDR doesn’t work i can tell ur so wrong ... 6 years ago i fell in love with a guy and he was in different country and we hadn’t any hope to meet because of the war in Syria it was really hard because we were so in love even though we knew this relationship is doomed... we kept trying to make this relationship works and we kept being patient about it until we met after 6 years and he proposed and i said yes 😍 it wasn’t easy but it totally worth it ❤️❤️❤️
@xorosho2013
@xorosho2013 5 лет назад
Wow thx for encouragement...seemed 3 month was too long for me:)
@ilovenycsomuch
@ilovenycsomuch 5 лет назад
How did you fall in love, did you meet online or on vacation or something?
@addictpageant
@addictpageant 5 лет назад
Hi, do you have a facebook page? I just want to know more how to manage and sustain the spark on ldr. I think you can help me cope with it
@itsaenn
@itsaenn 4 года назад
Hasley Wh omg 😥💚 GOD bless u both 🙏🏻
@Honeybeethatsme
@Honeybeethatsme 4 года назад
God bless you both and this is inspiring! Thank you 😊💖
@dianabennet1384
@dianabennet1384 4 года назад
We're on different sides of the world, so my sunset is a sunrise for him lol
@dianabennet1384
@dianabennet1384 4 года назад
@Alex Ramos nope... Broke up 2 months ago. He could not handle LDR.
@dianabennet1384
@dianabennet1384 4 года назад
@Alex Ramos oh we met in person... We lived together for a while, I just had to move because of work.
@dianabennet1384
@dianabennet1384 4 года назад
@Alex Ramos at least you're in the same country :)) it's much easier!
@dianabennet1384
@dianabennet1384 4 года назад
@Alex Ramos well you know if you love somebody, you wait. Especially if you know that it's not for long. My ex gave up. BTW He's in America lol I had to move from there :D I wish you good luck, don't break each other's hearts 💕
@Sky22_00
@Sky22_00 4 года назад
I feel u sister
@sacmakiz
@sacmakiz 6 лет назад
We never surprise each other in a negative way. We keep our conversations light and fun and we talk about serious things when we both have time to focus on... It sucks when someone's having a bad day and keep texting you while you're out having fun.
@vpeun
@vpeun 4 года назад
Currently in LDR. We’ve done #3 (virtual sex experience) via texts, phone, and video chats. I was a little shy about it in the beginning, but he helped me loosen up and feel comfortable with it. Thanks to these experiences, when we actually met up, the sex was pretty incredible. We knew what we liked and were willing to try things we talked about.
@consiwegumbo8188
@consiwegumbo8188 4 года назад
We are only 6 months old, and i'm scared of losing him because we sometimes run out of things to talk about, and i dont have any idea on how to keep the spark going 😞
@scarlet16minami5
@scarlet16minami5 4 года назад
i feel you... i feel that the spark is gone.. but theres something in my heart that i dont want to lose him
@TizaDeVas
@TizaDeVas 3 года назад
Has anyone found some advice on this?
@182zebraheads8
@182zebraheads8 3 года назад
@@TizaDeVas its hard
@gamasierra
@gamasierra 3 года назад
@@TizaDeVas still looking for this!
@nicoletrinidad9387
@nicoletrinidad9387 3 года назад
@@scarlet16minami5 i feel the same way too
@IssaSia
@IssaSia 6 лет назад
I agree with the 3 ways, another is seducing your partner thru text in a most inappropriate time like at the middle of a meeting or interrupting him from his work so he can take a short break from it!!! This is very effective I should say since your partner can't anything but making him crazy over you!! LOL It was fun!! He can't wait till you see each other again knowing there's something exciting ahead of you both!
@foxxybrown291
@foxxybrown291 6 лет назад
Absolutely! Lol xx
@sacmakiz
@sacmakiz 6 лет назад
My partner and I are super responsible, prone to anxiety kind of people so that would never work for us. What works for us is if the meeting was a successful one, if the work is accomplished and no need to worry about then we can get into the mood and let it go...
@tripwizard123
@tripwizard123 4 года назад
this works with my boyfriend, hahaha when i enter work i left him so troubled about seducing him. and he will be mad why i responded so late, hahaha but i just get a revenge because he too is a very tricky person
@はII
@はII 3 года назад
But careful he gets high with ur text and May be he might just go the nearest available prey 😆🤪 for getting low ... u know what I mean 😉
@privatepage4670
@privatepage4670 6 лет назад
I think it would be a good idea to send physical gifts through the mail and also e cards and pictures of flowers if they're so far you can't send flowers.
@gamasierra
@gamasierra 3 года назад
It's so easy to send flowers now, I managed to get local (to her) flower shops to send bouquets to her and I just paid like normal online shopping, but it was totally worth it
@alexandercarder2281
@alexandercarder2281 2 года назад
This guy is awesome, I really appreciate his thoughts and experience. I’ve been about a month in a long distance relationship and it was she who gave me this link. We have the most awkward time zone difference possible, im in the UK 🇬🇧 and she is in Hong Kong 🇭🇰 but we are working through it and by the grace of God and a lot of effort we will be together soon in real time hehe 😜 🥰 I love you Nimfa, if you discover my comment.
@ashleyb1091
@ashleyb1091 4 года назад
In LDR, we communicate a lot over the phone, text messages, we use a lot of emojis and pictures. We like to send pictures of what we are doing. My other relationships communication lacked, but even though we are LDR our communication is heighten, and we when we get together we feel so comfortable and we understand because communicate in different ways. I think when you really miss someone in LDR you really should express yourself and tell them that you are thinking about them, that’s so important.
@meowming2351
@meowming2351 4 года назад
We haven't seen each other for a year now 😭
@chasemarno4214
@chasemarno4214 3 года назад
I know what you are going through ,I am going through the same thing right now , just remember that you love each other and it will all work out
@chemnrd4404
@chemnrd4404 5 лет назад
I usually say “tell me what exciting things happened today”. It leaves it open for him to choose what is important to him and what he wants to share.
@thatssojayah6886
@thatssojayah6886 6 лет назад
Yes always keep it creative and fun ❤️ I just posted my experience on long distance. 2 years and we are still going strong
@stephanieco7422
@stephanieco7422 6 лет назад
Hi, i never had a real relationship in personal, but i was in 2 ldr, havent seen these men yet....the 2nd ldr is whom i am in a relationship now...we have been online dating for a year now...hope we will see each other one day...i am way to comfy with ldr than personal real relationship....i dont know why...hoping my ldr now will work, and he will be my partner for life..
@svetlanabagach5084
@svetlanabagach5084 5 лет назад
Hi, I'm sorry what? You've been in a relationship for a year and you haven't seen him? Hopefully you have ended that relationship. If this man not making any effort to come and see you, he is just occupying your time and giving you false hope. You need to run! You are worthy of so much more than this! I hope this helps.
@andreamuir1959
@andreamuir1959 4 года назад
Plz I hope you're not supplying him money
@tintinalfonso7702
@tintinalfonso7702 6 лет назад
Hi..im in a LDR trust and time for each other is the best thing for me no matter how far u are to each other.Thanks alot
@MagneticUnicornVlogs
@MagneticUnicornVlogs 4 года назад
Screensharing and taking a course together or watching a RU-vid video together to learn something new and discussing it after 🙂
@JAA87
@JAA87 3 года назад
I absolutely loved the facetime ideas!! We both love wine and charcuterie boards.. ima definitely do this with her!! Thank you kindly brother
@meganbialer3490
@meganbialer3490 4 года назад
My boyfriend only lives a little over an hour away but it still makes a difference with us not being able to see each other as much. I don't drive so it makes it harder. We went from texting all the time to it being a little more sporadic because work gets really busy around certain times and things like that for him and I'm a mother of two children one being autistic so I definitely know what busy is. The adjustment from talking all the time to being a little more sporadic with our messages and stuff puts me in my head a little bit do you have any tips for me that I can do to kind of keep the spark going letting him know that I'm there but not overdoing it
@zandilemdluli9583
@zandilemdluli9583 6 лет назад
I like number 3 thank you so much
@lalaranudo9321
@lalaranudo9321 4 года назад
Hahaha I love always creates a playful, naughty, loving kind of conversation in order for us not to get bored everyday. Haha
@noraO2833
@noraO2833 6 лет назад
Thank you for revisiting the subject I also want to thank you for bidding my request to the first video (that was me 😊) Since then, our LdR lasted for 3.5 years and the most pain that I experienced was having this deep connection with him and not being able to express that deeper connection in a physical way... I am going to visit him in October and November for the first time and I have to say, I’m anxious, but I’m going to stay “cool”....
@sarahmsuya5416
@sarahmsuya5416 2 года назад
How was the visit? Was the long wait still worth it? I'm in a LDR too
@lizindrajana2015
@lizindrajana2015 4 года назад
How to make a LDR works if you met someone online? We are 8000 miles and 15 hours apart but yet we do fall in love and try make it work by video calls and texting.
@IsabellaBlue
@IsabellaBlue 6 лет назад
Perfect topic! Distance is either because of his work or public demand, unfortunately that is the case with my man. Dropping notes throughout the day and FaceTime at night is a perfect way to feel closer than you are. Always plan meetings on weekends so he doesn’t get too used to having his freedom! 😂
@ilovenycsomuch
@ilovenycsomuch 5 лет назад
Just reached 6 months in my ldr & we plan on meeting next winter. I’m in the US & he lives over 2,000 miles away in Canada. This is my first ever relationship so I’ve never been happier. I love that I don’t have to hold back how needy/clingy I am & I can blow up his phone when he hasn’t responded for a while & he doesn’t get creeped out he just finds it cute & sweet. We are very open & honest about what we want & how we feel & call me crazy but I’m very optimistic about this... I definitely see this leading to marriage in the future ❤️
@Sen3235
@Sen3235 Месяц назад
So y’all met?
@catherine8499
@catherine8499 3 года назад
LDR sucks when your partner has no time that we can do and share this things together.
@audreynyemba8596
@audreynyemba8596 3 года назад
Sounds like my LDR
@sweetjhingsvlog2648
@sweetjhingsvlog2648 4 года назад
my partner don't like make a vedio call, I'm upset but I need to understand because I love him... 😃
@moonlightv312
@moonlightv312 4 года назад
same here :( but here we are haha, keep trying :)
@annachristinebarcelon7691
@annachristinebarcelon7691 4 года назад
Hahah yeah same with my bf
@downer2846
@downer2846 4 года назад
Thank you Man, I’m in America and I am with a girl in the UK. We are going to meet someday. I’m very introverted and shy and I’m emotionally numb. When she came into my life she taught me about happiness and I’m glad she did, I’m trying to figure out how to keep her interested. She has an amazing personality and she is beautiful and I really don’t feel like I deserve her and I’m desperate for any advice on this type of stuff. Thanks dude, this rlly helps.
@angelinadenisenko7396
@angelinadenisenko7396 3 года назад
I'm a girl and this sounds like how my ldr guy is, feels he's not enough.... any updates now? How are you going ?
@downer2846
@downer2846 3 года назад
@@angelinadenisenko7396 we broke up but if you need advice for your relationship or just a friend than my discord is Oreos#1757
@angelinadenisenko7396
@angelinadenisenko7396 3 года назад
@@downer2846 damn so sorry to hear that. I don't have discord sorry but thanks for the offer! I think we are on the verge of ending things. It just doesn't feel the same. I still want to make it work. But we are not exclusive and I think he is scared to take that step.
@pawmay2508
@pawmay2508 2 года назад
Talk to her always and be open with each others feelings.
@nayell7679
@nayell7679 3 года назад
I loved the sunset Thing but we have a 6 hour difference 😭💀
@alexpatto
@alexpatto 3 года назад
I really thank you for your tips. I've recently got into a long distance relationship. My girlfriend needed to go into another country and I just want to keep the spar alive while I finish some stuff here in my home country and then go to encounter her. At the very beginning, it's quite difficult but now, I just want to keep it alive. Thabks from El Salvador 🇸🇻
@africanunicornprincesses7806
@africanunicornprincesses7806 6 лет назад
Wanted to hear from this topic!
@sabinanayaju7575
@sabinanayaju7575 4 года назад
It only works if ur partner also wants to talk wid u coz single effort doesn't work....
@edwinadaguno9229
@edwinadaguno9229 9 месяцев назад
I’m currently in the ldr but we have nice relationship we have the same chemistry
@jackieredmun9787
@jackieredmun9787 6 лет назад
From personal experience only, at least for me, LONG DISTANCE DOES NOT WORK
@AdrienneStarr
@AdrienneStarr 6 лет назад
jackie Redmun I agree!
@Frovael
@Frovael 2 года назад
My ldr partner broke up with me because our chatting felt routine like, and it pains me because usually we talked about our problems, but this came out of the blue and I didn't even get a chance to try figure something out. I have a strong, faithful feeling, that this is just a break from each other to strenghten ourself, and I want to keep having faith in us. Sadly, we can't do most things from the video as #1 I don't have mobile data as my parents are still managing my phone and cuz Corona and time zones and #3 because I'll be 18 soon and they will just be turning 15 and of course that feels wrong, so I'll wait till we're both adults.....if we'll be back together by then. Thanks tho, I am writing these all up, gotta be prepared and try finding tips if we get back together
@kitkat0815
@kitkat0815 6 лет назад
Thank you I needed this..He just got a job and he had to relocate to Texas I'm in Florida.. His job requires him to travel all the time so we rarely get to talk or see one another, but when we do our relationship gets better and better. Maybe absence really does make the heart grow fonder. He's more loving caring and affectionate than ever..we just had a discussion on our future together. Things are looking up..Thank you Matt your videos have been very helpful. Please keep these video topics going 👍
@isabelmejia2431
@isabelmejia2431 6 лет назад
Wow!! I luv d "Share ur highs & ur lows" with each other approach♡♡ Thx Mat ;* I like to play "Truth Or Dare" in my LDR heheh Things CAN get VERY interesting☆♡♡
@MuskanAhmed
@MuskanAhmed 4 года назад
We do all the 3 things you said. It's been more than a year but fights are very common and we've lost the spark. We don't want to give up.. we want to work on our relationship. Help.
@potatoheadsharesfood2409
@potatoheadsharesfood2409 3 года назад
Try to see in person sometimes Ps: are u still in relationship?
@carolmilligan3259
@carolmilligan3259 2 года назад
Interflora sends flowers 💐
@florentinaandreica9288
@florentinaandreica9288 5 лет назад
I am in a long distance relationship and I use the 3 strategies, wouldn't say strategies cause it 's normal behaviour without planning it before...and it works ..
@alisontill7677
@alisontill7677 Год назад
Relationships happy boyfriend Jessica till thanks
@brandymatthews8812
@brandymatthews8812 4 года назад
My guy is in UK and I'm in US. A realy interesting way we conected sexually is I bought a vibrater that he can control by app so we feel very conected he can have the controls to when I'm pleased it has been very good for us especially cause after I visited in march but had to return home it was difficult to finally be together then part but this has help us feel conected again
@william6057
@william6057 2 года назад
Good for you two!!!!
@sacmakiz
@sacmakiz 6 лет назад
I agree with your points and I also like to add 'quality time talk' on top of that. My partner and I are in long distance since the beginning and we text each other every morning, give few details about our days, say little cute things meanwhile and we let each other know when we will be home and we talk before bed time. Every day when we get a chance, even if it's for a few minutes we do this routine. It keeps the bounding stronger, almost like we train each other to be closer as if we were in the same place at the same time every day.
@jennacraftytatlady1624
@jennacraftytatlady1624 6 лет назад
Yeah I have a long distance relationship sometimes its hard and sometimes is really funny and great.
@modernladies-tplearning6279
@modernladies-tplearning6279 6 лет назад
This is just what I needed. Thank you
@gratitude5740
@gratitude5740 6 лет назад
In LDR FOR 8 months. 13,000 kms apart. 7 hours time difference. Any new ideas 💡 how to keep it together? I’m living more intensely, he is lay back.
@sharoncarpenter4671
@sharoncarpenter4671 6 лет назад
Gratitude & Life im also to in a ldr and how i keep it together is that i kind of like stay busy and when i do think about him i go to pinterest and pick out cute little cards or something in that nature.so then that way it wont be so hard on me..my ldr has been deployed to syria and hopefully he comes back to the states in 3 more weeks..i cannot wait to meet him..he sends me pictures and stuff but what i also do is a google search image on them to see if they are fake or is it a scammer. so far so good he's not a scammer.
@paolazo-l4790
@paolazo-l4790 6 лет назад
Same, 2 months, 6h jet lag, which, I agree, makes it even further, Not easy, I ended my last relationship because of the distance, 2 years. So, I dont like it, we get cold. Its a fact in my case, I get cold in 1 month distanced. the only way is to see you regularly, at least 1 per month. and make it worth it then. if not, it wont last...im on it, trying!
@cuttiemx
@cuttiemx 5 лет назад
me too, do you want to share experiences? Ceubleu@hotmail.com
@addictpageant
@addictpageant 5 лет назад
Hey, i wanted to talk about ldr like yours. Im in an ldr for 4 months now and i think we can share experiences.
@boomerangsruckflug8513
@boomerangsruckflug8513 6 лет назад
Thanks Mat, very good. Actually I never date men more than 100 km away from my town. That's how I avoid getting stuck in LDR. 😉
@huntercollins1310
@huntercollins1310 6 лет назад
Not a frickin' clue what to do. Just starting over. But it sounds like so much fun! Thank you for the ideas! Ber these could be translated into some short distance elements to keep the sparks flying there, too.
@desiera48
@desiera48 4 года назад
This is a great topic .we always do thesame idea ... LDr really works ! Believe and trust
@bohrashreya4240
@bohrashreya4240 5 лет назад
I'm new subscriber 2 this channel. SIR..Kindly revive videos 4 ldr relationship ( no contact & hw to maintain it , if blocked 4m everywhere hw to reach out, steps 2 gt bck fst) It wld b gr8 help... Tysm...
@jennamejia6668
@jennamejia6668 6 месяцев назад
Any thoughts on the Man i met online in a dating app, will come visit me this coming May first.. but originally he met another woman he talked to for months but then the woman stopped talking to him, and then i came in the picture where he met me and now plan to visit me?. It felt like im an option. That his plans of coming is for the first woman he chatted but stopped communicating... its just i don’t know what to think about it 🤦‍♀️ can someone share their advice on this. Thanks!!!
@JAA87
@JAA87 3 года назад
Im currently in a LDR (4months in).. We live 5hrs away from each other LV and LA.. We do our very best to see each other every month.. The most difficult part for me is that i have 3 beautiful kids with 2 different woman and shes never had kids.. This presents new challenges especially for her, shes never been away from her family and i cannot move to LA because i have my kids, i hate that she has to sacrifice everything if we want to live together eventually... I feel so guilty because i need to know if she sees and wants a future with a man that has 3 kids with 2 exwifes... We love each other passionately and respect each other, frankly we both agree that our love is soo incredible in every way you can think of... We are in our early 30's.. im praying that we can figure it out because shes an incredible human🙏😍 "the world moves for love, it kneels before it in awe"😢😍🥰 #GodBlessEveryone #StayStrong #
@rachelsoule4634
@rachelsoule4634 3 года назад
Me N My Boyfriend have A Movie Date Nite Every Friday Nite, we Videochat Each Other, Texting, Calling Each Other
@Johngengelbach2
@Johngengelbach2 4 года назад
My gal and I were together here in Texas she had to suddenly move back to her home state Florida, it became long distance onc again. I'm planning to move out to be with her later on this year.
@belleclarin1598
@belleclarin1598 3 года назад
I agree with you. It adds more spark in a relationship.
@fianaj9517
@fianaj9517 6 лет назад
Easy said than done. I wonder how many long distance relationships can say over time that, they tried all those 3 steps but over rime you burn out of ideas. Helpful tips but depends on what's going on in each other's lives at the time.
@suzayer
@suzayer 9 месяцев назад
I have a question for you, or others in long distance relationships. Did the relationship begin after physically meeting each other?
@nowakwera
@nowakwera 6 лет назад
Hey! I used to set a specific time we were going to videochat, so we both had ourselves in our daily schedule, just like a regular meeting.
@MariastellaERmt
@MariastellaERmt 5 лет назад
Thanks for this video😘
@SuperPineapple20
@SuperPineapple20 6 лет назад
So much needed topic. Thanks a lot, you're the best ❤️
@daliaabudawood8568
@daliaabudawood8568 6 лет назад
Matt .. that’s a brilliant video.. and I would like if you make a video on how to make my man do some effort to work this relationship “ distance relationship it is “ I mean i talk to him i send some videos and i hint that he should read “men are from March women from venues” but he say he wants to make improvements and then nothing we go over and over with the same problems and issues .. so how do i fix that !?
@lornanyambura
@lornanyambura 2 года назад
Oooh no...no did a summary... can't stand how he lengthening everything.... like it straight to the point...watch as a type to get through it 🙌
@nicoletorres6695
@nicoletorres6695 6 лет назад
Thanks for the idea of sharing hi and low for the day!!
@ironpuppet8790
@ironpuppet8790 3 года назад
I went to go see him easter weekend. He's so lonley and he just clung and clung to me all weekend scared I was going to leave forever..he just shared Everything with me. I loved he was open with me
@tanlight45
@tanlight45 4 года назад
I think communication is 🔑 key and if u guys are both walking in the same direction great for the FUTURE. But it can take a turn if u both are not. X
@NessahSimmons
@NessahSimmons 6 лет назад
I suggest/make random visits when he’s off from work. I remind him how much/deep I love him.
@privatepage4670
@privatepage4670 6 лет назад
Thanks for this I'm in my first long distance relationship
@sharoncarpenter4671
@sharoncarpenter4671 6 лет назад
Beth 888 awwwwwwBeth that is so awesome!!! im also in one to and it hurts like hell to because he has been deployed to syria.now he has abour 3 more weeks to come back to the states..and its killing me because we barely have time to chat with each other because of the mere fact he stays busy all the time yikes!!! that's just sucks 360degree all the way round...but im trying to hold up so far so good but this silence is killing me softly
@privatepage4670
@privatepage4670 6 лет назад
Wishing you luck
@valeriemartha9870
@valeriemartha9870 6 лет назад
Where is he from?
@privatepage4670
@privatepage4670 6 лет назад
Canada
@valeriemartha9870
@valeriemartha9870 6 лет назад
Beth 888 am from Kenya and he Is from Belgium😅lol the distance
@briannebarach5733
@briannebarach5733 2 года назад
what kind of questions could I ask my that I just started dating
@elindigeno1215
@elindigeno1215 6 месяцев назад
I feel disconnected all the time and I'm in a long distance relationship
@Milycabrera92
@Milycabrera92 3 года назад
Who else is watching this on 2021? #pandemicTimes haha 😂
@heathenwolf8903
@heathenwolf8903 6 лет назад
BTW, tried to download your texting book, connection was too slow. Tried to hit the help buttons and form button, all went to the book that supposedly helps you use the texting book... Please help.
@aprildimalanta7493
@aprildimalanta7493 6 лет назад
I am in long distance relationship for 1 month. I am from the Philippines, he is an army from Texas. We haven't met but we are planning to. We are both busy working but we are making sure we have communication. I really love him. LDR is hard but it is all worth it.
@boomerangsruckflug8513
@boomerangsruckflug8513 6 лет назад
April Dimalanta, if you've never met before, please be careful he could be a scammer. They usually pretend to be in the US army! Never ever transfer any money to someone you've never met in reality. They pretend to have no cash since all money is invested in diamonds or other things and then they ask you to lend them money for the ticket to visit you and the result is, the money is gone and the guy. Sorry, I just had the wish to send this warning. All the best! 😘
@aprildimalanta7493
@aprildimalanta7493 6 лет назад
Mireille Claire thank you so much. I appreciate it. He's a legit army. We've been talking everyday 3 hours a day. I knew there is a scammers but I make sure that I will check the area code before I entertain the person.Most scammers are from Nigeria. He's legit and I trust him. Thank you tho.
@boomerangsruckflug8513
@boomerangsruckflug8513 6 лет назад
Lisa Marie, yessss, but he shall visit her on HIS costs. And with "law of attraction" you cannot get a guy that doesn't exist.
@boomerangsruckflug8513
@boomerangsruckflug8513 6 лет назад
Lisa Marie, if he's a scammer and the photos are any pics, stolen from the internet, the money will be gone forever. Just put the word "scammer" or "scam" on Google and you'll find hundreds of poor victims that tell you their story.
@boomerangsruckflug8513
@boomerangsruckflug8513 6 лет назад
Lisa Marie, I never met scammers because I don't fall for a foto and some nice words on the internet. You are wrong and stop forcing people to adapt your mindsets, thanks.
@cindyfrancessalcedo1306
@cindyfrancessalcedo1306 6 лет назад
In my opinion....ofcourse we all know this already,but not all would agree.....🤣 Must have respect,to understand our differences,to value the trust we have for each other,to be able to stick personal boundary,and allowing yourself to be vulnerable to someone are 5 most important ingredients we need to remember in order to sustain any relationship...😍
@loadeddiperz
@loadeddiperz 6 лет назад
If only i can do that sharing the sunset thing. 😅
@saraabdifara9090
@saraabdifara9090 6 лет назад
Thank you ❤️🙏
@tanciafrancisf
@tanciafrancisf 6 лет назад
This amazing I just sub to your channel
@woodbrassandglass
@woodbrassandglass 6 лет назад
Thank you, thank you, thank you!:)
@pinharris8858
@pinharris8858 6 лет назад
All of them sound good...will try them all. :P :P
@MorenaKaye
@MorenaKaye 6 лет назад
😭
@ladyjihan4739
@ladyjihan4739 6 лет назад
He is ignoring me without a reason 😢😢Long distance relationships are really hard..Sometimes i feel like quiting loving and dating💔💔
@kianaart2881
@kianaart2881 5 лет назад
Lady Jahan I’m in a Ldr as well, do you need someone to talk?
@sarag.4562
@sarag.4562 5 лет назад
Thats shetcky i hope everythings ok :/
@rqrjq4iari4
@rqrjq4iari4 2 года назад
I'm from Philippines he's from portugal everyday I'm falling in love even more to him can't wait to meet him someday it might be like impossible but I know love will find its way ❤️❤️❤️
@rebikabm9877
@rebikabm9877 3 года назад
Me and my bf been one and half year relationship now he is from zermany he visit me in corona time now I m will be visiting in July 4 so I m excited ❤️❤️❤️❤️ so I guess ldr work as far as you give each other time
@parveenbanu9517
@parveenbanu9517 3 года назад
Yeah 😁😁 I went to beach as he never seen one and it's close to me. So I took him to beach yeah ofcourse through video call😉 we had really really good time it was sooo good to see him excited seeing the beaches. ❤️ And yeah seeing a sun is really hard fa him but fa me sun is roasting me 😂 so I used to make videos and video calls during sunrise and sunset. But you know the sweetest thing above all is he'll say "baby it's enough seeing them lemme see you" 😘
@munirazaira5465
@munirazaira5465 5 лет назад
Owwww yeeeeah...number 3 nailed it...😋 * . *
@MrSicaria
@MrSicaria 3 года назад
Mat.. i understand the first topic but I'm too shy to face time.. i think that'll not work for me.. :')
@darshansubba6475
@darshansubba6475 6 лет назад
We spend together for 1year but unfortunately she got job in chennai and our relationship tuned into LDR.. Its hard for me because i need her care and love(s*x) also want to hold her hands and sleep together. In between we fight and get angry but she usally forgives me. We also do videos call and talk dirty sonetimes. And at last we sleep together speaking in phone.
@marymaymalbas5710
@marymaymalbas5710 6 лет назад
Sir Matt how to know if the man I’m with is truly in love with me
@amtv1616
@amtv1616 5 лет назад
I meet my girlfriend in Sweden than I go back to Morocco 🇲🇦 so she working and she need vacances from her boss... I don't know what I'm going to do? Pls help me guys 💔😢
@arcadianwings2662
@arcadianwings2662 6 лет назад
Looking at the Moon simultaneously, talking for hours on the phone (install Viber!), making videos for each other, sending each other gifts and hand-written letters through mail,.... There are a lot of elements to LDR that make it MORE "romantic" than the "casual short distance ones". But it can be tricky!! Once you decide to live together, the relationship changes, and it's important to be aware of that!
@beckyharper6263
@beckyharper6263 3 года назад
Love the high/lows
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