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I hate when a guy does this, as soon as they start talking like that, I try to steer the conversation in another direction and then it goes back to sex, immediately, I will say It’s not a good idea that we talk anymore and I block him. I’ve had guys send me full explicit nudes the first day I meet them and talk to them. That is a guaranteed way of getting blocked.
As soneone on the spectrum, i appreciate clear signals or even just openly saying what they want. Cuz im deathly afraid of misinterpreting signs if they're not clear enough. (I'm a woman, btw ♀️)
I was ghosted by someone who came on VERY STRONG and basically love bombed me for the first 1.5 months until we became intimate and then he stopped contacting me for 8 days until I texted him. He then responded right away and we started seeing each other again and he told me he loved me etc. etc. Yet he stopped communicating with me on a daily basis like we used to, and we saw each other 2 x week but he didn’t reach out except for to say good morning and set a time to see each other. Then when I set a boundary with him because of the distance he put between us he slowly disappeared / ghosted me altogether after 3 months of seeing each other in total…. glad I didn’t waste any more time with him…
One of the things I do to really get into my feminine energy is taking the time to give my hair and skin a treat. Put a mask on my face and hair, do some trimming, take care of my nails while taking a footbath, etc... really sink into the moment of making myself presentable. It's both relaxing and attractive. No need for loads of make up, treat your hair and skin well and really own it and any man will notice you
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder" is a blatant lie. Absence and silence makes the heart grow colder and makes the recipient of his non-communicative style lose interest. And he actually used that stupid axiom on me the other day after I mentioned that I've missed him. (We work together once a week. So far it's been just fine. We behave. It's a small store, small crew, everyone knows what's up, and we keep things to ourselves anyhow.) This is just not going to work for me.
Love this advice. I’ve done some of these things. My ex now never stopped talking about the new spicy ideas in our marriage. Now I have more insight. Thank you.
I’d care about all of this IF men actually cared about a woman’s experience. To be honest, most men have ZERO idea or interest about how to please a woman.
I love hand-holding, kissing a date's hand, and touching their chin/jawline. I want to do more cuddling, like laying down and have the man be the big spoon
Will you be doing a longer video on this. This is exactly where I am with a guy. It is so obvious how he feels but how scared he is as well. I want to provide him with safe space to let him know I want to get into his world n get to know him on a deeper level if he'll allow me.
My husband is 40 I am 30. We have 2 kids under 3. When both are asleep at the same time we finally get time together to connect. Honestly sex is always great just less often in this season.
One night he had just left my house and then texted me to go out on my balcony and look at the moon. Said he wanted to know we were both looking up at the same full moon. Very romantic! 🌕💜
I legit followed through all three steps yesterday with a guy, it was new for me to do and not take charge (lean into my feminine energy), and he sounded so pleased and motivated in his plans for us to go out and hang out. This is someone I do not want to lose as we finally have our timing right later in life to come together, and Im not gonna do my old habits that didn't attract the masculine man I wanted.
What if he scratch under his nose, upper lips laterally ? Some say it's sexual attraction because when the blood is running high, it activates an erogenous zone under the nose. It's about the smell, pheromone. Is that true ??
I’ve done a lot of these and now I feel like omg what an idiot I’ve been now wonder he lost interest and we broke up. Thanks for the video Mat so I know what to not do going forward in the future. Your videos are so helpful, thank you!
Stop having him just assume that he can come over any night that he wants. Have him stop assuming he can have sex when he wants to. Have him just assume I will be there without too much effort on his part.
