@@nathanreimer1000 well this particular guy was one of my best friends for like 4 years and we finally told each other that we had feelings for one another in January of this year then we had a huge fight cause he was a lil weird and toxic and always wanted to guilt trip me but we still have to pretend we are best friends cause our families are really good friends
I need your opinions on this: He always tries to help me He has always been nice to me He sometimes goes really close to me when he talks to me in person We have good text convos but he always leaves me on delivered until like a day later...
I understand that guys can be shy, especially with the social environment that society has created for men. HOWEVER, why can't people learn to communicate more face-to-face? I personally do not like texting, despite the amount that I do. I do not like how impersonal it is at times. Spending 3 hours texting someone non-stop when you could have just called them or hung out with them in person. Have some courage!!! Girls admire that! As someone who grew up with guys most of my life, just being a good friend can help get your foot in the door. Act like the person you like is a normal person. You don't have to change who you are to get them to like you, and if you do, they are the wrong person for you! My grandpa saw my grandma at a drive-in with her girlfriends, thought she looked nice and beautiful, came up to her and asked her out. A year later they married. 40 years later, they had 3 children, 10 grandchildren, and 2 great-grandchildren. All because my grandpa saw a beautiful girl and asked her out.
*My Advice for Boys and Girl :* You will notice if someone is in love with you from his eyes, body language, words, way of speaking, how he/she address when you accompany. Don't do this or that trick, always say/reveal what you truly want and your heart wants. Even in the time of proposal, it doesn't matter whether you propose through text or directly meeting, talk or say what you really feel about your crush. And if you notices he/she didn't like you in any meetings/contact, don't force others to love you back because it is not good for u & others as well. It's your dignity & wait for someone who truly loves you. One last thing who just started new relationship: There is no relationship without communication. And there is no love without respect.
Girls…. if a guy is only texting you and talking to you through social media, he’s not that interested in you unless of course you want a pen pal, go for it. If you want something more, you deserve better than low effort guys.
erm its not that easy for some. In my case he's a very shy guy. He's like me but as a boy version LOL. So rn we usually text, but he has tried to initiate a convo twice and one of the times we couldn't say anything so we ended up smiling stupidly at each other and making eye contact
@@izumifiedthingAhh that was exactly my situation with the guy who had a crush on me! But after a year of obsessing over me, he just moved to this other girl bc I starting avoiding him. This new girl is kinda a stalker to him too, but I guess they fit bc he’s kinda obsessive… and also he’s racist. 💀
He never talks to me in person only trough text he answers fast if I answer fast but he’s super dry and then he leaves me on delivered for two days, he makes plans to hangout but forget about them I think it’s better for me to head out
I'm the opposite 😭😭 he always talks to me in person and he dares to steal my seatmate's seat js to seat w me💀 BUT I HATE IT BC I'M TAKING NOTES AND HE STEAL MY PEN AND CORRECTION TAPE AND WON'T GIVE IT BACK but it's cute BC he's smiling at me
its just the thing that over 15 boys told me that they like me and i recejted in the kindest way possible bc one time i liked a boy and they said they liked me too , btw told him first and we were together for 3 to 4 months and after his friend who is a girl told me he doesnt really like you he was just joking around with you and since that day i didnt tell a boy that i liked him scared he would mess around and i cant even tell if my crush sees me as his bff or his crush now
Bro he left me on read, cause i responded with k. and i only said k because he said k first. GUYS IM OVER HIM THIS A YEAR LATER LOL. 😭😭 WELL IM STARTING TO GET OVER HIM, I SAW SOME GIRL WHISPERING IN HIS EAR AND HE WAS SMILING SO I THINK ITS TIME LOL (im crying)
Anytime a guy says k he is so into you that he wants to marry you for the rest of his life , but it’s so overwhelming to him that he never talks to you ever again and sees other women instead. He’s totally into you. Trust me.
yeahh mine uses a lot of time to reply sometimes but replies fast another day but I suspect its cuz he doesnt uses his phone/social media a lot. But when we do text he is not dry, he uses the same emojis as me for some reason and he keeps it going. He doesnt just yk end it like that. we're too shy to talk to eachother irl tho. even tho he has tried coming over sometimes. We just end up looking each other in the eyes and smiling stupidly loll. Do I have a chance??
Yo this is like the first video which actually made me like "ya maybe my crush likes me" because all others are just something which are just nothing like my crush does lol
the last one is a big one. A man that is interested will keep that conversation going because he has intentions to actually form something. If he is in and out, thats a clear indication youre nothing special. Know your worth ladies
I’m so sorry my love, he just not interested. How you get him back interested is acting as if he truly doesn’t exist. No text, no check up calls, no speaking to him when you see each other in public you have to make him feel as though you are so secure in yourself that his lack of interest didn’t stop your life
The only thing he ever does is stare,acts cold but actually funny, smile only at me like that, compliment only while we're alone ,when I try to act cold melts me completely 😅
What if talks over both (like a lot) and he’s very open? Also what if he has a gf and I’m trying to stay away but he flirts with you? What if he does answer quick but like he has a gf? (“Asking for a friend”)
I know an attractive man with whom I can not have a friendly conversation because he is a salesman and we have nothing to talk about with him, but I like him, I stare at him once when I entered his cafeteria. He noticed immediately and raised an eyebrow and glared at me for a long time. I broke eye contact with him. Sometimes he acts as if he is indifferent. But when I walk away from him, he also stares at me. And most of the times when he sees me at his workplace, we exchange strange looks for a few seconds. But, in general, his character is not such that he doesn't self-control, and sometimes I feel that my behavior is imitating, and once I saw him turn his head and look at me, but he immediately turned his head away.For a while, for no reason, he used to show up at the same place at the same time and day as me, even though he seemed to be unemployed there. However, I don't know enough about him to answer the rest of the signals, such as jealousy, etc., but do you think these signs are enough for the initial suspicion of his feelings?
Act batshit crazy. Completely mad! If ya need a reference, look at the lunatics from Arkham Asylum, I don't think the way they act would be found attractive 🧐🤷🏻♀️
3 got me like "oh sh*t". I have a male neighbour, we've always been friendly (got plenty in common) but lately he's been trying to get me to open up more and he's gone from never messaging me on Facebook to messaging me a lot, usually about writing, and even starting to copy my texting style. I like bim but he IS my neighbour and it feels too risky to me.
What if the conversation isnt dry but he gets so busy in life that he forgets to text back.... he has all of these but im questioning this one Update: Idk what happened but he doesnt want to talk to me anymore... everything was fine until 2 days ago...
OK SOOO my crush who we’ll call Bryce has this “friend” (she just kinda talks to him but I don’t think they’re friends really) and we’ll call Bryce’s “friend” Kim. So, my friend and Kim have a LOTTT of beef and they hate each other but I think they are both pretty nice people for the most part. Anyways, I usually try to not talk to Kim when my friend is around since I don’t want to start any trouble, but Kim and I were in the school bathroom and Kim asked me “so, do you like anyone?” And I was on the spot and didn’t know what to say so I just said no. Also, Bryce keeps looking at me in class and (this part is kind of a lot) my Best friend who I’ll call Fiona, was playing basketball against Bryce, Bryce’s close friend, and another kid. Fiona went to the bathroom (I was walking around with another friend and wasn’t paying attention to any of them) and when she came back she heard Bryce say something about me, she said it was something like “oh yeah (my name)…” and she said she couldn’t hear anything else after that and he stopped talking. Then, in class we all had to chose a word of the year or something (idk) and we chose the same word 🤭. So, am I crazy delusional, or does he like me… BTW IM SORRY THIS WAS A LOTTTT TO READ 😭 BUT IF YOU DID END UP READING ALL OF THAT, Thank you very much 😭❤
There's this really popular guy in school and him and my bestie are friends over snap and tell eachother everything. Long story short, he's bin liking me for a month. And the problem is 😅 I don't like him back 😂. I'm not lying, he has asked me out like 10 times. He normally gets his friends to ask me or he does it over snap. Whenever I say no, he gets quite sad and u don't know what to do 😅 So yh that was my life story... What do I dooooooo!? ✰
Just let him know clearly that you don't like him. Be direct and mention that how you feel towards him will most likely not change in the future either. To be polite, mention that you still think he's a good person or something and want to be on good terms with him.
@@Ice52901 thanks so much ♡ this really helps. The only problem is.... Yesterday I found out that all of his friends like me. It's very awkward in school. I'll mention what u said to all if them and see what happens! Wish me good luck 😅
I'm in high school and most of the older guys at first started talking to me and say funny jokes but then the next day they act as if they don't see you
This helped thanks coz we chat a lot... and for a month straight... even if we vanish for like a day or 2... busyness of life...we come back and reply to each others numerous texts... I'm too scared to tell him I like him
I swear my best friend that I have a crush on is just like this, but I feel like he’s still going to deny me because he’s two years older than me and we go to different schools
Yeah, yeah... but your eyes are totally awesome! Can I, like, borrow them or something? I want them for myself, and you can try having brown eyes for a while. 🥺
In text, he compliments me saying im beautiful. In person, he tries to come talk to me when I am not feeling well, but doesn’t have the courage to. He runs to come and open the door for me when he sees I’m tired. Though we have never talked in person, he tries to act cool around me. ❤ I love him but don’t know if he loves me
Things he does to me at school ( IRL ) 1. He winked at me 2. He gave me sweet 3. He smiled at me 4. We made eye contect 5. He hits my head for no reason 6. He tries to get my atention by smiling and looking at me And a fact he is my enemy/cousin!🤦🏻♀️🙂😳
If he wants to hang out but doesn't ask.... He doesn't like you ENOUGH. Also, anytime a guy has told me that I'm "hard to read" turned out he liked me but couldn't tell if I liked him.
