Does He Like Me Or Is He Just Being Nice 

This is soo funny! Sounds like me, especially number 4 😂

Going through this right now ugh!

LITERALLY WHAT I DO LOL

@@axsunza This is possibly why guys don't like me LOL

Literally! I can carry a conversation with any guy, but my crush 😖 i just lose my words and get stuck 😭

Hey Jazmine! Just know most guys "play" the nice guy role even if they are interested in you because it's safer for them, especially at younger ages. For guys, there is also always the lingering fear of rejection they show signs of interest in. I'm sure guys have been interested in you, but just know *most* guys have a very difficult time of expressing it 😉

Same sis ):

Jasmine your awesome! Better question are you interested in anyone? Start there. Bless

@BeetleBUMxX easier said than done. Honestly, this was just a joke, I wasn't expecting the attention. It is true tho. If anyone has ever been interested, they've never shown it but I honestly don't even care enough anymore so I guess all hope is lost for me

Same here, and not even thinking about that silly highschool stuff - we’re talkin’ not even once in the 16 yrs that I’ve already been an adult!

sadly true😂

Omg

Ikr 😭😭😭

Here’s an interesting face mask 😷 cue that goes with the fan. I have a guy that adjusts his face mask a lot when he’s chatting me up ... like he’s super hot and he has to fan his mask. I did that the other day when I standing next to him.

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LOL SAME WHY US 😭😩

Welcome to my life 😜

Yea that's bout right

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This is the problem I always have. It really kills my own confidence.

I feel that

PammyWammy i feel that oof y’all let’s have self break up support group chat

@@singingforyou3262 yes please!

I hear that.

Im married to myself (lol)

Great way to go about it, Huda!

Huda, Agree, there is no point jumping ahead of the game.

Yup let the guy initiate

😂 Yes, that's so much easier.

I wish I could do that, but I overthink everything and I can't stop myself. xd

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Exactly!!!

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he always stares and maintains eye contact, he sometimes airs out his shirt and he also sits facing towards me in class

Reading this makes me think omfg he does this..but like no what if he is just being r e a l l y nice

Some guys don’t maintain eye contact cause they might be shy or they might not want u to think they like u. So they’ll take small peeks when ur not looking and will look away as soon as u look at them.

Yes - this happens a lot with me- but I still can't get a Hot Indian Pakistani or White guy to ask me out - WTF

@@jenny-DD how about a hot Italian

That's me😔

Same😖😭

Literally me

*then i still feel like hes just pranking me*

ponyo Bruh YES. When I was in school, my childhood crush got a few of his friends to ask me if I liked him, and me thinking it was just a prank and worrying that they'd make fun of me, my dumb ass said "ew no!" Turns out he got pretty upset when he heard that and I ruined all chances I had with him 😭 I tried to confess to him a few years later after I grew a pair, but it seems I scarred him and he just ignored me... It was so embarrassing and now I just stay to myself unless the other person makes an extremely clear move first.

Now if only our vision went gray when he's not into you - that would be a sure sign !

No wonder my screen is always grey...

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Lol!

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I dated one like that. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️ worst mistake of my life.

Yep, a narcissist 😩😭 was with one for 7yrs! Got out last year☺️🙌

Been there. Oh God no.

Narcissist at his finest

yep .....so true

Eeek 😬 Maybe slip him some gloss?

When they lick their lips they look like Jabba the hut.

poor thing.

@@datingcoachryanpatrick I see that video now! "Applying lip gloss gone wrong gone sexual" 🤣🤣🤣

Lol give him a lip scrub

LOL that's just it! That's why we want to look for a handful of these signs versus one or two so we know we're not imagining it 😉

@@datingcoachryanpatrick thank you for the video btw! today I saw my guy and I began to notice those little things. every time i talked or smiled at him he'd smile back and raise his eyebrows (and he's the charming kind). when I stared at him he smiled at me and kept looking

rafaela try tarot reading . They actually help❤️✨ There r plenty of them on yt just search it up

@@lyra331 Nice!!! Once you know the signs, it's funny how quickly you can read men :) Good stuff!

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Don't get depressed on me, Blue! 🙂 Just understand, the dating game is a volume play. Now that you know the difference between the signs a guy gives you when he's interested versus just being nice, you'll be able to sort through the ones who aren't so much faster. It's just a matter of time before a cool guy is going to step in and show you that genuine interest 🙂You've got the tools now!

i liked this before i even watched the video

@Planet Claire Has Big Hair Nobody should make you fel that way

I still miss Vine same

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The direct approach with the score! 🙌🏼

Yeah! And then I'll end up getting rejected and things will get awkward between us lmao.

but guys like to hunt!??? so confused

I did. He said he was, but DIDN'T show it, so I let them 🥭!

@@NobodyWantsYourPity I know I’m nervous about that happening too and I’ve liked my crush for over 4 months 😔

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BHahah honestly me!! 😂😂😂

It’s the opposite for me. Him: displays all signs he’s into me. Me in denial: nah. He’s just being nice

Me

@@gbeana81 😂😂

An engineer is definitely more mechanical and industrious would have at least raised one eyebrow

Did he just say it outright?

Dude acts like there are only 2 types of men. I know better.

Well time to release him. Its Not the Right Guy. Lol

Been there😅. I remember thinking about I hadn't a clue about his intentions.

Story of my life 😥

That's all. Cus if he likes, he should be confident to tell u

Patricia N.Aduam why are men the only ones who are expected to be confident? I don’t wanna date a lady who isn’t confident either 🤷🏻‍♂️ go ahead and ask a guy out if you like him.

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@@mjpapa19 Exactly I wonder the same thing too, why men the only one have to be confident? Why women can't be confident too? I'm not scared to go ahead ask a man out if he's single, if we both like each other out too

AMEN

How do men and women romantically bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.

Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.

@@icysnow57cold64 Boys like girls, because people don’t like looking at the same thing all the time, so girls are different from boys so they like it because it’s different

@@psychott6 I still don't understand how men and women can have a strong bond with each other. Women are more comfortable touching and complimenting each other (unlike men). It may or may not be based on sexual attraction but rather love, comfort and affection. They seem to enjoy the company of women more than men. Women tend to get along better with other women. Why? They share the same issues, situations, life experiences, etc. So they tend to get one another and relate. Also, Women, in general are sensitive, vocal, and are not ashamed to admit their fears, apprehensions and insecurities. They face problems head on even if they don't have a solution. They talk it over, seek counsel, empathy and compassion, and, yes, they cry. And, they are not ashamed of it. It is cathartic for them. It releases stress. Now we know why they live longer. They just share a camaraderie with other women. They are sisters, friends, mothers, aunts, grandmothers, next-door neighbors, colleagues and peers, and, in some cases, lovers. They are different and unique. They are comfortable with their womanhood, sexually and their individuality.

Lol

Wow....it was a dream??

Ooooooooof

U should have done 4,5,1,2,3

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Same lol 😂😂 the gray scale makes it so dramatic

Haha thanks guys!

SAME🤣🤣🤣

#6 & #9 for me!!! Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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that's not being nice😂😂 he likes you

Yup, I agree with Lucy 🙂

Nah. Def just being nice. A French kiss means he just wants to be friends also.

THIS HAPPENED TO ME AS WELL. I french kiss my crush in our graduation, but i know he's just being nice.

Ohh you are so beautiful, girl! No, does not sounds like your crush was just being nice.

Lucky

Sis- if you don't marry him-

I'm here for these reasons. 😂

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Lmao same

Unless he is hiding his feelings. Men are extremely good at that. In high school I completely hid my crush on this girl for years and she never had a clue nor did any of her gossipy friends. In college when she found out I liked her she was shocked and didn't believe it, she thinks i made that up for some reason. I guess she can't accept the fact that she was clueless about what I actually felt.

Adam yes you’re absolutely right. However, thats more for in a situation where they don’t talk much i suppose.( the guy and the girl). But im more so referring to when a giy and a girl are basically talking or are about to date. The girl puts in alot of work and he doesnt put much effort into the relationship. In that sense, through his actions, ill know whether he really like me or not

@@kimberlyjanice8267 In that case then yeah. If a man isn't investing then hes not interested. When we like a girl we put it all in cause we want her. Also keep in mind that feelings are fickle and sometimes a passion can burn really intense but only burn very briefly. Experiences like that will make you wiser.

Adam you are right. I am praying for the right man to come in my life one day. I dont want an intense fire that will burn out soon. I want something that’ll last a life time of happiness. And thats really hard to find nowadays to be honest

a guy said he wanted me then was nothing but friendly for the next 5 days, he's online but in my gut I'm realising he's just messing with me.

haaaahahahahaha yes I think he's TOTALLY into you!!

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LMOAOAO MEEE

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An I come to your wedding?😂😂😂

Galll ikr...🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Oof sameeeee

Same

Me to

Thanks Blue Bell!

me, who's actually high: 🔴👄🔴

@@relaxolotl788 me whos just getting high

Thanks so much Paris!

Paris Grae Saladino when the screen house black and white are the funniest😂

Same lol

He's cute too HAHAHAHAHA

yeah esp the "Good report" part haha

I'm here for the gray screens. 😂

Haha I like that! Yes, you see those signs, time to move along! 😄

It's funny, there was this guy who liked me and his eye brows did move a lot but I never knew that was a sign. However, I knew from other signs he liked me.

So your saying just to straight out ask men where its going oppose from this?

charity charity yes!! Especially if you’ve been talking for over 3 months!! Why waste time & play games with these guys!? They’ll respect you for it bc you had the courage to find out. It’s a straight forward question, no games

Stephanie ok he does that but he also does that to everyone

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Nah. The first part is right, guys will laugh at your jokes (even the dumb ones) if they’re interested. Him having a dry conversation or not joking isn’t as cut and dry. Some guys social skills aren’t as good, many don’t have as much confidence as they should while some just aren’t funny guys. He might still be interested but too shy/scared to make a move because he doesn’t have the best conversational skill set to create chemistry with the girl he likes.

Other day, I was in the closet to grab something and she walked past me and said " have fun in the closet." And shut the door on me lol closed it. The other day, I was riding a machine down the hallway and she said " I want a ride." But she hates riding the machine I ride she said. Or she puts her leg out in front of me and say " watch out." WHEN I'M DRIVING. TODAY, I was moping the floor and she walked past me and said " You missed a spot." SARCASM. I said " no really?" SARCASM. She turn around and smiled at me and laugh. She's been teasing me a little and playful aka I think of flirt but idk man. One day she sat with me at lunch (alone) before people come in, she never sits in the kitchen, usually at her desk, happened once. I just don't get why she only talks to me a little when no one is around? Like Friday, we barely spoke but the end of the day, I was leaving to go home, she said " YOUR LEAVING?!?!? WHAT? " Is she flirting with me/playful teasing me?

Girl, same

Same

Same same same

Squirrel Bae good for you girl

cathy2000 oh girl ur too innocent. U don’t need to know

So now u know- it's time to move on

On the flip side, a man who actually loves you will usually not have sex on his mind either. When we love a girl we just want to hold her, cuddle and squeeze her. Sex is an afterthought ONLY when the love is real. The reason for that is because since we care for her as a person we seriously don't want to fuck it up by introducing a volatile and possibly undermining element like sex just yet.

Wait👏till👏marriage 👏👏👏👏👏

@@Adam-cc9ny well...great to hear men like you still exist🤗

@@Adam-cc9ny ........You're not an American guy, are you...?

@@chole4615 Oh. And have to deal with bad sex forever? Hell no.

Aww thanks! I'm glad you feel that way! Appreciate you watching and chiming in on this thread 🙂

You know actual single men in that age group? I can't find any.

Yup, that next step is the terrifying part for the guy. By giving him lots of eye contact and smiling, that helps boost his confidence to make the move with you 😉

Keep in mind that 99% of the time we are simply not interested enough. We are biologically programmed to literally notice every, and I mean EVERY, girl in the room. Just because a girl catches our attention does not mean she catches our interest. We are of two minds: Rational/Biological. Our animal biological side is always horny and lusting after everything with legs, but our rational/logical side calculates, reasons, and measures risk and ultimately checks our behaviour when we calculate that our biological attraction to something is not worth it.

sorry for the chicks out there, this is me

eden thorn oof do you mind if I ask you some questions girls want to know lmaooo

Yes!

Make your feet do the thinking & force yourself to walk to him or sit near him

Update?

Imagine a world where everyone was just honest ... that would be so much easier

But those are the fun phases

Hmmm that would be really awkward asking him directly, hey do u like me? Is there any proper way to ask him🤔

@@sujoe6920 I'm not a guru, lol just another girl that was head over heels a guy who didn't recriporate. To answer your question, I told him through text after playing useless mind games. *A snippet of our texts:* I told him, "erm, i have feelings for you." He said, "But I don't like you." It hurt like a b****, I was so sure he liked me, i did my research and he displayed the signs that he liked me! Maybe it faded overtime, maybe I overestinated our bond?! Anyways, I told him it was fine and that I'm sorry for making things awkward. The thing that sucked was that we were in the same friendship group - had a few months of school left, so seeing him in college every day after that was hard. I went to the toilets to sob, I didn't have anyone who I could tell; anyone that would comfort me. I never was good at socialising and I lost a friend that tolerated me and was nice to me. Idk how he felt, but he avoided me, made remarks about me. He even outed our convo to his other girl friend. Love how she encouraged him to make snide remarks about me in my presence. Overall, it wasn't a pleasant experience. Perhaps you're lucky enough not to encounter him after or maybe he won't be immature about it. I could've waited but I got impatient. I wanted closure and I'm free now from the "what ifs". Of course, from time to time my mind wanders what was wrong with me etc. I'm glad he rejected me tbh. Geez, this is long, if you got this far, thanks for your time 🤟 --lonely, depressed me--

Insha girl tq for the reply. I’m so sorry that he treated u that way. But U deserve better. There is someone who is praying to have someone like u. Believe that. Now that U know how he feels about U, u just save the time. No need to waste time thinking about whether he likes u or not. Sure it hurts 😢 but trust me something amazing is happening soon. Hugs 🤗 and God bless ❤️

The funny thing is guys really do this ALL THE TIME! Glad you got a nice laugh from it Yo 😂😂

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Awww, cute

Hey Samantha! Based on what you've said so far, it sounds like you're in a great position with this boy right now. My best advice would be to let him keep doing what he's doing, slowly pursuing you. I know doubts can creep up in your head, but just enjoy the fact that you're both clearly having fun with the interactions you've had together so far... all positive signs! Don't focus on the result of making him your boyfriend. He's naturally progressing that direction with you already 😉 One tip I can give you is to ask him questions and try to find out what kinds of activities he likes. If he mentions one you like, let him know. You can say "hey, that would be fun to maybe do together sometime." If he's shy, that should help him build confidence with you 🙂

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Stay away from those workplace romances, guys! They rarely work out and cause all sorts of problems... If you haven't watched my video "Should I Date A Guy At Work?," watch it here ----> ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-LpjEMwDv48U.html . Hope that helps 🙂

Omg, you've just described my exact situation. :O in my case, he is also younger than me, even childish. I don't know if it's worth the effort honestly cuz' it does not seem only one sided but also prone to rupture if it ever happens.

@@iulianaherghiligiu4524 this guy is also 4 years younger than me. I try to avoid but it has been almost 7 years now, we are still in the same situation.

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Yes. I try to avoid it. But it seems that we even barely see each other every day since we are working on different projects and different scopes of work. I have seen your video but almost 80% might not happen to us because our job requirement is different. But every time we could talk to each other (at least once a week) the conversation is like continue from where we stop. Are there any possibilities that he didn't show any effort since i didn't show any sign that i'm interested in him? How far does a man scare of rejection like women?

@@laptopreader Oh gosh, he's 4 years younger than me too.. the hell is happening? :)) He's also on another project and the company has no policies against relationships. (not that it can happen...) He's working in IT and I am a data entry operator, no similarities in projects at all. It's hard, I know.. I really think about giving chances to some other guys, this relationship is clearly not going to go anywhere. If it took so much time and nothing happened it's clear that is not worth it, it's just infatuation, we really need to find somebody who would show us the same love. In my case, I showed that I like him and I received only a mix of cold and hot type of behavior and it's not enough isn't it?

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Haha thanks Catherine! Glad to have you on the channel 🙂

Well you’re definitely his type. And you’ve kept him for a week. If your keeping him like this for another week then he probably likes u. I think it’s different when he also says gn and gm

Juliana Colón Yes our conversations are becoming more active. He also starts sending photos of him making weird faces and I think it’s really cute.

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Depends on if they overdo the charm but to me it helps if they're being funny and charming

They come across like players like Gigolos

narcissists are charming, so charming guys turn me off too

Thanks Miss B! I'm a Virgo 😉