Greta omg I forgot here’s the link! join.slack.com/t/ourwarde/shared_invite/enQtODQ0Mzk2NTU2MTk0LTVmZThiNTliYzA0YmFkMTI3Y2UyYjk0Y2ZmOWNjN2YyODc3MGJmODU3NjcyZTUxMGU4MzA0ZmIzYTQzNzcyZmY
@@vincentscaglione4783 ah I'm not sure how to troubleshoot! Slack can have a learning curve. If you signed up, I think there should be some links/verification in your email to click into Warde. If not, always go to "ourwarde.slack.com" to get into the login page! Hope that works for you and see you there!!! Will be waiting for your confirmation in #introductions
Your Vietnamese is so good! And I love how real and honest you are. It's true, we can be really hard on ourselves when it comes to goal setting to the point that some of us feel terrified to set goals like these for fear of failure. Here's my list (23x23) 😅 1. Read 23 books this year 2. Learn 3 piano songs (Clair de Lune has been rough for me too!) 4. Visit 23 new cities 5. Finish reasing the Bible 6. Practice stretching each day 7. Write 23 personal notes & cards for people 8. Create 23 pieces of art 9. Hike 23 miles 10. Cook and save 23 new recipes 11. Sell/give away 23 things I own 12. Save $23,000 13. Go on 23 friend-dates 14. Learn how to drive stick shift 15. Finish Dan Allender series 16. Make 23 new friends. Love and celebrate them. 17. Get a new perfume I love. 18. Go kayaking. 19. Write a letter to my 23 yr old self 20. Learn 23 new phrases in Nepali 21. Learn how to write 23 words in Vietnamese 22. Take myself on 23 dates and spend that time with God 23. Learn 23 new words/phrases in Arabic
ooo i did your number 19 just now! For my 2030 self. And ha, number 21 is not fair for me cause I learn Vietnamese for 12 years in Vietnam before moving to US so I know more than 23 words lol. Others goals is very cool!
@@miminavan lol yea, a letter to the next decade, seeing how far I've got and what I had accomplished from past goals, and also the cringe when I look back at all this
I find it wholesome how my mom, aunts and uncles call my grandma every single day, maybe calling your parents more often is something that comes with age
I love how you talked about un labeling ourselves and not identifying with things. This is a precious advice that very few people can understand. I used to, and I still struggle with identifying with my "reputation", and my "principles". But I realized that it restricts me in so many ways.. It's like a cage that you build for yourself and that stops you from doing certain things that your past-self once judged uncompliant to his beliefs. I'm not sure if that's exactly what you meant, but that resonated with me and I paused the video to write this. Ps sorry if there are any grammar mistakes, I'm not an English speaker.
that last bit - honouring people by seeing them - is the key to joy I have figured out. Am almost 40 and I reckon it's radical and awesome when we get that lightbeam moment of empathy towards others at any age. Well done
At first when I saw that you posted I was like yessss, you must've picked up my thought vibes of wondering when you'd return to YT. But then I saw it was a 30 x 30 list and I felt one of those trigger moments you spoke of in the vid. So I took a few days to realize that even if you did accomplish 30+ things, it doesn't equate to me not making it halfway through my list, meaning I'm a failure. Comforting to see the spaces in which we both trailed off on tangents. I learned the art of being softer to myself with concrete goals too. Super hard to erase the rigidity! Also! GIRL!! Something seems different about you! More genuinely grounded, idk I think your detaching from thing and money is coming through!! Can't completely place my finger on it. Sending good juju. Hope to see you soon xx
So happy to see your video come up on my feed. I like how you set goals for yourself yet the mood is still good if you didn’t get to accomplish every task. Recently, I have felt like a bum whenever I feel unproductive in my life. I have had too many of those types of days and I really need to get myself together so thank you for this inspiration! I feel like making my own bucket list too
Your name kept popping up on other channels I watch and then finally on my home page. I’m so glad I clicked on your latest video today. So relatable, goal-driven, and I’m here binging all your other videos until the next one comes out! Hope you’re well and not being too hard on yourself lately because girl, you’re killing it!
Your 30 by 30 helped me make a small one for myself. The big one was do things for me and let myself live the life I want. So I’m entering my 30’s by moving to LA after living in NYC most of my life. The smaller one is finally get a full sleeve (I work in the corporate field not common). (Thank you from a fellow sagittarius as well)
Im confused why she only has 100k subs and she’s been here quite a while too and she deserves more :(( her videos are in a whole new level. I love her perspective and her storytelling. She’s very very talented. Don’t get me wrong sometimes i feel like I want us to keep her to ourselves and have this close community but I also feel like she deserves more for all her effort.
I read "On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous" and saw Ocean Vuong speak a few weeks ago... convinced he is an angel and I was hanging on every word he said (he speaks like how he writes)!
I remember when you told us about your 30 x 30 list and I did one too but 21 x 21. It turns out I've only fully completed 7 of these but this video reminded me to keep the momentum going. 🥰
thank you for the reminder to check in with my 30x30 list! I was able to check some things off I completely forgot were even on there. thank you Rachel for always inspiring me to be more introspective!
I really appreciate the honesty in what you did achieved and what you could have done better 🙌 your self reflection has inspired me to revaluate my thoughts, commitments and decisions. Thanks for your authenticity 💕
Every time I watch your videos it helps me to gain a broader perspective on my life and get back into the things that I first intended to do-they’re a great reminder and adds some guidance to living a more purposeful life. Much love Rachel!
Rach you´re the December queen! I would love to see your Amsterdam/Copenhagen vlog, I love the way you film and edit and it would be a treat to watch them honestly! I´m here secretly waiting for more content before the year ends but I don't wanna be selfish lol It's so nice to see you so wholesome and glowing it reflects the amount of growth you've acheived this year.
Thank you for this vlog. I got here from bestdressed's mention re crystal balls in her vlog. I have been feeling pretty lost - reaching 30 and questioning my career and personal decisions. Your vlogs have been meditative and helpful. I also find notion.co to be a great productivity tool (I have tried Trello and others but slowly lost touch) and a great journaling tool (I tried BUJO and livejournal years ago). Fingers crossed that Notion would stick. With your referrals, I hope to re-invent my relationship with my digital identity and spend my time more productively and also feel less guilty about not doing anything when I'm burnt out. I have yet to join thewarde yet but I'm looking forward to joining to what sounds like a warm online community! Thank you.
Loved this! I’ll be 20 in January, so I’m thinking of making my own 30x30 list soon (hopefully a decade will be sufficient, I tend to be an overachiever, lol). I love these snippets of your new home, I hope you’ll be sharing more, or possibly a (furnished) tour, in the future! Along those lines, I have to ask...where is your table from? Super cute! Loving your content, thank you for sharing + inspiring us! ❤️
that is so fun to see what you can accomplish in 10 years! i wish I did that and set all my goals and intentions - I'll do that for my 40x40 hahahah :) oh also my table is by Ron Seff and I found it on The Real Real!
Loved this realistic update on your 30 x 30! I felt your heart in that last one, especially. This year was just one life change after another and just took a toll on all areas of my life, so I turned 30 in October without much time to reflect. But I'm finding new inspiration all around me lately and will create a 20 in 2020 list! I also want to get involved in Warde!
omg chi ur 'troi dat oi!!' is so cute! i just turned 20 this year and this really inspired me to start making a list now and see how much i can get accomplish :)
whenever Rachel uploads a new video, i legit hope that it goes on forever lol. sad that we're not getting vlogmas this year, but i hope you have a wonderful holiday season! :)
I love this! I am turning 30 in March and this makes me want to create a list of things I have accomplished + things I want to do moving forward. Also there are so many different yoga resources that I think you would love. Last year during the holidays I followed Baron Baptiste's 40 days to Personal Revolution, which involved a lot of yoga, meditation, and giving back. Also Buti yoga is a great substitute for pole dancing haha.
if you're looking for a charity i just discovered kiva. to my understanding it's like a charitable loan - you donate money to an entrepreneur in lesser financially developed areas, and once their business succeeds they will pay you back. seems so cool to me!
Yes i would love an Amsterdam/Danemark vlog !!! your content is always so inspiring and poetic , my mind always get so full of ideas after your videos !!!
as far as screen time, many times I'm "listening" to RU-vid vids not actually watching them. Like this is something I'd listen to - your not doing some makeup tutorial or journal guide or something I need to look at but the phone will still register it as screen time....
Elizabeth Sacktor I’ll do a productivity flow in the new year! But I do have a few bullet journal videos if you search it in my channel :) they’ve been relatively the same for as long as I’ve been doing it haha
an advice for you and I hope it will help. you don't have to finish a book if you don't feel like reading it just start with a new one that is easy for you to read
I didn’t do a 30 by 30 as it’s a concept I saw nearly a year ago when I was 19 although I’m now only 20 it’s a list I would like to make as it gives be plenty of time for the ambitious goals but I’ll probably do like a tier system with each goal with tier 1 being the minimum (unless I don’t believe it serves me anymore) tier 2 being the reasonable goal and tier 3 being the ambitious target as it doesn’t hurt to set big goals but then I can still have a sense of pride if I fall short of that.
