Great Interview. Once she gets her teeth fixed, her life will get alot better almost immediately. Also… her Uncle was definitely in his 30’s when it first started. And what I’m realizing is…. There’s alot more pedophilia and incest going on in our culture and community than we want to acknowledge.
That's doesn't make it okay. Yuck!! her uncle and she can smile and talk about it as if it's fine. Only someone that says this is fine is probably doing the same thing.
She would kill the service industry. Her personality is beautiful. She could make a killer career in the industry. If she really wants a career, she could expand her knowledge and earn upwards of 6 figures. Even some fast food restaurant GMs make almost 6 figures. Here's to wishing her a huge come up at winning life.
She only want peace and it’s hard to find when u r violated. The outside can play hard but the inside is a different type of pain. Geesh I’m beefing my brother now about his father molesting me.😢😢😢
Ok let’s be real we all been kids before and kids can be fast I remember sense I was in elementary school kids where talking about sucking D and wanted to get busy with the rest of the kids
She was hyper sexualized as a child and not mentally or physically prepared for what she was experiencing. Her uncle was a sick individual and she is suffering from PTSD and needs counseling. She's very intelligent and attractive even with the poor teeth dentition. I pray she gets the help she needs. BLESSINGS
As a female child that grew up with 5 Uncles and a multitude of boy cousins No one SA me Thats a victory that many females cant claim and it hurts me to my soul 😔
When you hit rock bottom and still can keep a smile, a good attitude toward yourself and life, then you may be someone special. Most people can't do that.
That poor girl. Victim always gets blamed. This happened to me from 2-14. I didn't know anything else. My parents were too open and so my brother and his friends thought it was ok to gruum and train me to tolerate all sorts of violent bex acts. I reported it 3 times to officials and I was blamed and silenced each time. Punished. She let my brother and his friends take advantage of me saying boys can't control themselves and it was up to me to say no. I was half their size and autistic from recurring strep. When Planned Parenthood got involved I was told to claim rape so I didn't make them look bad, and then told to lie and say it was all me because their son was one of the offenders. So Instead, he was given Funds for college and moved out. My folks then lost their jobs in the same month. I, on the other hand, had my college grants cashed in, my inheritance signed over to them before I was 18. I was moved away to a new state, introduced to weed, alcohol and opiates to stay quiet and not be a depressed psychopath. We were homeless, so I worked to get a place for us all. Mom filed disability so it was up to me. I was then made to be the caregiver of my mom for another 7 years before I ran out into an abusive relationship. I was on and off homeless for years because I refused to move home. Whwnever I did, within 3 weeks my mother would attack me or attempt to poison me, turn my power nd heat off, raid my room, etc. For years she attempted to ruin my reputation to cover up what happened, saying it was all my fault. All the times this happened when I was 4, 5, 8, 9, being held down by my brother and his friend... she saw it, she heard it, she caught us. But she never got them help. Instead she silenced the loud mouth saying, "this happens all the time. U don't talk about it." For years I couldn't and even refused to defend myself. I became so low, drugged up, sleeping where I could, trying not to give the impression that I was going to sell myself like I was trained to... But not I don't have to worry. These people prayed iwould have died on the street and not recovered... because now my mom's liver is failing and she can't gossip anymore. She doesn't even know where she is. After all that spoiling she did for them, my brother and these other boys don't give two shakes that mom is dying. They are happy about it, blaming her for everything THEY did... taking no accountability. They walked out of the situation scott-free smelling like roses. Meanwhile, I am the only one in the state so I am the one handling the care of this woman. Hospice won't cover anything cuz she did it to herself. Drank herself to death. Now I'm clean and sober with a good job, and she isn't there to cover it up anymore. I am in my 30s and I am writing a book about all this right now called "The Boy I Called Salvation." And everyone involved is shaking in their boots trying to save face, cover up and run and hide! It feels amazing to have so many supporters, old friends who saw what was happening and couldn't speak up either. This was a neighborhood dynamic, many others going through this at home, and so it spilled over from home to home. Many broken families because of it. A very close friend since elementary school also just finished the second showing of a play she wrote about her own story coping with this neighborhood dynamic. "Por Lo Que Soy." By Jordanna Hernandez, showing at The Tank NYC, NY. Good luck to anyone who has ever been through this. God bless! Everything happens for a reason! Your test is a testimony to help someone else!!!
@@Sherryqueenshevisions Working out the details now, about half way through. Caregiving for my mom in her final months has taken a chunk of time. Maisie Grace Freeman is my pseudo. I am writing anonymously due to the nature of the beast. One of the "boys" in question has a 6 figure government job in law, as well as his wife, and are much like my mother was... do anything to cover it up, and they have many times before. The other is well known and respected in his community, an actor and producer/writer for Indy Latin films for 15 years. So I do this anonymously to avoid lawsuit for character defamation or liable for telling their secrets which could paint them poorly and affect their careers. I don't have a legal team, and it is a 20 year old incident, which is past statute in the state. Just publishing could get me in trouble with their legal defense, which has happened MANY times before in history when little guys accuse wealthy citizens of crimes... and it took me long enough to get on my feet after all this. So like Sapphire who wrote Push, and Go Ask Alice, it won't be published under my given name. Got some friends helping me with all this. 😉 Thank you for your kind words. 🙏❤️
I grew up with cousins, and some are like 10 years older. One of my female cousins that was my age 10 had a huge crush on one of our much older cousins. He was extremely handsome to her, and I use to find her gross. At ten years old she was in love with him. If he had made a sexual move on her, she would of definitely agreed. That doesn't mean she is fast, she has a childhood crush. It's normal for kids to have crushes. When I was a teenager there were little boys that were like 9-13 that had crushes on me. These children were not being fast. The adults should know that's a child. Kids have crushes on older people all the time, and that's why they need protection. They don't understand what they are feeling. No adult should look at a 10 year old child, and feel sexual towards them. That's disgusting, and people like that need to get help ASAP. Parents need to stop trusting family with little kids.
@@zcam7939 I think it's nasty as well, but my cousin that was my age we didn't know her father and our other cousin's father were cousins, until much later. we thought her and her family were just family friends. My cousin my age and I are family through marriage, but she is blood related to our older cousin she had a crush on. I don't think she would of felt that way at the time if she had known.
@@lailanimessina1473 not to just dismiss her as a person but she's clearly a drug addict... Bless her heart... A horrible life... But I didn't get intelligence from this interview.... Usually that's what white people say when you just can speak as a black person... While really patronizing the person
This is the most disturbing interview that he has done so far to me. And the questions my God and him saying “I ain’t mad at it” and asking all of these questions like he getting turned on. And he called her “fast” at a young age, she was groomed , a victim and in denial. My heart breaks listening to her. She seems like she is cool and has a nice personality. I pray things work out for her.
Of course I watched how else would I have been able to post my opinion without watching the video. Furthermore, who said I was subscribed? Bc I’m not lol. Move around
@@blacksilverchair3315 since you have a daughter I bet my last dollar this guy is THE LAST PERSON you would want to screen your daughter if she fell under unfortunate circumstances and trauma! If you say otherwise you a liar bruh. She needs professional help not a nigga with a camera with a perverted sense of humor with a cringe laugh.
I am beyond GRATEFUL AND BLESSED. I Grew up in a household with uncles, my grand dad and they were all strong black men. I was protected. I was NEVER ABUSED or MOLESTED. No childhood traumas. I am grateful for my Aunts and Grandma being loving and making me feel safe. Not many females can say this. Ive never been raped or dealt with any abuse as a child or adult. My grandma was ole school, however she didnt play. She always said "listen and talk to your children"
Honestly, when you go through that type of situation, you DO start wanting it. It's all you know & your hormones are fresh, so it feels good even though it's wrong. It's a weird phenomenon. It's not that she wanted it with HIM. I think that's what people are not understanding. She wanted it because it felt good. He was just a body that was willing to do it to her. It's a natural desire that's hard to learn to control when you first go through puberty. TMI, but I used to hump my stuffed teddy bear when I first got my period & not know why. Same concept. No one ever talks about it, but I remember discovering things about my body that adults would never feel comfortable talking about with me. If I had a man taking advantage of me, I would have considered myself "fast" as well... because I liked the feeling of it... but that would be terrible because we're not old enough to understand what we're doing at that age or what consequences our actions might produce. We just know it feels good. Luckily, I have a mother that taught me about older men & told me to tell her if someone ever tried to touch me on my privates, so I was able to avoid the ones trying it with me. I have encountered a lot of them though. 2 were even at school.
@@truth2powermillions400A 10 year old cannot consent! That is a fact. It doesn't take away from her story. It makes her retelling tragic. She doesn't even realize she was backwashed. That SHOULD be easy to understand.
Stop being ignorant saying a 10 yr old can’t be curious or can not initiate sex but you are watching the young crash and burn by killing each other over clout heavy drug use sex parties and organized crime these are children between 9 and 17. They run the country and yet they don’t know what they are doing
Dearheart you were not promiscuous at 10 years old. He was wrong, period point blank. It was not your fault or brought it upon yourself. A 10 year old child could NEVER want that.
Since she has that mind frame..do you think its a threat to the young boys who rooms she shares? While being up at all times of night. Hurt people hurt people.
Or does it not matter cause the child is a young horny male and more than likely wants it..then grows to think it's ok..to many cape crusaders allow the obvious to go unnoticed out of being cowards but point fingers at others while there men themselves that have been or know another who has been through the same.
That is so sad. She still seems like a child. Her uncle was probably the one who got her into being curious before she can remember, which is why she was so attached and attracted to him by 10/11. Her uncle being with her from a child to an adult proves that her family has more secrets than just her and her uncle’s. May God bless and protect her children
Literally extremely cringe. Very demeaning and awful interviewing. Constantly cutting off the interviewee mid response. He needs to go back to the drawing board…
She is an intelligent, attractive young lady. Her childhood experience with her uncle is impacting her choices in men. This isn't coming from a place of judgment...but from a love of my people. I'm praying for her to thrive.
Wow! Marcus, you asked her why do she think she was so fast at a young age??? She was GROOMED and a CHILD! Sometimes, your line of questioning is a bit strange and creepy, with all due respect.
She said she thought she was fast. He asked why she thought that-empathetically even. Like how does a child think that 😌 Wow the man that took that innocence away from her! We really be expecting this man to magically think & be like us as women. I get frustrated listening, can’t imagine being out there, watching your back & having to appeal to the comment section for not perfecting every aspect of every interview. Y’all ever catch they’re usually “working” & this is the common underlying issue.
She said it first. Then he asked later on. But she initially said that she wanted it..and uncle was willing. Yeah..unc groomed her into believing she wanted..then had her to believe he was giving her what she asked for.
Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This a crazy story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lord, how did the family not put 2 and 2 together man!!! 20 yr old uncle always hanging out with the 10 yr old niece.
What big beautiful eyes she has and seemingly a big heart to match. She speaks well also. The interviewer sucks. He won’t stop interrupting her to talk about himself. I’d love to hear her just tell her story.
truth be told i low key think he gets off on these videos. Ive seen a couple now and hes always kind of rude and always ask about the sexual stuff. Notice he never tells her she was a victim or none of that remember this comment watch its all gonna come out. Also dont forget he pays them
I live here in Atl and have heard he only gave some $10.00, he takes some back to his home and even had sex with them! I have heard he treat who he want with Respect and even have body guards that are very rude to the people who try and fight back! He is Very Suspect 🤔
This woman is amazing. She would be a wonderful nurse. Her smile, personality, wit, and intelligence would bring happiness to the most downtrodden patient. She's quite humble and doesn't blame her homelessness on others. I have 23 years on this lovely woman, and she could be my life coach.
That's why I kept my kids away from family on both sides!!! So my kids don't even know them!!! My husband and I have great relationships with them and ALWAYS spoke on letting them know NO ONE should touch you or talk about anything sexual!! Let us know and we'll take care of it!! They are young adults now and we still say it!! You get so paranoid as parents!! But they they haven't been molested, s*x assaulted!! Not bragging!! Just giving advice to others!! If your kids are around family and their friends, no sleepovers, no leaving them in the house with anyone not EVEN 10 minutes!!! Female/male cousins, uncles aunts, next door neighbors!!
I absolutely think there should be open communication but I also think its a lot of pressure to think that a child who is confused and embarrassed to have to come to an adult and recount their abuse , so to take some of the pressure off every night for 17 years my son and I talk about his day before bed , we talk about what he did ,who he encountered that day and I ask if there was anything that happened that hurt or upset him , so he wouldn't have to try to figure out how to bring it up , thank GOD nothing has happened to him and I also let him know that its not his job to worry about me or his dad because often times abusers threaten to hurt others.
She’s so beautiful inside and out. I feel so bad for her. She thinks that she was the reason for her uncle’s abuse. She doesn’t even realize that she is a victim. I know things will go great for her in the future because she has a good heart and she laughs even though she’s been through so much🩷🩷🩷🩷🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I think her parents feel guilty because they did not protect her, so it is easier just to blame her and have nothing to do with her. She clearly was a victim and the sad part is that she doesn't realize it and until she gets therapy and accepts that, I don't think she will ever be able to get herself together.
Yes and she has Stockholm Syndrome and it kind of seems creepy because the questions that he asked them he never offers them any reference to getting the mental help. He just digs deep and has him relieved the trauma that they experienced. He should have let her know that it was not her fault and that she was a A child and a child under the age of eighteen can never consent to intimate Relations without it being raped or molestation
@@thechroniclesofel4268it’s updates on the channel if you’re being genuine. Some are in their addiction & it’s only so much one man can do. I don’t think he’s a therapist either. Opening the dialogue & being out there, I imagine, could allow you to go out there and offer more help-a more feminine approach. We can all play a part in what we see “unfit” about what others are doing ig 💪🏾🥰 we can offer him a diff way to ask, one that’s somehow universally appealing!
It's not that she's in denial. If you listened clearly she said trusting people is what got her where she is. She knows exactly what changed her course in life she just tries to keep a positive mindset through everything.
1) She's on something. 2) She's trying to defend her image of someone she once trusted or looked up to. Her Uncle. 3) She's trying to provide a "out" for why other adults didn't protect her better. 4) She might have left her own children around that uncle, or saw other kids with him after she was older, and is trying to make it sound less likely that they might have been abused by him also, because she feels guilty for not protecting others.
Her Uncle’s age does not add up! He was NOT in his 20s! She slipped and said he died in his 50s or 60s, which means he was in his 30s or 40s when he started grooming and molesting his own Niece at age 10! 🙄🤮 It’s a very unfortunate and sick mess! She needs extensive healing and deliverance. Blessings to her children and the Grandparents caring for them in safety. 🙏🏾
50 minus 25 (she was 10 and is now 35 so that is 25 years) equals 25. Not that it justifies anything because him crossing that line to begin with is qualifiable of a shortened life anyways, but I was just gettin the math correct on how he could’ve been in his 20’s😊
Damn how could you sleep with your brother or sister's kid 😮😮😮😮that's some crazy sh-t, I don't care how good she looks, find something or someone besides them😮God have mercy on them, 😮
@@Pookie_Poo843 Everyone has those certain members in they family that you instinctively know YOU DON'T LEAVE NO KIDS AROUND THEM It's really quite sad
Taking advantage of a 10 or 11 year old is disgusting, but a 10 or 11 year old actively looking for it will find a taker 100% of the time. That’s why I put the responsibility on my children to stay in their lane and take responsibility for their actions regardless of their age.
@@kingwillie206 She didn't go looking for it until he introduced it to her and that is usually how they discover when toddlers who can't even talk have been sexually molested because they start rubbing on themselves trying to re-create that feeling that the abuser produced in their bodies. A 10 year old cannot take responsibility for a grown man bringing her body pleasure to the point that her body craved it and I feel sorry for your children if you think that they are responsible for the actions of an adult who instead of taking advantage of a promiscuous child who is that way because they have been abused, should be reporting it to the authorities to investigate why the child is behaving that way.
@@LL-zw2qb - That’s NOT what she said though. And adults don’t need to introduce anything. A girl named Angela pulled her pants down in front of me in preschool and all I could think about doing was what my body was telling me to do. D*ck was harder than blue steel and we were both 4. We are pre-programmed from birth to procreate and it’s the opposite of what you are claiming. It takes adult intervention to hide it from us and protect us from the responsibility and repercussions of it. Without societal norms taught by the media and our families we would all be experimenting with sex at random ages based on introduction from our peers whether perverts existed or not.
@@GabrielGiron-g5o so you tune in just to say he's a sicko or do you grudgingly enjoy the gritty content deep down within your soul? Let's keep it factual here
Once again, creepy proding the questioing abour sexual abuse, wanting to know the age & details. It's disrespectful Asking details about the intercource (statutory intercourse at that) WEIRDO. Ol Boy's line of questions be disturbing. "Do you think he did thar with your sisters?
I don't often feel badly for some people in this situation, but her story got to me. I don't know if anyone else can see the pain and sadness in her eyes. People like Parris deserves a second chance at life. I think if given the opportunity, she would do well. Good luck out there for you Parris.
Please keep up with her, I really would like to see her progress & WIN! Not only does she have a dynamic personality, she could easily start her own gymnastics classes, even if it starts at rec center or meet ups in a park. Maybe a "Mommy & Me" gymnastics class? If Dianna created "Dancing Dollz", Parris can do the same! I hope she seeing this comment for motivation!
This could very well be the case, but parents deserve to know if she has a significant police record. I’m not saying she doesn’t deserve a chance, but people should know who they are sending their kids too. There’s probably more to her story than she’s telling. Why can’t she find a job? Something else is holding her back.
I don't care if child comes at you butters naked , its your responsibility as an adult to correct them and get them help not take advantage of them, if she was promiscuous its usually a result of previous grooming and/or SA and not healing from that properly.
I hate she blames herself I also love that she holds herself accountable when she knew it wasn’t right. I think deep down inside she knows it wasn’t her fault but makes it easier to accept her role in it. Poor baby!!! I love her energy, her spirit and charisma.
@@marshalljulie3676I mean you can look at the scenario in a lot of ways especially being an adult. As a child it doesn't matter; nothing a child does should advertise or warrant for a grown ass male or female to pursue a child in any shape or form; that's nasty. Again, I like that she owned her part
In my whole life, Every female I've ever met has been "SA'd" by a family member, family friend, or even teachers/counselors growing up, myself included & it's sad... It contibutes Allot to the mental instability of our race & keeps us in the downward spiral were can't escape. I pray for Everyone who this has ever happened to 🙌🏽💕✨
@@74WILDCATMEDIA80% of black girls by the time they reach 18 have all experience a form of sexual violence. You niggas never wanna hear the truth… that’s why this nasty cycle continues
It’s something about her that I ABSOLUTELY love. Her incredible spirit and tenacity throughout going through her journey is just amazing. Sis I’m praying for you and your continued healing and strength and peace and happiness and prosperity! I want you to know you were a victim of sexual assault. I know you feel like you may have wanted it but it may be Stockholms Syndrome. Not trying to diagnose you at all but just throwing it out there. Unfortunately, we have a similar journey. Much Love. ❤
I can relate to her experience, it’s not easy to live with, I had a female relative that SA me at 7yrs old she was 14yrs same activities. I never told anyone or confronted her when I got older. I was pissed off at one time because I realized how it effected my marriage and other relationships. I had to do a lot of work on myself to get where I am. I’ve forgiven her and moved on from the past. I purpose is to tell this so others will look out for the children out her, and also it doesn’t happens to young girls young boys get effected as well. I congratulate this young woman’s spirit and how she conducted herself in this interview, she is very strong , I send her love and many blessings her way.🙏🏾❤️👊🏽💯👏🏾
Such an open honest lady. She is very pleasant and hasn't given up on life. I pray she finds a job or goes back to school. I hope she gets her truth fixed, I believe that's all that's holding her back.
Yall going off her light skin, innocent voice, and cute smile. That shit doesn't mean nothing. She will have you butt naked in the street broke and in the rain lol
*10 year olds can not consent *As a mother she should know better *Adultifying children is socially irresponsible, even if it's yourself Most importantly children shouldn't be left in her care given her thought process.
@@yahya4370it’s definitely a coping mechanism deep down I’m sure she knows what happened shouldn’t have happened at that age it’s practically written all over her face
@@ralphwiggum1982 exactly, and to know he passed away leaving an apology within his will.. He knew what did was wrong.. even if he loved her it wasn’t supposed to be in that way..
I wish her well. This is why I don't leave my daughter around any men. Family or not, I'm not playing when it come to my daughter. It's also why it's important to have good fathers present in the household, parents notice subtle things other people might miss.
Her addiction wasn’t gymnastics… her addiction was being a people-pleaser… and this is why everyone shouldn’t do these interviews and dive into something that they’re not equipped to really help with. This chick is out of her mind, I don’t care how “articulate” she is. And she’s not being truthful about her relationship with his family or children. This is why sexual abuse doesn’t get tackled in the black family. All y’all hear is how “articulate” she is
Also there are some people who are way too judgmental instead of watching the video they are judging the young lady. Everyone has trials if you living in this world
People have different stories to tell which means people experience life in different ways! This lady was speaking her truth and you can't accept it! Sure sexual behavior with a minor is against the law and any adult should never have any sexual contact with a child, but this lady doesn't seem to see herself as a victim, but a willing participant. Her story is a little different than we are used to hearing, but I'm sure she's not the only one out there with the same story! I appreciate her honesty and accountability and vulnerability!
It's so sad that she still doesn't realize she was a victim and that it has affected her life negatively, I honestly hope she gets help so she can heal and become healthy 🙏
It's perfectly natural for a man to be attracted to a girl I say at the age of 12 or 13 it is not attractive for a blood relative to be attracted to his blood relative.
She wasn’t “fast”. He GROOMED her. That’s how predators work. They gain the child’s trust and make them loyal to them to the point that the child sees everyone else as the enemy. My heart breaks for her and other young girls like her.
Her own words ..did you not hear what she said? Not what you want her to say ..but what she is actually saying out of her mouth....I'm not condoning it ..just actually listening to her statement...it is what it is ..not what you want to make it.
Sounds like she was groomed. So sad children think it’s their fault, just because it was enjoyable to her at one time don’t mean “she wanted it & who’s the adult obviously her uncle was dead wrong. I’m glad she “forgave him” to heal hope she realizes he was wrong. & he’s actions really hurt her. She’s excusing him & finding faults w/her self. Straight denial pobrecita
It’s too much gray area in her story. There’s a lot that she’s holding back on. I’m praying that she can get some professional help to help her understand how these life events have caused dysfunctions. Her parents won’t let her stay but they have her children. She said she doesn’t want to be there. There’s a big reason why it’s the way that it is. She has a beautiful spirit. She can get into programs that can get her on track. There’s no reason why she shouldn’t at least stay employed in food and hospitality.
THIS IS WHAT TRAUMA LOOKS LIKE. I am a therapist and sexual abuse survivor and I very rarely write comments. I was both deeply saddened by her story and inspired by her resilience. She is doing what many trauma survivors do...she blames herself. She says she was promiscuous. She says she wore leotards all the time. She says she wanted it and so she lies to herself. Its called defense mechanisms. Humans try to make sense of the senseless by blaming themselves. She was and IS innocent. This is one of the most devastating effects of trauma....self-blame, shame, and self-betrayal. A 10 year old only knows about secs if they are introduced to it. He is an abuser and even after his death she still protects him while no one protects her. She sacrificed herself like her family sacrificed her. They shame girls to protect the demon, then tell her to do better because they don't want to face the truth about how her innocence was stolen. I pray that when she learns the TRUTH that her abuse was not LOVE, that she is able to free herself of herself, reclaim her innocence and grieve her lost childhood, and put the accountability on the adults who did nothing to keep her safe all while putting the pieces of her life back together. I send her so much love and gratitude for having the courage to tell her story. ❤️
@walkerenterprise1764 you might need some therapy, because then you'd undertake what it means to be a survivor and that therapist DO NOT GIVE ADVICE, they give tools to help people become better, heal better, and live better. 😊
@ExpertInMind ‘..a ten year old only knows about secs if…’ What.. are you serious? You don’t think their natural curiosity and understanding about how the world works has given them some knowledge if not only by observing nature???? What about having explored their own body by age ten.. and most likely being able to come to terms with and accept the fact that they have genitalia… ?? Now let’s start factoring in kids observing other humans behaviour, couples, parents, grandparents.. male/female affection.. now let’s factor in some truthful answers from adults to their curious questions.. now external factors like school, secs Ed, other kids, media…. absolutely delusional to make a statement like that and call yourself an Expert… I’m not suggesting for a second it’s her fault. I’m suggesting you’re not an expert..
I hate that she blamed herself, whether she was curious or not its up up to the adult to set you straight and have their own self control.She has a really sweet personality, and was very honest. I hope she gets it together.
what if Im blind folded and some child is giving me head. I completely finish, take the blindfold off and see that it's a child. What do i do next? and why?
Life ain't broke her spirit but With Her attitude and outlook on life she still has a chance to turn it around.Dam Shame the undeserved burdens people go thru
She's not blaming other people when she says she trusts people too much. She is saying that she has an issue putting her trust into the wrong people. She's not blaming them she's blaming herself for trusting them in the first place.
How can this kind of elegance be reproduce on a massive scale? I've honestly never seen so much promise, love and selflessness in anyone and at that point where most people would have given up hope, trust LOVE. We argue over the simple question of "What is a woman"? She is a woman she is amazing and I do believe more people would follow that kind of heart and energy. I am truly sadden by any misfortunes that fall upon any beings big and small. I want to learn how to remain pure at heart until the end, I hope I will possess that trait one day soon. Thank you for your testimony, in truly grateful to heart your story.
The saddest part is the girl seems really sweet and actually well spoken, so it's apparent she had schooling and descent parents to raise her. This young woman could do so much more with her life and I pray she does ❤🙏🏼
She came from a home with both parents! But was totally violated & brainwashed by someone she thought she could trust!! And for some reason made her think it’s her fault! She was a child. With all she’s been thru, she’s still very positive, speaks well! I pray someone will truly help her mental state to get her back on track! She’s still a light in her darkness! Keep your head up beautiful!! ❤
She was taken advantage of as a child. Others are able to do gymnastics in leotards and grow into society without being raped by their uncles. Her family is just fucked up. She seems good intentioned and wants to do better but she has a lot of pride She needs therapy first and then help having a good support network. I wish her good healing and a prosporous future of overcoming.
This is a clear case of Stockholm Syndrome. She was groomed to think that the abusive interactions with her pedophile uncle were normal. He molested her point blank. She has a lovely personality and it’s sad to think that this happened to her.
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Too young to be this far gone. She has a lot of potential, but you gotta WANT to help yourself first. Start with some therapy, because there are a lot of resources available if you choose to participate in your own healing. While there are some people who are not geared toward that approach, she seems to be a logical person capable of receiving that type of help
I’m sure, this young lady will find her way, JAH BLESS : So many compassionate, generous, non-judgemental souls in the comments - so many examples ! my FAITH in humanity restored - how beautiful we are….
I trust people too much, sigh. I know sis. She was groomed. Incestuous. It sounds like she suffers from Stockholm Syndrome, boding and sympathetic to the perpetrator. Look at the ages, he groomed and molested her, why she is confused on how it started, period. An adult male, she couldn't consent at 10/11!!!! I know she could find a good job, if she dressed in business attire and worked with an Agency. She needs counseling, but she doesn't see herself as a victim. It can lead to adult issues, unfortunately. I could see her working with kids and a Gymnasts' Assistant. And eventually a Leader, with a story of inspiration, if she finishes her degree. Bless her.
My 10 yr old is a cheer leader and gymnast but that don't give any men the right to look at her or even think about touching her!!!! That 20something yr old uncle of hers is a dog and should've kept his thing in his pants and his hands to himself!!! This really irks me!!
@nikib-garrett6578 absolutely correct. She was 100% victimized. That is what Stockholm Syndrome is about, usually sympathetic and and attachment to a captor, in this case an abuser. IDK what she was wearing, she was a child.
She will find her way back. She will be phenomenal in whatever path she chooses. Along the way she will be a motivation and inspiration to others. Years from now she will look back at this video and see how far she’s come. I speak this in to existence for her. Sending nothing but love and light her way!!!
The molestation committed by her uncle . On all levels . She has lived with this pain , for ever in a day . I hope she thrives in life and gets all that God has for her . Address the inner child , hiding with laughter
She's beautiful. Very articulate. Her eyes are big and gorgeous. It's just her teeth. Glad she's getting them fixed. And that she accepts accountability. Never straying from her part of it
Accountable for what? You are a sick person. She was 10. He groomed her. The hell you talkin about? She needs therapy so she can get back on track. God this world is sick!!!!
This was hard to watch as a fellow csa/grooming survivor. She is a good person with a lot of grieving to do and I hope she finds a good therapist and gets the healing and stability and peace she deserves.
I LOVE THIS LADY!! THE INTERVIEWER IS HAINUS FOR ASKING THE QUESTIONS THAT HE IS WITHOUT HOLDING THE MAN that abused her ACCOUNTABLE. She was not fast. She was groomed and molested.
@@JRenee141OR he was indeed the creepy uncle in the family everyone knew about but didn't beat his ass into a coma like they should have. And he most like molested her sisters as well...HELL! ..he probably molested her mother.
Good interview! I hope things turn around for this Sister. She seems accountable and receptive to insight. Hopefully she'll stay positive & find the job that fits her. I wish her the best! 🙏🏾
This gave me chills, she was 10!! She think this was her fault!! Anyway I LOVE her eyes, it’s a lot of pain behind those eyes but her eyes are still beautiful, she’s beautiful as can be
