I needed this today! I just took a huge step out of my people pleaser, and I feel liberated. Some hated it, others love it. Either way, I set myself free!
Regret is probably the one that hits me. I started RU-vid channel about 2 months ago because I didn't want to regret not knowing what could happen, not knowing that maybe the message I want to send out can help others I don't know in some way. But now that I am in the process, I start to think that am I going to regret I used all this time for something that I shouldn't have started? The mind can really play tricks on us but that is why, we need to surround ourselves with positive people.
Great video Brendon, I learned so much. Yet I agree with you on all accounts. I believe that fear comes from the enemy, and not of God. So I feel empowered when I step out in faith. to achieve my goals and dreams. And life is a big gamble in all areas. You win some and you learn from others. I just restructure my life and my thinking and move on to the next challenge. Thanks for sharing.
This is such an important topic!! Fear stops most people dead in their tracks. Learning how to dissolve fear, move past fear opens up the world of possibilities to ACTUALLY live the life we dream of.
Really hit me right where I am Brendon. I'm guilty of all of them. Especially Rejection. I just can't seem to say no on any opportunity that was presented to me. I can't focus on all of them. I need to choose one by one. What should I do? They all seemed so good.......
This is so important! All what you share and teach, should be taught in school so we can be better humans. Thank you for your generosity in sharing your knowledge! I appreciated so much !
You say that there is always tomorrow.... my fear is that there wont be a tomorrow to fix things. Isnt that taking life for granted kind of? I have had several encounters with death and i feel like time is running out and I dont wanna make mistakes cuz time is so precious and limited so im a little confused. I like your message better than the one im telling myself but it is hard to feel differently.. any suggestions?
Have more gratitude in the moment and self love. Be comfortable with mistakes. I get it. I had messing up. And I don't look at everything as a matter of "fixing" but a matter of getting better and redeeming. And if today is last day, would you want to go out hating yourself or being happy even in your own mess? We can't control the day but can control how we look at it.
Brendon, What is the title of the book you recommended? You said, "How Good People Deal with Bad Things," but I couldnt find such a title. Might you have meant, "When Bad Things Happen to Bad People" by Harold S. Kushner?
Thanks Brendon for explaining these fears so well. I feel all of them, and literally feel paralysed. After this video, I can identify and label my fears so that i know what to think and say to myself to overcome them. Thanks again.
AWESOME AND DEEP. my morning routine is organising my house and listening to one of your videos, Help me stay on track and looking forward, Appreciate you man.
a year ago I listed out as many personal fears that I could think of in 60 seconds. I then make an action to deal with those fears every day. Though my list was not the elemental fears listed here, but more specific fears and when I addressed them I quickly gained confidence. This video has me reflecting on that same list I made a year ago and now I'm seeing which elemental fears I need to understand. This was a powerful video, Brendon. Thank you.
