INFJ Harmozing type here (as scanned by Dario) freaky how on point his explanation is of me and I am literally a Therapist using a bit of this and bit of that modality.
Dominant INFJ, if I had a dollar for every time someone mistook me for an extrovert I’d be rich. But no I’m not 😂 I need my alone time almost religiously
Normalizing INFJ currently sounds like me for the past 5 years, and I'm 22. Participating in technical projects is literally what I do 24/7. In terms of development, it seems like I started out as dominant -> creative -> normalizing. People often think that I'm an NT type because that's how I come off most of the time. I really relate with this statement 17:57, if it's not practical or if I can't turn it into something practical then there's no point.
-Dominant INFJ sound very aspirational ESTP like and probably get mistyped that way the most. Direct, leading more with Se and Ti, less in tune with Fi, yet character is incredibly important (like Jennifer Lawerence). -Passionate Creator INFJ sound very shadow focused, very ENFP like, and probably get mistyped that way. Leading more with Ne and Fi like behaviors. -Enduring Associate INFJ sound very superego ISTJ like. Leading with more Si and Te like behaviors, maintaining systems, strong endurance, and focused on social status and values. -Harmonizing INFJ sound very Ego INFJ to me. Much more stereotypical INFJ because they stay with their primary functional behaviors of Ni and Fe, probably due to someone who's functions were supported during critical development. Focused on interpersonal intimacy the most. All this supports Jungian 4 sides dynamics and is very fascinating, ultimately, all 4 of these types (ESTP, ENFP, ISTJ, INFJ) have a lot in common, all being interested in the good character of others and humanity in general. They either share the same functions or same shadow functions in opposing order to each other.
I'm I dominate INFJ, although I have social anxiety that comes every once in a while which makes me look like the introvert that I am. But when I'm in the zone man, I'm very ENFJ-like, I do see it.
I had to watch this twice to make any sense of it. The first run through, none of these types sounded much like me. I connected with the words endurance and the interconnecting of harmonizing as I'm always switching back and forth in my mind, but I also physically turn around when processing information. I really like it when these things are described by the types especially as with INFJ some of these things are really weird to describe. But I really hate INFJ language. So as usual, a contradiction. Thanks for the information! Really enjoyed it.
I think the INFJ is a good argument for Jung's structure over MBTI's, where the middle two functions are both considered Auxiliary, instead of one necessarily being favoured over the other.
People are often suprised when i say im an introvert. Im actually very shy, i just kind of forget when i start talking about different topics . I was a singer. When on stage,youre kind of acting, reading the public and giving what they want. (Had to stop tough, because of illness.) Usually I often prefer being in the background, observing or just relaxing.
I'm gonna guess I'm the creative type? . . . Either way, hope someone can explain me, ha : ) EDIT: . . . Yup confirmed, former drummer. This was excellent Joyce and guest, Radio Narnia, I hope I'm pronouncing that correctly : )
I’m an INFJ creative but also strongly harmonising and my name is literally Cassandra, I have correctly predicted the outcome of sooo many situations 😅
I'm somewhere between Normalising and Harmonising INFJ subtypes. I have traditional desires for marriage and a becoming a father with a family, but I'm not quite satisfied with a completely traditional lifestyle. I relate a lot with the Harmonising traits. I'm a HSI and I like to tailor my approach with each individual person to suit their needs and meet them where they are.
Dream on with being an ENFP on stage ;-) The things you say are usually short, to the point and in a determined voice when you ask your questions or summarize. Nothing to see about Ne or Si. Interaction with others usually comes up when you are in your Fe, oriented on others and not on yourself. The only thing which you have common with ENFP are Catalyst topics like ideals for humanity.
@@nicolasdanek4225I am very verbose, witty, topic explorative and always late to everything. I can seem ENFPish sometimes ha I want to learn piano this year. I crave creativity but I have had an avoidant attachment with it for some strange reason. It's like I have to be in a group or a class in order to touch it so I can find a backdoor casual approach. I get overwhelmed with new things that feel like big projects. So annoying. Barely get started ADHD meds. I also tend to prioritize responsibility even though I resent it, as I feel that I am spending too much time with it. I feel like I have to because all I have is me to rely upon at the end of the day. Nobody can do everything that I have to do It's like I feel that I must build a foundation for many years. I think I need to find a way to incorporate balance, but I am terrible with time. That is my one major fatal flaw.
@@yellaperida7696 I just took the test idk if it’s accurate or not but it’s the isfj one ESI Idk how it can happen idk a lot about Socionics but I’m sure I have no si in me
Totally relate to the dominant INFJ description! This also explains why my behaviours don't seem to fit into the stereotypical INFJ descriptions out there.
I think I’m the creative subtype, but the harmonizing subtype sounds like me too. I was the front man in a band for a short time, but I also performed as a guitarist in other projects. I’m now training to be a multicultural therapist w/ an LPCC license, but I try as much as possible to compose music when I can. Joyce, I also like to inspire people if I can.
This is just making me a bit mor confused, I feel like I was a more creative time when I was very young, tried to conform to the normalizing type and never fit in but long for the harmonizing type. I probably in the end the harmonizing type as I want to harmonize everyone and everything and I am highly sensitive.
My take is that the Normalising INFJ is a safe, bland version. An INfJ that’s too afraid to be one of the other 3 types and shunned the true version of themselves to conform to social norms. I hypothesise that this subtype is the most likely to suffer depression. Maybe I’m been too harsh 🤷♂️
There could be something to that... I feel like I fit most into the Normalizing group, though I somehow feel drawn to the Creative and (to a lesser extent) Harmonizing groups, so I'm a bit confused overall on this question. However, I have also had to deal with a _L O T_ of quiet but persistent trauma in my life, so I may have been cowed into the Normalizing group as a coping mechanism. (Trying to emulate/please my super-cerebral yet emotionally volatile father probably didn't help, either...) Lately I've been getting real tired of my endless, flailing drive towards practical survival, but again, I'm still too bruised and scared (and yes, depressed) to figure out how to fully break out yet. I'm trying, though...
Fascinating. As an INFJ-A Id say I feel most comfortable in Dominant, Creative, & Harmonizing modes, not so much Normalizing, & other MO's depending on my mood & the present moment.😄 The brain scans are interesting, did you work with, or were you inspired by, Dr Daniel Amen & his functional brain scans techniques? I wasn't aware anyone did scan sets based on MBTI types, thats a new layer of wonderful complexity added to MBTI.
Dario's energetic explanation of why an INFJ would door slam is spot on - no exaggeration when you realize someone's energy is heavily affecting you to the point of dysfunction
I just learned I'm a harmonising INFJ! How very very cool! Thank you Joyce ❤ and best of luck setting up your wonderful retreat! I dream of one day doing the same Had no idea about the other types, but this explains a lot
