4 Red Flags You're Dealing With An Emotionally Immature Person 

Me watching this to figure out if I’m the immature person

We need a video on people who are emotionally imnature, but very smart, they can manipulate you, but never emotionally reflect and get better.

i just got yelled at by an emotionally immature person as a response to me calmly stating my feelings. this video was recommended to me as soon as i came home, and this video just came out hours ago. i really needed to hear this today.

Not all impulsive people are spoiled brats, you will definitely find a kind person with impulsive qualities due to ADHD and/or other reasons, just putting it out there

Timestamps 1). Impulsivity 0:43 2). Less self-reflection 1:49 3). Emotional regulation 2:08 4). Bullying 2:38 5). Selective caring 3:21 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. I missed hearing your voice Drew Baillie. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

My emotionally immature parents made me the same. Took till i was 28 to see it and learning to grow up this late is rough

Absolutely my mother. Me as a toddler who still remembers how my dad and mom divorced decided: “Oh, let’s see if mom lies!” She told me: “You can know when you’re older”

Sounds like you're talking about my mom. The sad part is that she's 73.

In some cases, because of my ADD, I am emotionally immature, and I'm trying to tell my brain, "Develop, f******* please!"

1:58 I simply love the references in your videos 😂

Time stamps: 0:00 intro 0:44 1. IMPULSIVITY 1:49 2. Less Self-Reflection 2:38 3. BULLYING 3:22 4. SELECTIVE CARING 4:05 outro? Look like I’m late from being on top

I'd like to add a few more: not answering questions or being aggressively defensive when faced with evidence. Having the emotional spotlight at all times. Eg. A: You did that thing B(sarcastically): Oh yeah right, sure. A: I have evidence of you doing this thing repeatedly B: I'm honestly done talking to you, I don't have to respond to you, i don't have the energy, you always stir up problems, etc. B: you left this thing in a dirty spot, that's why I threw it with the garbage. A: what dirty spot? B(sarcastically): idk. A: hey, you dropped your coffe on my floor. I slipped on my way in, you should've cleaned it. B: I didn't, stop accusing me. A: you're the only one who drinks coffe in this household, you said you were going to take something from my room, I saw you walking in with the mug. B: you're right. I'm also the one who dropped your juice last week and walked in the room with dirty boots (all things A did and took responsibility of) I just always dirty up your room and poor you has to clean after me all the time. A: I can't help you cook today, I have a headache. B: yeah? Well I had a headache yesterday too buy I got up and did some chores. A. I already did some work today and my headache is not going away even after medication. B: oh poor you. So you're human and I'm not? You get to rest while having a headache and I don't? A: I'm sorry I didn't respond to your messages, I lost my pet and was in a bad place. B: well I lost a dear person last year too, I had it worse. It was a person not an animal. A: I'm honestly depressed, I need to check with a therapists. B: why would you be depressed? If anyone os allowed to be depressed then it should be me, I've had this and that happen. (Most of the time, A had far worse things happen but B would always exaggerate to seem like the strong survivor while A is just being whiney and irresponsible)

I really needed this, I was feeling sad about a situation I just had with a mate and this gave some relief, I shouldn't blame myself for the actions of others.

EARLYY! I love this channel!!

Giving the example of Veruca was awesome. Never realised it till this video talked about it. I wana see more videos on psychoanalysis of characters such as Veruca in Charlie and the chocolate factory

I think another reason one may be self-absorbed is insecurity. I do this a lot as of late, to be honest. I’m so worried about what people think of me and what I hate about myself that I miss a number of times where I can tune in to others’ needs and what they’re saying. Not to say everyone who is insecure is self-absorbed, but rather that I personally need to learn how to handle my insecurities better.

I've dealt with adults like this also, I love the way you incorporated Wily Wonka reference

All I can say is that youtube's algorithm keeps showing me the Psych2Go videos about sex and relationships; to the point where I became worried that was all you were posting. My fiancée and I broke up and I decided to move on and be single. I am happy to see that most of your most recent videos weren't the ones youtube recommended, but I am also sad they aren't recommending your other content. Thank you for all that you do!

I spent my whole childhood trying to be mature and was often praised on my maturity. But I learned when i got older i wasnt as mature as I thought i was. Its something im working on but it also surprised me the amount of grown adults who acted like children over the stupidest shit like parking spots. I often find myself trying to avoid acting like certain people instead of having role models to follow. However I also have ADHD which might be where the impulsivity and emotional disregulation comes in but im handling that pretty well. I was able to keep myself from having a meltdown when i was feeling super overwhelmed the other day

How do to go about life when the person who is supposed to take care of you is actually more immature than you ? My mum ticks all the boxes...

Thank you for sharing many informations your doing great job❤

Fantastic animation

Technically, this one is probably related to one of the listed items like “less self-reflection or bullying”, but I feel like projecting is a big one. I’d describe projecting as someone that always blames other people for most misfortunes they encounter, even though at the end of the day, it’s them in the wrong in a lot of these said situations because they always seem to rub people the wrong way and have that “my world view is 100% correct, how can I be the bad guy here?!”-mentality.

How about giving advice that could get a person fired or arrested. See it all the time online and off. "I would punch someone who talked to me like that"

Hello, love your videos!

I love your videos they always teach me things I never thought I had when I was younger and I love learning about these types of things❤❤

Yay first comment again ...... I love your videos...... They help people a lot..... ❤❤❤

Literally my mom

This is a very big thing with people with ADHD and other neurodivergent problems. I have ADHD and I have my immature moments a lot but I try to make up for it by understanding when something is serious and someone needs my help.

always very good videos ! the audio was a bit weird on this one tho much luv and keep up the awesome advice

14 mins ago- your voice is so calming to me-

I would love to see a video discussing how to handle being in a relationship with an immature person, and more to the point a relationship that can't just be ended on a whim.

I'm glad this video exists! Let's protect ourselves from immature people and learn to grow up.

I had always known my ex was, perhaps, a little bit on the immature side…but, during the huge fight we had that led to our breakup, his emotional immaturity REALLY came out. I wanted so much to talk things out and get to a place of understanding, but all he could focus on was stating his argument and telling me how wrong I was. He lost his temper and started yelling at me, then refused to speak to me for weeks. I had never seen him so angry before. We had a disagreement on something really important, and I felt like he was really trying to badger me into thinking and feeling exactly what he thought and felt, and it almost felt like I was being punished for not bending to his will. Although he refused to answer my calls or texts, he occasionally left little jabs or cruel insults in my DM’s…very personal ones that he knew would hurt me deeply. I knew he was unable to handle the change in our dynamic (I went along with what he wanted most of the time, because I’m a people pleaser) and he just didn’t know how to handle his frustration. I had never realized just much rage he had kept underneath the surface.

Nice video

Love your videos ❤❤❤❤

Omg, Spiderman meme!

There’s a good point but being immature is part of life, and there’s no shame or hiding that someone can love someone being that way, such as a child and a parent, but since this also refers to people older too, I feel like people are special in their own minds so it’s hard to change for others sometimes. People expect things to work so if you’re realizing your status of emotional capability as a human than you’re on the right track. Nothing is wrong with being a kid, or feeling like one because life nowadays can be rather boring and tough with how much fun it is just being yourself with or without people you enjoy being around.

Hey psych, may you make a video that is quite the opposite of the depression series? To be exact, the "Signs you aren't depressed, but sad" or something like that

could you please make a video about how to deal with social anxiety ?

You can' t communicate, you run away, don' t take accountability and won' t sincerly apologize especially after wronging someone and it' s even worse when they know how you felt and still didn' t seem to give a s@#t.

I just did a search on this yest, as ive parents who act like that. This week being my bday i didn wanto deal with the BS, but old man was still atten seeking. in fact your channel has often posted abt this topic. Kids like this not so bad but if seniors are like that so shit

Is it possible to be… overly emotionally mature? For instance, if you had to develop emotional maturity super quickly and now you overcompensate?

A video about substance abuse would be great, especially alcohol. Not necessarily for 'addicted' people but if you are a normal person that doesn't binge drink and doesn't drink daily, you still might have a problem with alcohol. We don't have enough awareness about that.

The background piano song remids me of dankpods' ebay global shipping rant

I love your voice so much. Usually I can't sit thru any psych to go video because I'm picky about the voice. But yours is lovely ❤

I love your videos and have been watching them for years now. that being said, I'm sorry to say that the sound quality made it hard for me to listen.

this question is for Drew Baillie: Drew, I noticed several different accents when you were speaking. Do you mind if I ask where your your combination comes from? I ask this as I have a combo English, Kiwi, Aussie accent :)

Can you make a video on cold hearted person

I'm emotionally mature, just not in the best situation for me to seem very mature 😅

We call emotionally immature women Karens.

Currently I'm in the midst of furthering my education I think ppl say its immature to try to aim towards completing it over prioritizing getting a job I know that's important and tough as well but furthing my education can lead to possible success maybe loneliness maybe I might be proud of myself for pulling thru it either way its a very ptessureful topic for any female por someone to carry I think ppl think it may be immature to think of myself so much may be partially right but I'm doing the best I can..

I'm not allowed to date till I'm A sophomore but I still love to watch these so I can learn (only a few years till high school!)

What about dealing with emotionally immature teenagers? Genuinely, is there a way to tell a self-absorbed person why it's selfish and jealous if they don't understand that they are being jealous?

What should i have to do ....if am became so attached to her and she doesn't give even half an hour ...and if she doesn't talk my emotions get obsessed on me and i feel too much sad and thousands of thoughts come ....why she doesn't talk to me... blaaa blaaa.... I need to understand why it's happening to me because in this situation i can't focus focus on my study's...... only thinking of her i know what to do what to study bt i am hopeless......give me some point to come out from this situation....

Okay… I’m not emotionally immature, I’m just innocent and oblivious 😭

😅 tick a couple of boxes but depends on stress levels and how the personalitys rolling on the day. Food for thought though

I'm 11 and had a traumatic childhood bc of my dad was abusive. He left one day after yelling a lot. I don't know why but sometimes tbh whenever I'm stressed or someone yells I'll like just go out of it and just basically act like a little kid and sometimes just have full out breakdowns and scream. I don't know what this is called. Can I have some advice of what this is and why it happens guys?

Another sign of emotional immaturity is when someone is possessive of you in either a romantic relationship or friendship.😫

I hate knowing about them every time!

Yes I am dealing with one my boyfriend because of his past,he developed these but I can handle him as I am emotionally mature, he has an avoidant attachment style as well.

I need help whit something... I don't know how to express my feelings to someone special, I'm scared that my special person might be in a relationship but they might want to keep it a secret or they'll reject me and then mace fun of me. I need help I don't know haw to handle this situation and I'm scared to even come out to my parents that I'm bisexual and I can't even talk to a therapist and my dad also has anger issues and I'm just scared to say enything, I'm always scared of rejection and I'm afraid they won't see me anymore as their daughter

Fanning this animation style, dope message and dope animation,

My friend is a narcissist and she thinks that everything she says and does is always the right thing to do, I tell her to respect others but she struggles with that as well, she’s really freaking me out because she and I are so different while she likes doing tiktok dances and putting on makeup I just like rewatching my favorite shows, I’d love talking to her about dolls but she finds no interest in that either, she’s a narcissist and I’m not, she’s homophobic, and I’m bi, we’re just to different from eachother and whenever I tell her she’s not always right she says that I’m being like her toxic ex friends and whenever I don’t please her, she sends me photos of her crying and emojis of crying, she plays with my feelings and calls it a prank, she said some pretty awful stuff to me and made it out to be a prank, she can be nice sometimes, but she’s most of the time REALLY mean, I’m afraid I’m gonna have to cut off our friendship because her and I have no similarities and she’s really toxic

Hey, I have a question. If somebody was emotionally immature, would you have any tips or advice for them, or do you feel like it probably wouldn’t sink in and it would just go over their heads?

If you haven't already can you cover sexual assault? either how it affects you or how to heal from it, I had gotten SA when i was younger and I still have trouble talking about the situation but I still want to heal from the trauma :]

When it comes to the last point, my friend once in a blue moon come to me and tell me about her problems. But she would always point out how I never REALLY pay attention to anything she’s talking about. Which is kinda true…however, she can only talk to me about her feelings when she’s drunk and high. So it would go from a 10 min venting session about her shitty day at work to telling me I’m a horrible friend all the time throwing my stuff around my room 😐

He’s 55 and will never progress past 16 in mature years. It’s pathetic to watch. You can’t convince him otherwise. I ended the friendship today. I’m happier than I’ve been in years.

I can listen to problems and let people confide in me but one can do so much. If your problems don't get better, we're always complaining about the same things, you don't even consider taking my ideas or solutions I'm sorry I will look straight in your eye and nod while paying no attention

Is there a way to help them gain at least some enotional maturity?

Do you think you could make a video about knowing if you're mind is tricking you into being sad when you're actually fine? It's a daily struggle for me and i really don't know sometimes

Fun fact: in the original book, _Charlie and the Chocolate Factory_, Veruca Salt wants one of the squirrels (trained to remove walnuts from their shells without breaking the nut). The squirrels were changed to geese laying golden eggs in the first film version, because it was impossible in the days before CGI to have squirrels carry out their actions as described in the book -- and all the geese had to do was sit in place. The second film version restored the squirrels to the story, and thanks to CGI they carried out their role in a manner quite faithful to the book -- one of the very few things in that second film version that was faithful to the book!

I want to call your attention to the fact that nothing is to good for YOU, no matter how great the thing may be, no matter how undeserving you may seem to be. You are entitled to the best there is, for it is your direct inheritance. So don't be afraid to ask, demand and take. The good things of the world are not the portion of any favored sons. They belong to all, but they come only to those who are wise enough to recognize that the good things are theirs by right, and who are sufficiently courageous to reach out for them.

I need this Video with German Dub ASAP in order to show it to someone who needs to see it badly.

Me, I get upset with dealing with immature guy. And ended up we separated. I wanted the relationship to work but however he just run away emotionally , is unrequited

this is very useful for me to better understand...my brother's...

What if i know what's the right thing to do but choose not to because what i want is wrong?

Well, that explains... someone I know 🤔

Wow new voice

Oh yey, my parents are like this 😍

She just described my Dad

After dealing with 30+ years of insecure, toxic, emotionally immature humans, I now realize that it's just the way 90% of them are "trained" (or have learned by default). The core issue is systemic, and it begins with parenting, environment, financial beginnings, early schooling, and so forth. Unfortunately, once an individual is 16+ years old, if they've learned a *throng* of terrible habits, trust me, they'll never change. That's why narcissists aren't able to be "repaired"; they're incorrigible, and will continue to cause collateral damage to everyone and everything until they die. Acceptance is key.

Hurt people, hurt people

My ex called me this in the past ngl. And I think thats true. And Ik where it stems from- my schizophrenic mom who sometimes acts like a literal child. It's tiresome being around an emotionally immature adult who robbed you of your childhood.

When did the voice get changed?

For me it was "why are you yelling at me?" when i wasn't yelling.

0:00 i dont think it happend to me, i dont remember very well, but what i hate that parents say to their children is ,,Because i said so." What kind of answer is that? It would be much easier, for both sides, if the parent just explained why the kid has to do what they were told.

Has the art style updated or something??

2:26 WE BARE BEARS REFERENCE EEEE

Where is Amanda Silvera’s voice 😢😢😢

Knowing the struggles of emotional regulation and having a brain injury and ADHD can make people believe that I am emotionally immature, but in reality I am dealing with the negative effects that come from my disabilities.

youve just perfectly described every karen lol

Maturity is knowing when not to burn yourself to death to keep somebody else warm.

Yay I am emotionally mature!😎🎉

Is the speaker british i really can't understand the accent

Where is our favorite narrator Miss Amanda Silvera. I want her voice. Please bring her back 😢

I am appalled. by one of my employees behavior yesterday, before explain, I am a manager of five engineers all guys one of them Howard is a bit risqué in our scrum meetings he sometimes does some unorthodox things, namely he leans left, or right in his chair and let out a fart totally unashamed. We just laugh at it and blow it off and move on but yesterday at a customer meeting Howard he’s 26 now and for perspective I’m 38 at the meeting yesterday he did the same thing. Oh my God, he leaned way to the the right and loudly and blatantly let out a stinky a fart all the people from the other company were a palled like I was they were senior people in their 40s and 50s and 60’ what happened reflects bad not just obviously for Howard but for me in the company I just can’t believe it. I can’t believe that Howard didn’t know the difference between the chummy small group meetings and a higher level important prominent company meeting between companies. Wow.

Did they change voice actresses?

What if a person has adhd and autism, it’s possible or not

That voice is adorable whoever it is❤