Same omg I'm like.... now I see more wrong. Even though ladies we are tripping. Because we can still break necks when we go outside. Just know you are beautiful and NOBODY THINKS THE BAD LIST OF THINGS WE THINK ABOUT OURSELVES
@@ladym.13 Can't complain! I still have most of my vision, and although my jaw won't open I'm losing weight on this all liquids diet. Getting *snatched*
@@whynot9919longer, fuller eyelashes are generally a sign of good hormonal health (particularly testosterone in any sex), so you're probably correct that most men with long eyelashes are perceived as more attractive moreso for other characteristics rather than just the eyelashes.
I noticed that this channel often forgets the main problem of the beauty standard - fashion, which is set by marketers. it says here that big lips speak of femininity, but in the last century it was the other way around because of a different fashion, as well as eyebrows, a figure and much, much more
Because that's not what they do. They don't make social commentary. They just look at what makes people more attractive by the standards of a given context without trying to figure out why or whether if it's right or wrong. What you said is obviously all good and well too, but it's just not what they do
😅maybe you need to stop being so jealous & Realize the world beauty standards don't revolve around You nor your race your ethnicity, your religion or your people, they're global.! BIG LIPS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN POPULAR FAVORDED AND PERFERED IN THE BLACK/AFRICAN CULTURE!!! ALWAYS WE LIKE BIG BUTTS AND WE CAN NOT LIE😅....SO SHHHHHH UP TF UP
@@Alana-yo6hiI have those features and while I don't look like a child I do get loads of reactions when I say my real age and people often think I'm 10 years younger. Having chubby cheeks, plump lips and big eyes are normally considered traits seen in "babies". Ps. Before anyone comes for my head I said I look younger not some gorgeous supermodel.
@@Skies133 yeah same i’m 32 and people think i’m around 10 years younger (give or take). but also he never ascribed inherent attractiveness to these features. if anything i might look better with a better balance of masculine/sexier features
What the fuck is wrong with you? He talks about men too, dumbass. He never told his own opnions in things, all is research and science, i am a woman and i will not die by people that, if you such a senstive person then go other channel and block this one, not every women is so emotional and miserable as you are.
@@alanancy3178u can’t compare that bc James Charles presents himself as feminine by wearing makeup and acts gay. While women who do the same thing are considered not a feminine face? Huh
Does anyone else miss natural lips? It’s the super over filled lips, then on top of that over lining, then on top of that, “erasing” their cupids bow… it just look completely unbalanced. Edit: just want to clarify, I’m talking about the very obviously overfilled look, and not one’s done tastefully, or naturally full lips ❤️
I have never seen anybody in real life getting lip fillers .Only SM influences and few celebs get it done ,tabh it isn't even considered as an attractive trait where I live .They look bad . Naturally plumped lips are beautiful but balloon like lips look unattractive
Like The other person said I've never witnessed anybody in real life. Get lit fillers. But since I was lucky to be born black. I have grown up around most people with full plump Natural god-given lips that everybody is copying and imitating. So for some of us, it is natural and for others. I guess you just lack that great opportunity.😅
i live in essex, and I see sm women with lips done so many of my friends are planning to get theirs done as soon as they turn 18makes me sad tbh because all the women I know who got it looked stunning before and rlly didn't need it
@@ashleet4915 maybe you only notice the noticeable ones. There are probably far more people with actually natural looking results that you didn't even realize had anything done
Its very concerning to me that its seen as attractive to look more youthful/childlike. Reminds me of the pigtail theory and the obsession with school girl outfits/anime culture (which often portrays the women as very child like), which are very commonly found in porn. You cant condemn pedophelia and then tell women they need to essentially look like children to appease the male gaze. The double standard is crazy
@@Alana-yo6hi Smaller/shorter faces with fuller lips and small noses? Large eyes? All of these traits can still be found in adults but even adults with more gamine facial features dont look this childlike to me. The women in these pictures look almost edited theyre so childlike. The only reason why I say that is because I was very insecure because of this beauty standard and used to edit my pictures at 13/14 to have the same shorter faces, small noses, fuller lips and larger eyes just to be “prettier” because i didn’t have it to the same extent as what was seen as attractive, and mainly other girls online wouldnt want to talk to me because I “looked 8.” Even so, the original point of my comment wasnt to take a dig at the pictures used, but to the words. People can take those words to the extreme or not and it still be very concerning that standards like that are set in the first place.
@@arikutakari0999 oh well, i was mistaken for elementary school while i was in highschool. i’m sorry you’re still sore about being accused of being much younger. now i’m 32 and still carded. also the standards now are chiseled and sharp model jawlines, not babyfaces
@@Kiki_Kaguyathey are, for instance in the west they prefer tans and find pale skin "unhealthy", in a lot of east Asian and southeast Asian countries they prefer pale skin
By being born a woman youre already feminine. Im certain every single facial feature you have is beautiful and unique since you were perfectly crafted by god. Why are you gonna let _people_ tell you whats beautiful and whats not? Stop comparing yourself to others and take a second to look at faces with "undesirable" features with love and youll notice how beautiful they actually are. This goes for every body type as well: rectangle, pear, apple, hourglass, etc... we are all living and breathing beautiful artforms that this world doesnt acknowledge. Never let anyone talk you down about your appearance ❤️😊
It's so interesting to see how the standards change through the years though. I live in a country in the east of Europe. I once showed my dad a girl I thought was beautiful and he seemed surprised, his answer was "but she's quite ugly, look how big her lips are". And this was a woman who had naturally big lips. I later found out that in his day average lips were seen as the most attractive, while big lips were seen as ugly and very thin or nonexistent lips were associated with mean girls 😂
Once upon a time having a fat ass was frowned upon. Women wanted to be as FLAT as possible back there. And then… well… now everyone and their mothers (fathers too!) want to pick & choose from among African traits. Even Cleopatra was supposedly blue-eyed and lily-white. Optimal defense against the African sun. 🤓
@dolIparts nobody is mad, but it is about european standards. East Asian standards are different - they like softer faces, less angular bone structure than Europeans. And African standards are different - baby face is less admired, they don't care about lips and it's more about the eyes and cheekbones.
So women from different ethnicities don't share essential feminine features ? Lmao. You can make out who is female regardless of their ethnicity. The standards are really the same for everyone
More like East African. Europeans usually have long faces, long noses and small slips. Somalis and Ethiopians usually have small face, noses and big lips.
@johnjungkook2721 by "nobody" you mean yourself, right? Because some of us are tired of this crap. Some of us are tired of being told the features we're born with are only attractive on a European face. Qoves didn't in entire these beauty standards. But they promoting them and doing very little to bring read diversity to their channel. If they want to talk only about European beauty standards, they should only look at and talk about European faces and make it clear that other ethnic groups are or should be judged by different standards. It's not truly inclusive to just include people of color who don't conform to their own phenotype as your depictions of beauty.
I have close-set eyes, a nose with a large hump right in the middle and thin lips…as a woman I still feel like it’s my look and look feminine…well, sort of lol
Dear peachie knows ALOT about this type of stuff. I definitely recommend her to anyone that is watching this video. She covers all grounds for all types of feminine faces
@@user-fz9dn5bs7e it matters because there is still a threshold of "attractiveness" no matter what culture. yes, every single culture on planet earth has varying opinions on what a feminine face is but you can't go against human nature that is deeply rooted in us. Attractiveness once served as a biological indicator of stronger genes passing while now its more of a preference.
To the person who reading this, you dont have to change yourself to make your self more feminen or more girly. You are already created in the best way possible. Take care❤
i have a masculine hairline, big forehead, big nose, crooked jaw, small upper lip, not full eyebrows and normal to down turned eyes LMFAO the exact entire opposite of what this chanel describes. his videos always remind me i’m the opposite of beauty standard. yet almost everyone i meet finds me attractive. guess i have charisma at least, and all my features are mixing well together
@@elisa1213being attractive and beautiful are two different things. How is your body? Maybe you have a nice body and men are mostly body driven. I like my face but my nose is not as delicate and it's curvaceous, specially when i smile. But as you said, I still have good luck with men but i try my complete self to look good. I know there are other things of me that make me attractive in an integral point of view. Tina Turner wasn't beautiful per se but she was super attractive
The 4 steps to a more feminine face (with info from part 2): Step 0: Get a disproportionately shorter face (maybe he means bangs can help? Theres no way to alter this surgically) 1. Longer eyelashes 2. Fuller lips (injections or lip plumper) 3. Smaller nose (rhinoplasty or contouring), but be careful that you don't actually have a weak chin, which can make the nose look bigger when it's actually fine. 4. Longer hairstyle
As a woman with a slightly longer face, I definitely feel that getting bangs has made me appear more feminine by making my face look smaller and daintier!
All these things listed are things you can’t get you’re born with them or not. Unless ofc you go under the knife, which isn’t as accessible as the internet makes it seem. Maybe you can do a video where you actually give tips to aid the appearance of people without the “desirable” features.
This stuff is illustrative, nobody should try to change themselves. Nobody can change their face structure. If tou are a healthy human, you will always be enough and attractive enough. If you are not healthy tho, that's a different situation
@@localshithead7430wow what huge assumptions based on a short. Are u slow, its a short and he is restricted to how much he can say so he speeds up to give a comprehensive overview with the data included. And if you actually checked his channel instead of jumping to conclusions you can see he takes a slower approach with his videos. And his audience mainly watches his videos and not his shorts so you did a completely incorrect generalization. It seems you just want to attack his audience and him because you disliked the video grow up.
When many people talk about plump lips, there's a strange atmosphere in the environment, but that's because plump lips are traits of black people. But we know very well that women with full lips are more desirable!
i have classical baby face features large eyes with long eyelashes, smaller nose, full lips and a short face but i'm still ugly. what i figured out is that having all of the "right" is not a guarantee.
Maybe short, but also wide and not narrow and on the edge to rectanglenes. But still above average and pretty, just not the most lust or intimidation creating appearance, more friendly - but not as friendly as the wide, round face.
That is because a baby face is the least attractive for both men and woman. But women don't suffer as much as there are still many men who like it. But it's a curse for a man. I know it because I have it. Even if a baby faced person is good looking he or she can't be as sexually attractive to the opposite sex and people with less good looking but mature faces will always be more sexually attractive. That's where the problem is.
I feel as though some of the people shown in these videos would not be considered very attractive outside of the context of having their picture taken professionally and dressed in style. I feel as though i might walk past them and not find them attractive
You know, I really don't enjoy the "everyone is beautiful" movement that's been going on. For one it's just not true, it's only something we say to make people feel better, but more importantly I think it's the wrong angle to look at things. The world is far too obsessed with beauty and valuing people based on their looks, and instead of saying everyone is beautiful I would rather have us reject beauty as the ultimate goal. Not everyone is beautiful, and it doesn't matter, because beauty is far from the most important thing a person can be. Beauty isn't a virtue, it's just lucking out in the genetic lottery. Saying everyone is beautiful still keeps beauty on an undeserved pedestal, we should instead elevate more important character traits. Someone may not be beautiful but they may be kind, generous, helpful, intelligent, funny, insightful, ambitious.... All those things that actually matter, rather than just the aesthetic appeal of your flesh vessel.
If you want a channel that spreads that kind of message you are in the wrong channel. This channel focuses on beauty and attractiveness from a scientific viewpoint.
I would just like to point out that making videos like these, where certain facial features are defined as non-feminine and unattractive, can lead particularly sensitive people without "the perfect facial features" to increase their insecurities and feel bad about it or even send them into depression.
@Iodeddiper I don't think facial features can ever be objectively pretty and desirable by themselves. The only thing that matters objectively is harmony of the features.
Then we should delete all social media. He is talking about science behind beauty, nobody is responsible for nobody's feeling, turn off your phone and go touch grass if you are that sensitive.
@@vivwestI'm pretty sure this channel didn't need to wake up in the morning and decide to tell the Internet what makes people look more feminine. They could have done anything else. Make a video about manatees, go for a run, whatever.
Omg this is mind blowing thank you so much on behalf of us women we had no idea about these feminine ideals thank you SO MUCh for gracing us with this information you are truly a scholar and honestly? A HERO!! We love you and appreciate you thank you!!! I’ve just nominated you for the Nobel prize ❤
Men have always had fuller lips than women on average and it has historically been a masculine trait. Shit cycles with fashion. Women who had supermodel sharp jawlines were once equated with matronly age, starvation, or straight up witchiness. The only trait that's been hated on women consistently through time is a large and/or distinctly shaped nose.
im not sure if this is correct, but in regards to your last statement i do believe there were eras and cultures where distinctly shaped noses were preferred over the button nose preferred today. i think in medieval europe or something? i just rememebr reading that noses with bumps was seen as a sign of nobility and attractiveness somewhere in the world.
@@hinalul You're thinking of Rome, it was attractive on men. In medieval Europe, especially England, there is artwork mocking women with "witchy" pointed, large noses (which are a natural ethnic trait of many Anglo-Saxon women).
Yeah, i don't get why women want sharp features overall like bella hadid and so on. I'm talking when those are not natural. Some degree of fuller cheeks in your face makes you look younger and softer **feminine** the example of this is anya Taylor Joy, which i believe she did something in her face.
Sometimes I don’t like having so many “feminine” and Youthful features. Some angles, and even a pointy longer brow or nose really looks beautiful and stands out on the face.
Yes!!! We always want a MAN to tell us how to be more "acceptable" or desirable as women. Thank you kind sir for all the study and research. The world has been changed by this knowledge.
I want everyone to know that you are beautiful just the way you are. I know everyone says this, but it’s true. In the end, it comes down to preference. Say you’re pretty and you are, say you’re aren’t and you’re not. I have all of the features listed in the video, has anyone but my mother said I am pretty. Yes, but did it really feel validating over the comments of hateful people? No. There will be days when you feel insecure, just know that you have features that other people want. It can be so random, but we all pick out the “bad” things about ourselves instead of the “good” things that we like. One tip I have for everyone, is to look in the mirror every morning and say three things you love, it can be really generic or very specific. At the end of the day, spend 1-2 minutes just looking at yourself, forcing yourself to see the good things rather than the bad. Overtime you will start to feel just a little less insecure. Try to say at least 3 compliments to others a day, it can be about their facial features, makeup, hair, personality, etc. Spread the kindness and love yourself and everyone around you ❤ (I also wanted to mention that the video talks about feminine features, not pretty features. You are feminine, you are beautiful, and you facial features are meant to fit your face, not someone else’s meant to fit you)
You can have the most scientifically beautiful and mathemtically proportionate features in the world but colour causes people to discriminate and see someone as less beautiful. Lots of africans have nice full lips and long eyelashes, features considered to be universally attractive, but there just isnt the same level of pretty privilege afforded to them.
This is actually very interesting. I did get told by multiple guy friends (Eastern Asian & Caucasian) that they see black women the least feminine (doesn’t mean they’re not attractive). However black women have the most feminine hour-glass body type, full lips, and big eyes. 😅
@@naomihu9399they mean in the face probably? Black Africans tend to have high cheekbones, larger jawlines but it’s true that black women have the most hyper fem bodies
I used to obsessed over big lips now I'm 21 and finally able to see the world past my own fake imagination. I honestly now find big lips rough. Slim and thin lips look royal tbh.
Everyone who is not understanding the point of the video, I’m gonna resume it. There’s both masculine and feminine features that everyone can have no matter their gender. For example, there’s man who have prominent feminine features, like Leonardo DiCaprio and there’s woman who have prominent feminine features like Adut Akech. Same way, there’s man who have prominent masculine features, like Henry Calvin and there’s woman who have prominent masculine features like Angelina Jolie. But having more masculine or feminine features doesn’t instantly define your level of attractiveness, because as you can tell, the people that I mentioned above are popularly know for their beauty and attractiveness even thought their features are not the same. This video is not saying that if you don’t have all this features you are ugly or less of a woman, it’s only explaining what makes a face look more feminine using examples of different woman with this features. This channel also has a video talking about “pretty boys” and it focuses on men with feminine features as well, but everything is explained from a scientific point of view, so if you want to see a video talking about how everyone is beautiful no matter what, then this is not the channel for you.
As a man i get often the comment saying i have a very feminine face and although my head is small, the height is larger than the width, also i dont have big lips or disproportionate big eyes so why would i get that said to me so much?
Because you’re maybe handsome or pretty ? I’ve noticed that some people equate beauty to femininity exclusively, because in their heads men are supposed to be, I don’t know, ugly maybe ?
you can love yourself while acknowledging beauty standards. I just don’t care about them, we just gotta embrace and enhance features that we already find good on oursleves
I think the lip thing is so interesting because small lips used to be considered beautiful and feminine not that long ago and its probably be cause they came off as more dainty or something. Im sure there are cultures around the world that still hold that belief. Just a thought.
@@anastasia.beaverhousenthin lips were never considered beautiful in any way. Someone would have always wanted a pout. That's why lipstick was created. One can have a more narrow mouth but still have pouty lips. No one would ever want thin, unshapely lips. Uh uh.
Its neither eyes nor lips...its the facial bone structure and the jawline. I have well set almond shaped eyes with long lashes, and full lips...but my mouth is protruding with a weak jawline/chin. Automatically unattractive.
This guy loves big lips. When people here told him many times that in some countries women with smaller mouth and lips are much more attractive. Also white women with really big lips looks often ridiculous. Totally opposite of black girls who can rock big lips. And btw. Men like child like features on women means they like somehow small head but with BIG forehead. Why? Kids have big long forehead compared to the rest of face. Kids have also very SMALL lips and short mouth. So this video (and a lot of his videos) are simply not true by science, just his own preferences. Attractive face of woman is small, with small nose, small LIPS, big eyes and long forehead. Because this kind of face looks the most youthful and feminine.
@@Alana-yo6hi pouty lips can be small. A lot of famous kpop female stars have pouty but still very small lips and mouth. Kids also have small but pouty lips. Also the older we get the more dry lips we have. So it's important to moisturize and use glossy products
@@Alana-yo6hi for me pouty means that lips are not super thin and not flat, but still small. Look at Yoona from Korean band Girls Generation. She has small lips but still pouty. Like a kid. She is also consider beauty ideal and beauty standard for korean woman. How different from western standards, because in the West and also in my country in Europe probably she would be consider the ugliest among girls form girls generation
People always try a create problems out of everything. If you don't like the video scroll if you think it's dumb watch something you enjoy it's not that difficult
Amazing resource 🎉 Can you make a video about face height and unbalanced thirds in more detail if there is something new about on it? I know that you made many content about it. Including head to body ratio, ideal face height, ideal proportions and solution wise you referred many other yt channels. Also I watched your 5 tips to leaner face video but the harris benedict and tdee calculators were covered very beriefly. I would love to see more of them in the action! I would love to see how they can be used in out diets and sport routines. Thanks 🎉
📢Gentle reminder: You are unique. Regardless of the size, shape, texture or colour of your features, you are beautiful. You stand out. You are not an avatar in need of permanently altering and “upgrading” your physical appearance. Take care 💚
When people treat you like sh*t because of the way you look, you start wanting to change your appearance. It's not the case for everyone as most people look normal but some people are deemed "ugly" and it's a nightmare.
I think this channel is about knowing the general beauty like mostly ideal beauty in fashion industry and stuff and as for dear peachies it's more about finding your own beauty, so anyone who wants to improve their appearance go run to dear peachies channel, but if someone wants to know what is trendy in fashion world then this channel is good. I'm saying this as a viewer of both channels!
If you cannot fit the beauty standards, take the time to reflect and accept your ‘flaws’ and set your own standards. Appreciate your facial traits and try to see ways which they are beautiful. Eventually you will accept yourself and own your appearance. You will be happy and attract everyone with your vibes. Nobody wants a perfect friend/partner with swollen lips, they want happy positive strong people around them. Thats all you gotta be. Whatever you can change, change it. Whatever you cant change, own it. Either way, appreciate that you have anything at all, and love the opportunities you’ve got.
I feel very feminine and I have a long oval face, thin heart-shaped lips, narrow almond eyes. Famous actresses of the 90s often had thin small mouths and more grown-up/mature features. They were still extremely feminine (Sharon Stone, Lara Flynn Boyle, Meg Ryan, Jamie Lee Curtis, Courtney Cox, Demi Moore, Linda Fiorentino, Gwyneth Paltrow, Cate Blanchett, Kirsten Dunst, Carrie-Ann Moss, Diane Lane, Bridget Fonda etc).
@@Solla774 as a society, we have come to a point where having a family is only a option. We have the luxury to do this. I’m glad we have come this far as society to be able to say “yeah I don’t care about attracting the opposite sex”. And the consequences from this will be a personal issue, but not a life or death issue.
@@feyrie To me this sounds like nihilism and dystopian beyond words, but I agree with you and it’s none of my business what others choose. If hypothetically women do start to try and define what femininity is, it’ll be interesting to see what the consequences of women who desire to be attractive and those who don’t will be. We already see this in men as men who have lost interest in appealing to women are common in movements like ‘MGTOW’ (men going their own way), I suspect there’d be a negative feedback loop of not being attractive then complaining about beauty standards while continuously becoming less attractive in male eyes (which obviously wouldn’t matter it’s just interesting to think of the knock on effects).
There are no consequences of looking less attractive, just freedom and self love and that’s there is to it if you ditch the beauty standards in trying to appeal to the opposite sex.
Yeah the opposite sex opinion doesn’t matter lol. Guess you are gonna mate with yourself huh??? Also women hold these standards for other women as well 😂
There's really only 2 tips here , lashes and lips. Nose and face length isn't something you can change (or change without surgery regarding the former)
basically, watch cartoons/anime.. they're a good exemple of feminine-appereance depictions cuz sometimes it's litteraly some of those coded traits that will differentiate a male caracter/other gender from a (conventionnaly) female one
