Museums, art galleries, high end bars and cafes, chocoloate making classes, cooking classes, dancing classes, fashion events, business events, and language classes.
@@georgeramos9474l will gladly go to museums and art galleries but forget about taking classes because women don't attend classes to meet men, so if you are a single male you don't want to go there.
I think that chocolate making classes, cooking classes and fashion events would backfire. If a woman sees a man in one of these places, she would probably think either "he's gay" or "he's here just for the women (something that they usually don't like)".
Dancing is a great way to meet women. I love to dance and when I go to a dance club I can’t tell the number of women I find flirting with me. I may not be Fred Astaire but when I dance with a woman I try to make her feel like Ginger Rogers. When I go dancing I get there early, which is when the dancers are there and leave when the drinkers arrive. I love art and another place to meet women is at an art museum, gallery or an art show/opening. I also love the theater and can’t tell the number of times I’ve gone to see a play, a musical or an opera and left with a woman. Wine tastings are another place to meet women.
Walter, you’re more of a Casanova than I! Thank you for sharing your tips, I’m sure that art museums, theater shows, and wine tastings are all excellent ways to meet women, especially classy women
I've had the exact opposite experience with dance. Conversations don't last more than a song before everyone goes dancing again. So they are very shallow. After 10 years of dancing, I met next to no women nor friend. How do you do that? I've come to the point where I consider social dance parties as asocial, I go there only to dance and no talk. That will save me disappointment.
Simply say that you want a drink and ask her if she wants to join you. It's better than offering her a drink right away and clearly stating you're hitting on her. Plus she can decline without things getting akward. After that ask her what she likes to do besides dancing and find an opportunity to meet her one one one. All of that will feel natural and not flirtatious. If girls never want to join you you should probably work on your appearance and non verbal communication. You should give the feeling that having a drink with you is fun and interesting. What you want to avoid is awkwardness which can comes up quite easyly when dancing / interacting with a stranger. Hope this helps!
@@yugioh5ds209 Yes a the party, unless she proposes it or it makes sense. For exemple if she says she wishes they have vodka you can say you know this very nice shooter bar if she's interested. But going out is not necessarily a good idea you might want to dance more with her. If you have already danced enough and the party is about to finish going out might make more sense. But usually staying there is more natural, she will feel safe, it's lower commitment which means a lower chance of decline.
I enjoyed this video. I have been thinking about quitting the dating apps recently and this video was very helpful. I also thought that it was great that you invited a woman to comment, the two of you worked well together. It gave the video good balance and made you look better than a lot of the other videos/channels on this topic. Thanks for sharing 👍
Thanks Bryden! I should add, I am not against dating apps, and Augustina and I actually met on Tinder! But I do think the dating app world can limit your perspective a little too. I’m glad you found it useful to get my girlfriend’s take on things. I do find it annoying how many dating advice channels for men have no female input
Yeah, most hobbies men have tend to be very male dominated. My hobbies are sports, guns, video games, movies, and music. Some may say music is a good way to meet women, but I prefer to listen to music alone. I just put on my headsets, close my eyes, and just vibe with mainly Jazz.
@@GreenWolf2k That's where I disagree on the subject on not doing effort and doing only what you like. If you don't put any effort you'll stay single forever. You need to do things that women like it's not working the oher way around. So yes have a good job, take care of your appearance and have activities that women like. I would even argue that most of what men do is to attract women. And the competition is fierce.
@@Wonderwoman79G Yeah, but like I said. I prefer listening to music alone. Listening to music alone allows me to enter a tranquil state that I can't get while others are around.
Argentine Tango dancer here. It's an amazing way to meet lots of people. Looks matter somewhat, but being a good dancer makes up for lots of other things. At first, no one cares whether or not you can dance. iIf you just show up and try you get lots of respect.
All very good suggestions and my compliments Augustina is a very attractive companion. I am a Boomer, so let me add a few suggestions geezers can use: If not tennis, pickle ball. Not as hard on the joints. Join a Bridge club, you are bound to meet highly intelligent and competitive women. Join a classical music club, attending concerts and recitals is a winner. Join a reading group, some of these even include audio books.
It is 80s, but he rocks it with nonchalance, therefore it works. Nothing wrong with taking style nods from different eras. As a swing dancer my casual style often has touches of the 30s.
Great advice , as a ballroom dancer myself i know this is a great way to meet people..and at 5 ladys to every 1 the odds are with you...also there are apps to find new partners for dancing. A great skill that you wont ever lose.
Do you have any suggestions for where to find conferences open to the public? All I could find are academic research conferences you need to be invited to or conferences for medical doctors. (Helpful video by the way!)
You missed a big one - playing an instrument. I swear, every girl I've ever been interested in, I've had long conversations with about music, and being a guitarist myself, it's literally free points in the dating game. Granted, people who play instruments just to be attractive are pretentious beyond infinity, usually suck at their instruments and are just plain assholes
American, non-city version: -Mountain biking. Every mountain town has one or more "local trails", where you'll find locals after work. -Mountaineering, rock climbing. A skilled mountaineer has no trouble finding climbers who want to include him. And, most mountain towns have a "climbing gym", great place to meet athletic women. -Kayaking/whitewater rafting. A skilled oarsman is valued. You might find yourself on a three week trip on the Grand Canyon with a group that includes, again, athletic women. -Poetry readings are a good idea. Here in Wyoming we have "cowboy poetry" events. Sneer if you like, but they are great fun, and the men who attend are NOT gay.
I figure to double my odds by bringing a dog with me to the dance class or tennis lesson--that'll show 'em. Meanwhile, these two could sell me tickets to my own funeral if they asked me nice, that's how pretty they are. My god.
All great ideas. I’ve fostered some great relationships with women over the years from playing tennis and conducting wine tastings. Also, sailing clubs are fantastic.
I have danced modern jive, Tango, and recently West Coast Swing. For 14yrs. Trust me, dancing is not the place to go for a relationship. Full over desperation, sad men and women jumping from one person to another. Trying to get with the teachers dg’s and best dancers. Divorced lonely woman trying to bag their next meal ticket. Desperate lonely men spending time money and energy on them. Plus it’s a closed world where everyone knows everyone else and move in the same circles so if you break up you will keep seeing your ex and that makes for a very toxic atmosphere. Hard experience has taught me to go to dance to learn and improve and enjoy music and the skill of dancing. I stay away from all thoughts of a relationship. Other downside is Modern Jive in particular as well as WCS is full of feminist lunatics of both sexes whose sole job is to gaslight everyone into their way of thinking. Tango is less so. Another aspect is that very few younger people go partner dancing though the Latin, WCS has a younger filling MJ is the hall of the living dead.
Motorcycle events. Not just because of the people owning and riding these motorcycles (who mostly tend to be down to earth, middle-aged dudes), but because the connection often grows far beyond the hobby. I do not usually like to admit it, but the majority of female company I have had was with the daughters of other motorcycle owners.
4:35 This made me smile. Tennis is absolutely an attractive sport, but as someone who plays semi-competitively I tend to...what can one say..."lose some of my elegance" when I am out there down a set and a break in an important match, hahaha.
It's not complicated. Just go too, and participate in the activities that you are genuinely interested in. No matter what it is. You will meet like minded women. I have met many women, over time... at ball games, motocross, skiing on both water and snow....stuff that I participate in. Most of these girls are pretty athletic, and down to earth. A solid Win in my book!!!
Dance is a difficult hobby because of damn if you do, damn if you don't. If you get in a relationship with somebody who dances and it goes south, it can sour the "happy place" as you called it. If you get in a relationship with somebody outside of the dancing scene, be prepared for lots of jealousy. Eventually, you will either quit dancing or exit the relationship.
I don't make much beyond a modest salary right now and I was making considerably less when we first met. So I can't say money would have played any role in her attraction to me.
Guys, do not think that dancing means you can say or do anything. It's really creepy, women say this all the time. If you are good enough catch she will show you the green light. Read the signs. Dogs, no way. I had one gf with a dog and honestly it ties your freedom like a toddler. Good for the initial phase but extremely time consuming in everyday life.
You two are a very beautiful couple. I sincerely wish you to be happy together. Good advise. I, personally, could never find the idea of meeting women through “dating apps” to be even slightly attractive. There are plenty of places to meet people. Just don’t be a loser and a creep. Do something with your life, improve your finances (if that’s the issue), take a good care of your health, get rid of bad habits (if you have any), and then women who meet you will see that you are a healthy and wholesome man who needs a woman in his life to be happy.
I usually try and make my comments about the subject and not too personal regarding the presenter. However, your girlfriend is quite stunning and, it sounds like she has a Canadian or American accent, so as a Yank A+ for you, sir.
Refreshing to hear your gf say “dog owner”. We have a weird epidemic here where women wish to replace children with pets and call themselves “dog moms”. Always been a big red flag for me. You picked a good one. Cheers.
Conferences and courses are excellent because you have a built-in conversation starter: "Hello (looks at her name badge" Jennifer, what did you think of the presentation?" I would wager that Augustina would agree that a gentleman sincerely asking a woman about her opinions is a positive inflection point in a first conversation.
Poetry night: you could impress a woman by saying something like, "Yes, I thought it was a very good poem, but I was perplexed by the change of foot between the first and second verse."
Fantastic video! I've found that bouldering is also a sport where there is good balance in male:female ratio. And because it's intensive there's a lot of short rests in between, perfect to start a short conversation.
Just about any hobby/social events that's co-ed are great environments to meet women. If your sole purpose is to pick up women, it will often show & will be a turn off. So pick something you'll genuinely enjoy participating in. It will be more authentic. The up side, you'll have something in common to converse about (especially if your talk game is normally weak) lol. In the case of physical activity or competitive hobbies, there is a cheat code if it's tough to get a proper date. You can always invite her to practice/improve both your skills. That's one on one time right there. Thank me later 😂
I love to dance, so I will be looking for a dance class close to me as I live in a rural area, it can be hard to find social events close to me.. great video, thanks so much!
Thank You for sharing👍 your recommendations, I really loved the ideas specially of going to confrences, joining courses and owning a dog which I have always wanted. Personallly, I also love the idea of holding parties and inviting people on weekends to expand my social circle. I also wanted to say that you guys are extremely beautiful couple.😍 You guys look so perfect together, please keep this forever, I absolutely adore you guys.
It is a wise move to include a female voice when talking about meeting women. Men who have access to female friends and family members for their perspectives definitely have an advantage over men without a female perspective.
Suggestion for next video - 5 more hobbies to meet women. I went to a badminton club recently, I know badminton isn't tennis, but anyway, it was a sausage-fest of the highest order. 23 male, 3 female (I counted). I enjoyed the badminton.
OMG. go with a platonic girlfriend. That was my M.O.in my youth. sometimes when women see you with another woman they either feel at ease because the other woman obviously feels safe with you or they are a bit competitive. "Women don't want good looking men. They want men with good looking women." - Milan Kundera.
Dancer here (salsa, bachata, swing, balfolk, walzer). The advice of choosing dancing is very good. The advice of the girlfriend on how to during the dancing event is instead very bad. Why asking a woman? She had never to do it, she has no experience as a man. My advice: get good at the specific dancing style, wear good, fitting clothes, change them to avoid sweating shirt during the night and be flirting during the dance with eyes contact and moves but always respectful. Learn to read the signals
There are tons of professional seminars, free training, and conferences that you can go to related to your career, whatever that is. Also think about going to trade shows related to your career.
Volunteering is another great way to meet people. Again, you already have something in common---the issue in question. Volunteering also says a lot about your values and ability to make commitments. Finally, men are vastly outnumbered by women in this space.
LoL, take up sewing! The women are at the fabric & yarn stores. For women, it's Hardware & paint stores to meet men. I won't be left to find anything by myself there. And its actually quite interesting. Of course, no one's eligible, but you did say just meet?
Learn how to work your camera on your cellphone. Maybe take a photograph class. Learn how to frame the picture, learn how to do close ups, portraits, etc.
What you absolutly shouldn't do, if your goal is meeting women, is fencing. I do HEMA in Bologna, Italy, and we literally have 60 guys and 4 girls in our club (all 4 are either occupied or lesbian, obviusly 😂).
