Managing dating life as a man is really hard nowadays. You need to know rules of the game, you need to stay calm if it doesn't go as planned. My tip is to be yourself and chase your goals. Chasing women didn't bring any good to anyone, it can just put you in misery. But when they start chasing you need to know what to do the first few dates (I recommend reading First date playbook: A step by step guide to a great start. You will have some tricks up your sleeve).
Like any person goes straight from the dating app to committed dating. C’mon bro. No normal woman (if any at all)matches with 100 men. If you pick your equal, you get dates. But no one wants to admit who their equal actually is. This comment sounds like pure insecurity.
Online marketers whose product is online dating will tell you cold approach doesn’t work, and online marketers whose product is cold approach will tell you online dating doesn’t work
relying on cold approach (approaching 2-3 a day) would land you 10 dates a year. online dating (with a great profile) 10 dates every two weeks. this is a fact in 2024.
Good video. You speak with lots of wisdom and confidence on this subject matter. Personally, I do not have the desire nor energy to play the modern dating game. Instead, I cherish my solitude and the sanity it brings me. My conclusion: not everyone needs to be married or date for that matter. 52 m, never married and no kids.
Zander is absolutely savage. Basically he teaches us that there's no way to have a good relationship. At the most you might get 18 months of love but it will disintegrate. You will weaken, she will lose interest, she will not satisfy hypergamy and you will lose your masculinity. We are all fucked
Good points. Though I wouldn't necessarily think every relationship you build with people has to be like a business negotiation. If I were to hit up one of my buddies for lunch, and we hadn't seen each other in a while, I'd only look forward to see how he's been doing, what's new, and overall sharing experiences. It's all about how the person made me feel and made me feel validated. I wouldn't care less whether he's a millionaire or a bum in that regard. I don't know, maybe I sound too bluepilled talking like this, but isn't this how we all got along and made friends in school? We hung out with those who had common interests and clicked with us on an emotional level.
@Michael_the_Drunkard in that case, you could say that romantic relationships require more of that connection. Otherwise, how will it work out? Whether you're looking for relationships or hookups, your behavior and being able to talk and escalate things as a man really is the blueprint to success with women.
ya, men have to do all the learning, trial and error, in order to know how to date, how to meet and attract someone, reminds of a comment discussion i saw going on instagram and i agree with it, it went like this: "why aren't there accounts like these for girls? it seems guys have to do all the learning" and a guy said "women just exist and dudes line up for her" and it continued: "women don't have to learn game, let alone almost do anything to get guys. They just go out, be there, just be there, look pretty and get attention, options for just existing. Unfortuneately, we as guys have to learn this crap to get women into our lives. Getting girls is a skill that has to be practiced repeatedly" i thought that summed it up perfectly, ya for guys, men, getting women is a skill, but for women, getting guys is not a skill, but not the other way around, never was a fan of how reality has to be this way, oh well, it will never change sadly.
but imagine the power you have in being the initiator. You get to choose who you want to go after. yeah you may get blown off, but at least it's in your hands. Girls mostly simply only get to choose out of the options they are given. Sometimes it isn't great. let's be honest. Men have power with action. I know I would rather have that skill where I have the power in acting.
@@expandingcourage that mindset pisses me off a lot, because, thats like saying men can literally get results with women anytime they want, which is false, women obviously have the power of being able to accept or decline, so yeah, i don't understand when people say that men have it better, so yeah, men being able to get a woman anytime they want, that is BS.
To point 3 you are not lying , i finally bit the bullet one night and put some effort into my hinge profile. I uploaded some nice gym photos , uploaded a selfie i took in my car with some good prompts on the account and man i started getting matches left and right. Currently dating a really dope chick that ive been screening for the past 2 months , good video!!!.
The last make sense. All the other are highly disputable, to be polite. And that about dating aps, after all that statistics, papers and research about man struggling severely there is complete ignorance. It will be interesting discussion between this optimist and YT legends like Hoe Math, White Waffles or some similar with real arguments.
No, point 2 is new. It honestly made me think, and it will be hard to accept as a guy who was raised in Christian faith. The rest of the points are not that shocking
Been boxing for years. My jab is my best punch. I know how to jab. But when my coach says today we’re working on our jabs and critiques me. I listen, because repetition is key.
