5 Confidence SECRETS that Make You Attractive AF 

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It's like when you fall in love and suddenly have all these people find you attractive and talk to you. It's because you emmanate the feeling and energy of "I'm happy, I'm good, I don't need others." I'd love to feel that more often without being in a relationship.

1. Non- neediness 2. Open up your heart - have an open energy in public. Loosen up and have fun! 3. Feature your flaws - people feel what you feel 4. Being in your own frame. Be the star in your own movie. 5. Self - validation

*5 things to quit for all people:* *1. Caring about what others think* *2. Not believing in yourself* *3. Not prioritizing your health* *4. Wasting your precious time* *5. Chasing meaningless relationships*

I met my husband when I didn’t want anyone. It was crazy. He just appeared & was exactly what I wanted, but I rejected him because I didn’t want anyone. He didn’t accept the rejection & persisted, and it just happened and we got married a year later. Married 10 years. Before him, I was super needy in my relationships. I was in the midst of becoming at peace with being alone. Isn’t that crazy how it happens?

That's why girls "like jerks," it's not cuz we actually like jerks, but because they don't act needy and they act like they have their own value, which makes them more appealing.

*"The person who wins, is the person who wants it the most."* This changed my life.

Alright, so I think I have cracked the code to what Aaron is talking about. In order to attract the opposite sex, you have to be in your own frame, meaning you can't always be "looking" or "trying" to find someone, because they will pick up on that in which you will repel. The key is that you have to let it all go. You have to be the main character in your story. The subconscious doesn't take years to undo negative beliefs about the opposite sex, it's based on "belief itself." In fact, you don't undo anything. Like when you have 3 files in a video game, you can hit "erase" at any time, but the key is you must believe. You must believe you are attractive, and that you can give light to the world.

Authenticity is extremely important.

Everything you want is within you you don’t need validation from anyone else you are WHOLE ❤️

I noticed that practicing expression & speaking more has shifted my confidence & magnetism TENFOLD (e.g. as I make more youtube videos and building that skill), and I've noticed it in you too Aaron throughout the years as you continue to make more videos, your Authentic energy shines through MORE and MORE. I love seeing that shift in you, it's honestly awesome and inspiring. thank you.

To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤.

“Let go of who you think you’re supposed to be; embrace who you are.” -Brene Brown Great video Aaron 🔥❤️

I can relate to this in so many ways . The way we treat ourselves makes the biggest difference. I used to crave approval and validation from my parents which impacted my relationships as an adult. It's taken alot of work to believe I deserve to be loved.

“Everything should be made as simple as possible, but no simpler.” - Albert Einstein 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RU-vidr

You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them but still move on without them.😇

You surely got that right. The one who is less needy has the upper hand in the relationship. But in the long run, if someone is constantly acting detached, cold and uninterested. Like they are whole on their own and they don’t need anyone, although that is very attractive in the beginning, it becomes off putting later on. The Pursuer gets tired of pursuing. Like if you expressed to your girlfriend that you were annoyed by the presence of those two dudes showing up uninvited, i’d Find that really manly. Not in a needy way but affirmative. Tell them to get on their way.

People use healers and psychics too. I love my own company and I’ve been practicing detachment. I’ve had to learn to open my heart. Self love is the most important love 💕

Dude, I can't believe I haven't listened to you before- you seem very genuine and wise!

I found a secret that my language of love is unconditional care,kindness and being cute as F is my true nature. From that moment I started to feel and freely express my vibe without any mask to the right ppl ho speaks same language of love. Now I understand my vibe and vibe of my tribe

What four words can completely destroy a man's confidence? “Is it in yet?”

People often say open up your heart but nobody really explain how!

Confidence and wholeness make ppl more attractive. Thank you for your kind video arron ❤

The Neediness is the age old theme imbedded in us from birth of always having to Prove Ourselves Worthy! 💜🙏🏼💜

Dude you’re seriously intelligent. This helps me so much!

Very true. You project how you feel. Other people can sense that, especially women. Projecting confidence while appearing friendly and outgoing is kryptonite to women.

The power of this video. I use to not like the fact that my facial hair is red but the hair on my head is black. While watching this. I got the sense of energy like, "I dont care anymore, its who the hell I am. I'm gonna flaunt it." Thanks for this video man.

I also couldnt say the letter R untill i was 6 yrs old, its my favorite letter now. I started crying when i tried the frame technique just now, for the first time. This video helped me a lot. Thank you for becoming even more vulnerable and open.

I adore this,thank you! Just what I needed to hear today what a great reminder! I love the part where you said shame grows in the dark don't bring awareness to it I love that... This is so true you are so right! 🔥💫🪶🤍🥕, Many blessings to all, stay light, stay bright & keep 🌟 &sharing your flame my friends!🔥

You always release these at the perfect time. I have a list and wondered why I had it

I love this message its beautiful. being needing this all my life. Thank you so much.❤

Aaron, i ve been following you since the beginning of my spiritual awakening and you nail it everytime !👌keep it up ! Love your teachings ❤

So happy for you and Heather! Love you both!

Fantastic as always Aaron!!! Thank you 👏🏻♥️

Thank you Aaron. Since my beloved husband passed 2 years ago, I have deliberately closed myself off, to protect my broken heart. Now, I must learn how to open my heart again.....

Hi Aaron, I was browsing through your old videos, saw this one and have played it over 10 times since then! It felt as though I was having a one-on-one coaching with you. I could relate to every single thing you have said in it because I have felt it bone deep. Thank you for being there like a guiding light for millions like me. More power to you 🙌🏼😃 Sending you loads of love!

It’s amazing how much wisdom this guy has and how generous he is with it. Thank you.

Thank you Aaron, I have changed sooo much since helping myself and listening to your video’s. I was with a partner who I knew wasn’t right for me because I could feel it, it took me a long time to recognise that he was using my strengths and my past mistakes against me.. I recently met another guy and it was quite turbulent but being in my own frame has helped that relationship flourish, your videos help my anxiety, and I’m growing and getting there ❤️. X

Your videos have helped me so much !! Because of your videos I was able to peacefully and successfully move on from my abusive and toxic relationship . God knows how much I prayed for this peace and release . I couldn’t have done it without your guidance Aaron ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

In, order to Open Up I'd/We'd Need to::: *Open, Up My Heart. *Smile, MORE. *LOOSEN, Up. *Have, FUN. Thank, you Aaron You Are 💙

You are AMAZING!Very inspiring. Thank you so much for this good pep talk I needed to remind myself of!

I was going to say my brother. I don’t “want” anyone. I don’t “need” anyone. The universe was the one I didn’t trust but I have softened after COVID. However since COVID I have relaxed quitting be so uptight and just let the day unravel, I realized you can make all the appointments and schedule with friends but if something is going to happen I quit resisting… I go to the gym and quite thinking about everything I needed to do at home. You are on point about being in your own frame. Minding my business. I mind my business and it’s changed my life.

SO MUCH resonated for me here, thanks as always

Wow, eye opening information. Thank you very much! I do think that I sabotaged many relationships in the past. I will no longer live in fear!

You are so cool! This journey has been transformative!💖🤯💖🤩

I appreciate your personal stories and candor! It was helpful.

This is so helpful!! Thank you 🙏🏽

OSHO does not BLINK!! hahahah This is awesome THANKS MAN really enjoyed this!! Blessings and Namaste

Proud of you and thank you for your message.

We love the TMI, it makes me feel more connected to the people that I admire! I also love Leeor Alexandra 💜

Aaron, these videos are helping me heal & work through my shadow. Thank you so much. Namaste 🙏🏻 💗✨

Loved "being in your own frame." that concept helped me tremendously. Awesome video. Your voice is easy to listen to.

This was so refreshing! Thanks Aaron!!

So simple.. Being attractive is .. just Being nice and smile more, give your energy to others , open your heart and feel that confidence… open your heart and help others when you can …share that love of energy..so true

OMG you are good Aaron, killing it and are so right to the point and the core of what is going on (at least with me for the last 40 pluss years ❤️).

This is a God Deal! I appreciate your vulnerability Aaron! It's obvious your living your purpose and a redeeming life. 🤙🏾💙🙏🏽✝️

You are intelligent AF!!! Thanks for the awesome content!!

I'm praying you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏 🎯in this episode Aaron. Thanks brother.😇

Sooo I was once super insecure and super self conscious I am much more confident now after allowing myself to be free and honestly trusting myself. It’s weird looking back at myself because I cannot identify with a lot of stuff I did or said things are so different now. Thank you❤️✨

Thanks Aaron. I really needed this!

I don’t think that this was tmi, thank you for opening up and being honest. Appreciate it a lot 🙏🏼

Don’t be codependent don’t be attached to an outcome trust yourself love yourself believe you are worthy of love

You are a game changer!🥰 Thanks!💙

I just happened upon your video, and I really like what you have to say. I've always been self-conscious and it stems from being bullied about my looks. I'm going to try reframing my flaws and not let them affect me. I'm also going to try being comfortable in my own frame. Hell, I'm going to do all of these and see if this works for me. Thank you for making these kinds of videos

Super!! Thank you for your videos. They give me confort and tranquility.

You nailedddddd it wow. All my empath stuff and insecurities and childhood trauma. This is such a huge help, thank you

Keep doin' whatcha do, Aaron! You have inspired and helped millions on this earth! 👏

Aaron I just want you to know that your videos are essential to me! It has helped me soooo much thank you!

This really helped thank youu! I feel like we all know this stuff deep down, but like I need constant reminders to start to cognitively re-program! Thanks Aaron! 🙏🏻

I love this guy ! I feel for him I think he is working all this out in this video!! For the first time I heard him say "it wasn't my fault my dad didn 't protect me" I can't wait to hear him say "it wasn't my fault I could not protecting myself"!!!

This is 110% true. Once we start focusing on us, our health, our hobbies our own happiness that's when we attract. We are not needy of anyone's attention or validation. Big thump up for your video. I'm gladly subscribing your page

Being clear about my intentions has always been a block with me, but admitting it on here feels good. I have no problem putting myself out there and asking women out, but I simply don't do it as much as I should. If I'm into someone, I don't always say it, which I believe it keeping me from having more dating options. Thank you for this video.

I think having a checklist can be useful. Especially as you get older and know what you won't put up with anymore. Like for instance the next time I see red flags that indicate narcissism then I'm going to run the opposite direction. But I think there are a lot of good tips in this video. And you're easy on the eyes too!

I am 4’11 & proud 😉❤️ carrying myself as a Giant full of life,love & strength!

Thank you so much for this video!

This video found me first thing morning! It was right on time. I needed to hear this right now

Healing words. So grateful for your amazing work 💖

Thanks Aaron. I needed the reminders.

from much meditation, listing to a few podcasts, you included, clearly lol. And identifying my emotions, I have come to the realization that I find what is comfortable to me, what makes me feelnhine with a person as my partner. I need someone to be abusive to me in some form. since I was 4 I have had abuse of all types. so I need to find that familiar "love" in others. it's heart breaking yet liberating all at the same time. thank you for all the content you put out and continue to put out. thank you for sharing your gifts

I will trust my guides to help me on this new journey I am embarking on in my life at this time. I know that they will lead me to make the correct choices aligned with divine wisdom and my soul path.

Thank you Aaron! 💕

what a pleasant chat you offered us here! Thanks Aaron :)

Traveling with a partner is a huge eye opener 🙃

You are so insightful! 💃🏻🕺🏻

My list is one word, laughter, okay and my dog better adore you!

This is great advice! Thank you!!

My TF and I have been hitting a "rough patch" of residence lately, we decided to start working through the resistance together and since then things have improved again, we both have unhealed wounds surfacing but now we are facing them, healing them together.

Very good episode. Thank you Aaron

You have sweet laughter :) thank you for this video!

Hey Aaron, I just started listening to your videos here on RU-vid and I love your messages, your energy and the way you explain things. It resonates with me all the way. Even though I know most of it we always need to hear it over and over again until it graves into our DNA on a cellular level and we able to get the shift. Thank you for sharing your knowledge on the subject and helping millions out there to be a better version of themselves. You are God’s gift! 🙏 Also I just joined your Vault, originally I wanted the 3 free meditation but I truly feel I want to support your work and I m sure I will also reap the benefits of all your meditations even though I haven’t been doing a lots of inner work in the past 5 years. I believe the inner work never ends until we die. Challenges always arise in our life and what makes it different is what state are we approaching them from. Namaste!

Such a beautiful video! Thank you Aaron!! 🙂

This was so good .. I haven’t been on RU-vid watching these kind of videos in awhile and this was one of the first suggestions..so glad I listened to it🔥🔥🔥

Thank you so much for this i learned a lot from you more than anything else now i'll stop being needy lets go

Know thyself and own who you are is the way how to accept and appreciate yourself. Sadly many people are affected by social medias to create a false persona - just for urge to be accepted and wanted by others. But it is just an illusion. You are helping to such people open their eyes. Nice job Aaron!

Needy energy makes people pull away I noticed this with my past relationship a couple months ago.

Some people blink more because they have dry eyes or when you wear contacts, your eyes are more dry and you need to blink more . I appreciate this video and your other videos as you dive into reasons for how you carry yourself or interact based on what happened in your childhood and then bring it to mind so you can work on moving away from that and pursue wholeness and healing.

That’s tough! I need to work on my neediness

Enlightenment! Thanks Aaron, I'm 65 and glad I clicked this video! Thank you Brother!🙌 Awesome content!

Love your honesty here Aaron, inspiring. I most definitely have a partner check list which it's mostly character focused. I think it's important to share your life with someone who shares your values and can meet you where you're at spiritually. Have you been on the dating scene lately?! - it's a crazy jungle out there full of wounded individuals so starved of love and hope. Most are looking to fill the void with multiple meaningless encounters, one after another, dragging themselves deeper into a spiritual and emotional abyss with no concern for self or others. It's extremely sad and leaves those of us who are emotionally stable wondering where to turn! Could you please do another video on how to bring your attention and energy back to your own body in more detail. Definitely relate to the empath way of relating to others and abandoning myself to varying degrees, though since becoming aware of this have been practicing being present for myself.

You are a beautiful person and have changed my life... keep up the good work you are doing. The world 🌎 needs you.