My Uncle was a full time Road Warrior and he was quite wealthy. He did eventually get too old and moved his $200,000 RV into an RV Park with a manager on site who checked on him everyday. The Manager checked on him one morning and he had passed away in his RV. He was 99.
I was widowed 7 years ago and right after i moved and bought my small condo I thought maybe I’d do van life to live “cheaper” so I binge watched tons of van life/nomadic life videos. But after countless videos and a full year (almost 2) of watching YT people talk about it, I decided: 1. It’s not necessarily cheaper and can even be more expensive 2. I grew up in a military family so I’ve done quite a bit of traveling (not my van life goal) 3. The constant moving around to find a place to park and sleep… remote boon docking is not my thing. So I thought I’d closed that door pretty tightly…then plandemic hit and I was back on the van life train. But as time has passed on I went back to “Nope not for me” Your video should be a must watch for everyone wanting/planning this lifestyle! Super great points you made!
I love the van life. I’ve been doing it since I was a teenager in 90’s. I went to college, I got a few degrees, traveled the world and zigzaged the country in my van, before social media and before it became trendy. My van is a 2000 Roadtrek 170. I worked the overnight shift at Walmart before it became a 24hr superstore (they used to lock us in at night) and long enough to retire a few years ago. Even with an inheritance, a few degrees, and renting my houses for income, I continued to work at Walmart. Why not? It was extra money. Plus that gave me more reason to park in Walmarts parking lot. I transferred to a different store every few years. I worked at 10 different locations over the years. I have an America The Beautiful Park Pass. Sometimes I’ve stayed in hotels, motels, and cabins especially when the weather is bad. It’s not for everyone no matter how much money you have. You have to know how to be independent and have a job, change tires, fix a broken radiator hose or anything else that breaks, drain and refill oil. Be mindful of your money, food, supplies, power sources. Some Walmarts are like truck stops. Instead of nail and hair salons they have showers and laundromats. When boondocking find a fresh water source like a lake or river, lather up in eco friendly soap and go for a swim. You also have to know how to be safe and protect yourself. I do mma and I believe in open carry. In 2010 I met a trucker. We got married in 2015. My man travels with me now. He was a trucker that traveled and went camping and hiking when he wasn’t working. I still love the van life. I’m on a trip right now. 💜✌🏾😷👍🏾💗🚐
Remember when I mentioned my inheritance? Well, when I turned 18, I inherited some money and the house my parents lived in before the divorce. I invested in 3 more properties. A house in a brand new subdivision (my house) an apartment building, and a 10 acre lot with a cabin. They are all paid off. I rent them out and they are a great source of income. 🙂
Hey, I am an older retired veteran with health issues and I thought about this very same thing. I realize that I need a home base that I can always go back to. So, I decided that all I really want with SUV camping is to go some place inertesting for a short time and be self sufficient without having to mess around with all the camping gear involved with the process. Your video here has cemented this conceren for me now. Plus, I have my pets at home who could not possably come with me and need stability. Thank you for talking about these issues. Be safe!
That's exactly what we do. We have an SUV and stay within a 2-3 state area from home, going to festivals or visiting historic or other interesting places. We've found we can go 4 or 5 days before we get tired of it and want to go home. We have a power station and refrigerator, so don't need hookups. Add a camp stove and camp chair and you are set. We travel a lot in Pennsylvania and New York and have found that there are nice dispersed campsites in state parks and forests everywhere in this region (free or $10-15 a night). It saves us a lot of money so we can go more places and see more things We bring our 2 dogs with us which makes travel (and sleeping in a Suburban...2 adults and 2 dogs) much more interesting.
When it is too hot, set up a silver tarp over the van to reflect heat away. When it is too cold, you can cover the van with an insulating blanket that's made for swimming pools. Good Luck, Rick
@@deborahcurtis1385My local Ocean State Job Lot store carries three grades of tarps. The medium grade are silver on one side and brown on the other. I carry one of the silver/brown tarps in my van but, haven't been car camping in years. Good Luck, Rick
Just before the pandemic I was searching for a small school bus to convert and live full time in it. I bid on a few and lost the bids and I'm happy I didn't win. I got wrapped up the in the romantic thoughts of living in a converted bus and travel. What I ended up doing is become a professional home and pet sitter and travel the world full time. So it satisfies my travel bug and I meet wonderful people.
Hi. That is what Im doing at this very moment. Ive stayed in some gogeous places to simple places.... all great. I tend to choose spots where you can get out and walk. Some simular issues come up. Here are some things to think about. Ive been in Europe and UK for 6 months. I dont have a car so you either have to choose places that offer a car or stay in urban settings.... great if you like cities for sure. I like to find places that are longer term. If you don't have a vehicle then it gets expensive in between stays very quickly staying in air bnbs or even inexpensive hotels. With a USA tourist visa I need to move between schengen and non-schengen countries every 90 days. UK is longer. Then there are travel expenses. Best to keep your luggage very small so that it's much more inexpensive to fly on the cheaper airlines... they charge steeply for luggage. Several countries are very much set up for camping and caravans... but gas is off the charts compared to USA. To have a car allows more freedoms though and choices of house sits particularly in the UK where they drive funny and their insurance cos. dont allow foriegners to tag on the insurance readily. Ive been doing long hikes so there is a quandary of carrying my hiking gear and having things for travel.... My solution and I thank this post for it is finding a small place to live... either cheap rent for the long term or finding a piece of property that is inexpensive and low maintenance. I'm exploring all the details.... what it would be to buy a car ... not straight forward as a foriegner, paths to residency, determining some digital nomad income. Im using trustedhousesitters.com. Theres no payment justa a free place to stay and it requires a background check and is run on feedback so I feel safe. It's all over UK, europe, usa, australia. That has been the best part. Staying in lovely places, meeting really, really lovely people and hanging out with some wonderful pets! Some keys for success are communicating often with photos of pets and being really clean and tidy. But as she said Im thinking about my little haven somewhere for the future because always being on the move is becoming a loose end for me. Its been over a year and a half... first year in USA on PCT etc...
“Van life” taught me gratitude! All the many simple things you take for granted on the daily! WATER!!!!!! Toilet, shower, laundry. Much more of a hassle in a vehicle. Yes, yes, YES! Agreed! Moving around every night is exhausting! Worrying about getting kicked out or the police called on you, because you are illegally parked or “scaring” the neighbors in that cul-du-sac. I DO appreciate all that I learned from this lifestyle! It showed me all the things in my life I never use, that take up space or money. I was able to get rid of A-LOT when I returned home from my experience. I live much lighter now. 👌😌👌
True. I parked my van 6 months ago and moved into a house. I was so excited to have running water, a shower and toilet to use any time, and my own laundry machines. Still am tickled that I don't have to watch my solar every time I cook or microwave something, I have a fenced back yard... and I own a lot less now than ever before. Thanks for reminding me the joy I felt at items most people take for granted. Van living really did bring my daily focus down to a rudimentary level of bathrooms, laundry, staying clean and buying water. I had forgotten that.
I just retired from working in a local high school for over twenty years. One day during break an eighty year old substitute had coffee with me. She gave me some wonderful advice and I took it. “Save as much money as you can, every spare penny, when you are young because you are going to need it more when you are eighty than when you are young.” I did what she said. I socked it away and never looked at it at all. I am blessed that I took that advice. Always put something away for the hard times. P.s. she just worked that day because the teacher who was sick was her friend and asked her to, she didn’t need to.
Lived on the road for awhile as a semi truck driver; it’s a wild ride out there. You did a great job bringing up some of the unpopular little truths. I think the biggest problem out there now is the same as it was over 20 years ago when I was truck driving across Texas and the South in general - people. People who don’t work out well in our society tend to live on the fringes - hanging out at truckstops and out-of-the-way dives that most people never know exist. It can be very scary, and very sad. Be careful out there!
Reminds me of a thing I was told when I lived overseas. "There are two kinds of people who overseas. Those who want to have a different experience and those who want to do things they can't get away with in everyday life."
@Dank Buds I have to laugh at that, as the VERY SAME THOUGHTS occurred to me as well! As a man in my 30’s, I was concerned about some of the company I saw in places where I was forced to stay for the night. Also, I don’t think people are swayed or convinced to rob or prey on others because of stories and movies; it’s more a matter of predisposition and lack of a positive moral compass - due to either a poor upbringing OR a conscious choice. I’ve met teens in America that would as soon beat you with a bat to take your wallet as cross the street to get a candy bar - same amount of emotional investment. Very Scary, and VERY REAL.
You hit nail on the head. A lot of down n outs, a lot of fringe types. People who dont get along w others, many with heavy "Dont Tell Me What To Do!" Vibes. That translates to not picking up after themselves, dog crap everywhere, construction generators in quiet zones, drunken quad rampages at 2am, people cranking stereos in some of the most sublime campspots in world. People who warm up old diesel engines for 20-30 mins at 6 am next to you. Nowadays, so many angry hostile fringe types are also gun toting hair triggers.
I lasted 3.5 years. I am now living in a wonderful place in Southern Mexico. I think living the vanlife as a solo woman gave me the confidence to take on living in a new country even though I don't know the language and I didn't know anyone when I arrived here 2 years ago.
I've been nomadic in my van for 3 years now and I'm also getting tired. Health issues plague me now that I didn't have when I started out. Your honest assessment of daily van life resonates with me. You're good at expressing yourself and sharing good ideas. This is the first video of yours I've seen and you've made me a subscriber. Looking forward to more content. Thanks.
I've been planning to do this part time and so I'm building a camper van out of my Dodge Caravan. BUT at the same time I'll keep up my house payments so I have my home to come back to anytime I wish. I'm now 79 but traveling via van cheaply is and adventure that's on the top of my bucket list. :)
Me too Joyce !! I don't own a house here... but I would love to do Van life now. Travel and visit my children and grandchildren 🎉❤. Saving now. Can you stand up in your van??❤
I have been living (really just sleeping) in my truck for 6 months and not paying rent anywhere. But, it only really works because I have a safe place to park at night that is basically "home". I also have a power cord to run a space heater to keep the cab warm and a garden hose faucet for clean water. The Planet fitness gym is a half mile walk and open all night...only rarely do I go to bed without showering. Across the street is a full service supermarket open till 10 pm and they have an upstairs lounge for people to study and play on their laptops, sort of like a coffee house atmosphere. The rest of my stuff is in a storage unit...also within easy walking distance. I'm closer to being a guy that just lives in his RV but otherwise has a pretty normal life. The whole driving around aimlessly and being an adventurous slacker I don't really see the appeal of. Most people have responsibilities anyway and cant earn a living remotely with a laptop. You can do this if you have passive money coming in from a pension or social security or a trust fund if you're a spoiled brat, but for most people this will not be a smart or realistic way to live.
It's good to hear the "unromantic" side of van life. The reality of van life. I don't want to be a part of any community. I am a person who legitimately likes being alone. I work in an emergency room, so I get human interaction. So much so, I need and want absolute silence on my days off. I go days without speaking to anyone for up to 5 days at a time. My goal is to save $ and stop wasting $ on rent. It works for me and I genuinely love being alone. I'll do car living until I decide not to.
Well, I can go even longer without speaking to anyone, like weeks or even several months at a time to the point where I have to test my voice to see if my vocal cords still work. I am also very independent. Still, I did the nomad thing on a short term basis for several weeks or months at a time, and all the things discussed in this video are true even on a short-term basis. So test before you commit. You may find that you do need a home base after all, and do your nomadic adventures sporadically, especially as you get older. I found that to be true for me and am so glad I didn't sell everything and make van living a permanent lifestyle.
Loved this video. BTW, I’m a long haul trucker. You have described a lot of what the truckers life is… outside of the job we do and the regulations we have to follow. I’ve been driving for 20 years and a lot of truckers love the lifestyle, but I just have a job and I live in my truck for 6 to 7 weeks at time. I still have to maintain my life at home and it’s just not easy. To those of you who enjoy the van life… fantastic! But it’s something that is an individual choice and we all have our own lifestyle when living it. God bless you all and stay safe out there!
You’re so right. The older I get, the more I appreciate being able to have a home to go to when I am not driving. What I can tell you from personal experience, as well as others who have spent many years driving is that driving wears not just mentally but also physically on a person. Back problems, weight gain, muscle problems and pain, leg swelling, digestive issues etc. happen to those cumulatively after years of driving. Seriously plan for contingencies because I have seen many of these problems catch up with people and they cannot drive any longer. I am almost 60 and I plan to hang it up at 65 and pray to God that I can make it. If not, I know He’ll provide in ways that I cannot imagine… I don’t mean to frighten you or anyone else, I am sharing knowledge that anyone who drives for prolonged periods needs to realize. I look forward to your next video. I am interested in hearing what’s in your future plans. God bless you always my friend. ✝️
Yes this is such a good comment and so true! Driving so much can definitely wear on you. Thank you for sharing your experience. I always appreciate the prayers!
You are blessed to have a home to go back to. For many of us, this is it. There is no home waiting and we will never in this life be able to afford one. I'm going to b e on the road until I die.
A home and it’s upkeep, taxes isn’t worth it. I’m done with funding every other breeders offspring through RE taxes that I could put toward my own medical expenses that would make me feel better.
@@christinebutler7630 I agree with the others encouraging you to look for the positive in life. I didn't grow up in a positive home. Both parents were very negative, but I got out at eighteen. My husband and I have many similarities and some differences, but we've figured out how to make it work over thirty years. Neither of us has had it easy. We've had to work for everything we have. We try to instill this mindset in our children too. Do your part. Dream big dreams. Let God have the rest.
When I first started living out of my vehicle I was taking care of my mom who was in a nursing home. I couldn’t afford to go home every night, which worked out because I never trusted the health providers so it enabled me to creep in and check on her. I lived out of my Jeep for over a year with the temperature ranging from ninety to below zero. Below zero was tough but for me it was worse when hot. To avoid the knock on the door I had to find a secluded shady spot to get air circulation, windows at least halfway down with blackout curtains. Just having a fan pointed at my face allowed me to stay cooler. This was working nights and sleeping during the day. After she passed away I realized if I didn’t have to keep a job I could migrate north and south to adjust for temperature. Climbing in elevation could help during summer. Though a lot of rest areas don’t permit overnight camping the ones who try to make you leave can be put in a dilemma by telling them you were getting sleepy and you felt it was safer to pull over and take a nap than continue to drive tired. If they tell you to get a room tell them you didn’t want to risk it. Hint that they’d probably be at fault if they forced you to move on. Between rest areas, truckstops, and Walmart you should be able to find a place to stay the night. There’s an app that features a list of Walmart overnight parking locations you can stay at. As long as it’s not attached to other businesses the property is usually owned by Walmart instead of a property management company. It’s by Allstays and you can download the app for a fee. There’s other businesses but I’ll leave it for another time. Not all repair shops will let you but if you ask they might let you stay in your van and leave it plugged in to keep up the charge. Since it’s a gas tank they might not let you because of flammable liquids but many cases they might. Having solar or an electrical source would provide a way to have a vent with fan to remove more heat. I would have liked to use reflectix but I had to be stealthy instead of cool. Barring accident, you’re more likely to stay active taking care of your vehicle and being active enjoying what you do than sitting in one place hiding from people. That’s my two cents. I’ll give you change back if you think it’s not worth it.😉🤪😂🙏❤️
Not for me full-time: Safety, cramped quarters, electricity/charging issues, bathrooms, showers, heat/cold/rain/snow, internet, no place to feel like you belong, bugs, loneliness, limited cooking options. That’s a start!!
I don’t live in a vehicle currently but I spend a lot of time in my car just relaxing or napping because it’s my comfort space. I always make sure to park far away from everyone else and there is ALWAYS at least one person who will come park right next to me or facing the front of me so that their lights are blinding me.
Decided to move into my van for a summer about 10 years ago. I live in a northern state so it was not too hot, the biggest problem was parking at night and a favorite campground I wanted to go to wAs closed for the summer. What was nice was moving out of a small dingy apartment where the manager was just really high energy, loud , buzzed around a lot, super talkative and I did not realize how much it stressed out until after I moved out and very quickly life felt calm and one day 2 weeks later I called said manager to get my deposit back and suddenly my anxiety level shot up ! One of the other positives was that I got a gym membership at a 24 hour gym and worked out everyday and took a shower after, becoming more physically fit than I had been in a long time. I liked that whenever I felt tired and needed to nap that I could pull over and have a nap. Was also more focused on getting paperwork done because I did not have distractions and creature comforts so I was more focused. I was glad when got a small place to rent at the end of the summer, the experience went by fast. Figured out that “homelessness” stigma was something to be aware of so I did not talk about Van living much to protect myself. If I were to do it again I would chose a van that I could stand up in fully and do it as a seasonal thing only. Also I would make sure I establish summer employment before the summer Van life season begins. Having a storage unit also helps for trading out items in the van.
So, I’m 68, and when my kid graduates HS in June, my income will be less than my already low rent. Sucks to be “old”, especially if you’re disabled and unable to work much. Van life means I can see the country at my own pace-far better than a slow death stuck in senior housing! Yes, I am worried about temperature extremes! Even mobility has limits when trying to escape extreme weather. I know that health issues will arise, mechanical issues will strain my budget or require help from grudging family, and that I will be bored and unhappy with van life at times. But, those challenges (or similar) arise in stix and brix, too. I figure I will have to roll with it, just as I do now. Thankfully, I’m quite used to being by myself, so I’m less concerned about isolation. The challenges will vary for each of us, it’s simply whether the benefits outweigh them. Happy trails!
I agree that taking the adventure is the better way. I'm like you in that I can't imagine being stuck in one spot for the rest of my life. Thank you for sharing your ideas and experience!
I love it. Living out here is probably the hardest thing I have ever done, but the joys I experience are amazing. I've stayed in one spot for 6 weeks now and I'm getting so restless.. Definitely ready to move on. Oh yes, I stayed so long because I had covid, which I'm sure sucks wherever you're living
Very true 👍 I should add that there are basically three types of vans on the road 1. Stock, cargo or passenger 2. Converted on the inside 3. Converted or built inside and out Every one of those types needs a slightly different approach I personally have a chevy express cargo van accept that I took original windows out and replaced them with the kind that opens a little I really had no problems so far because my van looks unmodified Also helps to be in the state or near the state that your vehicle is from Winco foods are great, opens 24 hours Of course everyone knows Walmart but maybe that is the problem 🤔 Generally I try not to park next to other vans and never get out of the vehicle when I park for the night Always use the pass through Never turn lights on or use speakers inside, no phone or computer, just go to bed 😴 I prepare for the night during the day somewhere else Other types of vans, modified, are different People will know that someone is likely there, especially police, security guards, other van lifers, so watch were you parked Always be prepared to take off, meaning know where your keys are even if you are in the deep sleep Also make sure there is nothing in front of you while parked Chasing weather is expensive, especially nowadays so probably cheapest way is to move north for the summer and south for the winter if job doesn't keep you tied up in one place I do construction so for me no problem Nobody cares if contractors van is parked next to unfinished house and there is always temporary power and most importantly a portable toilet required by law 😉 Regardless of the type of the vehicle we all have one thing in common Our entire life is in that car Because of that I prefer to be in it or near it I always have my phone, keys, and wallet with me I keep my van in site if I have to sit in the diner I sit by the window so I can see my van Going to the store also usually happens very quickly, I know what I need and where it is in the store Hope it helps Stay safe everybody
Great Comments. Being Stealthy is important. Basic Cargo blends. I'm really tall so I'll need a high top which could stick out. With all the exposure on the Net about Van Life there is so much more exposure. Considered doing a retired travel before COVID. Still might. Thanks. Be safe & God Speed.
@@benjaminrush4443 Yep, being toll is an issue Still there are cargo vans high top that contractors are using now more and more Of course sprinter but it's expensive so not so much Ram promaster is popular but I don't like it although it's front wheel drive which is better in the snow and makes it lighter Of course Ford transit that sometimes comes with diesel engine and all wheel drive My choice would be Nissan but unfortunately they stopped production so it would have to be used 😕
@@tedinstead9642 Missed opportunity on a E 250 - 2012 Wheelchair Ambulance - 107 K - Rear Ramp - Upgraded Seats/Front - $12,500.00 - White, Red Strip around - no extra gear/lights - No seats. High Top. Looked like it had 30/35 K miles. 1/2 hour late. Young women put deposit down. Seller let me look it over. May 2020. Then things got crazy with prices. Looked at 70 or more Vans - Terrible. Eastern Mass. Dealers are getting the Vans - Prices are "Sky High". Like the older Ford E Series & Considered ordering Transit with AWD - first came out. Ram - No. Sprinter - $$$$ - Liked the Gas 4 Turbo but no go with AWD. Chev/GMC - Dealers won't order Factory Order & newer ones/low milage - 10/20 K Fees. Was going to Factory Order a Nissan V2500 - High Top - Sm. V8 - Adding 10 K Price used. Thanks for the Reply. Not only tall but retired & older. Wait for the Crash.
@@benjaminrush4443 yes it's tough Maybe former ambulance is not a way to go nowadays because it's too obvious You may also want to consider box vans only with the path through from the cab Shevy baced would be my preference If you are by yourself get a smaller one, no dollies, and preferably with a side door in the box Lift platform in the back is nice also, can be used as back porch Can also be easily converted to four wheel drive I think factory is in PA Your welcome Soon will be a time to bug out
Me and my husband and three year old daughter lived this lifestyle for almost a year and LOVED IT! Then my husband got sick and required in hospital stays for two to thee weeks at a time and then home health when his treatment was over.. let me tell you how much home health does not like no home.. lol. In the end what drove my husband crazy was the lack of privacy, everyone knows your business and that really bothered him. Even complete strangers because you are so exposed.
Hey Folks. FINALLY! I have been watching a few of these van life videos but this is the first one where someone listed some of the obstacles to this particular lifestyle. I really appreciate her honestly. Stay safe out there folks because I was wondering how easy it would be to get help if someone tried to break into the van to harm her. There seems to be a lot of nice ladies who've turned to van life. Again, stay safe!!!
I just stumbled across your video and you were absolutely right. So glad I watched you till the end. I met a woman in a parking lot about 10 years ago and she told me don’t ever sell your house you need a place to die. She’s right,,,, I have my house still and I Airbnb it and make a little passive income for my van life. Which I am kind of part time. I’m so glad I listen to her. I know that sounds terrible but it’s true. You should keep the house. You might like a garden you could rent it out for some passive income etc. I like the fact that you’re not a drinker as well I am not. Sober van lifers?
One thing those people don't realize is you can never run from yourself your problems are like baggage you take them everywhere you go and they change the scenery but the inner baggage is still there and you have to deal with that no matter where you live. I am homeless and am looking for a boat to live in a lot of people bought Vans and a lot of people went to boats... I'm looking for a way to sail... But if that falls thru I'm looking for a RV! I can't buy a house I have no $ for that an no family.. I have an autistic son... I want him to see the world...! Seeing the world isn't free... So planning for a future whilst homeless due to fire. Been living in a speedy motel now for almost 3 years.... Grateful we aren't on the streets.... I do outreach to the in the street homeless... I want to rest I want to be happy....!!! This is a tiring life all alone... Thanks for posting the truth....
Turn to Yahuwah, he will help you. We are living in the last days. Those that turn to him with their whole heart he said he will hear from heaven and heal their land. Parable of the Vineyard Channel is leading people to the messiah, he is returning.
You're the first person that mentioned having health issues. We have a 30 ft shuttle bus and we have an acre of land we park on. A couple months after we moved into our bus onto our property I started getting really sick. I ended up having 3 major abdominal surgeries in just an 18 month time period and I was very sick and 100 % bedbound. If we didn't have this land my recovery would've been a nightmare constantly looking for a place to park a 30 ft shuttle bus. Our property is only an hour from Vegas where my doctors are. I'm very healthy and I exercise regularly and eat well and these health problems came out of nowhere and my doctor said it could happen to anyone. There are so many awesome things about living the nomadic lifestyle, but it's important to do everything you can to prepare for what could go wrong. Of course you can't predict everything. I never imagined I would get this sick. You definitely did hit on things I haven't heard other people say. Great video and very valuable information.
I lasted 5 weeks, of which I spent 13 days in the van, the rest with friends, AirBnB and Motel 6. Haha! It was very unsettling to try to find safe places nightly. Always sitting and laying down also. Not for me. Comfort IS important, esp in your later years (I'm 62).
I’m 68. I’ve thought about this lifestyle. I can’t do it because I love my home so much but I can do it for road trips. Your 5 caveats were helpful in steering me to this decision. Thank you. I continue to enjoy your snacks.
@@travelsnacks G8 video thanks for your frankness too. There are some other concerns I have and I hope you can share your experiencees on them safety, bathroom smell control and disposable and inter state insurance for self and vehicle.
@@travelsnacks Uber helpful. I'm getting my license this year and thought about it, but I think it's just I'm fatigued from years of nonstop stress (Thanks 2020 onward) and what I'll do instead is just do weekend road trips in the car and use it to camp.
@@kalenagy Re bathroom odors: Do you use a compost toilet, and if so, does it have an OUTWARD-facing mini-fan installed near the exit vent? People with composting potties swear by the need for the fan. Also, home made compost toilet owners claim that certain types of sawdust work better than others for sprinkling over the waste.
I can definitely see "travel fatigue" setting in for me if I decided to follow this way of life. I'm much more of a homebody, but I love to watch these kinds of videos anyway! -Lisa
You could do what we did. Instead of selling it all and buying a van or RV we instead bought a small piece of property on a river for fairly cheap where we can get away and camp and fish etc... or just do weekend trips. I'm like you and love to travel but I could see no AC wearing thin real fast and the stress of trying to find a parking spot.
I did foreign and domestic air travel every 2 to 3 weeks during Covid and after about 1 and 1/2 years, I was burned out. Back travelling now at a slower pace.
You can always find rest on the road, find a campground that has low cost camping and stay for as long as you can afford. Or park for free on crown land or BLM land. Van life doesn't mean you have to be constantly driving! That is a big misunderstanding about van life. Van life is what you make of it.
@@vaskylark The strategy told by the old timers is always be searching for 70 degree weather. So you keep moving north through the summer, and keep going south during the winter. There just isn't enough solar on a van to do A/C unless you plug into shore power at an RV park (and those parks are expensive).
so i retired 3 years ago (at 71), went back to work a year and a half later, and am now looking at retiring again this year - so i bought a 24ft c-class last october (had initially thought i wanted a b-class but so glad i went up in size). it's a learning curve for sure since i'm doing it alone - but i love it so far. I can still only get away for a few days at a time due to work (and i am also currently an ER RN, so i do love the solitude), but am looking forward to extended time once i retire again at 75. i appreciate your videos since they bring up issues - my biggest so far is cost of travel due to gas prices. i'm beginning to make lists of free-bees for the future... particularly loved the "swivel seat" video since it's a current issue i'm trying to address.
Honestly, I was considering this lifestyle for 3.5 seconds...what deterred me, the most, was the lack of baths and showers availability. I cannot imagine gathering myself, toiletries and driving etc to go to a gym just to go shower in a subpar shower. I clocked this a long time ago. The only person that I feel is authentic in her journey has 1; disclosed that she was just an introvert who was fed up with people. 2-She SOLD HER HOME then bought a van and decked it out. She's been honest by saying, yes, im making this lifestyle work, but it works because I have residual income from selling my home while working FT.
I love some real vanlife content!! When you mentioned windows being open next to body’s of water...I have also realized people don’t have any bug nets up in videos. LIKE THERE ARE SO MANY BUGS NEXT TO LAKES! Not realistic at all. 😅
Updated: I just happened to see your channel, and others similar channels recently, and I think that you, and others sharing their actual reality, and some have expressed some of the the up, and down sides to van, RV, or vehicle living. I believe that it is very helpful, and beneficial to others who may be thinking about this type of living without actually thinking through, about the some of the realistic problems that could occur with vehicle or van living etc. People need to know what up sides there are, as well as some of the down sides of vehicle living. I believe this channel, and other channels have been informative to others, including myself. Although, I am NOT living in a vehicle or anything like this. I feel that you , and others RU-vidrs sharing this with your viewers will is very helpful. I wish you ALL the Best with your traveling endeavors. I shared this with another traveler as I watched their RU-vid channel for the first time, as yours, and I shared with them this information that may be helpful to you as well to others. Therefore, I would also like to suggest a few Safety items That may help you or others in your viewing audience. Although, you may have knowledge of this, I am not sure, so I hope this will be helpful to you, others or someone. *Keep a Extra working cellphone with you or in your vehicle. You can purchase inexpensive phone with a very low monthly price between 25, 35, 45, dollars a month with unlimited data and text, and some have Nationwide coverage Do your research for the best fit for you Carry Several Extra portable phone chargers, and cables. *Mini portable power charging station. I have seen outdoor portable solar powered power stations, this may be very useful to have, to power your devices. *Cellular booster for outdoor use, and camping situations to boost your cell reception, Research to see what you prefer. *Very Inportant: Invest in a SOS distress electronic signal device, this a kind of device can send out a distress signal with your exact location. There are various types of these devices, and including devices that can be used when boating or camping situations. *Some have emergency Strobe lights SOS signaling with location alerts and location updates that can be sent to your family and emergency first responders. You can check online, and on Amazon, research what SOS devices will be a good fit for you. *Mini portable vehicle battery charger-( portable vehicle battery jumper cables ) *Vehicle Jumper cables Mounted Dashboard camera front and rear possibly. Exterior vehicle cameras Interior vehicle cameras *Flashlights or pluggin spotlights *Portable spotlights and lanterns Keep a few whistles around your vehicle possibly in your vehicle’s center console *A set of long range 2 way radios, walkie talkies, with others during trips, some have 100 mile radius keep for emergencies. Use your own discretion regarding the use of any weapons. Don’t forget to bring Bear Spray Pepper spray Where is allowed Although, I just noticed your RU-vid channel, and other similar channels. You seem Very Aware of your surroundings and Alert, and you may be aware of many of these suggestions, however, I Don’t know, so I just posted this anyway to help anyone who may benefit from these suggestions. Keep up with the latest Weather Updates, beware and prepare for unexpected Weather events and conditions. Keep your vehicle gas filled Don’t chance your Safety by running your vehicle too close to Empty. Fill it up anyway, it will save you alot of time and headache later on. Keep Enjoying Yourself, Keep Enjoying the outdoors and Nature Just..Please continue Be Positive, Safe, and Alert.. Wishing Success, Well-being and Happiness You All. God Bless You, and everyone Traveling, or living in their vehicles. Be Safe... Author Advocate for Humanity, Safety Advocate Jason Sandifer, Michigan 10/02/2022, 10/02/2022
Thank you for the thoughtful advice! I’ve only done van camping and some extended travel (like relocating in it), but this is worth saving as a go-to list! It’s easy to forget something when I only do it, sporadically! ❤️
Just a comment about life going on at home. This can apply even when you are still living at home. It happened to me when I started working rotating shifts. People don’t know when you are asleep, when you are awake, when you are working, when you are not. You get left out! And your body is so screwed up from rotating shifts, you leave yourself out! It happened when I got married! I tried to keep in touch with friends but I now had a husband who thought we were Siamese Twins. When he died, my circle of single friends had all moved on! I was more alone than ever. I guess what I’m trying to say is “life happens” whether you are in a van or not. I don’t think I am a loner, by choice. But I am isolated by life and circumstances. I am a single woman who has been single most of my life except for the seven years I was married. Married women have more acceptability than single women. Other married women see you as a threat when you are single. I don’t have kids and grand kids. Many of my “friends” are now raising their grandkids. They are busy, busy, busy. Even a boy I raised, now he’s married, he has a wife and a child and he’s busy, busy, busy. If your happiness is based on relationships, get to work on them now! I used to have church and church kept me busy. Between working 10 to 12 hours a day and going to church three times a week, I had a full “life”. I was busy, busy, busy. Church has changed, maybe you have noticed. People have changed. Anyway, I won’t go there, but I’m not into church entertainment. I want God, the Spirit of God, the things of God! Anyway, this last thought. I’d rather be alone that with people I can’t stand.
You make a good point. I find that I am more lonely at home and settled, because I become a hermit when I live in a house. And being in one place for too long seems to cause me insomnia, so that causes me to withdraw from people and social events. I was much more sociable and connected in van life (although I only did van life for about 3 months).
Not everyone is built for this but I still love it even after 5 years and those problems are not really my problems. I have no family to go back to. I don't feel hot in my van with doors and windows cracked and a fan going. My van has been in a workshop overnight a few times but it has never happened to me that they wouldn't let me stay in it in the yard or even if the workshop itself. Once we had a bbq after work and they even let me use the shower. :)) Oh and I have a massive battery, I can go for weeks without sunlight. It occurs to me that a lot of people who dislike vanlife just don't have a great set up.
This is great. I dig it. I just watched two videos from different van-lifers who were complaining about never being satisfied. "I wanna plant my roots, I wanna travel again." They both gave shallow reasons for why they quit van life. I left a message asking for one to be more constructive. You're nailing it. Honesty is where it's at. Nice work. I also see an opportunity for van-lifer "influencers" to fight for something. Better parking, policy changes that improve conditions for those who fall into or chose this lifestyle. You know? In terms of your experience, do you see room for activism towards making this lifestyle more manageable? Particularly, more parking and resources in and around major cities? Addressing the issue of not having an address? I just think our governments have a responsibility to address the challenges van-lifers face. For context, I'm preparing to hit the road soon only because my wage doesn't match the cost of independent apartment living. I've pushed my employers to increase my pay, and they have basically "showed me the door". I'm being forced into this. You see where I'm going with here? They're putting a large group of US citizens in between a rock and a hard place. Of course, that's not to say, I'm not making the best of it, but mark my word, I did everything I could to afford my own apartment. It's unreal. Let me know what you think, Allison.
Nope. No. Nada. Never. I love my cozy little home way too much to ever live in a vehicle. While I find it interesting watching the lives of those who live on the road, that would never be a choice for me. I admire your dedication to the lifestyle but it's something I couldn't do. Love my permanent space.
Same here. I don’t want to live in a vehicle. And they never talk about bathrooms or staying clean. I’m not taking a “bath” in a lake or using a public shower. My niece and her wife did it for about a year. They sold the van and are now happily living in a house.
this is why i love your channel. you talk about stuff that no one else talks about. so many van lifers/car dwellers try to make this life style so glamorous all the time when that really isnt the case.
that because they are chasing the almighty dollar , and everything takes money lot and lots of money these days...I am on social security and my hubby is disabled and I have cancer..I want so much to be able to do this but we need to be comfortable and we dont have the money... life seems to be so hard these days no matter which way you go ...
You say that van life can't be settled, but it's possible stay in one campground or caravan park for practically as long as you like - to rest. And then when rested, you can go adventuring again. You have to pay money to stay there, but it's usually way cheaper than rent.
I recently retired and would like to see all 48 states by doing a van life travel adventure, spending about 1 month in each state to see what each one has to offer. I am watching these types of videos to see what others think about this lifestyle, what options are out there, and what downfalls to watch out for. The perfect plan would be to travel for 4 continuous years, but lately, because of the chaos out there, teetering more toward a vacation style van life travel plan. Thank you for your honest videos.
Girl this video is great! I have never lived in a van, dreamed of it. But after watching a million videos, I realized that living in a van makes one homeless and the stress of moving from one place to another just to be able to sleep in a safe place is just terribly stressful. Wish you the best going back to non wheels(if that is what you will do). You can still go on weekend adventures or individual weeks at a time.
I did van life 3 years because I was poor and had to to survive. During the plandemic I met my boyfriend and he was judgy and talked me into renting a room next to him. Yeah I like the air conditioner and shower but its depressing to live in a house full time so when I was laid off I became a truck driver lol. I confess mobile living really is for me. If my boyfriend and I ever break up Ill go straight back to vanlife 😂
Hi! After my divorce I became a truck driver and lived on the road in a truck....and got paid for for it! I had every intention of spending the rest of my life on the road, either in a van or some other camper type thing but the road, and the people on it, have changed a bit too much for me.
@@daneladydriver603 Yes, me too. About 25 years ago, I had bills piled up so I became a truck driver to pay them off. Although it paid well ($1,000/week net) it was a lonely, busy, exhausting experience; I averaged 600 miles a day. I saw many new places; I met many nice people (briefly) and most were friendly and helpful. I also met unfriendly, scary people, and had to drive to some spots where I did not feel comfortable. Also, I lived out of the truck (a cab-over) which was uncomfortable and cramped. Boiling hot at night in El Paso in the summer; freezing my ass off in Greenbay in February… once my bills were paid I quit and got a different job so I could live in a house! I am now retired and preparing to get a truck and camper and get out on the road for a couple of weeks at a time; it’s great to see new things and places. I look forward to living a more ‘mobile’ lifestyle, once I am prepared for it. Still, I think it’s also very good to have a home base to regroup and recover if necessary.
The fact you referred to a worldwide health crisis as Plandemic means I ain’t listening to anything else you have to say. You guys are the new flat Earthers
I've been driving truck for on and off 15 years...gosh where did the time go...I tried to settle down and married another trucker, but that didn't work out so I hopped back in a truck. Three years ago my company went bankrupt and I went to leasing a truck which ofcourse I knew was scummy and shady and it hasn't been easy with the fuel prices and covid etc. But I stuck with it and I'll have it paid off by the end of the year and then I am free to roam. Or so I thought... My company gave me a dedicated run from Chicago to Minneapolis and back so three months ago I settled for a house just to try it for a year renting. It's been such a blessing. I needed a routine in my life again or some form of stability and I am able to be home in my bed and in my shower every other day and off on weekends. I would recommend anyone who is convinced they are a gypsy to in some way incorporate a business with their passion for driving. Once my truck is paid off I can dictate my schedule and my destinations...but in 15 years I've been pretty much everywhere except for "home" 😆 Good luck to everyone striking out! It's your life, make the most of it and follow your passions.
I like the honesty! I have been considering possible vanlife, watching a ton of vids, so it is good to hear what can/might be more problematic and realistic issues I could face. There is much to consider, beyond the fun of travel.
Loved your video! I live with my folks in Nashville and do DoorDash/grubhub. The last two years I’ve been doing this I’ve gone on several multi-week, living out of my car road trips. The loneliness is real. I handle it well but as a 36 year old it’s an easy time in my life to feel like an outsider. I was a server for 12 years before I switched to gig work so I was used to the constant social life serving provided. I love the freedom and open ended hustle that DoorDash has provided on top of being able to do it anywhere in the country. So basically I go and do my live out of my car travel life a couple times a year, go somewhere north if it’s summer, south if it’s fall/winter. Love watching different perspectives on the car/van travel life.
#4-when I lived in my car people thought I saved money on rent and utilities, but it still cost the same amount to live, what you have to spend your money on, your expenses just change. And they are still expensive.
I actually live in San Diego myself and I work a total of 3 jobs (1 full-time and 2 part-time jobs) just to stay afloat here, all while living with my mom. Don't get me wrong, I love my mom, but I'm in my mid-30s and long story short, my mom and I share a 1 bedroom apt and I have zero privacy. I've seriously been considering vanlife (so serious that I bought a van last month.) Because I have to physically be at these jobs, I don't have the luxury to vanlife full-time, but I do try to travel as much as I can between days off. I just want to say that I appreciate all your videos. I randomly found your channel one day, and have been hooked since. You've brought up a bunch of great points, all of which made me think about some things that of course have not been addressed on other channels, which is awesome! Your content is awesome, and I'm sure by the time I'm able to vanlife on a more regular basis, I will be ready! Thank you again for the great content!
Thanks for your honesty! A 58 year old empty nester, I have been considering a tiny home or van life switch...and as women we have to consider these things!😁💖🙏🏼
Me too. I’m 60 and scared of my future. I figure van life is cheaper and would allow me to travel. However, if it’s not sustainable, then a tiny house or mobile home would work. But with the high cost of vehicle insurance, maybe I should try hard to stay where I am since I could walk or bike wherever I need to go. I have 3 cats and a medium sized dog, and I just don’t think they would have much of a life on the road. Before this video, I thought I could live the van life if necessary. I hope like anything it’ll never come to that.
This was so relatable, and well said. I’ll be hitting the five year mark in May and I’ve genuinely loved living on the road. Will probably do it again at some point.. but def ready for a new adventure. Also that clip of napoleon made my day lol
Yes, I am about to live this life style for a while. Plan to pay off my long time bills. No family help; Not complaining, just being honest. Living off my SS in my car. Thanks for the honest tips, I will take them very seriously.
Girl, I needed you before I tore up my van!!! I learned the hard way and came back to my house. Also being on the move all of the time gets expensive!!! Glad I had the experience though😁😁😁 After some months, that life got old for me, though I had loads of fun, but. Besides the expense, the heat was the worst!!! I was also shocked to find that some people thought I was poor, but most other professionals wished they could do it too!
Yes. I agree. I had people trying to give me money because I lived in the van... but my rig is worth 75K and I just bought a house. But so many people wanted to give me money to buy food. When I had steak in my fridge... I always told them to pass it on and I thanked them for their generosity but I chose to live like this, I was not impoverished by any means. They looked at me like I was crazy. LOL
@@janasher4940 LOL, that story brings back some pleasant memories. I just wish that life was as carefree as I hoped it would be (^_^) Who knew being houseless could be so hard 🤣😆🤣
I did van life for 1 year. Not by choice, but because my options were little. I took an assignment in anoither county. When I went to stay in the hotel/motels I was mortified. I am not talking about those run down hotels either. These were top name hotels like holiday Inn, Comfort Inn, you get the idea. Bugs, yes lots of bugs, the smells, then I cringed about the linen. I certainly did not want to bring anything home with me that I did not come with. So, I checked right out, went to the local stores, bought a bed, linen, all the amenities needed for living in a van. I created a home on the go. To add to things they lie about....Sleeping....you hear everything outside. People don't know you are sleeping and carry on with there lives. I heard arguments, kids, and even get toegether parties. The heat, holy cow, It gets extremely hot in a car/van. I had to buy those extra thick car shields you put in the front window. It took 6 to 7 and surrounded the entire inside of the vehicle. It actually worked. Now I was not doing this for pleasure or because I wanted this life. I just did not feel safe in the hotels/motels in the area except for one. It was always booked solid. living in a vehicle is challenging, but doable. If you are a person who needs space, probably not for you. Just saying, I have many stories, good and bad and I only did it for 1 year.
Yes I can relate. I did it for 3 months mixed with pet sitting. I also stayed in a few hotels. Hotels in this country at least are a joke. Most have windows that can't be opened so you are stuck with awful smells of cleaning products and stuffy air. Dragging everything from the car to the hotel was exhausting to me. I'd much rather just travel in a minivan to state parks and occasionally park in a nice neighborhood. Truck stops are okay and felt safe to me but there is a lot of light and noise of truck running. But since I have this relentless spirit of adventure I'd like to take occasional trips and come back to my home base with a bathtub and kitchen, and bed!
Cheap RV Living on RU-vid talks about all those issues. They also have great solutions, ways for folks to connect. And ways to take time off the road and do long term rent some off grid that provide garbage, laundry etc. And then there is a time when you know that is enough. Many folks switch over to tiny homes or buying their own land. It was a good discussion and you made many good points. Thank you
I find I use my small van for “day use” and I love it that way. I make an excursion to a park or to the beach, take a picnic, take a walk and then sit safely inside - contemplating. Lol. It works for me. I’m not feeling stuck at home with nowhere to go. Small adventures seem to suit me just fine. 👍💕
I bought a house and it’s a lot different when the kids are grown, they have their own life, I always feel better when I’m driving someplace and I feel so alone at home, thinking about doing van life but weighing it out.
I’ve thought about it for about 2 seconds - LOL! I need a flushing toilet. I could shower or bathe using a bucket of water but a toilet is a must. For that very fact I just couldn’t do it. Weird, huh? Hats off to you for being able to do it. Your weight loss is so obvious and you look great!
This is my first time visiting your channel. You are very entertaining and spot on! In 2013 I bought a full size conversion van and dove head first into van life when the apartment lease ended. Unfortunately, the lease ended in June and I live in south Texas! Reality didn't just slap me in the face, it gave me a full on beat down on a daily basis. Trying to work a 9-5 every day when your rolling oven won't let you get comfortable enough to sleep at night gets old really fast. I live in a house now but still have that van for the occasional adventure. I've also heard of authorities cracking down on "non recreational campers". Definitely something to be wary of. Thanks for speaking truth and helping people think it through before possibly making what could turn out to be a huge mistake. Excuse me while I go hit that subscribe button and watch more of your videos.
I've watched a large number of these van life/rv living videos, and I'm always surprised how few discuss the realities of essentials like toilets and waste,limited water supply,costs for fuel,food ,tolls,showering , laundry .All this costs money. I get some are remote workers but not all.
One thing that I realized about people who did vanlife are many of them complaining because they failed/lacked at planning! It's the most important thing because you are going to change your lifestyle almost completely. Vanlife is NOT for everyone. Different personalities, different incomes, different lifestyle will contribute a LOT in a vanlife. I had live in a van for 2 months. Giving my personalities, that was the best 2 months ever in my life. I am a widower, my kids already have their own life, have tons of savings and still have my job, which I can do remotely. When I still live with my husband and kids, I had me time every 3 or 4 days or I'll gone crazy, since I'm one hell of introvert. So yeah, not having any physical contacts for 2 months really do me good. I never felt a peace like that before in my entire life, lol. Next, planning the type of vans, where will you going, what kind of places, etc are REALLY important. I am a detailed person, so I know that I will move slowly and always had 3 or 4 back up plans. Right now I'm back to my parents home to take care of them. But someday I'll be hit the road again. I can't wait! ❤️
Great video. I’ll be living in my car for 4 years on September 30. When i need a break, i stay in a hotel. Recently the heatwave was almost too much to handle. But i still think carlife / vanlife is great. Here is Los Angeles, rent is extremely high. I couldn’t afford a studio since most are between $1200-2500.00 . I do stay local.
Very well made video. I really enjoyed it and learned from it. My background is different in that I always had a Plan B, C, D, etc. I always had a place to go back to when needed. I didn't live in a van, but I did travel a lot and it was great fun through the years. Now that I have a house, and take care of animals, I enjoy my steadfast stability and can always look back at what I did. No regrets at all. But like you said, research before you do things. Know what "might" happen, and think about how you would address those issues. Nothing is perfect and nothing is truly free. But it can come pretty darn close. Kudos to you, and continued success in your endeavors.
I know some who love it and has it well planned. One builds van conversions for others. His main conversion is a 2011 Ford Transit. He has a bathroom/shower combo. He opens his back doors to cook with his camping stoves. He has a Bluetooth projector, a desk where he runs his ebay business. He stated he was tired of renting and making lazy landlords richer while he struggled and he didnt want to buy a home due to prices. He have had a few knocks by cops..but he used to move place to place to stop. If your just always in the car and barely coming out and just parking in residential areas, yes, you will be harassed because your making things obvious. I plan of buying a 2014 Ford Econoline and having my friend help convert it
Hi Allison, yes, I’ve seen so many van lifer/nomads who have been living that lifestyle for a few years and later say “they are quitting” van life. My response to that is you’re not quitting. No one ever said that lifestyle is to be lived FOREVER. I certainly don’t look at it as quitting. For those who do it (part time or full time) the idea is to travel AND save $$$. But, can we talk about those bloopers? I laughed WAYYY too hard watching your reaction when the motorcycle went by. 🤣🤣🤣.
I traveled in my small van for about 3 years. It was a great experience, an adventure. I traveled all over North America including Canada, Alaska and Mexico. My main reason for settling down in a small rural town in New Mexico was that I was tired. Traveling is extremely hard on you, emotionally and physically. While it is exciting to meet new people this demands a certain amount of psychic energy, energy you might not have at the end of a long driving day. In fact, you may not want to see anyone but may need to in order to eat or get a proper place to camp. Also, your health care and dental needs may suffer since you will not be connected to your provider. And, even if you were in good shape when you began to travel and had an exercise routine, this often is hard to adhere to after a long day on the road. Of course, I’m older but I really think that being on the road demands much more energy than being stationary in your own place. I often think that I’d like to take off in my van for a few weeks now but I really don’t camp for more than a few days at a time within a 150 mile radius from where I live. It’s great to have a routine again. I no longer have to figure out what I am going to do with my life every day, lol. Of course that was the beauty of traveling (every day an adventure) but that also demanded a tremendous amount of energy especially as of late when there are so many uncertainties about the direction our society is headed in.
I jumped on the van life hype in 2018 and found out: 1) It was a glorified life of being homeless. 2) It was lonely. 3) Travelling the US got boring very fast. 4) Gas is not cheep. 5) Van life is risky and NOT safe. Wish I instead settled down with a nice woman, maybe built a family.
@@flowergarden1426 I am 41 and all the women around me are broken and act overly sexual like men. I can get a girl easy and she will want to have sex on the first and or second date. They are not wives, they all want to be side girls. This world is sad.
@@jeremyrobbins9064I searched my whole life for a man who was so strong in Christian faith I could be sure he would always follow Christ. I didn’t find it until I was late 40s! I’ve had some conversations with God about that yes i have…I just knew that was the only way I would give my life to another human. Of course it’s not perfect but being Christians together and believing the same in our faith is what I knew I needed and the security and confidence in that is amazing. Never give up hope. No matter how bad a terrible day or situation is married, it’s beyond comforting and peaceful to have family, your spouse. Keep searching and don’t date women you don’t respect. Hold out for someone who may be your spouse 😊 I know it’s a jungle out there believe me. But keep hoping
I LIVED OUT OF MY PICKUP TRUCK WITH A CAMPER IN THE 70'S WHEN I VISITED MY FUTURE AND STILL WIFE WHO LIVED IN ANOTHER TOWN IN THE MOUNTAINS. THIS TOWN WAS A TOURIST TRAP AND MOTELS WERE ONLY AFFORDABLE IN THE WINTER WHEN IT WAS SLOW. FOR A WEEKEND IT WASN'T BAD, AS I WOULD BUILD A FIRE AND COOK MY FOOD OVER IT AND LISTEN TO 8-TRACK MUSIC. TAKING THOSE BATHS IN THE COLD TROUT STREAMS WAS TUFF THOUGH, BUT AT THE AGE OF 19, I WAS TUFF. THE WINTERS WERE BRUTAL ESPECIALLY WHEN IT SNOWED. GOOD MEMORIES BUT I WAS ALWAYS HAPPY TO GET IN A WARM BED. MEMORIES.
I hear ya - I've enjoyed wilderness camping for many years, but you get to come home from that. At one point I purchased a used Tiger RV on a 2008 F350 4x4 diesel chassis to take summer road trips in. After doing this for a couple years, I came to realize that living on the road wasn't all that - I can very much relate to your point about never feeling settled and how mentally taxing it is constantly planning your next moves. I think energetically too (environmentally, socially, etc), when we stay in an area for at least a week or two, we begin to sync up with the energies of that area, we start to become familiar with it -- i notice this every time i go somewhere on vacation; When arriving to a destination, it can take a little break-in period to adjust my overall energy I brought from home to the new destination's energy, then when I return home, my energy is no longer sync'd to my home area & environment, but instead to the vacation area's - Every time I return home from vacation, I feel a little like a stranger and ask myself why do I live here? On the road, always moving, I never felt like I could sync up to the local energies, so it was just a continual feeling of restlessness - That wasn't sustainable for me longterm. I guess some of us do better as nesters, and that's perfectly ok!
You have some good points, but I've been doing this for 7 years, and I still much prefer vanlife to house life. A couple things that help: having a remote job that doesn't require constant Internet access. I'm a writer and I just need a few hours each week to upload my work/download source material. I can go without internet for months if I want. I think it would be hard to always need internet. I'm glad I can escape to crazy out of the way places in the mountains when it's hot. The only thing I really miss is having a more stable community. I think maybe I could create that by hitting the road in a caravan, but I might just try to buy property in a small mountain town or something. I still won't live anywhere full time though!
Agreed mountains in the summer takes care of hot days. Also I stay in Alabama 4 months during winter either apartment or a friends nice cabin. But I go stir crazy oh and I still sleep in my truck converted topper wherever I am. I am going crazy now ready to hit the road asap…This is my 3rd year and I might move to Vietnam or Philippines to settle down next… I will be 66 in A few weeks and I live on $1800 a month
Thanks, Allison. I’ll say in my own words something about #5: We can’t run from our problems. We take them in our head with us, even if they’re not still currently happening. However, sometimes God wants us to move on from a situation in some cases. So we have to be honest about what we’re feeling : Are we taking the “easy” way out?
I think there are a lot of traveling nurses getting the decked out vans. It helps them work their 3 day, twelve hours shifts without worrying about finding hotel rooms. They are saving money after awhile.
I think you have to be a specific type of person to enjoy this type of lifestyle. I have been a truck driver for 7 years and I love the nomadic aspect of it.
I loved driving my van. It's a fantastic vehicle and a joy to drive. But parking it for 2 weeks and being alone and camping on BLM land... with minimal cell signal... and nothing to do but walk the dog, read a book, or converse with the dog, journal or play solitaire... I found that I was driving from one thing to the next and creating expenses by being on the move all the time. But I could not sit some place by myself for days. Other people love to camp away from people and be by themselves fir days on end (which is what makes this lifestyle cheap to live). Yup, you really have to be a certain type of person to enjoy that.
I think that traveling with another - partner/companion - could assist the Van Life Adventure. Having a reliable "Base Camp" to regroup or recharge oneself could be very beneficial. I love these Videos of solos romancing their travels in some conversions that could be extremely expensive. Before the COVID I almost purchased a reasonably priced used ambulance van - high top - rear ramp to be removed. Should have purchased, for vans are ridiculously expensive now. The key is being "Stealth" and with all these Videos on the Net about Van Life have put the "Spotlight" on being "Low Key". I like that you are stressing that this "Lifestyle" may not be very comfortable at times. Retired & Older and I'm looking & waiting for van prices to settle down to Travel. Alone. Who knows. Thanks for the Reality Video. Safe Travel and God Speed.
My (then) wife and I lived on the road for 2.5 months one summer during graduate school. We were using a tent, and a new 1990 Honda Accord sedan. We avoided the interstate highways. We stayed at the state and national park campgrounds. Incredible time. But we had to go back to school in the fall. Student loans paid for it, for independent study credits. Not the best vehicle for it, but it held together in places like Chaco Canyon. It was only 2.5 months, but we were extremely glad to be back.
Thank you for such an informative video. It's not often spoken about the downside of van life. You give someone considering van life something to think about and strongly consider.
100% true what she said. You must have a fixed location like even a small house for you to get back regularly even if it is located in a jungle living in off grid mode.
I am so glad you brought up so many of these things. My plan was to buy and totally tech out a super van. Then my kids started talking me back to reality. Yes, it's going to happen, but I scaled down the van and also agreed to purchase a home base. It's just a small condo so I can have breaks and know I have the ability to change up if I need to. My kids said they would totally support my decision as long as they knew I had a home base. I also liked the idea of leaving for a month or two and then coming back for a month to regroup my ideas.
I met a cool woman at Lassen Natl Park who was 82, and she and her deaf little dog went camping 3 weekends a month by her self. She downsized from a travel trailer to one of those little delivery type vans, put a cot and a 3 drawer plastic organizer from walmart and a hotplate. She left Thursdays came back sunday and said she was gonna have fun till they took her drivers license away! She had a home base and a versatile safe way to camp and an adventurous spirit i never forgot. Your idea, modified by good input from those around you can help you achieve your wandering w a nest to come back to.
I can’t wait to start my van life journey!!! Sorry for all the people who are having a bad experience. Just like all things…some may like it others may not🤷🏽♀️
Many people that live the nomadic ''lifestyle'' who are disappointed, are so because they were unprepared to begin with for life itself. Everything in life can be relative, and unmet expectations are the cause of most people's complaints. Being prepared takes thought and realistic expectations. Those who go thru life feeling entitled will never be happy what they are doing because nothing will ever be good enough for them. Living a mobile lifestyle does not have to be permanent, or temporary. It can just "be" what you are doing at the moment. Imagine if you will that a great deal of discontent in life comes from not getting what you want and also that comparing ones self unfavorably to others is a major source of feeling unworthy and a host of other disappointments that people feel when they complain about things that didnt work out like they had imagined. We all will die some day. Lets just enjoy what we have and forget about chasing happiness that will never come. Extended travel can be exciting and rewarding as life itself : )
@@johncarter9054 perfectly written 👌. You have to really prepare yourself, and you probably shouldn't have so many windows, especially not open while your cooking, and lounging around in a place you wanna sleep 😴 at.
Aside from the bathroom needs, I think the biggest problem for me would be the finding a place to park every day. I think stationary people don't realize how comforting it is to have your home base to return to every day. To sleep, and know you'll be there the next day. In a van you're on the hunt to find a place to sleep on only a daily basis. I think van life is cool in theory but not good for me in practice.
Awesome ride and driver. Thankyou for the update about the experience. Parking problems in the city, no running water/shower, clean clothes, lack of money, auto repairs oh what fun. Shelter was never a problem. I loved it.
I lived in my car when moving plans fell through...I did it for a year. Yes, you better be prepared to constantly move, don't sleep long, be organized in such a way that you can pick up and go at a moment's notice. Also, learn where you can go the bathroom and wash up, cut your hair, etc. It must be emphasized that relationships are almost a no go. I am looking for a RV as that life gives me the best of both worlds.... extrovert in the world, introvert when I want to get away...but there are trade offs...you must decide...can you live with those trade offs?
Thank you, Ma'am for sharing the "darker" side of van life! It's ALWAYS good to see both the "pro's" and "con's" of any and everything; how else are we to make informative and wise decisions?? God Bless
Well you can say you did it. You gave it a try and you now know the pros and the cons. I am 46 years old now and I'm still saying that I am going to learn how to hang glide and I have been saying that since I was 18. In the North Georgia mountains (Lookout Mountain) there is a hang gliding school that I have been promising the instructors that I was going to take classes from them and I still haven't done it. Life is no fun if you don't live it. You're an adventurer at heart.
Van Life in fact forces you to be social and in fact encourages you to know the proper camp sites and recommendations for proper places to camp. They expect you to be a responsible adult. The point of this life is to be site seeing and doing what you have never done before and see national parks. You aren't meant to stay at a place longer than 2 days. Yes they expect you to understand basic survival, just like hiking. I can do a hybrid lifestyle of this. For me i will camp at places by myself, however i will be social and go to public places for food and cleaning and toiletries.
As someone who has been homeless and had to live in a car,van,RV, trailer. You learn very quickly how to keep cool or warm,cook,find safe places, which states are best for weather related living. Having funds to replace, repair,etc and you also learn to fix your own stuff too. Also CB radio is also important as I was homeless before cell phones existed. Work lil jobs in an area too. It can either teach you or wear you down
NEVER EVER thought about living in a van, car, or whatever. I LOVE the comforts of my home and laying my head down each night in it. NEVER believed all the stories of how wonderful it is to live that kind of lifestyle. Frankly it's nuts to live that way!!!!!!!!
Good for you! i've started to see these Vans in truck stops and Rest Areas Taking up spots... we're out here working and these DipShiz taking up our parking spots..can't tell you how close some of them were from becoming homeless.
My son is thinking about living in a van due to the crazy housing rates these days. Rents have tripled in the last few years and unfortunately the wages haven’t. People working in the service industries in Florida are the hardest hit. Soon we’ll have no one to wait tables, cut hair, teach our kids, and work in stores. It’s sad.
Florida will have tomget on the ball and demand low income housing from its landlords. Some areas do this. Example... if you have a High rise building,30% of the Apts have to be low income rents so service workers ect can live in the communities they serve.
@@amberhansen3806 if that was the only deterrent, simple fix would be to have a shower and toilet inside your van, as many people do. Then you just have to have dump the waste/water.
You can find lots of mountain boondocking spots that are no more than 80 degrees max in the summer (usually less) and there is high speed cell data coverage. You just cross reference various maps and do site surveys.
This is all good info to consider. I’ve considered work arounds and some of these just don’t apply to me, but it’s a good you’re warning people because there are people this would apply to. I like watching these videos as part of my research to make triple sure that this is for me and I have a plan in place to address these things.
I am seriously considering living on the road beginning next summer. I will still keep my home for those times I don’t feel like traveling. That will definitely require me to increase my income by a substantial amount. Meanwhile, I intend to start sleeping in my suv here and there just to become somewhat comfortable with being out there. Hopefully that will give me enough courage to get a van and travel alone. Thanks for being real.❤️
