5 Qualities to Look for in a Husband with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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In this episode, we define the five non-negotiable traits to keep an eye out for in a husband, a conversation not just for the ladies but for the gentlemen too, to foster these virtues within themselves. From spiritual maturity to unwavering integrity, join us as we weave personal experiences with solid advice, helping you build a relationship that's not just for the 'gram, but for a lifetime.
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@Nyansapa Месяц назад

Five qualities you need to look for: 1. Submitted to Holiness - A man led by the Holy spirit, a real relationship with God over several years (Spiritual Maturity) 2. Character and Personality (integrity, job, relationship with family, how do they talk or treat friends and others, are they part of a church, what do they believe, etc.) 3. Genuinely be your bestie and friend. (Can y’all carry an intelligent conversation, do you share simple pleasures of life, is there physical attraction, do you actually like each other?) 4. Someone who knows how to handle pain, problems, loss, persecution. (Does these things lead them to God or to the world?). 5. Submission to Godly Authority and Authority

@toungetwister2023 Месяц назад

Thanks for this summary!! Appreciate it

@virginiechristinemangaonan3012 Месяц назад

Thanks alot

@sylviaserrano3315 Месяц назад

❤❤ thank you!!🎉🎉

@susandodson1234 Месяц назад

One and five the same?

@lifewithsuzzyq2039 28 дней назад

Thank you so much for writing this down.🙏

@user-yy9mt6kl3h 10 дней назад

There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What works for Adam may not necessarily work for Peter. Nonetheless, I've learned that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were on the verge of divorce due to challenges in our marriage, but we managed to reconcile. It was a tough time, but we persevered.

@user-sk7kd8vs2w 10 дней назад

The significance of your words is not lost on me, and I genuinely hope my feelings resonate with yours. Despite our current physical distance, I cannot conceive of my life without her; my love for her is deep-rooted. I yearn for her return, and I'm committed to doing whatever it takes to make it happen. We've explored different paths, including therapy, in our journey toward reconciliation

@user-yy9mt6kl3h 10 дней назад

Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

@user-sk7kd8vs2w 10 дней назад

Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.

@user-yy9mt6kl3h 10 дней назад

You definitely should

@brishelton7107 Месяц назад

Ken, I love that you touched on singleness not being a disease. And that you can fulfill the calling of your life being single. I agree marriage has been put on a pedestal. We need to hear this message more often.

@littlebee41 26 дней назад

Right

@KillaTommyT 6 дней назад

Getting married tomorrow. I’m having a full circle moment how far I’ve come… this video made me realize I’ve done the work. I’m so thankful.

@sriveral2973 Месяц назад

I wish I had premarital counseling like this prior to making the marriage commitment I’m in. This was great!

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

We are glad it can be a blessing. Stay tuned every Thursday!

@destinylyn. Месяц назад

As a single woman in her early 30s this was great

@supermodeljaz6829 Месяц назад

Same❤

@andrewims1321 27 дней назад

A man will definitely let a woman know that he’s into her, never settle. Us as men need to know this as well. Never settle for the bare minimum

@neicyh1181 Месяц назад

Omg Pastor Ken, number 3 was big for me, how a man handles pain, and problems are huge. So many men check out mentally, and it is not a good look. Thank you so much. I'm 58 yrs old, and I have never been married, but the desire is still there. I refuse to give up because love is beautiful, and I still believe God will have me in the right place at the right time. God bless you both.

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

We are glad this episode was a blessing to you! We appreciate your support. Keep tuning in every Thursday!

@sheeba3812 28 дней назад

I’m glad the Holy Spirit keeps sending me here to experience words of wisdom

@Chosen302 18 часов назад

Thank you. I’m 40 and I finally feel like I have direction. Thank you so much.

@tamaralandreneau8005 26 дней назад

IT ALL STARTS AT BIRTH, THE WAY THEY'RE NURTURED OR THE WAY THEY'RE NEGLECTED.

@mariamjibrin7260 Месяц назад

1. Do i like his personality. Doni enjoy being with him. Are you friends 2. Is he committed to Holiness. Does he have Godly convictions and is he faithful to them. does he feel strongly towards them 3. How does he handle pain and problems. does it send you back to alcohol or vices or God 4. How does he submit to Godly authority. All men need other men. How does he respond to the authority in your life. 5. Does he have a real love for God. A worship life and a prayer life without you. He loves God more than he love you.

@iamtonyacarter 6 дней назад

Timestamp 30:48 - 32:00 is an ENTIRE WORD! This mentality that "being single is less than" is causing many to make relational decisions that result in regret later. As a person who helps people navigate divorce, you see many similarities on why it gets to that point and one of those are ignoring those red flags. I wish there was more talk about embracing singleness and less talk about it only being tolerable. This was great!

@victoriasmith2610 Месяц назад

This really hit on a different level. In my 20s, single and dating - pursuing someone - this just really made me feel like I’m not alone in finding the right godly man and how hard that can be. Thank you both and God bless 🙏🏾

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

Thank you for your support! Don't forget to share this with family and friends :)

@kimichele1908 Месяц назад

Please do an episode on whether or not marriage is meant for you. Are there Christians not meant to be in a marriage?

@dyanimoriah Месяц назад

+1 on this! I will say not everyone is called to be married. Ken gave a perfect example of single people: Paul, and Jesus himself. Marriage is a beautiful thing and is a blessing. I’d suggest taking a look at 1 Corinthians 7.

@kimichele1908 Месяц назад

@dyanimoriah I'd love to hear this as a message from them. I'm familiar with several scriptures. So hearing a word from them about understanding if you are purposed for marriage would bring so much more understanding. There's something to hearing this God-led, God-centered married couple of 20+ years with children, speak on marriage. Ken & Tabatha don't seem to hold back. They just let the Lord use them. Amen!! I didn't realize how musguided some of my understanding was until I started listening to their podcast. I was leaning away a bit, but I continued listening because the spirit led me to & thank you, God, I listened!!! I just yearn for more wisdom & understanding.

@carolwalker1707 27 дней назад

Thank you both ❤ single , saved, satisfied & sexy ! Loving my singleness and content in the Lord. I’m letting his will be done . Been married 2 times early 20s and early thirties. Gods will, will have to be done.

@Loveprevails1111 14 дней назад

I like how the wife kept it simple and made it plain.

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 13 дней назад

😁

@IamReggieM 10 дней назад

This is the 3rd episode Ive listened to today (while taking notes). You both are a blessing to the kingdom. Praying that you reach the masses. ❤

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 8 дней назад

Thank you Reggie!! Glory to God.

@torip9444 Месяц назад

Wow this hit on many levels esp when Ken asked how is he with his mom, dad, sister, and if he says he doesn't follow an organized religion. Well I am dealing with exactly that. His is severely strained (beefed out) with his family and has literally told me he doesn't follow an organized religion. We are not married but have over 14 yrs of history. I am currently in the process of separating from him after a talk I had with him that God told me I was not supposed to be doing this with him. It took him a while to just slightly understand and now he is. We're cordial but that's it. I need/deserve a Kingdom man of God.

@HannaHTHEHurricane 29 дней назад

This show is very UNDERRATED!!!!…. That’s all I have to say! 🙌🏾

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

Thank you! Share it with family and friends. We appreciate your support :)

@joanajayi-majebi638 12 дней назад

Ken and Tabitha.....please keep this good teaching coming 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. God bless you both ❤

@rockymountainprincess9078 11 дней назад

Im single. This was a great message. I needed to hear. Thank you so much and God bless 🙏 ❤!

@lanaib_ Месяц назад

Whew this is so good dude. Especially how someone processes pain and stuff that life throws at them fr. Do you go back to your old ways or do you go to God? WHEW!!!

@michelleharper7020 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for this wisdom. Yes, I've experienced being isolated from my church folk and the individual criticizing everything about my church at that time. The marriage didn't work. Well that was about a decade ago. Now I know better.

@adafihkeith868 Месяц назад

Tabatha is too cute🎉🎉

@yackeishaburnett6333 Месяц назад

Love the podcast, may God continue to bless you guys ❤🎉

@frondalasherlone1962 Месяц назад

Woooow, Thank you so much!

@LadybuggRules Месяц назад

This episode has blessed me.

@dominickatravels Месяц назад

Thanks for giving this wisdom!

@salimaellis3980 23 дня назад

I didn’t know what to look for

@laritatornes734 Месяц назад

This is so good

@Abbas_Daughters Месяц назад

You both are such blessings ❤❤Thank you!

@happinessmhlongo152 22 дня назад

I needed this so much❤

@christie7613 Месяц назад

THIS was amazing!

@tmj2016 Месяц назад

This is excellent information!!!!

@stephaniegaines2693 19 дней назад

I pick the 1st husband. God is going to Next Husband

@marycannon6046 Месяц назад

I did . . . I got TRULY blessed by this HOLY SPIRIT Led podcast!!!

@brownsuga985 Месяц назад

Love This

@MichelleBaptiste-tf9dz 24 дня назад

This is amazing! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

@tislouise Месяц назад

So many facts and wisdom here 🙌🏾

@dakotaharness5536 Месяц назад

Definitely a blessing love them ❤

@cortneejones1189 29 дней назад

Thank you for this podcast❤

@Elizacolvin-dl7xb Месяц назад

Aghhhhhh so so blessed!! Thank you for this word of wisdom 🩵

@imuniquedevoin 29 дней назад

This was so good and insightful!

@tnicemhf2504 28 дней назад

Alot of wisdom and jewels provided.

@merleterry7775 27 дней назад

Wow! I like this podcast.

@marthasanyu729 Месяц назад

I loved every single bit of wisdom that was shared here. Bless you Ken and Tabitha!!!

@AmazingNyree Месяц назад

Thank you for this message It was much needed for me Thank you

@tonyamartin2799 Месяц назад

This blessed me and resonated with me! Thank you Pastor Ken and Tabitha!

@parrissneed6562 День назад

Quality! Thank you

@donnabrown8187 24 дня назад

I love you guys. I wish this was available 28 years ago. Somebody would had a podcast like you two. This is so eye opening and holy Ghost information. I'm divorce now because I made him a idol. But Jesus who is rich in love. Forgiving me for my stupid and flesh decision. I'm blessed and not single like you both said. I got Jesus. Glory to God. I'm still believing God for the Real King for me. No more Fake king Jesus. You guys rock. Jesus

@NiqsOboOgie 28 дней назад

Good stuff Pastors ❤👏🏾

@Namsdelias Месяц назад

i luv how u are preparing me

@lindajohnson2816 Месяц назад

This is one of your best podcast powerful and informative

@HannahHeavens-pe5xt 3 дня назад

Thank you for sharing this

@rudobushiri5982 27 дней назад

Thank you ❤

@monique_weaktopeak 6 дней назад

I will use your relationship as an example when I pray for a partner 🥹🙌

@rachaeleena 27 дней назад

I got blessed ❤

@Mimi-jb8ji 23 дня назад

Blessings from South Africa 🇿🇦

@nyawirak6827 Месяц назад

Thank you... ive been asking myself this question.. and y'all just answered me... Truly God hears and answers... Thank You Lord🙌🏽❤️

@andreahousen207 Месяц назад

Amazed as always and well timed. God continue to bless you both on this purposeful journey. Thank you 🙏🏿

@MzKeiKei68 Месяц назад

This was very good. A lot of good takeaways from this 🙏🏾 Thank You!

@thyramccray724 Месяц назад

I’m loving your content so much you Wonderful Man and Woman of God ❤🙏

@toungetwister2023 Месяц назад

Thank you so much im learning alot!! Im single and praying for a godly husband Im following all your videos and it blesses me❤

@tbajomo Месяц назад

I love you both❤❤❤❤. I just found your channel and watching this was refreshing and encouraging. God bless you both🙏🙏🙏.

@Healinginpeacepodcast 29 дней назад

Wow this is so amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you guys for this I am single but I know that God is working and just needed to be encouraged!

@mancinniodiakuhanga1033 Месяц назад

Thank you so much. Your videos are so enlightening. I am praying for a godly man🙏🏽 Watching all the way from Namibia 🇳🇦

@angelalovedefined Месяц назад

Greetings from Peoples Church, Edmond OK! This was rich in wise guidance and very needed and appreciated. Thank you Claytor Team!

@jemmy924 Месяц назад

So good Ken & Tabatha 💯 🔥 I listened attentively and gained so many insights and tips. I was like 'Yaassss" This is gold, bless God! I thank God for His heart towards His people equipping us with the knowledge and information that we need as single people. We need to learn from those who have gone before us, good and bad, so that we could be better. I pray that that high divorce rate would drastically decrease and that Christ would be glorified in our marriages and relationships in Jesus' name. Lord, do it for us and may you receive the honor and glory. In Jesús' name.Amen

@jacqualenelemens8260 28 дней назад

I'm all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦 and i love this advice. I'm a huge fan too 🙌🔥.

@thandekayako6060 Месяц назад

Out here crying my eyes out. Thank you Pastors❤

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

❤

@aliciabuford7708 29 дней назад

Great answer Tab!!😂

@tammycovington3288 Месяц назад

Good Content Brother and Sister 👏👏👏💯🫡❤️🫶

@Heartnladder Месяц назад

Thank you for your support, So l appreciate mutual safety and mutual respect within our circle, my focus is sustaining the ability to nurture and sustain a grown man, health, mindfulness and ethical sanety...

@Megan_Alexis 12 дней назад

I am loving this POD ! Sending to my husband now . Thank you Pastors Ken and Tabitha 🥰🥰🥰

@NakishaRHicks 27 дней назад

Thank you, Pastor Ken and Pastor Tabatha. I appreciate what you both shared. I would like to add one and not take away from what you've shared. I have heard this before from the elderly women in my life. To look for how a man treats and respects his mother.

@brendabenavidez1910 14 дней назад

(integrity, job, relationship with family, how do they talk or treat friends and others, are they part of a church, what do they believe, etc.) 3. Genuinely be your bestie and friend. (Can y’all carry an intelligent conversation, do you share simple pleasures of life, is there physical attraction, do you actually like each other?) 4. Someone who knows how to handle pain, problems, loss, persecution. (Does these things lead them to God or to the world?). 5. Submission to Godly Authority and Authority

@RobetteRodgers-dq2vl Месяц назад

God BLESS U BOTH!!! POWER KINGDOM COUPLE❤. Thank u for the reinforcements and reminders what to look out for and keep it pushing when it's NOT. I dont have to investigate when thw fruit is not on the tree. I dont need to waste time on pseudo so called men of God. Thank u for the list. What a Blessing 🎉🎉🎉

@Abbas_Daughters 20 дней назад

I’m soo grateful for this video 💖 Being in my preparation season this video truly blessed me 🙏🏾

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

We are glad it can be a blessing :)

@Abbas_Daughters 15 дней назад

@@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾☺️☺️☺️ Yesss! God is soo good!

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 14 дней назад

@@Abbas_Daughters Amen!! :)

@Abbas_Daughters 14 дней назад

@@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@Abbas_Daughters 14 дней назад

@@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 🙏🏾😊😊 I also want to say thank you both soo much for pouring into me honestly! God has me in my preparation season for marriage and your advice has been sooo helpful to me 🙏🏾 Thank you both for all you have done for me and others 🫶🏾

@randolphellis2372 Месяц назад

I love ya!!!

@napturalee_8815 24 дня назад

We were in a club but God was there😂 I love thissss

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

😂

@JC-nb2fx 29 дней назад

Is there an episode speaking to the ones who did get married and want to get out?

@AngieeShipps 28 дней назад

Love this! I truly enjoyed this video! So much wisdom! I appreciate what you said about the man having character and integrity! That's number one for me! Far as attraction, the enemy can use it as a distraction to blind you from viewing what is most important. I think is attraction is important but you have to submit to the Lord.

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

Submission to the Lord is very important 👏🏽

@salimaellis3980 23 дня назад

This was good and I’m married

@salimaellis3980 23 дня назад

That’s good going back to liking each other hmmmm

@faithwilson6967 24 дня назад

May God bless you both I am so glad to my soul that I was walked into this conversation I would love a God bless marriage with a wonderful soul who already loves the lord that I can have fellowship with for a lifetime of marital bliss 🎉 Please pray for me I am believing God for this you are needed in the body of Christ I know that you know it but I had to say it AGAIN I LOVE YOU BOTH and I am praying for you please also pray for a steadfast woman like me The most high knows who I am Amen 🔥👏🏽🌹

@Coolct 24 дня назад

Side note.. Loving Tabatha’s hair growth …💕💕

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

Thank you! ❤

@estherndungu590 29 дней назад

As single woman at 29, am trusting God that i get a man who is His friend 😊

@jenniegauthier4344 28 дней назад

Hi guys. Can you make a video about how to change or become the man or woman that someone would want to marry? When you talked about praying for your future husband and liking the person, how can I remember to pray for them (like how to care enough to pray for him) and what should I work on in myself (cooking, manners, etc)? And holiness?

@SheWalksByFaith Месяц назад

Yesss 🙌🏽

@freevibe4146 14 дней назад

Blessed me

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 13 дней назад

We are glad our podcast can be a blessing to you! Stay tuned for a new episode today :)

@chavellenaturell1291 14 дней назад

WISDOM💥💥💥

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 13 дней назад

🙌

@brendabenavidez1910 14 дней назад

Yes i want my best friend in my husband .

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 14 дней назад

Good!!

@adoyicecilia7105 Месяц назад

How about a check in belief compatibility?

@Lifeafteryes Месяц назад

Is it Thursday yet?😅

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha 15 дней назад

Almost! Lol

@loisadeleke885 27 дней назад

Not me just staring at dem beardssssssssss.

@gaillastof8851 Месяц назад

what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will dwell in them, and will walk among them; and I will be their God, and they will be My people."2 Corinthians 6:16

@gaillastof8851 28 дней назад

I don't think He's in the club. But He is indide of us...