5 Things Every Woman NEEDS to Know About a Man // Ken and Tabatha Claytor 

1) He is not a woman 2) He is under a lot of pressure. More than you will know. 3) He doesn’t want to “deal”with the woman when he gets home. He needs to decompress. 4) He doesn’t need another mother. He needs a helper. 5) He needs to be honored and respected. Acknowledged. 💎💎💎💎💎

Some gems were dropped. My advice is to Ask God to make u a better wife and He will. If ur husband is getting on ur nerves, ask God to work on u. Not him. Through all my years of marriage one revelations I’ve gotten is if I do right in my marriage, God will honor me. Even if u have a husband who is not doing right. U continue to be the wife God called u to be and watch Him bless u.

I’m divorced for 7 years this year… I feel like I owe my ex an apology after listening to this wisdom😮, thank you guys. I love you two❤

She is definitely a traditional wife…. Working on myself to become like this

A wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one tears it down. Women will not submit to her husband if he does not work and provides for her family. Thanks for sharing.

I love how Tabatha looks at her husband...you can tell how much she adores him. I hope she gets the same, she looks like a sweet soul🌼🌼🌼

This was so refreshing. I felt the Holy Spirit tell me you are closer to marriage because now I have a revelation on how to be a good wife

Pre-marital counselling is so important.

It's just hit me that God intended for me to come across your channel. When you said you pray and ask God to let the right persons watch your videos, I see this as a sign to an answered prayer. I'm watching and learning what I need to work on in my life. Thank you Pastors 🙏

This was so good. I realize I was helping the enemy break down my husband. We're not going out like that!! Thank you!

Wow this was an amazing conversation, I really didn’t want it to end. As a 23 yr old engaged woman this gave me a lot to think about in terms of how to ensure that my man feels valued, respected , and honored and being able to set the tone of the atmosphere of the home. Thank you for this wisdom🙌🏾✨

Purposely passing gas and not picking up after ourselves in front of anyone is inappropriate regardless of our gender. It’s more about living more like CHRIST by being more considerate of each other as CHRIST is considerate of us even though He created us.

Before now, Iv'e never been into podcasts, BUT, I've been addicted to you guys since Wednesday 10/12/23 of this week. Thank you lovely people. I'm a Single woman using my single season to prepare for my Boaz.

A man doesn’t need another mother. Some men need to hear that because that’s what he is expecting from his wife. Would love to hear this from the dynamic of today where most woman are working and some cases the bread winner

I am learning so much. The Lord is really preparing me for marriage. This was so good 🎉🎉🎉

I percieve rhat the Holy spirit is preparing me now for marriage...i had fear and anxiety about marriage before i came across this channel and was praying to get a marriage coach and here i found one.. Thank you Lord. .

I want value back in my marriage

This next level communication. I’ve been married for 8 years and I can honestly say ive have a long way to go with understanding. Thank y’all for the vulnerability and transparency 🙏.

I wish I had this wisdom earlier in my marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 40 years but am seeing so many mistakes that I have made. Keep bringing these messages and pray for me that I will make the changes that I need to see my marriage flourish. In the name of Jesus. Amen ❤🙏🏽

You need to tell on sin before sin tells on you woooo! That’s a word!!

What a blessing to hear this, we have been married 37 years. But, you have spoken life into our lives. Thank you

I am no longer with my sons dad but I will always respect and love him for being an incredible father. Our son is so blessed

Your channel is underrated I’m on my fourth consecutive video and I’m so happy for it! Such a blessing to the body!!!

I had the opportunity to meet Pastor Tabatha this past weekend. She’s such a sweet soul! Prayerfully, marriage isn’t that far down the road for me, and this episode helped me so much! Thank you Pastor Ken & Pastor Tabatha!🤍

This is my first time listening to you guys, but can I tell you I enjoyed your wisdom. As a divorced woman of many years I desire to marry again and be the best wife I can the second time around!! Thank you so much for sharing and doing it in such a beautiful way❤️🙌🏾🙏🏽.... Many more Blessings to you both!!!

Amazing! I loveeeeee the example of honor this wife gives her husband. Us young daughters need more of her counsel. Teach us woman of God!

I just love you both so much! I’m a single mom of 2 girls and trying to become the wife God has called me to be to the husband I know he has created me for. Tabitha, talk about a Proverbs 31 woman! You remind me so much of my mom and how submissive and supportive she is to my dad. I pray I carry that same anointing and that God will use me as a strategic helpmate for my future husband and for His kingdom. God bless your beautiful marriage and family. Love y’all 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

if my husband say i am attracted to this woman! sorry i dont want to know that! i dont come to my husband and tell how many men shot there shot! ow no! abraham never told his wife that he was going to crucify his only child to his wife. you saying my husband cant shut his mouth about his temptation lol but i love the conversation! she is level headed and great wife!

I want this for my daughter 😔. Her dad and I need so much healing.

WoW ❤ My first time here, praying GOD prepares me like this as I also prepare for the godly man HE has for me. This was very transparent, transformative & beautiful

I love them....just started listening to them yesterday.....thank you....now until my husband finds me❤

@ 10:56 I took a pause to get myself together. I did not know what is was like to have a dad growing up, mine was in prison. We were introduced at the age of 13. My dad was released when I was 18. It was the best day and year of my life!!! Then, what happened broke my heart into a million pieces….the cops killed my daddy. They shattered my dreams. I am 56 , 10:59 10:59 and I miss him so much. I am grateful that God is my Heavenly Father. Thank you for giving me the language of how to express what I was missing. ❤❤😢❤❤

The value of this practical, down-to-earth conversation is immeasurable! 💪🏼💪🏼 Thank you for a tool that can be used by couples who sincerely desire to do marriage well. I believe that the couple who listens to this open and honest dialogue together can use it to jumpstart their own conversation customized for their marriage where they can be “naked and not ashamed” (Genesis 2:25). ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

I love the content in your videos. One thing that I'd like to add is that "It takes 2 to make a thing go right." Either partner can give their ALL in making a relationship/marriage successful, HOWEVER, if only one is doing the work, it's doomed to fail. That's reality. Or, you stay... just because, and there's no peace, joy, or success in that. KEEP IT COMING....WE'RE LEARNING AND GROWING ❤

So very refreshing to see a Godly couple that can give inspiration of insight in a Godly covenant relationship/marriage(s). Blessings 💕💖💖💖💖💖 So much relevance spoken.

So glad I found this channel. I first watched 10 ways to prepare yourself for marriage. Thank you for this channel in general🙏🏾 and letting God use you two

Yes, telling me he was attracted to another woman has happened. I created a safe space for him to speak. We discussed things about her and we were able to find the root, we were able to pray about it and break a soul tie. He felt free to talk to me about a lot of things until drugs got involved. When drug use began there was no saving the marriage after all the deceit, shame, dangers that came with the drug use. We are no longer married, but before drugs, the marriage was a safe place for us to communicate. We did discuss the beginning of drug use as well but he succumbed fully to it. I chose to let him go for my own safety.

Having a well-rounded present father is important not just a father. I grew up with my dad from the age of 10. He was a single parent. At the age of 32, I had to unlearn certain behaviors and thought patterns I learned from him. I was told I can be harsh and lack emotion. I didn't know how to connect emotionally to people or even receive physical affection. I didn't know how to express my emotions. I didn't receive those from him. I am still learning.

I really enjoyed this!!!! Many of us didn’t grow up with healthy relationship examples or guidance. You don’t have to replicate everything this couple is doing but it’s great insight on how to cover, honor and nurture your man. Good men deserve to be treated well

I appreciate this video. As I listened, I recognized that there are some things that I didn't do during my first marriage. However, as God continues to work on me and prepare me for my kingdom spouse , I will take these points along with the Word of God to be a better wife in the future. Thank you Ken and Tab for sharing, and allowing God to use you.

got married 2 weeks ago and this video is such a blessing! I learned a lot! ❤

"You have to sow there, before you go there" that's a Whole Word.. Totally agree....Amen ❤

This was such an amazing conversation. I'm working on being the best version of a help meet possible for my man.

God was in the garden and he said Adam where are you. God holds men accountable. satan wants to destroy men, couples, family which leads to messed up young’s and everybody is jacked up. Thanking God mom and dad raise 4 boys in Brooklyn in an AG church. Thanks to the church community and parents bring up productive save and sanctified work in progress. Good work guys 👍🏻

This convo was so great thank you!

Thank you for the Gems 💎

Yes this is helpful. Thank you for all you do!

I really enjoyed this.

I didnt know why i kept on watching watching your videos for the past 6-8 hours not until i came to realize you were a Pastor. Surely you have been called to redefine marriage and Christian relationships and may God increase you and continue using you for this great assignment

Just subscribed. I have watched a few videos of yours and they have been amazing!

Wow, so amazing. There's a reason why God wanted me to come across this podcast. This is the second episode I've watched, and I have been so blessed. Thank You so so much, this is what I was missing and needing. God bless you and give you both more knowledge to keep teaching us these things. As a 22 years old, it is never too early to start learning about mariage and life in general as a daughter of God.

This is great. Thank you for being so transparent!

So wholesome. New subscriber here

This was sooo good !!! Motivating, happy, made me smile and I learned a lot.

Wow! I’m honored to be here. Thank you for this segment. ❤

These are great tips on understanding how men deal with their emotions.

I hardly comment on anything on youtube, but you both are full of godly wisdom, very real and there's so much to learn from both of you, so i'll definitely keep watching. God bless you both for such insight.

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I see some areas I can grow in.

Thank you so much for this! My soul need to hear this !♥️♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼

This is so so good!!! Love y’all’s content!

Thank you for your podcast love this and your a great pastor

LOVE THIS!! AND you TWO!! First time watching

You guys are a blessing to me

Thank you for your wisdom.

Thank you so much you all have helped me so much.

Wow I needed this!❤

This was so helpful! Thank you 🤍

I’m new to your RU-vid videos (watched two so far); and I have to say they are great!! Keep up the good work!😊

So glad I found your channel!✨Wow! Love it! Love the delivery and transparency! God bless you both! Keep sharing!✨♥️

This was great! Thank you so much family 🙏🏾

Ahh man I love you guys!🔥🔥 I’m a new fan! Very soothing and wise

You guys are blessing so many people!❤

Stumbled across you..enjoying it so far..teamwork make the dream work

Much wisdom. Thank you.❤❤

I loved this and learned a lot thank you

Not married but I love your videos. I'm working on myself to be a good wife to my husband someday.

I appreciate you two so much !!!

Appreciating Tabatha ❤

So glad I found you guys ❤❤

Love these topics! Thank you so much. Single for now 🙏🏾

Oh my goodness you’ve given me so new ideas and couple goals! Thank you for sharing❤️ Blessings to you both🙏🏽

I appreciate the balanced perspective you all have shared. Thank you, very grateful for this!

This podcast was soo good! I really enjoyed it.

Oh wow so informed i feel like i am ready for my king❤

This is so good I just came across y'all channel and will share it with my future wifey 💜

We need male men, we need masculinity in our lives. We need men to be men…… 👏🏽 Tabatha is telling the truth, because it’s a shortage in the home. Society is definitely doing a number on our men….. both of these sessions were good. Ken just also gave me something good, but men don’t open up like that and I don’t know what it will take for them to open up like that. Thank you for the insight. God bless you both ❤🙏🏽

This is so good and put everything into perspective. I regret my last relationship ended.

This right was 🔥🔥🔥… I need this

This was so refreshing to watch

Thank you for having this conversation. Very impactful, transparent and real.

Thank you for being my internet parents. God bless you all the way from SA

Thank you Ken and Tabatha for always sharing greats nuggets of wisdom. Don't stop at it. You're mending marriages out here. ❤❤

You guys are providing so much wonderful gems for the community. I appreciate you. Keep up the awesome work for your family and the Kingdom of God.

My Apostle has literally said these nuggets multiple times! Thank you both for sharing with such transparency, practicality and wisdom!

This is good wisdom teaching love it!

Loved. Loved. LOVED the discourse. I really didn't want it to end. Praying for continued grace & anointing in every area of your lives.

So many takeaways! Thank and may the Lord continue to bless you! 🙏🏾❤️

You guys are doing a great job and you are speaking to my heart. I enjoy your videos and the topics very much. Very inspiring ❤

Thank you for your wisdom 🥹

Amen helpful conversation not only that real life what we going through every day you both sharing what women should do