Love, love, love this podcast! Thank you both for being obedient to God in this ministry educating couples on how to navigate marriage God’s way! I’m new to the podcast and using these nuggets to prepare me to be the best version of myself as a wife! I’m not at the alter yet, but it’s coming soon ❤. May God continue to bless your ministry and household. Thank y’all so much for the open and honest discussions you share with us! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕
Im Dominican, and I grew up watching my mom and aunts always serving the men first at gatherings and THEN the children. We sat down at the table and were not allowed to start eating till we were all there. And when we finished we couldn’t just leave, we stayed till the adults (male) were done eating and ready to move to another activity. When I came to the US I saw a completely different way of life and as I grew older I adapted to it, identified myself as a “feminist” and hated those customs we were taught… I’m so glad by the grace of God, the Holy Spirit transformed my life and allowed me to see how valuable it was despite the bad times, that I was brought up surrounded by a community of women that although didn’t have Christ, they knew how to honor their husbands. Thank you both, because as I walk with Jesus, I can receive wise counsel from you both And i LOVE that you guys are here in Orlando!
I'm Dominican as well, also grew up seeing my dad being served first, we respected his spaces, etc. and I am thankful that I recognize the importance of this.
Same here I am also Dominican...born in the USA and adapted many feminist views...now I'm a Christ Follower and am deconstructing my old ways and am learning how to treat and honor my husband....only by God's grace..I'm so thankful
Never thought I’d love a video that challenges me as a wife. Talk about God opening up my heart to hear and allow change to happen. I’m in a place in my life where I am open & willing…. And overall hungry for God to transform me in all the areas of my life. & this wide area is probably the most important! This video has sowed a beautiful seed in me and I can’t wait to put it into practice in my life with my husband. Praise God for Ken & Tabatha 🤍 blessings sent your way!
Some wives are discouraged by the lack of love from husband. I agree that honor husband is a good thing. So she has to continue honoring him even when she knows that he doesn’t love her. It can be a challenge and laboring.
Thank you! I'm getting married in 6 weeks and I appreciate all that God does through you, Ken and Tabitha. Please pray for a strong and godly marriage for my fiancee Greg and I. God bless you all!
I appreciate how this is both husband and wife talking about their marriage that has lasted a long time and strengthened over the years. The credibility is stronger and more helpful than listening to single people give their takes on marriage 😅 God bless this beautiful union and ministry
In a healthy committed courtship and this was sooo encouraging and beautiful. even in the body of Christ some of these things aren’t done or acknowledged, but I feel so strongly that loving my husband even in this way is apart of my calling when that time comes. Soooo helpful God bless you guys
I appreciate the tips, I am a widow , I was married for 30 years and 30 days . Widow for three years now and look forward to getting married again and using my experience and the experience provided to us which was very helpful and informative for my future husband.❤❤❤ God’s blessing to you both!!
This video was absolutely fantastic! I take great pleasure in giving my husband massages. Whether it's just us two or with our little boys, we love embarking on road trips together. He enjoys driving while I soak in the scenery, and afterward, I'm always ready to give him a relaxing massage as a token of appreciation for safely navigating us to our destinations. I’ll need to look into getting a massage table. That was a good idea, Ms. Tabatha! Growing up, I witnessed my mom serving my dad his plate of food first, followed by my brothers and me. This tradition of showing love through serving was passed down from my grandma to my grandpa as well. It brings me joy to continue this gesture for my husband, who always expresses his gratitude with a smile and a warm thank you when I hand him his plate. I’m passionate about cooking and baking so I anticipate hearing their opinions. 😆 It’s always a win to my husband! Even though I work part-time, I strive to make my husband's return home as smooth and effortless as possible even if I’m not there. Each morning, I ensure our boys have their toiletries and pajamas neatly laid out on the bed. As we homeschool our oldest, who is in kindergarten, I have all his schoolwork prepared and organized, ready to tackle the day's lessons. My husband selflessly dedicates himself to our family, never once voicing a complaint. It's my aim to cultivate an atmosphere of peace and love in his life, just as he does for me 🕊️🌸. Embracing a servant's heart towards each other brings about a profound sense of beauty and purity in our marriage. 🙏🏾🌷
I’m a a do-er y’all 😀! Bought the massage table as a surprise for Valentine’s Day and massaged my husband for an hour, he was so grateful and so taken a back. I tagged you both in the video on IG😊. Thank you again for all of your valuable advice! 🙏🏾💕
❤❤❤❤u two..pst allow this woman to talk pour out life to us..her disposition on this marriage things is heaven..am watching you right out of Abuja Nigeria
Thank you!!!! I absolutely loved this and I love so so much that you are a great representation of a wife that is submissive!!! I grew up in a household where there was a lot of controlling and down calling (from mother side) and I learned from her. However, recently I have been wanting to honor and respect my husband and set all negative opposites to the side. I absolutely love your podcasts and videos!!!
This is so good and a helpful reminder for us wives that are married and been married for a length of time. I’ve been married for ten years and I still have to remind myself to keep the fire in the marriage going in spite of the kids, work life, etc. my husband comes first and I have to honor him as such. Every now and again I do ask my husband if there is anything I can improve on and majority of the time, he is pleased but there are times where I did have to pause and work on other areas. Watching this video has given me a different perspective for sure. Side note: I am looking into buying a massage table now 😂❤
Thank you for this!!!❤ this has truly blessed me and gave me 💡 ideas. My husband and I are going through it and the world is tell me to leave but God is telling me to stay.
Thank you for this. My husband is new to his faith. I have been struggling to start acting differently towards him because now he is seeing things different and acting different. This is going to help me so much. It is giving me new guidelines. I should have been doing them before but it was hard because he was an alcoholic. It made our life very hard. We have been together 20 years. He has been sober for almost a year. It had been so great.
Love it, I'm of African descent and serving and respecting the men is so huge culturally that it is so expected....might cause women here to do so mechanically and create entitlement. But when done biblically there's a lovely harvest and mutuality...thank you
This is so good. I’m single but I hope to be married again one day. If that’s what God wants for me. I feel I was headed in the right direction. But with the wrong one. Thanks for sharing. I’m learning some things as well.
Thank you so much for this. As a Christian single woman, I desire a husband that loves to pour into youth & men, because I love pouring into women, youth, etc. Yes I’m enjoying this so much & I believe I need to learn to honor & respect the men in my life, like my brother, dad, etc… it’s been challenging with my brother, but I learned that I can end up treating my partner the same way if I don’t practice this positivity toward all men. Thank you Ken & Tab for such a great service example
I find it crazy that I am a husband but I totally relate to Tabatha because my wife loves being honored, been given space and she absolutely adores being served. I am sure if i can make a Ken's night type of thing she would really love that. thank you for the great content guys.
I love this so much.. teaching us from a place of love… I learned so much today… especially the part where the wife set a King tone (atmosphere) at home…. There are so many benefits of being a Queen to your manzzz Love all the way from NAMIBIA 🇳🇦 (Africa)
Kingdom examples and experiences are amazing, Proverbs 31 woman is what you are Tabs and so inspiring to women not only in Christ but hey if it leads them into salvation then c'mon lesskkooo. Loving how you bring in the biblical verses to match the the example! Australia needs you guys on TV!
such great tips ! newly married over here :). it's nice to know that i've been doing something right! i love to see my husband cared for and happy in the ways i can do that for him as a wife ! always love watching y'all podcasts. May God bless you both
Been with my spouse 10 years and married 7 years in June! So thankful for you two it helps us a bit more knowing where to love each other and how to be a better partner so when we are faced with those hard times we have a bit of training on how to handle it! I send my husband links and he watches as well ❤
This is golddd. I got pregnant the same year we got married smh so I’m learning to be a wife and a mom at the same timee. Definitely will be taking these tips ❤
Thank you. Ken and. Tabatha I learn a lot with your topic Taking care of of your. Man because this not happen on my first. Marriage and look forward to apply this on my next partner or soulmate
I went and bought a massage table after I saw that episode. I don’t even think I waited until it was finished😂. I heard God and didn’t waste anytime 🤣 Thank you Tabatha 🙏🏾
Wow what an amazing way to care for your husband! I’m so taken back by how you, Tabatha, treat your husband. It seems like you have such a loving marriage. You’re setting such a great example for us young women who didn’t have the opportunity to see their parents loving each other well. Growing up I watched my mother dishonour my father over and over again and vice versa. Even as a child I saw the effect it had on their well being. After watching this it made me believe in godly love. I hope one day God brings me a husband so I can treat him like the king he is❤️ God I pray that you help me to honour my future husband in this way. This was so beautiful guys, really. Thank you so much for making this video and I’m excited for the next video too!
I truly appreciate your sincerity in sharing your life. We are also 24 yrs in marriage. Listening to you has being very helpful. Love you both. God bless you.
I just found your videos, and I feel like they're really helping me prepare to be a wife. I love the dynamic and energy and respect between you two, and the fun. Thank you much.
Thank you both for these gems! A lot of which you spoke of I currently do Tabitha however I have not been consistent with it. Thanks for waking up 'the Wife that I know God wants me to be'!!!
Wow! I am so blessed to ha e found ur channel! I love listening to ur videos! You 2 truly are helping me become a better wife to my husband. I receive ur wonderful advice and with the help of God I will begin to implement good seed into my marriage. I failed once as a wife but this time I will do things right in Jesus' mighty name. 🙏
Amen, I’m single but I have been married before. This has confirmed some things about the way I thought. However it has also shown me a few things I can do differently. Thanks for sharing this is great 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾✝️❤️
Thank you guys for being real. I love that you are speaking to the modern day marriage and teaching us how to live the bible out in our daily lives . So glad i found you guys ! ❤
My husband and I just watched this and OMG! What a blessing all of your videos have been to me and now my husband! Answered prayers!!🙏🏾🔥❤️ Please do tell...what was the name of the movie you watched at the theater? We said at the same time...what's the name of the movie while watching this lol. Thanks a bunch!!!❤️❤️
thank you guys so much for this!! i am currently dating and as a 25 year old i appreciate this! I am dating for marriage and i desire to cultivate a healthy marriage with my spouse when it is time! I am a curse breaker for marriage in my family! THANK YOU 🙌🏾
Praise God for giving us practical wisdom how to apply his word in day to day life! I therefore bind myself to know how and act upon doing good to my god-ordained spouse all the days of my life, likewise binding my god-ordained spouse to be good to me all the days of his life, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone treating me unright, binding to hell every lack of treating one another rigtheously in my god-ordained marriage, in accordance with this word and proverbs 31:12, colossians 3:19, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!
That intro is 🔥had me shoulder popping cause I’m excited in what I’m about to hear! 😂 keep going thank you so much for the tools you share, my relationship has grown for the better
This is so good. I’m a newlywed but I started the Chateau de Williamson Day Spa for the times when it’s all about him for pampering so he can relax and then I’m listening to this that it’s a major key. #confirmation
I am TeamTabatha all the way. Was married to a Ken for 20 years 4 months 12 days and I can attest to these nuggets! Looking forward to a Boaz to do this again❤
😂😂lord Ken, Ken that was too funny. I’m a lot like you Tabatha, so with that being said when I do get married he will be a blessed brother 😊. Thank you both ❤
Tabatha, I've heard you minister this word before but this time I heard it differently 😉. A fast will tune up your ear! 🙌🏽 Thank you big bro & big sis! Blessings!
Hey Ken and Tabatha! I admire everything about you as you a couple. I am enjoying and learning alot from your podcasts full of marriage wisdom. Its my prayer to God to have such kind of marriage wisdom like yours. By the way am getting married next year. Therefore Ken and Tabatha pray for my fiancee Siphiwe and I. May God bless you and your family too!!
