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There are at least 5 reasons to stop caring about things that don't matter in your life. Question your obsessions. Life is too short. Do you feel stuck? Do you focus on negative details? Be comfortable with who you are. Let's talk about these 5 things in our mature lives.
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@nancyparmelee4161 5 лет назад

I’ve been so focused on taking care of my mom who has dementia for the past six years that I have not taken care of myself or my own home. I’ve taken care of her, and her home and her garden and let mine go. You made me realize that I can’t make her better by knocking myself out. The more I tried to do for her the worse she treated me. Not that it’s her fault, because before this she was the sweetest most self sacrificing person I’ve ever known, but it has consumed me and kept me from my family, and when I discovered I had cancer last year it was time to make the decision to put her in a nursing home, which was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. I had a good outcome from the cancer and listening to your videos is giving me less guilt and making me feel like I’m important too. Thankyou Sandra

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Nancy, Nice to hear from you. Just know you did the best a daughter could for your mother. Dementia is a very difficult situation to handle because the person eventually becomes hostile. You did the right thing. I’m glad to hear your cancer treatment was successful. That this time going forward for you. You are worthy! Thanks for sharing today! ❤️. Sandra

@sharonworyn8024 6 лет назад

When I start to worry or get concerned about my kids or grandkids and their situations, I pray and surrender them into God's capable hands.

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Sharon, They say to let go and let God. So nice to release our burdens to a higher power, isn’t it?. Thanks for sharing. ❤️. Sandra

@catherinequann9458 3 года назад

Andrea bottelli

@marcc.5832 6 лет назад

Good morning, dear Sandra: If there was a contest for the best "mature" RU-vidr for women, I'd vote for you, hands down. It is so comforting to hear your soothing voice and words of wisdom as we begin our week. It is so lovely to watch you and feel no pressure to "fight" the aging process (an exercise in futility), or feel the need to purchase yet ANOTHER new palette, not that I would. You bring grace, beauty and wisdom to us, and all you spoke of today was absolutely correct. I needed to hear this. Thank you so very much. I hope you and Arthur are well - have a beautiful day, and God bless you! 🌹❤ Rosemarie

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Rosemarie, I am so touched by your support and warm words this morning. I really love that I do and hope that we can all learn something from one another. We are so much mor than we are given credit for overall. Thank you so much. ❤️. Sandra

@lauranugent9039 3 года назад

Such a good message we all have our own stories..I have 4dtrs left an abusive husband after many yrs got myself through nsg school raised my kids on my own got my own mortgage bought a house Im remarried after 10yrs & starting to see how strong I was through it all Im giving myself some credit we women are warriors!

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

You deserve a great big hug and a pat on the back and a medal of honor! We women are stronger than anyone could imagine when we’re put to the task. I couldn’t be happier for you and also for your wonderful daughters. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us❤️

@shirleyhook5436 6 лет назад

IT WAS LIKE YOU WERE TALKING STRAIGHT TO ME. WORDS I SO NEEDED TO HEAR. I SAT HERE AND YOU GAVE ME FOOD FOR THOUGHT THANK YOU GOD BLESS YOU SANDRA

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Shirley, We all need a voice from somewhere else once in awhile. I know I do. ❤️. Have a beautiful day. Sandra

@veejo9535 6 лет назад

Good morning Sandra, my mother used to give me the same advice when I took my worries to her. She used to repeat a quote which I am sure you know too: “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.” Have a happy day - love and blessings, Vivien 🌺💗

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Vivien, I love that quote and never tire of hearing or reading it. The truth in just one sentence. Thanks for reminding us. ❤️. Sandra

@ruth3567 6 лет назад

Hello Sandra, I have just recently stumbled upon your channel. I want to tell you how much I am enjoying your videos. I am 62 years old and recently retired. We seem to be very much alike, I have always been a highly sensitive person, enjoying the arts, music, poetry etc... I really appreciate your videos, I can tell that you truly want to help others. I agree with so many of your philosophies. However, knowing what is best and doing it are two different things. Lol. I look forward to listening to more of your thoughts. You are a beautiful spirit, and a beautiful lady. All the best to you. Ruth

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Ruth, I’m so glad you found me. Having the knowledge and then executing it and using it in our lives is the hard part, isn’t it. I struggle with control all the time. Some days I am better than others. I have a note in my refrigerator saying ‘LET GO’. I have to remind myself about the things I can’t change. ❤️. Sandra

@nancybrone7985 2 года назад

I applaud you for reaching younger women. You may save them unnecessary grief.

@Rita-bw3wh 6 лет назад

You’re just amazing Sandra! Thanks for all your support and kindness and wisdom. It’s a always a pleasure to spend mornings with you. Sending a big hug 🤗! Have a wonderful day.

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Rita,Thank you once agin for being there and spending time with me today. Have a good day tomorrow. Sandra

@jeanphilpot350 6 лет назад

Lovely video, Sandra. I tend to be a worrier and I am really trying to focus on what you talked about. Also, thank you again for always giving us such wonderful thought provoking topics so that we know we are not alone. {at least for me }. I stopped watching so many of my favorite RU-vid ladies because of the endless “anti aging” products companies are trying to sell us, the latest make up that would be lovely, but can not be afforded by so many. Your natural approach to aging inspires me. The grace you show is the best “aging” secret out there. Take care

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Jean, I am like you in that in my life, things that are meaningful to me, go beyond just makeup. Thank you for appreciating what I am all about. I love having you along with me on this road we are well traveling. ❤️. Sandra

@marleenneil7542 5 лет назад

I will replay this June 18, 2018 video over and over to remind myself of what matters. It’s just what I needed to hear at this point in my life. Thank you for helping me to refocus.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

I hope it will help you, Marlene. Thank you for letting me know. ❤️. Sandra

@redsoles1 5 лет назад

My son Andy once said “ I tried worrying but it didn’t help so I don’t “. Andy has been a Type 1 diabetic since he was 26months old. His method has obviously worked since on July 28th Andy will be 57 years old.. a lawyer a husband and a father to his own son. And he’s in excellent shape..His easygoing personality is what’s kept him so healthy and in control of his insulin injections and his diet and taking care of himself. I wasted all these years worrying about him.. now at 77 I realize

@redsoles1 5 лет назад

Oops didn’t finish my sentence.. Stop worrying and enjoy life for all the good things.. I’ve wasted too much time but I’ve stopped and that’s a good thing.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Oh, Beth, Your son is so wise. You must have done so many right things while raising him. Thanks for sharing today. ❤️. Sandra

@barbaragallant8550 6 лет назад

You are so lovely...not just visually...but wisely. I needed this. Thank you .

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Barbara, We are all in this together, so I am happy you connected with this today. Thanks for watching and sharing. ❤️. Sandra

@deniglen9259 3 года назад

Thank you SO VERY MUCH for sharing yourself and your GOOD GOOD wisdom with us, dear Lady 🥰

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

Thanks so much, Demi!❤️

@MaryEllenAfter60 6 лет назад

Good morning to you, Sandra. This is truly the most carefree time of my life, since I was a child. The older I get, the less I worry about things that really don't matter! Enjoyed. Many blessings, and joy...MaryEllen

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

MaryEllen, That’s the way it should be at this stage in our lives. Learning to let go of things that don’t matter equates a happier life.❤️. Warm wishes. Sandra

@georginaalfonsin5883 6 лет назад

MaryEllen After 60 me too Mary I'm living freely

@paramitachoudhury5161 Год назад

Dear Sandra, I believe you are an angel on earth. 🙏🏻 You are a mentor of my life too. I feel a deep emotional connection with you everyday... Thank you so much for being with us & holding our hands..❤️

@lilaclilly198 2 года назад

Hello Sandra at this moment in time I feel like a guardian Angel is watching over and guiding me. And that Angel is you🙏🏻. Everything you have spoken about in this video I needed to hear right now. I so need to let go of so much stuff…. Bless you 🙏🏻🤗🥰

@sonnysantana5454 Год назад

regrets are a painstalking waste of time to dwell upon and never stress the things beyond your control just live for the now because it's the only thing that you have

@demielu347 6 лет назад

Thank you...just what I needed to hear at this very moment. I'm 42 and love your wisdom. 💚

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Demi, Thank you! Sandra

@muhlenstedt 6 лет назад

Dear Sandra, you are bringing light to the dark corners of my mind, there where the struggles and worries turn in circles without results, just exausting me.The impact of your words is so big I believe, because it comes from your life experience and from your heart, not from books or thinking.Clearly you love the humanity and I love you!Thank you , I needed this today, I was thinking about my mother's beginni ng dementia and also I was very sad about the violence in the neighborhood.Now I feel more positively inspired to deal with these problems now.Have a great week!

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Muhlenstedt, I am sorry about your mother. That is very sad and hard to watch her decline. All of the violence in the world can be depressing, but we have to let go. Just concentrate on the things you can control, like loving and spending time with your mother. Have a nice day tomorrow. ❤️. Sandra .

@jleetxgirl 5 лет назад

It is easy to get caught up on whatever is going on around us! Thank you for the timely reminder to love yourself so we can love others. If the love fund is empty, we cannot withdraw any.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Excellent comment. Thank you. ❤️. Sandra

@jeanmasonmcmahon2515 5 лет назад

Sandra I so enjoy your videos you are a very good writer. Keep up the good work. Love to you

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Thank you, Jean. I sincerely appreciate your watching and enjoying what I am doing here. I try. ❤️. Sandra

@suziecrim9306 6 лет назад

Sandra im so glad I found u. on u tube but this is the first time im writing..Everything u. Said about the subject on things u. cannot control, is so true but I just cannot help myself..Four yrs. ago, I opened a FB, & for me, I think it was a mistake.I worry about everything & I know I cannot control the world..The thing the really kills me is cruelty, especially animals..I will go out of my way if I see anyone, that's harming animals & I try to send money have rescued but its endless, & I know u. know this..I get totally angry& anxious where its ruining my health..I can't sleep at night thinking HOW, people can do what they do..I know, I cannot control people but I have gotten worse as I age..Yes, I should be putting my energy on something else but I can't seem to & feel guilty if im not helping the voiceless..Im very blessed with wonderful husband but I try to control what I cannot..I need some words of wisdom...thank you...

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Susie, We are animal lovers, so I know exactly how you feel. We help support neuter and then release of our local cats that people leave behind when they move. It is so cruel. We have a group that feed these sweet animals and the ones that can be domesticated we find homes for them. I feed the squirrels and birds every time I take my dog for a walk. There are evil people in the world that abuse animals so all you can do is to help those in your town by donating dog food to shelters or if you are able volunteer to play or walk the shelter animals. Your caring is so heartwarming, but none of us can save all the sweet animals. Just be grateful there are good people who are working to help these abuse animals. They need your prayers, so don’t worry yourself sick or they will lose a good kind soul and advocate like you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. ❤️. Sandra

@beulahbenade4098 3 года назад

I have definitely wasted many years worrying about things beyond my control... thanks for opening my eyes so I can stop this habit

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

Beulah, I have found in my lifetime that worry is just a wasted emotion. We all do it, but the less we do the better off we are.❤️

@dianalauren4910 5 лет назад

Very well said Sandra , this has to be one of my most important and hardest life lessons . Letting go .... detaching sometimes with love .... sometimes forgiveness...having courage to move on even though you can't see the big picture .... I've had to let go of so much , but I have grown , and healed and always look for the gift of passing it on .... you sure are paying it forward , I saw it from the beginning of your you tube channel ... keep up the big lessons for us they are wholesome and full of love , and beautiful reminders of what's important ... good advice can relieve pain and struggle .... give clarity ....just sending all the best vibes your way ! From one Capricorn to Another !

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Diana, so beautifully expressed. We all have struggles, questioned our decisions and picked ourselves up and moved on. If we live life, things happen. That’s why I started my channel. We all need love and support and encouragement and my having walked through a lot, want to help others. Thank you for walking with me. ❤️. Sandra

@teresataylor9683 5 лет назад

I just recently found these videos and I'm loving watching them! I'm going on my first cruise and was feeling overwhelmed and out of touch. With Sandra's videos I'm feeling comfortable about being me as I turn 64 in a few weeks. Thank you Sandra Hart.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Happy Birthday s little early, Teresa! Enjoy your cruise and have a great time! ❤️. Sandra

@dianawright6285 8 месяцев назад

Dear Sandra thank you for the chat today about not worrying about the things you have no control over and remembering to be true to yourself. Love you. DI.

@nancybrone7985 Год назад

I return to this video as a constant reminder. It's so easy to slip back into old habits. Although I am 90, I still have a lot to learn!

@marylynch951 5 лет назад

Thank you so much Sandra I was meant to have read this this morning God bless you

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

So happy you could take away something from this today. ❤️. Sandra

@Melhut65 6 лет назад

Hi Sandra, I just sent this video to my mom. I actually think that this would be a great video that absolutely anybody could benefit from watching. My husband came down with a virus called Bell's palsy about 7 weeks ago which is a temporary paralysis of half of the face. The recovery is slow going and sometimes 2 steps forward and 3 steps back. He is doing acupuncture, meditating, drinking a tea that tastes terrible because his acupuncturist swears it will help speed up his recovery and he is eating healthy and trying to exercise when he feels like it. This virus also makes him sensitive to sound which is kind of a big deal because he is a composer. Talk about something being out of his control. The recovery could take 3 months, 6 months or as long as a year. Considering our situation, I found your words in this video to be very calming and therapeutic. Thank you for that. I really appreciate it. Have a wonderful day!

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Melhut, I know exactly what Bell’s Palsy is because my female cousin had it several years ago. Her face on one side was paralyzed. She finally recovered, but it took quite a few months. I hope your husband has a complete recovery soon. The acupuncture and meditation are great for healing and shoulders really help him. Thank you for sharing this with your mother. We have to learn to focus on those things we have control over. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️. Sandra

@VictoriasRoses 5 лет назад

I LOVE THIS! I am 51 and I feel this way right now. I really feel like time goes by so fast that when you get older you appreciate what means the most and matters. I am a worrier. I think that it is very important to spend time with those you love. I do worry about my health a lot. and I wish I would just accept that things are the way they are. Thank you for your great advice. xoxoxo Becki

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Becki, I struggle with worry all the time. It is a wasted emotion and I am getting better at having more faith that everything will work out! Let’s work on that together!!! ❤️. Sandra

@VictoriasRoses 5 лет назад

@@lifewithsandrahart Sandra, Thank you!! Yes I agree. I grew up with that thought mode and it is a good learning process to stop it now and change my mind set. I love your videos. :) Hugs!!

@joannoriol6444 6 лет назад

I can see that what you are saying is very serious and important to you. Excellent video, you always talk the truth. ❤️

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Joanne, I have had to train myself not to care about things I have no control over. It has made my life easier with less stress. ❤️. Sandra

@Kathrynh246 6 лет назад

Such great points Sandra. Especially giving up mental control over things we really don't have control over!! And obsessing! And focusing on things we care about- happy Monday gorgeous!!!😘😘😘

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Kathy, Thank you! ❤️. Sandra

@monicadenny7944 3 года назад

Hi Sandra I must say that I prefer your hair naturally curly. It is more youthful. Its more liberating to let hair do its own thing. Much love Monique

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

I have finally giving in and realize that Monica. Not only is it easier but natural is more nice I think in many ways than one.❤️

@dancingkay2604 Год назад

I needed to hear this absolutely!❤ I’ve been struggling with a depressed ill relative…all my emotions trying to help him, my own family, myself neglected…he’s so selfish…sorry, I felt like you’ve lifted off a ton of weight, trying to FIX him…thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼God Bless

@madalenadafabio6674 5 лет назад

Dear Sandra! I watch you everyday, even repeated videos, all-ways you make me so happy and relaxed...thank you so much...I have been learning a lot with you ...I’m blessed that I found you...I love you...God bless you and your family

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Madalena, I always love hearing from you. God bless and thank you. ❤️. Sandra

@claudiascott6484 5 лет назад

Thank you Sandra. This was so very helpful. You are such a wise and warm hearted lady. GOD bless☺🐦🎤

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

So happy Your could takeaway something from this, Claudia. ❤️ Sandra

@1212salsera 5 лет назад

I've watched this video twice and will surely watch it several times more. Very important messages. I am able to hear your message because you radiate kindness and caring. Thank you.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

I hope it will help. Thank you. ❤️. Sandra

@Yottabee 5 лет назад

Sandra, you're such a balm for the eyes, ears, mind, and heart! Thank you!! 🏵️🏵️🏵️🏵️

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

That is so kind of you. Thank you so much. ❤️ Sandra

@dulcehajjar5826 3 года назад

Agree 🤗❤️🌷💐👏 Sandra is amazing human being 👏 Hugs to you Yottabee 🤗🌷

@vikkifossum4959 2 года назад

Never stop, Sandra!! Your husband is back & I so appreciate reading each & every comment that women are making. It would be nice to include all of them in a book. March 1, 2022♥️♥️♥️

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Aren’t they wonderful ! I’m enjoying each and every one!

@sharonporter8402 3 года назад

Thank you for your wisdom! Life is crazy and you have a way of putting it into prospective 😍

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

Thank you Sharon. Sometimes it takes an outside voice help us understand our own lives.❤️

@zarinajohnston4164 5 лет назад

Sandra, that was so true, You truly understand life, we are on the same road, and can learn from each other. Thank you. Zarina.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Zarina, we can, can’t we. Thanks for sharing. ❤️. Sandra

@clausdd7707 5 лет назад

Sandra you are absolutely right. I am at that stage where I am thinking about downsizing. I like yourself have been thru alot. I can't believe I made it this far. I think about what you are saying all the time. Thank you Sandra. Santa from nonna santa in cucina.💗

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Hello and thanks for commenting and sharing! We are survivors. ❤️. Sandra

@DebbieHerbert 4 года назад

thanks for sharing your wisdom. I thought by age 62 life would be a breeze but it's not and this helps so much

@reathawaddell3940 5 лет назад

You are very encouraging...Thank you...At 66 it seems to me a lot of repeats...And I have neglected myself...

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Well, it’s never too late, Reatha. You deserve the best. ❤️. Sandra

@ligialuca5026 3 года назад

You are a beautiful and wise lady, I learn a lot from you.

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

Thank you so much for your kindness and for being here.❤️

@autumnflower8524 6 лет назад

That You for every word of Wisdom!! May God guide us, All!

@coraluz3247 2 года назад

Thank you so much sweet lady. Thank you for your down to earth and so real RU-vid channel. Bless you!

@lindajackson8389 6 лет назад

Thank you Sandra I needed the reminder. The waterfall or swimming pool water sounds were soothing and your patio is pretty. Have a wonderful day and again thank you for sharing.

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Linda, Good evening. I really like filming outside whenever I can. We have had so much rain recently everything is so green. Thanks for watching. Have a great week. . ❤️. Sandra

@allier.9193 2 года назад

I’m so glad I found your channel. I’m 32. I Care so much about what others think and just want people to be happy with me. I have severe panic and anxiety. I’m pregnant with baby number 2 and I feel like enough is enough. I need to figure me out so I can be the best me for my kids

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

The more you concentrate on you and your welfare and self care and the less you care what people think, the happier and better off you will be. Age has helped me realize that.

@graceplease7958 5 лет назад

Miss Sandra, I can't possibly thank you enough. I think I may be making this video a daily viewing. What a message I desperately needed to hear. Blessings to you.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Grace, I’m so happy this has helped. Let go of the things that don’t matter in your life. ❤️. Sandra

@twinklestar1367 2 года назад

Thank you for your words of wisdom, Sandra. Love those sunglasses, too!

@coffeebeforemascara 6 лет назад

What a wonderful video. Words of wisdom. I thank you for sharing it's good food for thought. It really spoke to me too I worry about too much and need to let go and focus on what matters most.

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Let go of those situations you can’t control and care about those that you can. ❤️. Sandra

@sandrabentley1420 5 лет назад

Excellent comments, thank you, very helpful. Saved this to listen over and over. Subscribed today.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Sandra, Hello and Welcome. So excited you found me and letting me know you will be on this pro aging journey. Thanks so much for subscribing. ❤️. Sandra

@juanbarboza-roa9414 5 лет назад

I just discovered your channel few days ago and can’t really stop watching it. U r so wise and even though you may think in youtube as a connection with other women living the same stage as yours, I want u to know that for a guy on his twenties your message passes through his spirit and makes him feel really proud and hopeful about the generation we need to reflect ourselves on, as the mirror that we want to find for our future. Am glad to know how much u like Argentina. Kind regards xxx

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Juan, Hola y gracias. What a beautiful post filled with mature spirit! Thank you for watching and letting me know you are here. Your generation will be fine. ❤️. Sandra

@skierty2 6 лет назад

Sandra, what wise words......I wish I heard that message when I was way younger.....I have wasted a lot of time worrying about things I can't control.....the older I get I realize that you have to chose the things you worry about.....I can remember sooo much wasted time ......I think for me it has to be a control thing I want to be able to control things and worrying about the outcomes of things is a control thing to an extent. You are right it is an everyday thing to work on. I absolutely love your talks giving me sooo much to think about......hope your enjoying your summer.....:-).....Debbie

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Debbie, I agree. I do think it’s a control thing. I have been so guilty of that. I am learning every day what I really should care about.and it is allowing me to live a more fulfilled and happier life. Letting go can be good. ❤️. Sandra

@user-gh3fd2ub7s 3 года назад

I am delighted to see you.l am obsessed about my family as well.l don't see them very often because of the covid.l feel better as l have joined you.l have a feeling you are talking only to me and cheering me.This makes me feel so good, and l am not so lonely.God bless you,dear Sandra!

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

Thank you very much. We have to have each other‘s support❤️

@jongreen163 2 года назад

Thanks for your help and I appreciate your time and understanding

@CT-hm1yn 6 лет назад

Once again a wonderfully inspiring video thankyou xx

@mariellegrant6248 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much Sandra, for such wise words! They will be very helpful for me! 🌹🙏❤️

@Marthacraftsandmore 6 лет назад

Thank you for reminding us of what is truly important. You have so much wisdom, I just love to listen to you Sandra. God bless.🙏🏻❤️

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Martha, I always enjoy hearing from you. Thank you so much and thank you for your support. We al have struggles, don’t we. None of us escape. ❤️ Sandra

@valveloso12 4 года назад

Thanks a lot, Sandra! You are a wonderful person.

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

Thank you, Valeria. ❤️. Sandra

@mariaaquije520 4 года назад

Wise advices and thoughts. It made me reflect about my life. Thank you Sandra❤

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

I’m glad it did. ❤️. Sandra

@marissaclaridge7627 2 года назад

Hello Sandra...thank you SO much for your wonderful videos...you are wonderfulxxx

@susanrudek9356 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra!!!

@GwenMotoGirl 5 лет назад

Watching this jewel of information for the second time today. Thank you.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Gwen, I am glad you are taking something from this today. Things that don’t matter shouldn’t take up space in our lives. ❤️. Sandra

@ibelieveinangelsyesido7436 6 лет назад

Lots of wisdom & friendship in this little corner of youtube! Loved today's message, Sandra. Blessings! Jackie in NY state

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Thank you Jackie. Have a nice day tomorrow. ❤️. Sandra

@maryannknox7158 5 лет назад

So True thank You for this insight

@wendycarter5973 3 года назад

Oh Sandra your so lovely thankyou your help and advice is a god send 🙏🌈💝xxx

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

Wendy, Thank you❤️

@ranjaitjaswal8030 2 года назад

Thank you Sandra I have learned to put priorities to situations and to manage my health and set goals before I get worn down.Have been trying to watch all your videos ❤️🇨🇦Toronto

@upstatenewyork 4 года назад

You are so interesting. I love how you reference your own life experiences and let people get to know you via your vlogs. I find you amazing and can’t thank you enough for the wisdom you share. It is so needed. Thank you Sandra. 🌷

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

Stephanie, Thank you for watching these videos. I try to share as much as I can and keep it as real as I can. I appreciate your opinion. ❤️

@bernadettealmeida2847 4 года назад

Great advise Sandra ,no more energy I can’t control but I learned this the wiser and older I got we must beleive in ourselfs,I know what I hold close, my path, and my commitment thanks Sandra 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒👒😊✊🇺🇸😎

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

Thank you, Bernadette. ❤️. Sandra

@luannstewart9031 6 лет назад

Thanks Sandra for these words of wisdom. So appreciate your sharing. May you have a wonderful day.

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Luann, Thanks for watching and spending time with me this evening. ❤️. Sandra

@joannakuchta1014 2 года назад

Sandra Thank you.......you do not know, how much you helped me, thank you:)❤

@chantalariane392 2 года назад

Thanks you dear Sandra ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@mylenaj2123 5 лет назад

Thank you for those words. ....I see myself learning so much from you. Thank you Sandra.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Thank you, Mylena. ❤️. Sandra

@mylenaj2123 4 года назад

Oh No,THANK YOU, Sandra when I was 21 my best friend Lisa Leben was 91, she taught me so much , imagine she had moved to South Beach and had divorce her husband in New York City in the forties , she was so smart and beautiful just like you.

@oraogle2294 6 лет назад

Thank You Sandra for this talk. It makes so much sense. I can identify with this so much. Thank You again!

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Ora, We all have challenges and the problem is choosing which really matter, isn’t it? ❤️. Sandra

@elizabethmcluskie9370 2 года назад

Wow huge respect for you Sandra you have walked the walk and can talk to us for encouragement

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

I have lived a life that I never planned

@marysmyth8288 4 года назад

Thank you Sandra for your wisdoms..you are very special for caring for our humanity

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

Thank you so very much Mary for recognizing that I really do care.❤️

@abigailenrile7631 4 года назад

Thank yOu Sandra. This spoke volumes to me. I am thankful for your advice. This is soo true. God bless you.

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

Thank you! ❤️. Sandra

@AnnMitt 3 года назад

Watching this video May 2021. Such a perfect video for this time in my life. Is RU-vid reading my mind?!?

@lifewithsandrahart 3 года назад

It’s great news that this topic resonates with you right now. ❤️

@kathleencharniak6307 4 года назад

Found your channel a few weeks ago. I appreciate you sharing your life.

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

Kathleen, I’m so happy that you found me and that you have decided to join our group of wonderful subscribers here on this journey. I cover a variety of subjects that I think all of us are interested in. As I said earlier to one of my subscribers we are not one of the women and we have a lot of interest and issues that we are concerned about and we want to pursue to help us through the very best life ever going forward.❤️

@107porkchop 2 года назад

Thank you. Just saw this video, and it happened to be just what I needed to not feel isolated in situations. Again, thanks.

@lifewithsandrahart 2 года назад

Thanks Patricia.

@kathycook1815 5 лет назад

Such a great lesson to learn as we age - thank you so much for being yourself Sandra - powerful information for us all.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Thanks, Kathy! ❤️ Sandra

@doodlebug2557 4 года назад

Hi Sandra this came up in my feed today and so I re-watched it and wow! What an insightful video and so helpful for me today in my life! Thank you love you!

@lifewithsandrahart 4 года назад

Well, thank you, Kimberly. I’m so happy you found this video discussion and glad that it may have helped you today. ❤️. Sandra

@dianen6638 5 лет назад

Thank you Sandra, I really needed your wisdom, your kind words today.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Diane, I am happy you got something from this! ❤️. Sandra

@lilaclilly198 2 года назад

May you live for ever, Your a beautiful human being inside and out😘

@seasoneddiva160 6 лет назад

Such sage advice. I really am taking this to heart...life changing. Thank you Sandra

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Thank you for watching, SeasonedDiva! ❤️. Sandra

@pinkysison8786 6 лет назад

Thank you for your uplifting words of wisdom. I needed it today .

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

You are welcome, Pinky. I’m glad you could get something out of it yesterday. ❤️. Sandra

@donnabrown1679 5 лет назад

Wonderful advise and ever so true, thank you for your wisdom.

@lifewithsandrahart 5 лет назад

Donna, Thank you. ❤️. Sandra

@Mary-hm1gt 6 лет назад

The first 2 minutes of the video are really thought provoking. We all face different problems in life, and so for each of us our focus could differ, but so true what you say Sandra! We should focus on what we can control, and have believe in ourselves, this may not solve all our problems but will surely help. Yes! We are the caretakers of the world.

@lifewithsandrahart 6 лет назад

Mary, We really are the nurturers of mankind. We are also sometimes carrying heavy burdens that we can’t control. I know I have had to learn to put those aside and focus on those that I really care about and can work through. Thanks for sharing. ❤️. Sandra