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I found it interesting about the "independence" factor. My first husband wanted me completely dependent. My precious second husband just died at 93 and after 33 years all he cared about was that I was by his side. Anything I did, wanted or whatever, was just fine with him. I ask the Lord every day to tell him how much I love him and I'll love him for all eternity.

I think of the very true line from the 80’s movie, Sex, Lies & Videotape. “Men learn to love the person they’re attracted to, and women become more and more attracted to the person they love.”

Beware men seeking a nurse or a purse

I married for the first time at age 55 two years ago...I was willing to spend my life being single vs being unhappy with the wrong guy just to be married. Making me laugh was high on my list along with being kind...He is both...everyday with my husband is fun, full of laughs, and especially love...I’m so blessed 💖 Sandra, you look especially beautiful today!!

You told young boys didn't find you attractive when you were younger, looking at you it's hard to believe that. You are still a beautiful woman.

I'm 73, very youthful and independant, and am not looking for a man. But if he shows up and he's a Christian who is smart, funny, and caring, I won't tell him to go away. 😉

Does it matter what men want? Enjoy your life, have some close friends, make a lovely life for yourself, and help others, If a great man for you comes along then great, if he doesn't then great. You shouldn't find validation in someone else it comes with you. Strive to be happy whether with a man or not.

I agree with you on what we women (or at least myself) look for in a man. When I was looking for a man after divorcing my first husband, I was 52. All I wanted was someone who was kind. Well, he turned out to be the kindest man ever. He said he was attracted to my looks when he first met me; however, we soon discovered we had a love for adventure travel. For the past 10 years we've gone everywhere from the Congo to Antarctica. My feeling is that as a woman, I take care of my physical appearance, but I also have a passion for traveling and animals. My main advice for women is to find someone who is kind and will put you first and adore you.

I really agree with you about women being attracted to kindness, and I would also say, someone safe... A lot of guys are angry these days...

I'm turning 60 early next year and think and feel I know exactly what I want in life now. I have learned to love myself and take good care of me.. Since I got divorced I worked on myself and established my boundaries. This is the time of my life I feel complete and found happiness from within. More men pay attention to me now, they say my positive energy is very attractive. I enjoy all the attention, if any man meets my standards that will amplify my happiness that'll be great! I'd rather stay single and content than be with the wrong company.

I’m a 62year old man and the first thing I look at is a woman’s appearance, she doesn’t have to be beautiful but she has to do the best she can with what was dealt her, (men should do the same) she has to be confident in herself and look at each day as a blessing regardless of the circumstances, and BTW Sandra.. your a doll

I agree😊 I'm 49 and met my partner a year ago. He wasn't my type, i wasn't physically attracted to him but he made me laugh and and we just got along it was so easy to be with him. Thank goodness I gave him a chance as he is perfect for me, what I need and such a gentleman and now I adore him😘

Best advice I ever got: Go out with lots of men on separate dates, do NOT sleep with any - get to know them as friends. If one or two drop off, you won't be sad and will still have the others to keep you company. When the star hitter shows up, cut the rest of the team loose. Also, if you do meet someone, maintain SEPARATE properties/residences and just "date" him - go on holidays together, family events etc, stay over at each other's places - ensure you have a pre-nup or contracting out agreement in place. You're not his Mummy or his Nursie ..... he can afford his own medical care and hospital cover/insurance. Also, don't for a moment be naïve enough to believe that he's planning to be monogamous and exclusive with you (unless he's old, sick and needy - i.e. undatable). If you find him attractive, many others will too. You need to be okay with that. MOST men will lie to your face "Of course you're my one and only darrrrling, sweetheart" - yeah right. Ladies, I am a REALIST - Greetings from New Zealand.

I used to work with a woman who always told stories about Charlie, her husband of more than 20 years. At lunch one day she told me that although she loved Charlie if he should die she wouldn’t remarry. She said it was because of the perpetual series of grinding compromises. In my 30s I taught hand quilting to mostly married women in their 50s - 60s. They all said the same thing, that they wouldn’t remarry. Now that I’m 67, I’m glad that I never married. Men require too much looking after. They want to take charge of the important decisions but they want me to take care if the much more frequent details: grocery shopping, cooking, tidying the house, scheduling medical appointments, reminding them to take their medicine, making travel arrangements, remembering birthdays, weddings, graduations, etc. And on top of those things, I should always look good and be ready for sex. Phooey!

Hi Sandra, you are a beautiful woman inside and out. I was married at 23 to a fun loving man. He got sick at a very young age and decided not to open a pharmacy but work for one. He said to me, "we are going to play the rest our lives". He was 23 and the doctors told him he had about 5 years to live. He was diagnosed with Hotchkins Disease. We had our two beautiful girls and they played with us. Snow skiing, we had a boat and water skied, tennis, bowling. sky riding, you name it. We were married for 42 years! He has been gone for 12 years Loads of fun, but I never felt like my own person, I was into my husband who I loved very much. I am now well grounded and learned to fend for myself. I would love to meet some one who loves life and adventures, and has a great smile. I was against it for a long time , but all of a sudden I'm getting that feeling again. I am 78 have always worked out so I'm still in pretty good shape, as good as you can be at 78. Not looking for marriage as I'm happy by myself and my animals. But would like to meet a kind healthy man with a sense of humor.

my wife and i were drawing apart. we had different interests. then she had a stroke. she realized she needed me and i was so scared of losing her. we came together and our love for each other grew so strong. lost her now but will always love her. for me the most important trait is inner beauty.

I'm looking for a friend first, friendship is important this stage first, friendship first with no rush, no pressure mm

Sandra, it's very true . Im in my late late 40s!!!! And i would rather have some man who was kind good natured and generous in spirit. Men are visual..... but not all people that look good, are good , it's great to have someone you can laugh with and just be your self....

I met my husband when I was 14 years old at a dance. He asked me to go steady (be his steady girl) on that same night I met him and I said yes. We stayed together and got married when I was 18 years old (he was 22) . That was 1962 . Yes, we are still married and very happy. But independence? No way. I guess we are stuck in being old fashioned. He always did the driving if we were both going somewhere together and he still does. He paid for all of our dates. He was always the gentleman but I was expected to always be the lady. He opens my car door and still does. I was also surprised that none of those you interviewed said they wanted a good cook. My husband would have put that first. I learned how to make all of his families ethnic dishes and to this day I honestly think he loves my cooking abilities very much. If I were gone and he had to choose another I am certain if she could not cook he'd be gone. Also no one mentioned looking for one of the same faith, or morals. Anyway it was a very interesting video. I do think a little independence is good but not too much. I believe our 58 years of marriage and still going is because we both gave up a lot of our independence. Just a thought.

I really enjoyed this topic... thank you! I’m 64 my first husband died when I was in my 30’s with a 6 and 4 year old. I dated a bit and had a serious relationship that didn’t work out. After that I decided to stop looking until the children were raised. I really stopped looking and was just enjoying my life. When I was 50 a guy from my work asked me out. I knew he was a Christian and I knew he had been a faithful and caring husband. So I went out for coffee and we had so much fun!! I hadn’t laughed so hard in years. We had so much in common. I really appreciated the fact that he pursued me. I realized I had never been pursued before! I highly recommend it

Qualities I as a healthy and active woman in her 70's want in a partner: Intelligence, character, kindness, zest for life, healthy and fit (including sexual health), active lifestyle, good conversationalist, and being at peace with who he is.

For me (and I’m 70 and almost 71), the very first thing I would search for (am married and not searching) would be a man who loves the Lord Jesus Christ and is rooted and grounded in Him. Because, if you find a man like that, he would know Christ’s love and from that would be able to love me, as Christ loved the church. Everything else is superficial but having a heart for God......well, that is so very beautiful. Substance.❤️❤️❤️

Just be careful ladies over 60 that your title is not "nurse"!

Nothing worse than "old man smell." He would have to have great hygiene! That's really at the top of my list, along with groundedness, compassion, integrity, honesty, etc. He would have to be able to sit at the table of honorable men! No alcoholics or drug abusers at this table!

“Supportive and interested in him plus independent” translates to “Be around when I need your attention, but when you need me you can take care of yourself.” Aha.

I’m a 65 widow that had a wonderful marriage for many years with a Godly man. Top requirements (desires?) now. 1. Kind and joyful spirit 2. Sense of humor 3. Active and healthy 4. Clean and neat 5. Financially independent

It really shows how self-centred men are (especially earlier in life, as you got up to 80 this was less) and how the most "attractive traits in a woman" are still solely about HIM. Like you said, no concern for his children, family, etc. It was how she could support him, how attractive she was for him, etc. It's wild to see that comparison really, because as a woman, it's about consistency, loyalty, etc., traits that would help us both in the relationship.

I think it was Dr James Dobson that said: "We all know men can see better than they can think". LOL. For me a man must have my same spiritual beliefs. Plus: honesty, intelligent, kind, similar interests, fun, health oriented, educated, good provider, loves to travel, soulmate, good manners and grooming, and good with conversation. I checked all these areas out before I married my husband and we have been married 50 years which we both can hardly believe. Time goes by fast when you are having fun. Enjoyed your topic.

If I was looking for a man, he must share my spiritual beliefs, be mostly selfless, be kind, outgoing, thoughtful...willing to help out around the house...NOT be totally dependent on me for his needs...not be critical or stubborn... all the things my husband is and has been for me for over 41 years...basically infatuated with me…proud to be with me and to consider me a treasure...!!!

Fun topic! Summary Teen boys: Pretty face Trendy Smells good Good personality Likes what he likes Men in their 30s: Attractive Good listener Supportive of his goals and dreams Independent Compatibility - common interests and goals Men in their 50s: Good sense of style Excellent sense of humour - Uplifting personality Confidence in herself Decisive on what they want in life, not vacillating or bending to their will Men in their 70s: Passion for life Great sense of humour Good conversation Good listener Independent - can stand on her own two feet Men in their 80s: Soft, Natural beauty Self-confident, knows what she wants, doesnt worry about age Sense of humour Interested in life, joie-de-vivre, willing to do things wih him Grounded in good values, down to earth Women over 60 :) Character Kindness Intelligence Grounded Loves your children and grandchildren Older men who want in depth honest relationship, want to be with someone who understands his music and his era, more than just being with a younger woman. (Didn't catch them all, but that's it in a nutshell.) Please do men in their 20s, 40s, 60s and 90s! :)

I agree with this video. I have often heard men love woman that smell good, we are prehistoric beings and scent was a big part of the hunt still is. Men love when woman listen to them go on and on usually a story you have heard a million times but you respond as if you have heard it for the first time.They love to be heard and acknowledged. The also really love the word "thank you" for the simplest act they do. Watch their face light up the next time they do a simple act and you thank them for it.

I'm 52 and single for last decade. No kids. Yet to find a man who enjoys company with an independent minded yet traditional girl. But I'm not complaining. I'm starting off an education venture of mine at 52 and I want to be working and well maintained till 80.

Goodness I have been married for 33 years. We basically got married at 19 years old. We have grown so much. We have changed so much too. As we get older our relationship means so much to both of us. We are still growing together even after all of these years.

I totally agree with all of your points on what men want in a lady. My husband and I both have great sense of humors and laugh so much every day. Laughter is the best medicine!

We celebrated ou 61st wedding anniversary yesterday. You are right on the mark with your research. I cannot imagine having another partner but if I did it would a person who is kind, thoughtful and with a zest for living. Looks fade but these qualities are priceless.

Hi Sandra. I love that you find such interesting topics to discuss. I agree with what the older men said. I'm 60 and have been married to my husband for 37 years. I would say when we were young and first met, that our relationship was based on more of a physical attraction and that over the years, our communication has gotten so much better. We talk about everything and we're best friends. Since my husband retired, we've been traveling the world and discovered that this is something we both love. Now, we're renovating an old apartment in Georgia (Europe) and are having the time of our lives. I guess you could say we've really grown together.

Thank you again. Me personally, I love being single because it's so much more easier and peaceful. I have been married twice and was engaged to be married a third time but thank God I dodged that bullet. Marriage these days is nothing like it was in the past. I find men to be a lot of WORK. Men these days are not really looking for wives, they are looking for MAMMIES...Not Mothers, but MAMMIES. They want someone to take care of them but hardly do much of anything to take care of their partners. Now most men expect women to agree with SHARING a man. That's craziness to me. Anyway, Sandra I'm totally LOVING you and your Channel.

I've just turned 61 and learned a long time ago that I wanted a man who wanted me just a tad more than he needed me. I'm a strong female and have dated many men who needed me more than they wanted me. And I felt used and drained. I don't know that I'll ever even date again (I have health issues) but I'll still find happiness in every day. ❣️

As far as men...well they too should be more conversational and take interest and be a good listener.

I am 38 and was feeling over the hill. Thank you for this. I’ve been working on my healing and self confidence. 💕

Sandra, not only are you a beautiful lady with a beautiful spirit to match but I can’t believe that you actually take the time to reply to EVERY person that made a comment on your video! Wow!, I have the ultimate respect for you. Thank you for you! Much❤️ from PA.

I think ultimately in a relationship, both sides want the same thing. We all crave support, good hygiene (I hear this a lot from the young crowd lol), respect of common interests/values, compatibility, attraction and humor.

Self-confidence is always a good attribute for everyone because who wants to feel the pressure that another adult depends personally on you ? You both need to be able to be a complete person without having to possess a "second half".

Handsome, smart, kind, financially secure.....a good cook.

I’m going to share this with my daughter, who’s 33, when or if she asks. She hasn’t made finding a companion much of a priority since college. Grad school, work, internship - she’s busy reaching her own goals. I admire (envy sometimes) the way she’s been able to move forward without worrying about what her husband wants! Still, I think it would be good for her to have a partner at some point because life has challenges and it’s great to have someone who’s on our side. The men in your survey seem to know that too. Keep up the good work Sandra! I like your clear thinking and I appreciate you!

I am 20 and I really like to take each piece of advice of somebody that has had so many opportunities to get experiences. I am glad you are sharing this and everything else with your community so everyone can have the opportunity to grow.

I believe the greatest attribute men of all ages desire is respect. For me, the top things I desire in a man are kindness, intelligence, integrity, loving nature for people, and physical fitness. I agree with what you said,, and women do think differently because of our maternal instinct.

I am done too. Never thought I would feel this way. But after this last relationship, nope, done, no more. I am happy with my family.

Very enlightening, Sandra. I realise that there is a lot of compromise in a relationship, but it sure seems like the thing that never changes for men is that they are only interested in what they can get out of it! Women can’t help being the ones trying to please their partner - or else we would not be trying to figure out what they want and how we can give it to them!

I appreciate all the research you did, Sandra, to find out what men are looking for. It is so much more complex to be in a relationship as we get older. It's almost more important to know what you don't want, than do. Experience helps with that.

My first marriage of 19yrs, my husband wanted me to be a stay home mom n I was. My Current relationship he wants me independent n to pay half of everything. I loved being a stay at home mom n miss that life so much but my kids are all grown now. I liked that my exhusband felt it was important to be the sole provider but I did feel helpless when I divorced bcuz I had no work experience n started from the bottom.

New here! Just found you and thoroughly enjoyed listening to you. I’m turning 60 next year and my husband works so much he comes home and doesn’t really talk to me. This was enlightening! I often hear that men only think about sex, even older ones, which we aren’t having, haven’t in a long time. Watching and listening to you made my day! Thank you! 😊

Enjoying all the variety you put in your content, this was a fun one! With love and support, XOXO

Sandra - you are spot on with your observations. I am in my early 70s and have been widowed for four years. My husband and I were truly soulmates and married for 48 years. I thought I would never have (or want) another partner. However, life alone after so much togetherness is very lonely. For several months I have been dating and find men my age are looking for exactly what you describe. The only other consideration I have come across that you didn’t mention is financial independence. I can’t speak for other women but it is something to consider. Wealth or lack of it is certainly not a good reason to be attracted to ... or to be attractive to someone. However, it does play a role in relationships, especially if they become long term, serious or result in co-habitating or marriage. So keeping that in mind, it is likely something both women and men are considering when looking to develop a relationship. As always, you have wonderful advice and are a blessing to us all.

I agree. As inhave gotten older sex has become less important. Character is most important.

Sandra thank you for sharing from your heart! You are so uplifting and exemplify the natural beauty of an attractive woman who is sharing hope and love for women every where.. love your message and just subscribed! 💖

I think it’s all true from the teenage to the older men.

I’m an attractive women in my 50’s and have to agree with a most of the comments. My experience is that men don’t want to admit they are getting older so they try to find young women. It is a candy store on the Internet these days with plenty to choose from and they become experts. My ex was proposing marriage to every woman he started a conversation with and this was about 10 women at a time! They all fell for it. When I meet men my age they seem horrified or panicked when they realize I’m over 5O - it’s such a double standard because I give them a chance. Tired of these men who are in denial about their own age and looks. They really can date endlessly on the internet. I’m hoping to meet someone through sheer grace and circumstance !

Greetings from Los Angeles! Thank you for your advice ❤ I’m 36 y.o. and love watching your videos. I wish there were more women like you. 3 years ago my divorce finalized. I put myself out there and a loving and caring man found me. The best part is I’m still growing and striving to be a better version of myself.✨

I need to wait to see the inside of a man because they seem to change, at least in my case. I have made poor choices in the past and I'm done.

Dearest Sandra, I heard we could see Mars tonight! So I ran out after dusk on my balcony. I called out to Mars. (He did not answer) I could not see it yet... I came back inside and found you on here talking about Mars. Serendipitous ! I had to tell you. Now I will watch the Video. Thank God for making you!

I am a 67 year old woman, & I would love a companion who would be able to talk about ideas, instead of just things, be passionate about something; whether it be a hobbie, Grandkids, animals

These answers are so interesting Sandra. Thank you for doing the work of approaching these men. We're always learning from you and your life research. You're a gem. 🌹

Thank you! I am grateful and happy hearing this! I am sixty five years old now! Bringing happiness into my life is all that I need to know about!

Sandra I love love this subject! My 5 things are this, a man who can tell me life stories.....not blow his own trumpet, real life stories (intelligent), good hygiene, sense of humor (I love love laughing), and caring towards humanity and the world. Sandra I could probably make it to 10. I dance alone for this very reason. Thank you Sandra for being here! Much love!

I have a 52 year old friend who has never been married. She's does Internet dating and longs for marriage. She's smart, educated, funny, kind, and financially secure. But, she doesn't know beans about style, makeup, or maximizing her looks. She's been dumped over and over after a few dates. Bottom line, it's about physical attraction for men. Because of the Internet they have a vast pool to choose from. They are like kids in a candy store. I would hate to be single looking for a marriage partner.

I'm almost 59 and remarried 2 years ago to a loving kind man of 60. I think it's a good reminder of what men like and appreciate. When we were dating I flinched rather than laughed at his attempt to tease because of my past emotionally abusive marriage. He said, How am I going to be able to tease you if I think you might react that way? I gradually relaxed and he teases me all the time and I love it. It WAS important to him. He also witnessed my response and watched how I handled a situation with a rental property from out of state and was very impressed. So he valued that too. You are a delight and with all this isolation it's nice to find you.

Just your face and way of thinking tells me that you’re a fine person inside and out. Great video Sandra.

I'm a single 72. I am healthy have a decent income and live in a great apt. I'm looking for a healthy.fit man who has a decent income. Not wealthy but doesnt want a mother to take care of him. Who likes to go to. the theater. Short trips.walks. who can cook. Lives in a nice place. Clean and neat dresser. Good conversationalist. Kind to everyone. Can laugh at himself. Is open about his family and has good relationship with them.

You are exactly right!! It take years to gain that wisdom!!

After a few boyfriends that were not right for me, I realized I should choose a partner in part by affinities, as I do with friends. It seems obvious now, but it really wasn't before. Laughing is a very important thing to me. There was a woman at work that was 40 years older than me and because she was always laughing I thought: I want her to be my friend. It was great. We were always laughing and she taught me a lot of things before she passed away. I also realized with time that no matter how you look, there is someone who thinks you are beautiful. You just have to date a lot to find them. Sometimes, things you don't like in your body are the same things that attract men.

Interesting..I agree with you. I am 65 -widowed for 13 years . It was foremost to me about the blending of families. How someone would treat my children and grandchildren.

Thank you so much Sandra for such an interesting topic! I think there is a huge difference between what women want and men can offer. We might want an independent partner and all the other desires, but the truth is now that a lot of men are online dating and there are no or not many decent men who are open to start a relationship as the candystore on internet is 24 hours open! I am 54 years old, looking much younger and have been flying around the world for 30 years and very independent but would love to have a relationship with a like minded soul who has also practiced personal /spiritual development and is caring, compassionate, empathetic, supportive and makes me laugh and wants to share my passion for all kinds of food, dancing salsa, enjoying life, but also has his own life. I can offer the same and I would love a man who has a passion for different cultures and has traveled the world as I have experienced it is such a big way to get to know other cultures and people and also a big lesson to knoe yourself very well. Well I wanted to experience online dating while I was flying around the world and got to meet a lot of men from all over the world, but cultural differences can be a big NO! I am a very independent woman, but a lot of men cannot deal with an independent woman who makes her own decisions I have experienced during my conscious dating time. Only North-American and European men can deal with independent women most of the times. Apart fro this I noticed that men do not have the intention to invest in a new relationship after a painfull breakup and another important factor is: men do not easily resolve their trauma or work on their traumas/personal development or issues in life as women work on their personal/spiritual development so there is a big shortage in men who are conscious and aware and awake. TI have met many men who were married for 25 years and then got divorced and hop easily and quickly from a 25 marriage to online dating and then they are overwhelmed with all the women who want to have a date with them. It is such a candystore for them and the not conscious men stay dating as it is very exciting for men and very addicting for them and the good women who have a lot to offer stay single as a lot of women have stated here. That is in short a huge challenge/problem for women who are single. You can want all the caracteristics in a men, but if there are no men available in life then we have to keep on going by ourselves and take care of our own life and make it as much fun, enjoyable as possible! I think I would go on a cruise for a couple of months like your husband as it is a grate way to meet nice and kind people, have a drink with them or dinner with them and enjoy the sunsets from all over the world! Or organize a dating cruise? Who knows what the future will bring...but I am a people person who loves her freedom. Thank you Susan for this great topic which applies for almost everyone. We all want more or less the same after 40, but the supply and demand is a huge challenge nowadays because of the online dating candystore. Sometimes I wished we could live for a month in the 70/80ties again when life was pretty simple without mobile phone and internet and just meet eachother and talk to eachother and go to nice dance places for style dancing! 😊Dancing by the way is a great and fun way to meet people! I just got to know your chaneel Susan and I love it! You could be my mother age wise, but feel more as a friend and by the way I love the way you look and dress and all the topics you address! You could be a flightattendant as well as they are also very young at heart, easy to talk to, caring and love the same topics which you talk about. Say hello to your daughter who is also a flightattendant if I heard it well from me. Much love from The Netherlands 🌷💜🌺

Thank you Sandra. I'm a 35 year old female but it's interesting to see what 'matters' later on in life... I suspect it's much the same for women too. 🙂

Sandra, Thank you so much! I found this video deeply helpful! ❤ I’ve translated it to my mum and we discussed it together. I’m 19 and she’s 51, both single but of course we want another scenario:) Million thanks to you! Great conversation, great analysis 🙏🏼❤️

Great advice. I’m really grateful for these nuggets of wisdom. We may not have women in our lives who open up to share, but we have you and that’s enough ❤️

As a mature woman myself & to answer to your question, I feel that good character, kindness, sense of humor, compatibility & similar interests are the first and foremost qualities I would look for in a man. Thank you...it's my first time watching your channel! 💟💜💟

When I was younger I looked for the artificial, now its so much different. He needs to be grounded and have a sense of humor and to be a person of good character. I just turned 68 and things have changed but I am still pretty much myself. I have always been independent, perhaps too much and I tend to believe this scares a man of weak character. I have reached a time in my life where I am happy and totally content with me.

You are leaving us younger women , such a gift! Thank you 🌷

Aside from kindness, care, having fun, LOYALTY.

I agree and know I need to be more confident in myself and my sense of humor. Thank you. I am 71 years old.

Men think differently, Sandra, but the common denominator is that people are attracted to people who are interested in *them* as a person. A good listener & one with a good sense of humor is priceless. If you're kind to animals, that tells me a great deal about heart & I know you're my kind of people! Interesting topic! Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY

This is the first video I've seen of you and I will subscribe ..this was so in depth, informative, articulate, well put together, and cute. I look forward to more..especially interviews of different age ranges🙏🏾✨🌺

Thank you Sandra🙏🏼 That was so interesting and thought provoking. Yes I think it’s so important to have a sense of humour in a relationship. Someone who laughs with you and not at you. Some who is protective of me and has my back and my best interest at heart. And someone I can totally be myself and not be ashamed to let it all hang out…. I live in hope he is on his to me and me to his😀😘x

I totally agree with you. I am divorced after 29 years of marriage and I love the qualities you mention in mature men. The sense of humor and sharing life experiences as well as been grounded are really important for me. Thanks a lot for your beautiful sharing. Take good care Sandra.

Natural beauty I think is apparent throughout a women's life because ( & please, I mean no offence to women who really "make themselves up heavily" ) I believe "less is more" because at some point these women end up looking like "Drag Queens" or so stretched out & fake ( I know Joan Rivers used to joke about it, but I personally I find it rather sad if a woman feels she needs to focus so much on her outward appearance ) instead of developing the inner beauty that comes with wisdom & an inner confidence that radiates from the Heart. My Dearest friend EVER was over 60 years older than me & yet we were like soulmates. We laughed, we cried, we prayed, we just understood each other sooo much. I miss her everyday since she passed away, but I am Peaceful & happy that she is now with her Lord & Saviour Jesus Christ : D I am grateful for all the wisdom & encouragement she shared with me over the years. Dearest Aurora who shone a light so bright that her countenance showed the inner beauty of LOVE

What a sweet & delightful lady you are….you remind me of my mother’s mother. I miss her everyday since she passed 37 years ago. She was a one in a million kind of lady. Never met anyone as good as her in my entire life. She was pure love & just such a beautiful & fun lady…such a lady.

Very nice to come across your channel I’m a 60 yr old woman with the inner feeling, stamina and zest for life of a 40 year old. It’s been super challenging in the dating scene. Ide love to share life with a very special kind man ... hearing the generational mindsets was very helpful!

Thanks. I enjoyed your interesting real life research. Its given me some hope that I'm not invisible to men over 60, as I'm now 60.

Hi Sandra, another great topic and oh so true. When I married my first husband I was very young and it was about the butterflies, which quickly flew away and then there wasn’t much there to sustain a long healthy marriage. When I married Dave, love came softly, but grew deeply. If I were looking I would have to have a man of deep faith, a leader in the family, have great character and love me like my parents loved me. He would have to be a man of honor, a servant to others and show gratitude each day. Thankfully I have that in Dave and don’t feel anyone could ever measure up to him. I would not settle for less. This video made me see how far I have come and I am grateful to you. Love, Sheila

I just saw your post about Arthur as I listened to you on my tv..saw post on iPad. I’m so sorry for your loss and I thank you so much! I am turning 60 in August and your videos give me hope for happiness❤️

I love how you have summarized with the different age groups and in between all those qualities do serve .

I am choosing to stay Single men no longer interest me .I enjoy concentrating on just me !

Sense of humour means laugh at their jokes not be a comedian.

Absolutely agree. Thank you for your research. Visual. Friendship. Values. Support, Confidence and Character.

I love watching your videos! I always feel like I'm listening to a friend whom I share and have so much in common especially what we value and like both in people and life! As for what I value in men it's very similar to what men in their 50's an 70's value in women.

What I find attractive is someone with a flirty, happy spirit who is excited by life.

Just found you! love what you had to share & love your mindset- I’m 70 and agree with all you said ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

What a wonderful role model! And such a classy lady. Thank you for all your great advice, Sandra. God bless you x

Hey pretty lady! You bring sunshine in my life ! I have to agree you'd do any man proud !!!!!!!!!!! Keep on smiling 🙂 for us all . Wanda