5 Secrets You Should Never Reveal To A Man When Dating - The Unspeakable Truth 🤐 

In the context of the humanity of a this great advice. I understand you and I believe that there is a thin line between honesty and oversharing. There’s also a thin line between not oversharing and deceit. Deception is truth mixed with lies or truth with important details omitted. Key advice.. know what’s important to share. And watch out so your value of honesty isn’t compromised when doing this. I personally believe that your partner should be a safe space where you can be vulnerable. If you have a partner who weaponizes your past, mistakes and constantly judges u without any grace pls run. You have no business being with that kind of person. The Bible says Adam and Eve were naked and not ashamed. They were imperfect, had horrible pasts but were not ashamed of each other. This is the ideal. And there are people like this out there. Who understand these things and will be concerned abt the current you and the progress you have made in life. Remember it’s a small world. Sometimes your partner will know people who know the old you… we won’t be perfect as humans.. so the need to choose a partner who is safe. And be Wise too ❤

Nice video ❤️ Also something not to share: anything that portrays your family in a bad light. No matter how true and verified it is. You need him to have respect for your.

There should be one more, for example not telling them your crazy past or crazy stories of things you went through during high school and college. There’s still a lot of us who don’t know how to properly communicate with others because of a certain lifestyle they’re used to and the types of people they grew up knowing.

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I can relate to No. 2. Thanks for this insight.

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This things are really important

Your last point, what if this is a man you're getting married to, to prepare him for whatever that may come in the future. There are stories of women having an abortion and not being able to concieve due to the complication from it, or its their punishment for killing another human. Won't telling him be like preparing him for whatever that is to come? I've heard a marriage ended because the lady could not concieve due to the abortion she had in the past and never told her husband until l six years into the marriage....

2. Basicly not revealing your financial Situation too early is good. But reasoning it with "men can be golddiggers" and saying "you used to shovel yourself" is genius. Adding claiming the privilige to fuck around and then lie about it, is the Definition of lived equal rights and matureness

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I can understand not sharing things right away. But this is encouraging women to deceive men about who they actually are. Body count: yes, we have the right to know. There are statistical correlations that should be taken into consideration. Financial situation: men want to take care of their women and if you’re constantly getting guys trying to use you then maybe just thank them for the flag and move on. The way this was wrapped up very much makes it seem like you don’t care about the man, only what he can give you. Past infidelity: he will never look at you the same… like how you actually are? The advice here is literally to deny it ever happened so yeah there’s no way to Sugar coat that. Lying about it and hiding it only proves that you haven’t grown from the experience and you do it again. Everybody makes bad choices but what you choose now is most important. Past sexual encounters: I’m with you on this one. We don’t need specifics. You don’t either. It only creates comparison. Abortion: very simply grow up. If you think there was nothing wrong with it then you don’t want to be with a man who sees it as wrong. This isn’t something that needs to come up in the first few dates but of it’s going to be an issue then it’ll end up being an issue if he knows about it or not. Ultimately this is advice to follow only if you want to waste time, use him, trap him, destroy any long term happiness. Further more, it is extremely hypocritical to say “my body, my choice” and at the same time take away a man’s ability to make an informed decision about who he shares not only his body but shares his life with.

Thank me later and save your time: Video says: Just lie about everything to a man and you will be fine.

As a man I must tell you ladies. We have a saying….. whatever she tells you, multiply x 3. Videos like this validate our need to do so. The reason we ask is because your body count will indicate your ability to connect and bond with us. Think about it……if you’ve dealt with so many men physically, what could you possibly find special about us? My experience with ladies having high counts…sex dries up quick and I’m always being compared.

Regarding 1. This is evolutionary wired into men. Women loose their bonding capacity when doing this, biologically tilting themselves towards selfishness and disloyalty should a 'better' man come around. Not wanting to speak about this will say enough about you and lying about it is morally wrong. Best to be honest and stick with men that were around with a similar number of partners. ... same for number 3 ... Number 4 underpinning number 1 .... Number 5 basically making you a baby killer. Even if there was pressure put on you making this statement unfair ... you at least allowed it to happen. You put yourself into a situation where most likely for economic or 'face' reasons that life had to be ended. Yes, rape is a different story and no, it is not the main reason why abortions happen. All of these 'secrets' are screaming reasons why the sexual liberation has failed. It creates morally bankrupt women (and men for that matter) trying to lie and hide their way into relationships. That's what I take away from this ...

if you don't tell your body count, he will think it's at least 100s. Maybe you shouldn't sleep around so much?

This, for the most part is horrible advice…. The only valid point she had was number 4. Everything else is getting you in the door but likely will not keep you there if you operate from this head space- horrible advice smh

horrible advice.

Concealing body count is only needed for females that made poor choices in life and will likely continue to compromise a relationship. Females are allergic to accountability, and this video is all about continuing that child-like behavior