5 Signs God is Protecting You from a Narcissist + Q&A

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@Kris_Reece 2 месяца назад

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@TimothyFreeman-iy8xl 2 месяца назад

You cannot be around toxic people at all.2 Timothy ch 3 :5 you should have nothing to do with them. It is a death of a thousand cuts. Was married for 42 years

@lookingglassmimzy 2 месяца назад

Thank you for the survival guide and for the online course information. Will be diving into them today. Just Want To Praise God's name! Saying thank you for showing christ-like concern and kindness to a stranger. I'm praying for this Channel and everyone involved may it be blessed and continue to help and lead to Jesus.

@lookingglassmimzy 2 месяца назад

Thank you so much, replied but it went below.

@lookingglassmimzy 2 месяца назад

@@TimothyFreeman-iy8xl thank you for sharing scripture as well as your story. Prayers that you are healed and whole. 🙏

@patrice3957 2 месяца назад

I appreciate you guys for positive feedback.

@NeidaBenton-lc2qz 2 месяца назад

I am in a narcissist marriage. I endured to the point that I felt I was either going to lose my mind and have a nervous breakdown or have a heart attack. Either way, I somehow knew I was going to lose my life. I prayed and prayed and one day in prayer the Lord spoke to me and told me to leave, and as hard as it actually was and as much as I felt my heart ripped in two, I left. That was a little over two years ago, and I know with no doubt, God saved my life.

@LunaMariaASMR 2 месяца назад

I hope you are doing much better now ❣️

@lookingglassmimzy 2 месяца назад

All glory be to God! Your story is inspiring thank you for offering hope in God's plan. Just when it feels like my heart's going to break or I'm not going to make it. Jesus swoops in fills me with love, hope and faith. He reminds me that I have found what is good and it will not be taken from me. He reminds me that he has started a good work in me. He is my streangth and only hope❤💪🙏

@dennyfie 2 месяца назад

I hope all is well,It is awful.I know the feeling .I would be dead if she did not leave,terrible experience.Bless You

@marytaylor9504 2 месяца назад

I was married to a Narcissist 28years and God is still working on me Helping me heal!!!

@POS3278 2 месяца назад

What were some of your sufferings? Just curious to compare what I'm going through. Sometimes I think I should be able to endure.

@syebethel 2 месяца назад

1 unexpected support 2 closed doors 3 persistent red flags 4 positive changes, after distancing yourself 5 exposure of facades

@faneshianesbitt 2 месяца назад

THANK YOU!

@kayesmith2518 2 месяца назад

Praises

@Lu3305 Месяц назад

@@syebethel Thank you!

@kirstianna5286 Месяц назад

I was in a narcissistic marriage 11/12yrs ago (for 10yrs) up until I got saved (God was an issue). I was single 7yrs and then attracted 2 different types of narcissist over 4/5yrs. After learning about narcissism I realised my parents were both narcs. To test it I tried to open up to my mum about some things she's said most recently that hurt me. I was accused of causing her poo (not her exact words) and that i should f'off and leave her alone, she's done! This isn't the first time I've heard that, but its the first time I've heard with my eyes open and I won't be running back to apologise when its I who is owed the apology. Unpacking the sheer amount of enabling I did as a kid that totally set me up for the abusive relationships I've attracted since is a lot. I had received the love of God and spiritual healing since being born again, but until I got the knowledge/understanding of narcissistic personalities I had no real idea of how broken I truly was and still am in many ways. If not for developing a sense of righteousness in Christ and basic self worth I wouldn't have learnt to set firm boundaries. I'm so grateful to these educating videos, especially from a Christian perspective! THANK YOU

@diannewible3879 26 дней назад

PTL! Praise the Lord!

@floydthejust 2 месяца назад

The closer you get to God the more the devil will throw at you.

@denisevalley9021 2 месяца назад

So true, remove the evil one from your life!

@zion367 2 месяца назад

Finally someone who speaks truth. I have heard many pastors who told me it was because I had left doors open. Such ludacris.... its when we draw very close that we pose a threat to the realm of darkness.

@denisevalley9021 2 месяца назад

So true!

@HEisWorthy-4C 2 месяца назад

Amen & Amen

@mariamadsen7071 2 месяца назад

Amen ❤

@jeffwermuth8375 2 месяца назад

My experience is when you mention God around a narcissistic person or give thanks to God they start to distance them self's as they start to realize you insist on putting someone above them they can't compete with .

@jbuntine1255 2 месяца назад

Or they say lm an Atheist? I told my X not to take the poison v,. A X . He did with serious health issues... God has blessed me with protection all of my life..

@jeffwermuth8375 2 месяца назад

When anyone says they are an atheist REALLY they just identify them self as a narcissist...no one is above them and they are never wrong...if you call them out they WILL have you removed so as you can't blow thier cover to anyone else (which they all ready do to themselfs)

@LMC-s8s 2 месяца назад

So true, I couldn't understand this concept until now

@kayesmith2518 2 месяца назад

My ex would say u praise God had especially in church bc u do so much sin u gotta ask for forgiveness. And in actuality Im praising God for his mercy and grace and asking God to help him bc he's the one doing everything wrong. He is sitting in jail right now for his narcissistic abuse among other thing

@llcoolg52001 Месяц назад

So true! It’s like what the guy says in the movie: War Room. In the scene where the cheating husband realized that his wife was getting support to fight against his nonsense, so he asked his best friend for help him. His friend said my dear if her defense is Jesus, I can’t help you coz I can’t go up against Jesus coz am no match for Him. Isn’t that powerful? Hence the scripture said that even demons tremble at His name/words🙏🏽

@user-ok5xp3fv9g 2 месяца назад

20years I put up with shear Hell. The Lord carried me out of the house with my husband right there. I had no purse phone or ID on me. My husband didn't lay a hand on me. It looked like he was frozen. The police came to my aid when I walked 1.5 miles. I was crippled and broken. I was carried, by something unseen. Praise the Lord.

@Charmainecharmainecharmaine 2 месяца назад

Where did you end up, did you go to a friend or family members house?

@never4saken165 2 месяца назад

30 here

@debbieheidrick3682 2 месяца назад

Over 26 years

@user-ok5xp3fv9g 2 месяца назад

@@debbieheidrick3682 we're kindred spirits.💗

@yhwhzmyking.4243 2 месяца назад

I went through a similar hell. Weighing 86 lbs. at the time of my escape- I dragged a duffle bag into a taxi- parked in front of the house. My husband at the time- just watched me. Almost as if he was enjoying "watching me struggle." Yeshua gave me the strength to get in that taxi. Yeshua gave me the strength to see the truth. I am free and becoming stronger every day. Get out NOW if you are entrapped, if you are able. Don't waste another day living in darkness!!! Your life is too precious.

@melissa8696 2 месяца назад

When a narc is being silent find it as a blessing..

@LibbySlaughter101 2 месяца назад

They may not be silent behind your back!😯

@maridonis542 2 месяца назад

Worst they might be contemplating in how to get rid of you without putting self in trouble

@LibbySlaughter101 2 месяца назад

@@maridonis542Exactly. I have had a few 'accidents' in the company of a certain person!

@maridonis542 2 месяца назад

@@LibbySlaughter101 always smile, they hate it.

@Godschosengreeneyes 2 месяца назад

Hallelujah!!

@dijohns4018 Месяц назад

?.? I am 50 years married. I just found out what a narcissist is. I just talked to a Christian counsellor . You are spot on. At this stage in my life , I made the decision I am staying in my home, sleeping in MY bed, Not as asking permission or forgiveness for being who I am. We both are in mid to late 70s. Uprooting is not where I want to be. Now that I understand what a narcissist is, when he plays that hand,I smile. I think it sends him off guard.I-took his power away. Thank you for being so clear and Kind and scriptural. I will keep those who are not free to leave abuse like I am,in prayer. Thank you for making these podcasts. They have been a Godsend.

@Sub_901 9 дней назад

Thank you. You are my hero!

@ceceliahatzenbuhler2285 6 дней назад

Same here, soon to be 44 years. Recently learning more about Narssicim. Mine, he is the Malignant Nares, one of the most dangerous. I am learning, & now knowing that I am not the one with issues.

@laurenharper1510 2 дня назад

Wow you are so str0ng!! I kept crumbling and I just couldn’t be that sly. I admire you and I wish I could have been strong enough to stay and “conquer him”.

@melanieknowles7002 2 месяца назад

The covert narc hated me because God is first in my life. The last i can remember was the smirks and the non stop passive aggressive silent treatment. I forgave him and just let God. 12 hours later i found him dead in his room. God indeed takes care of the faithful. Let go. Let God.

@shannonwashburn4126 Месяц назад

❤

@Dale-ei4sm Месяц назад

❤❤❤❤❤❤

@adrianawademan5386 21 день назад

You are truly blessed. Letting God..

@yIsThisMyName 2 месяца назад

I made excuses because the reality was too ugly. Once I got away, I found I felt so stupid and couldn't forgive myself. I have finally forgiven myself and am thankful to God for rescuing me.

@marytaylor9504 2 месяца назад

I'm praising God for your freedom from bondage @!! Go With God and have faith that He will always be with you! God will Never leave You nor Forsake You!!! Amen!

@shygardener3290 2 месяца назад

I felt immense shame, too, and was unable to forgive myself when I got out from a relationship with an overt narc.

@GwendolynWilliams-or4jm 2 месяца назад

That is me. I felt so bad for being so fooled. I feel that feeling of stupidity especially when some Job friend declare that they would NEVER be caught like I was. In other words they are smarter than me! 😢I am sorry I let God down. I know God has forgiven me and He has shown me, with love, how I even got here. I can't thank God enough for His faithfulness to me. Loving me when I was and are not loving myself the way I should. I'm happy for your deliverance. Stay in the process...I believe it will be worth it in the end. ❤

@LMC-s8s 2 месяца назад

Your not alone. I get it. I had to live it for decades and finally understood what a narc was. This pod cast brings freedom and the real truth to the light of who these people are and what they try to do. It's like they read from the same narc text book.

@MauriceRivers415 Месяц назад

I'm like Houdini when people start acting crazy, jealous, toxic and miserable: here one minute, gone the next.

@everett552 10 дней назад

Yes Lawd 🙌🙌....We don't have time for playing!....Wish 'em well & bounce ✌️

@denisevalley9021 2 месяца назад

That was me in a 30 uear toxic relationship with a covert narcissist who believes that his lies, job loss, and behaviors were all my fault. 1 month separated, and my blood sugars have come down so fast, and there is peace!

@shalynn365 2 месяца назад

Type 1 diabetic here . Blood sugars are as sporadic as are my emotions and mentality. Dealing with spouse with narcissistic tendencies. So exhausted! Glad your blood sugars are more stable !!!

@lindaetherton5828 2 месяца назад

Forty years here and I hear you loud and clear. Haven’t left yet but suspect I may be soon. Glad you have found some peace.!

@LarissaOconnell 2 месяца назад

Thank you 🙏 so much, I am so appreciative of having you to show me all this. I have had difficulty thinking it was me or all my issues. So much abuse and toxicity. It's been 6 years. Working on me and taking care of my kids to heal and move forward.

@SefanitM-ms6ky 2 месяца назад

May you be blessed with 30 years of peace, health, and joy! 🙏🏾 May God give you back what has been taken away from you. God bless you

@kimsummers9791 2 месяца назад

They all have the same play book. My ex narc said the same thing. Blamed me for his failures

@Katrn30 2 месяца назад

I have had a narcissistic mother, 2 narcissistic husbands and a relationship with a diagnosed NPD (dishonourably discharged from the military). Until I went into therapy, started studying on the topic, and distanced myself from the narcissism, I finally learned how I was primed to believe I deserved abuse. I am 66, and I know that a healthy relationship is not in the cards for me, but I finally love myself, and treat myself as if I matter, and that is ok because I finally have peace.

@ultimateoptimist5217 2 месяца назад

Lots of them in the military too....

@user-eo5mc4jx2x Месяц назад

Peace is also all that I'm looking for now. I'm 64 y/o. You inspire me to not lose hope. Be blessed.

@kimberlyadams3580 29 дней назад

I’m in a similar situation. I still believe I will be cherished one day.

@Katrn30 29 дней назад

@@kimberlyadams3580 I hope you will be!

@jojamerson50 27 дней назад

Thank you for the hope you have given me

@patriciaconner1224 2 месяца назад

Their abuse does not define us

@Watchingonthewall24 2 месяца назад

It would have been 37 years tomorrow. I left two months ago after it turned violent and he hurt me. He went to jail and I finally got help. I am homeless jobless and alone, but Im safe.

@8Ayelet 2 месяца назад

And you are alive! Hang onto God, and let Him lead you step by step!

@jacquelineglitter4328 Месяц назад

Things will get better for you. Believe me, they do.

@GoodDay-ox1el 2 месяца назад

Thank you! I was someone who thought I have no way out of my toxic relationship. I worked on strengthening my relationship with God, gaining better understanding of who I am and most importantly surrender that God has a plan. At some point I felt ready to make a change. I just didn’t know how. Help came from someone I didn’t expected. Yes, I had to let go of some perks in my life, some financial stability and convenience . The fear was creeping in every step of the way..” what if…” Today, 6 months later I look back and ask “ why didn’t I do it many years ago”. Perhaps I wasn’t ready. To all my brothers and sisters in Christ: believe me, there IS A WAY . With God every thing is possible!

@eden7440 2 месяца назад

Thank you for such an encouraging comment. God bless you.

@hopesglory1625 Месяц назад

Your videos are blessing me so very much! Thank you...and thank you Yeshua for guiding me to Kris's videos.

@angelawade1445 2 месяца назад

I never realized how much I needed a Christian's input on narcissists. I am old and have had so many in my life. As a Christian, I did not know how to handle them. Thank you for opening my eyes. You are truly God sent.

@joyag1970 Месяц назад

Be careful of making idols

@Alaska-me5jc Месяц назад

I totally understand and have also endured these types of people most my adult life.

@AliceLytle 2 месяца назад

Christian narcissists are so subtle. They use scripture, and sound pious. But they show you no support, and compassion .

@charlottemuller2233 2 месяца назад

Become self righteous!

@vickimann3262 2 месяца назад

Scripture out of context too. They are legalistic deliberately. Not genuine.

@marciafredericks7333 2 месяца назад

Go figure that.

@user-jm8yu9zl7n 2 месяца назад

Narcissist can't truly be Christian cause they can't put Christ first, it's all about them and what they feel like they are getting by playing the part

@user-pb8oq2eg2v 2 месяца назад

So true. Been there

@HeSaidICouldntDoIt Месяц назад

Absolutely, after 6 months no contact God is still revealing things I didn't realize we're lies and manipulation. It was absolutely worse than I thought. Every day I take that deep breath... hold it a second.. and realize I'm free. There is no elephant on my chest squishing the life out of me! Love your channel and Christian perspective! ❤

@vickyjohnson2704 2 месяца назад

Kris the “church”is a narcs playground 😢. Thanks for your timely word. 😊

@Charmainecharmainecharmaine 2 месяца назад

It’s true

@marytaylor9504 2 месяца назад

They do! Put on a Religious mask like they are the most Righteous person. SO helpful to all the people in the church. While cheating them with overcharging them for supplies extra labor cost from his grandiose skills he thinks he gives!!! God will be the advenger! God will pay wrong for wrong!!!

@marytaylor9504 2 месяца назад

@vickyjohnson2704 The Bible quotes. Not by works least anyone can boost!

@faithl4105 2 месяца назад

I totally agree. Yes, "the church is a narc's playground," as you've aptly stated.

@eden7440 2 месяца назад

🎉that is one of the best comments I have ever heard. Raised in the church, sexually abused as a pre-teen by church men, experienced more narcissistic pastors than Godly ones. The list goes on. Yes the church IS the narcs playground.

@beckysue7789 2 месяца назад

Losst my sister , lost an eye due to a doctors neglect, lost my brother tragicaly. Thought was true gentleman friend ends 24 year friendship. Realizing he was a narcicist. I'm grieving all by my self. I am lost. I know God is guiding me, he has a plan for me, but I cry a lot

@Charmainecharmainecharmaine 2 месяца назад

I’m so sorry ❤

@claire-ui6pu 2 месяца назад

So sorry for the grief you are feeling for so much loss. I’ll pray for you today to find new friends and to find a way to grieve in peace with no more hardships. God bless you ❤

@lauracicero-miller3238 2 месяца назад

Beckysue I'm sorry for your loss, I feel ya,:-) I have a lot of lonely times

@lugoluxmedia4394 2 месяца назад

@Beckysue7789... You are His beloved... You are not alone... You are so loved and cherished. Hide underneath His wings, hug The Lord tight, and know all of heaven is Fighting for you, JESUS Your Savior already defeated the enemy. He will restore EVERYTHING the enemy stole from you... Like Job, like Joseph. God bless you greatly.... You are His beloved in Jesus name!

@tanastoiberg7981 2 месяца назад

Becky Sue, i know how much it hurts to have to leave someone you cared about so much. I went through this with a former boyfriend, and it almost destroyed me psychologically. I checked into a psychiatric hospital because i fell apart mentally. It is very difficult at first to feel ok. But, in time, you will cry less and slowly feel like yourself. Don't be hard on yourself. Reach out to friends and ask for support, go to God, and bear your soul to Him. Let yourself mourn over the death of your friendship. Also, learn from this breakup and ask yourself why you thought this person was good enough for you. This is what I did after i had time to cry my feelings out. My realization was that i grew up in a verbally abusive family that didn't praise or allow me to resolve issues in our dysfunctional family. There wasn't praise when i had successes in my life. So, i was looking for a man who would love and nurture the injured child in me. Now, i'm being loved by Jesus, and He has isolated me from others to heal my soul. Go to Him in prayer and ask for the support you need to look deep within yourself and find what is missing. When you begin to accept yourself as a child of the Lord, you will start to forgive yourself for all of the pain that came upon you and the other person who created it. Once you can let it go, you will heal and move on. It took me three years not to hate men after the terrible breakup of my relationship with my partner. I stayed away from all men, closed myself off, and didn't socialize throughout this period. It was a really hard time for me. But i'm glad i went through it. It taught me to embrace all of me....good and bad, and trust God with everything. Now, I put my faith and hope in Jesus Christ. Whatever path He wants me to take, I obey. You will be ok eventually. Give yourself a break from others for a while, and go inward. This is your time to heal and learn from this. God will give you strength even in despair. I promise. May you be blessed by the Lord. He loves you very much. Remember that. 🙏🙇‍♀️✝️💕🕊

@Alaska-me5jc Месяц назад

Everytime I discern a narcissistic partner and end the relationship, I get attacked brutally for a few weeks by random people and circumstances. Every single time. However afterwards, I get blessed emensely by God for enduring. You cannot remain near toxic people.

@donnamartin9198 2 месяца назад

I'm very blessed. I just left a 35-year marriage. He has blamed ME for everything.

@GayleDugger 2 месяца назад

I think so Lord that he allowed me to leave a 33 year marriage that has so many twist in terms. Living with a narcissist drag you down to the point that you don’t want to live. Luckily was God‘s help. I fought my way back up, it is so wonderful not living like that any longer. Maria lynn

@judyoltman5190 Месяц назад

@@GayleDuggerwhat you said gives me hope. Thank you.

@diannewible3879 26 дней назад

No surprise here!... now you can have a Deep Breathing that Kris talked about!

@CarolRemen-nt8wp 2 месяца назад

I detached by reading library books, one of my joys. I also refused to be baited into an argument. It got worse but I am alive & that is a blessing. Also exercised my body according to what I can do at my age, and started eating healthier. And dived into the biblical teachings. God certainly showed me what I was dealing with. You are very correct in what you say.

@charlottemuller2233 2 месяца назад

And iPad!

@ssherman8609 2 месяца назад

Yes eventually God does show us what we're dealing with. Then we must govern ourselves a quarterly. By putting on the whole armor of God.

@0annonymous 2 месяца назад

These days we now have the blessings of earpods and headphones to listen to our music Even if the narc disconnects the internet signal, you can still have downloaded music on your device if you have a way to download

@SharonWallace-um1pf 2 месяца назад

God exposes the person but many times we ignore it.

@lm5542 Месяц назад

@@SharonWallace-um1pf True, Jesus help me to trust and obey the Holy Spirit and not my flesh. Amen

@libbywarren6083 2 месяца назад

That was me!!!! 30 years! I’m so thankful I left and I’m so grateful for my peace. I had no clue how bad it was.❤️😌😊

@denisevalley9021 2 месяца назад

Same here. 30 years, he left, cause he was going to get fired from the 29th job he was about to lose.

@tinabrockmeyer8398 2 месяца назад

Praise God !! Pray for me I have been in this toxic marriage going on 33 years.

@patiguzman2031 2 месяца назад

@@tinabrockmeyer8398, me too. Prayers 🙏

@gavinlee6497 2 месяца назад

I got Discarded on 5/27/24 after 27 years Ms, so I definitely know and understand your pain

@gavinlee6497 2 месяца назад

@@tinabrockmeyer8398Ms know that you're absolutely not alone

@nancydemers6398 2 месяца назад

No weapon gormed against me shall prosper in Jesus mighty name...

@dorothywest2053 2 месяца назад

As far as narcissism keep those doors closed.

@susannakotoff7095 Месяц назад

now I know why the door slammed so loud just before religious narc was up to their evil shannanigans in church. Door slammed shut, no going back to their gaslighting narc baiting and picking fights and crossing boundaries. When one door shuts many others will open

@JessicaJLandi Месяц назад

When I distanced from a toxic friend after seeing her dishonesty and insensitivity, I felt my peace & joy return. Amazing.

@dorothywest2053 2 месяца назад

So true. After leaving my narcissist relationship I was unsure if I could afford counseling. I'm receiving free counseling. Unexpected support.

@diannewible3879 26 дней назад

Praise the LORD GOD I am too!

@lizh1988 10 дней назад

@@dorothywest2053 Yes, I tried many times to find out where my problems were coming from, tried to find good counseling and they seemed to ignore basics and morals and rely on find points and blarney language. And pharmaceuticals. (Trying to shut you up because they can't figure out real solutions either.) I had to be desperate but not looked at churches and found a lot of help. I guess I had to live my life to the point where I needed help AND believed I could get it. That's when people started making more sense. And it was free. I learned that a lot of people say they'll help but they just want to get paid and "live their best life now".

@churchbouiemcclendon2254 2 месяца назад

After I got out of a 29 year marriage. I feel hurt but free. God be praised. He always makes a way. Excuse after Excuse for bad treatment.

@judyhenrickson9568 2 месяца назад

I did not even know that I had been abused until - I picked up a little pamphlet at a hospital. Wow! I had been divorced 2 years until I started walking up.

@lindadeyo2447 2 месяца назад

Just got free from toxic narcissist relationship today, Praise God he made a way for me to break free despite years and months of struggle.

@diannewible3879 26 дней назад

Pray for me to a way of escape too! I'm 77 y old, 45 years married alone, emotional abuse I had to get Brain Echo for stree fitness & emotional abuse treatments for 5 years to date.

@demetriataylor7937 2 месяца назад

I'm at the positive changes stage. I have distanced myself from my husband for over a year and a half. I have no feelings for him. It is so liberating.

@mihaelavoievidca6860 2 месяца назад

Yes thank you for posting this I’m in the same situation I want the positive changes to ❤

@H0neyB1972 2 месяца назад

I have prevented the ending of relationships in the past whether they be friendships or family or professional. It only kicks the can down the road and prolongs the drama to end anyways. I stopped trying to fix things when God is bringing something to a close. I appreciate the time we had and move on now.

@tanastoiberg7981 2 месяца назад

You are me right now. I had to tell two different friends how i felt about not making time for me. Both individuals seem to put me last on the list of friends to reach out to, and I finally had enough of it. I think i didn't want to be alone, so I accepted the crumbs they left me when it was convenient for them to call me. I'm not saying they don't care about me at all. However, after initiating to make plans and they say they are so busy, i'm done. We make time with the people we care about and ignore those who aren't a priority. I'm 59 and have been around the block a few times. God loves me too much to have me settle for mediocre. I deserve to be cared about and loved in a positive way. If this isn't possible, then i'm good with the Lord. Being alone is not that bad. Playing games and being treated like an afterthought is not acceptable! Thank you for validating what i felt inside. You nailed it perfectly. 👏 🙇‍♀️🙏✝️ May God bless you and keep you safe. 💗🤲

@marilynng4337 2 месяца назад

That's me. I asked God why isn't my marriage getting any better after 18.5 years. Please show me what is the problem It was like our God, through Jesus, said I'm glad you asked. I've been trying to tell you That's when I was led to this podcast and others Letting this man go was life-changing. I now love God and myself more!

@lizh1988 10 дней назад

@@marilynng4337 ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️

@kayesmith2518 2 месяца назад

Lord bless and help everyone going through w a narcissist especially a covert one.

@WandaGlodowski 2 месяца назад

I see myself as a soldier of GOD. There is nothing before or after him in importance. I have gone through incredible bad hardship yet succeeded over all. Though I worked hard to overcome problems I believe God and his son walked with me all the way.

@diannewible3879 26 дней назад

Yes, God saw you to have Favor upon... what a testimony you must have!

@mthomas6214 Месяц назад

after I got out of a 22 yr toxic relationship I got SAVED! God came and got me, picked me up, dusted me off and holds me in His care.

@romancecatsandwhimsy 2 месяца назад

Just breaking up with narcissist yesterday. Again. So stressed out but disgusted. Your message really hit home. And I know I’m truly done this time. I got flowers this morning as I knew he would do but I feel nothing because they really mean nothing. Thank you!!

@nancydemers6398 Месяц назад

Yup truth...

@Snack-well Месяц назад

Most of the time they do send flowers and gifts to “Hoover” you back in. It may happen 6 days, 6 weeks or even 6 months later. But it almost always happens because it works to suck you back in.

@lizh1988 10 дней назад

@@romancecatsandwhimsy Yep, I got sucked back in, there had been such trauma and so severe I couldn't even remember it. I thought this person was really good deep down, he wasn't even religious. I was used to religious people being the scary evil jerks. He wasn't, that's why I kept going back. Haha, he was religious alright, but an actual 😈 worshipper. And a "hooverist", unspeakably evil. Oh well, he will pay the eternal Price. What a *#@&$#*^€§@$&! Glad to be rid of that gigantic stinking 'teurd'. Sounds like I'm a terrible hater now, but I'd rather be that than someone who just doesn't care.

@janetvarghese5248 2 месяца назад

In the midst of the abuse we hold on by the Mercies of GOD..

@theresaalbano4363 2 месяца назад

OHMYGOSH!! My 2 sons 40 and 34 have been verbally and emotionally abusive for years and years tellingly me I was the “psychopath” and now after years of therapy, I was finally able to say NO set boundaries and stop the abuse. Unfortunately I did loose the ability to see my grandsons and it’s a lot of pain that I had to accept to live a healthier life!🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@brandismith676 2 месяца назад

So hurtful, the suffering carrying over, for now. In the mean time you maybe could be the grandma for other kids out there who have no one

@cynthialucasmoore6106 2 месяца назад

Yes, I believe that..I have began to do that. God is good

@deborahbechtel8237 2 месяца назад

@@theresaalbano4363 Although you can never replace your Grandchildren there’s a good chance that you can still give your love to them. The Lord can find your strength and good character and use you to help children grow. Maybe your Grandchildren can eventually benefit from our special gifts. Surely there’s a need in your community for people who care to share time and talents with children.

@trishabiesinger Месяц назад

My daughter cut me off from her 5 daughters. She is a daddy's girl. My ex is a toxic narc. I was married and trapped by him for 33 years. I have been divorced now for 13 wonderful years.

@user-ej2oi6kw4d Месяц назад

Good for you. Experienced similar trauma but learning to move forward.

@lynneeify 2 месяца назад

The one thing that is rarely recognized is the fact that love is stronger than death, and for the believer we can even have a healthy love; and hope that creates immense heartache. Also, we are holding out for change! "...Love bears all things, believes all things." Our godly attitude causes us to endure longer and suffer more!

@kayesmith2518 Месяц назад

yesss! For me it was always trying to biblically by forgiving turn the other cheek etc...God help us

@witchskey4159 29 дней назад

It took me becoming a mom and wanting better for my child, for me to finally hear God's still, quiet voice - telling me that my child and I deserved better than where we were stuck 🙏. If not for becoming a mom, I would have likely stayed even longer in a use because I did not feel very valuable or worthwhile before God giving me a purpose outside of myself 🥹🥲🥰

@sharicoburn5475 2 месяца назад

Yes after you're out of that relationship the reality of how bad it was will hit you. And then the PTSD sets in

@carolsnelten7659 2 месяца назад

PTSD happened to me. Flashbacks in dreams and at times late night while still awake. As I have more distance from the toxicity it gets much better.

@55mallen Месяц назад

Oh! Maybe that's what I've been going thru. Always getting better though :)

@sharicoburn5475 Месяц назад

@@carolsnelten7659 very good Yes time does help It took me about 3 years after a really physically abusive relationship to heal

@sharicoburn5475 Месяц назад

@@55mallen Yes that's very possible. I was in a 3-year very abusive physically relationship It took about 3 to 4 years to heal from the PTSD

@jacquelineglitter4328 Месяц назад

I was just diagnosed with it. It's hard to keep your head up but just keep trying.

@tomhism 2 месяца назад

I paray for protection on a regular basis. Keep me in your prayers from narcissist abuse.

@jacquelineglitter4328 Месяц назад

I always pray for protection. It must be for survival.

@thirstonhowellthebird 2 месяца назад

I wish I could find people like her in my real life. I grew up in a toxic, abusive and alcoholic family. The parents drank, all their friends drank excessively, so all the kids of all the parents drank, and there were just so many issues. So many lies so much toxicity. It was a community of drunks. A city of alcoholics. When you try to break away from something like that, everyone hates you and calls you crazy.

@annettegriffin3947 2 месяца назад

True they will but you deserve to have an alcoholic free new start

@mihaelavoievidca6860 2 месяца назад

❤❤❤❤

@paulaoppedisano6460 Месяц назад

Adult Child of Alcoholics groups really helped me

@nancydemers6398 Месяц назад

Yeah me too!!

@nancydemers6398 Месяц назад

Yup they call me crazy getting used to it...

@tanyacobain8794 Месяц назад

After 25 years of living with a narcissist, and now looking back 12 years later, and really delving into what I was living with. Wow you don’t know how bad it is until you on the outside.

@christswarrior4992 Месяц назад

I have been in a narcissistic marriage for 10 years now, have packed my things up, made arrangements to live with family,and told my husband the reason and plan to leave, only to be given a surprising message from the Lord...stay. I was hoping and expecting valid reassurance that I was doing the right thing by leaving. I am not certain as to why God wants me here, but I am going to be obedient. At least I am aware & have knowledge of what is actually going on here, the true person that my husband is and his behaviors, intentions,and tactics and where it all derives from (the enemy-satan). I'm thankful for that, but still do not understand the reason God has in my situation, for me to stay in this abuse. I ask for any prayers from other believers that may be reading this. Thank you

@lizh1988 10 дней назад

@@christswarrior4992 I am sort of in a similar situation, but it's that I want to go back to my church but can't. I just literally cannot. Of course I thought that's because I must be Judas, or reprobate, his God keeps giving me encouragement. Maybe I really don't want to go, I often don't feel safe when I'm there & maybe there's a reason. It's odd, but I feel happier home than out if it, so that's a good thing. I guess sometimes life is extreme and we don't know why. Paul says one day I will know as I am known, Jesus knows me better than I know myself. I do feel I am closer to God now and had a very interesting dream before I left telling me home is very important. I just didn't understand the meaning of the dream till now.

@tvp8501 6 дней назад

Praying for you AND your husband that the Holy Spirit will bring him to repentance and faith in Christ and his finished work on the cross

@mog5630 2 месяца назад

Thank You Kris, Jesus used you to take the blinders off, I was a magnet for Narcissist but I didn't even know what a Narc was until I watched your channel. Wow I'm 54 years old...lol Freedom! Wisdom!

@glendaschilder3048 2 месяца назад

I've been a target all my life and I recently trusted an old man at church for rides to the bank and store,then he started calling me every hour and then reached out and grabbed my arm in front of the whole church...I already have major trust issues..

@lizh1988 10 дней назад

@@glendaschilder3048 I've had that sort of experience. Simone popped right up and told me she'd read that sometimes we are with someone "for a season, for a reason". And then we aren't. I had a friend who was both good and bad finally couldn't be there for the bad. I felt guilty, but couldn't go back. I sincerely prayed for the person as best I could, to get saved because he seemed like he wasn't close enough to God. Turns out he had a disease from childhood that got the best of him, rather young, a few years after I lost contact. More years later, I had a dream where he contacted me saying the reason why he was really mean sometimes. I think the information was accurate, and I felt better, knowing he'd just made a mistake as I have many times. I keep hearing that people say in near death experiences that this is how the Spirit world operates. Or as I heard growing up many times, "the Lord works in mysterious ways". But you do find out later on that it's for your benefit or someone else's.

@RobertEvans-hh4ot Месяц назад

I left a very toxic relationship about 4 years ago I lost everything I owned now I'm homeless I'm trying to start over and I'm currently trying to get a place of my own it has been very difficult and slow but the main thing is it's in a working progress I've been removing toxic people from my life

@bonnieromick9397 2 месяца назад

No God closed the door in slow motion allowing me to adjust

@user-eo5mc4jx2x Месяц назад

The question about not being able to leave- YES IT DOES HAPPEN. With my health issues and NO reliable car, just having had 3 surgeries with another one scheduled - i would be dead in a couple of weeks if i tried to leave now! I'm on disability too, and have NO where to live and cannot afford rent until after the divorce. So, yes folks, it does happen! (* After i heal, i still plan on trying to leave. Even if i do die in the process, at least I'll die in peace. Please pray for me, i need your prayers. I am in unbearable pain every day for several hours a day. The surgeons tell me they've done all that they can, and yet I'm still not "fixed". I'm in a bad way. I feel hopeless. I wonder if anyone will even read this. I just had to speak up.. Be blessed. God loves you. I could never had made it this far without Him.

@tvp8501 6 дней назад

Yes I read you loud and clear. You have every right to speak up, speak out. And if I read and heard the cry of your heart, rest assured, our Heavenly Father has heard you too. We which believe do enter into rest and “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” I am praying Eph.3:14-21 for you tonight.

@josette.greatjobjackson8705 4 дня назад

@@user-eo5mc4jx2x I am here. I know how u feel. My situation is much the same but my pain not as much.Jesus took a lot of pain for our healing,we can claim this blessing and thank Him for it as we believe for ur healing. I will believe with you I thank God every day. when anything comes I say Jesus thank you for healing me now I thank God for you healing also, I thank God that every day you will have less pain and then you will realize it all God has removed. All you are able to do whatever you want and be a healthy person. Someone is listening his name is Jesus just say to yourself every day. The joy of the Lord is my strength. Read Psalm 76 verse 10 it says that the wrath of man bring God’s glory when I read that I was confused but then I read about how God got the glory when the pharaoh was very mad with Moses about many things and then the Israelites were able to leave Egypt Every time Farrow got mad. God’s glory came and brought a huge blessing. So I started thanking God for the trial. I am going through so he will get the glory and out of his glory will come something wonderful just like it did for the Israelites. Think about that. My name is Josette.

@bonnieromick9397 2 месяца назад

Yes that happened. God sent a powerful man to speak to my Narcissist. Problems ended

@CHDean 2 месяца назад

May I ask?

@LarissaOconnell 2 месяца назад

Thank you ❤blessings

@nancydemers6398 Месяц назад

Wow mab God can do that for my Daughter, Naomi Akiko Demers pls pray 4 her she's a survivor I think in a 20yr relationship, when she was a lil girl she used to sing "Iam a conquered, I'm victorious I'm reigning with Jesus...I'm praying God still can touch her heart to return to God, Jesus thru Holy Spirit...

@justinj1023 2 месяца назад

My wife had me believing everything was my fault and I fell for the enemies lies. I saw the red flags but was too timid to say anything about it. I was so deceived, but God is revealing a lot of what I swept under the rug. We are separated and I can now see how she’s been planning all this for years. The events that have progressed, how I’m being alienated from my daughters and a multitude of other things. We have no biblical grounds for divorce but she is convinced that’s what needs to happen. I’m now guarding my heart.

@mactine2k7 Месяц назад

Actually there is biblical grounds for a divorce. When you look up what a revolver is in the Bible, we are told not even to eat with such a person... The church has kept many destructive marriages together and totally missed this. Look up revilers in the dictionary and all its synonyms. That's what you're probably dealing with.

@lizh1988 10 дней назад

@@mactine2k7 You said "revolver" the first time, I thought that's not in the Bible. Then the second time, "reviler". Now I get it!

@bonnieromick9397 2 месяца назад

Dealing with health issues because of the abuse

@mog5630 2 месяца назад

Hey, I am as well. I will pray for your healing. Anxiety is a form of worry. Sorry you had to go through those terrible issues, Satan uses Narcs to get us into anger, bitterness and anxiety.

@tinabrockmeyer8398 2 месяца назад

🙏❤

@as2223 2 месяца назад

@@mog5630 So true and being your best self exposes them since they lie and cheat their way through life. Be the shining light that exposes all their darkness. It'll make them crawl under a rock in shame once you take your power back. God will give it you just ask Him. in Jesus name.

@missy9924 2 месяца назад

❤🙏

@tammy7482 2 месяца назад

I have stress seizures I get it. It totally affects your health

@JW-po9mb 2 месяца назад

Thank you for the video. The red flags have been waving for a long time and the more I lingered, the more flags come up. The more I think things will change and get better or are getting better, the worse it gets. The flags are redder and bigger. 🤦🏾‍♂️

@GratefullyIAffirm Месяц назад

My Grandma and my sister is a spiritual Narcissist, I always knew things were not quite right. Never knew of Narcissists, I do now. I never realized just all what I were thru. I told my sister I gave her 59 years of grace and know I am giving it to my self. Self Care

@suvarnajoy2879 2 месяца назад

Each word coming from your mouth is healing every blood cell in our bodies after gone through the narcissistic abuse.

@wandacolon2159 2 месяца назад

Took me over 8 years after the divorce from a narcissist to realize I was married to one. I didn’t have a name for it, but he was definitely a psycopath narcissist! I was hooked up until 4 years ago! These people are truly SICK, only God can heal them. I pray for every person who is Ina relationship with these kind of people. God bless!

@suvarnajoy2879 2 месяца назад

Pray for me pls. I suffered for 20years but I'm released by His grace 🎉

@jacqw4695 Месяц назад

"Draw closer to Me, I will draw closer to you."

@TheMadridFinale-hx7pd 2 месяца назад

Thank you for eloquently describing God's gifts of grace during chaotic seasons of fighting the evil spirits that some people hide and carry into relationships.

@charlottemuller2233 2 месяца назад

Why are we so afraid to leave toxic people if you can? Save your self!

@NLC0413 Месяц назад

#2 is tough when it is a parent. It's difficult to think that any parent would discard their child. I'm so grateful for that gift, though. God certainly knows what we need when we need it. Leaning on our perfect heavenly Father is so much better than having unrealistic expectations of earthly parents. ❤

@LibbySlaughter101 2 месяца назад

I might still be in relationship with my narcissistic older sister if God hadn't suddenly provided me with a wonderful Christian friend - unexpected support!🙏

@lookingglassmimzy 2 месяца назад

It's me. Thank God he place you in my life.This message and prayer were heaven sent. Just left after 7 years of marriage.

@Amira-gd4mg 2 месяца назад

12 years i just left and my counselor just advice me zero contact

@saraG100 2 месяца назад

Writing in a journal helped me see and face what I had experienced. Take good loving care of yourself and get your rest.

@lookingglassmimzy 2 месяца назад

@@saraG100 Thank you. Your comment is a blessing. Very much appreciate you taking time to think about me, may God bless you for your kindness.

@robinsmith4499 2 месяца назад

Education, knowledge, and understanding was the door of freedom. Narcissism is a form of living death. I didn’t realize how powerful these individuals were. Both narcissistic individuals in our family married into a family of empathetic people. My sister and son are perfect flying monkeys. I live freedom but my heart still hurts deeply.

@bserki4034 2 месяца назад

A man been laying to me jus found out he is married 2 different women and got 5 kids all together The Holy Spirit exposed him ❤ God is our protector ❤ asking a prayer for strength from you beloved children of the most high God Jesus Christ 😢❤

@bridgettetraveler658 2 месяца назад

I understand u my sister. I found out I was involved with a man who was married to at least 2 women he never divorced & had at least 2 different families. I was devastated when I found this out. But trust me sister The LORD will shine on u & the sun will shine. I pray u are in a position where u can get out & walk or take yourself out to lunch. Try not to drive if your mind is on that detestable trash who hurt u. Don't get into another relationship until you're healed.

@Dustie-tj4xh 2 месяца назад

As sick as this may seem i choose to come back to Arizona with my narcopath boyfriend knowing theirs a possibleility of dead bodies in his garage. Until 2 dAays ago I thought I'd also end up their. 2 days ago I Kris. Saved my whole life. I'm stuck here. He abused me. But I don't care but he tries to hurt my kitty cats. Only cuz he loves my ewaction

@marytaylor9504 2 месяца назад

Yes The Holy Spirit will reveal all things to you if you stay in a Spiritual communication!!!

@bserki4034 Месяц назад

@@bridgettetraveler658 thank you 🙏 I love you 🌺

@bserki4034 Месяц назад

@@marytaylor9504 amen 🙏

@malcolmtweedale631 2 месяца назад

I saw the Red Flags 🚩 but i thought i could help her. She said she was loyal she said she was my best friend forever. But over 2 years she left me was never there when i needed her and i always was there for her. Gave away $250,000 to a narcissistic user. So praise God it didn’t go further but God is healing me. The little boy is getting the Love he never got. I am loving him.

@dorothywest2053 2 месяца назад

Some closed doors may mean I'm not ready for the open door. I'm still in Jesus's training course 101...Working to course 102

@user-vd6sx1lv4j 2 месяца назад

I can't be anything but faithful to God words 🙏 and true to myself ❤️❤️ whole heartedly

@elizabethsydnor5247 2 месяца назад

Oh my! Yes! The toxicity was way worse than I thought it was!

@brendahyde212 2 месяца назад

It was bad!! God got me out and I went no contact!! I'm not looking back and most of all, I'm at peace!!

@patrycjapeciak9935 2 месяца назад

While I was living with my boyfriend's family, I went through all of what you just described. Glory to God that he showed me his father's true character and I could set myself free!

@lindamoore9729 2 месяца назад

All things ARE definitely possible with GOD. I've been stuck for 50 years with no hope of leaving until a few months ago and in a very neat way. Because of my husband's spending I had no way of making it on my own, but recently a friend mentioned needing a roommate if she rented an apartment yet couldn't afford it on her own. Jokingly I said, 'me???'. She immediately said YES!! Now we're waiting for the ok to rent a place. After all these years of praying for release from my toxic environment, GOD has answered. I'm not looking for a divorce or another husband, simply peace. The answer finally came and I have a peace about it, although I don't want to hurt anyone and this action will likely have an effect on a lot of people. That is the most difficult part. I love that you pray during your video. I sure do appreciate that!!

@ziziscorsese9475 2 месяца назад

The best of luck to you ! ❤

@elladefantis8109 29 дней назад

So TRUE ‼️ My adult child is very abusive, I'm finally able, through therapy, prayer, a support group to back off, she's broken my heart yrs, and for my granddaughter I have tolerated my daughter's Godless behaviors. I'm so grateful I discovered your channel, God has led me to.

@DragonflyChiica 2 месяца назад

I'm still living the nightmare today. I've stepped back and have seen how bad this really is showing up in my life. It's so toxic and Together 9 years this past May and I'm feeling so lost. I'm dealing with the lying, the flying monkeys, the chaos, the gaslighting, the cheating, and drama amongst other things going on. I'm exhausted and we live together I have tried to get him to leave he isn't ready though I've learned. I'm codependent all the way and I feel like there is some trauma bonding going on. God is on my side I feel it in my blood. He is helping me get through but I'm scared of him. I just found your videos and plan on watching them as much as possible while he is gone to work. Thank you..

@christiherrera5485 2 месяца назад

I recently got disowned by my daughter and tried over to make up with her cuz I was very sad and she won’t even return my calls! What causes the disagreement was that I stuck up for myself and called her out on her toxic behavior and she cut me right off. The lord is carrying me. Amen

@sharonmontoliu6573 2 месяца назад

i realized more and more that God placed me where i went from the culpret so i am safe so i know God isprotecting me. thank you and God Bless You

@heidirojas8388 2 месяца назад

I am at the phase of realizing how bad it was. I stopped talking with my mother 2 months ago and it’s been extremely hard. Hard because at first I felt very guilty, but just the other day the guilt lifted. I realized most of my life I have been guilt tripped non stop. I was always shamed for the most ridiculous things. So it had been hard to go through realizing that I’m ok, and I do not have get defensive for everything trying to protect myself. That’s where freedom has come in. I’m just starting to see the changes in my attitude and looking over the last month and a half I can now see some healing which is so encouraging. Especially when you can see progress. That helps so much to keep going. Once the guilt is gone it gets easier for sure. I am so grateful now and for my future.

@stavokg 2 месяца назад

If you cannot be ok unless others are ok with you…I can’t believe I’ve never heard that before. Again, thank you. 🙏

@mrslib 16 дней назад

Yes, God is healing me while living with a narcissist. Learning to set boundaries with wisdom. Letting go of the ‘Hallmark Channel’ fantasies. Not fun but God is changing me into the person He created me to be. I am being set free in the storm.

@AlfredaJones-ei2bs 2 месяца назад

Yes the more the devil sees you living right he throws a lot of junk because the spiritual realm is real that's where the battle is at faith is important to walk with God James 4-7 we walk by faith not by sight it pays just to listen when Satan comes with twisted words to lie , steal & to destroy.,🙏

@user-vd6sx1lv4j 2 месяца назад

And he has memory laps and can't remember even leaving things burning on the stove and blaming it on me I use to make excuses but now that I know I call it out to him what he's doing and he still tries to gaslight me by switching up the lie and turning it around back to me I keep a lot of what he has done 👍

@larshesthaven5828 2 месяца назад

Let life and let go of narcissism.. and never oiwn up the door again for a narc..dont even give the narc an umbrella if you first realize that a narc virus is close to you.. save yourself from any narc and live your own life with love and care, awareness and clearness

@55mallen Месяц назад

Finally after 29yrs, I was let go. I was free!! That was 17yrs ago. I feel like I'm still recovering. I aimed to be the Proverbs 31 woman and for many years thought every marriage was like mine. The Lord had it all planned in His perfect timing after the kids left for college. I will be forever grateful! I'm so glad I came across your channel. I look forward to some great education!!

@bonnieromick9397 2 месяца назад

I. had enough of ignoring red flags

@carolynbennett2735 2 месяца назад

@@bonnieromick9397 Me too!!

@marilynng4337 2 месяца назад

Kris, I love your prayers. You pray for things I think about but can't put them into prayers like you do. Our God is so loving to use you to help give me the right words to pray

@LuRothman Месяц назад

So blessed by this- . We met at church - both Christians - My sosiopathathic, covert, narcissistic husband of 20 years, whom I escaped from (only because I physically collapsed and had a stroke), made it impossible for me to go back. I was excommunicated from their church, for “leaving him and taking out a protection order”, which I dropped, and then he filed for divorce and sued me for 5.8 million 🤷🏻‍♀️ say what - yeah, my reaction too, this man that supposedly loved me til death do us part... the friends and family cut me off, and I moved cities to my old home to my family and old friends. Six years later, I’m still not divorced; the kids are alienated from me (even though he moved out of the house after a year), and the siblings look after each other. He pays my insufficient medical aid (as I have an autoimmune disease and severe health issues). But I’m healing and have more friends than I can dream of, and I’ve healed to the extent that I’m on half the anti-depressants I was on since my son was born. My brother has been supporting me, which has been a saving grace and paying my lawyer's fees (we are on our 3rd rule 43). And 3rd lawyer, I forgive him and have already moved on because my brother has made a home for me and made that possible; he’s become the Patriarch of my family as my father is very ill with Leukaemia ….. there's a long story, but just know, I tried to just get my sons phone number for 2 yrs, it was IMPOSSIBLE! Only God got me to where I am today, a better person and loving the people who are in my life, appreciating every day I have! (I worked for my husband my entire life as well raising the children and running the home, but I didn’t finish my PRO degree because I had my daughter) so I was left High and dry, at 45; being really sickly and trying to work is no easy feat. He’s still drinking, tattooed most body parts - allowed my son at 16 to get his first tats, my daughter is tattooed, and I had no say. Doesn’t change my love for them, but I worry for their regret one day. But I’m living now for the first time and loving life! I’m learning through my new friends and role models what true men (the chivalrous type) are like and realising not everyone is like my husband.

@HISIAM888RUHIS888 24 дня назад

WOW!!.. I’m so sorry that happened to you!! God has given you the Strength to Come through All that (the shadow of death)!!! Praise God He has given you a Wonderful Caring Compassionate Brother to watch over you!! You’re a Survivor & True Warrior!! Praying for your Healing & Wholeness!! In Jesus Name!!🙌🙌💓🙏🙏🦋🦋🦋👑🕊️🕊️🕊️

@lisadunn4730 Месяц назад

‘Demonic enabling…’ I’ve always just moved forward (grace) but here recently, I’ve asked God to reveal to me when to standup and to cover me from the attacks that may come, from seeking justice. In Jesus Name!!!!

@k124user 2 месяца назад

That was totally me. 7 years and blew through ever red flag. Tried to change someone before realizing that was never gonna happen. Thanks you have helped alot.

@debbieforhim7800 2 месяца назад

I thank you so for this video! It seems like God wanted me to hear this VERY message. I have an old friend of 30 years and I am re-thinking this relationship now. I simply do not want to be around her anymore; I cannot believe I put up with her regular drama and disrespect for so many years. Your ministry is helping me to heal and I thank you for that. I want mature, Godly women only in my life now.

@dorothywest2053 2 месяца назад

I agree. Jesus takes the wheel...

@charlesandrobenanderson7499 Месяц назад

Praise God.... ....finally aware, see whats been going on for 48 yrs...on a journey of being set free.....

@ChildofGod98765 2 месяца назад

Jesus is KING! I will overcome as I struggle to provide for my children, I’m a single mother. Both of my sons special needs, and require much from me but I know God will give me the strength and courage that I need to continue to keep going. So while I struggle to buy groceries and while I struggle to pay rent. I will keep faith. Always. Amen Praise God! ❤️

@PurpleGoddess24 2 месяца назад

Me too. Stay prayed up and give thanks

@user-dn7pc4ew8y Месяц назад

Prayers for you and your kids 🙏

@francescabowers5001 2 месяца назад

God put mine in jail for sexually assaulting me and strangling me , thats my sign ♥️ He is by my side

@kayesmith2518 Месяц назад

Same here..praying for your healing as well

@user-nr6lp6dm5m 2 месяца назад

That was me, 30 years ago, Christian’s both, wow, Still hard to comprehend, Thank you for clarifying some things,

@Liza-h2l Месяц назад

God is so Good... I just left my massive TOXIC narcissist Marriage of 23years, and like someone else said, I literally thought I was loosing my MIND!!!! I fasted and prayed everyday and night and ask God to deliver me from the abuse I had been enduring and he did!!!! Grateful is what I am

@katiedid8192 13 дней назад

I was married to a covert narcacist for 27 years. We married after a short courtship, moved 1000 miles away after a year of marriage. The abuse did not start until my husband was back in his home town. I had no friends and was very isolated. I was very much alone. My Dad had passed away shortly before our marriage so I did not want to burden my Mom with my issues. As a Catholic, divorce was not in my vocabulary. I chose to visit Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament at my Church on numerous occasions to ask His help , lay my burden at the foot of the cross. This was the beginning a beautiful relationship as Jesus became and still is my best friend. He walked with me throughout the years. He walked and protected all of us. I only made it through with the help of His grace. And the enlightenment of the Holy Spirit. I came to realize that my husband was the product of a difficult upbringing and did not know love nor how to love. I grew to pray the healing of his heart and his psychological pain. My main concern was that my children would be adversely influenced by the toxic atmosphere in our home, despite trying hard to protect them . A few years ago, my adult children were asked to write an affirmation for me when I attended a women’s conference. All three, not aware that they were all asked and living in three different parts of the country affirmed in the same way- thanking me for giving them a happy childhood. That definitely was Christ’s gift to all of us. He walked with me / us throughout. After the kids were grown I did divorce because he threatened physically. God has blessed me dearly with health and happiness. As difficult as it may seem, know that Jesus will see you through and give you insights to walk you through if you go to Him. I lived through this during the ‘60-90s so there was almost no psychological help in the ‘60s . Christ was my great healer and He is my best friend. I love my weekly hour of adoration before the Blessed Sacrament even today to pray in thanksgiving and talk my issues and needs. God bless all of you.

@Kimberly-wt8fb 2 месяца назад

I am free after 29 years of pure hell that ended with him pulling gun on me. I filed charges. The court has denied his bond 3 times!!! They gave me the house and vehicle until i can file for support. I am done! Ladies you are worth so much more! What you have done in dark will come to light! Its coming home to roost for him. I hope he is miserable in his orange jail jumpsuit! He deserves to go to prison. Im scared but im free, healing, you can get better. Pray. God will put Angels in your path. Trust him